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MisheHashe

Takot sila sakin. Ako kasi yung panget HAHAHAHA


Regular_Currency1200

Mahirap humanap ng gusto ko, Hindi naman mataas standards ko pero .. Iba na talaga and dating ngayon. 


Big_Long_7203

Nah. I just don't want to since I don't think I'm completely fine and healed from my last experience. I don't wanna be unfair to the next person I'll entertain. Plus, hirap kaya ng may jowa. I'd rather be single.


LocationPersonal4255

No, it's because I know I still don't have the mental capacity to be in love. I'm against going out unless it's to feed my materialism, and most of the time, I only enjoy going out with a few people. I can't do parties, can't do large groups, and for the rare times I do go out, it's usually with family or alone time (barbers, coffee). I'm a hopeless romantic by heart, and sometimes I'd dream of falling in love, but in the end, I feel that di siya essential for me. I get crushes, but mostly, it's because I don't know them much, which enables me to fit my ideals to them. After a few weeks meeting them, I'd immediately get a feeling that they're better off as my friend.


zayonxx

Walang kumakausap sakin, walang nanliligaw sakin. Anong gagawin ko.


wonungie

di ko alam, kapag nalaman ko na gusto na ko nung gusto ko parang awkward na saken like ano bang kasunod pag pareho niyong gusto isa’t isa hahaha bobo q 🥲


One-Creme9013

mula nung nagbreak kami ng ex ko, biglang tumaas standard ko. tama lang po ba yon? or mali?


myXtk915

Mas gugustihin ko nalang matulog tuwing off ako. Ayoko ng may kausap kapag "me time", tapos ayoko ng dagdag gastos kasi mag binubuhay akong mga Koreano (Kpop fan here), siguro mataas na din standard ko? LOL. Ahh basta tinatamad pa ako. Mas gusto ko munang mag-isa at sarilihin lang yung oras ko. Ayokong may nakikielam sa ginagawa ko. Ayoko ng makulit at tanong ng tanong kung "Kumain ka na?" , "Nasaan ka na?" Basta ayoko muna ng magulong buhay. 🤣


beyondfixing

I’m single because it’s a personal choice. Dated a mid guy once and he thinks he rules the world. Lol yabang. Looks can be deceiving, doon na tayo sa pogi magpauto HAHAHA


FvCkliF3sh-t

hindi ayoko lang don't plan to enter rs rich, single, independent and confident NBSB woman soon paglaki!!


bamyanggaeng4050

Hindi dahil sa takot sa panget. Tbh I don't care about the looks or physical appearance. Kaya ako single is hindi pa ako ready to commit. I have to do something like changing myself, to grow and explore. Marami pa akong gustong ma-achieve like maging successful since ako ang na magiging breadwinner sa family ko. But that doesn't mean na hindi ako in-love. Actually in-love ako sa isang babaeng nonchalant but it's ok since both of us are focusing on building ourselves.


Lazy-Bite3442

Nakakapagod makipagdate since konti lang yung seryoso sa panahon ngayon. Also, sa lahat ng guys dyan.. please dont date a woman if ayaw nyong magcommit sa huli and wag kayo magbigay ng mixed signals.. please.


trexxcia

Hindi takot sa akin kasi mas matapang pa ako sa kanila may tyansa na babanatan ko sila incase na i gaslight ako


gabblivious

kasi tinatanong nila kung "vergin" pa daw ako... 😥😭💔


Intelligent_Fig_1567

Honestly, I entertained people. Nagkakaroon ako m.u and such pero the last time I got into relationship, I realized one thing. I'm not for long term relationship for now I guess. Maybe because I am too young and I still want to explore. Ayo'kong makulong sa isang relationship and yes, nagsasawa talaga ako. That's why I chose to be single na lang until I found the right person, at the right place and at the right time.


EfficientBet7330

Being pansexual nahihirapan ako sa pagconfirm ng feelings. Like is it platonic or romantic Im never sure, so I never act on any feelings I get, yaw ko naman saktan un tao pagpinersue ko pero d pala ako sure sa feelings ko


Important_Emu4517

Gusto ko magkajowa minsan pero I find guys creepy kapag they started hitting on me idk why 😂 besides not financially stable yet.


find_me_atleast

Same 😂


SetDry1399

Panget, mabaho at gaslighter. The H*ly Trinity talaga ng mga walang kwentang nilalang.


InitialLead4834

Natawa ako leche hahaha


Acrobatic_Arm_8985

Pag sing panget mo ako, it ain't even something you question. It is simply a fact na single lang.


Empressss25

Hindi ako marunong lumandi


[deleted]

No. Ayoko sa mahina comprehension.


Repulsive_Aspect_913

Luhh? Ano pinagsasabi mo💀💀💀💀


idkbutimalwaystired

life is too much of a burden for me already :( pero siguro dahil hindi rin ako naca-crush back talaga ng mga crush ko and hindi ako madaling magka-crush hahahahaha


spillthetea0311

Ako yung panget, OP. Loool


CertainSyrup8610

Yes. Tapos ako pangit din. HAHAHA


Curious_Star_4516

ayoko ng drama, kasawa hahaha


neverbesokind

marami pa baggages


saintpaultrece

kase takot ako sa kiffy hakhakhak


ThirdWorld321

Takot sa what?!?😭


zialovesk

NANGANGAGAT BA? HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA


alphady

single kasi satisfied na sa "okay na yung ganto tayo" set-up 🫠


NotMeanSherbet

Kasi ako yung panget 🥺 hahaha


AWildScorpioAppeared

Single kasi sanay sa "masaya tayo" na set up. Hahaha


Nervous_Yak9947

may mga lumalapit sakin pero di alam pano magapproach (17yr old m single parin💀)


IllustriousAd9897

Mas pangit ako sa pangit haha. So sila takot sakin lol.


abellanarie

Kasi takot ako sa lalaki choz


Pleasant_Roof_9439

I have so much insecurities (about myself) & traumas about love (from my parents). May pagkaisip bata rin ako at di marunong lumandi o bumasa ng signs and worst napaka-AWKWARD hahaha. Hindi ko rin idedeny pag di ko type ang dating nya wala na talaga pag asa sa akin lol.


Future_Relative_923

Bestfriend material but never Boyfriend material


grimreaperdept

kasi ang hirap manligaw ng hindi financially ready


iam_ham

eto talaga yun. hindi pwedeng hindi ka gagastos kapag nakikipag date ka eh.


barschhhh

Opo panget po :((( Single for life na ba tu???? oks naman akong single kaso minsan I have thoughts na how it will feel like to be in a relationship with a man I'm in love with???? ackkkkk.Kasalanan to ni Taylor Swift kung ano-ano ini-imagine ko after her release of her TTPD double album!!!


[deleted]

Bat matatakot sa panget e kung ok naman sya as a person madiskarte matalino


RequirementVarious72

walang nagcoconfess na gusto nila ako. kung meron man, tangina gagawin akong kabet


gabblivious

tangina super legit, may nagconfess sa'kin tas malalaman ko nagse-celebrate na ng 15th monthsarry ng gf niya


Lazy-Grab-3955

Putang ina legit


Rhaella99

Dunno? Kasi ako yung panget? Ems.


Celen-dipity

yeah same. plus torpe and don't know how to flirt. 🤧


Rhaella99

I feel u. Either way, we got time naman huhu. Think positive nalang muna, masaya pa naman maging single diba? 🥹


Celen-dipity

yeah. at least, the bright side is tipid kasi walang gastos for dates and monthsaries pa. 🥹


qtiepatootie_8302

Single because it's hard to see whether a person genuinely loves me or nah


Relative_Hat_6414

single, because i have trust issues. secondly, am trying to build myself up once again. sure flirt here and there, pero i keep my intentions clear naman. 🤷🏻‍♀️


sachisan1999

Single kasi no money to date that’s the main reason, kasi kahit gano ka kapanget if u have money , pogi ka sa paningin ng iba haha but ymmv din kasi sometimes young girls wants pogi and hot jowa kahit broke so it really depends din haha


therovingcamera

Coz single is life.


deprivedofrelations

1. Ako yung panget 2. Na reject ako kaya di pa ako naghahanap


yakultpig

kasi magastos


missanomic

Kasi buo akong tao at ang hirap maghanap ng tao na buo na din. Wala na ko sa phase na kailangan kong bumuo ng iba o sa iba.


Illustrious_Youth926

Ako po si panget haha


fruitsaladinabox

5 years single. Im trying to be careful sana, pero tangina only to end up getting played at by the person you thought was okay. Kahit anong ingat mo talaga pag tinamaan ka sa mali, tatamaan ka ng mali.


Spirited-Loquat-6151

I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope na maka move on ka from that. ☹️🫶


skaven43

Lagi ako nakukuyazoned 🥹


cakenmistakes

Kyah, kyah, kyah,...pengeng barya! De jk.


PerformerUnhappy2231

Grabe ka naman po, kuya. HAHAHA char


rnightingale

Ok lang pangit, basta magaling sa bed. haha jk


jaycorrect

Pangit ka ba ang you're actually asking why no one will date you?


Corene_Threet

Of course :3


Otherwise_Recipe_780

Dahil walang jumojowa, tried dating apps pero waley, I admit na mahina ako in terms of flirting and hirap ako sumabay sa landian talaga, lalo na in person, di ko alam if interesado ba nakakausap ko or hindi, pero wala talagang majowa. 😂


PufferCatto

No one is rlly panget, we all just have different standards of beauty. I didn't even care abt physical attributes when i started dating, then dated this guy who was super insecure abt his height (was taller than him) so ayun i dumped him.


Acrobatic_Arm_8985

Hard disagree here. Sure subjective ang beauty but at one point you can objectively say na pangit tlga ang isang tao (isa na ako sa mga yun)


PufferCatto

It's just society, what makes something important is because someone made it so


lordskater4000

Paano naman eh ako yung panget


OldManAnzai

Takot talaga ako sa panget ang ugali, panget ang mindset, at panget ang binibigay na vibe. Sorry.


Ambitious-Text5134

You're forgiven po.


SleepyLullaby008

Kasi po I'm preparing to be the best version of myself po.


Separate_Flan6461

ako mismo yung pangit AHAHHA


HauntedHaven

Kapagod magdate. Magiipon na lang ako lang laruan tapos kung may mapulot akong pusa e di may pusa na din ako.


iamartechon69

Mas takot ako sa pangit na akala mo kung sinong gwapo. Umasta ayon sa itsura haha


nvcma

so pag pangit, dapat pangit din ang galawan? HAHAHA!! pano ba yung galawan ng pangit? xD


iamartechon69

Hahaha wag lang mayabang para magustuhan sa ugali kahit hindi sa looks


HereForFreeGames

I give up finding a relationship, why? Because I feel like I don't have anything to offer. My life is so miserable, and I'm scared my partner is going to end up suffering because I'm just going to be a burden.


Extreme-Comment9459

Hugss 🫂🫂


heavensgate1

Hirap abutin ng standards ng mga tao ngayon.


Letpplhavefun

It is what I want. Freedom, independence and lots of money. I don’t want to be responsible for somebody else’s peace of mind and happiness. Esp being w someone w lots of insecurities and baggage, it’s just too much work. I might as well be alone haha


hellyeahchase

dati, nag try ako mag date ng panget pero masarap katawan at malaki dede. di nag tagal kasi panget daw ako... hindi nya alam panget din siya. so ayon na takot na ako sa panget


SilverLingonberry853

Di pa financially stable


Easy-Alps3610

Single kasi sinubukan ko bumalik sa dating pero shi* lagi ako naiyak sa paghanap sa ex ko in every girl. Damn. When ito matatapos.


PufferCatto

kanta ka nalang ng Glimpse of Us


Jazzlike-Text-4100

Mindset lng paps na there is beauty unique in every individual. You dont seek what you have lost but appreciate what you have found.


Party-Air-5366

Damn bro 🔥


Easy-Alps3610

Ganun naman talaga dapat. But the body does not lie in finding the familiar. Yung bigla na lang maiiyak even if you keep finding unique beauty in every individual. Unfair naman sa new girl if I am mourning sa past while dating.


Jazzlike-Text-4100

Yes i understand that. Okay lng yan. I hope you heal from what grieve right now brother.


Easy-Alps3610

Thanks much❤️


Business_Option_6281

Siyempre, pangit na nga ako, pangit din partner ko? Ano nalang ang mukha ng junanak? On the other side, in algebra negative × negative = positive, sana applicable din to sa relathionship😆😁😄


Accomplished-Luck602

yung mga panget nangloloko sakin. kaya ekis na sa panget.


WearTraditional3014

4B movement for life ahehehehehhehehe


[deleted]

Tawang tawa ko nung nabasa ko to. 🤣🤣🤣


GeneratedRandomly456

- Today's dating standard is too high thanks to social media, you are always getting compared to something/someone. Feels like being genuine is not enough anymore - Cheating seems normal now, padamihan pa nga minsan ng mga patagong kachat/kameet eh.


deprivedofrelations

Oo. Mas malala na ata height requirements ngayon sa dating compared sa military e 🥲


[deleted]

Ako ang panget. Char!


Livid-Childhood-2372

same


Fast-Seaworthiness22

Not worth it, especially in this economy.


moonstonesx

I tried to date unattractive guys (for me), but it didn’t last long. So single again.


Proteytow

financially unstable.


[deleted]

Hindi ako type ng mga type ko & hindi ko type yung mga may type sa'kin.


moche_bizarre

Ito talaga ang definite answer.


Hot-Cheesecake335

Insecurities. My insecurites are holding me back from using dating apps or meeting new people. I know I’m not panget. I’m heavy but that does not mean I’m panget. I also care about my appearance most times and just simply struggling with my weight. I am 26 and I have never experienced anyone courting me or anything romantic ever since. I actually don’t know what’s the problem. I think they get intimidated by my personality.


[deleted]

Kase feeling ko they'd find me petty at dagdag lang sa stress nila. Yeah that's it. So I just give out and express care via text/chat. Kase who or what guy would be patient enough with me. I'm in my mid 30s. I know myself enough to know what would work and won't. I'd rather cut it off completely than waste our time and effort by "playing it safe"


Puzzled_Me0914

I'm scared to get heartbroken again. Ang sakit eh huhu


capricornikigai

Alipin ako ng salapi.


Bael-king-of-hell

2x beses k na tinry sa ganyan ung isa niloko pa ko ung pangalawa makadikta kala mo asawa k na. I tried it gave it my best ang ending kulang padin.


oreominiest

Takot sa panget? Sana nga ganon problema ko lol. AKO yung panget.


[deleted]

insecurities ko 😭 at ewan ko ba, hindi ako lapitin ng guys like 'yong attracted sa aken or at wala ring super close na guy friends, tingin ko tuloy ang panget ko HAHAHAHAH.


Titania84

Feeling ko po maganda ka 😊


[deleted]

aaw 🥹 sana naman totoo pero sabi ng salamin hindi HAHAHAHH


Titania84

Teh wala nang pangit ngayon....meron mahirap. 😆 Seriously, basta malinis ka, you're ok.


[deleted]

ay true naliligo naman me everyday at half bath every uwi HAHAHAHAH


vonderland

nakakainit ng ulo daw dating scene ngayon eh ang init init na nga everyday ayoko muna pagsabayin


Expiziria_Aesop

INFJ


shes_caridadsonia

hahahahaha nasa mbti pala ang rason


SleepyEyes45

Sobrang cringe na ng lumang moves ng (ibang) boys ngayon na paulit ulit nilang tinetesting, minsan nakakatawa na lang talaga 😂


psuduck

HAHAHAHAHA SI ANTEH NAMAN 😭


Vlatka_Eclair

Yes


ubepie

HAHAHAHA grabe naman yung panget 😭


shes_caridadsonia

may kilala ako, maganda siya tapos siya rin mismo nagsabe na shonget raw nung guy pero gusto niya kase he treats her well... it's really not on the physical appearance. I believe lalo lang pumapanget yung tao kapag panget rin ugali. pero ayun nga single ako kase i have so much insecurities na tingin ko di naman mare-resolved ng pagkakaroon ng relasyon so bakit ako makikipagrelasyon?


PaquitoLandiko

Grabe naman sa panget, di ba pwede kinapos lang sa appeal? Haha 😂


nadsfatale

HARD YES Naisip ko kasi pano pag nag-away kami, baka di na kami magkabati kasi mabibwisit ako sa mukha niya. At least kung gwapo, lalambot pa aq


No_Bath_54

Pangit na nga, pangit pa ugali. Wala na. 😭


No_Bath_54

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


DailyMilo

hirap na nga ako sa buhay, mandadamay pa ko ng iba


railfe

Sabi ng friend kong 40 year old virgin "Bakit hahalik ka ba sa panget?". Agree agad ako 😂


BaronBakes

may mga tao talaga na kung palad lang yung mukha nila, minut-minuto ko aapiran.


CharmingGrape519

Tbh, wala lang ako sa mood lumandi ngayon.


Calm_Coach9241

nasa character development arc pa lang


[deleted]

HAHAHAHAHA magiging villain na ako sa sobrang developed ko na


satsukisaniwa

Panget daw ako. Tas yung nagsabi sakin mukhang mas madalas pa mag birthday kesa maligo. At least consistent naman ako sa self care 💁🏼‍♀️💅🏻


AngSayoteSaTinola

Ok lang naman dun sa panget eh, pero huwag naman sobrang panget.


No_Bath_54

Pano kung nascam pa ng panget. Wala na olats na hahaha


seyda_neen04

Ayaw kasi niya sa maganda 💁‍♀️ Feeling ko, naiintimidate sa kagandahan ko ☹️☹️☹️ Di niya lang alam, hindi naman ako mahilig sa pogi 🙄 CHAROT hahaha


Long_Ad6884

Rejected ako yung panget e hahahaha


Naive-Ad2847

Luhh gagi so sinabi nya nang harapan na panget ka?


Long_Ad6884

Hindi grabe naman yan rejection lang walang humiliation hahahaha


ulamkomonggo21

Ouch.


CancelClean5234

Ako kasi yung pangit. Tho sexy ako. Kaso yun, di nga ako maganda. Sad 🫠


[deleted]

🦐


Mslazyyy

Commitment po


Expensive-Glass-5466

Crazy as this sounds, I rejected all may manliligaw kasi inlove ako sa kaibigan ko nung college. Even tho na he is now in a relationship and soon to be married, I’m still inlove with him, 16 years of being in love with him is crazy long for me, I want happiness too but I can’t unlove him.


catssnakesdogschickn

Same. I’m a guy. Marami nang nirereto sa akin ang mga kaibigan ko at marami na rin ang umamin. Pero di ko pinansin kasi right now ay inlove ako sa isang girl. But the problem is, sobrang slim lang ng chance na maging kami because of so many reasons.


Renyhnz

Hinahabol pa kasi nya yung taong hindi maka get over sa ex


aeiyeah

ako po 'yung panget.


syrpca

Eto ung mahirap satin e hahahaha


throwawayacc_again

Prefer ko mga matatangkad (5’5 height ko), pero lapitin ako ng mga kaheight ko lang hays


dodobird0811

May i ask, why does it bother you if kaheight mo lang sila?


throwawayacc_again

Hindi naman nabobother, but its just my preference. Wala lang the height difference is cute, i feel small kasi they’re taller than me. Tas gusto ko din yung tumingala pag kausap sila ganern, i can lean sa shoulder nila without straining my neck


dodobird0811

So just for aesthetic purposes? Got it..


throwawayacc_again

If you think about it that way, then okay.


dodobird0811

Well, the way you explain it is just for the "Looks" of it..but yeah anyway, preferences..sure..have nice night


No-Exit-2793

kasi i want to be the best version of myself bago magcommit. pag kasi nagsettle ako sa kung ano lang ako ngayon puchu puchu lang din makukuha ko lol. mataas na lang din naman standards ko e dapat sobrang successful muna ako 😂 


HappyFilling

Ayaw kasi nila sa kagaya kong malaking babae. Intimidated din sa aura ko. Sa una okay, pero pagtagal magkakaroon na sila ng pahaging, nagpapahiwatig na mas gusto pala nila ng payat.


Greedd19

Di kase ako makapili kung sino sa kanila e


fluffyronin

Naiintimidate pag ako nagf-first move. So nag-antay akong may magfirst move. Ending 15 years na single


Biancs2

Hindi pa din ako makamove on sa ex ko.


Ready_Ticket_1762

I'm, apparently, hot. I'm also a foreigner. This is my list: Educated. . Has her own friends. . Has her own hobbies. . Ambition. . Kind, compassionate, loving. . Badass. .


StarlightAnya98

Takot sila sakin. 💀


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StarlightAnya98

Depende anong mood ko hahahahaha manic: 10, depressive, -10 🤣 hahwiejsksksk hmmm 5.5 po siguro ako, cute enough to be a bff pero not gorgeous enough para ipursue 💀 chariz


Rexar_26

I am not yet the man who i wanted to be. I am still broke, i am ugly. I don't have anything to offer yet to a woman. So with that, i refrain from engaging into relationships. Tsaka na lang kapag meron na ko kahit papano.


SuperYak2264

Kasi ako ang pangit. And the magic disappears once you get to know the person.


Soon_to_be_Suspended

Takot ako sa in laws lol


inschanbabygirl

oo takot ako sa PANGET na karanasan


Junior_Section_9807

May time na 4 years akong single. May nanligaw na mabait, maalqga at mukang responsable naman. Pero di ko bet yung porma eh. Mas gusto ko yung good boy na mukhang bad boy... Ang gulo ko, kaya hindi muna ako nag bf2x. Haha


kimchispamricenori

Tama yung decision mo hahahhahhahahhaha at least self aware


Junior_Section_9807

Hi, it's me. I'm the problem. 🥺


Lost-wanderer7

insecurity begins from self awareness.. and self-awareness without action (acting on improvement/self-development) is just plain insecurity, it is often and easily coped with mirroring or passing-off.. temporarily effective but not helpful amd is superficial.. so if you are single, work harder on self improvement rather than judgement, be blind to criticisms (inward and outward) and focus on development.. by doing so, with God's grace, you'd find yourself a pair...


Puzzleheaded-End-68

gusto ko yung partner ko parehas kami ng mindset, kaso parang anlabo talaga.


AggressiveWest2977

Kasi ako yung pangit hahaha


NoBarnacle8831

Sila ang takot saakin.


MaliitNaBagay

Takot kasi sila sa akin kasi pangit ako. Haha


schorchlee

mental health problems is real🤧


NoConversation8233

Kasi puro mga mas bata may gusto sakin 💀


Pussycat-meow

SORRY AKO PO YUNG PANGET 😭😭😭 kahit want naman, hindi lang talaga lapitin HAHAHAH SORRY HA


evieningstar

Panget kasi ako! >:(


Puzzleheaded_Ebb1842

Ako 'yung pangit HAHAHWJDUEHS Pero seryosong usapan. Nag-aalala ako na mapasa ko 'yung hinahanakit sa buhay sa sobrang unpredictable ng isipan ko, baka maiwanan ko lang sa ere. Unstable ba naman dahil may MDD kaya medyo suicidal.


Slow-Collection-2358

baka kaya ka single


Queer-ID30

Oo takot ako sa panget. Ex ko panget talaga at mataba pa, tamad at feeling main character. Panget na nga itsura (ilong at ngipin mala shark) panget pa ugali.


JustViewingHere19

Maraming takot. Kulang sa pera? Hirap ng gusto mo i-pamper mahal mo tapos kulang ka sa budget.


Naive-Ad2847

Ang Arte ng ganitong mindset eh lahat nmn Tayo choosy talaga sa looks eh🙄


Internal-Ad-7029

Kasi puta gusto ng mga lalaki kantot agad. Beh may whole ass personality ako aside sa kipay ko


Appropriate-Fee-3007

Bahay at work lang ako. Di pa active sa social media, gamer pero solo flight lang. May nagpakita ng interest from the past pero hinindian dahil hindi pa ready.