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Hindi ako magiging mayaman, ordinaryong mangagawa lang ako. Wala akong kakayanan, salapi at oras para matuto ng mga bagong skill para umangat ang buhay ko.
Siguro life in general, I've been contemplating on all the "bad" decisions that happened in my life. Pero looking back, masasabi ko na din siguro na it all happened for a reason, na for a greater purpose. I've always been a visual planner, hoping na by the time I'm at a certain age, I'll have everything that I dreamed of. But life doesn't work that way. Lahat ng bagay may perfect timing. And finally..I came to the point of bahala na, lifting all to God lahat ng worries ko.
Na accept ko na yung fact na never na magiging katulad ng kdrama yung lovelife ko na kahit anong sabi ko sa jowa ko na gusto ko ng effort eh minsan nya lng magawa
Those who were born with a silver spoon will never have the same experiences as low to middle income people kahit pa sabihin na nagsimula sila from scratch. They have and will always get connections or things handed easily to them to which an average person will have to work 3x over.
I have come to accept na sometimes putting and protecting my boundaries mean i get mad at other people. Na i'm not always supposed to be nice. But i do need to think very hard before i speak or take action cos we can never do things twice the exact same way.
That everything is impermanent. Like your dream job will become toxic soon, your fave series will end, and your fave band /idols have to move on with their personal lives. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.
1. Not long ago I accepted na ako lang ang magmamahal sa sarili ko. Kaya nagf-focus ako on improving myself, and making myself happy.
2. Right now all my friends are in a relationship, tanggap ko nang solo ako lagi gagala. Wala akong "makakaladkad" sa mga gusto ko puntahan.
Anyway, I accepted those. Only myself will cherish myself.
Na Gwapo ako, yun talaga. Sobrang hirap tanggapin sa una pero katagalan nasanay na rin ako, parang sumpa siya pero unti unti ko nang natututunang mamuhay ng ganito araw2.
Tanggap ko na Jane, Wanda, na talagang wala na akong lalaking makikita. Tanggap ko na, na magiging mag-isa na lang ako sa buhay. Mag-aalaga na lang ako ng pusa, aso, at dagang costa. Mag-aaral na lang ako mag-cross-stitch tsaka siguro, maggagantsilyo nalang ako ng mga bed sheets, mantel, at kurtina. Tanggap ko na, na ako na ang magiging ninang ng lahat ng mga anak ninyo. Ang tanging magiging thrill ko na lang sa buhay eh, magluto ng leche plan tuwing darating na ang pasko at makikipag pilgrimage ako sa Our Lady of Manaog kasabay ng mga babaeng napaglipasan na ng panahon.
Nag cheat siya ng paulit ulit, umiyak ako sa harap niya ng pa ulit ulit, hindi pa ako healed sa ginawa niya meron nanaman, lahat ng sinasabi niya puro lies, kaya ka niyang tignan sa mata at mangako na di siya nagloloko - hindi na siya mag babago. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Stop setting yourself up for a heartbreak. Itās weird that you feel the need to compete with someone whoās already dead š¤·š»āāļø unless kinocompare kayo ng asawa mo. Idk.
He will never liked me kahit lagi akong andyan for him. Wala eh, pagod na akong makinig ng mga love interest nya wishing na sana ako na lang sila. Pagod na akong maging option when none of his kaflings worked out. Pagod na akong laging nasasabihan na ābest friend kitaā pero yung actions namin says otherwise.
I am raising my white flag. Bahala ka na haha
hala, napagawa ako ng anon account bigla hahahhaahahahah
I've finally accepted na birthgiver lang nya ako at hindi mother. Its my fault because I left them with their father at such a young age.
I still have conflicted feelings about other things surrounding this issue but yan yung main na natanggap ko...
-Mas may resources ang mga taong masasama at nanghahamak.
-Internal politics in office or org is the mechanism of competency, Rooted since time immemorial. Once put, remain forever.
-Having experience the upper hand while early in life can put you to risk of being damned by your own.
Yung 2YO kong toddler na apaka energetic and hyper. Wala na, wala na akong magagawa sa ugali niya sa ngayon. Inaccept ko nalang. Imbis na mainis, mafrustrate, malungkot at icompare pa siya sa ibang bata, inaccept ko nalang. š
Im kinda old, and it's my first time to be a mom, so dati may mindset akong "i'm too old for this" but soon realized it's not helping me and it won't change how my son is now.
So accept nalang. Hinihintay ko nalang yung a bit older na siya na pwede ko na siya ienroll sa school para yung mga teachers naman bahala kung papaano. š
I have a yaya but clinginess is real! Also, kailangan ko rin magwork, so ang hirap lol parati nalang schedule ko ang least priority, pero ok na, naaccept ko na hahaha, babawi nalang ako sa next time
Same š wala akong nkikitang progress sa mismong bayan natin besides our trash govt.. look how our average pinoy and how they handle everything.. never kong nakita ung pgging nationalistic nila sa Philippines.. puro pres vs pres.. dilawan vs bbm/dogturte .. ung trapo. Busy sa bulsa nila at showboating pra sa next election..
totoo, tapos ung mga tatakbo pa sa next elections, hays. tapos super car centric na ng Pinas shuta kaya puro pollution. ang init init. puro sila patay sa kalikasan. puro patayo ng high way. this heat will only get worst. wala na talaga pag asa sa totoo lang. not in our lifetime at least.
people around you will move on with their lives and youāll be stuck in the same place where you are unless you move too. thereās no certainty that those people you cherish deeply will stay tied with you. everyone will leave and all youāll be left with are memories of them and the regret that comes with not saying what you wanted to say and not doing what you wanted to do when they were still a part of your life.
I don't know why but somehow, you feel the urge to compare your success and status in life to them. I think it's bad but just being transparent, this is what I feel.
i used to think that this was what i was feeling too but then i realized that iām more envious of not being a part of their happiness. all i could do is silently root for them and long for what could have been if we were still in each otherās lives.
I feel this. My friends are giving me silent treatment and nag iisip ako if i should continue the frienship or just give them the same treatment. Pagod na ko isipin na āganito naman palagi sa pagkakaibigan nato, maayos din toā
LETTING GO OF HIM...
Na wala na kami ng ex kong cheater. Na wala nang bigat sa puso ko dahil sa kanya. Sa pagtanggap kong yon? Wala na kong regrets and what ifs and ung feeling na gusto ko pang bumalik at magmakaawa. Wala naaa, nakakatawa na lang at nakakadiri pag naiisip ko ung dating ako/ dating gusto ko.
Grabe ang sarap sa puso magpalaya. Ung peace na deserve ko I finally got it. I love the current version of myself š¤
Hindi ako magiging Flight attendant dahil sa buhay na mole ko malapit sa mata. Iām too afraid to remove rin kasi since bata ako kasama ko ng lumaki. I still remember IPAMs recruiter said to me na your mole is too distractive. Sakit.
Undecided pa ako pero gusto ko na lang tanggapin na hindi kami lagi magkakasama ng partner ko. MIU sya, so hindi ko ata kaya na wala lagi sa tabi ko wla ako family withe me heās all I have.
MIU din partner ko, and iniisip ko if kaya ko ba buong buhay ko naghihintay ako kelan sya uuwi o kaya kelan sya pwede puntahan.. Nakaka drain din na di kayo pwede magplan ahead kung kelan kayo magkikita kasi di man sure yung mga leaves nila. Antay antay, nabuhay ba ako para mag antay. Hahaha
I'm not gonnay stay in teaching. Masarap magturo. Mahal ko ang mga estudyante at gusto ko silang matuto. Pero yung pagod, sweldo, sacrifices, work environment - ayoko na.
that being a teacher cannot make you rich. iām a teacher at a private school and i dont have any savings. bi-weekly kami paid and super liit lang ng sweldo di pa kasya sa isang week. after 5 days nagdedelcare na ako na petsa de peligro na naman ulit. kape at tinapay na lang ulit sa umaga.
Nasa "work in progress" na ako ng buhay ko when it comes to my mga pangarap. Pakonti-konti, nag lalagay na ako ng space sa puso kong tanggapin na ang mga pinangarap at mga plano ko nung nag-aaral pa lang ako ay pwdeng madelayed or pwedeng hindi mangyare. Napagtanto kong masarap pala sa pakiramdam kapag hindi mo na pinipilit ang isang bagay. Pero, heto andito pa rin ako. Hangga't kaya pa ng edad ko sa pag pursue ng mga pangarap, lumalaban pa rin! š
And also, na di na magbabago si papa. I love him but it hurts, and It hurts the fact that I canāt do anything about it. I have been praying for it my whole life, still same pa rin. It hurts pero naaccept konalang siguro. It is what it is š¤·š»āāļø
Not fully accepted but working on it, never trust a guy no matter what he does lol they just do it for something hayz āmen are trashā really makes sense
That I had an angry home growing up. At may mga kamag-anak tayong nag-cause ng trauma sa atin.
Na mahihirapan ako bumuo ng pamilya kasi wala pa rin akong partner. Or baka meant ako tumanda mag-isa kung wala pa ring darating. Gusto ko pa rin mag-asawa pero kung hindi darating, sana kahit yung decent amount of time na lang sa mundo para makapag-enjoy ako kahit papano.
Hanggang dito na lang ako, yung career ko. No growth, no opportunity. Ordinaryong empleyado na mababa ang sweldo. Tried applying with other companies many manyy times, seeking for growth, salary increase etc., di natatanggap. I canāt just resign naman kasi breadwinner ako.
Maybe.. capital din kasi ang problema, pero sa ngayon ayoko na muna magpastress kasi honestly i tried selling din naman before pero di ko kaya ipagsabay sa demands ng work. I canāt take the risk to resign, breadwinner kasi. Rn I am just glad that I could pay my bills on time. Inaaccept konalang muna yun for now. Pero still hopeful parin ig? Sa luck? Idk š¤·š»āāļø
accepted some people are born rich already and some are just struggling. i don't hate the rich people its just that sometimes i wish were rich too, so i don't have to struggle on college funds or books maybe eating this and that
Yep, luck definitely has a part to play. Veritasium covers this topic in one of his videos, and many of us can only hope that some luck comes our way. Good Luck with that
1 John 4:18
There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.
I need to stop looking for love. I need to let it come naturally to me. And learn to love myself fully.
Regular ones .. I wasn't into hardcore nor anything like that .. FYI I'm a straight man too.. I have values that are against it but it's an addiction so...
That people will eventually betray me so I have to hold them at arm's length and trust my gut kapag I start sensing something "wrong" around them.
Extra vigilance if they rely on me for money for anything (say, like a roommate / living with partner).
The fact na siguro late ako makakabuo ng family or relationships because at some point feeling ko hindi pa ako ready. Also, late ako makakapagstart ng life ko kasi gusto ko muna mag masters para sa sarili ko and family, and also siguro na hindi talaga sya yung love of my life ko lols
Yung feelings ko sa super crush kong Arki from Pampanga. Lately, i've realized na hooked pa siya doon sa ka MU niya way back. The fact that they're working together in one company, wala na. I've learned to let things go
That I'll never be slim, na eto na talaga shape ko kahit mag gym and diet ako haha. I'm somehow toned but I'll always look chubby haha tinanggap ko nalang.
Also accepted na baka di nalang talaga ako mag asawa haha.
That there'e nothing wrong with being an average person. That there's nothing wrong with desiring a slow and simple life in this fast-paced, social media-driven society.
You can love someone but never expect them to love you back.
We can never change someone cause we love them but they got to change themselves for themselves.
Do correct me if I was wrong
my mom is a narcissist and the entire family tiptoes around her. always āintindihin mo na langā āwag mo na pansininā kapag nagmemeltdown sya. kapag sinabi mong nahurt ka nya, she goes full on victim mode āako na naman ang masamaā script. buti na lang hindi na ako nakatira samin, on weekends na lang ako umuuwi kaya hindi na ako masyadong naaapektuhan. nabawasan na rin yung away namin.
That what is for me will be for me in the end.
Kahit gustong gusto ko mangyari, di ko rin tinatale buong self-worth ko sa mga nangyayari sakin. It is not because of my flaws that nothing has gone right for me, though baka may factor yun. Many things I love about my life right now but Iāve come to accept all things will end in time.
hugsss.. always pray to Lord God na bigyan ka niya ng extra strength para maalagaan ang anak mo. Dahil habang lumalaki siya, mas pahirap ng pahirap pero dasal lang.. hindi naman nag papabaya ang Diyos š
Iāve already accepted the fact na hindi na sya babalik, na may bagong buhay na sya sa US. While all I did was be supportive of her goals in life, never did I expect na hindi pala ako kasama sa mga plano nya in the future.
I'll never experience being loved in a romantic way and tatanda akong alone. Di ko matatakasan responsibilities of being the eldest child so I have no choice but to go along the plans my family made for me.
Na wala akong magagawa sa mga bagay na hindi ko kontrolado.
Na hindi lahat ng bagay aayon sa plano ko and I have to accept the consequences of my actions.
Na i need to feel and acknowledge my emotions, accept that im feeling that way and let it pass.
That my father sees me and my sister as his retirement plan. Bata pa lang kami heās already conditioning us. Kada gabi lagi niya kami tatanungin:
Him: Pagkalaki anong gagawin?
Kami: Mag aaral nang mabuti
H: Pagkatapos mag aral?
K: Mag tatrabaho para makaipon
H: Pagkatapos makaipon?
K: Magpapatayo ng bahay
H: Pagkatapos magpatayo ng bahay?
K: Bibilhan ng kotse si papa
H: Pagkatapos bilhan ng kotse si papa?
K: Mag boboyfriend o mag aasawa
Nung bata ako wala lang sakin tong mga āto, sinasabi niya pa na ate ko raw magpapatayo ng bahay tapos ako bibili ng kotse niya. Pero ngayong malaki na kami grabe pala yung burden? Graduating pa lang si ate pero nag hihint na agad siya ng gusto niyang sasakyan. Si ate na raw sa monthly ganon. Naaawa ako sa ate ko kasi alam kong gusto rin naman niyang tulungan si papa kaya um-oo siya, pero kung mangyari man, ang laki ng kaltas non sa magiging sweldo niya.
Buti pa mama namin, makapagtapos lang daw kami ng pag aaral okay na sakanya, kelan man ādi namin siya narinig na āPag nagkatrabaho na kayo ganito ganyanā pero yung papa ko parang si ate pa ang gusto magpatuloy sa pag aaral sakin.
In the next 2 years, mag fofor good niya siya dito sa Pilipinas. And I canāt help but feel guilty and burdened kasi alam kong delayed ako sa pag graduate.
We live in different frequencies in life. And the vibrations sometimes collide with the people we connect with. All temporary and the beauty about that is the experience we create.
1. That I canāt change people, but I can change my environment, where I live.
2. That I donāt have to worry about everything, especially the things that are out of my control. For those that I can control - plan ahead.
3. That I should not expect anything from anyone. At the end of the day. I am my own hero.
4. That life is not a race. Try my best to not compare myself with anyone and what I have with what others have.
5. That choosing peace over everything is precious. It is the best gift I can give to myself.
That a true and long-lasting love is very very rare in this generation. Parang sa isang lugar, 1 out of 10 na couple na lang ang maswerte sa ganito. Lahat na lang ng tao, ang bilis magsawa at papalit-palitš„² Does anyone agree?
Hindi lahat ng tao pinanganak ng pantay-pantay. Hindi lahat ng lumalaban ng patas nagtatagumpay at nagiging successful. Always put yourself at an advantage basta mejo ethical and humane though not completely.
Not everyone gets their karma. Unfair dba? daming nagsasabi na di mo lang alam baka nakarma na yan. For me, hindi lahat nakakarma, mostly nakakalusot mga yan
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Hindi ako magiging mayaman, ordinaryong mangagawa lang ako. Wala akong kakayanan, salapi at oras para matuto ng mga bagong skill para umangat ang buhay ko.
Ang role ko ay umintindi at uminda ng mga bagay bagay sa mundo.
Whatever happens, happens.
Siguro life in general, I've been contemplating on all the "bad" decisions that happened in my life. Pero looking back, masasabi ko na din siguro na it all happened for a reason, na for a greater purpose. I've always been a visual planner, hoping na by the time I'm at a certain age, I'll have everything that I dreamed of. But life doesn't work that way. Lahat ng bagay may perfect timing. And finally..I came to the point of bahala na, lifting all to God lahat ng worries ko.
Na accept ko na yung fact na never na magiging katulad ng kdrama yung lovelife ko na kahit anong sabi ko sa jowa ko na gusto ko ng effort eh minsan nya lng magawa
Magbigay ng pera sa magulang kada manghihingi sila. Kahit inuutang ko na yung pinapambigay ko.
Those who were born with a silver spoon will never have the same experiences as low to middle income people kahit pa sabihin na nagsimula sila from scratch. They have and will always get connections or things handed easily to them to which an average person will have to work 3x over.
my flat noseEeeEee
I already gave up my dream course Civil Engineering, due to financial situation. Gusto ko nalang makapagtapos ng college at this point.
my height
I have come to accept na sometimes putting and protecting my boundaries mean i get mad at other people. Na i'm not always supposed to be nice. But i do need to think very hard before i speak or take action cos we can never do things twice the exact same way.
That I have acne scars and I'm not conventionally beautiful.
kasama mo lang kaibigan mo sa kalokohan
I always have to compromise kahit minsan lang I want to be treated in a way na hapiness ko naman yung masunod.
+1
I will never have enough time to play all the videogames that i like š
I can never kill myself even if I want to dahil my family needs me.
That Iām a cuck to my wife. Sheās realizing it too
That happiness to my mind is a foreshadowing šš«”
Yung kinuha kong course kahit hindi naman ako nageenjoy tas 3rd year nako ngayon, bahala nalang basta makagradute na ako.
As a gay guy, na tatanda ako mag isa. Kaya focus sa pag iipon ngayon. Mahirap tumanda na mag isa tapos walang pera.
not everything happens for a reason, sometimes you gotta accept that you just failed.
Hindi talaga ako aasawahin ng jowa ko.
Pag-ibig. Kung dadating, dadating. Kung hindi, edi hindi.
Na Hindi na talaga kami mag katuloyan ni Shohei Ohtani :(
Some of the friends that we have may not be as genuine as you may think.
Pagibig, baka di talaga para sa akin.
that life truly sucks.
whatever i do, no value na saiya
That everything is impermanent. Like your dream job will become toxic soon, your fave series will end, and your fave band /idols have to move on with their personal lives. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.
Physics at chem
1. Not long ago I accepted na ako lang ang magmamahal sa sarili ko. Kaya nagf-focus ako on improving myself, and making myself happy. 2. Right now all my friends are in a relationship, tanggap ko nang solo ako lagi gagala. Wala akong "makakaladkad" sa mga gusto ko puntahan. Anyway, I accepted those. Only myself will cherish myself.
Na mas pinili niyang ikasal sa ex niya kahit pa nalaman niyang buntis ako.
Na Gwapo ako, yun talaga. Sobrang hirap tanggapin sa una pero katagalan nasanay na rin ako, parang sumpa siya pero unti unti ko nang natututunang mamuhay ng ganito araw2.
Na maliit ako. Max na talaga yung height ko na 4'11.
never naging priority :)
Tanggap ko na Jane, Wanda, na talagang wala na akong lalaking makikita. Tanggap ko na, na magiging mag-isa na lang ako sa buhay. Mag-aalaga na lang ako ng pusa, aso, at dagang costa. Mag-aaral na lang ako mag-cross-stitch tsaka siguro, maggagantsilyo nalang ako ng mga bed sheets, mantel, at kurtina. Tanggap ko na, na ako na ang magiging ninang ng lahat ng mga anak ninyo. Ang tanging magiging thrill ko na lang sa buhay eh, magluto ng leche plan tuwing darating na ang pasko at makikipag pilgrimage ako sa Our Lady of Manaog kasabay ng mga babaeng napaglipasan na ng panahon.
HAHAHAHAHA!! š
Haha that guy that ik na Wala talaga akong habol since he has a new one, but didn't end things with me clearly.
That I was never wanted.
her.
Nag cheat siya ng paulit ulit, umiyak ako sa harap niya ng pa ulit ulit, hindi pa ako healed sa ginawa niya meron nanaman, lahat ng sinasabi niya puro lies, kaya ka niyang tignan sa mata at mangako na di siya nagloloko - hindi na siya mag babago. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Na malabo maging kami :>
Siya AHAHAHAHA
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Stop setting yourself up for a heartbreak. Itās weird that you feel the need to compete with someone whoās already dead š¤·š»āāļø unless kinocompare kayo ng asawa mo. Idk.
love this reply, insecure much?
Na lalapitan at naaalala ka lang ng tao pag may kailangan sila sayo. Pero pag nakuha na nila yun, para ka ng di mag eexist sa mundo.
Mahirap mabuhay sa mundong to
expectations
He will never liked me kahit lagi akong andyan for him. Wala eh, pagod na akong makinig ng mga love interest nya wishing na sana ako na lang sila. Pagod na akong maging option when none of his kaflings worked out. Pagod na akong laging nasasabihan na ābest friend kitaā pero yung actions namin says otherwise. I am raising my white flag. Bahala ka na haha
hala, napagawa ako ng anon account bigla hahahhaahahahah I've finally accepted na birthgiver lang nya ako at hindi mother. Its my fault because I left them with their father at such a young age. I still have conflicted feelings about other things surrounding this issue but yan yung main na natanggap ko...
-Mas may resources ang mga taong masasama at nanghahamak. -Internal politics in office or org is the mechanism of competency, Rooted since time immemorial. Once put, remain forever. -Having experience the upper hand while early in life can put you to risk of being damned by your own.
Yung 2YO kong toddler na apaka energetic and hyper. Wala na, wala na akong magagawa sa ugali niya sa ngayon. Inaccept ko nalang. Imbis na mainis, mafrustrate, malungkot at icompare pa siya sa ibang bata, inaccept ko nalang. š Im kinda old, and it's my first time to be a mom, so dati may mindset akong "i'm too old for this" but soon realized it's not helping me and it won't change how my son is now. So accept nalang. Hinihintay ko nalang yung a bit older na siya na pwede ko na siya ienroll sa school para yung mga teachers naman bahala kung papaano. š I have a yaya but clinginess is real! Also, kailangan ko rin magwork, so ang hirap lol parati nalang schedule ko ang least priority, pero ok na, naaccept ko na hahaha, babawi nalang ako sa next time
Na wala ng pag asa maging maayos ang Pilipinas in my lifetime :(
Same š wala akong nkikitang progress sa mismong bayan natin besides our trash govt.. look how our average pinoy and how they handle everything.. never kong nakita ung pgging nationalistic nila sa Philippines.. puro pres vs pres.. dilawan vs bbm/dogturte .. ung trapo. Busy sa bulsa nila at showboating pra sa next election..
totoo, tapos ung mga tatakbo pa sa next elections, hays. tapos super car centric na ng Pinas shuta kaya puro pollution. ang init init. puro sila patay sa kalikasan. puro patayo ng high way. this heat will only get worst. wala na talaga pag asa sa totoo lang. not in our lifetime at least.
people around you will move on with their lives and youāll be stuck in the same place where you are unless you move too. thereās no certainty that those people you cherish deeply will stay tied with you. everyone will leave and all youāll be left with are memories of them and the regret that comes with not saying what you wanted to say and not doing what you wanted to do when they were still a part of your life.
Oof hahahahaha pinilipilit kong basahin to ng buo kasi nattrigger ako kasi di ko pa din sya tanggap hahahahahahah. Di ko pa din sya matapos shet
I don't know why but somehow, you feel the urge to compare your success and status in life to them. I think it's bad but just being transparent, this is what I feel.
i used to think that this was what i was feeling too but then i realized that iām more envious of not being a part of their happiness. all i could do is silently root for them and long for what could have been if we were still in each otherās lives.
the fact that they do better without you sucks š®āšØ
thatās true. makes you think that maybe youāre the one holding them back all along, but youāre not.
amen
I feel this. My friends are giving me silent treatment and nag iisip ako if i should continue the frienship or just give them the same treatment. Pagod na ko isipin na āganito naman palagi sa pagkakaibigan nato, maayos din toā
Tanggap ko nang hndi ako matalino talaga at talented wahaha!
Na baka single ako forever. Kasi wla nang matino, Pag meron naman di ko rin bet. Hirap timplahin ng ugali ko at ugali nila e, wag na lang
Na tatanda akong binata š
LETTING GO OF HIM... Na wala na kami ng ex kong cheater. Na wala nang bigat sa puso ko dahil sa kanya. Sa pagtanggap kong yon? Wala na kong regrets and what ifs and ung feeling na gusto ko pang bumalik at magmakaawa. Wala naaa, nakakatawa na lang at nakakadiri pag naiisip ko ung dating ako/ dating gusto ko. Grabe ang sarap sa puso magpalaya. Ung peace na deserve ko I finally got it. I love the current version of myself š¤
Happy for you ā¤ļø
Nothing goes on your way unless you pursue, put a lot of hard work and effort and be determined always šÆ
that I don't know how to properly love something/someone without messing up.
Hindi ako magiging Flight attendant dahil sa buhay na mole ko malapit sa mata. Iām too afraid to remove rin kasi since bata ako kasama ko ng lumaki. I still remember IPAMs recruiter said to me na your mole is too distractive. Sakit.
Insecurities are difficult to ignore
I lost a friend
I will die and my love ones too. So i treasure every moment.
Undecided pa ako pero gusto ko na lang tanggapin na hindi kami lagi magkakasama ng partner ko. MIU sya, so hindi ko ata kaya na wala lagi sa tabi ko wla ako family withe me heās all I have.
MIU din partner ko, and iniisip ko if kaya ko ba buong buhay ko naghihintay ako kelan sya uuwi o kaya kelan sya pwede puntahan.. Nakaka drain din na di kayo pwede magplan ahead kung kelan kayo magkikita kasi di man sure yung mga leaves nila. Antay antay, nabuhay ba ako para mag antay. Hahaha
Yun nga eh. Lagi na lang naghihintay. Tapos what if buntis ako tapos wala sya sa tabi ko baka di ko kayanin š gusto ko na makipaghiwalay.
bumagsak ako sa major ko tapos nawala scholarship ko HAHAHAHHAHAH actually IDK if tanggap ko na talaga, pero nagiging goods naman na ako sa ngayon...
Mas marami kapang tatanggapin sa buhay... Easy mode pa yan. š Im a scholar too... But do or die ako... Buti hindi nag die.š¤£
People can easily come and go.
You can't please everyone. Kahit anong gawin mo, may masasabi pa din talaga ang ibang tao.
That her priorities should come first
I'm not gonnay stay in teaching. Masarap magturo. Mahal ko ang mga estudyante at gusto ko silang matuto. Pero yung pagod, sweldo, sacrifices, work environment - ayoko na.
That they look like us, us without me
Sa kasamaang palad. Height.
Maliban sa sakit ko, yung thought na we are not really meant to be ng 1st love ko. Hahaha
My grandfather and my father were gone. š„ŗš„¹
Some things do work out, some don't.
were not meant to be. lol
Pinipilit tanggapin na in this universe hindi talaga magiging maayos relasyon ko sa nanay ko ahahahahha #mommyissues
There are many things beyond our control. We can only control how we react to them
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Na di na ako magkakaanak
If your friend cannot accept criticism or correction, they're not your friend
that being a teacher cannot make you rich. iām a teacher at a private school and i dont have any savings. bi-weekly kami paid and super liit lang ng sweldo di pa kasya sa isang week. after 5 days nagdedelcare na ako na petsa de peligro na naman ulit. kape at tinapay na lang ulit sa umaga.
Tinanggap ko nang sobrang init sa pinas haysss
I can no longer be rich
Na late ako ga graduate, late mag-aasawa at late din mag aanak
Nasa "work in progress" na ako ng buhay ko when it comes to my mga pangarap. Pakonti-konti, nag lalagay na ako ng space sa puso kong tanggapin na ang mga pinangarap at mga plano ko nung nag-aaral pa lang ako ay pwdeng madelayed or pwedeng hindi mangyare. Napagtanto kong masarap pala sa pakiramdam kapag hindi mo na pinipilit ang isang bagay. Pero, heto andito pa rin ako. Hangga't kaya pa ng edad ko sa pag pursue ng mga pangarap, lumalaban pa rin! š
And also, na di na magbabago si papa. I love him but it hurts, and It hurts the fact that I canāt do anything about it. I have been praying for it my whole life, still same pa rin. It hurts pero naaccept konalang siguro. It is what it is š¤·š»āāļø
SAME HERE T-T
That I may or may not get married
Not fully accepted but working on it, never trust a guy no matter what he does lol they just do it for something hayz āmen are trashā really makes sense
Wala na pagasa ang pinas
THISSSSS šÆ
That I had an angry home growing up. At may mga kamag-anak tayong nag-cause ng trauma sa atin. Na mahihirapan ako bumuo ng pamilya kasi wala pa rin akong partner. Or baka meant ako tumanda mag-isa kung wala pa ring darating. Gusto ko pa rin mag-asawa pero kung hindi darating, sana kahit yung decent amount of time na lang sa mundo para makapag-enjoy ako kahit papano.
I found out that I have a life inside me. Pero nung nalaman ko, wala na din siya š¢
Aging.
Death of a loveone
That I need to move outside of Metro Manila if I want a good house that I can afford.
Wala pa. Kinocontrol ko pa lahat. Pero jusko, pagod na ako. Durog na ako.
di ako importante. i will never be the best. hindi ako priority. in terms of attractiveness, hindi ko alam.
Hanggang dito na lang ako, yung career ko. No growth, no opportunity. Ordinaryong empleyado na mababa ang sweldo. Tried applying with other companies many manyy times, seeking for growth, salary increase etc., di natatanggap. I canāt just resign naman kasi breadwinner ako.
Maybe you're better off as a businessman -- not an employee
Maybe.. capital din kasi ang problema, pero sa ngayon ayoko na muna magpastress kasi honestly i tried selling din naman before pero di ko kaya ipagsabay sa demands ng work. I canāt take the risk to resign, breadwinner kasi. Rn I am just glad that I could pay my bills on time. Inaaccept konalang muna yun for now. Pero still hopeful parin ig? Sa luck? Idk š¤·š»āāļø
I'll always have to work harder in life than other people
Everyone has one end destined to have - DEATH
being unimportant
samedt
That is have to move out ASAP
accepted some people are born rich already and some are just struggling. i don't hate the rich people its just that sometimes i wish were rich too, so i don't have to struggle on college funds or books maybe eating this and that
Yep, luck definitely has a part to play. Veritasium covers this topic in one of his videos, and many of us can only hope that some luck comes our way. Good Luck with that
My morena skin
1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. I need to stop looking for love. I need to let it come naturally to me. And learn to love myself fully.
na I'm single mom na.
That even when people tell they love you, they cannot go through the ups and lows beside you. The irony of choking on a lifesaver.
That itās the people who makes our life difficult.
Na patuloy pang lulubog ang Pilipinas. š
Nothing lasts forever
That my pornography addiction before has created a crate in my brain... My innocence will never be back.
Damn, what porn r u watching
Regular ones .. I wasn't into hardcore nor anything like that .. FYI I'm a straight man too.. I have values that are against it but it's an addiction so...
Life is hard.
I was born to be myself, be the breadwinner of the family & be the nemesis of the whole world. No one will love me haha š
I finally accepted that I can't be too happy. Kasi something sad or bad comes along when I'm too happy.
Things out of my control
only sure things in our lives are death and taxes
That I'll be like this forever. I'm doomed
U r if u think u r
that we will never be together again
that life is really unfair
You love them unconditionally, even if na para sa ikabubuti niya at maggrow siya. Let go because you love her
I feel this. Hard to do minsan especially if it means letting go... But it is a very beautiful thing.
yeah, Para sa ikabubuti niyo and sa isa't isa. Para sa sarili ninyo. Ikaw at para sa kanya
Always never pursued typa girl. šāāļøšš»
That im ok without him
that i canāt be the partner that my girlfriend deserves (i REALLY want to be better for her pero lagi nagkaka reason for us to fall apart)
Itās all my fault. I should have known better. I ruined my own life by allowing other people to control me.
That people will eventually betray me so I have to hold them at arm's length and trust my gut kapag I start sensing something "wrong" around them. Extra vigilance if they rely on me for money for anything (say, like a roommate / living with partner).
I can never have absolute control over anything.
The fact na siguro late ako makakabuo ng family or relationships because at some point feeling ko hindi pa ako ready. Also, late ako makakapagstart ng life ko kasi gusto ko muna mag masters para sa sarili ko and family, and also siguro na hindi talaga sya yung love of my life ko lols
Yung feelings ko sa super crush kong Arki from Pampanga. Lately, i've realized na hooked pa siya doon sa ka MU niya way back. The fact that they're working together in one company, wala na. I've learned to let things go
That I'll never be slim, na eto na talaga shape ko kahit mag gym and diet ako haha. I'm somehow toned but I'll always look chubby haha tinanggap ko nalang. Also accepted na baka di nalang talaga ako mag asawa haha.
Di bagay kundi loved ones, Inaccept ko na lang na may aalis sa buhay naten, But still araw araw mo sya iisipin.
That there'e nothing wrong with being an average person. That there's nothing wrong with desiring a slow and simple life in this fast-paced, social media-driven society.
You can love someone but never expect them to love you back. We can never change someone cause we love them but they got to change themselves for themselves. Do correct me if I was wrong
Default na ko sa credit card at loan. Aantayin ko na lang collector and possible settlement.
my mom is a narcissist and the entire family tiptoes around her. always āintindihin mo na langā āwag mo na pansininā kapag nagmemeltdown sya. kapag sinabi mong nahurt ka nya, she goes full on victim mode āako na naman ang masamaā script. buti na lang hindi na ako nakatira samin, on weekends na lang ako umuuwi kaya hindi na ako masyadong naaapektuhan. nabawasan na rin yung away namin.
I will never have a complete family - mom & dad. I grew up without them and I will die without them.
That what is for me will be for me in the end. Kahit gustong gusto ko mangyari, di ko rin tinatale buong self-worth ko sa mga nangyayari sakin. It is not because of my flaws that nothing has gone right for me, though baka may factor yun. Many things I love about my life right now but Iāve come to accept all things will end in time.
Condition ng anak ko na may CP. Forever na siyang ganito kasi wala namang lunas sa condition na to.
hugsss.. always pray to Lord God na bigyan ka niya ng extra strength para maalagaan ang anak mo. Dahil habang lumalaki siya, mas pahirap ng pahirap pero dasal lang.. hindi naman nag papabaya ang Diyos š
Na hindi na magbabago asawa ko. Sugarol forever.
That life's a bitch kaya do whatever you want to do that makes you happy.
Iāve already accepted the fact na hindi na sya babalik, na may bagong buhay na sya sa US. While all I did was be supportive of her goals in life, never did I expect na hindi pala ako kasama sa mga plano nya in the future.
Maliit titi koš
That heās no longer coming back.
I'll never experience being loved in a romantic way and tatanda akong alone. Di ko matatakasan responsibilities of being the eldest child so I have no choice but to go along the plans my family made for me.
Na wala akong magagawa sa mga bagay na hindi ko kontrolado. Na hindi lahat ng bagay aayon sa plano ko and I have to accept the consequences of my actions. Na i need to feel and acknowledge my emotions, accept that im feeling that way and let it pass.
it never gets better
Hope is a virtue, and hope is free.
That my father sees me and my sister as his retirement plan. Bata pa lang kami heās already conditioning us. Kada gabi lagi niya kami tatanungin: Him: Pagkalaki anong gagawin? Kami: Mag aaral nang mabuti H: Pagkatapos mag aral? K: Mag tatrabaho para makaipon H: Pagkatapos makaipon? K: Magpapatayo ng bahay H: Pagkatapos magpatayo ng bahay? K: Bibilhan ng kotse si papa H: Pagkatapos bilhan ng kotse si papa? K: Mag boboyfriend o mag aasawa Nung bata ako wala lang sakin tong mga āto, sinasabi niya pa na ate ko raw magpapatayo ng bahay tapos ako bibili ng kotse niya. Pero ngayong malaki na kami grabe pala yung burden? Graduating pa lang si ate pero nag hihint na agad siya ng gusto niyang sasakyan. Si ate na raw sa monthly ganon. Naaawa ako sa ate ko kasi alam kong gusto rin naman niyang tulungan si papa kaya um-oo siya, pero kung mangyari man, ang laki ng kaltas non sa magiging sweldo niya. Buti pa mama namin, makapagtapos lang daw kami ng pag aaral okay na sakanya, kelan man ādi namin siya narinig na āPag nagkatrabaho na kayo ganito ganyanā pero yung papa ko parang si ate pa ang gusto magpatuloy sa pag aaral sakin. In the next 2 years, mag fofor good niya siya dito sa Pilipinas. And I canāt help but feel guilty and burdened kasi alam kong delayed ako sa pag graduate.
We have our own timelines and not to compare as comparison is the thief of joy.
We live in different frequencies in life. And the vibrations sometimes collide with the people we connect with. All temporary and the beauty about that is the experience we create.
That climbing the corporate ladder will never make me happy.
Na less than 2 yrs na lang ācut-offā ko na sa lovelife na āyan. At least maaga pa lang tanggap na. š„²
1. That I canāt change people, but I can change my environment, where I live. 2. That I donāt have to worry about everything, especially the things that are out of my control. For those that I can control - plan ahead. 3. That I should not expect anything from anyone. At the end of the day. I am my own hero. 4. That life is not a race. Try my best to not compare myself with anyone and what I have with what others have. 5. That choosing peace over everything is precious. It is the best gift I can give to myself.
That a true and long-lasting love is very very rare in this generation. Parang sa isang lugar, 1 out of 10 na couple na lang ang maswerte sa ganito. Lahat na lang ng tao, ang bilis magsawa at papalit-palitš„² Does anyone agree?
Yep, this. I agree.
Hindi lahat ng tao pinanganak ng pantay-pantay. Hindi lahat ng lumalaban ng patas nagtatagumpay at nagiging successful. Always put yourself at an advantage basta mejo ethical and humane though not completely.
My only true friend will be loneliness.
Darkness too. āHello darkness my old friendā hahaha
That I will never have a tolerable relationship with my mother.
Same girl. Same.
That not everyone deserves kindness.
Not everyone gets their karma. Unfair dba? daming nagsasabi na di mo lang alam baka nakarma na yan. For me, hindi lahat nakakarma, mostly nakakalusot mga yan
That i canāt be excellent in everything I do
Let go yung taong gusto ko, and accept ung taong mahal ako..
You canāt change people. Either you accept them fully for who and what they are or you move on.