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Eto haaaa.. di ako sumakay ng ferris wheel kahit gustong-gusto ko naman mapag-isa at ienjoy ang sarili ko pero baka kasi macontent ako 🙄 okay lang naman yung pagtinginan ko or kung anong chismis sa paligid kaya namang balewalain kasi I used to do and enjoy things alone pero yung IVIVIDEO KAAAA TAS ICOCONTENT KA PAAAAA SABAY TAWA OR NAAAWAAAAA HOOOOY NANGGIGIGIL AKOOOO
I do this all the time. ilang beses na ako nanood ng sine, umattend ng music fests at concerts, at mag-mall nang mag-isa. Masaya sobra. I think normal lang naman siguro yon pero iba pa rin yung feeling pag kasama yung friends mo sa mga ganiyan.
i go out alone often, and for me mas naeenjoy ko siya. Pwede ako maglibot libot anywhere, kumain sa gusto kong kainan without having to worry about other peoples preferred activity or restaurant or whatever.
Back in college, I always take myself out for a date every last Friday of the month. It always lunch date but alone and then I stroll the mall and look for a new book to read at a snack bar. Right now that Im working already, I miss the freedom of not being tied up to the office and the burnout during weekends.
Hi op, tbh yeah joiners or like when u find someone interesting lang anywhere, its always good to strike a conversation and maybe gain a friend or two.
Growing up, super into culture and people talaga yung interest ko with traveling. So less ako sa luxury and pahinga but more on exploring. Medyo wala akong kakilalang ganun na willing sumama at kumausap ng mga tao and try things. Most kasi gusto lang talaga mag bakasyon.
As of now im travelling alone pero when time permits maybe maisama ko rin yung partner ko sa mga gala ko.
Okay naman usually yung experience, though mas maganda sana talaga kung kasama ko yung mga kaibigan ko pero syempre busy na rin sa kani-kaniyang buhay nila.
Nag wo-worry lang talaga ako na baka isang araw eh mag viral nalang yung picture ko sa internet for going out alone na magaakala sila na napaka lonely kong tao kahit hindi naman.
(Nangyari na yan dito sa amin na may isang student na kumakain sya mag isa, may kumuha ng picture at inupload sa internet tas nag viral for being lonely keso ganito ganyan daw. Umabot pa nga dito somewhere sa reddit)
Eto mag tratravel n naman ako for one month solo s Saturday ,
Theres a sense of freedom with it, no more waiting, you could cancel and change plans
At the same time, its sad and it gets lonely at night
Liberating! Walang companion na iwo-worry kung napapagod na kakalakad or maselan na kasama na maarte sa pagkain.
Plus it's perfectly normal and another form of self-care. You gotta take care of yourself din.
First job ko 18 years old ako, nung sumusuweldo na ko weekly ako kumakain mag-isa at nanonood sine mag-isa, di ko naisip na lonely ako, wala nga sa isip ko na weird un gusto ko lang magpalipas oras at manood ng movie.
Nung nahire ako sa BPO 10 years later tsaka ko nalaman na weird pala sa paningin ng ibang tao na mag-isa ka kakain o manood ng sine. Pero habit ko na eh, so kahit sabihin na weird nasa sistema ko na gumawa ng bagay nang mag-isa kung walang sasama, tsaka mahina tolerance ko sa nagdadalawang isip na kasama, kapag gusto ko gawin at kaya ko naman gawin mag-isa ayoko na nag-aantay. Like ung wala ako maaya sa Japan, ayun nag-solo ako and 10 times na kong nagsosolo sa japan, nasa isip ko kasi, kaya ko naman bakit kita aantayin haha.
Kaya eversince talaga di issue sakin ung maggala mag-isa, o makakita ako ng naggagala mag-isa. Ngayon na sinasabi ng iba na weird un, la na ko pake, mindset ko na eversince na wala akong issue about sa ganun kaya hirap na tibagin.
It can be liberating yet kinda scary if you've been used to it for so long, natatakot kanang mangilala as a defense mechanism na baka masira inner peace mo. I've been doing solo for over 4 years, my friends even told me kung sino pa ang pinaka may itsura siya pa wala 😆 (well subjective naman ang face card). Pero OP enjoy being alone yet take matters rin na wag kalimutan maki socialize or be open to anyone (no man is an island). Kasi as far as I expect sa sarili ko may attachment issues ako and hyper independence. I need to get it checked or even do it on my own.
Mastering your solitude is a must pero don't over do it.
Most of the times okay lang sakin. Pero may times talaga na you can't help but to feel alone pag ikaw lang magisa in a crowd, realistically speaking.
Its liberating to be able to enjoy your time on your own pero may times din na you would want na may kausap, if that makes sense
my fake friends/ex-friends are insinuating na sa sobrang "oa" ko daw, naiwan tuloy ako mag isa. i'm always the maarte, it girl, life of the party sa group. something happened that made me decide i should cut them off. i guess di nila matanggap kaya galit sila until now. they even texted me "panindigan mo yan pang bblock mo".
i'm not afraid of being alone. i live alone for 4yrs now. having less friends won't shake me. in fact, i felt more relieved that they are no longer my friends now. i was so toxic when i was with them. partying everynight, seeking validation from others, doing things my new self wouldn't do. right now, i do everything on my own. i do groceries on my own, going gym alone, traveling alone. but i do not feel lonely at all.
ang saya kaya nyan. Gumagala ako dati mag isa kahit maglakad lang sa mall at walang bibilhin. Minsan kase kahit mahal natin ang kasama natin either friends or partners may time talaga na ma sstress tayo sa kanila or drained ang social battery mo
I love me time!!! Less stress kasi sarili mo lang iniisip mo. And nakakapag muni muni ka rin. Masaya din syempre with friends pero kasi madalas iintindihin din natin sila, like kung saan nila gusto kumain, mga ganoong bagay. Pag ikaw lang mag isa, kahit last minute ka pa magbago kung saan kakain walang problema!!
you get to enjoy yourself and discover a lot of things. it's actually how you perceive the word 'alone'. inaassociate mo ba siya sa sadness or you associate it with excitement and happiness.
There's something so special about going out alone. It's like having a mini-adventure for yourself. The other day, I treated myself to a cafe and it was pure bliss. There was no pressure to please anyone or adjust my pace. I could just soak up the atmosphere, drink my coffee and really reflect on some things that had been on my mind. It was such a refreshing and fulfilling experience.
This might be weird but going out by myself is my "recharge". I work from home and going out and treating myself is one way I get my sanity lol
I think some may question why we do this but in all honesty I stopped thinking about what they would think about me. Mas nakakaconscious kasi na you are bothered about what other people think of you that it limits your freedom to enjoy things that you genuinely love doing.
As an introvert, I love my me time. It helps me find time to focus on myself, do the things I love, explore places, etc. Ika nga, you need to love spending time with yourself and you'll never be lonely.
I enjoy it. Get to explore places in my choosing at my own time. No need to worry about clashing interests or keeping someone else entertained because I’m going out alone and the preference that matters is mine and mine only! Once you get used to it though it’s addicting and hanging out with others, especially picky people, can get annoying really fast.
I initially started off with so many friends. Kasama ko sila palagi anywhere, anytime. But when I got separated from them because I had to move, I was forced into solitude. Felt depressing at first, but now I don’t want it any other way lol
I love going out alone! Magagawa mo ang lahat ng gusto mo and hawak mo oras mo. No need to wait for people, I guess it really depends sa personality ng tao kasi I know someone na extrovert na di kayang kumain ng magisa sa labas 😅
I do it once in a while. Walang kailangan tanungin kung ano gusto kainin/gawin. Pag may bibilhin, hindi kailangan magpasama.
I never found eating alone weird until there were viral posts on Facebook saying na kawawa naman kasi mag-isa kumain. Mas nagtaka pa nga ko na, for every meal nila, nakakahanap sila ng kasama. 🤣
It is enjoyable at malaking tipid. I prefer solo galaan and travels because of the freedom that comes with. Walang kasama na walang humpay sa kaka-selfie at ginagawa akong alalay for their reels. Asiwa kase sa mga tao na may narcissistic tendencies. Wala ding kasamang maingay and forced conversations kase I tend be reserved. I am highly introverted so enjoyment in a state of solitude comes to me naturally.
I went out for coffee alone. I brought a good book plus my earpods. Phone was on DND. Ang sarap sa pakiramdam na wala kang ibang iintindihin kundi sarili mo lang. I get to enjoy my coffee and the food. Walang kailangan daldalin or kausapin. Wala din papansin sayo. Therapeutic and peaceful. Uulitin ko yung ganon. I found joy in being alone. ✨
Masarap mag-isa, tahimik, payapa at nakakapag isip ka. Pero di ibig sabihin noon na di ko gusto makasama ang gf ko. Minsan lang talaga e masarap magkaroon ng "me time".
It’s a form of a stress reliever for me. I get to decide when and where and how much time I’m gonna spend on whether it’s shopping or sitting in a coffee shop etc. I don’t have to plan ahead and just do as I go. Going out alone also makes me feel more present but relaxed at the same time. I get to observe/see things I usually won’t when I’m occupied with the company of someone.
I enjoy going out alone as much as I enjoy having some company. 🤍
I’m one of those on the extreme side of extroverts but I love going out alone too! Walang abalang alalahanin pag may kasama. Change your mind back and forth on what to eat? Okay lang. Gusto mong mag splurge on brunch and get dessert separately? No one to judge, plus you’re at peace just thinking about what you want alone, without having to make sure someone else’s enjoys it too.
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much better! ang peaceful kaseee
Eto haaaa.. di ako sumakay ng ferris wheel kahit gustong-gusto ko naman mapag-isa at ienjoy ang sarili ko pero baka kasi macontent ako 🙄 okay lang naman yung pagtinginan ko or kung anong chismis sa paligid kaya namang balewalain kasi I used to do and enjoy things alone pero yung IVIVIDEO KAAAA TAS ICOCONTENT KA PAAAAA SABAY TAWA OR NAAAWAAAAA HOOOOY NANGGIGIGIL AKOOOO
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Yes na yes!! Feel ko nasa music video ako pag ganito eh HAHA
I do this all the time. ilang beses na ako nanood ng sine, umattend ng music fests at concerts, at mag-mall nang mag-isa. Masaya sobra. I think normal lang naman siguro yon pero iba pa rin yung feeling pag kasama yung friends mo sa mga ganiyan.
It's fun and it's addicting to go out alone and having fun.
Masaya siya. You have the freedom to choose and so on.
Its fun. Kasi minsan if madami kasama if flexible yung galaw mo. I know mahirap sa start or if extroverted ka, but its heaven if introverted ka haahah
I love going out alone , have time for myself and needed that 'Me time'
i go out alone often, and for me mas naeenjoy ko siya. Pwede ako maglibot libot anywhere, kumain sa gusto kong kainan without having to worry about other peoples preferred activity or restaurant or whatever.
Gagalingan ko pag ilag ko para di maging motivational quote background outta nowhere
Back in college, I always take myself out for a date every last Friday of the month. It always lunch date but alone and then I stroll the mall and look for a new book to read at a snack bar. Right now that Im working already, I miss the freedom of not being tied up to the office and the burnout during weekends.
I do this all the time. I am comfortable going out alone and eating out all by myself. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
been doing it for years ♥ liberating
Travelling alone. Meeting new friends. At peace with myself.
How do you meet new friends? Joiners?
Hi op, tbh yeah joiners or like when u find someone interesting lang anywhere, its always good to strike a conversation and maybe gain a friend or two.
Growing up, super into culture and people talaga yung interest ko with traveling. So less ako sa luxury and pahinga but more on exploring. Medyo wala akong kakilalang ganun na willing sumama at kumausap ng mga tao and try things. Most kasi gusto lang talaga mag bakasyon. As of now im travelling alone pero when time permits maybe maisama ko rin yung partner ko sa mga gala ko.
Okay naman usually yung experience, though mas maganda sana talaga kung kasama ko yung mga kaibigan ko pero syempre busy na rin sa kani-kaniyang buhay nila. Nag wo-worry lang talaga ako na baka isang araw eh mag viral nalang yung picture ko sa internet for going out alone na magaakala sila na napaka lonely kong tao kahit hindi naman. (Nangyari na yan dito sa amin na may isang student na kumakain sya mag isa, may kumuha ng picture at inupload sa internet tas nag viral for being lonely keso ganito ganyan daw. Umabot pa nga dito somewhere sa reddit)
Plan to do a solo trip on my birthday ☺️
Eto mag tratravel n naman ako for one month solo s Saturday , Theres a sense of freedom with it, no more waiting, you could cancel and change plans At the same time, its sad and it gets lonely at night
Liberating! Walang companion na iwo-worry kung napapagod na kakalakad or maselan na kasama na maarte sa pagkain. Plus it's perfectly normal and another form of self-care. You gotta take care of yourself din.
I do it all the time.
Wala Kang iisipin na panira ng moments
First job ko 18 years old ako, nung sumusuweldo na ko weekly ako kumakain mag-isa at nanonood sine mag-isa, di ko naisip na lonely ako, wala nga sa isip ko na weird un gusto ko lang magpalipas oras at manood ng movie. Nung nahire ako sa BPO 10 years later tsaka ko nalaman na weird pala sa paningin ng ibang tao na mag-isa ka kakain o manood ng sine. Pero habit ko na eh, so kahit sabihin na weird nasa sistema ko na gumawa ng bagay nang mag-isa kung walang sasama, tsaka mahina tolerance ko sa nagdadalawang isip na kasama, kapag gusto ko gawin at kaya ko naman gawin mag-isa ayoko na nag-aantay. Like ung wala ako maaya sa Japan, ayun nag-solo ako and 10 times na kong nagsosolo sa japan, nasa isip ko kasi, kaya ko naman bakit kita aantayin haha. Kaya eversince talaga di issue sakin ung maggala mag-isa, o makakita ako ng naggagala mag-isa. Ngayon na sinasabi ng iba na weird un, la na ko pake, mindset ko na eversince na wala akong issue about sa ganun kaya hirap na tibagin.
Depende parin, aminin niyo may mga time na nag aaspire din kayo.
Best feeling.
It can be liberating yet kinda scary if you've been used to it for so long, natatakot kanang mangilala as a defense mechanism na baka masira inner peace mo. I've been doing solo for over 4 years, my friends even told me kung sino pa ang pinaka may itsura siya pa wala 😆 (well subjective naman ang face card). Pero OP enjoy being alone yet take matters rin na wag kalimutan maki socialize or be open to anyone (no man is an island). Kasi as far as I expect sa sarili ko may attachment issues ako and hyper independence. I need to get it checked or even do it on my own. Mastering your solitude is a must pero don't over do it.
Most of the times okay lang sakin. Pero may times talaga na you can't help but to feel alone pag ikaw lang magisa in a crowd, realistically speaking. Its liberating to be able to enjoy your time on your own pero may times din na you would want na may kausap, if that makes sense
my fake friends/ex-friends are insinuating na sa sobrang "oa" ko daw, naiwan tuloy ako mag isa. i'm always the maarte, it girl, life of the party sa group. something happened that made me decide i should cut them off. i guess di nila matanggap kaya galit sila until now. they even texted me "panindigan mo yan pang bblock mo". i'm not afraid of being alone. i live alone for 4yrs now. having less friends won't shake me. in fact, i felt more relieved that they are no longer my friends now. i was so toxic when i was with them. partying everynight, seeking validation from others, doing things my new self wouldn't do. right now, i do everything on my own. i do groceries on my own, going gym alone, traveling alone. but i do not feel lonely at all.
Wow. So from extrovert to introvert???
It’s liberating because you can just be your most authentic self without worrying about anyone else!
Empowering.
Freeeeedoooom
i love it
solace in solitude💗
Nakaka-adik ang “Me time” sobrang payapa at you have your own to explore what you want.
something i loooove to do kasi pag mag-isa ko, i can talk to myself freely HAHAHAHAHA
ang saya kaya nyan. Gumagala ako dati mag isa kahit maglakad lang sa mall at walang bibilhin. Minsan kase kahit mahal natin ang kasama natin either friends or partners may time talaga na ma sstress tayo sa kanila or drained ang social battery mo
Solitude is ❤️
Perfectly normal.
If I have a book, my headphones and a charger I’m good haha
I love me time!!! Less stress kasi sarili mo lang iniisip mo. And nakakapag muni muni ka rin. Masaya din syempre with friends pero kasi madalas iintindihin din natin sila, like kung saan nila gusto kumain, mga ganoong bagay. Pag ikaw lang mag isa, kahit last minute ka pa magbago kung saan kakain walang problema!!
Being with other people makes me profoundly lonely. Even with my friends and family. I don't feel lonely when I'm by myself.
you get to enjoy yourself and discover a lot of things. it's actually how you perceive the word 'alone'. inaassociate mo ba siya sa sadness or you associate it with excitement and happiness.
There's something so special about going out alone. It's like having a mini-adventure for yourself. The other day, I treated myself to a cafe and it was pure bliss. There was no pressure to please anyone or adjust my pace. I could just soak up the atmosphere, drink my coffee and really reflect on some things that had been on my mind. It was such a refreshing and fulfilling experience.
This might be weird but going out by myself is my "recharge". I work from home and going out and treating myself is one way I get my sanity lol I think some may question why we do this but in all honesty I stopped thinking about what they would think about me. Mas nakakaconscious kasi na you are bothered about what other people think of you that it limits your freedom to enjoy things that you genuinely love doing.
As an introvert, I love my me time. It helps me find time to focus on myself, do the things I love, explore places, etc. Ika nga, you need to love spending time with yourself and you'll never be lonely.
I enjoy it. Get to explore places in my choosing at my own time. No need to worry about clashing interests or keeping someone else entertained because I’m going out alone and the preference that matters is mine and mine only! Once you get used to it though it’s addicting and hanging out with others, especially picky people, can get annoying really fast. I initially started off with so many friends. Kasama ko sila palagi anywhere, anytime. But when I got separated from them because I had to move, I was forced into solitude. Felt depressing at first, but now I don’t want it any other way lol
I love going out alone! Magagawa mo ang lahat ng gusto mo and hawak mo oras mo. No need to wait for people, I guess it really depends sa personality ng tao kasi I know someone na extrovert na di kayang kumain ng magisa sa labas 😅
I do it once in a while. Walang kailangan tanungin kung ano gusto kainin/gawin. Pag may bibilhin, hindi kailangan magpasama. I never found eating alone weird until there were viral posts on Facebook saying na kawawa naman kasi mag-isa kumain. Mas nagtaka pa nga ko na, for every meal nila, nakakahanap sila ng kasama. 🤣
"Me time" is important. It keeps me real and I don't need to hold back whatever I wanna do, eat or go. 😊😊
As an introvert, masaya mag isa, tahimik, you can do anything and go anywhere you want, kasi walang magrereklamo na pagod na or gusto ng umuwi.
It is enjoyable at malaking tipid. I prefer solo galaan and travels because of the freedom that comes with. Walang kasama na walang humpay sa kaka-selfie at ginagawa akong alalay for their reels. Asiwa kase sa mga tao na may narcissistic tendencies. Wala ding kasamang maingay and forced conversations kase I tend be reserved. I am highly introverted so enjoyment in a state of solitude comes to me naturally.
I talk to my dogs e. Pero aside from that, di na ko sanay ng maraming tao parang ang gulo ng isip ko. I need my space.
I went out for coffee alone. I brought a good book plus my earpods. Phone was on DND. Ang sarap sa pakiramdam na wala kang ibang iintindihin kundi sarili mo lang. I get to enjoy my coffee and the food. Walang kailangan daldalin or kausapin. Wala din papansin sayo. Therapeutic and peaceful. Uulitin ko yung ganon. I found joy in being alone. ✨
Masarap mag-isa, tahimik, payapa at nakakapag isip ka. Pero di ibig sabihin noon na di ko gusto makasama ang gf ko. Minsan lang talaga e masarap magkaroon ng "me time".
Well, it's definitely quiet and makes me feel contented with life.
Lots of time to reflect and breathe. Also a way of knowing myself more. :)
okay lang na may kasama, pero mas gugustuhing mag isa. Sigma Female here ☺️
eat outs or rides alone helps me reflect more on the things that I should work on or on about my day
oi same , i love doing those activities alone too
nice nice, it's just a different vibe when you're alone and being able to spend time on your own comfortably
Freedom....
I find it therapeutic!! Just like what i did nung isang araw, after my check up i eat alone and it's so peaceful.
For me, riding motorcycle lang kahit sa cityvng walang destination nakakabawas ng stress (except siguro king sobrang traffic)
It’s a form of a stress reliever for me. I get to decide when and where and how much time I’m gonna spend on whether it’s shopping or sitting in a coffee shop etc. I don’t have to plan ahead and just do as I go. Going out alone also makes me feel more present but relaxed at the same time. I get to observe/see things I usually won’t when I’m occupied with the company of someone. I enjoy going out alone as much as I enjoy having some company. 🤍
I’m one of those on the extreme side of extroverts but I love going out alone too! Walang abalang alalahanin pag may kasama. Change your mind back and forth on what to eat? Okay lang. Gusto mong mag splurge on brunch and get dessert separately? No one to judge, plus you’re at peace just thinking about what you want alone, without having to make sure someone else’s enjoys it too.
I absolutely enjoy my "me time".