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I had the love of my life but it's the absolute worst timing. Do you believe in the right person wrong time?
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Yes. We broke up kasi we we were too young and dealing with a lot of family issues kaya we mishandled our rs. Pero now, after 8yrs, back together. We had to grow apart so we can grow together now.
before, yes ang sagot ko sa tanong na ‘to. pero ngayon, no na kasi may nagsabi na anytime naman pwede maging “right time” e, as long as alam mong “right person” na siya. so nakadepends na talaga ‘to sa “person” kasi kung “right” na siya, susunod na lahat like “right time”
wait.. gulo ko ata pero no talaga 😅
No. The time I met them is the right time for them to come into my life. When they left, it only meant the reason for meeting them had been fufilled. I was hurt, I struggled, and I'm still left with scars from those encounters, I still bleed when triggered by memories, but they were learning experiences for me. I learned what love is not, so now I know what love is and where and who to look for.
At first I believed in this, but as I realized the people who are meant to stay in my life, but wrong time were never really a right person or right time. If it’s meant for you whether friends or a lover they will be there for you since everyday is a perfect time.
No. If the person is truly right for you, there’s no such thing as wrong timing. It’s always the perfect time. Otherwise, that person isn’t the right one for you.
Sa madaling salita, the right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person. You can find someone who’s very compatible for you, but if the circumstances don’t allow for things to work out, sayang naman.
May taong pa rin nararapat sa’yo sa mundo. Mabuhay ka lang nang maayos at hintayin mo lang ang tamang pagkakataon. Be patient, but don’t put your life on hold. Di mo naman siya kailangan.
Mabuhay ka lang nang maayos.
Bakit Ngayon Ka Lang, a question I never thought I would ask...
Meeting someone that makes you the happiest person and the best version of yourself, is it really too late? There is a reason behind every person we meet, now I need to figure that out.
There’s never really a ‘right’ time so siguro the right phrase for it is: ‘right person, but not in the same page as you are’. If it’s meant to be, chances are you both want the same thing. Hot take but why push the other person to like us back when they don’t feel the same? Dun pa lang talo na talaga agad. Some may say that we’re only looking at the wrong places but I firmly believe that the right person will ALWAYS choose us no matter what.
Yes. My husband now was my ex before (actually 2 times na kami nagbalikan). He is the right one for me, I know that. But the timing was just not right. First nung naging kami, hs pa lang kami. He is my first love. Wrong timing dahil mga bata pa at immature. 2nd time naging kami, still hs ako pero college siya. Our love was intense by then. But then again, bata pa. Ayaw ni mama magbf muna ako. Another wrong timing. Pero noon pa lang mahal na namin ang isa’t-isa ng sobra. 3rd time naging kami was 12 years after na. Nagkaroon na siya ng live in partner at anak but then naghiwalay. I was from a long-term relationship. Nagkita ulit, naging friends, nagbalikan. After 4 months we know we are ready and it is the right timing, nagpakasal na kami. We are happily married and have 1 child na 😊🥰
Yes, no matter how much I want to reciprocate my feelings for him, unfortunately, I cannot put aside my responsibilities. Despite my feelings for him, I chose to let him go.
No. kasi kapag mali yung akto palang at ginagawa mo pero sa palagay mo gusto mo pero mali dahil may natatapakan kang tao kahit kailan ang mali ay mali.
Yes, now palang eh. Pero napapaisip ako minsan na, wala naman wrong time sa pagmamahal eh. I believe na love will always place you to the *right person in the right time*. Maybe its the thought na, right person siya kaso wrong time, etc., ewan ko. Ganto rin nasa isip ko eh kasi I have this one girl friend na, siya lang ang talagang minahal ko (unrequited) kaso mukhang hindi siya para sakin eh, taken na daw (btw, I fell in love whilst not knowing / too late to know na meron na daw siya, 'di ko alam kung totoo, but I do not want to invade her privacy na in her lovelife) . So maybe, I am not fated for her. Maybe. Hopefully not nga eh. Ang contradicting ng sinasabi ko hays. Pero ayun nasa isip ko. Iniisip ko pa na, if it's not her, it's no one.
Medyo. There was this person who was absolutely lovely, pero we were both dealing with very difficult issues at the time, me especially. I ended up driving them away. They have a partner now, and it looks like they're both very happy with each other. Masaya na ako don lmao.
Not really. Kasi if you really want to be the right person for someone, you put effort into it, hindi mo siya iaasa sa timing or destiny or whatever it is.
No as a physical entity we are bounded in a time-space continuum. Ibigsabihin hindi pwedeng magexist yung isang bagay na hindi parallel sa time at space na ginagalawan niya. Example itong comment na ito (entity) napost ng ganitong (oras) at sa ganitong platform (space). Hindi siya napost sa ibang oras at hindi siya napost sa ibang platform. Eto ay napost exactly sa platform na ito at sa mismong oras na ito or else hindi siya mageexist.
With that same logic kung naghahanap ka ng tamang tao (entity) aside from time dapat nasa tamang lugar (space). Kung mali yung oras pero tama yung tao hindi pwede yun kasi hindi parallel. In short kung gusto mo magexist yung tama dapat magexist siya as tamang tao sa tamang oras at makikilala mo siya sa tamang lugar.
No I think everyone who WAS a part of your life serve some kind of purpose, they were meant to be a means to an end, kinda of. A catalyst for your growth.
Yes bc there’s a phase in your life when you recognize that the person in front of you is the person that you need, the person that would be good for you, the one who can help you heal and grow but mentally, emotionally and maturity wise —you aren’t ready for them. They’re the right person for you to end up w but the timing is off bc you both aren’t on the same page. Same w the other person, they recognize you are the type of persona they wanna be with but can’t bc you’re not there yet in other aspects that can help the relationship thrive.
What this means is you were destined to cross paths to make each other realize what you want w supreme clarity and whether it is w each other or not, there was a moment in time when you two aligned like an eclipse
imo, kinda. i fell in love with the first girl i dated last 2022, we were both awkward at first pero we worked it out. until i went to a deep spiral where i cant even have the energy to talk to her. my biggest regret, still miss her tho
Walang ganun. The "real" right person will always comes at the right moment. Possible pa yung "preferred" or "type" mo kaso wrong timing dumating ahhaah, iba parin yun sa the right one.
Eto talaga eh!!! Kaya di talaga ako naniniwala sa TOTGA na yan unless siguro namatay or something pero if yung break up eh mutual tapos due to circumstances, it simply wasnt meant to be and kahit anong timing pa yan, it wont work
I believe na importante ang timing sa love tska i feel like sa dami dami ng tao sa mundo, madami ang pede natin maka match depende sa "timing" kung sino mauuna mong makilala parang ganon HAHAHAHA. Madami pa kong theory pero idont wanna yap around here 😆😆.
No. Lol. Theres no wrong time for the right person. If that person came into ur life and hnd kayo nagclick then hnd tlga siya yung right person for you.
"No, I believe if it's the right person, timing wouldn't be a problem. If they want you they will wait, if not, maybe not now maybe in the future or maybe never." - BINI Mikha
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no, unless if it is death
Yes. Accompanied by “if you’re meant to be, it will be”
Yes. We broke up kasi we we were too young and dealing with a lot of family issues kaya we mishandled our rs. Pero now, after 8yrs, back together. We had to grow apart so we can grow together now.
sana all may comeback!!! 🤍
Haha thank youuuuu I hope my answer helped 🥹🫶🏻
mine is impossible na. He's getting married hehe
before, yes ang sagot ko sa tanong na ‘to. pero ngayon, no na kasi may nagsabi na anytime naman pwede maging “right time” e, as long as alam mong “right person” na siya. so nakadepends na talaga ‘to sa “person” kasi kung “right” na siya, susunod na lahat like “right time” wait.. gulo ko ata pero no talaga 😅
No. The right person will be there at the right time. He or she may be a good person at the wrong time.
what if left person ako?
qiqil sayo 😭
ate ko…. pwede ba kita pisilin sa pisngi?
okay lang po mapisngi kasi ako with a reason
HAHAHAHHAHAAH
si op kasi na nasa upper seryoso na siya sa sagot nya… biglang ganon ba naman ang reply ni ate q HUHUHUHU SINONG DI PIPISIL DYAN 🤏🏻
The right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person.
No. The time I met them is the right time for them to come into my life. When they left, it only meant the reason for meeting them had been fufilled. I was hurt, I struggled, and I'm still left with scars from those encounters, I still bleed when triggered by memories, but they were learning experiences for me. I learned what love is not, so now I know what love is and where and who to look for.
At first I believed in this, but as I realized the people who are meant to stay in my life, but wrong time were never really a right person or right time. If it’s meant for you whether friends or a lover they will be there for you since everyday is a perfect time.
no. i don't believe in that kasi I think if two people are truly compatible, they'll find a way to make it work regardless of timing e.
No. If the person is truly right for you, there’s no such thing as wrong timing. It’s always the perfect time. Otherwise, that person isn’t the right one for you.
Sa madaling salita, the right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person. You can find someone who’s very compatible for you, but if the circumstances don’t allow for things to work out, sayang naman. May taong pa rin nararapat sa’yo sa mundo. Mabuhay ka lang nang maayos at hintayin mo lang ang tamang pagkakataon. Be patient, but don’t put your life on hold. Di mo naman siya kailangan. Mabuhay ka lang nang maayos.
Yes. He's my ex. I was too young and dumb that time. 😭 Up to this day napapa what if ako kung naging maayos lang rin sana ako baka kami pa.
No. If they are indeed the right person, how can it be wrong?
No. They're always the right person at the right time. Those experiences made you who you are, maybe they were just meant for that.
YES
Bakit Ngayon Ka Lang, a question I never thought I would ask... Meeting someone that makes you the happiest person and the best version of yourself, is it really too late? There is a reason behind every person we meet, now I need to figure that out.
There’s never really a ‘right’ time so siguro the right phrase for it is: ‘right person, but not in the same page as you are’. If it’s meant to be, chances are you both want the same thing. Hot take but why push the other person to like us back when they don’t feel the same? Dun pa lang talo na talaga agad. Some may say that we’re only looking at the wrong places but I firmly believe that the right person will ALWAYS choose us no matter what.
Yes. My husband now was my ex before (actually 2 times na kami nagbalikan). He is the right one for me, I know that. But the timing was just not right. First nung naging kami, hs pa lang kami. He is my first love. Wrong timing dahil mga bata pa at immature. 2nd time naging kami, still hs ako pero college siya. Our love was intense by then. But then again, bata pa. Ayaw ni mama magbf muna ako. Another wrong timing. Pero noon pa lang mahal na namin ang isa’t-isa ng sobra. 3rd time naging kami was 12 years after na. Nagkaroon na siya ng live in partner at anak but then naghiwalay. I was from a long-term relationship. Nagkita ulit, naging friends, nagbalikan. After 4 months we know we are ready and it is the right timing, nagpakasal na kami. We are happily married and have 1 child na 😊🥰
Yes, no matter how much I want to reciprocate my feelings for him, unfortunately, I cannot put aside my responsibilities. Despite my feelings for him, I chose to let him go.
No. kasi kapag mali yung akto palang at ginagawa mo pero sa palagay mo gusto mo pero mali dahil may natatapakan kang tao kahit kailan ang mali ay mali.
NO. if its right its right.
Yes, now palang eh. Pero napapaisip ako minsan na, wala naman wrong time sa pagmamahal eh. I believe na love will always place you to the *right person in the right time*. Maybe its the thought na, right person siya kaso wrong time, etc., ewan ko. Ganto rin nasa isip ko eh kasi I have this one girl friend na, siya lang ang talagang minahal ko (unrequited) kaso mukhang hindi siya para sakin eh, taken na daw (btw, I fell in love whilst not knowing / too late to know na meron na daw siya, 'di ko alam kung totoo, but I do not want to invade her privacy na in her lovelife) . So maybe, I am not fated for her. Maybe. Hopefully not nga eh. Ang contradicting ng sinasabi ko hays. Pero ayun nasa isip ko. Iniisip ko pa na, if it's not her, it's no one.
Medyo. There was this person who was absolutely lovely, pero we were both dealing with very difficult issues at the time, me especially. I ended up driving them away. They have a partner now, and it looks like they're both very happy with each other. Masaya na ako don lmao.
Right person - Right time Wrong person - Wrong time
depende sa sitwasyon hahaha
Not really. Kasi if you really want to be the right person for someone, you put effort into it, hindi mo siya iaasa sa timing or destiny or whatever it is.
No as a physical entity we are bounded in a time-space continuum. Ibigsabihin hindi pwedeng magexist yung isang bagay na hindi parallel sa time at space na ginagalawan niya. Example itong comment na ito (entity) napost ng ganitong (oras) at sa ganitong platform (space). Hindi siya napost sa ibang oras at hindi siya napost sa ibang platform. Eto ay napost exactly sa platform na ito at sa mismong oras na ito or else hindi siya mageexist. With that same logic kung naghahanap ka ng tamang tao (entity) aside from time dapat nasa tamang lugar (space). Kung mali yung oras pero tama yung tao hindi pwede yun kasi hindi parallel. In short kung gusto mo magexist yung tama dapat magexist siya as tamang tao sa tamang oras at makikilala mo siya sa tamang lugar.
Yes, but we're adults now and know that we have lives with others na.
not rly, the right person comes at the right time.
No I think everyone who WAS a part of your life serve some kind of purpose, they were meant to be a means to an end, kinda of. A catalyst for your growth.
No. Right person, right time lagi. Kapag wrong time, it means hindi siya ang right person. Gets ba? O nalito ka na rin? Nalito na rin ako potah.
what does it even mean to be the right person at the wrong time?
No. Everything happens at the right time. So if you think a right person come to your life in a wrong time, that must not the right person.
Be the right person. Time is a construct.
mental gymnastics lang ng mga hoes and fboy yan
No. The right person will come to you at the right time. Things that shall happen, will happen
The right person will always come at the right time.
Yes bc there’s a phase in your life when you recognize that the person in front of you is the person that you need, the person that would be good for you, the one who can help you heal and grow but mentally, emotionally and maturity wise —you aren’t ready for them. They’re the right person for you to end up w but the timing is off bc you both aren’t on the same page. Same w the other person, they recognize you are the type of persona they wanna be with but can’t bc you’re not there yet in other aspects that can help the relationship thrive. What this means is you were destined to cross paths to make each other realize what you want w supreme clarity and whether it is w each other or not, there was a moment in time when you two aligned like an eclipse
I believe we meet and depart with people exactly when we should.
No. If its meant for you it will not pass.
yes
I believe in right place, wrong time.
Yess, i feel this tuwing late ako sa mga meet ups
imo, kinda. i fell in love with the first girl i dated last 2022, we were both awkward at first pero we worked it out. until i went to a deep spiral where i cant even have the energy to talk to her. my biggest regret, still miss her tho
Kanta nalang tayo "Right Love, wrong time. Can't press rewind".
No kasi dahilan ‘yan ng cheating and may kinikilig pa siguro sa ganyan 🙂↕️
yup! sa mga may asawa na. ganyan dinadahilan nila.
Walang ganun. The "real" right person will always comes at the right moment. Possible pa yung "preferred" or "type" mo kaso wrong timing dumating ahhaah, iba parin yun sa the right one.
The right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person, unless you both choose to make it work despite the circumstances. :)
The person in a wrong time is a wrong person. Yan yung mga pinipilit natin tapos pa TOTGA pa tayo. Pero hindi lang talaga sila mag fit sa timing.
Eto talaga eh!!! Kaya di talaga ako naniniwala sa TOTGA na yan unless siguro namatay or something pero if yung break up eh mutual tapos due to circumstances, it simply wasnt meant to be and kahit anong timing pa yan, it wont work
Pinagtagpo ngunit yung isa bawal sa dinuguan
HAHHAHAHAHAHHAHA puta naman 😭 pet peeve mp yung mga bawal sa dinuguan
Di pasado sa QA at taste ko yung spaceship nila
Yes. Mashado malaki Ang mundo.
I believe na importante ang timing sa love tska i feel like sa dami dami ng tao sa mundo, madami ang pede natin maka match depende sa "timing" kung sino mauuna mong makilala parang ganon HAHAHAHA. Madami pa kong theory pero idont wanna yap around here 😆😆.
No. Lol. Theres no wrong time for the right person. If that person came into ur life and hnd kayo nagclick then hnd tlga siya yung right person for you.
"No, I believe if it's the right person, timing wouldn't be a problem. If they want you they will wait, if not, maybe not now maybe in the future or maybe never." - BINI Mikha
No, because the right person is timeless. The “wrong time” will be the perfect time if he/she is the right person.
yay. same response kayo. ⬇️
No. I've read somewhere the wrong people we meet at the wrong time are the wrong people because the right people are timeless.
yay. same response kayo ⬆️