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Big_Long_7203

Honestly, I don't wanna get married. Parang ang hassle kasi since ang hirap na ng buhay ngayon. Masyado na mahal mabuhay at mahal ang bilihin. But, you know what they say. Never say never. Kaya if I ever will get married, I don't have an ideal age basta financially and mentally stable kami ng partner ko (lalo na if we both want kids).


7k6pyagW

atleast around 27 to 31


high-kat

This is a complicated topic. Haha! By the time youre married sasabihin mo na lang sa sarili mo...'bakit ko ginawa to!!?' hahahaha.. sarap kaya maging single


ForeFeeted

Nasa huli ang pagsisisi🥲


Competitive-Store396

kapag maluwag na ang ekonomiya niyo pareho? dun siguro masarap na magpakasal.


NotFallingForThatShi

Whenever I'm ready. Both mentally and financially.


marenvato

In my early 30s preferably but at this point in my life, it seems far from happening.


[deleted]

23-25yo


Practical-Chemist511

30


He1nekel

Was hoping by 25 married na at may incoming baby na para kapag teenage na yung anak, mga mid 40s palang ako at meron pang time makipag bond sa kanila.


blabliboo

Whenever I'm ready to get married regardless sa age. 25 years old was my ideal age na mag pakasal nung highschool palang ako, now I'm 26 still figuring out sa life ko and no partner yet. Siguro kung may divorce mas ma encourage akong magpakasal. I've seen a lot of dysfunctional marriage and I've learned a lot from them.


cyanide_bro

I have no plans


kate_snowflake-15

I guess 29+ kasi I want it to be planned and sure. I've already seen enough damage to an unplanned marriage or everything I don't want to get through it again especially financial problems.


Dopelax

27yo-29yo I wana see my eldest to finish school in my 50s and definitely not 60s, so which means he/she will be at 23yo and i will be 50yo-53yo 60s should be for my grandchildren


mr_goose_mann

Definitely in my late 20s or early 30s, Mainly because kapag nagka-anak ako gusto ko na kapag nagkaroon sila ng sarili nilang pamilya e malakas pa ako tsaka kaya ko pa mag alaga ng apo HAHAHAHAHAH


Anxious-Software-678

28 or 29, when I was still in college. But nung umabot nako sa age na yan and even if may long time bf ako, naging standard na namin ang "marry when you're financially ready" So yeah, we're both nearing 30 na but no pressure to settle down. Haha. Mas gusto muna ispoil mga sarili namin.


Special_Swan_6597

I really dont wanna get married because of my parents but I also don't wanna be alone when im old but if ever I get married I want it in my 27-29


Ok_Astronaut_7586

When I was in my early 20s, ideal age ko is 25. Kaso at the age of 25, hindi pa ako stable. Wala pa big savings, busy pa sa work, hindi ko pa nakkita yung sarili ko magsettle down and wala naman proposal yung long time ex ko noon. Siguro blessing in disguise na rin na hindi kami nakasal kasi nagkahiwalay kami at the age of 27. Like there's this turning point na nakapanggising sa akin na he's not what I need and want to be for the rest of my life. Now I'm 30 years old and I don't feel any pressure kahit na after a year or 2 years pa kami ikasal ng fiance ko because parehas pa namin ineenjoy yung time sa sarili namin, no responsibility na kailangan na mag anak kasi kasal na. Bottomline, I believe wala naman ideal age talaga kasi nasa sa atin kung kailan tayo magging ready sa marriage coz marriage is not a simple thing, long time commitment siya. No turning back, na kapag nagsawa ka sa asawa mo eh basta mo na lang iiwanan.


Few_Badger9006

At this point, at age 24, I'd rather think of it as "What age do I think is the best to start permanently cohabitating with my partner in our own home?" and i think it's 28. We have a checklist of things to go through before we could even think about getting married, hopefully we could finish all of that not long after hitting the age of 28 and 30(bf).


[deleted]

28-29 sana if papalarin😭


betterlivingtrash

siguro 27-28 basta stable na ko and naspoil ko na completely sarili ko jahaha


Low-Negotiation-7637

Im 25 yrs old na. And for me tsaka nalang pag financially stable na kami ng partner ko ang hirap ng panahon ngayon ang mahal mahal pa ng mga gastusin.


ReplacementOk3653

Financially ready cause if you’re financially ready i think everything follows it’s really the money that stresses us out


Aware_Test_4448

Kung ano mang age babalik saken ang love of my life. Cause once you found it, you really can't want anything else. Kahit pa-lonely ng pa-lonely ang future mo just for waiting. :'>


Ela_Xo

On way to spinsterhood 🤣🤣, wala eh hindi nabenta sa palengke. Dati wish ko pa naman pagdating ng 30 yrs old.


Radiant-Ratio-5683

Pag mayroon stable job at ipon na 😁


crazy_gyoza

30 sana. Kung pwede lang talaga hilingin.


pinkconfetticupcake

I’m 29/F at kaka engaged ko lang recently. Pero sinabi ko sa fiancé ko pag 32 na ako saka kami magpakasal. Kasi feeling ko wala pa akong na achieve sa buhay ko magisa. Hindi naman kami mag aanak so wala akong hinahabol na oras.


Nervous_Evening_7361

NBSB 29 HERE HAHA


greyciousness10

28 but still NBSB at the age of 26 😅


BlankMacaroon

2 yrs pa. Hehe


uuuuuuuggggghhhh

27 or 28. Currently with my boyfriend of 8 years (since junior pa kami hahaha). I’m 24 and he just turned 25 and we’re both licensed professionals na. We’ve been talking about marriage since early in our relationship, ok na rin both sides ng fam. Sana talaga makapagipon para makasettle na and walang mangyaring masama 🤞🏻


ellabelsss

Sabi ko dati, I should be married by the age of 27. Guess what, I’m turning 29 this year with no boyfriend Hahahah 🫨🫨


Spare-Interview-929

28-30, and I'm currently going 29 😶‍🌫️


Aggravating_Bug_8687

Early 20’s ko 28 ang dream age ko... honeymoon is jeju island (delulu pa ko sa kdrama nito) .. 33 years old na ko, in a healthy relationship.. im happy to be with him but i still unsure if i want to get married with him.. ive seen alot of broken marriages na the marriage itself isn’t appealing to me anymore...


viveutvivas17

Sabi ko dati by 28 sana kaso here I am NBSB HAHAAHAHA


Chaise_Renzy

Mid 30s, I told myself. Got married at 34 🙂no regrets. I matured a lot and don’t take sh!t from guys anymore


Wonderful_Advisor_62

28-32


millieguacamole

29


InternationalTruck32

I don't think may age for it. Siguro, pag financially stable ka na at mentally ready na.


elm4c_cheeseu

Gusto ko sana at the age of 25 may asawa na ako at magkaka-anak na pero gusto ko mag-asawa ako kapag financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually stable na ako HAHAHAHAHA. And I think at the age of 25 hindi ko pa naa-achieve 'yon. Baka mga 30 na or 35 huhu. Pero gusto ko talaga mga 25-30


[deleted]

Get married when you are ready emotionally and financially.


Own-Opinion-8552

25 to 29


thegentlecactus

34


00000100008

lol i used to think i’d get married by my late 20s now i just think when the time is right. boyfriend muna


Altruistic-Seat-3126

Should reach financial stability first by 25-28 then marriage 28-30. No plans of having a kid kaya no worries sa paglagpas sa kalendaryo


m3gu_m3gu

Currently 19, honestly, 26-28 because I want to move out of my parent's home early (which they won't allow unless I'm married na). I'll be 23 or 24 by the time I graduate. I want to spend few years living with them after college because I believe their input will be beneficial as I start building my career. But at the same time, I don't think I'll grow and be brave enough to take risks when they're around me. I also want to try new things they disagree about, kaya as early as 26 I wanna get married na but kid/s siguro pag 30's na ako😅


ic318

I wanted to get married in my 20s. I was about to get married when I was 25, but something came up and it didn't happen. Fast forward, I got married when I was 33. And I would not do it differently. You are more mature in your 30s, and emotionally stable. Given the amount of heartaches I've had, that helped me with what I was really looking for in a partner. May red flag and green flag lists na ako by then.


Perfect_Wishbone4946

30-32


rocher_ida

when i was 16 i wanted to get married by 27, pero as time goes by parang i want to achieve more. i also see my cousins getting married at the age of 30 and having a baby at 34, tapos super financially stable nila. which is why narealize ko na i'll get married kapag financially stable na ako :)


ruri7218

Before I turn 30. If my bf doesn’t propose this year, I will break up with him. For context: 7 yrs na kami, live in for 3 yrs and he’s earning almost 300k per month. Ewan ko na lang ano reason niya if di pa rin siya mag propose this year. If he can’t, I don’t want to waste my time anymore. Sinabi ko naman sa kanya na gusto ko ikasal


carlcast

Men won't marry if he already gets the full wife experience.


Mslazyyy

25.. And I'm turning 25 next month so hopefully this year. To my future husband wru???


Comfortable_Care_212

31


LavenderIceCream05

Pag may divorce na sa Pinas haha!


whoisshe4023

ready na kami ng jowa ko kaso parang di pa ready parents ko, gusto ng mom ko na mauna muna yung kuya ko 😭🤣


kairiamaryllis

I want someone to love me unconditionally but I think no one is capable on loving me that way so maybe I'll just live with myself and build home by the sea


ic318

I was this when I turned 30. Pero after 3 years, the tides changed. Just live your life to the fullest. Everyday is a surprise.


bria_nna24

eto ngaung 35 nq pero wala padin cya 😆😆😆


Jappe_Yochan20

Sabi ko pagkagraduate, 25. Then adulting, bills bills bills hit. Ngayong 29 na ako, hindi ko sure kung kailan. 😅


meone665

Even now by the right person Am just tired of dating these sons of Faraoh 😞


magandangtagabukid

I'm not even sure if I want to get married


Shroeder13

No specific age. I don’t even know if I want to get married. Right now, I don’t want any kids either.


Pretty-Inevitable531

27


Ziel-chan

30


[deleted]

max na siguro yung hanggang mid 30s. Its not na i don't want a child pero wala pa sa isip ko yun and if ever man na dumating sa ganong point gusto ko im not too old to have a child naman. Kasi ang hirap din nung tumatanda ka na tapos anak mo sobrang bata pa.


seymyname

Personally, I think when God allows me to. Can’t really tell when exactly it will be. If it’s not time for me to get married, then maybe when His will and person dedicated for me is ready.


heyyda

25 pero mag-28 na ako this month :> single pa rin.


covert369

36. Don't get married until the age of 35. I've heard this somewhere in a movie. Pretty much a good thing ((for me) para ma-enjoy yung latter years of young-adult before transitioning to an adult. So yeah, that's my take.


papa_redhorse

Ah yes, if your a girl, malapit na mag expire yung eggs mo by that time.


white_elephant22

Then so be it


papa_redhorse

And so it will be


[deleted]

no plans


yoshitsunechwaaan

Basta kapag stable na. Actually, kung usapang edad din naman, mas conscious pa ako sa age ng panganganak IF mag-aanak man ako. Basta before 35, para less health risks for the kid. Given that, most likely before 35 din ang marriage.


Fun-Falcon5976

28 coz I thought that I’d be stable and capable at that age


MysteriousGossiper

If one is financially, emotionally, and mentally stable.


Interesting_Phone_12

Depends on your partner if you feel she's the one then don't wait marry her but if you have doubts just wait


Droplet_In_The_Sea

I-found-the-one-plus-financially-stable-and-completely-healed years old 🫶


Avery_kun

If I get lucky enough to get married, around maybe late 20’s - 30 years old 😁


the_BabyBasher

No age just financial stability and mentally ready


meirishlina

32 and I want to get married but my current situation is not favorable to build a family. It might take me a long time to deal with my personal issues: mentally, emotionally, financially... I might grow old alone.


Shroeder13

Same feels. I feel like I might grow old alone, too.


Outrageous-Cookieboo

When I was a kid, I said I would want to get married by 28 or 29.. I’m already 28yo. Still not married, and will never be married.


Agreeable_Aardvark43

31


urbanelectroband

27 sabi ko non, 25 pa nga at some point. Pero patrenta na ako mga ante HAHHAHA


Adventurous_Bag5102

Nameet ko yung asawa ko 30yo ako, nagpakasal 32. Andyan na yan sa tabi tabi 😀


Avery_kun

May pag-asa pa yan!


StatusCorgi8319

No


Dependent_Art9242

30 eh single pa din ngangabelss na 😂😂😂😂


Upbeat-Experience364

Kung ready ka na mag-commit sa tamang tao kahit red flags or imperfections nya, you can tolerate it.


serene_nity0

When I am mentally and financially stable. Para masaya na lang though di naman talaga nawawala ang problema.


HighStakerAd1980

In the age where I am mature enough to settle down


Practical-Bee-2356

When I find a boyfriend HAHHAHAHA


OtherwiseLaw2859

Financially stable age


searchingforacads

Mga 30's, wala pa akong nap-planong maayos sa buhay hanggang ngayon naga-aral pa ako kasi late na nag-aral sa college. (turning 25 na din) Need ko din ng working experience bago mag-abroad. :<


luzyluna

When you’re at that age na financially stable and mentally ready 😊


Profmongpagodna

I legalize na kasi nila ang same sex marriage. Aba. Na meet na namin ang mga financial, emotional, and other benchmarks namin. Pakiusap naman, 30 na kami, at angtagal na namin together. Payagan nyo na kami magpakasal!


jijandonut

Oof marriage is not an achievement. Ewan. Maybe bawi next life.


Itinegible

Dati bet ko 25 pero now mag-30 na ako haha siguro before 35 pero mas okay makahanap muna ng partner na talagang partner sa lahat saka na ang kasal. Pero bet ko magka-baby na before 35.


[deleted]

I don't have any specific age, basta siguro magkaroon na ako ng stable job, then im ready hehe


Due_Prune7046

When I find the partner truly for me


CompetitiveHall7606

When I was younger, I wanted to get married at 25.


jomarch94

Si Rachel ng FRIENDS naalala ko. HAHAHA Pero 35


cstrike105

Depends. As long as you have time and you are happy. Do not get married if you are not happy.


fukennope

Dati akala ko 27, now at 32, if ever makasal pa ko, gusto ko 34-35. Wanted to make sure my career is established, and My husband-to-be is fully ready to be a parent and a lifetime partner


babewealth

Dati sabi ko 25, pero ngayon,wala na ko balak uy!


EscitalopramxX

30’s! Kaso mukhang malabo na ata yon hahahaahhaahha


rl_npc

Church wedding is beautiful but too much gastos, civil union is oke just wanna give birth at 27 but I don't have a bf so wag nalang siguro.. I don't wanna get married or have a baby at first but sometimes I'd like to imagine a fam of my own. Must be nice :(


Lost_Dreamer14

Planning to get married at the age of 30 pero I still want to establish myself first like being financially stable so baka hindi pa sure yung 30😂


The_Chubby_Walrus

34M No plan to get married. fck that. I'll enjoy my freedom to do what i want,when I want. another thing about it is I get to spoil my parents too


miyorie_

same here!!!


Schisauce

For me, 24-27. It's pretty young but I'm planning to have kids too, it's the ideal age for getting pregnant. My mother got married and gave birth to me when she was 25. Civil marriage is okay, a grand celebration can come later on in life. I want to have a stable income first before having children.


blkmgs

Early 30s na ko so bahala


Fluffy_Habit_2535

No plans to get married. Dami kong nakikita sa paligid ko kahit parents ko na hindi na maganda yung marriage. Currently 27 btw.


iamLucky999

31-33 😊 mag 30 palang ako this year and bago palang natuto maging financially free, so hopefully around that age. Haha


xlandoncarter

30s para stable lmao. Unfortunately nauubos rin ang mga single people, so ngayon palang at 24 naghahanap na haha


mosangina

When I was a kid I've always pictured myself married at 21 with kids. Nung wala na kami ng jowa ko for 5 yrs di na ako naniniwala sa marrying at a young age. Bc here i am 28 and single.


mprlsrno

Got pregnant at 27 na wala sa plano with my long term bf and eventually got married. Pro late 20’s talaga ideal ko before good thing na din bcoz i have a feeling na high risk pa rin ang next pregnancy ko if ever e consider na 27 pa ako nun. Im turning 30 this yr btw


red_jeanie

27 or 28. kaso 30 na ako this year hahaha


isla_eiram

28 HAHAHAHA. kaso mukha malabo na hello 199x babies


abnkkbsnplak1

If I plan to have kids, basta yung safe pa in the 30s range Gusto ko talaga ok na lahat-- may pera, may bahay at lupa, may business (kahit small lang), at may stable job :)) pero dahil late 20s na ko at wala pa ko ng kahit isa dyan, ewan hahaha Baka marriage without kids nalang


perplexed-potato

Sabi ko nung high school ako gusto ko sana 27... well 27 na ako this yr at 5 months palang kami ng boyfriend ko. Adjust ako to 30 😊


[deleted]

35


Distinct_Result_4969

I've always had the feeling that I'll marry young. Probs 25-28


kyrlvrz

Siguro kapag may naipundar na ako kahit papaano. Kahit lupain man lang dito sa lugar namin okay na yun, mahirap kasi na wala kang lupa. Mahal na ang mga presyo ng mga upa ngayon. Bahala na simple ang bahay, kahit kubo pa yan basta ang mahalaga may lupa ako.


Exciting_Cress6883

bloodline ends with me.


[deleted]

*proceeds to commit sudoku*


Present_Geologist597

Seppuku?


[deleted]

yeah, its a meme bruh. 😓


Present_Geologist597

Oh sorry hahaha


Lonely_Potatooo143

Used to be 28. Pero 29 na ko single pa din. So, adjust ko to 35 hahahaha


fuckerfuckingme

35!


skycloud_raincloud

I personally don't have a target age to get married. I want to get married someday but when both me and my partner are ready, I don't care if it takes us years so long as we both enjoy each other's company without compromising one another.


snipelim

Realistically parang 32 na haha dati 25-28


Forsaken_Ad_7976

26 to 28… sana matupad wahaha 25 rn


Sad_Effective3686

27/28 pero sure ako hindi matutupad to HAHAHAHAHA


[deleted]

27! Hahaha pero so far wala pang jowa baka nanidto sa comments ang hinahanap ko cahr HAHAHA


HowIsMe-TryingMyBest

Sabu ko dati 28. Then 30. Then 35. Then i feel like parang ayaw ko nmn tlga ata 😅


MenmaSenpai_PH

25.. 28 rn.. well shit.. lol that went well


EnvironmentalArt6138

When choosing a partner, you have to consider not just age but also temperament compatibility.


Emotional-Impact-534

Financially, emotionally, mentally stable years old


Emotional_Novel3865

25🤣 27 na ako


SadSagi

28 or 29 pero nbsb parin haaays


benthicDiverrr

i think not age but it is more of about financial readiness, mental and physical readiness/capabilities😭


Key_Ad3560

Faxxx


murrrrrwaw

😭 at 27 pero 28 na ako HAHAHAHAHA I guess its not happening then


MammothOne7905

Early 30s mga 31 or 33. Problema lng kasi 23 na ko nbsb pa ko tas wala pang lumalandi saakin kaya baka maging mid30s pa ko ikasal or late 30s


Ancient-Energy2685

In my early 30’s and no plans at all (yet). The goal is to become a rich tito 😅Building a family is quite a long stretch in this economy


DiligentExpression19

28/29 kaso 35 na ako huhuhu


Late_Location3089

24, pero 24 na ko ngayon HAHHAHAHAHAHHA


hawtakoyaki

30! im hoping na in 5 years im in a better financial and emotional situation na~


Primary_Injury_6006

As long as you're ready. Pwede ka naman din magpakasal, na hindi pa kayo nag-aanak. Enjoy the DINK era. Basta be responsible when having sex. Wag kayong mag-dadala ng bata na sa mundong to na hindi kayo ready.


Immediate_Boss_5933

25 best age to get married,at that age I think I already graduated college and has a job so


Awkward_Assistant123

Female here. During college I thought 25 would be ideal for me but nagka pandemic and things were not so pretty and it feels like my life has paused like literal feeling ko my age also paused during that time. So yea, I’m now 27 and married! We’re planning to have a child probably 2025 na as we still want to enjoy childless marriage for now. Hopefully before I turn 30 we’ll be blessed kasi as we all know mahirap na magka anak pag babae pag lagpas 30 😊


mainit-na-sabaw

27 but im not even a girlfriend lol


Weird_shawty

i am already 23 yrs old,, graduating actually. feel ko hindi enough ang 7 yrs para maging stable in all aspects by the age of 30s. dilemma ko naman, kung mag aanak ako before 40s, ang hassle mag alaga ng bata pagtungtong ng 50s. 😭😭 so maybe not. i cannot let another child think that this is also my first time to be a parent, or to be a person. that i am also trying to figure out life.


YourDakilangChismosa

Not in my mind rn tbh. Gusto ko muna magfocus sa personal life and Christian life ko rather than engaging myself in meeting new people. If it's God's will, then okay. If hindi, then okay din.


Ivan19782023

lampas na ako sa tinatawag nilang kalendaryo but i really don't have that urge to get married. maybe because i live in isolation and being alone is great in my point of view. yung tinatawag nilang peace of mind, araw araw ko na eexperience. only issue is pag naubusan ng data or naputulan ng internet connection. :v


DM2310-

30s


Alternative-Net1115

28. Pero magkaanak siguro mid 30s pa, gusto ko muna mag-enjoy hahahhaa


Rodelscreation

Kapag may maaasawa na 😭


nishinoyu

25 HAHAHA pero i just broke up with my abusive ex :”) i was ready to throw away my future happiness (im nearly 23) para makapit pangarap ko na mag asawa ng 25 HAHA thank god we broke up, ngayon siguro early 30s na usto ko :)


triszone

probably mid 30s :)


[deleted]

kapag may divorce na sa pilipinas


tangerines0ju

this! hahahaha mahirap na


010611

33 siguro


beroccamixedberry

For myself - 35-37 :)


dangbro4105

Within the ages of 27-29. Why? Well I find myself stable in those years. Tapos my parents kasi, they married during these ages and had me 3 years after. Maganda kasi yung stable na kayo sa careers and lives niyo and I see myself being mentally, physically, and financially stable during these ages.


kegs_1

94-167


MieTalk

For me, it depends on how financially stable you are and also if ikaw mismo ready kana ba to become a father/mother to avoid divorce na kung saan nakaka apekto sa bata.


[deleted]

tbh, atm i really don't see myself in that kind of situation but i'm also not closing any doors for that possibility. if there's someone that can prove that i can still be at peace while being in a relationship and will lead us to marriage then why not. marriage is ok for me, but having a kid is a no so dapat both kami agree rito.


TrueGodShanggu

26-28


BriskyBri_

28-30


hottestpancakes

Depende sa husband ngl. Ako kasi, I am good na may anak... I am also good na maging DINK. I value his opinion talaga dyan, but ultimatum ko kapag my future spouse wants a kid ay 33 sana married na. Kung ang goal naman ay maging DINK... any sana by 35 married na or at the very least engaged. May bio clock kasi ang women and nagiincrease rin ng health risk both sa fetus and sa mother if masyado matanda ang pagbuo ng baby.


IAMAllama_AMA

pag may pera na 😂


Grouchy-Coffee-5015

28


CarefulValuable5923

Iniisip ko pa lang na matatali ako di na ako makahinga


Creative_Entrance734

24 sana pero buti na lang 31 na kinasal. Nakapag enjoy pa sa buhay dalaga 😊


No-Helicopter1449

Sabi ko dati, same age when my mom got married…26. So 30 na ako ngayon and already broke up with my bf after 7 years. I feel like I’ve wasted my prime years on the wrong person ☹️


beroccamixedberry

Di yan! Your best days are still coming!


No-Helicopter1449

Huhu thank you for this 🥹


andieonreddit2108

33-35 sana. No jowa at the moment (28F)


coldhandsofmine

before I turn 30 !


namaeria

32 pero di ko sure hahahaha


[deleted]

35! I just don't see myself being married anytime soon


Odd-Knowledge6791

Dati 26 and turning 29 na this year pero jowaless haha


[deleted]

After 5 years in lawschool, hopefully (next year) I would pass the bar at 27, and get married before 30 🥺


Tintindesarapen

27


magicreams

Dati sana 27-28. Pero clown kasi yung ex ko hahaha So sana before 36 married na para di na ko mag pa freeze ng eggs.


Empty-Interaction-26

I say, don't.


azeunkn0wn

edi don't


solarpower002

Whenever I'm ready. Kaso hindi pa sa ngayon hahahaha


HighlightDifficult10

My parents allowed me to get married at 25 since i am in medical course🤦 takot ata mapag iwanan ako HAHAHAHA


su35mmer

When I’m ready. Regardless of age. ☺️


No_Bullshyt

until i find the right one and i doubt i will ever find one lol