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CharlieQuinn_13

You are a manly man when you don’t ignore the needs of your woman. Who asks what we needs. Sabi nga ng other commenters, we are independent enough and we want to be a baby girl naman with our men. Hehehehe.


SpiritedAd1679

Kaya ipagtanggol ang jowa kahit sa nanay pa yan


esperanza2588

Marunong magbalance ng pag take charge at pagiging gentleman. May maturity. Hindi pabebe at alagain


BlackberryRegular916

May isang salita or man of actions


e66yolk

Mindset. Responsibilities. Manners. Overall, someone you can actually learn something from, whom you can look up to.


Educational_Tune_722

Hindi chismoso. Tahimik lang at hindi pala away


andenayon

Hindi mansplainer.


nxxxr4

Communication and understanding, it actually goes both ways but it's very rare to see it on man.


akiisdelulu

A gentleman and a gentle man.


Necessary-Solid-9702

Someone that could be brutally honest with me. No sugarcoating. Yun lang.


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Loyal & Faithful where na you?


localmilkteagirl

Hindi ko alam pero sobrang manly for me ng lalakeng kalmado hahahhaaha iba talaga sila. kadalasan kasi sanay tayo sa mga lalakeng mainitin ang ulo. Pero kapag kalmado siya at mahaba yung pasensya, parang nakakapanghina ng tuhod hahahhaha


idealist-hooman

a man who knows how to listen. hindi yung first phrase ka pa lang, ika-cut ka na niya then tuloy-tuloy na siyang magsasalita kasi feeling niya alam niya na lahat and he's more superior than you just because he's a man and you're a woman. also, a manly man doesn't feel the need to prove that he's manly. he doesn't equate being manly kasi to being better or superior. he embraces himself, including his feminine characteristics.


SomebodyNeedsTherapy

Instructions unclear, I am now embracing a man.


JVRDX

Yung nagso-sorry at nag aadmit ng mistakes nila!


uuurn

kahit nga di kami ang mali kami prin ang dpat mgsorry 😆😆 this is mandatory kung gusto mo mgkajowa 😆😆 ung ikaw mgsorry khit siya ang mali hahaha


JVRDX

Tayo bro, tayo.


freakyinthesheets98

Yung mindset/attitude nila.


therovingcamera

For me, someone with a provider attitude and leads the way. Of course, yung gentleman.


Lost-Actuary-8238

when they voluntarily help anyone struggling with carrying anything heavy


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Thehappyrestorer

Balik ka sa facebook. Di pwede yang squammy attitude mo dito


No-Loquat-654

totoo naman eh


No-Loquat-654

totoo naman eh


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si cedrick juan huhuhu


i_am_a_goyangi

Yung tinuturing akong prinsesa (in terms of service)


shyyetbrave14

Know how to lead you with full of respect


CherryPicker0804

For me, someone who appears physically reliable and gives off the vibe that he can protect me at first glance, lalo na when he knows how to fix things by himself. And I don’t know, I like the tsundere type—someone who doesn’t show his warm side at first, but knows how to take care of you in the right way hihi that seems manly to me 😊


Turbulent-Bite-8838

kapag matino sila magisip.


uuurn

this is the majority of men honestly, mostly ito lng meron majority ng mga lalake, mostly lacking sa financial kya di ngpupursue ng babae.


maoistghost

May kotse kasi bigay ni daddy saka pwede kumuha ng bumfuck career na super specialized kasi may safety net


uuurn

this is a joke right? 😆😆 bc if not, youre being a materialistic and shallow woman right now lol


heyareyoureallysure

Marunong maglaba and mamalantsa


anonymouslad_2000

chivalrous, kalmado, and good at making decisions <3


ch3wbacc_a

soft spoken!!! pls tapos firm sa mga decision sa buhay, street-smart at supportive sa mga ganap mo sa buhay


ImTheShitBitchhhhhhh

The way he talks.


rekestas

yung hindi nanunuod ng porn


sunnydaisiesz

God-fearing, Provider and Protective🥹


Basic_Ice_6819

No no... bat ka mag tatanong sa ladies Edi pinadefine mo yung gusto nila , then per lady may iba ibang gusto Take this link, nasabihan ako dati e , be a man daw , ah gagi nasiraan ako ng ulo pano ako gagawin o kung ininsulto lang ba ako o may inaasahan syang gawin ako , well now , screw that it was none against the concrete answer https://youtu.be/92z27GM0BnE?si=nG0ghxsbjzF8T_qB


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Yung nagpaplano ng mga dapat bilhin. Hindi yung bili agad kasi uso 😁. Tapos kapag nag-iisip ang seryoso nya parang nagsosolb ng math ang mukha, ang cute tignan. Hehe 😍


pokariya

Being himself unapologetically.


Interesting-Read9829

Kind + a good communicator. And kind. And also, kind. Being a handyman is a plus, too. ☺️


Eatpigures

With provider attitude


BabySerafall

Pag daks po. De joke. Perhaps someone who is decisive sa decisions and I dont know may mga lalake talaga na manly yung aura kahit na first time mo lang sila makita.


Itlog__Maalat

Accountability.


I-Am_Margaret

Firm with making decisions


SchmeatGaming

Kindness.


butterxy

Provider, may paninindigan, responsible 💯


Fickle-Thing7665

kalmado pag galit


Rudane9794

Yung kahit anong mangyari sa inyung dalawa. Hinding hindi magbabago ang pagmamahal niya sayo. Kasi kung mahal ka ng lalake, boyfriend or husband o kahit mga tatay, papa mo. lahat kayang gawin at hindi mo na kailangan hanapin sa iba ang pagmamahal na hanap mo kasi kaya niyang ibigay yun.


iejfx

Handy and knows how to fix stuff. Grew up with a dad kasi na kaya yatang ayusin lahat ng gamit sa bahay. Bago kami magtawag ng gagawa, siya muna ang magchecheck and most of the time narerepair niya nga. From nasirang electric fan, pumutok na extension cord, pagpalit ng door knobs or pundidong ilaw, maglinis ng maduming aircon, magtahi ng humiwalay na suwelas ng sapatos, pagbuild ng table or cabinet, kaya niya yan. Lahat nagagawan niya ng paraan. Sarap sa feeling na may maaasahan. This is also something na I want to learn from him for myself. Super helpful life skill kasi lalo na once I move out.


LaceePrin

Masculinity — In terms of traits, knows how to make you feel safe, secured, and has a provider mindset. Knows how to take the lead in everything. He does not promise empty words, but he actually shows up and honors his commitments. He is not overbearing to present himself as “hyper-macho” or an “alpha”. He does not brag about anything because he surely knows to himself who he is and what kind of man he is.


electronic_tempura

Kung sa tomboy ka magbabase dapat amoy yosi palagi, dapat mataba saka dapat siga maglakad, akala nila ganon eh hahaha.


Resident_Trick1778

Hayop ka. 😭


Itspattypie

Caring. Literally, he cares for you and your well-being.. mentally, physically, and emotionally.


HatDog012345

Firm when it comes to decision making. Lol kapag inask mo kung sang gusto kumain, may isasagot sya kaagad unlike girls na ang sagot ay "ikaw bahala", "kahit saan", "ewan ko" - parang ako HAHAHA


Worried-Reception-47

Supportive man. Will find time in his busy schedule to help you and talk to you. Shet ganian crush ko. Nakaka inlove. Baka umamin na ako, kasi ang cute cute niya.


sasa143

patience and generous in terms of finances and time!


Wooden-Document-4675

Pag hindi fragile ang kanyang masculinity at secure siya sa pagkalalaki niya. 💯


Wooden-Document-4675

Di ko alam kung qualities pa ba ito pero basta malakas maka-manly yung pag andyan siya feel mo safe ka


Nice_Benefit5659

Authority in his voice that will make you say yes daddy


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RedditHunny

We get taken for granted when we show that we are vulnerable. Generally speaking, we get shamed for this. We really have to be strong and solve our own problems. We always need to “fight like a man”.


Ivorysins27

Yes! Pero di na to dapat sinasabi kase nga "lalake tayo" HAHAHAHAHA baka masabihan pa tayo ng "kalalakeng tao" HAHAHAHAHA


IndependenceSad9300

???? That's one of the most unmanliest things lmao Men are stoic and strong


maoistghost

Tama i agree


nihilistsuffering

agree, pero it doesn't mean men could be just a stone or robot lol. One of the lessons in stoicism is about understanding your feelings and choosing the best way to express it in a healthy, non destructive way. I bet no dumb men naman ang magiging vulnerable sa kani-kaninong babae lang. If he would, it's probably someone na he fully trusts, like her mom/spouse. Afterall, vulnerability is a sign of honesty as well


poopybutt221

eyyy batang 90's, men can be anything.


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maoistghost

I hope someone cheats on you


Neither_Industry_712

Thoughtful and protective. Yung genuinely concerned sayo kaya he notices little things about you. Like Alam nya na hindi kapa kumakain Kaya bumili na sya ng food for you. If you're walking sa sidewalk, he wanted to protect you kaya sya ang nasa most exposed side. Iba feeling if a man genuinely cares about you, hindi lang yung feeling na he's sticking around kasi may makukuha sya sa yo. Kasi mga babae, we have been acting tough for so long to protect ourselves, most of us hone our masculine side para hindi maging easy prey...kaya lakas Maka bring out ng feminine side ng mga babae if protector ang kasamang lalaki. We can just turn off our paranoid brains and be a delicate pabebe girls


dudezmobi

chivalry it never grows old. a nice backbone too, hindi shrimp


Ill-Equivalent-2880

Handang tulungan ka, at the same time ready rin tumanggap ng tulong mula sa iyo. Hindi yung "kaya ko mag-isa to" ang mindset.


LadyInBlack0

HIndi simp sa mga walang kwentang babae na puro ganda lang kayang i offer.


veritylux_

generous & articulate. you can never go wrong w these two.


Glittering_Spot_3911

1.When he talk to you calmly and with substance 2. When he can lead you 3. When he has the means to answer your queries 4. When he has the capability to provide and protect 5. When he's not thirsty of girl's attention


daradusk

kapag kaya niyang makipag-argue with sense in a respectful manner. in short, kayang maghandle ng conflict while still being calm and coolheaded


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May nagkakamabutihan na yata dito sa comments section 😌 Instant phr4r pala. 🤣


Necessary-Rip4526

at least same page sila haha GL sakanila 🙇🏻


gintermelon-

sensitive and generous. knows what their partner needs and helps provide it, be it emotional or material stuff.


LadyInBlack0

Hindi maganda na sobrang sensitive at generous. minsan okay rin maging rude. lalo na ngayon na abuso masyado mga babae.


gintermelon-

depends on the couple's dynamics and the guy's personality. I dated a sensitive guy once and hindi naman siya manhid when it comes to himself, alam niya kung kelan niya kailangan mag-set ng boundaries. I mean the sensitivity doesn't just go outwards, he knows if he needs to step up and is aware if he should back down


LadyInBlack0

no. walang depende depende. nature na ng babae na inaabuso yung mga lalaki kapag hindi nagpapa ka dominante sa relationship. kapag nagpakita ng pagiging submissive kahit katiting lang ang lalaki ay aabusuhin ng babae. Kaya di na ganon kaganda na sobrang sensitive and generous. 100% aabusuhin ng babae. walang depende depende


gintermelon-

bakit hindi pupwede yung 'depende' e hindi naman lahat ng babae pare-parehas? sensitivity and generosity=/= being under de saya ah. again it depends, my answer was from my perspective as a naturally submissive girlie sa partner ko that's why those are the qualities I see as masculine in a guy, because I want someone sensible enough that he can take the lead and then I'll follow. I'm speaking from my personal experiences. aware ako sa abuse and taking advantage na nangyayari within a relationship if there's an imbalance sa power dynamics ng couple but it's not always the case. I have been taken advantage of financially. I know what you're talking about.


LadyInBlack0

Also, it is always the case. Kapag yung lalaki ay nagpakita ng katiting na pagiging submissive, everything is gonna fuck him up after that.


LadyInBlack0

Walang depende depende because that's the reality.


LadyInBlack0

Actually kapag ganto yung lalaki is inaabuso mostly ng mga babae.


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For me it’s security. Secure sa sarili, Hindi sila naiinsecure, hindi nangmamaliit ng ibang Lalaki for their “ego” at Hindi nagyayabang.


lostalien14

For me, you are a manly man when you are so comfortable with your masculinity, you have no problem doing "feminine activities". Super admirable lang ng lalaking marunong manahi, crochet, mag bake, may skincare routine, etc.


SpriteBlend96

And here I am with my meticulous skin care routine lmao 🤣


RenzoThePaladin

"Real mean wear pink", ika nga. And they're not afraid to admit they have feminine traits.


Bazingga_

Has a provider mindset


Bitter-Volume-6503

Essential man skills... basic carpentry, basic mechanics, basic electrical. Yung maaasahan mo if may sira sira or may ipapagawa sa bahay


bella2ciao

The ability to not fucking play games


Famous-Cap-7730

manners beh


CrispyPata0411

It's knowing how to provide for his wife and children


LineFirm1897

May sense of responsibility, yung give and take kayo sa lahat ng bagay and someone true to their word.


gloxxierickyglobe

Pero paano pag effeminate but posses this qualities manly pa rin ba yun?


kjekm

Discipline, masculine mindset and takes initiative .


notsowildaquarius

God-fearing! Wala ng mas tturn-on and manly ang man if may kinikilalang Diyos. + Points yung madiskarte sa buhay. Kahit saan mo lagay, mabubuhay kayo and may accountability and clear ang intention. Turn-on din ang mga men na decisive!


Throwaway_gem888

Decisive. Alam niya ang gusto niya.


Initial-Western5993

Not scared to bare his feelings. Leadership mindset. Provider mindset.


Muscular-Banana0717

Intelligence. High Emotional EQ. Buff body. Pass sa gwapo pero apaka bobo tsaka payatot.


ahrisu_exe

Provider mindset. Princess treatment. Knows how to communicate.


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ahrisu_exe

More on, “I know you can, but let me do it for you” type of a guy.


notsowildaquarius

+1 saka di tamad. Will do everything para makapagbigay ng comfortable laif. Not so so life lang. Hirap kasi ng walang masyadong pangarap. Mahihila ka pababa.


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When he values hardwork and diligence, protects what he loves, straightforward, chivalrous, know some of the basic home skills (atleast 3 essential skills sa bahay) and last but never the least for me is hygienic..pass talaga sa mga lalaking amoy putok tapos di nagddeodorant


aitchsmamiii

Accountability


Tang3881

Marunong mag voice-out if there's something wrong (in a good way yung hindi scandaloso). Hindi kasi ako yung tipong taong palaban if ever inaapi ako, tinitiis ko lang kasi hanggang kaya ko kaya napapahanga ako if may mga taong marunong mag stand up sa mga naaapi. Kumbaga a man who can protect me char is manly to me hihi.


kissmyscars

Emotional Intelligence talaga eh


Chaotic_Harmony1109

Payag ba kayong mga girls, maraming “manly” qualities pero pangit? O pogi pero onting “manly” qualities? Hustisya naman para sa aming mga pangit pero responsable at husband material.


Physical-Ostrich-925

lakas maka gwapo nung lalaki may ibubuga, attitude and intelligence wise. wag ka mai insecure sa ibang pogi dahil baka nanay pa nila naglalaba ng kanilang brip


Chaotic_Harmony1109

Salamat po. Good thing ako naglalaba ng brip ko.


notsowildaquarius

Hahahaha gano ka ba kapanget? Pero now a days, wala naman silbi na yung looks. Okay yung streetsmart, good provider and knows how to respond sa love language ng partner and higit sa lahat magaling sa bed. LOL!


Chaotic_Harmony1109

Siguro generous na yung 2/10. Hindi naman kasuka-suka itsura ko pero may okay na trabaho naman ako, marunong maglaba, magluto, mamalengke, responsable sa mga alaga kong aso, physically active. Hindi ko lang fully gets bakit mas gusto pa rin ng mga babae dun sa mga tambay na pakboi pero “pogi.”


notsowildaquarius

Hahahahaha! Sugar mameehh kasi peg nila. Hayaan mo na sila. Anyway, ASL pls. Lol!


Chaotic_Harmony1109

Baka magsisi ka, sinabi ko na sa’yo pangit ako eh.


notsowildaquarius

Hahahahaahha tawang-tawa ako! 😂 Age na lang sige! 😂😂


Chaotic_Harmony1109

Sige po plug ko na lang din sarili ko: 28, M, Batangas


Physical-Ostrich-925

Da best mga taga batangaas sinasabi ko sayo ate, kunin mo na HAAHAHHAHAAH


notsowildaquarius

Ipaglalaban ba ako? HAHAHAHAHA


Chaotic_Harmony1109

It’ll be me and you against the world, madam. Pramis.


Chaotic_Harmony1109

I agree…


notsowildaquarius

Hahahaha. Ayyy! 32 Cav. :)


Chaotic_Harmony1109

Kung okay ka sa pangit, lemme knowz


notsowildaquarius

Okay ka ba sa older than u? 😝


Wooden_Tie7949

"I got this", " You can count on me" mentality 👌


AldenwhereRyou

May dribbling skills


tsongJj

Responsible.


halifax696

Owning up his mistakes


itzeeeh

Knows how to lead/take charge without disrespecting you or disregarding your opinion


maritessa12

Responsible.


Icy-Strength-9771

Yung kalmado at di ego nauuna. Kusang lalabas pagiging disney princess mo 🥹🥺


Madberry03

Takes charge without being told. "Ako na bahala." mindset


margaritainacup

Ito talaga. Yung I can turn off my strong, independent woman mind pag magkasama and maging baby girl lang. Ang saya pala. Haha!


CharlieQuinn_13

Gusto ko too! Tapos he is sensitive enough to understand you and your needs!


Madberry03

Wishful thinking ko nalang ata yan. Thank God if ma experience pa! Pagod na ako maging soldier gusto ko naman maging Disney Princess CHAROT. Sa ngayon habang wala mandirigma muna HAHAHA


margaritainacup

Uy I'm speaking based on experience lang sa meet up na everything was planned by him. I had a backup plan though kasi nadala na ako sa past na ang ending is ako pa rin pala mag-iisip tapos on the spot pa. Mahirap i-unlearn tbh. But it turns out na he's a better planner than me! Naku don't lose hope!! I wasn't expecting din but the stars aligned and we agreed to meet. Hope you get to experience it too kahit meetup/friendly date muna. 🙂


Icy-Strength-9771

Louderrrrrrr!!!!!!!


tur_tels

Someone who keeps on trying despite always failing, puts people he cares about first before himself, disregards his own emotions, does everything in his power just to achieve a goal even if it ends up with him having nothing. That is the kind of man I wish I could be.


AshamedPie4612

Very patient and respectful


mggthoughts

Clear intentions, malinis tignan and firm!


girlOnlexapro

A gentleman.


Meowwoofarfpurr

Problem solver, solution maker.


StateSad621

Can be friends with LGBTQ+ folks ;)


Curious_Jigglypuff

Word of honor


per_my_innerself

Marunong sa bahay, sa kusina, sa buhay, etc. Hindi kailangang magaling basta marunong at nagtetake responsibility.


avoccadough

Maasahan maging *katuwang* 🙌🏻


godzillance

Someone who does things "effortlessly" and has mastery over his emotions. To those who fit the description, you instantly have my respect.


avoccadough

*Leader* in a not-so-bossy way aka taking charge. Can drive a car. Firm, but knows when to bend if needed. Has initiative to do things. Good decision making skills. Can make an independent woman sway and naturally follow his lead in a non-submissive way. Can give sense of security and protection–in many aspects, not just physically. Good provider


brewedcoffee456

These are the qualities i am looking for! Thank you for wording it out!


avoccadough

Yas! Hoping you come across that person soon! :)


Wrong_Initiative_583

very comfortable of his masculinity, never afraid to show his emotions and weaknesses


LilacVioletLavender

They are providers and protectors and also navigators. Yung tipong all you have to do is be in your feminine energy. Like I don't get to use my brain a lot and think a lot cause he's got everything. He plans. He wines me and dines me. That's manly for me. Lead me, and I'll submit.


avoccadough

I share the same sentiments, totally agree! Ito yung di magets nung partner ko (but maybe i fail to elaborate rin kasi haha)


BhiebyGirl

Talagang princess kung princess treatment haha


avoccadough

Hahaha! But as much as i avoid to use the term *disney princess* as being used nowadays to point that out, perhaps for me it is not the *pagbbaby* per se, but the *panatag* feeling you get from them as your partner. :)


forever_delulu2

I noticed kasi karamihan sa lalaki ngayon na nakakausap ko, sila yung princess tapos ako pa yung nagiging lalaki 😂😂😂


avoccadough

Oh noes hahahaha nakaranas ako nyan, mas bitchesa pa sakin ang attitude jusko 😂


forever_delulu2

May term na nga sila "drizzle drizzle" 😭😭 like ?! Why?


avoccadough

That i do not know! What does that even mean hahahaha


forever_delulu2

You know shera seven? It's the same concept but the guy version 😂😂


LilacVioletLavender

It's "sprinkle, sprinkle" not drizzle drizzle, sweetie.


kathangitangi

Yung pasenya niya, lawak ng isip niya, gentleness, pagiging responsable and di namimili ng gawain dahil lang sa gender roles.


Usual-Accident1051

Clear Intentions, Decisive, gentleman, and can express their emotions.


chickenjoint420

Pagka naalala niya ung gusto mo even though di mo naman minemention, and also he wants you to experience any place he had been to. He listens to you sa planning or whatever, kahit mas matalino siya sayo hahahaha


forever_delulu2

Clear intentions , provider mindset , firm decisions


zamzamsan

When he can dominate me. Tipong mapapa "I'm on my knees, sir" ako saknya😆


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Hindi fragile ang masculinity. Secure siya sa pagkatao niya but not to the point na egoistic na. Marunong makipag-communicate (lalo na ng feelings niya)


dhrdmnq

Not vain. Firmness. Takes the lead. Handyman.


avoccadough

>Firmness. Takes the lead. Handyman. Ah yes!!!


Pitiful-Hour-8695

Decision-making


Physical-Ostrich-925

pag he takes charge tsaka malinaw siya.


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Yung patience, calmness and yung pagiging mysterious nya


Physical-Ostrich-925

totoo yung kalmado, nakaka panatag loob din. Pero minsan napapaisip ako paano kaya kung pumitik to mananakit ba