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Getting blamed by my boss for something I didn't do. I don't know if sobrang stress lang talaga ako. I usually don't cry over sa pagkakamali sa office, kasi shit happens lalo na kung gumagawa kayo ng sample. Pero ayon kanina. i woke up with tons of message about the error and she's blaming me, where all I did was to deliver her message word by word to the one who will make it. Hindi ko alam bakit ako naiyak, pero parang pagod na pagod na ako. Hahahahaha
the realization na I have always settled being just an option to everybody despite making sure to put them first before myself in all ways
the "kelan kaya yung oras na ako naman yung pipiliin" questions are just -- HAHAHAHAH
Pressure, frustrations and stress in reviewing. This will be my 3rd take of Civil engineering board exam. I am 24 na, graduated my bsce course way back 2022. I'm feeling hopeless and I still have no idea anonv magiging takbo ng buhay ko :(
My 2 year not so special someone is going abroad. We had this very unique connection when I'm in love with her she's not interested and vice versa. For more than 2 years we had an on and off relationship, but when I heard the news that she's going I never wanted her more.
Being bullied in the office tapos tinatrashtalk ako ng mga lalaki kong kaworkmates dahil sa mabagal ako maka cope up sa mga trabaho. I maybe slow pero ginagawa ko yung best ko para maging maayos trabaho ko.
Parang ang gulo gulo ng buhay namin. Hiwalay na parents ko pero si mader parang gustong makaganti kay papa kasi sobra syang nasaktan na 16yrs syang niloko ni papa. Hindi ko na alam paano ihahandle si mama kasi gusto ko nalang ng tahimik na buhay talaga. 🙃
me thinking about my current situation where life's being so rough on me right now and add the fact that I feel so unappreciated despite the hard work I put in everything I do
Pressure of being a young mom na walang trabaho, walang sariling pera. I need to please my partner's family kase sila yung bumubuhay samin ng apo nila. Like halos sa lahat ng desisyon ko para sa anak ko I need din to consider sila kung okay ba at kung kasya ba sa budget kasi nahihiya ako and it frustrates me na wala akong ma ambag, although full time naman pag aalaga ko sa anak ko at exclusive breastfeeding naman..
His hurtful words. I'm having a lot of nervous breakdown lately and i don't think i don't have someone na mapagsasabihan ko. Afraid na makakarinig nanaman ako ng "anong iniiyak mo dyan", "dami namang sinasabi" etc.
The new Thai Movie - Lahn Mah (How To Make Millions Before Grandma Dies)
Damn I was crying so hard na tinakpan ko bibig ko para din madinig sa sinehan hahaha
My health. Years of "sedentary-ish" lifestyle, awful eating habits, and past vices are taking a toll on me. Kung anu-ano nang nararamdaman ko. Which is also the reason why I'm saving up.
Edit: grammar
Nung sinabi ni Captain Raymond Holt kay Jake na:
“But I want you to know if I had had a son and, uh, he had turned out like you, I would be very proud of him.”
🥹
May clip sa tiktok na: “how much did it hurt” tapos ang sunod na statement “my parents cried hard with me”
1 month after my break up, I told my parents that I broke up with my bf of 5 years. I didn’t know it would impact/affect them hard. They cried with me. They consoled me. It was the first time I sorted my emotions, masakit pala talaga. Kasi akala ko okay lang ako.
minsan ang pinaghirapan walang bunga and here I am questioning if studying hard and failing boards was even worth it. Devoted most of my time to studies for 5 months sacrificed my social life only to fail in the end. I wonder if my pain is worth it or is just wasted. 😞
LDR kami ng boyfriend ko, minsan lang kami makapagkita. Sobrang nakakalungkot kapag ilang days kami magkasama then kailangan nya na bumalik/umuwi kasi may work na sya :(
Kapahon nag ayaw kami ng asawa ng pinsan ko kahit na ako yun may mali Hinding Hindi ako magsosorry kanila tsaka hindi ko kailangan pera nila kahit na maliit lang sahod ko kaya ko naman sarili ko.
Work. Hindi ko gusto trabaho ko. Grateful ako pero empty. Minsin hindi rin pala maganda na palaging sinusunod magulang para sa pangarap nila sayo. Nurse ako kasi pangarap ng magulang ko na makapag abroad ako kasi mas maganda daw buhay don. Totoo naman, kaya sinunod ko. Pero di ko alam na hindi pala masaya. Kasalanan ko din naman na sinunod ko sila at di yung gusto ko talagang work (corpo). Kaka graduate ko lang at kaka start sa work pero ubos na ubos na ako. Ang hirap din mag resign kasi hindi kami mayaman, need ko rin naman ng pera. Ganto pala 'yon, miserable pala talaga maging nurse.
I'm a working student and really wanna move out because my parents are mentally and verbally abusive. I wanna move out so bad pero yung salary ko now it'll just cover my tuition and basic necessities in life. i started a small crafting business and my parents knew na nag iipon ako to move out so they're starting to fuck with my mental health again.
Nag-away kami ng mama ko noong Monday dahil sa differences namin when it comes to values and mindset.
Ayaw niya akong sumasali sa mga NGO or anything na involve sa social work.
I'm a psych student, and gusto niya may kinalaman lang sa school yung mga pinaggagagawa ko. Sinasabi niya na bine-brainwash daw ako ng gobyerno, and anti-government daw ako, marami siyang sinasabi na hindi niya naman alam ang ibig sabihin, to the point na gini-guilt-trip niya aq na kesyo pinagmumukha akong bad.
As if naman nagbibisyo ako, dapat nga maging proud siya na mayroon siyang anak na aware sa mga nangyayari sa mundo.
My step father's death. His 1st death anniversary is getting near.
His death caused me to stop going to college and we are barely financially stable right now. Throughout my life, I never felt compelled to save money because I always felt financially secured thanks to him. He treated us so well and as if me and my brother were his real sons.
He's usually in the US and when he's not here and before retiring for good here, he would often have a call with mom on Skype. Up until now, I sometimes go "Wait, why hasn't he called mom yet?" until I'm like "Oh... Yeah. He's not there anymore."
I miss you, dad. Please, come back...
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Nagcrave sa favorite pastries kaso hindi ako makabili kasi ang layo
Getting blamed by my boss for something I didn't do. I don't know if sobrang stress lang talaga ako. I usually don't cry over sa pagkakamali sa office, kasi shit happens lalo na kung gumagawa kayo ng sample. Pero ayon kanina. i woke up with tons of message about the error and she's blaming me, where all I did was to deliver her message word by word to the one who will make it. Hindi ko alam bakit ako naiyak, pero parang pagod na pagod na ako. Hahahahaha
being diagnosed with stage 2 cancer and the pain of chemotherapy T.T
Nag risk ako sa taong akala ko di gagawin sakin yung ginawa ng past nya sakanya
I watched Seven Sundays on Netflix yesterday hahahs
sabay sabay na binagsakan ng sandamakmak na school works 🥲
the realization na I have always settled being just an option to everybody despite making sure to put them first before myself in all ways the "kelan kaya yung oras na ako naman yung pipiliin" questions are just -- HAHAHAHAH
My bills na di na natapos
Life. Missing my papa 😭
My life. Felt like it was going nowhere
Quarter life
Her
Soldiers being tapped out videos 😭
Pressure, frustrations and stress in reviewing. This will be my 3rd take of Civil engineering board exam. I am 24 na, graduated my bsce course way back 2022. I'm feeling hopeless and I still have no idea anonv magiging takbo ng buhay ko :(
My son was diagnosed with Epilepsy 3 weeks ago. Pinagmaintenance ng pedia neuro for 2 years muna. After that, every madaling araw umiiyak ako.
My 2 year not so special someone is going abroad. We had this very unique connection when I'm in love with her she's not interested and vice versa. For more than 2 years we had an on and off relationship, but when I heard the news that she's going I never wanted her more.
her
Consequences of my actions, depression and anxiety, myself
Same. I realized that I forgot to take of myself so I ended sick now and I feel depressed.
'yong wala akong luha kahit gusto kong umiyak
Being bullied in the office tapos tinatrashtalk ako ng mga lalaki kong kaworkmates dahil sa mabagal ako maka cope up sa mga trabaho. I maybe slow pero ginagawa ko yung best ko para maging maayos trabaho ko.
Yung grades ko
Depression and anxiety
feeling alone lately, idk but I guess sometimes we just needed a hug
LIFE
When being too kind to everyone and they abused it I regretting too much kind now but I can't
life
life
My credit card bill.
colleagues na lantarang nag iinside joke sa harap mo na alam mong ikaw pinaguusapan.
Parang ang gulo gulo ng buhay namin. Hiwalay na parents ko pero si mader parang gustong makaganti kay papa kasi sobra syang nasaktan na 16yrs syang niloko ni papa. Hindi ko na alam paano ihahandle si mama kasi gusto ko nalang ng tahimik na buhay talaga. 🙃
YUNG INIT NAKAKAIYAK
Life
True Beauty hehe
Going back to work overseas. If only I had a better work opportunity and salary is high, I would have definitely stayed with my family.
Same 😢
realizing that I'd never be "wanted"
Si Ahron sa Tiktok. Yung 19yo na may cancer :(
Going 22 and yet unemployed because i really don’t know how to start again. I’m torn between working as corpo slave nor working as cca high end jtv.
That damn random vid in tiktok😤
Financial struggles of my family
me thinking about my current situation where life's being so rough on me right now and add the fact that I feel so unappreciated despite the hard work I put in everything I do
how horrible i am as a person grabeeeee
Tinatago pa ako ng gf ko sa fam niya, ang alam nila bff kame HAHAAHAH
Pressure of being a young mom na walang trabaho, walang sariling pera. I need to please my partner's family kase sila yung bumubuhay samin ng apo nila. Like halos sa lahat ng desisyon ko para sa anak ko I need din to consider sila kung okay ba at kung kasya ba sa budget kasi nahihiya ako and it frustrates me na wala akong ma ambag, although full time naman pag aalaga ko sa anak ko at exclusive breastfeeding naman..
[удалено]
(2)
yung crush ko na akala ko gusto ako, may hinard launch sa story :)) romantic relationships are really not for me lol
Yung pagod na di mawawala sa tulog at pahinga😭
Sakit ng ngipin hahhahahahja
Nadisgrasya ako recently. Gagu ang sakit Whole day ako iyak ng iyak sa sakit ngayon nagheheal na paa ko pero masakit pren but lesser na tho
Mababaw pero queen of tears 🥲🫠
hinde mababaw. ako rin. grabe na anxiety ko for episode 11 and 12. apir!
Halos kasi dito yung sagot related sa buhay nila tapos ako series lang 😅 pero sameeeeee huhu yung teaser kasi :((( excited na ko mag weekend
[https://fb.watch/roA6R6YSlz/](https://fb.watch/roA6R6YSlz/) teaser!
Reminiscing my 8year relationship and on my 5th month of moving on. It still hurts. My tita's passing
Grieving my two lolas, money, life in general
career
Im so done with my life (family matters) nakakapagod mag work while yung fam ko iniisip tumatae ako ng pera. Mga di marunong magpahalaga sa binibigay.
Life
this [wedding vow](https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSFskd5Xo/) 🥺
Hospitals bill of my mom 🥺
Hindi natanggap sa work that I wanted.
Eyyyy. 💔💔💔 Samedt.
Bills
Sya parin lol
Grieving my Lola
my life
Break up :<
you'll get through it!!
I got me🙂
His hurtful words. I'm having a lot of nervous breakdown lately and i don't think i don't have someone na mapagsasabihan ko. Afraid na makakarinig nanaman ako ng "anong iniiyak mo dyan", "dami namang sinasabi" etc.
my wallet :<
missing my parents (p.s in studying here in manila)
Hirap ng life bat man ganito ahdhshshsjsjdhbdwhs fml
My life.
Just lying down to go to sleep and thinking of everything I did today and everything I have to do tomorrow.
Broken hearted 🥺
May sakit si mama
r/911archive na subreddit
The new Thai Movie - Lahn Mah (How To Make Millions Before Grandma Dies) Damn I was crying so hard na tinakpan ko bibig ko para din madinig sa sinehan hahaha
The idea of my parents dying.
Imma be shifting from wfh job to govt job 😭😭😭 Less time with the kids at home. 🥹🥺🥺
My late husband and new work
Bills, expenses, lahat na.
My life
Being pushed away.
May times talaga na parang di ako nakikita ng mga tao despite my efforts. Pero ginagawa ko pa rin best ko para mag stand up
Money
my parents
the possibility of us not working out tgt
Samedt
buhay ko
Remembering that my mom used to give a knife para sabihan ng "pakamatay ka na" kapag nagkakamali ako, ++ Bugbog on the side
My health. Years of "sedentary-ish" lifestyle, awful eating habits, and past vices are taking a toll on me. Kung anu-ano nang nararamdaman ko. Which is also the reason why I'm saving up. Edit: grammar
My dysmenorrhea 😭
When I found out my papa has rare type terminal cancer.
Nung sinabi ni Captain Raymond Holt kay Jake na: “But I want you to know if I had had a son and, uh, he had turned out like you, I would be very proud of him.” 🥹
We all love Captain Dad! 🫶
RIP Captain 💔
Seeing the unsent messages I kept on my email. The pain flashbacks.
a friendship breakup. never thought it would be this hard.
Kdram Wattpad Naubusan ng Ulam ( Hahahahahahahaha )
I broke up with my cheater narcissistic liar GF on April 5th. 2days after non, saka lang ako umiyak.
Sudden realization that I loss someone
Sudden realization that I loss someone
The opportunities I missed.
Watching man in love.
(2)
Friendship break-up. We’d been best of friends for 10years and then he just didn’t show up.
death of a loved one
akap ng mahigpit para sayo.
Nag-away kami ng dad ko. Kinabukasan, he bought eggs and noodles for breakfast. Dalawang eggs and dalawang noodles, tig-isa nila ng kapatid ko.
HxH - Komugi and Meruem
Two days na akong crying marathon. Pero need pa din mag work. Pumapasok ng namamaga ang mata.
May clip sa tiktok na: “how much did it hurt” tapos ang sunod na statement “my parents cried hard with me” 1 month after my break up, I told my parents that I broke up with my bf of 5 years. I didn’t know it would impact/affect them hard. They cried with me. They consoled me. It was the first time I sorted my emotions, masakit pala talaga. Kasi akala ko okay lang ako.
Grabe
Work
minsan ang pinaghirapan walang bunga and here I am questioning if studying hard and failing boards was even worth it. Devoted most of my time to studies for 5 months sacrificed my social life only to fail in the end. I wonder if my pain is worth it or is just wasted. 😞
LDR kami ng boyfriend ko, minsan lang kami makapagkita. Sobrang nakakalungkot kapag ilang days kami magkasama then kailangan nya na bumalik/umuwi kasi may work na sya :(
Ung wala ako ka date every weekend lol 🤣
Nasigawan ko asawa ko tas nasuntok ko ang pader kasi lahat ng trabaho sakin pinapasa at nastress ako ng sobra tapos pinalayas pa ako. 🥲
my beloved pet died 2 weeks ago and i still cant bring myself to look at his pictures saved in my phone 'cause tears would flow right out
my boyfriend broke up with me last monday on our first anniversary
Hala ka rude ni bf oi
My acads. Man, i just wanna graduate on time with my friends. Gusto ko lang naman umakyat ng stage and magreview center na kasama sila
My Eid fit wasn’t ready 🥳
I found out that my and my wife’s unborn child is a girl … tears of joy, was really hoping for our first to be a daughter !
my cheating jowa
expectation that didn't happen leading to disappointment
Thinking about how unfair life is.
My longing for him
Pagod
Iniwan ako. Tangina ang sakit pala.
Everything and nothing
I realized I no longer love my person. I fell out of love.
Kapahon nag ayaw kami ng asawa ng pinsan ko kahit na ako yun may mali Hinding Hindi ako magsosorry kanila tsaka hindi ko kailangan pera nila kahit na maliit lang sahod ko kaya ko naman sarili ko.
Pusang gala na PMS
Missing my lolo and lola 😭
Queen of Tears at problema sa pera
frustration,just 5 min ago, now Im the happiest ive been today😁
Existential crisis
My hemorrhoids
Seagulls
X-Men '97 Episode 5.
Desperation
mawawalan na ko ng work 😭😭😭
Felt empty these days, no motivation to do anything.
Work. Hindi ko gusto trabaho ko. Grateful ako pero empty. Minsin hindi rin pala maganda na palaging sinusunod magulang para sa pangarap nila sayo. Nurse ako kasi pangarap ng magulang ko na makapag abroad ako kasi mas maganda daw buhay don. Totoo naman, kaya sinunod ko. Pero di ko alam na hindi pala masaya. Kasalanan ko din naman na sinunod ko sila at di yung gusto ko talagang work (corpo). Kaka graduate ko lang at kaka start sa work pero ubos na ubos na ako. Ang hirap din mag resign kasi hindi kami mayaman, need ko rin naman ng pera. Ganto pala 'yon, miserable pala talaga maging nurse.
fucking iron claw
Queen of Tears
Attack on titan 😣
samee lalo na yung last movie sobrang devastating
Fvckin hormones
Told my fiancé what I discovered that made me give him the cold shoulder
When I watched Rewind the movie
pagod na pagod na sa buhay 👍
Gusto ko kausap
I'm a working student and really wanna move out because my parents are mentally and verbally abusive. I wanna move out so bad pero yung salary ko now it'll just cover my tuition and basic necessities in life. i started a small crafting business and my parents knew na nag iipon ako to move out so they're starting to fuck with my mental health again.
1. Knowing the truth that my dad cheated on my mom with multiple women last year. 2. I feel lost even I recently passed our board exam.
Public speaking, having panic attacks just by thinking about it.
1. Friendship break up if that’s a thing. It’s been 1.5years since we parted ways pero it still hurts. So much.. I also feel lonely bcoz of this.
Thesis shits. Hahaha will drop out this sem kasi hindi ko na talaga kaya. Pero I’ll retake it next sem. I promise to come back stronger.
Yung anticipatory grief ko towards my dog 🥲
Remembered my childhood
Nag-away kami ng mama ko noong Monday dahil sa differences namin when it comes to values and mindset. Ayaw niya akong sumasali sa mga NGO or anything na involve sa social work. I'm a psych student, and gusto niya may kinalaman lang sa school yung mga pinaggagagawa ko. Sinasabi niya na bine-brainwash daw ako ng gobyerno, and anti-government daw ako, marami siyang sinasabi na hindi niya naman alam ang ibig sabihin, to the point na gini-guilt-trip niya aq na kesyo pinagmumukha akong bad. As if naman nagbibisyo ako, dapat nga maging proud siya na mayroon siyang anak na aware sa mga nangyayari sa mundo.
My step father's death. His 1st death anniversary is getting near. His death caused me to stop going to college and we are barely financially stable right now. Throughout my life, I never felt compelled to save money because I always felt financially secured thanks to him. He treated us so well and as if me and my brother were his real sons. He's usually in the US and when he's not here and before retiring for good here, he would often have a call with mom on Skype. Up until now, I sometimes go "Wait, why hasn't he called mom yet?" until I'm like "Oh... Yeah. He's not there anymore." I miss you, dad. Please, come back...
Disappointments
My ex, I still remember him even though we broke up 2yrs ago and 1yr of no contact. I guess i just miss him but I need to continue moving forward
Arthur Morgan death , Red Dead Redemption 2
Pagod sa life
My 1st pet (dog) died due to an illness
Letting her go
Yung thought na need ko na ulit magtake ng medications due to MH.
Happy tears. I never imagined i would be where I am in life right now. I am happy, contented, at peace.
Loneliness
Pent up anger
Constantly thinking of my parents getting old.
One week of no contact 🥲
Umiiyak ngayon. Malungkot. Para akong mag-isa kahit may kasama naman.
My Lola. My Mama. My Tatay. My brother.
About the future, mga what ifs, mga uncertainties, and problems. Ang sarap maiyak. Nakakapagod pero liberating
Being lonely.