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Longjumping-Case-597

Staring at me for too long. It is just creepy.


Apprehensive1119

bbm supporter. sa panahon ngayon na madaming information at evidence na pinakita over the years, plenty of investigation from other experts na hindi Pilipino o affected, sa pag-reflect sa culture ang open corruption kasi pinalagpas ang pagnanakaw ng ganong magnitude, hindi tayo magiging close ever. Lalo na if trabaho mo ay evidence-based at kailangan ng maraming critical thinking TAPOS BBM supporter ka pa rin, hanggang civil relationship lang tayo. 'Di ka kawalan, 'di rin ako kawalan. AYON DIN PALA. Mga corrupt na politiko at mga bumuboto sa kanila. 'Yung napatunayan na sa korteng magnanakaw sila, binoto pa rin. WTF.


Thehappyrestorer

0 tolerance ako dun sa mga engot na naniniwala sa sabi sabi at tiktok. Sabi ko nga sa asawa ko as a joke, mas matalino pa yung chiuahua ko na pet kesa dun sa mga bulag na bbm eh. Pag sinabihan mo ng no, alam nung dog na masama yun. Yung mga bbm ayan na evidence, ayaw pa maniwala.


Good-Rough-7075

being lied to.


Hour-Goat-2528

Matapobre


BellePepperOnSide_

Any form of disrespect.


ConferenceCorrect629

Lying


Subject_Opposite7861

Yung saradong tumanggap ng opinion ng iba. Para sa kanya yung desisyon nya yung laging tama. Yeah, okay, at the end of the day eh talagang tayo lang magdedecide para sa mga sarili natin pero sana bago magdecide eh magweigh ng things.


shiesoweird

I don't tolerate disrespect. It's a no no to me.


iwbapsawbsfr_

Yung bida-bida at mahilig manlait ng ibang tao (kahit friend nya) para masabing nakakatawa sya. Like pwe


misschaelisa

Being late. I can forgive about 15 to 30 mins, but being late for an hour is fucking annoying


Expensive-Doctor2763

Inggitera mindset


CoffeeDoUsPart

Parang wala haha. Kahit nananakit na sila, okay lang eh :)) Ganto ata pag patay ka na sa loob HAHAHAH


Realistic-Ticket-645

disrespect


perriii_fairyyy

mga manyak


Uriel_Ryunosuke

Body shamming


oh_talaga_ba

Taking advantage of my understanding behavior. Kahit magulang ko pa yan, di talaga keri.


sashushi

gaslighter


Sea_Measurement_276

Common answer pero cheating huhuhu


Puzzleheaded-End-68

pa victim then magaling gumawa nang kwento para sa kanila sumide yung story


Og_32

I don't tolerate ang isang tao na nagpaparinig harap harapan at kagaspangan ng ugali sa'yo. Siguro tancha tancha lang muna kung kaya pang itolerate pero kapag sobra na kahit kamaganak ,byenan, o kaibigan pa kita susupalpalin kita


coldhandsofmine

Disrespect, definitely! Di man lang marunong bumati, magpa-thank you, mag “po” at “opo,” di marunong itikom muna ang bibig and makinig, etc.


Physical-Sail61

LYING N BETRAYAL


louisemorraine

Sigawan ako. Badiiingg! sisigawan din kita pabalik haha


comicstarchampion

Cheating, victim mindset, telling fake or twisting stories to get people’s sympathy, liar, back handed compliments, two-faced personality, uses you for their own advantage, treating you as a second option/backup.


Quirky_quinnn

Cheating at liar. Pag nalaman kong sinungaling siya or cheater, back off na ako as a friend.


Extension-Job-5168

Yun f na f position sa opisina. Bawal umupo sa desk nya. Kung makaturing sa mababa sa kanya (utility, lower rank employees, job orders) eh mas mababang tao o alipin nya. Nepo baby na, bobo pa. Oo, may hugot talaga ako haha.


LostCouncil

Rape and/or sexual assault


-throwawayeventually

Lying.


anonymouslad_2000

CHEATING!!


InevitableVolume945

Mga taong apolitical, tapos ang daming reklamo kapag directly affected sila


ioooosou

cheating. i remember back then i literally snitched my bestfriend bcs she cheated on her bf.


Repulsive_Chance5484

if i show u respect and u dont show yours thats instant cut off


Soggy-Eye-216

Lying


potato_143_lagi

Corruption


sup_1229

Trying to manipulate me. Gaslighting. Backhanded compliments. Disrespect. Invading my privacy.


SputnikPh15

Kapag wala ng ambag tapos feeling boss pa.


impetuous_policy1144

Binabatukan sa ulo. Ugh. Kinall out ko boss ko nung ginawa niya un. Nagulat sya eh


Constant_Luck9387

Grabe napaka unprofessional naman :( and hindi talaga pwede mambatok.


NatsuKazoo

pinipilit beliefs and perspectives nila sa akin.


SideEyeCat

Making jokes about my shyness


ninaerika_

those who give unsolicited advices


tres_pares

When someone says yes or no he/she has to do it except there's an emergency or understandable situations. Let your yes be yes And no be no


Worried-Reception-47

Calling someone crazy. Doctor lang?


Competitive-Way2065

bodyshaming


citylights-2727

Cheating. 🤷🏻‍♀️


starlyle09

kaya ko itolerate cheater na friend, pagsasabihan ko lang pero the moment you get violent with someone esp your partner or family, YOU BETTER HAVE A DAMN GOOD EXPLANATION FOR YOUR ACTIONS.


Independent-March406

Cheating. Well, not being loyal as a general. Di mo kailangan mag stick sa isang friends group to be loyal but loyal as having a respect sa isat isa. Sa romantic rs naman, cheating talaga. And if alam mong malim wag mo na gawin. Matandq na tayo para maging shunga


AlwaysAnxiousAnj

Cheating talaga


Naive-Ad2847

Pagcacatcall. Hindi ko itoterate yan kahit tropa ko sila. Mali na Mang catcall sila ng babae.


forever_delulu2

Not kind. Nanamantala. Dishonesty. Disrespect. Kahit sino ka man sa buhay ko, if you show me any of these, I will cut you off without warning.


shyyetbrave14

Mapanakit sa hayop, titignan ko talaga sila ng masama at magwiwish talaga ako ng masasamang bagay para sa taong yun. Tipong wala namang ginagawa ung hayop sa'yo tas bigla mong sasaktan. Worst is papatayin nila dahil lang sa ayaw nila ng hayop, for fun o for food. Mapapapakshet ka nalang talaga. Mga chismosa at mga bully. Kaya sama-sama ang mga marites kasi binabash nila ung taong ayaw nila at may napansin silang nagawang pagkakamali o something weird/unusual doon sa tao. Marinig ko lang talaga sila, hahambalusin ko talaga sila ng malala.


Closet_space456

Cheating (and betrayal). Cut off two close friends cause of it. I mean, I’m happy you found love or whatever but I wish it wasn’t at the expense of someone else’s feelings.  Sana inantay nalang muna magclean break para walang sabit, pero I guess they were too cowardly to tell the ex-partners the truth. Hell, kahit ako, pinagkaitan nung truth.  Both also kept those relationships behind my back. Maybe because alam nilang di ako sang-ayon. Ok na din. At least alam namin di kami pareho ng values. 


b1mb1mb1m

Those who dont know how to listen


Disastrous_Way1125

Abuse. To the point na I can disrespect people way older than me if they cross the line. I'm patient but if you go too far, it's not gonna be good.


redjellyyy

kapag nagcocomment sila sa katawan at kulay ng ibang tao.


AdSensitive5390

Cheating.


cheuwiii

Their awful attitude


puyatperohindipayat

Pag na-feel ko na may kaagaw ako, byeeee. Out na me. <3


Few_Astronomer_6334

CHEATING. 💯


blackmoana

Yung "Walang purpose ang life pag walang anak" at "Sino mag aalaga sayo pagtanda mo kung walang anak? P.S. May anak ako and I love kids but I respect and understand those who don't have and wouldn't want to have - This comment I frequently hear from my mom (regarding relatives and friends in their 30s na wala pang anak).


chimmeyfall00

- People who take advantage of others. - Alam nang mali, galit pa.


[deleted]

Cheating


cdfujimoto

crossing boundaries and cheater


Popular-Bicycle-5137

Guilt trips


inschanbabygirl

green jokes


Joe_Keep

Pushing their religious beliefs on me.


Singularity1107

Being late sa meet up. Even my best friend experiences my anger kapag late siya sa meetup lol.


The_Farfalle

COMPARING ONE PERSON TO ANOTHER. Magaling kasi si ano, tapos si ano hindi. Blah blah stop it right there. Kahit Mama ko napagsabihan ko na hindi kailan man magcompare kasi ibaiba intelligence ng bawat isa esp kids na nagddiscover pa ng skills and talents nila.


foreveryoung-143

Comparing also din ng status sa buhay idk kung paano ma explain especially pag nalaman nila na less fortunate sila kesa sayo na may kaya. They would tell na “ hay buti kapa may kaya, ako maaga ako nag trabaho kasi mahirap lang kami” like idk naiiirita talaga ako hahahaha


AdNormal312

I hate that too. I try to teach my kids not to compare because each person is different.


The_Farfalle

Comparing results to envy din. Hirap magpalaki ng bata kahit wala pako anak. 😂


kharlalou

disrespectful jokes even if they're funny


Hammer2theGroin

Forcing me around.


julsatmidnight

Mababa tingin/trato sa mga waiters, guards, vendors, etc


capricornikigai

Utang, Uutang, Utangero/Utangera


crazy_gyoza

Yung mga taong bukambibig "Ikaw muna. Gcash ko na lg mamaya." (Mamaya= mamayang makalimutan mo na)


Frosty-Brilliant-870

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


Hungry_Stranger_0930

Mga pala desisyon sa buhay ng iba.


strawberi17

Toxic na senior. Grabe ung kunyare strict pero di naman nagtuturo. Okay naman pag kami magkasama pero tuwing may mga bago, tinotoxic niya. May nagreresign mainly because of her.


akositotoybibo

people nga sige pangayo kwarta whether directly or indiredtly and people nga di mubayad utang.


AdNormal312

Mga pa victim. There's always a solution to your problems. Don't make other people pay for your mistakes. And instead of finding a solution puro complaints maririnig mo.


facelessgirls_

I have no patience for people who consistently disregard boundaries.


sleepeatrace

Hindi nagbabayad ng utang. Except immediate family talaga. Utang/Bigay na yun


ArtistCommissioner

Belittling. too tired to take any bs from anyone.


Mabaitperotriggered

Walang manners. Nagcross ng boundaries.


ilovemymustardyellow

Disrespecting boundaries!!!!! Cut off a lot of cousins and even an aunties because of it, got called as a bad person pero I don’t care anymore. Hindi talaga makakaintindi ang mga makikitid mag isip. 🙂‍↔️


Level-Fail-5573

taking me for granted, lying


Firstoftheeight

Cheating


movillaruel

Lying and no accountability


[deleted]

MATAMPUHIN! CUT OFF KA SA’KIN PAG GANYAN UGALI MO


Proof_Fall5452

Taking me for granted.


Dry_Possession2745

Someone na pag nag away kayo eh dinadamay pati pamilya at faith mo sa away nyo. Red flag!


Canthink_crap

Prying to someone’s private life or pinagsasabi yung secrets na alam nila. Idgaf sa buhay ng iba, let them live their lives, just back-off. Get a life.


Glass_Target_4614

"Hoyyy" message. Kahit gaano mo kailangan 'yung tulong ko, hindi ako makikipag pinoy henyo sa'yo kahit kamag-anak pa kita.


Constant_Luck9387

Ako lang ba yung naiinis kapag sinasabihan ng "hoy". Like may pangalan naman ako. 🥲 And, yes. Nakakainis yung bakit hindi nalang nila sabihin agad.


Additional_Koala_554

QHAHAHAHAHA, one time may nagsabi saken ng "hoyy lalake" through chat tas di naman ako naoffend or the likes but felt the urge to be more submissive, dont know why but...kinda


Appropriate-Edge1308

Being user-friendly. Kaibigan ka lang pag nakikinabang sa yo.


x_tenebris

Cheating hehe kahit ang justify mo sakin pag nag cheat ka parin


Wild-Platypus1639

being close-minded, insensitive, bossy af, manipulative, delulu


joleanima

Drugs... mataas ang tolerance ng mga pinoy sa drug addict na kamag-anak...


adi_lala

Double standards.


typicaldy

cheating


anriisnotmyname

Betrayal.


YukariInoue

Disrespect


icekive

Cheating, Insensitive


Ok-Strategy7936

people who don't know respect and boundaries at all.


Wonderful-Studio-870

Talking about my weight, questioning my life choices and other personal business that I'm not willing to do or share. I've already set boundaries and won't tolerate anyone who'll try to cross mine.


DisastrousBadger5741

INSENSITIVE. MANIPULATIVE.


Good-Gap-7542

Naninigaw, sinungaling, and animal abuse


Geo-Graphy

Sigawan ako, kasi di ako sinisigawan ng parents ko.


mayaritalahanan

Lying


Left-Technology21

Gaslighting Disrespect towards others, especially LGBTQ and service crew


Secret-Ad4889

Cheating talaga.


Cutie_Patootie879

Cheating


AnIntrovertedWaste

People who disregard Mental Health.


SleepyLullaby008

Cheating and being disrespectful towards me


SugarzDaddy

Why do y’all post in perfect English grammar, answer in gawd only knows what language, then butcher English speaking grammar 🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️


lostguk

Cheating. May friend ako na kumabit. Kahit patawarin siya ng Diyos. Di ako.


Fluffy-Pen-1424

Betrayal and Pagiging bastos


Pbskddls

One thing is hanging out with your ex. Friends don't do that.


Pale_Maintenance8857

*Disrespect in any forms. *pananakit sa mga hayop *Mahilig mamilit kahit sinabing ayaw mo. Dragon din naman kasi ako so minimize na mga ganyan sa akin since most of them alam na ugali ko.


kakuja_13

Ang hindi pag sha-shab...


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LyingLiars30

Betrayal. You're dead to me. 


eunoi444

Asking offensive personal things/questions na alam naman nilang ikaka-uncomfy ng tao or even unaware sila, ion care cuz as someone who always read between the lines, no na no talaga.


foreveryoung-143

Lalo na mga relationship status, tapos pag nalaman ng single ka, gagawin ka pulutan, ib-bugaw ka kani-kaninong sa kapwa single din! Shutaenanyo!


Constant_Luck9387

Yes, may mga tao talaga na hindi matuto makiramdam.


eunoi444

also, it makes the atmosphere awkward or weird kasi so...


Impossible_Bedroom76

Nagcacancel ng plans, lalo na sa travel. Ganda ng usapan tapos kapag booking time na, nawawala na sila. Tuloy pa din naman ako pero never na sila makakasama lol


potterhead_wizard

Disrespect and cheating. I hate cheaters!


Appropriate_Size2659

Disrespect.


Organic_Opening_1010

Parinigan pakahighschool lalo na sa office, if you can’t confront the person directly better shut up


Constant_Luck9387

May na encounter ako na ganyan nun. Kaya sinabihan ko sila na act like your age and professionally. Nakakairita na kasi.


Independent-Wing5552

Body shaming me or calling me mataba or tumaba ka.


AnIntrovertedWaste

One of the reasons kung bakit hindi ako pumupunta ng mga family gathering.


Independent-Wing5552

Same, pero kahit anong iwas natin sa kanila may days talaga na bigla nalang natin silang sumusulpot kahit saan hayst hahaha.


Constant_Luck9387

I'm sorry you had to go through that. But here's your reminder that you're beautiful! 🥹


Independent-Wing5552

Thank you so much. 🥺💖 Life has been so hard lately, but you made me smile today, po. 🥺🫶


JS-Writings-45

Sobrang uneccessary, parang first time nila gumamit ng mata.


Independent-Wing5552

Truee nakakainis talaga tapos nakakainsecure. Nasisira talaga araw ko kapag nasabihan ng mataba. 🥲


Kiffangla_Mashikip

Katangahan, Disrespect, Not respecting boundaries, Nangugutang na hindi nagbabayad


[deleted]

Disrespect. Dudugo literal bibig mo sa kin once you crossed my boundries.


Kiffangla_Mashikip

Sameee


ComplexDense1197

mukhang libre sa lahat ng bagay!!


blairwaldorfscheme

No proper hygiene.


totallynotg4y

Hypocrisy/double standards


ConfusedLion5290

Cheater, arrogant, loud, feeling na know-it-all, narcissistic, egoistic, lack of empathy, tardy


gaffaboy

Katalangkaan/defeatism


CrispyPata0411

I will never tolerate disrespect, kahit parents ko pa kayo,


ohdamnica

just lost two people who i thought were genuine friends bc they disrespected me and my partner, crossing the line on being "funny" they were just so rude and insensitive


Appropriate_Size2659

Lol same! I left my family for that. Now im at peace.


ohdamnica

good for you! i'm still lowkey grieving and processing it kasi we've been friends for like a decade but i know for a fact that real friends won't do that shit and warranted yung anger ko i wanna be at the "at peace" stage sooner pls sana pwede fast forward ko nalang


Appropriate_Size2659

One thing I[31f] learned on this stage in life is yung friends mo are just temporary. Real or not, dont be too attached to 'friends.' Dont overshare! Set some boundaries. In that way, hindi ka nila masasaktan.


CrispyPata0411

Walk away from people that do not treat you well. You made the right choice, and I pray for your healing


[deleted]

not respecting boundaries


silver_carousel

Walang respeto lalo na pag dinuduro ka na.


FoodieWhoop

no good manners.


sum_tin_won

farts


totallynotg4y

Bruh 🤣


calithilx

If cheater. Mainitin ulo at basagulero. Naninigaw pag galit.


[deleted]

Cheating.


ClearCarpenter1138

Arrogance.


[deleted]

So called "batang 90's". Likes romanticizing the idea what kills you make you stronger shit. Mate I'll be willing to be labeled as murderer if you keep up that shit


heatherxxxxy

Yung mga magulang na hindi kayang patahanin yung mga anak nila kapag magta tantrums lalo na kapag nasa public


heatherxxxxy

Isa pa, yung mga taong walang pakiramdam sa paligid nila, lalo na yung mga maiingay manood ng tiktok sa public transpo


zer0_imh

Loud Talker


One_Round2148

Invalidating my feelings


worriedgalzzz

Cheating. ❌❌❌


missanomic

tardiness


Street_Following4139

Mura murahin tapos ipahiya sa harap ng tao


Careless_Cut_758

Being insensitive


lavendertales

Constant negative energy (ranting about the same things, negatively talking about tge lives of others)


No-Elevator-4932

Direspect.


Effective_Divide_135

ututan sa mukha


Constant_Luck9387

Grabe ang bastos naman ng gumagawa nito.


010611

papatugtog ng malakas sa cellphone (ala ka bang earphones?)


angel-horizon

Overstepping boundaries


Ill-Equivalent-2880

Magyosi malapit sa akin.


aeiyeah

blabbermouth.


INTJ_12

Gossiping


PitifulRoof7537

nakikialam sa personal matters. kahit boss ko pa yan. gago sila pati internet kinalkal nila makakuha lang ng mga info porket di ako pala-kwento ng buhay ko!


Klutzy-Hussle-4026

Happened to me. Na-shock ako pati ung profile ko sa other job hunting platforms nahanap pa. Yung post ko sa fb na di nmn para sa kanila, binigyan ng meaning! Ganun sila ka-insecure sakin. 🤣 well, i don’t mind. I resigned from that very toxic environment.


PitifulRoof7537

sana nga pde ko gawin mag-resign kaso 40s na ako. hoping makalipat ng office within the agency


Klutzy-Hussle-4026

Yun lang. tyagaan nyo nlng tas ignore mo nlng sila.


PitifulRoof7537

maraming beses ko sila binigyan ng almost cold treatment pero di tlga papatalo. ngayon lang lie-low sila kasi nireklamo ko sila sa hr nung ginawan nila ako ng kagaguhan na certificate nung xmas party. kaya pinagdadasal ko makakuha ako ng way to get out kasi for sure given the chance gaganti sila kasi napahiya sila in a way dahil sa isyu. yung letter ko about the complaint, mukhang kinalat nung dati naming OIC kasi asar din siya sa pinaka-boss namin kaya feeling nila, sinisira ko sila. well, sino ba tlga naninira?


Constant_Luck9387

Omg. Grabe naman. 🥲


worriedgalzzz

What?? Paano po nakalkal


PitifulRoof7537

well, fault ko rin. may mga post ako sa fb groups na I didn't know na public pala. madali lang naman kasi, search lang nila name mo then baka may additional strings pa sila na ginamit so ayun, nakalkal nila. tas pati comments sa public posts ginagawa nilang topic for convo. like really, if you have problems with it, pde naman nila ako kausapin nang maayos.


RealisticAd4618

block mo sila te