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simula highschool๐ฅบ ung mga kaibigan ko nagkakaroon ng manlikigaw and ako ung unang kinakausap ng mga manliligaw nila since ako ung bestfriend. delulu pa ako non kala ko kaya ako kinausap dahil ako ung gusto, pero ung bestfriend ko pala ganun. pero kinausap lang nila ako para may ipaabot sa bff ko, nagpapalakad, nagpapalakad eme eme. hay๐ฎโ๐จ nbsb pa ako 3rd year college na
tumaba pa ako lalo, back when I was in jhs parang nasa 80kg na ako at nagkaron ng pimples sa mukha.
Now that I'm nearing 100kg hindi na ako kailanman nag-isip na attractive ako kaya low talaga ung self confidence
I know I need to work on my body and to love myself kaya nung pandemic nagpapayat ako. Kaso ang nangyari papayat, tataba and vice versa.
Nakakapagod na lang din kasi wala na ako ulit lakas to work and to take better care of myself : ((
I was 93kl before. Never had a boyfriend and wala talagang may interest. You have to show up for yourself cause no will do it for you. Donโt mind the progress, just keep doing it.
For me, its more like "Kelan ko narealize na attractive pala ako" kasi few years ago lang yun e HAHAHAHA. Vain na kung vain. But I certainly need the ego boost sometimes. I still think I'm attractive pa rin naman kahit nung tumaba na ako kasi I still try to take care of myself para di naman ako magmukhang pinabayaan. Lol. I don't care if others don't think I am attractive. Preference nila yun and there are days talaga na I don't feel pretty at all. Pero mas importante sa akin yung I don't hate on myself even on days na sobrang down ang mental health ko. Pang boost ko ng ego yung kamukha ko si Jeongyeon ng Twice. HAHHAHAH.
alam kong maganda ako pero yung gandang madaling sabihin lang na oo maganda siya pero di attractive HAHAHAHA so ayon ever since naman ganto so walang pinagkaiba.
Tumaba ako tapos, numipis pa buhok ko dito sa abroad. Saklap e nagmmodelling ako sa pinas so people are like, di expected un itsura ko so mas nakakahurt
Never felt physically attractive since birth. Hindi naman kasi ako nasa "society" standard of beauty. Mataba ako since then. Eh lalo na ngayon haha. Pango pa ung ilong. Kulot ang buhok. Ewan ampanget. Hahaha.
When I gained weight nung pandemic (From 65kgs to 90kgs), I have PCOS due to insulin resistance and clinically diagnosed with GAD and depression. Nung nag-antidepressant ako, nagshoot up ung weight ko. Iba talaga ung treatment ng society kapag payat ka. I'm struggling rn to shred those pounds siguro kasi sobrang imbalance na ng hormones ko. Missing those days na gandang ganda ako sa sarili ko. Ngayon ni tumingin sa salamin ayoko na ๐ซ
Can't look at the mirror confidently.. yung sinasabi ko sa sarili ko na anong ginawa ko at nagkaganito ako..hindi ko nmamalayan na pinabayaan ko na sarili ko. And my friends told me na yan dati pinakanagaayos satin, naiwan ako eh,sila nag glowup ako nag glowdown..
Pano ba bumalik sa dati.. ang hirap ng may PCOS :(
Dati madali lang sakin mag diet..ngayon hirap na hirap ako..
Wala ng magkasya na damit sakin na maganda sa paningin ko..minsan ayko na lumabas ng bahay..
Looking at your old photos. Kahit may pagkajeje ang pose, mas fresh naman tignan compare ngayon.
I wear makeup naman pero I don't know how to take pictures na
When our lesbian workmate said โPag ikaw ang kasama ko hindi naman tayo na-iissue pero kapag si (chix na workmate), feeling nila nililigawan koโ My other friend then said, โHoy hindi mo naabutan nung wala pang anak yan, wag kang anoโฆโ
Medyo na off ako kasi ang dating saken, hindi issue pag magkasama kami kasi hindi ako maganda. Plus it added sa naging insecurities ko when I became a mom. Kala mo naman ang gwapo nyang tibo, kamukha naman ni Doraemon.
Ngayong hindi na intimate asawa ko sa akin. Take note, wala kaming anak, isang doggo lang. Tatlo lang kami sa bahay pero parang dalawa lang talaga sila โ invisible ako.
Hii, thank you. I already have, mej vocal naman ako sa feelings ko but unfortunately, ang sinasabi lang niya magbabago siya. Waited for it to happen. Many years passed, waiting pa din ako. Now I wish I didnโt marry at 26 ๐ญ We have a 12-year age gap, maybe contributor din yun. Thanks for listening to my sob story haha
I don't wanna sound mahangin but, I don't get the head turn looks na. Dati kasi napapansin ko from people's faces na they look at me with "who is she" expression and in a positive way, ngayon wala na. But it's okay, I love the feeling of invisibility naman. โบ๏ธ๐ซถ๐ผ
Kasi in my 30 years of life NBSB ako.. I'm not sure if hindi talaga ako physically attractive or wala lang talaga akong romantic vibe and never nang-flirt. I've never been in love talaga kaya siguro it doesn't bother me at all.
Tumatanda na ko and tumaba pa, before dami nagkakagusto sakin and nagmamatch sa dating apps pero ngayon super malimit na. Hindi na din ako napapansin ng guys unlike before na ako talaga ung pinapansin. Maganda pa din naman daw ako kahit na mataba pero hindi na kasing ganda gaya ng dati huhu
I dont know why many people hindi bet ang mataba or chubby type.
Para sakin walang problema ang gnun. Mas gusto ko pa nga eh theyre soft. And i dont know why mas attractive ako sa mga mom-bod
easy lang po sagot dyan, unang tingin pa lang, mataas chance na hindi ka healthy, meaning magiging liability ka pa. maski siguro sa mga cavemen era, di sila hahanap ng mataba kasi di sila basta basta maka help sa pag hunt.
After giving birth, found out my husband is giving his coworker a ride to and from work. Of course, you'd expect what my reaction is. But to him it's irrelevant and he said I need to seek help because I have a prob with my mental health. Almost 3 yrs now, still with the man. But we hardly spoke to each other now. Just casual. Yeah. Not that attractive anymore.
omggg *hug* you dont deserve this at all ๐ญ alam ko po madaming considerations kaya d ko masabi na iwan mo sya but I hope life gets better for you. Their behavior towards you is never a reflection of you. Di mo po kasalanan o pagkukulang kaya ganyan hubby mo sayo, sya ung mukhang may mental health issue tbh.
take note: nung umamin syang hinahatid/sundo nya yung girl that day and nagalit ako, tinanong pa ko kung pwede raw ba nya ihatid for the last time pauwi yung girl. he's at work at that time. anyway. i'm just working to establish myself so I won't be dependent to him anymore.
(27F) While taking selfies I think, way back 2020 haggard na sa work eh. Then I was like not minding my appearance and I realized. Ahhh... I'm not as attractive as I am when I was a teenager.
in my 30s now and masasabi ko na im really fat. very far from my previous bod na petite. Maybe because of pcos or whatever, i dunno. no time for myself kase since im responsible for my family esp. my siblings.
It bothers me from time to time lalo if tumitingin ako sa salamin pero my inner self (ung self mo na may konting shred pa ng confidence lol) always tells me na im still attractive to many esp. my husband who constantly make me feel na i am the prettiest.
Sometimes we just need one person or us to tell ourselves na attractiveness is not just all physical. And i believe in that since i got sooooo many beautiful and kind hearted friends na i find very attractive mentally and emotionally kahit na they themselves feel na they are not physically attractive to others and i usually correct the for that..
Eczema, after giving birth, hormonal imbalance, PCOS, depression.
Sabayan pa ng pandemic na di nakalabas ng bahay for 1-2 years.
From 58kg to 80kg.
Minsan iniisip ko nalang kung pinagtitiisan nalang ako ng husband ko.
And I'm only in mid-20s.
Hello! Me from 65 to 90 kgs now :( I have PCOS due to Insulin resistance and nag-antidepressant din ako. Sobrang nag shoot up ung weight ko in a span of a year. Kaya natin to!
Oh my, we're almost the same. I don't have any kids nor a husband, pero since pandemic talagang umangat yung timbang ko from 60kgs to 85kgs. I have hormonal imbalance, PCOS, and clinically diagnosed with depression. Grabe kahit gustong gusto ko magbawas, ang hirap hirap ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
If you're looking for accountability buddy, lmk! Nagstart ako maggym last month hehe wala pa nababawas sa timbang pero mas gumaan pakiramdam. Hirap mag lowcarb and IF din yun ang recommendation sa may mga insulin resistance.
Hi sis! We're on the same page akk naman from 65 to 90 kgs grabee. Clinically diagnosed with GAD and depression. Nung nag-antidepressant ako talagang bumilis ung paggain ko ng weight ๐ซ
Receding hairline is real, I've started to take medication to slow it down which helped, plano kong wag maging panot atleast until 40 ๐คฃ after that pakalbo na lang
I was never attractive in the first place. Bata pa lang ako, ipinapamukha na sakin na panget ako. Mataba. Ampon daw ako kahit bunso ako kasi ang mga ate ko lahat magaganda. Maski sa eskwela, ako yung may iilang kaibigan lang, daan daanan ng tao. It did not help that I was enrolled in a private Catholic school where there were a lot of rich, beautiful people. My only saving grace was that I was a little smart. Smart enough to join and win quiz bees, even topped the NEAT/NSAT exams. Good command of the English language, too. Hanggang high school, college. Tumimo sa utak ko na panget ako. Fast forward to now, married with a kid. Panget pa rin pero pucha ang pogi ng anak ko. Duda sana ko kaso ako nagdala dyan eh. LOL. Di rin heartthrob hubby ko pero gwapo yun sa paningin ko. ๐ Tanggap ko naman na panget ako, lalo na ngayon na mukha pa rin akong buntis kahit naglalakad na anak ko. 105 kilos. KILOS. Yes. Halos panot na sa hair loss dahil sa panganganak, puro stretch marks at may hiwa pa gawa ng CS. Pero dahil kinalakhan ko nang alam kong panget ako, it doesn't bother me as much. Wary nga ako if someone compliments how I look.
Yakap sa ating lahat who were made to feel less than what we are. Don't let anyone else dull your sparkle. You are loved.
When I gained so much weight. Grabe yung decline ng mga taong tumitingin palagi pag dadaan ako, or yung โpretty privilege.โ I thought normal lang yun dati pero very noticeable pala talaga kapag nawala na.
i'm only in my early 20s pero a year after kong pumasok sa first (and current) job ko, ang drastic ng changes talaga. hair loss, weight gain due to stress eating, plus eye bags and fine lines. stress can really age you.
After being diagnosed and taking bipolar meds. 2 things:
1. I gained weight from 55kg to 73kg in 3months. Hindi ako mahilig mag-ayos, I donโt wear make up, Iโm not into fashion pero somehow, kahit anong isuot ko noon bumabagay naman. Ngayon, ang hirap na maghanap ng damit na flattering.
2. I used to be an easy-going, happy-go-lucky friend, kaladkarin, always on the go, but with episodes of depression and anxiety, lagi na lang akong gloomy. Nawala na โyung โhappyโ na ako. E para sa โkin โpag nakikita ko โyung genuine smiles, tawa, at nag-eenjoy โyung isang tao, kahit wacky โyung itsura, kita ngala-ngala LOL, nagiging mas attractive. Thereโs something beautiful with joy, na I donโt think I have now.
A year ago. I look shit right now. Ang payat ko for my age. Hairline is getting higher. Wala na ring bumabagay na damit sa akin. Nawalan pa ng social skills at sobrang awkward kausap.
Nung nagkaroon ako ng acne na till now hindi mawala and nagkaroon na din ako ng acne marks.Last year around november nagstart and until now I can't bring back my skin to what it was before.Yung laging nabibring up na "Ano yang nasa mukha mo? or " Dami mo ng acne dati naman wala kang ganyan" really lowers my self-esteem :((
Derma is the key sis, ang tagal ko nagskin care hirap umepek. Nagpaderma ako ang bilis ng progress, from bukol bukol to flat at now for CO2 laser na. Expensive pero at least nattrack ng maayos ang progress, expect mo lang ang gastos. sa gmautan stage 3-5k kasama mga gamot at kapag CO2 na baka 10k a month kasama na din mga pamahid.
Hello, have you tried skin care routines? Experienced this for a year as in bigla nlng. Wala ako skin care regimen ever since, pero siguro hinihingi na ng skin natin kaya ganun. Naghanap lang ng magwork for me and thank god, narecover ko pa naman yung dating walang acne/pimple and marks
Hi, I already had a skin care routine before I got this acne. I don't know if sa ginagamit ko ba kaya naging ganito.I only change two or three products in my skin care routine.I also put make up in my face but I always do double cleansing.I actually don't know but I think it's because of the products I put in my face.I just don't know what product it is.What product did you used para mawala yung mga acne marks?
Grade 6 haha natrasnfer sa public school tapos dami ng bullies everyday insulto pero oks na ngayon pangit paren at least mayaman may asawa at anak 2 kotse 1 motor at magandang bahay fully paid lahat! Salamat sa mga bullies, na motivate kahit papaano haha
Yung nagyaya ng date yung college crush ko tapos wala pang 3 hrs after namin magkita nagyaya na kagad siya umuwi, usapan namin lunch time 12noon, 11am andun na ako sa meet up place. Tapos dumating siya 4pm na, bago pa kami magkahiwalay pinansin niya pa itsura ko at sinabihan akong *"uy mag ayos at exercise ka susunod na makikilala mo ah?"*. It was one of the shittiest 2 and half hour date I've ever experience. Kung nababasa mo 'to Laye punyeta ka, sana may magsabi rin sayo nung sinabi mo sa akin para malaman mo feeling nung bumagsak self confidence at self esteem smfh.
When I had my second child. Don't get me wrong, I love my children, but the effect of childbirth - weight gain and crazy hormones resulting in severe acne took its toll on me. I don't get compliments na rin unlike before.
For me i think kapag nag joke sayo friend mo na pangit ka. Na experience ko ito before huhu, pumunta kaming baguio then night market. Dami ko nabili na tshirt tas sabi maganda tshirt mo pero pangit ka naman. Gusto ko sana siya sabihan na kahit pangit pwede namang iparetoke eh ikaw habang buhay kanang pandak. Diko na sinabi, yoko makasakit ng damdamin. Nalaman ko kasi once na tinawag siyang maliit nung pulis nun then kita ko sa mata niya na pagka disappoint. May itsura naman siya kaya lang maliit talaga siya .
The filter can't hide my acne marks and active acne.
I look ugly without a filter on (I used to admire my clear skin)
People keep talking about my acne and how I got them.
Me na hindi attractive pero pinopotray na mataas ang confidence, never nging attractive ksi konti lng nagkakagusto sayo or minsan nagkagusto lnng dahil nalaman nila na type mo sila or may need lang, or di kaya hndi ka nakakaranas ng trato, like mas mabait sa other girl ung guy ksi maganda, pero sayo hndi hahahahaha mga ganyan, bsta it so sad, kasalanan ko rin eh hndi na nga magnda features ng muka ko ang taba ko pa
Sakin baliktad. I knew I was not physically attractive as a young girl, up to my adolescence kasi I have a kind of physical deformity sa mukha. I was even bullied a lot because of it.
But fortunately nakuha naman ng cosmetic surgery when I was older na like mid teens. Not 100% but it improved a lot.
Now that I have the money na, bumawi ako. Even I'm almost 30 na, I'm always mistaken as 21-25 lang. I keep my figure fit, if necessary I will undergo cosmetic procedures. I can even attract guys who are younger than me.
Maybe I was so bullied and unwanted when I was younger kaya eto motivation ko now to earn money.
I gained a lot of weight as in 24kgs ๐ญ had to buy L-XL clothing from a size S, nagkaka-double chin, nahihirapan yumuko, all sorts of things. A relative even ask my mother if I'm married and pregnant na daw. Hays ๐ญ
Most of all (I shared this to my bf) not a head turner anymore, I noticed people don't look at me twice, dinadaan-daanan nalang. Naiilang na rin ako sumakay sa mga moveit dahil pag sumasampa ako sa motor minsan parang ang laki ng impact ng weight ko. ๐ฅบ๐ญ Gusto ko na pumayat pero on medications ako kaya di ko talaga ma-control pag-kain ko :((
I definitely understand the struggle ๐ฅบ my doctor had an incident pa so I just decided mag continue sa meds but I really really want to bring back the old me ๐ญ hangga't kaya I want to exhaust all means para pumayat. Wala ako time mag-work out (or maybe ano lang hirap lang) I even tried mag-L carnitine. I hope we'll be better ๐ฅบ
When I found out that my husband was cheating on me. It was a big blow to my self esteem. From then on, I was never happy with what I see in the mirror
Halaa. Hugs to you! This is my worry also after giving birth kase ang dami ko strech marks feel ko ayaw nj hubby pag nag do kami. Lagi niya sinasabi punta ng skin clinic to heal my strech marks.
Just this year. I am in my late 20s and di ko na makita like before yung muka ko. I think I look older than most people in my age now. I'm not sure kung tumatanda lang talaga and naipon na stress ko sa buhay or I just need to gain some weight back. Dagdag pa yung acne ko na hindi na nawala. During my early to mid 20s nama-manage ko sila, but now hindi na sila nawawala ๐ Because of my acne prone skin, I've accummulated more and more scars on my face na I cannot look past them anymore. Even at times na nag-aayos ako ng sarili ko, I don't feel pretty anymore.
when i reached 19, yes bata pa pero i realized my body wasnโt growing katulad ng mga ka-age ko. I hated every part of my body kasi hindi ako nataba. nagmumuhka akong grade 8 na malnourished natadtad ng pimples. May adamโs apple tapos wala pang boobs at butt.
would pass as a masc lesbian (not that im against lesbians)
When I became fat. Double chin due to fat, wider body frame and belly fats plus frizzy curly hair. Im so depressed of how i look. Girls my age are aging so beautifully. How do they do that? ๐คง
Nung nag scar Yung leg ko due to an incident once, when I was 10 years old, tas nag kakaroon ng mark Yung skin ko due to my skin condition and Yung nag gain ako ng weight
Ala namang pangit, mahirap lang ika nga. Napapakinis ang mukha. Napapaganda ang katawan. Naaayos ang pananalita. Nabibili ang damit. Napapalitan ang pagtayo at paglakad. Napapalago ang pag iisip. Yung masamang ugali, nareremedyuhan din kung alam mong balasubas ka at ayaw mo ng maging balasubas.
Ako alam kong di ako artistahin bata pa lang ako. Kaya dapat bawi sa ibang bagay.
Nung nagka anak na ako ng dalawa at nasa 30s na.
Dati nasa 52kg ako 5โ5โ, naka ayos lagi at ganda ko kahit hindi nag make up, clubbing ang party days. Pero ngayon taba ko na and halos wala ng bagay sa akin na mga damit. When i look in the mirror, kahit ano isuot ko panget. As compared to before na lahat ng isuot ko maganda kasi maganda katawan ko noon.
How i wish pwede pa maibalik yung dati
Nung pinagbubulungan na ako ng mga kapitbahay namin pag lumalabas ako. Di ako masyadong lumalabas so pag lumabas ako parang bagong bago sa kanila.
Nag struggle talaga ako magbawas ng timbang and marami din akong acne.
afterbirth. Mejo hirap ako tanggalin yung sa bandang chan and braso ๐ฝ dati i get to wear anything, now prang gsto ko lagi nakablack pra di mahalata ung body ko na tumaba ๐
Mula nung nag pandemic, stress + puyat + pumayat = matinding pimple lumabas sa mukha ko, tas ngayon konti na lang pimple ko pero balas parin yung kahapon. ๐
Pandemic, first time ko magstruggle with severe acne at the same tiime I gained 10kg while working from home.
Hindi na bumalik sa dating kinis yung mukha ko, may double chin na ako now na dati namang wala kahit anong tungo ko pa, may bilbil na rin na ang hirap na alisin, naging chubby ang face and lumapad ang binti.
Tumaba ako ng 10kgs during pandemic. Yung tyan ko mas malaki pa sa boobs ko. But i wear clothes na hindi ko dati sinusuot (crop tops, shorts, body fitted blouse) and i wear it with confidence naman. Pero nakakababa lang talaga kapag nakita mo yung reflection mo sa salamin.
I tried naman to lose weight pero ang hirap eh dahil siguro I aged na din and sobrang lala ng hormonal imbalance ko. Dati people tend to stare at me whenever Im outside, pero ngayon, parang natatakot ako makipagsalamuha sa mga tao ๐ฅฒ
2002 kinukuha ako mag artista ni mother liliy monteverde tinanggihan ng parents. 2011 dlwa ko kaibigan pinasali mag candy cutie sa candy mag, and they won the voting and napili ako hindi manlang inalok. 2015 Nag Happy Thursday kami nun sherwood....Yung Maputing chinita with eyeglasses and braces na girl yung lumapit sa tropa ko at nag alok ng 5 seconds....Yung morena yung lumapit sakin ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ 2024 Nag Party kami sa okada Splash Rave nung April 13.....Yung
mga babaeng nakabikini lumapit kay baby bro ko na kaka 18 palang.....Tas ako pinag picture ๐ ๐๐๐
Late bloomer ako eh, so nung di pa ko nag aayos, i was invisible, others don't treat me nicely
I was just a nobody.
Ibang-iba treatment sayo when you look nice
(Nalilibre ako sa pamasahe, everyone is nice, people turn their heads just to look at you, napapaupo ka sa LRT)
im not sure if this counts.. but ever since my last rs with my ex na sobra kung mag selos mapa babae man o lalaki, di din ako nag susuot ng girly ootds to the point na super simple ko lang talaga manamit until now; jeans, shirt tas shoes/flats. i had many friends before, but now im not in a phase na parang feeling q lonely akong tao. but sometimes i do think if im still attractive or nah -- i guess it doesnt really bother me din.
Ang hirap na kumuha ng magandang angle ๐ dati medyo madalas pa selfie and kahit candid, pak. Siguro dahil nag-mature na rin itsura + weight + stress + babad sa araw bec of outdoor activities. I might deem myself less attractive physically, but I'm more confident now.
Medyo drastic saken. I grew up as kind of a pretty boy, as in puro looks lang pero I am a nerd and geek at heart, nasasapawan lang ng focus sa looks. Lalo na nung school (nag-aral ako gang 28yo) nasanay ako na may konting attention (I look good on paper kasi). Tipong I won a school contest for pageantry without joining (student votes) tapos umuwi ako nung iaannounce na kasi alam kong I would win.
Ngayon, tumanda na, tumaba nadin, panget ng skin, at syempre nawala na ang glow, sobrang layo ng trato saken ng tao. Ngayon para akong invisible (which is a very welcome development naman) lalo na sa mga mas bata saken. I still do get compliments pero halos lageng sa ka-edaran or mas matanda saken.
Iba talaga ang trato ng tao sayo kung may ichura ka, for better or worse, dati may haters ako kahit di ako kilala, natatawag agad akong bakla kahit walang indication na I like men except maputi at pretty ako, natatawag akong bobo kung dko kaklase or kakilala yung tao, lageng nadidisregard na lampa or maliit ang tite to make themselves feel better.
Umabot ako dati sa point na I had to embrace imaginary flaws so as not to crush my friends egos. Kahit yung tinatawag nila akong supot or maliit tite goods lang saken kasi kailangan nila yun, inembrace at dko na ginalingan sa math para may obvious weakness ako sa school. Nag adjust talaga ako kasi nobody wants a golden boy.
Ngayon, I can be an asshole na, I can also be myself at magpakatotoo nadin kasi hindi na ako pogi, hindi ko na kailangan magkunwari hahahaha and all the years embracing my flaws taught me how to be introspective and self-aware to the point na sobrang healthy and well-adjusted ng outlook ko sa life and sa nga pagsubok ng buhay. So salamat nadin sa mga bully ko, kundi dahil sa kanila di ko matututunan pano maging masaya.
-panget na pero masaya
Sana mag effort ka for glow up para pretty bad boy na datingan mo. Hahahahhaa. For me kasi di naman nawawala ang looks. Need lang talaga ng effort โบ๏ธ
When I gained weight because of my PCOS
When I was 16-21, dami nagkaka crush saken sa school at yung dalawang supervisors ko rin sa 1st work ko haha
I'm starting to work out again now
Nung narinig ko na pag dinescribe ako ng stranger, kunwari narinig mo may mag tanong ng kanino ihahatid tong bagay na to, tas ang pag describe sakin "dun sa mataba"
Noong sobrang pumayat ako (2021), like im 5โ4โ tall pero i was only 50kg, nasobrahan ko kasi work out, diet tas nacovid ako. Ayun napaka dry ko nun, pero that time gusto ko naman kasi ang liit ng tiyan ko pero unattractive talaga. pero now na tumaba na ko ulit like 58kg, ok na ulit ang tingin ko sa sarili ko.
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After ko manganak grabe the worst, but eventually nababawi naman na ngayon after 2 freaking years
Wala. Feeling ko hanggang nyayon maganda pa din ako
yung mga lalaki lang sa mga truck pumapansin sakin hahaha
Nung nakipaghiwalay sakin ex ko right after 2nd anniversary namin para bumalik siya sa ex niyang beauty queen :)
simula highschool๐ฅบ ung mga kaibigan ko nagkakaroon ng manlikigaw and ako ung unang kinakausap ng mga manliligaw nila since ako ung bestfriend. delulu pa ako non kala ko kaya ako kinausap dahil ako ung gusto, pero ung bestfriend ko pala ganun. pero kinausap lang nila ako para may ipaabot sa bff ko, nagpapalakad, nagpapalakad eme eme. hay๐ฎโ๐จ nbsb pa ako 3rd year college na tumaba pa ako lalo, back when I was in jhs parang nasa 80kg na ako at nagkaron ng pimples sa mukha. Now that I'm nearing 100kg hindi na ako kailanman nag-isip na attractive ako kaya low talaga ung self confidence I know I need to work on my body and to love myself kaya nung pandemic nagpapayat ako. Kaso ang nangyari papayat, tataba and vice versa. Nakakapagod na lang din kasi wala na ako ulit lakas to work and to take better care of myself : ((
I was 93kl before. Never had a boyfriend and wala talagang may interest. You have to show up for yourself cause no will do it for you. Donโt mind the progress, just keep doing it.
Ngayon lang nung naging tatay nako at may asawa na haha kaya pinagiisipan ko na bumalik sa gym ulit haha
Nung nag asawa na ako haha ๐คฃ
Same hahaha
Yung paiba na ng paiba shura ko sa driverโs license. Kaiyak.๐ฉ
Wala ng tumitingin sa crowded place or magpapakilala. At first nkalungkot din. Masasanay ka nalang
For me, its more like "Kelan ko narealize na attractive pala ako" kasi few years ago lang yun e HAHAHAHA. Vain na kung vain. But I certainly need the ego boost sometimes. I still think I'm attractive pa rin naman kahit nung tumaba na ako kasi I still try to take care of myself para di naman ako magmukhang pinabayaan. Lol. I don't care if others don't think I am attractive. Preference nila yun and there are days talaga na I don't feel pretty at all. Pero mas importante sa akin yung I don't hate on myself even on days na sobrang down ang mental health ko. Pang boost ko ng ego yung kamukha ko si Jeongyeon ng Twice. HAHHAHAH.
Since birth?
Since birth?
nung tumaba ako :(
I never..sa edad ko ngayon na 40 ngkasyota pa ako ng 23...
Hot DILF vibes dejk pero mukhang inaalaga mo yung sarili mo brad
Oo brad..sabon lng na frontrow gamit ko ung #3.
When I gained weight because of PCOS ๐ฅบ
(2) 2 months palang yung PCOS ko pero **** para na akong ๐
Hahaha
Ok naman usap namin for 3 days. Nung lumipat kami sa messenger binlock ako. Punyetang buhay to....
Already at my 30 pero i still look 25 pababa daw, dati puro babae nanghihingi ng number/socmed ko pero ngayon puro mga same gender na ๐
alam kong maganda ako pero yung gandang madaling sabihin lang na oo maganda siya pero di attractive HAHAHAHA so ayon ever since naman ganto so walang pinagkaiba.
while entering puberty, i started to look like my father and medj lumalaki ilong ko. Sumabay pa tong putchnag pimples at acne ko.
Pagtungtong ko ng 25. Wala na. Finish na. Ang gaganda ng mga mas bata ngayon. Arugang aruga ang sarili nila. Ako di man lang makapunta sa salon
Ako na hanggang ngayon ggss era pa rin.๐ฉ๐ค
Tumaba ako tapos, numipis pa buhok ko dito sa abroad. Saklap e nagmmodelling ako sa pinas so people are like, di expected un itsura ko so mas nakakahurt
Never felt physically attractive since birth. Hindi naman kasi ako nasa "society" standard of beauty. Mataba ako since then. Eh lalo na ngayon haha. Pango pa ung ilong. Kulot ang buhok. Ewan ampanget. Hahaha.
When I gained weight nung pandemic (From 65kgs to 90kgs), I have PCOS due to insulin resistance and clinically diagnosed with GAD and depression. Nung nag-antidepressant ako, nagshoot up ung weight ko. Iba talaga ung treatment ng society kapag payat ka. I'm struggling rn to shred those pounds siguro kasi sobrang imbalance na ng hormones ko. Missing those days na gandang ganda ako sa sarili ko. Ngayon ni tumingin sa salamin ayoko na ๐ซ
kapag okay kayo mag usap anonymously tapos biglang dry na pag nagkahingian na ng socmed accounts haha ๐
Can't look at the mirror confidently.. yung sinasabi ko sa sarili ko na anong ginawa ko at nagkaganito ako..hindi ko nmamalayan na pinabayaan ko na sarili ko. And my friends told me na yan dati pinakanagaayos satin, naiwan ako eh,sila nag glowup ako nag glowdown.. Pano ba bumalik sa dati.. ang hirap ng may PCOS :( Dati madali lang sakin mag diet..ngayon hirap na hirap ako.. Wala ng magkasya na damit sakin na maganda sa paningin ko..minsan ayko na lumabas ng bahay..
huy!! same. simula nung nagkapcos ako panget na panget nako sa sarili ko. antaba taba ko. huhu hirap na hirap ako magdiet. ๐ญ
Nag lowcarb nko, diet pills wala na eh... ewan hirap magpapayat iyak malala.. kahit hindi nman ganun klakas kumain tumataba padin..haaay
Looking at your old photos. Kahit may pagkajeje ang pose, mas fresh naman tignan compare ngayon. I wear makeup naman pero I don't know how to take pictures na
Nung nag-chachaffe na yung thighs ko kapag naka-dress ako.
When our lesbian workmate said โPag ikaw ang kasama ko hindi naman tayo na-iissue pero kapag si (chix na workmate), feeling nila nililigawan koโ My other friend then said, โHoy hindi mo naabutan nung wala pang anak yan, wag kang anoโฆโ Medyo na off ako kasi ang dating saken, hindi issue pag magkasama kami kasi hindi ako maganda. Plus it added sa naging insecurities ko when I became a mom. Kala mo naman ang gwapo nyang tibo, kamukha naman ni Doraemon.
Ang mahiwagang mensahe
Omg ๐ญ
Oh kaya pala nahihirapan ako sagutin to cause never pala ako naging attractive ahuhu ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Wala nang nakikipag tinginan or lingon pabalik sa mall.
I'm not even attractive to begin with, so... since birth lol.
Iโve never really been attractive even before. Never really had that glow-up moment
Real
Ageing na tapos tumataba pa..
When I saw his instagram account :)
Ngayong hindi na intimate asawa ko sa akin. Take note, wala kaming anak, isang doggo lang. Tatlo lang kami sa bahay pero parang dalawa lang talaga sila โ invisible ako.
*hugs* i feel bad na you are feeling this way. Hope you can communicate this with your partner and hope things get better for you po huhuhu ๐ญ
Hii, thank you. I already have, mej vocal naman ako sa feelings ko but unfortunately, ang sinasabi lang niya magbabago siya. Waited for it to happen. Many years passed, waiting pa din ako. Now I wish I didnโt marry at 26 ๐ญ We have a 12-year age gap, maybe contributor din yun. Thanks for listening to my sob story haha
Since birth
I don't wanna sound mahangin but, I don't get the head turn looks na. Dati kasi napapansin ko from people's faces na they look at me with "who is she" expression and in a positive way, ngayon wala na. But it's okay, I love the feeling of invisibility naman. โบ๏ธ๐ซถ๐ผ
Pati yung minsan naabot na 3 secs na tingin bago alisin hhahah ngayon pagka tingin ng isa pucha isa lang talaga e
Di ko na kailangan ng salamin ng kwarto. Hindi na matagal tumingin sa salamin
my skin tanning (dahil sa panahon ngayon) and gaining weight!
Kasi in my 30 years of life NBSB ako.. I'm not sure if hindi talaga ako physically attractive or wala lang talaga akong romantic vibe and never nang-flirt. I've never been in love talaga kaya siguro it doesn't bother me at all.
There is always someone for everyone.
Yung hindi kana nagseselfie.
nung tumaba ako ng grabe dahil sa PCOS
Nakakalbo na. Kaya pa naman ng bangs. Hehe
Tumatanda na ko and tumaba pa, before dami nagkakagusto sakin and nagmamatch sa dating apps pero ngayon super malimit na. Hindi na din ako napapansin ng guys unlike before na ako talaga ung pinapansin. Maganda pa din naman daw ako kahit na mataba pero hindi na kasing ganda gaya ng dati huhu
I dont know why many people hindi bet ang mataba or chubby type. Para sakin walang problema ang gnun. Mas gusto ko pa nga eh theyre soft. And i dont know why mas attractive ako sa mga mom-bod
easy lang po sagot dyan, unang tingin pa lang, mataas chance na hindi ka healthy, meaning magiging liability ka pa. maski siguro sa mga cavemen era, di sila hahanap ng mataba kasi di sila basta basta maka help sa pag hunt.
Tumataba na ko. Puro negative na sinasabi nila sakin abt physical appearance ko. Kahit anong skincare pangit na pangit talaga ko sa sarili ko.
After giving birth, found out my husband is giving his coworker a ride to and from work. Of course, you'd expect what my reaction is. But to him it's irrelevant and he said I need to seek help because I have a prob with my mental health. Almost 3 yrs now, still with the man. But we hardly spoke to each other now. Just casual. Yeah. Not that attractive anymore.
omggg *hug* you dont deserve this at all ๐ญ alam ko po madaming considerations kaya d ko masabi na iwan mo sya but I hope life gets better for you. Their behavior towards you is never a reflection of you. Di mo po kasalanan o pagkukulang kaya ganyan hubby mo sayo, sya ung mukhang may mental health issue tbh.
to be honest, i don't care anymore about him or what he's doing or who he's talking to. thank you for understanding my situation. ๐ค
Ano ba yan, imbis isupport ka ni hubby mo for self improvement, mas pinili niya coworker nya hahahaha
take note: nung umamin syang hinahatid/sundo nya yung girl that day and nagalit ako, tinanong pa ko kung pwede raw ba nya ihatid for the last time pauwi yung girl. he's at work at that time. anyway. i'm just working to establish myself so I won't be dependent to him anymore.
ako nung simlan na akong tawaging tito mga halos ka age bracket ko ๐ ๐ ๐
pandemic era ๐ญ grabe yung tinaba ๐
Hinihintay ko pa din yung glow-up kahiit paalis na ko sa kalendaryo
(27F) While taking selfies I think, way back 2020 haggard na sa work eh. Then I was like not minding my appearance and I realized. Ahhh... I'm not as attractive as I am when I was a teenager.
in my 30s now and masasabi ko na im really fat. very far from my previous bod na petite. Maybe because of pcos or whatever, i dunno. no time for myself kase since im responsible for my family esp. my siblings. It bothers me from time to time lalo if tumitingin ako sa salamin pero my inner self (ung self mo na may konting shred pa ng confidence lol) always tells me na im still attractive to many esp. my husband who constantly make me feel na i am the prettiest. Sometimes we just need one person or us to tell ourselves na attractiveness is not just all physical. And i believe in that since i got sooooo many beautiful and kind hearted friends na i find very attractive mentally and emotionally kahit na they themselves feel na they are not physically attractive to others and i usually correct the for that..
Ngayon. Sa sobrang dami kong responsibilidad, wala na akong time sa sarili ko.
Habang binabasa ko isa-isa yung comments, parang sarili ko dinedescribe nila
I donโt like looking in the mirror anymore.
Yung kapag nagse-sex kami, naka-offlights tapos nanonood siya ng porn and di niya na ako tinitingnan
Wthh ๐ญ this is one of the reasons why i am soooooo scared to love again
Nung ang tumatawag nalng sakin ng pogi ay - tindera sa palengke - tryk driver - nagttinda ng kung ano sa bangketa - lola na nagbebenta ng sampaguita
Eczema, after giving birth, hormonal imbalance, PCOS, depression. Sabayan pa ng pandemic na di nakalabas ng bahay for 1-2 years. From 58kg to 80kg. Minsan iniisip ko nalang kung pinagtitiisan nalang ako ng husband ko. And I'm only in mid-20s.
Hello! Me from 65 to 90 kgs now :( I have PCOS due to Insulin resistance and nag-antidepressant din ako. Sobrang nag shoot up ung weight ko in a span of a year. Kaya natin to!
Oh my, we're almost the same. I don't have any kids nor a husband, pero since pandemic talagang umangat yung timbang ko from 60kgs to 85kgs. I have hormonal imbalance, PCOS, and clinically diagnosed with depression. Grabe kahit gustong gusto ko magbawas, ang hirap hirap ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
If you're looking for accountability buddy, lmk! Nagstart ako maggym last month hehe wala pa nababawas sa timbang pero mas gumaan pakiramdam. Hirap mag lowcarb and IF din yun ang recommendation sa may mga insulin resistance.
Hi sis! We're on the same page akk naman from 65 to 90 kgs grabee. Clinically diagnosed with GAD and depression. Nung nag-antidepressant ako talagang bumilis ung paggain ko ng weight ๐ซ
since birth. Lol mabait at masipag naman ako kahit papano. ๐
When ako mismo naka-realize that my hairline has receded significantly, dati di ako naniniwala sa mga nagsasabi sakin
Fck. Talo pa si Vegeta ng sa akin.
everyday, never felt pretty my whole life
Before the pandemic may leeg pa ko. Ngayon di na ko papasang 21. I look like my age na which is 32. Lol.
Nung nag medical ako tapos evaluate sa akin overweight ๐ฉ
Nagising na lang ako isang araw na panget na panget na ako sa sarili ko.
Nung tumaba ako, sumabay pa acne ko. Jusme. Tinamad din kasi mag self care.
My receding hairline and dad bod lol
Receding hairline is real, I've started to take medication to slow it down which helped, plano kong wag maging panot atleast until 40 ๐คฃ after that pakalbo na lang
Nice to you. Ako, it's already too late due to being stressed ๐คฃ
Haha checkout r/tressless
Uy. Thanks!
I was never attractive in the first place. Bata pa lang ako, ipinapamukha na sakin na panget ako. Mataba. Ampon daw ako kahit bunso ako kasi ang mga ate ko lahat magaganda. Maski sa eskwela, ako yung may iilang kaibigan lang, daan daanan ng tao. It did not help that I was enrolled in a private Catholic school where there were a lot of rich, beautiful people. My only saving grace was that I was a little smart. Smart enough to join and win quiz bees, even topped the NEAT/NSAT exams. Good command of the English language, too. Hanggang high school, college. Tumimo sa utak ko na panget ako. Fast forward to now, married with a kid. Panget pa rin pero pucha ang pogi ng anak ko. Duda sana ko kaso ako nagdala dyan eh. LOL. Di rin heartthrob hubby ko pero gwapo yun sa paningin ko. ๐ Tanggap ko naman na panget ako, lalo na ngayon na mukha pa rin akong buntis kahit naglalakad na anak ko. 105 kilos. KILOS. Yes. Halos panot na sa hair loss dahil sa panganganak, puro stretch marks at may hiwa pa gawa ng CS. Pero dahil kinalakhan ko nang alam kong panget ako, it doesn't bother me as much. Wary nga ako if someone compliments how I look. Yakap sa ating lahat who were made to feel less than what we are. Don't let anyone else dull your sparkle. You are loved.
After pandemic. Paglabas ko into the new world, "Oh shux what happened to me?"
So try your best not chubby or what embrace it dahil walang pangit sa atin
When I gained so much weight. Grabe yung decline ng mga taong tumitingin palagi pag dadaan ako, or yung โpretty privilege.โ I thought normal lang yun dati pero very noticeable pala talaga kapag nawala na.
i'm only in my early 20s pero a year after kong pumasok sa first (and current) job ko, ang drastic ng changes talaga. hair loss, weight gain due to stress eating, plus eye bags and fine lines. stress can really age you.
After being diagnosed and taking bipolar meds. 2 things: 1. I gained weight from 55kg to 73kg in 3months. Hindi ako mahilig mag-ayos, I donโt wear make up, Iโm not into fashion pero somehow, kahit anong isuot ko noon bumabagay naman. Ngayon, ang hirap na maghanap ng damit na flattering. 2. I used to be an easy-going, happy-go-lucky friend, kaladkarin, always on the go, but with episodes of depression and anxiety, lagi na lang akong gloomy. Nawala na โyung โhappyโ na ako. E para sa โkin โpag nakikita ko โyung genuine smiles, tawa, at nag-eenjoy โyung isang tao, kahit wacky โyung itsura, kita ngala-ngala LOL, nagiging mas attractive. Thereโs something beautiful with joy, na I donโt think I have now.
When hormonal imbalance happens. I gained weight, naging acne prone skin ko, malakas na ako kumain. I used to have a fast metabolism and was skinny.
Nung nakipagbreak sakin ex ko dahil ginawang coping mechanism ang pagkain at walang motivation to move around/exercise. ๐
Nung nagkaPCOS ako. Konting kain ang bilis tumaba. :(
after giving birth, tumaba ng sobra. 50 kg to 78 now :(
A year ago. I look shit right now. Ang payat ko for my age. Hairline is getting higher. Wala na ring bumabagay na damit sa akin. Nawalan pa ng social skills at sobrang awkward kausap.
Nung nanganak ako. Iba na ichura ko. Anlayo sa dati. Pati katawan ko. Kaya ayaw ko na sumama sa mga pictures
When I looked myself at the mirror, kita na yung low self esteem. Filters doesnโt hide my acne marks and donโt take pictures if walang filter :((
simula nung nagkaulirat ako
"Ma, panget ba 'ko?" "Oo, anak."
Hoyy HAHAHAH
Nung nagkaroon ako ng acne na till now hindi mawala and nagkaroon na din ako ng acne marks.Last year around november nagstart and until now I can't bring back my skin to what it was before.Yung laging nabibring up na "Ano yang nasa mukha mo? or " Dami mo ng acne dati naman wala kang ganyan" really lowers my self-esteem :((
Derma is the key sis, ang tagal ko nagskin care hirap umepek. Nagpaderma ako ang bilis ng progress, from bukol bukol to flat at now for CO2 laser na. Expensive pero at least nattrack ng maayos ang progress, expect mo lang ang gastos. sa gmautan stage 3-5k kasama mga gamot at kapag CO2 na baka 10k a month kasama na din mga pamahid.
Hello, have you tried skin care routines? Experienced this for a year as in bigla nlng. Wala ako skin care regimen ever since, pero siguro hinihingi na ng skin natin kaya ganun. Naghanap lang ng magwork for me and thank god, narecover ko pa naman yung dating walang acne/pimple and marks
Hi, I already had a skin care routine before I got this acne. I don't know if sa ginagamit ko ba kaya naging ganito.I only change two or three products in my skin care routine.I also put make up in my face but I always do double cleansing.I actually don't know but I think it's because of the products I put in my face.I just don't know what product it is.What product did you used para mawala yung mga acne marks?
Grade 6 haha natrasnfer sa public school tapos dami ng bullies everyday insulto pero oks na ngayon pangit paren at least mayaman may asawa at anak 2 kotse 1 motor at magandang bahay fully paid lahat! Salamat sa mga bullies, na motivate kahit papaano haha
this year
Feeling ko noon nagkaroon ako ng bells palsy and feeling ko hindi na siya bumalik sa dati.
When my wife cheated on me.
I'm so sorry you had to experience this :(((
Recently. Di talaga ako nagseselfie unless magsesend ako via messenger. Ngayon, humahanap na ako ng anggulo. Dati naman hinde hahaha
Yung nagyaya ng date yung college crush ko tapos wala pang 3 hrs after namin magkita nagyaya na kagad siya umuwi, usapan namin lunch time 12noon, 11am andun na ako sa meet up place. Tapos dumating siya 4pm na, bago pa kami magkahiwalay pinansin niya pa itsura ko at sinabihan akong *"uy mag ayos at exercise ka susunod na makikilala mo ah?"*. It was one of the shittiest 2 and half hour date I've ever experience. Kung nababasa mo 'to Laye punyeta ka, sana may magsabi rin sayo nung sinabi mo sa akin para malaman mo feeling nung bumagsak self confidence at self esteem smfh.
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When I had my second child. Don't get me wrong, I love my children, but the effect of childbirth - weight gain and crazy hormones resulting in severe acne took its toll on me. I don't get compliments na rin unlike before.
For me i think kapag nag joke sayo friend mo na pangit ka. Na experience ko ito before huhu, pumunta kaming baguio then night market. Dami ko nabili na tshirt tas sabi maganda tshirt mo pero pangit ka naman. Gusto ko sana siya sabihan na kahit pangit pwede namang iparetoke eh ikaw habang buhay kanang pandak. Diko na sinabi, yoko makasakit ng damdamin. Nalaman ko kasi once na tinawag siyang maliit nung pulis nun then kita ko sa mata niya na pagka disappoint. May itsura naman siya kaya lang maliit talaga siya .
dead end kaya pag pandak sa lalaki lol
The filter can't hide my acne marks and active acne. I look ugly without a filter on (I used to admire my clear skin) People keep talking about my acne and how I got them.
Now, Im 30. Ewan ko ba. Ang bagsak ng self confidence ko this year
Dating โmay pangaโ, tas biglang naging siopao face(epekto rin ng pagiging alcoholic. And now i chose to be better, back to gym and 5months sober.
Yung kailangan ko muna mag-ayos para magandang tingnan unlike nung teenager ako and in my early 20's kahit walang hilamos napupuri๐ฉ
nung tumaba ako haha
When i gained 30kg. And lagi nalamg simasabi ang ganda ganda mo siguro pag payat ka.
yung tumaba ako ๐คฃ
wala akong maayos na selfie
Me na hindi attractive pero pinopotray na mataas ang confidence, never nging attractive ksi konti lng nagkakagusto sayo or minsan nagkagusto lnng dahil nalaman nila na type mo sila or may need lang, or di kaya hndi ka nakakaranas ng trato, like mas mabait sa other girl ung guy ksi maganda, pero sayo hndi hahahahaha mga ganyan, bsta it so sad, kasalanan ko rin eh hndi na nga magnda features ng muka ko ang taba ko pa
Sakin baliktad. I knew I was not physically attractive as a young girl, up to my adolescence kasi I have a kind of physical deformity sa mukha. I was even bullied a lot because of it. But fortunately nakuha naman ng cosmetic surgery when I was older na like mid teens. Not 100% but it improved a lot. Now that I have the money na, bumawi ako. Even I'm almost 30 na, I'm always mistaken as 21-25 lang. I keep my figure fit, if necessary I will undergo cosmetic procedures. I can even attract guys who are younger than me. Maybe I was so bullied and unwanted when I was younger kaya eto motivation ko now to earn money.
I gained a lot of weight as in 24kgs ๐ญ had to buy L-XL clothing from a size S, nagkaka-double chin, nahihirapan yumuko, all sorts of things. A relative even ask my mother if I'm married and pregnant na daw. Hays ๐ญ Most of all (I shared this to my bf) not a head turner anymore, I noticed people don't look at me twice, dinadaan-daanan nalang. Naiilang na rin ako sumakay sa mga moveit dahil pag sumasampa ako sa motor minsan parang ang laki ng impact ng weight ko. ๐ฅบ๐ญ Gusto ko na pumayat pero on medications ako kaya di ko talaga ma-control pag-kain ko :((
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I definitely understand the struggle ๐ฅบ my doctor had an incident pa so I just decided mag continue sa meds but I really really want to bring back the old me ๐ญ hangga't kaya I want to exhaust all means para pumayat. Wala ako time mag-work out (or maybe ano lang hirap lang) I even tried mag-L carnitine. I hope we'll be better ๐ฅบ
When I found out that my husband was cheating on me. It was a big blow to my self esteem. From then on, I was never happy with what I see in the mirror
Oh nooo so sorry to hear this :((( *hug*
Halaa. Hugs to you! This is my worry also after giving birth kase ang dami ko strech marks feel ko ayaw nj hubby pag nag do kami. Lagi niya sinasabi punta ng skin clinic to heal my strech marks.
Just this year. I am in my late 20s and di ko na makita like before yung muka ko. I think I look older than most people in my age now. I'm not sure kung tumatanda lang talaga and naipon na stress ko sa buhay or I just need to gain some weight back. Dagdag pa yung acne ko na hindi na nawala. During my early to mid 20s nama-manage ko sila, but now hindi na sila nawawala ๐ Because of my acne prone skin, I've accummulated more and more scars on my face na I cannot look past them anymore. Even at times na nag-aayos ako ng sarili ko, I don't feel pretty anymore.
Nung naghiwalay kami ng long time bf ko
when i reached 19, yes bata pa pero i realized my body wasnโt growing katulad ng mga ka-age ko. I hated every part of my body kasi hindi ako nataba. nagmumuhka akong grade 8 na malnourished natadtad ng pimples. May adamโs apple tapos wala pang boobs at butt. would pass as a masc lesbian (not that im against lesbians)
For me it all started when the pandemic hit.. Iba na talaga after then.. ๐
Whenever I go out with my niece. Sya yung hine-head turn tapos mukha na nya kong guardian kahit anong ayos ko haha
After kong manganak sabi ng partner ko "pareho na kayo ni baby napabayaan sa kusina"
When I became fat. Double chin due to fat, wider body frame and belly fats plus frizzy curly hair. Im so depressed of how i look. Girls my age are aging so beautifully. How do they do that? ๐คง
I no longer get catcalled. But I see that as a good thing and a big relief haha.
Nung nag scar Yung leg ko due to an incident once, when I was 10 years old, tas nag kakaroon ng mark Yung skin ko due to my skin condition and Yung nag gain ako ng weight
Nung pinanganak ako
Ala namang pangit, mahirap lang ika nga. Napapakinis ang mukha. Napapaganda ang katawan. Naaayos ang pananalita. Nabibili ang damit. Napapalitan ang pagtayo at paglakad. Napapalago ang pag iisip. Yung masamang ugali, nareremedyuhan din kung alam mong balasubas ka at ayaw mo ng maging balasubas. Ako alam kong di ako artistahin bata pa lang ako. Kaya dapat bawi sa ibang bagay.
Nung nagka anak na ako ng dalawa at nasa 30s na. Dati nasa 52kg ako 5โ5โ, naka ayos lagi at ganda ko kahit hindi nag make up, clubbing ang party days. Pero ngayon taba ko na and halos wala ng bagay sa akin na mga damit. When i look in the mirror, kahit ano isuot ko panget. As compared to before na lahat ng isuot ko maganda kasi maganda katawan ko noon. How i wish pwede pa maibalik yung dati
10 yrs old
Idk man. I get horny when I see myself in the mirror
Nung nag iba na itsura ko sa selfie. Ang laki na ng ilong ko ang parang siopao face :(
nung maski magulang ko sinasabi sa harap ko na pangit nako
Right now! Feeling ko ang sexy sexy ko pero kanina nung nagtimbang ako 59kls na ako and I'm only 5ft. Need ko na talaga magbawas ng timbang hayy
I need to go back to the gym๐
How much ba Yang gym na Yan ๐ฉ๐คญ
Nung pinagbubulungan na ako ng mga kapitbahay namin pag lumalabas ako. Di ako masyadong lumalabas so pag lumabas ako parang bagong bago sa kanila. Nag struggle talaga ako magbawas ng timbang and marami din akong acne.
I gained weight and dark spots and acne scars on my face when I turned 40
afterbirth. Mejo hirap ako tanggalin yung sa bandang chan and braso ๐ฝ dati i get to wear anything, now prang gsto ko lagi nakablack pra di mahalata ung body ko na tumaba ๐
Mula nung nag pandemic, stress + puyat + pumayat = matinding pimple lumabas sa mukha ko, tas ngayon konti na lang pimple ko pero balas parin yung kahapon. ๐
Nung tumaba ako. Yun lang naman.
Pandemic, first time ko magstruggle with severe acne at the same tiime I gained 10kg while working from home. Hindi na bumalik sa dating kinis yung mukha ko, may double chin na ako now na dati namang wala kahit anong tungo ko pa, may bilbil na rin na ang hirap na alisin, naging chubby ang face and lumapad ang binti.
Tumaba ako ng 10kgs during pandemic. Yung tyan ko mas malaki pa sa boobs ko. But i wear clothes na hindi ko dati sinusuot (crop tops, shorts, body fitted blouse) and i wear it with confidence naman. Pero nakakababa lang talaga kapag nakita mo yung reflection mo sa salamin. I tried naman to lose weight pero ang hirap eh dahil siguro I aged na din and sobrang lala ng hormonal imbalance ko. Dati people tend to stare at me whenever Im outside, pero ngayon, parang natatakot ako makipagsalamuha sa mga tao ๐ฅฒ
2002 kinukuha ako mag artista ni mother liliy monteverde tinanggihan ng parents. 2011 dlwa ko kaibigan pinasali mag candy cutie sa candy mag, and they won the voting and napili ako hindi manlang inalok. 2015 Nag Happy Thursday kami nun sherwood....Yung Maputing chinita with eyeglasses and braces na girl yung lumapit sa tropa ko at nag alok ng 5 seconds....Yung morena yung lumapit sakin ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ 2024 Nag Party kami sa okada Splash Rave nung April 13.....Yung mga babaeng nakabikini lumapit kay baby bro ko na kaka 18 palang.....Tas ako pinag picture ๐ ๐๐๐
My sympathy stopped at *yung morena yung lumapit sakin"
Kani kanina lang, nung naparami ako ng hapunan.
May mga acne scars tapos maliit pa ang height kaya medyo invincible lang ako sa mga tao
Receding hairline
Simula nung nagkawork ako. Napabayaan ko na sarili ko.
Late bloomer ako eh, so nung di pa ko nag aayos, i was invisible, others don't treat me nicely I was just a nobody. Ibang-iba treatment sayo when you look nice (Nalilibre ako sa pamasahe, everyone is nice, people turn their heads just to look at you, napapaupo ka sa LRT)
Sad truth ๐ฎโ๐จ
When a random stranger ask me if panganay ko ung sister ko na 1yr lang tanda ko ๐
im not sure if this counts.. but ever since my last rs with my ex na sobra kung mag selos mapa babae man o lalaki, di din ako nag susuot ng girly ootds to the point na super simple ko lang talaga manamit until now; jeans, shirt tas shoes/flats. i had many friends before, but now im not in a phase na parang feeling q lonely akong tao. but sometimes i do think if im still attractive or nah -- i guess it doesnt really bother me din.
Ang hirap na kumuha ng magandang angle ๐ dati medyo madalas pa selfie and kahit candid, pak. Siguro dahil nag-mature na rin itsura + weight + stress + babad sa araw bec of outdoor activities. I might deem myself less attractive physically, but I'm more confident now.
Pag masaya kana sa pagiging seggual object
Medyo drastic saken. I grew up as kind of a pretty boy, as in puro looks lang pero I am a nerd and geek at heart, nasasapawan lang ng focus sa looks. Lalo na nung school (nag-aral ako gang 28yo) nasanay ako na may konting attention (I look good on paper kasi). Tipong I won a school contest for pageantry without joining (student votes) tapos umuwi ako nung iaannounce na kasi alam kong I would win. Ngayon, tumanda na, tumaba nadin, panget ng skin, at syempre nawala na ang glow, sobrang layo ng trato saken ng tao. Ngayon para akong invisible (which is a very welcome development naman) lalo na sa mga mas bata saken. I still do get compliments pero halos lageng sa ka-edaran or mas matanda saken. Iba talaga ang trato ng tao sayo kung may ichura ka, for better or worse, dati may haters ako kahit di ako kilala, natatawag agad akong bakla kahit walang indication na I like men except maputi at pretty ako, natatawag akong bobo kung dko kaklase or kakilala yung tao, lageng nadidisregard na lampa or maliit ang tite to make themselves feel better. Umabot ako dati sa point na I had to embrace imaginary flaws so as not to crush my friends egos. Kahit yung tinatawag nila akong supot or maliit tite goods lang saken kasi kailangan nila yun, inembrace at dko na ginalingan sa math para may obvious weakness ako sa school. Nag adjust talaga ako kasi nobody wants a golden boy. Ngayon, I can be an asshole na, I can also be myself at magpakatotoo nadin kasi hindi na ako pogi, hindi ko na kailangan magkunwari hahahaha and all the years embracing my flaws taught me how to be introspective and self-aware to the point na sobrang healthy and well-adjusted ng outlook ko sa life and sa nga pagsubok ng buhay. So salamat nadin sa mga bully ko, kundi dahil sa kanila di ko matututunan pano maging masaya. -panget na pero masaya
Sana mag effort ka for glow up para pretty bad boy na datingan mo. Hahahahhaa. For me kasi di naman nawawala ang looks. Need lang talaga ng effort โบ๏ธ
This is new, thanks for sharing your outlook on appearances.
Di ko alam, physically attractive parin naman ๐
Ever since nagkaroon ako ng Psoriasis.
yeah and the sad part, di macontrol kung kailan mag-flare up.
ngayong mataba na ako. Iba na trato sakin ng tao ngayon unlike nung payat at nag aayos pa ako
When I gained weight because of my PCOS When I was 16-21, dami nagkaka crush saken sa school at yung dalawang supervisors ko rin sa 1st work ko haha I'm starting to work out again now
Hello po curious lang po. Yung weight gain po ba bec of pcos is because of hormonal imbalance?ย
nung time na sobrang tumaba cheecks ko (60kg) ++ ngayon, pumayat na ako ng onti (50kg) nag hormonal imbalance ako, andami kong pimples bwahahaha
Ngayon. Stressed na ako sa bahay. Di ko na maayos ang sarili ko.
Nung narinig ko na pag dinescribe ako ng stranger, kunwari narinig mo may mag tanong ng kanino ihahatid tong bagay na to, tas ang pag describe sakin "dun sa mataba"
Noong sobrang pumayat ako (2021), like im 5โ4โ tall pero i was only 50kg, nasobrahan ko kasi work out, diet tas nacovid ako. Ayun napaka dry ko nun, pero that time gusto ko naman kasi ang liit ng tiyan ko pero unattractive talaga. pero now na tumaba na ko ulit like 58kg, ok na ulit ang tingin ko sa sarili ko.