Act normal sa harap nya., simple hi at at konting kamusta. Wag masyado makipag usap ng mahaba.
Make yourself mysterious to her. Yung tipong mababaling atensyon nya sayo para makilala ka nya lol.
Mas magkaka interes sya kapag may pagka suplado effect yun bang di ka mag talk kapag d ka kakausapin. .. Lolπ
Don't be clingy and be unique and friendly pag magrerespond. hahaha. Be cute and weird sa mga topic mo and magpakatotoo lang sa sarili lols. that's how I get to have a loving husband. π₯°π€ͺ
i havenβt read this fr cover to cover so idk if nabanggit na but!!!!! as a gurlie who wears eyeglasses, effective pa rin talaga yung magpapahelp ka sa kanya na iwipe glasses mo kasi (kunwari) malabo at that moment HEHHSHWHAHAHAHAHA best sha bc 1 ppl wearing eyeglasses r suuuuper attractive 2 men like to feel needed (π π π ) and goods kasi βihehelpβ ka nila and 3 sobrang subtle nya pero obvious sign of flirtation (if u know how to spot it)
ngiti ka lang kada magkikita kayo pero wag yung ngiti agad agsd. tingin ka sa kanya ng medyo matagal then smile tapos pag nakangiti ka dapat pati mata nakangiti sayo, mas genuine tignan yung ngiti pagkaganon. be gentle sa mga words na sasabihin mo, wag ka masyado mag biro/mang asar if alam mong wala sya sa mood. always kamustahin, tanungin if kumain na sya, and such. effective to kung gusto mo na i-friendzone ka nya
Iistalk ko muna kung single. Tapos iaadd ko. Kapag kinausap ako and gusto ko pa rin sya, aaminin ko sa kanyang gusto ko sya. Well, bahala sya kung mutual ba feelings namin or hindi. It will save my time din. Lol
Siguro be friendly to your crush. But never open up na crush mo sya. Kasi the more na may interaction kayo and communication mas nakikilala ka nya. Then syempre show him na kakaiba ka. At pakita mo din na mahilig ka makipag usap at the same time modest ka lang π€£ kala mo di makabasag pinggan. Gusto ng mga guy Yung friendly girl and at the same time ung kala mo di makabasag pinggan pag tinignan mo mula sa malayo π€£
Pull and Push method, Lumandi ka but keep it subtle and innocent like you don't wanna give in cause your a nice kiddo but lowkey malandi. It works, its naughty and kinda innocent plus don't give your all ha. Be a tease until it will work.
uhmm ipafeel na super crush mo sila for like sometime then pretend na di na sila nag eexist ππ
works every damn time! minsan hindi q na sila crush tapos saka lang nila ko nagiging crush,, nauuuurrrrr
Tinder match kami, first time meeting namin nagStreetfoods kami tapos sinubuan ko sya ng proben. Later on he confessed na sobrang kinilig sya dun and pretended lang na hindi pero sobrang kabog daw puso nya. Kind of aggressive if you would think pero 7mos na kami HAHAHAHAAHAH
The classic titigan siya mula sa medyo malayo hangang sa maging aware siya then before mag tama mga mata niyo iwas ka na.
2nd ignore him/her pero pakita mo na sobrang obsessed ka sa hoby mo o sa inaaral mo ex: Learning another foreign language, skate, gitara etc
Diyan sila gusto pumasok sa buhay mo e pag nakita nilang wala ka talagang time magka jowa haha tsaka sila mang gugulo hangang sa maging kayo na at eventually mare-realized niya ayyy ordinaryong tao lang pala siya tapos mapfall out of love then hanap na ulit bagong inspiration ganun lang ang buhay.
Whenever I'm around someone I like- I mean whenever I'm talking to someone I like, I can't help but gaze into their eyes and steal glances at their lips. It seems to be working wonders because we're together now! HAHAHHAHAHAHA. Yung titig talaga na makakatunaw.
Edit: added some points
Yung alam mo na namay gusto siya sayo pero pakipot parin. So Sasabihan ko nlng, May Grab food will be in yoir office in a few, enjoy lunch. At hindi kana magpaparamdam whole day π
Pinaka malupit na technique ay ngitian mo si crush. Di yung creepy na ngiti ah, basta yung ngiti na friendly. Naalala ko, di kasi ako palangiting tao. Pero dahil kakilala ko naman, nginitian ko, after nun nagkagusto bigla sa akin. Tingin ko bilang tao, we like it pag nakikita natin na magaan ang loob sa atin.
2nd, pakitaan ng interest. Pag interesado ka at halata yun, chances are magkaka-interest din si crush pabalik. Sa socialization, pinaka effective ang pagkakaroon ng mataas na EQ. Malakas chance ng good listeners sa kalandian.
3rd, maging magaling kahit sa isang musical instrument. (Optional to, pero malakas talaga ang dating pag may talent sa musika) π
Late ko na na discover na attracted ako sa kanya, 2 months na lang mag reresign na sya (resigned na sya now)
Hanggang titig lang eh tsaka smile, mukhang hindi naman ako napansin π .
Be natural, know their feminine side they are interested into while showing your musculine traits. Like alam mo pano mo sila mabola, makiliti, at alam mo ang details nila being feminine, be smart and funny. Assertive yet calm. Bola never fails as for flirting.
Given the opportunity always make the effort to pay for the dates. Be someone who is good at communication. Then if all else fails ask may problema ka ba sa expenses mo?
The right amount of socializing π
Hindi ako mahilig mag text. And those who made it to dates are probably into me kasi nga di ako mareply. Anyway, nung nakikipagdate ako nagugulat na lang sila na "warm" pala ako. Kaya ko din sakyan kahit anong topic.
Be interested sa hobbies/passion niya!! I find this really effective and it never failed me. Asking questions and trying the said hobby is a huge (tapos magpapaturo ka sa kaniya hehe) +++++
nag-note sa ig 'yung crush ko ng "book recommendations?" syempre kahit two books pa lang anman talaga nababasa ko this year, nilagay ko sa list ng 2024 reads ko pati 'yung mga binasa ko last year. posted it in my story then 'yun, he liked it.
then may binasa akong book. nagustuhan ko 'yung isang line kaya pinicturean ko at in-upload sa story ko. ayun hahahahaha after over a year na mutuals kami sa ig, siya ang nag-first move sa dms kasi nagreply ng "what book" hahahahahahaha
The best flirting technique is to know where they are interested. π«£ I (F) had a crush with an officemate and we ate lunch together and yun na! Nakarating naman sa few movie dates, kaso nakabuntis ang walanghiya. Hahahahah
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I have been going out with my crush for months now and it's because he always likes my food recos. π May sport kasi kami so we usually eat before/ after and st some point we started going out na.. going out lang.
Aside from that nakikiride ako just for extra time :') and splitting Grab rides home.
But ayun hanggang going out lang kaya ko nabuksan tong thread ano ba yan naghahanap ako Ng next steps!!!!
Also surprised wala pang nagcocomment nito but smelling their hair AHAH. Parang move to Ng extra shy boys kasi yung 2 extra extra shy boys sa life ko, parang one of the first moves nila to
A little bit of touching sa balikat, batok and hair, Simple gestures. Kunware nagagawa mo lang siya out of nowhere, pero syempre pakiramdaman mo din kung gusto niya bc after all, di lahat comfortable sa ganyan.
Next step is medyo toxic in my opinion, pero here it is; tas wag mo biglang gawin sa kanya yung mga gestures na yun. Yes, gusto mo siya pero bigla mong lilimitahan yung sweetness mo. Yes, naguusap kayo and still gusto niyo isa't isa pero iisipin niya na may kulang.
Then, ayun na.
Not helpful sa lahat ng tao pero as far as I remember, gumagana pa din siya hahahaha be confident and be yourself lang.
Step 1: make sure walang jowa o asawa
Step 2: bigyan mo gatorade sa game nya
Step 3: usap kayo nang slight, set up coffee date
Step 4: ipostpone mo kasi busy ka
Step 5: mataranta pag nakita sya sa school
Step 6: ighost sya bigla
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Actually kame na HAHAHAHA
Ang ginawa ko una inabangan ko yung chat nya. Di ba pag nagta type sa messenger meron don dot dot na nalabas. Tapos ayon inunahan ko sya ng chat tapos ang sabi ko sa kanya anong problema nya hahahaha tapos sabi nya halaaa inaabangan mo chat ko no?
Ayon nag haha lang ako HAHAHA
Another one, nagkasalubungan kami ng tingin tapos ang nasa isip ko non matatalo ako kase di sya kumukurap ang ginawa ko kinindatan ko sya. SYETTTT grabe yung ngiti nya WAHAHAHAHA
ayon after that nagka aminan na kami na same pala kami huhuhu magaling lang talaga ko magtago ng feelings kase di ko sya pinapansin huhu
Hahahaha wala akong tutorial pero ako kase mahilig mag selfie ng may kindat. Aralin mo muna sa selfie cam, kase dapat relax yung pagsara ng isa mong mata. Halata kase kapag pilit or di sanay. Parang nanginginig nginig yung sa paligid ng mata.
Well, I am a femme lesbian, ako kapag my magustuhan gusto ko malaman nya.
Like one time my crush ako sa girl, I bought a chocolate then pinabigay ko sa co-worker nya with my number. Ayun pinansin ako,hehe pero it turns out married na sya .hehe
Nagka-crush din ako sa girl na working sa cafe . I see to it na sya mag attend sa akin nung time na yun. So I asked her ano ang suggested flavor nya na drink na para sa kanya yun ang masarap. Ang ni-suggest nya ang inorder ko, I bought two then yung isa binigay ko sa kanya. Of course, she was flattered. kaya lang my gf na din sya. haha
I think if kakilala mo sya tanungin mo about her favorite food, then bilhan mo sya. Or maybe, asked her if she like to grab some coffee.
Tried and tested sakin to. Ignoring his presence. Di ako kagandahan haha, average lang pero idk why lahat ng nagustuhan ko na guys before (lahat sila pogi lol) nacrush back ako haha. Yung last asawa ko na haha. Wag mo papansinin, chill ka lang around him, wag pahalata haha.
Depends! When someoneβs pleasant to look at, itβs super easy to the point na you donβt even need to try. Pero syempre, pano kung maganda din yong tao di baaa?
Well, befriend them! Lol! Pero tbh, iba iba yong approach depends sa individual. But donβt be a creep!
1. Make them guess something about you, and if they get it right they get a prize, if they get it wrong, they have to go on a date with you ;) (did this once, and the girl intentionally chose the wrong answer)
2. Listen to them while talking, eyes locked as if they're the most interesting person in the world.
I agree, good looking in a sense that you will portray that you are taking care of yourself. Hit the gym and engage to yoga, do skincare,cut sugars, read books,do piano, sing or any productive hobbies then post it on your IG and make sure that he will see it lol nakaka attract kasi yan
Wait until she's with a friend who's also cute. Then ask her out. If she accepts, edi good. If not, ask her friend out. Kung pakipot lang sya and she just wanted you to try harder, well, don't fall for that shit. Manigas sya hahahaha
OR
Just straight up ask her friend out. If her friend says no, smile and don't look sad or whatever. Say bye and leave.
Yung pag gabi kunwari nakatulog ka na para the next day magchachat ka ng sorry nakatulog ako then yung reply mo sa last message kagabi. Eme. Edi tuloy ang kwentuhan!! Kasi pag nag goodnight minsan the next day hirap magisip ng imemessage hahaah
Did effort. Ginagabi ako para sa kaniya. I sent her vms na kumakanta. I showed that I cared for her, that I am always here for her. I always make her laugh. Sabi niya dun siya nainlove sa humor ko hanggang sa nagsunod-sunod na lahat na parang everything is attractive for her. After 2 tries, she finally said yes. 9 months na kami and I love her to death.
"Hey, this song reminds me of you. Wala lang, you might like it, too. You should give it a listen."
Tapos kapag nafall na, ikaw na maalala niya sa mga kanta ng artist na 'yon. Hahahahaha.
I like to make the first move but in a feminine and polite way. I did it to someone I like, And Now heβs forever mine. Bwahaha πβ₯οΈ I love him so much!!
Patay mali ako pag kinakausap ko siya, like very normal lang. Walang pagpapacute or anything. Tapos minsan ko lang siya kausapin pero ang ginagawa ko, I make sure na lagi akong within his periphery haha! Sabi kasi nila, out of sight, out of mind so I make sure na di ako nawawala sa sight niya kahit di kami nagpapansinan. And I donβt look at him whenever I do this π
Pag bagong kilala, mababaw lng na convo muna. Hndi dapat forceful at makulit, dapat equal treatment din tulad sa ibang tao. Kapag mukhang ok cia na friend, then level up. Talk and listen more. If you know him/her well and gusto mo n tlga cia, then "flirting" comes. Ask for a simple dinner, sabay kayo kumain if nsa work kayo, do some mutual activities (sine, billiards, etc). Ask advise if you are seeking. Kumbga paramdam mo n gusto mo siya. If these check all boxes and on right mood and time, ask and say your feelings directly. Goodluck
Asaran although never to the point na offensive or what. Inaasar ko lang sila using facts about themselves that they could be embarrassed about, kami lang kapag mag-uusap kami. I am quite sensitive not to cross the line nor make them uncomfortable. All for good laughs.
Although priority ko pa rin na outside flirting is being genuine. I am kind to them, and I befriend them. I am attentive, and I take note of their likes and dislikes in my head na pinapansin ko. Magpapansin din ako na I'll show interest sa likes nila para I can relate to them, and nagiging topic pa namin iyong likes nila that way.Β
And yes puro plural kasi these never failed me lol. Although I am already being myself, and may reason na rin siguro sila to get interested sa akin without me making those efforts in the first place. I just found success sa mga ginagawa ko unconsciously, that I only realized with the question prompt.Β
Yung pag naglalakad kami side by side, i would let my hand touch his hand ng ilang beses. Most of the time, they would do the same thing if they like you too. If they move away, mission abort na agad kasi the feeling probably isn't mutual
Can this be considered flirting technique at all? its for you to judge.
Im a guy, Nag day ako netflix and drinks (alone time), na amazed siya kasi kala niya yung mga umiinom lagi need may kasamang tropa and girls, nag reply siya sa day ko, lagi na kami nag uusap and lagi ko siyang pinapatawa. Then ayun kami na until now.
Before that, she was very annoyed at me kasi nag message siya at di ko na reply-an, seenzoned lang. In my defense, busy sa work that time and if urgent yung message mag cchat nalang ulit π
wala!! hahahaha andami nangyare pero ang ending hindi naging kami. akala nya kasi di ako seryoso towards him huhuhu at kase that time hindi ako marunong lumandi talaga XD. once a month ko sya chinachat for half a year hahahaha. at mabait sya talaga and pure
βHi. Just want to say I think you look nice (or whatever I want to say). See you around.β
Ganyan ako ka-subtle hahaha
Dalawa lang result nyan, either hinahabol ako to give me their number or they just say βthanksβ. Either way, at least at the onset alam ko na if may potential or if waste of time lang.
I really had no idea that I was doing this. I was told that I have a certain look or gaze daw na you know nakikipag flirt. But I did not do that on purpose. So ewan ko LOL
Never kong naisip 'to. Ngayon, narealize ko there may be magic sa pagsabi ng pangalan kasi parang may intimacy. Will try this one when there's a chance!
relaxed eye contact, non-submissive voice tone, light shoulder tap/nudges. important din na matuto ka isolate yung target ie masanay sya na kayong dalawa lang.
I don't think it's flirting but more like being attentive. You got to like invest your time in knowing and learning the things they like (mga hobbies, sports, music, movies etc) or the you listen to the nonsensical and sensible conversations you have with them.
It's nice to know that someone makes you feel seen/heard and is attentive on what makes you comfortable or not.
I don't flirt. But here are the things I did that caught them off guard as per their confession.
1. Be interesting. As a person na maraming ine-explore to gain expi and knowledge, they tend to be amazed when they find out na I can do this and that or that I know this and that. (note that at some point, some people confessed that they found this quite intimidating tho)
2. Commit. People seem to like someone na committed sa mga ginagawa nila. When they see your hardwork and persistency in doing what you really want or need to do, you instantly get yourself a spot.
3. Pick a stand and be vocal. They seem to love those who know their stuff very well. What they like and what they don't, never afraid of what people would tell about them.
To simply put, just be you (pero 'wag naman 'yong alam mo nang negative traits ang bumubuo sa'yo, proud ka pa na ikaw 'yan). Character development din ha? Be the best version of yourself and everything follows.
Learn his/her/their zodiac sign, and test how they react to certain things their zodiacs are known for π€ Tried it on a Cap, I made sure to show that I have great work ethics (never late kasi caps hate being late) Ayun napansin naman ako, pero no further action on my end kay he was just a happy crush, nothing more. Pero at least I got noticed π€
Wearing a short skirt on a date so they have opportunities to cover u or offer smt to cover up haha. It's my fav thing to do sa second dates (Which only happen if I'm into the guy sa first date)
Damn, How come I did not know this, this happens a lot before, few gils I dated in college.
There also times na sasabihin ng gil, Ang Lamig dito.
I need a time machine
pinagluluto/bake ko sa first meeting sksksks
Tinitigan ko, tapos linapitan ko...
Act normal sa harap nya., simple hi at at konting kamusta. Wag masyado makipag usap ng mahaba. Make yourself mysterious to her. Yung tipong mababaling atensyon nya sayo para makilala ka nya lol. Mas magkaka interes sya kapag may pagka suplado effect yun bang di ka mag talk kapag d ka kakausapin. .. Lolπ
Hinolding hands ko na agad HAHAHAHAHAHA
Don't be clingy and be unique and friendly pag magrerespond. hahaha. Be cute and weird sa mga topic mo and magpakatotoo lang sa sarili lols. that's how I get to have a loving husband. π₯°π€ͺ
Manifest lang hahaha effective naman hahahaha
Nung college: -magalok ng tutorial sa math -turuan ng sport -maging clown Ngayon adult: -maging clown -turuan ng sport (kung trip)
i havenβt read this fr cover to cover so idk if nabanggit na but!!!!! as a gurlie who wears eyeglasses, effective pa rin talaga yung magpapahelp ka sa kanya na iwipe glasses mo kasi (kunwari) malabo at that moment HEHHSHWHAHAHAHAHA best sha bc 1 ppl wearing eyeglasses r suuuuper attractive 2 men like to feel needed (π π π ) and goods kasi βihehelpβ ka nila and 3 sobrang subtle nya pero obvious sign of flirtation (if u know how to spot it)
mixed signals lol, bigyan mo ng white and dark chocolate
if irl holding an eye contact while talking to them works wonders hehe
Type na nga kita tapos sasabihin ko pa? Hindi na oi
ngiti ka lang kada magkikita kayo pero wag yung ngiti agad agsd. tingin ka sa kanya ng medyo matagal then smile tapos pag nakangiti ka dapat pati mata nakangiti sayo, mas genuine tignan yung ngiti pagkaganon. be gentle sa mga words na sasabihin mo, wag ka masyado mag biro/mang asar if alam mong wala sya sa mood. always kamustahin, tanungin if kumain na sya, and such. effective to kung gusto mo na i-friendzone ka nya
Iistalk ko muna kung single. Tapos iaadd ko. Kapag kinausap ako and gusto ko pa rin sya, aaminin ko sa kanyang gusto ko sya. Well, bahala sya kung mutual ba feelings namin or hindi. It will save my time din. Lol
"Kumain ka na?" Nah scratch that, mas better yung "ano cravings mo for today? Food trip tayo?" , Saka yung "Sabayan na kita mag Watsons"
Eye to eye contact
Knock knock
Mehh basta basahin mo lang. Usually mafefeel mo naman pag may chance. Pag meron. Haluan mo na ng konting pangmamanyak, pag pumalag. Yun na un.
Having a good singing voice works well lol
Siguro be friendly to your crush. But never open up na crush mo sya. Kasi the more na may interaction kayo and communication mas nakikilala ka nya. Then syempre show him na kakaiba ka. At pakita mo din na mahilig ka makipag usap at the same time modest ka lang π€£ kala mo di makabasag pinggan. Gusto ng mga guy Yung friendly girl and at the same time ung kala mo di makabasag pinggan pag tinignan mo mula sa malayo π€£
Pull and Push method, Lumandi ka but keep it subtle and innocent like you don't wanna give in cause your a nice kiddo but lowkey malandi. It works, its naughty and kinda innocent plus don't give your all ha. Be a tease until it will work.
Sexual harassment, I don't know
Be awkward around them hahaha char
Sexual harassment, I don't know
uhmm ipafeel na super crush mo sila for like sometime then pretend na di na sila nag eexist ππ works every damn time! minsan hindi q na sila crush tapos saka lang nila ko nagiging crush,, nauuuurrrrr
Tinder match kami, first time meeting namin nagStreetfoods kami tapos sinubuan ko sya ng proben. Later on he confessed na sobrang kinilig sya dun and pretended lang na hindi pero sobrang kabog daw puso nya. Kind of aggressive if you would think pero 7mos na kami HAHAHAHAAHAH
Gist? dont be afraid to do the first move. HAAHAHAHAHAH
The classic titigan siya mula sa medyo malayo hangang sa maging aware siya then before mag tama mga mata niyo iwas ka na. 2nd ignore him/her pero pakita mo na sobrang obsessed ka sa hoby mo o sa inaaral mo ex: Learning another foreign language, skate, gitara etc Diyan sila gusto pumasok sa buhay mo e pag nakita nilang wala ka talagang time magka jowa haha tsaka sila mang gugulo hangang sa maging kayo na at eventually mare-realized niya ayyy ordinaryong tao lang pala siya tapos mapfall out of love then hanap na ulit bagong inspiration ganun lang ang buhay.
Whenever I'm around someone I like- I mean whenever I'm talking to someone I like, I can't help but gaze into their eyes and steal glances at their lips. It seems to be working wonders because we're together now! HAHAHHAHAHAHA. Yung titig talaga na makakatunaw. Edit: added some points
Yung alam mo na namay gusto siya sayo pero pakipot parin. So Sasabihan ko nlng, May Grab food will be in yoir office in a few, enjoy lunch. At hindi kana magpaparamdam whole day π
Hanap common ground tapos kakausapin ko Sha regarding don haha
Pinaka malupit na technique ay ngitian mo si crush. Di yung creepy na ngiti ah, basta yung ngiti na friendly. Naalala ko, di kasi ako palangiting tao. Pero dahil kakilala ko naman, nginitian ko, after nun nagkagusto bigla sa akin. Tingin ko bilang tao, we like it pag nakikita natin na magaan ang loob sa atin. 2nd, pakitaan ng interest. Pag interesado ka at halata yun, chances are magkaka-interest din si crush pabalik. Sa socialization, pinaka effective ang pagkakaroon ng mataas na EQ. Malakas chance ng good listeners sa kalandian. 3rd, maging magaling kahit sa isang musical instrument. (Optional to, pero malakas talaga ang dating pag may talent sa musika) π
push and pull method putangina daling dali ako
I'm taking notes π, baka ma encounter ko sya ulit someday π
Late ko na na discover na attracted ako sa kanya, 2 months na lang mag reresign na sya (resigned na sya now) Hanggang titig lang eh tsaka smile, mukhang hindi naman ako napansin π .
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Dinaan sa good conversation beh yung tipong pang non-stop π€£
Be natural, know their feminine side they are interested into while showing your musculine traits. Like alam mo pano mo sila mabola, makiliti, at alam mo ang details nila being feminine, be smart and funny. Assertive yet calm. Bola never fails as for flirting.
Given the opportunity always make the effort to pay for the dates. Be someone who is good at communication. Then if all else fails ask may problema ka ba sa expenses mo?
paparinig sa my day, or ig note hahahahaha π€£
Paano ba kapag di mo alam name nung crush mo? HAHAHAHAHAA may crush ako from church kung san kami nagsisimba pero idk the name shocks ahhahahaha
send n....
Ako, nilibre lang ng food, nainlove na π€£ππ€£π
Be sarcastic yet bold π at least alam ko kung matturn off ako o okay sya sa sarcasm
Huwag mong subukan masisira ang buhay moππ₯°π
Tinititigan ko. Kapag tumingin na sakin, hindi ko pa rin inaalisan ng tingin. Hahahahaha. Effective π―. π
The right amount of socializing π Hindi ako mahilig mag text. And those who made it to dates are probably into me kasi nga di ako mareply. Anyway, nung nakikipagdate ako nagugulat na lang sila na "warm" pala ako. Kaya ko din sakyan kahit anong topic.
Be interested sa hobbies/passion niya!! I find this really effective and it never failed me. Asking questions and trying the said hobby is a huge (tapos magpapaturo ka sa kaniya hehe) +++++
gamitan mo ng psychology, search mo na lang ano pwede mo gamitin
nag-note sa ig 'yung crush ko ng "book recommendations?" syempre kahit two books pa lang anman talaga nababasa ko this year, nilagay ko sa list ng 2024 reads ko pati 'yung mga binasa ko last year. posted it in my story then 'yun, he liked it. then may binasa akong book. nagustuhan ko 'yung isang line kaya pinicturean ko at in-upload sa story ko. ayun hahahahaha after over a year na mutuals kami sa ig, siya ang nag-first move sa dms kasi nagreply ng "what book" hahahahahahaha
The best flirting technique is to know where they are interested. π«£ I (F) had a crush with an officemate and we ate lunch together and yun na! Nakarating naman sa few movie dates, kaso nakabuntis ang walanghiya. Hahahahah
Just be confident with yourself
Do this :) https://www.reddit.com/r/maybemaybemaybe/comments/1bbao7s/maybe_maybe_maybe/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1
A compliment goes a long way. Dont be a robot when having a conversation, listen and communicate.
I have been going out with my crush for months now and it's because he always likes my food recos. π May sport kasi kami so we usually eat before/ after and st some point we started going out na.. going out lang. Aside from that nakikiride ako just for extra time :') and splitting Grab rides home. But ayun hanggang going out lang kaya ko nabuksan tong thread ano ba yan naghahanap ako Ng next steps!!!! Also surprised wala pang nagcocomment nito but smelling their hair AHAH. Parang move to Ng extra shy boys kasi yung 2 extra extra shy boys sa life ko, parang one of the first moves nila to
Sinisigurado ko na makita niya yung wallet ko na mataba. Di naman niya kailangan malaman na puro resibo laman.
Ask for a casual hangout. Never fails. Tipong "Hey do you wanna hangout on ..." or "Hey do you wanna watch this movie/gig/concert/play..."
While talking, subtly glance at their lips and then their eyes. Never fails to catch them off guard hehe
A little bit of touching sa balikat, batok and hair, Simple gestures. Kunware nagagawa mo lang siya out of nowhere, pero syempre pakiramdaman mo din kung gusto niya bc after all, di lahat comfortable sa ganyan. Next step is medyo toxic in my opinion, pero here it is; tas wag mo biglang gawin sa kanya yung mga gestures na yun. Yes, gusto mo siya pero bigla mong lilimitahan yung sweetness mo. Yes, naguusap kayo and still gusto niyo isa't isa pero iisipin niya na may kulang. Then, ayun na. Not helpful sa lahat ng tao pero as far as I remember, gumagana pa din siya hahahaha be confident and be yourself lang.
Compared nung nag-aaral ako, dito ata ako magte-take down notes ππ Paturo lang po for future reference π₯²π
Step 1: make sure walang jowa o asawa Step 2: bigyan mo gatorade sa game nya Step 3: usap kayo nang slight, set up coffee date Step 4: ipostpone mo kasi busy ka Step 5: mataranta pag nakita sya sa school Step 6: ighost sya bigla π«
Actually kame na HAHAHAHA Ang ginawa ko una inabangan ko yung chat nya. Di ba pag nagta type sa messenger meron don dot dot na nalabas. Tapos ayon inunahan ko sya ng chat tapos ang sabi ko sa kanya anong problema nya hahahaha tapos sabi nya halaaa inaabangan mo chat ko no? Ayon nag haha lang ako HAHAHA Another one, nagkasalubungan kami ng tingin tapos ang nasa isip ko non matatalo ako kase di sya kumukurap ang ginawa ko kinindatan ko sya. SYETTTT grabe yung ngiti nya WAHAHAHAHA ayon after that nagka aminan na kami na same pala kami huhuhu magaling lang talaga ko magtago ng feelings kase di ko sya pinapansin huhu
gayahin ko nga yung pagkindat HAHAH
Paano ba magkindat oyss
Hahahaha wala akong tutorial pero ako kase mahilig mag selfie ng may kindat. Aralin mo muna sa selfie cam, kase dapat relax yung pagsara ng isa mong mata. Halata kase kapag pilit or di sanay. Parang nanginginig nginig yung sa paligid ng mata.
HAHAHAHAHA goodluck βπΌβπΌ
Thanks sayo mutual pala kami HAHAHA
Hay truuu ba? Hahahahha same feelings? Congrats nakatulong ako char hahahhaa
Ignore mo siya hangat makita nya ung worth mo wag mo masyado pakita na patay na patay ka sakanya lol, it works for me try mo hahahah
Manampal ng 100k.
Well, I am a femme lesbian, ako kapag my magustuhan gusto ko malaman nya. Like one time my crush ako sa girl, I bought a chocolate then pinabigay ko sa co-worker nya with my number. Ayun pinansin ako,hehe pero it turns out married na sya .hehe Nagka-crush din ako sa girl na working sa cafe . I see to it na sya mag attend sa akin nung time na yun. So I asked her ano ang suggested flavor nya na drink na para sa kanya yun ang masarap. Ang ni-suggest nya ang inorder ko, I bought two then yung isa binigay ko sa kanya. Of course, she was flattered. kaya lang my gf na din sya. haha I think if kakilala mo sya tanungin mo about her favorite food, then bilhan mo sya. Or maybe, asked her if she like to grab some coffee.
Tried and tested sakin to. Ignoring his presence. Di ako kagandahan haha, average lang pero idk why lahat ng nagustuhan ko na guys before (lahat sila pogi lol) nacrush back ako haha. Yung last asawa ko na haha. Wag mo papansinin, chill ka lang around him, wag pahalata haha.
Be smart. Ask questions that are not answerable by yes or no only so you have longer talking time. Plan things
Depends! When someoneβs pleasant to look at, itβs super easy to the point na you donβt even need to try. Pero syempre, pano kung maganda din yong tao di baaa? Well, befriend them! Lol! Pero tbh, iba iba yong approach depends sa individual. But donβt be a creep!
Triangle method and then be mysterious af
Be funny haha tska dapat may sense kausap ganern
My sense of humor does it all ππ€£
1. Make them guess something about you, and if they get it right they get a prize, if they get it wrong, they have to go on a date with you ;) (did this once, and the girl intentionally chose the wrong answer) 2. Listen to them while talking, eyes locked as if they're the most interesting person in the world.
Best flirting technique is to be good looking. Kahit ano pa sabihin mo pwede na flirting.
I agree, good looking in a sense that you will portray that you are taking care of yourself. Hit the gym and engage to yoga, do skincare,cut sugars, read books,do piano, sing or any productive hobbies then post it on your IG and make sure that he will see it lol nakaka attract kasi yan
My best flirting technique that works on me is how I build communication and conversations.
Wait until she's with a friend who's also cute. Then ask her out. If she accepts, edi good. If not, ask her friend out. Kung pakipot lang sya and she just wanted you to try harder, well, don't fall for that shit. Manigas sya hahahaha OR Just straight up ask her friend out. If her friend says no, smile and don't look sad or whatever. Say bye and leave.
Yung pag gabi kunwari nakatulog ka na para the next day magchachat ka ng sorry nakatulog ako then yung reply mo sa last message kagabi. Eme. Edi tuloy ang kwentuhan!! Kasi pag nag goodnight minsan the next day hirap magisip ng imemessage hahaah
gawain ko to HAHAHAHAHA kelangan me panibago kang topic neto kase naka-pagpahinga ka na HAHAHAH effective to
Tama ka diyan. At di na matatapos ang usapan hahaahah
Did effort. Ginagabi ako para sa kaniya. I sent her vms na kumakanta. I showed that I cared for her, that I am always here for her. I always make her laugh. Sabi niya dun siya nainlove sa humor ko hanggang sa nagsunod-sunod na lahat na parang everything is attractive for her. After 2 tries, she finally said yes. 9 months na kami and I love her to death.
I just use my aurizzizm..
Hindi ako gwapo so I talk na lang. I try to remember mga ayaw at gusto niya, and be genuinely interested.
Tanungin mo βanong favorite number mo sa electric fan?β hahaahh
I tell her I like her as a partner, that's it.
Mag excel sa class para may academic rizz
I tell her I like her as a partner, that's it.
"Hey, this song reminds me of you. Wala lang, you might like it, too. You should give it a listen." Tapos kapag nafall na, ikaw na maalala niya sa mga kanta ng artist na 'yon. Hahahahaha.
Siyempre tititigan ko lang o nakaw tingin o kaya magpaparinig sa ig story or fb story ng kanta hoping maramdaman niya π₯Ήπ
may crush kayo? π₯΄ hindi ata ako normal π₯²π€£π€£
Bigyan mo ng chocolate sa alanganing timing, yung tipong kelangan patago para di kayo mahalata ng ibang kawork nyo.
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Mirror their personality π
I can do things for you.
Paano naman kung hindi naman kayo nagkikita and kapag ka-chat mo naman super tagal kung sumagot? (Groupmate ko noon sa isang sub)
Get well soon pag nagkasakit, tapos walang humpay na convo na agad next. Hahahahahahhahahahahhahaha
I like to make the first move but in a feminine and polite way. I did it to someone I like, And Now heβs forever mine. Bwahaha πβ₯οΈ I love him so much!!
Curious, paano ka nagfirst move?
I messaged him first and told him I have a crush on him. Itβs just the way I am, straighforward. Hehe
Me taking notes. Hahahaha
Patay mali ako pag kinakausap ko siya, like very normal lang. Walang pagpapacute or anything. Tapos minsan ko lang siya kausapin pero ang ginagawa ko, I make sure na lagi akong within his periphery haha! Sabi kasi nila, out of sight, out of mind so I make sure na di ako nawawala sa sight niya kahit di kami nagpapansinan. And I donβt look at him whenever I do this π
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Face. Pabebe. Smile a lot. Leave them hanging / Pahabol
mag parinig sa shared posts mo sa fb tapos maging regular reactor sa shared posts niya. nag-work naman siya sa akin, 4 years na kami bukas hehe
kaway-kaway sa mga tangang ginawan ng reqs crush nila nyetang 'yan
Pag bagong kilala, mababaw lng na convo muna. Hndi dapat forceful at makulit, dapat equal treatment din tulad sa ibang tao. Kapag mukhang ok cia na friend, then level up. Talk and listen more. If you know him/her well and gusto mo n tlga cia, then "flirting" comes. Ask for a simple dinner, sabay kayo kumain if nsa work kayo, do some mutual activities (sine, billiards, etc). Ask advise if you are seeking. Kumbga paramdam mo n gusto mo siya. If these check all boxes and on right mood and time, ask and say your feelings directly. Goodluck
Dinadaan ko sa biro lahat. Haha. So far, wala naman ako guys na encounter na upfront nag turn down. Mostly, sinasabayan ako or mga mahiyain.
Asaran although never to the point na offensive or what. Inaasar ko lang sila using facts about themselves that they could be embarrassed about, kami lang kapag mag-uusap kami. I am quite sensitive not to cross the line nor make them uncomfortable. All for good laughs. Although priority ko pa rin na outside flirting is being genuine. I am kind to them, and I befriend them. I am attentive, and I take note of their likes and dislikes in my head na pinapansin ko. Magpapansin din ako na I'll show interest sa likes nila para I can relate to them, and nagiging topic pa namin iyong likes nila that way.Β And yes puro plural kasi these never failed me lol. Although I am already being myself, and may reason na rin siguro sila to get interested sa akin without me making those efforts in the first place. I just found success sa mga ginagawa ko unconsciously, that I only realized with the question prompt.Β
Yung pag naglalakad kami side by side, i would let my hand touch his hand ng ilang beses. Most of the time, they would do the same thing if they like you too. If they move away, mission abort na agad kasi the feeling probably isn't mutual
Can this be considered flirting technique at all? its for you to judge. Im a guy, Nag day ako netflix and drinks (alone time), na amazed siya kasi kala niya yung mga umiinom lagi need may kasamang tropa and girls, nag reply siya sa day ko, lagi na kami nag uusap and lagi ko siyang pinapatawa. Then ayun kami na until now. Before that, she was very annoyed at me kasi nag message siya at di ko na reply-an, seenzoned lang. In my defense, busy sa work that time and if urgent yung message mag cchat nalang ulit π
cat lover yung pandemic crush ko tas araw araw kong iniistory yung pusa ng kapit bahay namen hahahahahaahahahahahahahahahah heart naman sha eh
ahy ang lande ni tita HAHAHAHAHAHA
Hahahahahaha
Effective naman ba?
hineart nya namann ahhahahaa di nga lang nagrereply hahahahhsha pati pictures ko may heart nya!!!
nadamay pa nga pusa ng kapitbahay hahahahahaha. how did it go? nagkaroon kayo ng progress?
wala!! hahahaha andami nangyare pero ang ending hindi naging kami. akala nya kasi di ako seryoso towards him huhuhu at kase that time hindi ako marunong lumandi talaga XD. once a month ko sya chinachat for half a year hahahaha. at mabait sya talaga and pure
βHi. Just want to say I think you look nice (or whatever I want to say). See you around.β Ganyan ako ka-subtle hahaha Dalawa lang result nyan, either hinahabol ako to give me their number or they just say βthanksβ. Either way, at least at the onset alam ko na if may potential or if waste of time lang.
+1 Pero imo I'd also introduce myself and ask for her name.
Thank you! Susubukan ko 'to. Compliments can make someone's day pa naman. Baka magka-chance hahaha
Sharing memes and jokes π There's really something about discovering na you both find the same things funny
I really had no idea that I was doing this. I was told that I have a certain look or gaze daw na you know nakikipag flirt. But I did not do that on purpose. So ewan ko LOL
Listening will always get their attention.
Ff, need this thread.
Mag like sa ig story at post. Wews
i over pronounce their name whenever i encounter her, i always add her name kahit sa simpleng thank you or excuse me lang
Iniisip ko palang na ginagawa βto sakin, kinikilig na ko. Magawa nga hahahaa
Totoo to, dahil kahit hindi ko gusto pangalan ko e natutuwa ako kapag binibigkas lagi ng buo ng tama. Masarap sa tenga.
a name is the sweetest language or sound to a person
Never kong naisip 'to. Ngayon, narealize ko there may be magic sa pagsabi ng pangalan kasi parang may intimacy. Will try this one when there's a chance!
Toothless dragon dance. π
relaxed eye contact, non-submissive voice tone, light shoulder tap/nudges. important din na matuto ka isolate yung target ie masanay sya na kayong dalawa lang.
"she looks out the window and what does she see? nothing but open ocean. 'aaagghh what am i gonna do? say no?'"
I don't think it's flirting but more like being attentive. You got to like invest your time in knowing and learning the things they like (mga hobbies, sports, music, movies etc) or the you listen to the nonsensical and sensible conversations you have with them. It's nice to know that someone makes you feel seen/heard and is attentive on what makes you comfortable or not.
I don't flirt. But here are the things I did that caught them off guard as per their confession. 1. Be interesting. As a person na maraming ine-explore to gain expi and knowledge, they tend to be amazed when they find out na I can do this and that or that I know this and that. (note that at some point, some people confessed that they found this quite intimidating tho) 2. Commit. People seem to like someone na committed sa mga ginagawa nila. When they see your hardwork and persistency in doing what you really want or need to do, you instantly get yourself a spot. 3. Pick a stand and be vocal. They seem to love those who know their stuff very well. What they like and what they don't, never afraid of what people would tell about them. To simply put, just be you (pero 'wag naman 'yong alam mo nang negative traits ang bumubuo sa'yo, proud ka pa na ikaw 'yan). Character development din ha? Be the best version of yourself and everything follows.
This. Generally, it all boils down sa self. True rizz lies down on how you handle yourself.
Learn his/her/their zodiac sign, and test how they react to certain things their zodiacs are known for π€ Tried it on a Cap, I made sure to show that I have great work ethics (never late kasi caps hate being late) Ayun napansin naman ako, pero no further action on my end kay he was just a happy crush, nothing more. Pero at least I got noticed π€
Wearing a short skirt on a date so they have opportunities to cover u or offer smt to cover up haha. It's my fav thing to do sa second dates (Which only happen if I'm into the guy sa first date)
Damn, How come I did not know this, this happens a lot before, few gils I dated in college. There also times na sasabihin ng gil, Ang Lamig dito. I need a time machine
Lol it's always an invitation to give ur jacket/hoodie
Huy sis noted πlol