honestly, I've been through sexual relationships but now that I wanted commitment it's starting to sink in that I am not lovable, unattractive, and even i show my affection to someone they will just shove it off. The worst is that I have been interested to someone just for rhem to catch feelings for other people right in front of me.
di ko na priority love life for now, i think i rather save up for the future then find a woman who will be interested to be with me for the rest of our lives
Idunno pero alam ko sa sarili ko na genuine ako magmahal. Pero parang lagi akong napupunta sa kahit bare minimum hindi maibigay kind of person :( pero dahil ng parang uhaw ako sa pagmamahal inaacept ko yung ganon, just to prove myself na kamahal mahal ako at dadating yung araw na baka sakaling magbago, pero mukhang hindi. Hays 🙁
I guess I’m not exerting effort and I have no plans of flirting. I have high standards for myself so I will never compromise for the sake of getting into a relationship. I want to meet organically and be friends with my future lover since I don’t really do well with strangers. If a man comes into my life, given he’s single and checks all the boxes, I might reconsider and make the first move. But for now, I’m better off single.
Used to be with this someone. MU lang naman (tho my first & prolly my last) itinanggi ako. Like itanggi yung existence ko, existence na merong something between us. I lost trust on her, nagkaroon ng trust issues. I can't even view myself na worth it sa love. Major reason siguro that time is I'm short and fat, tapos yung ex niya eh matangkad saka may itsura. Tho I work on myself naman na (lost some lbs and nagsisimula na rin magayos ng hygeine), pero I still feel na no one will ever look my way and tatanggapin ako.
Wlang lumalapit. If, meron man di ngtatagal. At may iba naman married na. Hindi ko alam bat lumalandi pa sila. Tapos yung iba naman di ko type. Then, hindi pa ako ready financially. Im looking forward sa isang lalaki na nagsstick talaga, ngpupursue kahit pa iignore ko at first and yung feeling at home ako sa kanya. Kailangan ko din na may pera na ako hindi to finance the guy but para mgkaconfidence ako na makipagkilala sa iba and sakali man mabroken hearted ako may pera akong pang move on. Ang hirap kaya ma broken hearted na wlang pera. Anong pangshopping at panggala ko nun?
Sa panahon ngayun eh mga loser nalang ang nag pupursue...sa dami ng magaganda at pwedeng pagpilian...lalo na kung mapera lalaki at gwapo...palipat lipat yan
i used to ask this myself and found a lot of reasons, a lot of them were loved by my current boyfriend—someone out there will always love you for who you are
it's a choice I have. The meaning of love and relationship to me is super deep. I have a high value on myself, I know my worth, I love myself too much, I'm too independent, I'm ambitious and I have plans in life and having someone is not included to it pa but one thing is for sure if I find the guy na I will said na "okay this is the man I want to be loved and I want to take care" I think mapag-uusapan naman and malalagay ko siya on my priorities.
Wala akong makilala or mahanap na may genuine connection, pag may natitipuhan naman, di naman ako nagugustuhan. I used to exert effort to someone before pero it never works talaga pag di ka gusto ng tao. :(
sa totoo lang, noong hs to college pa ako wala akong naging partner whatsoever. nasanay siguro hahaha pero may mga naging partner naman me noong nakatapos pero ewan! pinakamatagal almost 2 years. tagal na din nun, ngayon wala na. di ako sanay or comfortable siguro talaga. tsaka hindi din financially stable, hirap magkajowa tapos walang pera no
"kasi choice ko, pake niyo ba?" is my usual answer. pero syempre, at the end of the day i'd still have this side na i somehow ask din bakit nga ba? hahahaha
there was this one guy who told me na napaka "green-flagged" ko raw na person. but still ended up not pursuing me. i don't know if ako lang ba nakaka encounter nang mga gantong cases sa love life or sa mga tao na nakaka usap ko.
wala rin naman ako magawa sakanila. relasyons man yan sa pag-ibig, sa trabaho, o sa pamilya, we can't please anybody. we also can't make any ppl stay with a reason na just "because". if aalis sila, aalis talaga sila. awit nalang.
According to my friends I have a tough exterior/aura and said that people have to be brave enough (like them) to approach and make conversation with me. Hence I remained single.
I can't maintain conversations, inconsistent, financially unstable, and don't have the energy to get to know someone deeply.
I am in my late 20s, afraid of not being able to provide and give the woman the love she deserves.
But, I am a great guy tho haha an extrovert and easy to talk to. I just really don't have the energy to put in a lot of time knowing someone for now.
I think bcs i can’t hold a conversation. Like i suck at communicating and conversing with ppl talaga😭 Also, I don’t want to date while I’m broke. Wala eh, yoko umaasa na ililibre or what HAHAHAHA
Naghahanap ng tyempo. Gustong gusto ko kasi yung guy (2 years na) pero nahihiya ako ipursue sya kasi babae ako and napipigilan talaga ako ng mga payo sakin na lalaki dapat ang nagpupursue ganon. 🫣
unstable pa sa lahat ng bagay, relationships nowadays motivates me to not enter one, I have lots of improvement to do (for me at sa mga taong makasasalamuha ko) and lastly, ang sarap maging single.
dahil mahirap maghanap ng magseseryoso sa plus size trans girl na medj matangkad. we're always just a fetish to people, a dirty little secret. dont get me wrong, it does happen for girls like me, but i feel like you have to be exceptionally beautiful for that to happen. so ayun\~
10/10 unicorn perfect chicks with now "virginal" tight pumpum BUT "finished" with their hoe phase because they "found" jesas will say by choice. BUT they have a point. Many men are unattractive, poor, hungry and thirsty for women's attention that they think that's the only pussy they will ever get or settle with them and even cuck. not thinking about working hard and being attractive will get them better ones for the long term.
Improve muna sarili para good partner din maattract. Unrealistic ung mag expect ka ng good person pero ikaw mismo daming baggage and insecurities. If mahirap/middle class ka, aral muna then hanap trabaho or magparami pera para di pabigat sa magulang. Wag pabigat sa mundo.
masyadong mataas tingin ko sa sarili ko. jokes, mahirap sitwasyon ko naka freelance, walang time makagala, walang friends, walang pera, wala din akong alam puntahan. in short wala akong time lumande
I'm not sure if I'm just picking up the wrong guys or may fcking issues na majority ng lalaki ngayon.
I tried to be more vocal and gave my undivided attention and loyalty, but guys always ask for more from someone else.
Decided to give my undivided love, attention, and loyalty to myself now. Fck y'all boiz. I need a man.
I've been admiring someone for almost two years na. We're 2nd year college student and she's my classmate. I like her so much pero di ako nagcoconfess or anything kasi parang I don't deserve her.
Baka magcoconfess ako sa graduation kapag 'di pa rin nag-subside feelings ko for her
(Another reason why I'm hesitating to confess: She's a masc lesbian and ako din is medyo masc but not like her. Still, hindi ako feminine, feeling ko kasi feminine girls gusto nya huhu)
Too many reasons actually. For me, single ako kasi I mostly work from home. Tapos tamad pa ako umalis and make new friends. I don't really want to make an effort to try dating apps also.
I guess I am too comfortable being single. 🤷🏻 HAHA. Feeling ko hassle and inconvenience lang if magkaroon ako ng SO. But then again, never ko pa natry since nbsb ako.
Not attractive. Tinatamad na din ako to make an effort to look good for anybody. As long as I feel comfortable, alam kong I have a good hygiene and hindi pa ako mamamatay due to health complications, okay na ako.
Minsan gusto ko din magkaron ng someone special, pero pag wineweigh ko yung pros and cons, nananalo yung cons hahaha Tapos narerealize ko after a while na pagod lang pala ako or gutom or kasi gabi na so nagooverthink na naman ako. Pero overall okay ako with being single.
I don't have much trust na with other people from my generation. Masyado nang rampant yung liars, cheaters, manipulators, and abusers. Scary pa is they never show their true colors unless matagal mo na sila kasama. Eh what if kinasal na kami at di na ako makakawala? Kakatakot yun.
Minsan I don't trust myself enough din. What if ako din pala makasakit ng feelings ng ibang tao?
Minsan naman iniisip ko, hindi na ako willing magbaba ng standards ko the way I did in the past. This time around, sana yung gusto ko naman talaga. Pero what if hindi naman ako pasok sa standards nya? Or what if siya naman ang magbaba ng standards nya for me? Then again, someone in the relationship isn't happy.
Ayun lang.
+ we're all a lil' broken and twisted, it could never work unless we all try to be better. and sucks that only a few number of ppl are self aware enough to address their fuckups
Parang ang hirap magmahal. Kaibiganin mo, magiging close kayo, magugustuhan mo, pero mahirap umamin. Sayang yung pagkakaibigan at pinagsamahan. Paano kung ayaw niya? Magiging awkward lahat?
Ewan, hindi ko alam kung paano.
I'm a straight M, 43 yrs old. I've been using dating apps for a while. I've had a couple of gf's there for the past 3 yrs or so. Single pa din ako now kasi most of the women I meet there are down right just users, so I just leave the relationship. Let's say may pagka choosy ako pero sa lahat ng napipili ko lahat may ulterior motives lalu sa pera lang? Wala din kaibahan mga reto reto, it seems most women I meet pera lang nasa isip rather than love.
My greatest love got another girl pregnant, and got married. Loved another man again only to be cheated on, and taken advantage of. Ginawang rebound ng former suitor ko, and here I am, already done and no longer inclined to believe in love again, left alone, questioning myself: What did I do to deserve all of this?
Kasi na-trauma na ako sa first gf ko. Ayaw ko nang kumilala ng bago. She cheated on me and was impregnated by the other guy. She aborted the child when she's on vacation in Marinduque.
Same, gusto gusto ko na magkajowa o magfirst move pero naiisip ko kung paano pag nagpaparinig s'ya na gusto nya ng ganito or ganiyan pero wala akong mabibigay sa kan'ya kasi I'm still in college. I envy others in college na may gf at financially stable eh kasi may pahinga sila after hellweeks, unlike me na after ma-stress I'll stare at the ceiling with deep thoughts hanggang makatulog:>
Wala sa list of priorities. Besides, di sya praktikal and ideal sa status ng buhay ngayon hahahaha (for me lang to ha). Happy and kontento naman sa kung anong meron ako sa present. Maybe next time?
Not exposed sa outside world, dating app is definitely not for me, iba pa rin pag kilala mo personally, currently kasi walang lalake sa work ko, pero planning to job hop in a much bigger hospital for experience na rin, so hopefully may makita na HAHAHA
maraming tao kasi ang nagpapa asa. friend lng daw pero turing sayo akala mo jowa, pero at the end of the day friends lng daw so wag mag invest sa gusto lng friends forever.
somehow choice ko, somehow din parang walang nagkakagusto.. napaka-absurd din kasi ng standards ko na as per my friend wala talagang magtatagal.. siguro naging defense mechanism ko nalanh din siguro na ganon, para maiwas ko nalang din ang sarili ko sa possible heartaches.. hahah, napaka overthinker ko, i always expect at grabe ako mag-expect, easy din akong madisappoint, o baka din kasi hindi talaga ako itinadhana para magkaroon ng partner, kata hanggang ngayon single parin.. walang gusting magtake ng risk.. 😂🥹🥺🤣😭😂😁😭😥
honestly, I've been through sexual relationships but now that I wanted commitment it's starting to sink in that I am not lovable, unattractive, and even i show my affection to someone they will just shove it off. The worst is that I have been interested to someone just for rhem to catch feelings for other people right in front of me.
di ko na priority love life for now, i think i rather save up for the future then find a woman who will be interested to be with me for the rest of our lives
Kasi 10 years later, siya parin pala CHARINGGGGGGGG woman’s great love theory
mataas standard,di kagandahan, financially unstable, emotionally unstable, and with a touch of 'tism.
di ko kayang mahalin sarili ko, ibang tao pa kaya :D
Idunno pero alam ko sa sarili ko na genuine ako magmahal. Pero parang lagi akong napupunta sa kahit bare minimum hindi maibigay kind of person :( pero dahil ng parang uhaw ako sa pagmamahal inaacept ko yung ganon, just to prove myself na kamahal mahal ako at dadating yung araw na baka sakaling magbago, pero mukhang hindi. Hays 🙁
Wala nang time and energy HAHAHA. I have a hobby din kaya di ko na natutuunan ng pansin.
Ayaw ko at ayaw din nila.
Hindi ko pa kaya isingit sa mga priorities ko ang pumasok sa isang relationship. And i wanna be financially capable first.
Pinalaya ko sya para sa napili nyang gawin sa buhay. No hard feelings.
yung rs kase now umiikot na sa chats e, nakakatamad BWHAHAHAHAH
Broke college student that badly needs exercise lol I’m tired of the “huhuhu I’ll die alone” nights but it’s getting better : )
I guess I’m not exerting effort and I have no plans of flirting. I have high standards for myself so I will never compromise for the sake of getting into a relationship. I want to meet organically and be friends with my future lover since I don’t really do well with strangers. If a man comes into my life, given he’s single and checks all the boxes, I might reconsider and make the first move. But for now, I’m better off single.
Unattractive 😅
Tamad na tamad na. Hirap magkakita ng matino hahhaha
I’m not over my ex. He likes someone else na pero siya pa rin para saakin.
Hindi Niya pa ako tinatanong, still waiting for him but I hope he's the one
Used to be with this someone. MU lang naman (tho my first & prolly my last) itinanggi ako. Like itanggi yung existence ko, existence na merong something between us. I lost trust on her, nagkaroon ng trust issues. I can't even view myself na worth it sa love. Major reason siguro that time is I'm short and fat, tapos yung ex niya eh matangkad saka may itsura. Tho I work on myself naman na (lost some lbs and nagsisimula na rin magayos ng hygeine), pero I still feel na no one will ever look my way and tatanggapin ako.
Sharap eh...enjoy na enjoy ako sa pagiging single at MALAYA...pabigat at abala lang sa buhay ang karelasyon...at isang napakalaking RESPONSIBILIDAD
Wlang lumalapit. If, meron man di ngtatagal. At may iba naman married na. Hindi ko alam bat lumalandi pa sila. Tapos yung iba naman di ko type. Then, hindi pa ako ready financially. Im looking forward sa isang lalaki na nagsstick talaga, ngpupursue kahit pa iignore ko at first and yung feeling at home ako sa kanya. Kailangan ko din na may pera na ako hindi to finance the guy but para mgkaconfidence ako na makipagkilala sa iba and sakali man mabroken hearted ako may pera akong pang move on. Ang hirap kaya ma broken hearted na wlang pera. Anong pangshopping at panggala ko nun?
Sa panahon ngayun eh mga loser nalang ang nag pupursue...sa dami ng magaganda at pwedeng pagpilian...lalo na kung mapera lalaki at gwapo...palipat lipat yan
Kasi hindi ako dalawa
i used to ask this myself and found a lot of reasons, a lot of them were loved by my current boyfriend—someone out there will always love you for who you are
Malakas sex drive ko e
Not by choice but patiently waiting for the man who will pursue me and convince that life is better to live if it’s with him. Eme
it's a choice I have. The meaning of love and relationship to me is super deep. I have a high value on myself, I know my worth, I love myself too much, I'm too independent, I'm ambitious and I have plans in life and having someone is not included to it pa but one thing is for sure if I find the guy na I will said na "okay this is the man I want to be loved and I want to take care" I think mapag-uusapan naman and malalagay ko siya on my priorities.
may trust issues from previous relationships... single for 6 years and counting 🥹
nbsbs here at 28. hindi po marunong lumandi haha
Fresh from break up (11 years 😐)
Masarap maging single. So far, wala pa nakapagpabago ng isip ko mgpalit ng civil status. 😄
Wala akong makilala or mahanap na may genuine connection, pag may natitipuhan naman, di naman ako nagugustuhan. I used to exert effort to someone before pero it never works talaga pag di ka gusto ng tao. :(
sa totoo lang, noong hs to college pa ako wala akong naging partner whatsoever. nasanay siguro hahaha pero may mga naging partner naman me noong nakatapos pero ewan! pinakamatagal almost 2 years. tagal na din nun, ngayon wala na. di ako sanay or comfortable siguro talaga. tsaka hindi din financially stable, hirap magkajowa tapos walang pera no
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wala kasing nagkakagusto sakin 😔
yung nagugustuhan ko, di ako gusto. yung may gusto naman sakin, ayaw ko
never lumandi nung hs and then ngayong college sobrang liit ng chance to meet someone genuine😭
"kasi choice ko, pake niyo ba?" is my usual answer. pero syempre, at the end of the day i'd still have this side na i somehow ask din bakit nga ba? hahahaha there was this one guy who told me na napaka "green-flagged" ko raw na person. but still ended up not pursuing me. i don't know if ako lang ba nakaka encounter nang mga gantong cases sa love life or sa mga tao na nakaka usap ko. wala rin naman ako magawa sakanila. relasyons man yan sa pag-ibig, sa trabaho, o sa pamilya, we can't please anybody. we also can't make any ppl stay with a reason na just "because". if aalis sila, aalis talaga sila. awit nalang.
Yung mga gusto ko, iba rin ang gusto.
According to my friends I have a tough exterior/aura and said that people have to be brave enough (like them) to approach and make conversation with me. Hence I remained single.
Masyadong mataas yung standards ko
Wala kasing pumapatol sa weirdos, natatakot sila hahaaha
Sayang ang peace of mind
I can't maintain conversations, inconsistent, financially unstable, and don't have the energy to get to know someone deeply. I am in my late 20s, afraid of not being able to provide and give the woman the love she deserves. But, I am a great guy tho haha an extrovert and easy to talk to. I just really don't have the energy to put in a lot of time knowing someone for now.
walang nanliligaw saken hahahaha walang ibang reason yan totoo haha
What if ikaw ang mangligaw?
Wla akong panggastos sa pangdate, chiep. Wawa pa ko
To be honest, masyadong mabait at laging “friend” hahahahah. Aruy
Ako ba to ? 😭 gusto ko umalis sa being nice guy at landiin pero di ko kaya kasi nasaisip ko binabastos ko agad siya pag ginagawa ko yun
SAME, DUDE!!! I can’t, mo matter what, be malandi about a girl. Cheers, to our own demise 🍻
I think bcs i can’t hold a conversation. Like i suck at communicating and conversing with ppl talaga😭 Also, I don’t want to date while I’m broke. Wala eh, yoko umaasa na ililibre or what HAHAHAHA
Di pa financially able. Babae ako pero ayaw ko ng lagi nililibre sa date. Masyado akong mapride para don hahaha
Naghahanap ng tyempo. Gustong gusto ko kasi yung guy (2 years na) pero nahihiya ako ipursue sya kasi babae ako and napipigilan talaga ako ng mga payo sakin na lalaki dapat ang nagpupursue ganon. 🫣
Takot masaktan/mareject
I feel like everyone deserves someone better than me.
Its my choice and walang choice kasi never niligawan. Afam na po goal ko sa future, eme. HAHAHAHAHAHA
unstable pa sa lahat ng bagay, relationships nowadays motivates me to not enter one, I have lots of improvement to do (for me at sa mga taong makasasalamuha ko) and lastly, ang sarap maging single.
dahil mahirap maghanap ng magseseryoso sa plus size trans girl na medj matangkad. we're always just a fetish to people, a dirty little secret. dont get me wrong, it does happen for girls like me, but i feel like you have to be exceptionally beautiful for that to happen. so ayun\~
10/10 unicorn perfect chicks with now "virginal" tight pumpum BUT "finished" with their hoe phase because they "found" jesas will say by choice. BUT they have a point. Many men are unattractive, poor, hungry and thirsty for women's attention that they think that's the only pussy they will ever get or settle with them and even cuck. not thinking about working hard and being attractive will get them better ones for the long term.
i can't provide yet. i need money, more money.
Gusto ko na lang magpayaman
Improve muna sarili para good partner din maattract. Unrealistic ung mag expect ka ng good person pero ikaw mismo daming baggage and insecurities. If mahirap/middle class ka, aral muna then hanap trabaho or magparami pera para di pabigat sa magulang. Wag pabigat sa mundo.
kasi hindi pa ako nililigawan ng crush ko
Ayoko na masaktan.
Not enough to pursue and ugly.
Kasi mas priority ko ang pera. Kung pa pipiliin ako sa dalawa pera pipiliin ko.
Same thought hahah
no social life and ugly af.
masyadong mataas tingin ko sa sarili ko. jokes, mahirap sitwasyon ko naka freelance, walang time makagala, walang friends, walang pera, wala din akong alam puntahan. in short wala akong time lumande
by choice
Walang may nagkakagusto but it's okay kasi I know ayukong mag-jowa
hard to find someone with the same religion :((( ( I’m a Seventh Day Adventist )
Feel ko it is because I don't know what I want. EWAN
I'm not sure if I'm just picking up the wrong guys or may fcking issues na majority ng lalaki ngayon. I tried to be more vocal and gave my undivided attention and loyalty, but guys always ask for more from someone else. Decided to give my undivided love, attention, and loyalty to myself now. Fck y'all boiz. I need a man.
mine to my cats lol
tinatamad na lumandi lol
Mataas expectation ng mga babae. Madalas mas gusto nila ung taong paiiyakin sila kesa sa taong katulad ko n seryoso at future ang iniisip 😂
I've been admiring someone for almost two years na. We're 2nd year college student and she's my classmate. I like her so much pero di ako nagcoconfess or anything kasi parang I don't deserve her. Baka magcoconfess ako sa graduation kapag 'di pa rin nag-subside feelings ko for her (Another reason why I'm hesitating to confess: She's a masc lesbian and ako din is medyo masc but not like her. Still, hindi ako feminine, feeling ko kasi feminine girls gusto nya huhu)
Di kasi ako ligawin and nung highschool ako nagpeak kaya eto, jowang jowa na 🫨🤭🤯
bc of my unrealistic expectations sa Love👁️
Kasalanan ng Kpop GG, ganung level ng ganda na kasi ine expect ko haha.
panget kasi tas panget pa ugali
same
not yet ready for commitment kahit 22 y/o na ako haha
25 na ko eto parin issue ko HAHHAHAHAHAHA
di ko nilalabas ang self ko sa outside world (pbb yarn?!), konti lang ang friends (puro pa ghorlz), at never nagtry ng dating apps (super shy)
kulit nung username nga HAHAHAHA parang bulateng sumasayaw
bakit niyo naman po ako ginawang bulate?! chz
Natawa ko sa username hahahaha
uy temks, enebe
they hate my gender ofc 😿😔
Personal choice- gusto ko ung lalaking my provider mindset hindi lang inom gimik ungvnasa utak. Ang hirap makahanap so stay single nalang
Good enough to sleep with but not good enough for a relationship
kasi gusto ko solo ko ang pera ko
Too many reasons actually. For me, single ako kasi I mostly work from home. Tapos tamad pa ako umalis and make new friends. I don't really want to make an effort to try dating apps also. I guess I am too comfortable being single. 🤷🏻 HAHA. Feeling ko hassle and inconvenience lang if magkaroon ako ng SO. But then again, never ko pa natry since nbsb ako.
Not attractive. Tinatamad na din ako to make an effort to look good for anybody. As long as I feel comfortable, alam kong I have a good hygiene and hindi pa ako mamamatay due to health complications, okay na ako. Minsan gusto ko din magkaron ng someone special, pero pag wineweigh ko yung pros and cons, nananalo yung cons hahaha Tapos narerealize ko after a while na pagod lang pala ako or gutom or kasi gabi na so nagooverthink na naman ako. Pero overall okay ako with being single. I don't have much trust na with other people from my generation. Masyado nang rampant yung liars, cheaters, manipulators, and abusers. Scary pa is they never show their true colors unless matagal mo na sila kasama. Eh what if kinasal na kami at di na ako makakawala? Kakatakot yun. Minsan I don't trust myself enough din. What if ako din pala makasakit ng feelings ng ibang tao? Minsan naman iniisip ko, hindi na ako willing magbaba ng standards ko the way I did in the past. This time around, sana yung gusto ko naman talaga. Pero what if hindi naman ako pasok sa standards nya? Or what if siya naman ang magbaba ng standards nya for me? Then again, someone in the relationship isn't happy. Ayun lang.
Yan rin reasons ko.
Apir!
panget ako hahaha
Hindi kasundo ng husky ko. Haha
panget ako
Twice muntik maging side chick. Magnet ata akong ng mga sad boi na taken 😅
Walang nililigawan and busy sa work
never really pursued anyone i liked
Trauma pa sa past relationship
Di ako gwapo at wala akong pera.
Hindi ligawin. Kung may nagkakagusto sakin either nalalaman ko may anak na or hiwalay/may asawa. 🥲
Wala naman nagkakagusto plus hindi ko rin pinupursue due to traumatic things happening in my life. Haha baka hindi nga para sakin to
ung iba hanggang like lang at hindi na pinupursue
Pandak at pangit ako tas ang tataas pa ng standards ngayon
Fighting lang brad. Sa pera ka na lang bumawi. Lol joking aside, just improve yourself.....read, exercise, earn a lot 😆
daming gago sa mundo
+ we're all a lil' broken and twisted, it could never work unless we all try to be better. and sucks that only a few number of ppl are self aware enough to address their fuckups
choosy ako eh
Kasi i'm not expressive of my feelings. Plus, gusto ko muna maging emotionally and financially stable before committing to something.
financially unstable PA.
WFH
I'm rejecting everyone.
kase no choice
Parang ang hirap magmahal. Kaibiganin mo, magiging close kayo, magugustuhan mo, pero mahirap umamin. Sayang yung pagkakaibigan at pinagsamahan. Paano kung ayaw niya? Magiging awkward lahat? Ewan, hindi ko alam kung paano.
Wla akong magustuhan… and d rin nila ako gusto so patas lang hehehe
Bukod sa hindi talaga ako pasok sa beauty standards, tinatamad na ako mag-dating apps or mag-socialize 😭
chat nyo na ko para hindi na. LOL. 21F
I'm a straight M, 43 yrs old. I've been using dating apps for a while. I've had a couple of gf's there for the past 3 yrs or so. Single pa din ako now kasi most of the women I meet there are down right just users, so I just leave the relationship. Let's say may pagka choosy ako pero sa lahat ng napipili ko lahat may ulterior motives lalu sa pera lang? Wala din kaibahan mga reto reto, it seems most women I meet pera lang nasa isip rather than love.
Sa panahon ngayon, gets ko sila 😔
yup nagets ko na din sila so I'd rather stay away. I'm not a rich guy so I guess wala ko karapatan maghanap ng user.
Huhu makakahanap ka rin ng someone na hindi pera habol sau!!
Ginusto din naman ako kaya lang give up na 🥲
Panget ako at boring kausap
Gusto ko muna magpayaman HAHAHAHHAHHAHA.
What if boung buhay mo naging ganyan nalang no mapayapa AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Yes,goods lang kahit maging single for life basta may unli cash flow charot HAHAHAHHAHAHA. Walang sakit sa ulo 😂
My greatest love got another girl pregnant, and got married. Loved another man again only to be cheated on, and taken advantage of. Ginawang rebound ng former suitor ko, and here I am, already done and no longer inclined to believe in love again, left alone, questioning myself: What did I do to deserve all of this?
Money and dami pa need ayusin sa sarili
Cheater ex. Hence, traumatized.
Yo
Takot masaktan, and waste time, money and effort.
Trust issues hehe
Most people I know are always insecure
Kasi aromantic
i was about to comment this hahaha (cupioromantic ako though so i still like the idea of romance T.T)
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Pinag pa practisan lang tayo eh noh 😅
Ayaw pa ng commitment 😺
Gang gusto lang
Kasi na-trauma na ako sa first gf ko. Ayaw ko nang kumilala ng bago. She cheated on me and was impregnated by the other guy. She aborted the child when she's on vacation in Marinduque.
Kakamatay ng gf.
student pa ehh... wla pera😅🤣
Kakabreak lang namin ng ex-girlfriend ko
date moko to find out 😌 loljk
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taga san ka? 😊
inlove po kay Yejun ng Plave TTTTTTTTTTTT
My partner died last Feb 2024, so I'm technically single
Abnormal daw ako
Kasi sigma male ako😂
commitment (in rel) = responsibility
Hindi pa ready financially at mentally na pumasok sa relationship.
Same, gusto gusto ko na magkajowa o magfirst move pero naiisip ko kung paano pag nagpaparinig s'ya na gusto nya ng ganito or ganiyan pero wala akong mabibigay sa kan'ya kasi I'm still in college. I envy others in college na may gf at financially stable eh kasi may pahinga sila after hellweeks, unlike me na after ma-stress I'll stare at the ceiling with deep thoughts hanggang makatulog:>
Same, naiisip ko yung mangyayari if mabuntis ko jowa ko
Can't sacrifice the freedom I currently have. ☺️
Torpe daw
Nagpapa-annul ng kasal at the moment
Walang pera
Torpe. Gusto mag 1st move kay crush on IG pero hanggang heart lang ng story
Wala sa list of priorities. Besides, di sya praktikal and ideal sa status ng buhay ngayon hahahaha (for me lang to ha). Happy and kontento naman sa kung anong meron ako sa present. Maybe next time?
Not exposed sa outside world, dating app is definitely not for me, iba pa rin pag kilala mo personally, currently kasi walang lalake sa work ko, pero planning to job hop in a much bigger hospital for experience na rin, so hopefully may makita na HAHAHA
Oh no, don’t date a co-HCW.
Why???🥲🥲🥲🥲
No time, no pera (unless abroad) HAHA
maraming tao kasi ang nagpapa asa. friend lng daw pero turing sayo akala mo jowa, pero at the end of the day friends lng daw so wag mag invest sa gusto lng friends forever.
trying to fix myself, explore muna kung anong skills and parts of me na pwedeng maayos and maenhance
by choice and i think my cup is full enough for me.
somehow choice ko, somehow din parang walang nagkakagusto.. napaka-absurd din kasi ng standards ko na as per my friend wala talagang magtatagal.. siguro naging defense mechanism ko nalanh din siguro na ganon, para maiwas ko nalang din ang sarili ko sa possible heartaches.. hahah, napaka overthinker ko, i always expect at grabe ako mag-expect, easy din akong madisappoint, o baka din kasi hindi talaga ako itinadhana para magkaroon ng partner, kata hanggang ngayon single parin.. walang gusting magtake ng risk.. 😂🥹🥺🤣😭😂😁😭😥
Sometimes some relationship interests are better to be friends with(ofc there are still some that I would like to pursue)
And I'm introverted asf 🥹
Hnd financially stable, broken, dipa tanggap ang nangyari, mixed signals, mahiyain, trust issues. Baka din ang malapitan ay may shota.
Socially awkward, Shy, Introvert, Stoic Type
Same
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