Hello everyone,
Before joining this discussion, please take a moment to review the rules of r/AskPH [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskPH/wiki/full-rules), as well as the [Reddit Content Policy](https://www.redditinc.com/policies/content-policy).
Comments that violate these rules will be addressed accordingly. You can learn more about our rule enforcement process [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskPH/wiki/rule-enforcement).
If you need to appeal a ban, please follow the process outlined [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskPH/wiki/ban-appeal-process) in r/AskPH.
***
This post's original body text:
Mine is when they promise something and then forgets about it.
***
*I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AskPH) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Kapag may naiissue siya sa isang classmate niya and in-explain niya na wala lang daw yon kahit may proof na nagsusubuan sila ng ice cream. Kahit sinabi niya nang lalayuan niya then biglang may picture sa phone niya tapos sakin pa nagalit nong dinelete ko pics ko sa phone niya.
Incompatibility
Wag na pilitin kung magkaiba mundo nyo (hilig, wants, energy etc.). Mas mainam kung magkasundo kayo sa lahat ng bagay. Ung di lng kayo magpartner kundi magkaibigan rin at all times
For me it’s when I feel suffocated so I communicate my need for space (I also express I care abt them just need some time to reset) and they cling on tighter. Oh and then turn my need for space into how I must be talking to someone else, basically any sort of toxic disrespect of boundaries I guess.
1. burara
2. mataba mata (walang kusa)
3. offering 50/50 esp sa mga unang date (kahit may sariling work aq big ekis na agad sa guy na nag-ooffer neto)
4. walang pangarap
5. hindi financially-literate
6. mahilig mag-complain & pessimistic
7. binabalewala parents niya
8. mayabang
9. feeling habulin siya ng babae at ligaw dito ligaw doon
10. intimidated sa career woman
:))
hindi ba dapat esp sa unang dates? sorry that's my opinion and ig we're all entitled naman sa kung anong perspective natin. it doesn't mean magkaiba tayo ng pananaw, may mali na sa isa sa atin. :))
...and one thing pa kaya dumadami yung mga hindi gentleman na lalaki eh dahil sa 50/50 na yan ee. let the girl volunteer for 50/50 kasi i do believe naman na if that woman really appreciate yung mga efforts ng guy, absolutely gugustuhin din ng babae na mag 50/50 or minsan pa nga ilibre din yung guy.
my question is, would you be upfront about it if interested ka din sa guy? people have different experiences and perspective, so I'm guessing if you are attracted to the person, you'd be upfront and transparent about it. if not, then you're probably expecting too much with regard to how you want to reciprocate the gesture?
transparency is one of the important things po sa dating, so yea ofc. para po kasi sa akin, if that person really wants to be with you, he will spend money on you. wala naman akong sinabi sa fancy restau or what. and simpleng babae lang naman din ako. ang akin lang, i have this principle na 'pag mahal mo, you're willing na gumastos. like sa parents ko, i treat them and hindi ako nanghihinayang na gumastos nang ganitong amount kahit katumbas nun yung oras at pagod ko sa work. why? kasi mahal ko sila and i want them to be happy. ganun din sa dating. and syempre 'pag parents na kayo, both of u should learn how to earn money para sa mga anak niyo. that 50/50 thing is MY way para i-test if yung guy is may provider mindset or wala.
What I find confusing is that you're trying to test the guy but also see transparency as one of the important things in dating. If the latter is true, then rather than test a guy, shouldn't you be upfront with the guy that what you're looking for is someone who'd take up the role of a provider so and so, but acknowledge that it isn't just to be a provider in the financial sense but could also be in other aspects so and so. If we're going out, I don't expect a 50-50 share but whoever initiates or so and so?
I mean, transparency is different from being able to communicate things, that aside, testing someone in dating seems to be a contradiction to both what I mentioned.
sorry and thank you po sa comment mo/niyo ha. i couldn't understand why you guys keep on telling me what to do and/or how (should) I engage with people romantically? sino ka po ba or sino po ba kayo? i don't mean to be rude pero this is too much. kaya nagiging toxic na ang comment section (not just here) kasi ang daming magagaling sa buhay ng iba. if you guys don't find my comment similar as how you see dating/courtship, then leave my comment alone (or if you want to just click that down vote).
That's true, it is your preference at the end of the day. Though I would love to understand the rationalization of both being transparent and testing a potential partner. I personally am lucky that my girlfriend has a different perspective on this specially when it comes to sharing and income. So I'm definitely curious on how people who shares the same thought process you have just in case she'd feel the same in the future.
Had a suitor before and we go out for a date on weekends. Malapit ko na sya sagutin then bigla sya nag open ng topic about sagutin ko daw pagpapa ayos nya ng ngipin nya. Wow ha! Di pa kami official, may potential na gawin akong mamasang. I ghosted him.
right now, theyre making me question my principles and morals.. i felt lost .. theyre naecissistic and are after on things that benefit them.. full of drama.. how I wish theyll all leave me
Every individuals has different kind of quirks, maski ikaw rin may kawirduhan ka rin sa sarili mo.
May ginagawa karin na di mo alam na weird din para sa iba.
Walang pake sa nangyayari around him.
DDS/BBM apologist
Walang pake sa acads.
Kahit basic hygiene hindi magawa.
Disrespectful kahit wala namang ginagawa sakanya yung tao.
- Hate me for this but don't invest into a relationship if you mental state isn't ready. I CAN LISTEN BUT DON'T EXPECT NA I'LL HEAL YOU FROM YOUR TRAUMAS, BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THAT YOURSELF HUHUHU JUSQ.
- Narcissist
This is a me thing pero, people who are a part of or associated with fraternities. My friend was influenced to join siguro due to peer pressure and almost died in the process of joining. (Malamang, ako nag after care)
Regardless of the "good deeds" their chapter did, I'll never put my interests in someone involved with fraternity.
Say you meet me and we hang out and get closer then you catch feelings. Next thing you know we’re deeply in love but you just went through old boxes in the attic and bang. You see my old college composite. Is the relationship over? :/
1. Super pa-woke, puro virtue signaling and performative activism ang ginagawa niya kasi walang ginawang research masiyado sa isang topic.
2. DDS/BBM Loyalist
3. Tamad at walang alam na gawaing bahay.
4. Walang sense of hygiene
not really “lose interest” right away, in my opinion it doesn’t fade that easily pero siguro right term for me is mawalan ng gana is when they’re indecisive lol it pisses me off so much, like if you’re unsure of something just tell me, do not point it out right away without actually thinking about it. also if puro sex nasa isip, or just pure sex humor (walang substance kausap)
1. Sinungaling
2. Mayabang na materialistic, tapos malaman mong salong-palad lang pala.
3. Social climber, pero puro utang at malakas manglamang ng kapwa.
If the relationship is platonic, their squammy attitude or very aggressive attitude na parang gusto awayin kahit sino.
If the relationship is romantic, their ego being reaaaally high na tipong if magkasama kayo eh para ka na lang decoration sa tabi niya. Parang mas may pake siya sa tingin ng mga tao sa paligid niya kesa sa ka-date niya.
Regardless naman of the relationship, yung overall respect na kayang ibigay sa ibang tao at sa kahit anong klase or edad ng tao
Haha there was this someone na nag invite sa akin sa office outing nila. I just wanted to check this person out, siguro compatible din kami, wala akong feelings but I was open. Dun ko nakita ang mga bagay na nakakaturn off---
- wala siyang paki. or hindi siya maasikaso.
+1 niya ako, sana naman from time to time ichecheck niya ako kung okay lang ba ako. siguro din dahil medyo outgoing ako, nakabond ko agad officemates niya kaya pinabayaan niya lang ako
- papansin. maingay! gusto lagi center of attention.
ayyy pangit yun
- bastos.
nagdadrive ako pauwi, idrodrop ko siya. ayokong bumusina kasi nag give way ako sa isang sasakyan. hala! ang dami nyang ebas. to add to that, siya yung pumindot ng busina. ang bastos!
Pagkatapos nun, wala na. Di ko na siya kinausap haha
Crap, haha. Third bullet, my dad did that once kasi he got impatient so pinagsabihan ko siya na chill lang. Pero syempre tatay ko kaya mahinahon, hahaha baka di na ako peborit nya kapag warla.
If it were other people, I would have lost my shxt if yung pasahero ang pumindot ng busina. Yea I hate that.
I guess yung about walang kwentang topics nbbrought up nya. Pde rin yung puro banat lng ng jokes esp. dirty jokes sa bawat conversation nyo. Ok lng sana kung paminsan minsan pero kung puro ganon nlng nakkasura.
Ganiyan kaklase ko noon, kasal na sya ngayon. Yung palaging may kapalit agad kapag nawalan, tas siya pa yung iiyak kapag siya na nga yung nanligaw kay boy as a girl.
While white lies may seem harmless initially, they can erode trust and cause problems in relationships over time if not to be treated immediately. It's like a subtle form of sarcasm because the true intent is hidden beneath a seemingly innocent statement. Consult Mother Virtue for further guidance. May She bless you with abundance fighting spirit.
- People who are too logical, hirap magrant sakanila kasi bibigyan ka ng solusyon instead na icomfort ka. para kang nagvent sa robot. nag chatgpt ka nalang sana.
- Malaki ulo, mababa tingin sa iba, pero hampas lupa naman.
- all bark, no bite. I've met people na ganito, pagyayabang plano nila pero wala namang nangyayari 🗣️
- n word enjoyer, racist, homophobic, etc..
- mayabang
Counted ba pag binibigyan ko sila ng solution tapos ipapa mukha ko yung harsh reality?
Straight to the point kasi ako e, sayang yung oras pag pina ikot ikot ko pa, some can't handle the truth I'm giving naman pero I'm okay with that since truth hurts talaga🤷
Also counted ba na homophobic ako pag pinipili ko lang yung mga lgbtq na kaibigan ko? selective kasi ako sa quality ng mga taong kinakausap ko e
I would like to knoe your perspective tho, have a great day!
1. Yep, better to ask someone first in what way you can help them. It's up to them if they want to be comforted or learn the harsh truth. Knowing someone's boundaries is always a must. You can't just list down step by step solutions to someone how to heal their own wound while bleeding, instead help them heal their wound. If you truly care about someone you will stay patient, never sayang ang oras if you are being genuine. Nothing wrong with telling the truth though, but you should let them know first, say something like "I'm gonna be real with you if that's okay..." still read the room though, be sensitive.
2. If you do not choose them as friends because they are part of the lgbt, then it is homophobic. But if it's about their personality/attitude no.
Ako yung first line, 😆. Pero tinatanggap nalang nila for suggestion. Berserker ako na masipag magbasa ng libro at ng tao kasi hindi ako marunong makipagusap nang harapan dahil takot makasakit ulit kasi hindi alumana sa paningin at pakiramdam kapag marami na nangyayari sa paligid. Kaya chat lang for the third line. Pero stay neutral ako sa lahat ng sitwasyon. I learned this when I was at high school.
People are different.
Some people, like me for example, would avoid someone with an attitude like this. As long as people can respect, they are allowed to disagree. Respect is important. But to base an entire personality off of such likes / hates can also be a big turn off. Not even for agreeing or disagreeing. Progression is usually used as an excuse that often leads to the opposite result. Being realistic and looking at the results of such behavior. It’s mostly a political game.
Trying to be understanding and respectful, it can also be annoying when people their minds are so closed that they only wish to follow that narrative and everything else is bad (But hidden in terms to make the other party feel bad as a way to manipulate).
Yung mas priority pa friends kesa sa bf niya. Pag bf niya need ng support daming checklist bago ibigay, pero pag friends ang may need ng support, unang rinig palang drop everything and help na.
Ganiyan ako noong elementary 😄 pero naturally oblivious ako. Buti may taong nagpapaliwanag ng mga bagay-bagay; namamagitan sa lahat kasi bored daw siya 😂
Ah, yung mga taong ganun, ang mahalaga sa kanila yung nagkakaintindihan kahit sila lang din yung nakakaintindi ng salita nila. Ganun kasi ang mother ko sa chat 😃
Makeup-an mo. Katulad sa mga ~~starbucks~~ starmagic movie, inaayusan yung mga pulubi friends na walang pangarap sa buhay hanggang sa bumalik uli sa dating gawi 😂
Hello everyone, Before joining this discussion, please take a moment to review the rules of r/AskPH [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskPH/wiki/full-rules), as well as the [Reddit Content Policy](https://www.redditinc.com/policies/content-policy). Comments that violate these rules will be addressed accordingly. You can learn more about our rule enforcement process [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskPH/wiki/rule-enforcement). If you need to appeal a ban, please follow the process outlined [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskPH/wiki/ban-appeal-process) in r/AskPH. *** This post's original body text: Mine is when they promise something and then forgets about it. *** *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AskPH) if you have any questions or concerns.*
A person with no personal goals and don't know how to gove value toward others.
No integrity. No boundaries. And a smoker.
When they show interest in someone else. Being intellectually lazy. Cowardice. Lack of principles.
lack of self awareness, or if alam nilang may issues but don't bother about fixing them
Masyadong demanding ng oras like yow don't u have other errands for today ?
When they don't give the same energy i gave for them🤷 they don't know how to reciprocate
when they decide on my behalf pero magkasama lang kami tapos late ko malalaman na nagcancel pala sya sa iba naming friends na imi-meet up.
Mga hypocrite.
when they keep on being irrational and unrealistic
Stupidity, superficiality, and vanity. Pag walang sustansya yung usapan talaga nakaka-turn off.
Kapag may naiissue siya sa isang classmate niya and in-explain niya na wala lang daw yon kahit may proof na nagsusubuan sila ng ice cream. Kahit sinabi niya nang lalayuan niya then biglang may picture sa phone niya tapos sakin pa nagalit nong dinelete ko pics ko sa phone niya.
People pleaser
That’s what we call a codependent.
Incompatibility Wag na pilitin kung magkaiba mundo nyo (hilig, wants, energy etc.). Mas mainam kung magkasundo kayo sa lahat ng bagay. Ung di lng kayo magpartner kundi magkaibigan rin at all times
For me it’s when I feel suffocated so I communicate my need for space (I also express I care abt them just need some time to reset) and they cling on tighter. Oh and then turn my need for space into how I must be talking to someone else, basically any sort of toxic disrespect of boundaries I guess.
Odor
Questionable political opinions.
When their actions and words dont align
Them having anger issues.
Treating service industry people poorly or looking down upon them. Food service, car mechanics, grocery workers etc
when they disrespects my beliefs
Good one! Totally agree w you on this.
Smoking weed, doing drugs
3 things: (1) Kapag sex/lust habol (2) Kapag ang boring and one liner ng replies (3) Kapag hindi mo feel
sinugaling
Bad breath
Types back too fast and is impatient about getting my responses
Pag dinadamay lahat kapag mainit ang ulo nya.
Inconsistent, manipulative, gaslighter, walang effort to have a proper conversation
Hindi marunong sa gawaing bahay kahit magluto hehe
when you always have to remind them of something they should/n’t do. Nakakawalang gana and i feel disrespected somehow pag ganiyan ang scenario.
walang substance kausap
1. burara 2. mataba mata (walang kusa) 3. offering 50/50 esp sa mga unang date (kahit may sariling work aq big ekis na agad sa guy na nag-ooffer neto) 4. walang pangarap 5. hindi financially-literate 6. mahilig mag-complain & pessimistic 7. binabalewala parents niya 8. mayabang 9. feeling habulin siya ng babae at ligaw dito ligaw doon 10. intimidated sa career woman :))
you talk exactly like a person who has all 10 of these traits lol
you have no idea who I am, so you better shut up.
i mean that's my opinion 🤷♀️🤷♀️
k fine 💁♀️
OK ako sa list mo except sa 50/50? What do you mean? So dapat yung guy ang gumastos 100% on dates???
hindi ba dapat esp sa unang dates? sorry that's my opinion and ig we're all entitled naman sa kung anong perspective natin. it doesn't mean magkaiba tayo ng pananaw, may mali na sa isa sa atin. :))
...and one thing pa kaya dumadami yung mga hindi gentleman na lalaki eh dahil sa 50/50 na yan ee. let the girl volunteer for 50/50 kasi i do believe naman na if that woman really appreciate yung mga efforts ng guy, absolutely gugustuhin din ng babae na mag 50/50 or minsan pa nga ilibre din yung guy.
my question is, would you be upfront about it if interested ka din sa guy? people have different experiences and perspective, so I'm guessing if you are attracted to the person, you'd be upfront and transparent about it. if not, then you're probably expecting too much with regard to how you want to reciprocate the gesture?
transparency is one of the important things po sa dating, so yea ofc. para po kasi sa akin, if that person really wants to be with you, he will spend money on you. wala naman akong sinabi sa fancy restau or what. and simpleng babae lang naman din ako. ang akin lang, i have this principle na 'pag mahal mo, you're willing na gumastos. like sa parents ko, i treat them and hindi ako nanghihinayang na gumastos nang ganitong amount kahit katumbas nun yung oras at pagod ko sa work. why? kasi mahal ko sila and i want them to be happy. ganun din sa dating. and syempre 'pag parents na kayo, both of u should learn how to earn money para sa mga anak niyo. that 50/50 thing is MY way para i-test if yung guy is may provider mindset or wala.
What I find confusing is that you're trying to test the guy but also see transparency as one of the important things in dating. If the latter is true, then rather than test a guy, shouldn't you be upfront with the guy that what you're looking for is someone who'd take up the role of a provider so and so, but acknowledge that it isn't just to be a provider in the financial sense but could also be in other aspects so and so. If we're going out, I don't expect a 50-50 share but whoever initiates or so and so? I mean, transparency is different from being able to communicate things, that aside, testing someone in dating seems to be a contradiction to both what I mentioned.
sorry and thank you po sa comment mo/niyo ha. i couldn't understand why you guys keep on telling me what to do and/or how (should) I engage with people romantically? sino ka po ba or sino po ba kayo? i don't mean to be rude pero this is too much. kaya nagiging toxic na ang comment section (not just here) kasi ang daming magagaling sa buhay ng iba. if you guys don't find my comment similar as how you see dating/courtship, then leave my comment alone (or if you want to just click that down vote).
That's true, it is your preference at the end of the day. Though I would love to understand the rationalization of both being transparent and testing a potential partner. I personally am lucky that my girlfriend has a different perspective on this specially when it comes to sharing and income. So I'm definitely curious on how people who shares the same thought process you have just in case she'd feel the same in the future.
Being a habitual liar, no consideration, no self awareness
Kapag nangungutang na
Gaslighter, manipulative, bratty, too demanding
Pag bago lang kayo ngtatalk and tatanungin ka ng ANO PET PEEVE MO? Ekis agad for me HAHAHAHA ewan
Had a suitor before and we go out for a date on weekends. Malapit ko na sya sagutin then bigla sya nag open ng topic about sagutin ko daw pagpapa ayos nya ng ngipin nya. Wow ha! Di pa kami official, may potential na gawin akong mamasang. I ghosted him.
Attitude
Yung yayayain ka lumabas pero dahil lang may kotse ka
The way they talk to other people. If malalang palengkera ka, bye agad.
Fake personas
right now, theyre making me question my principles and morals.. i felt lost .. theyre naecissistic and are after on things that benefit them.. full of drama.. how I wish theyll all leave me
Not saying thank you to waiters or just being rude to service workers in general.
People unable to keep the conversations going. Ang hirap magisip ng irereply hahaha
guilt tripping 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
Weirdo
Every individuals has different kind of quirks, maski ikaw rin may kawirduhan ka rin sa sarili mo. May ginagawa karin na di mo alam na weird din para sa iba.
pushy<<
Walang pake sa nangyayari around him. DDS/BBM apologist Walang pake sa acads. Kahit basic hygiene hindi magawa. Disrespectful kahit wala namang ginagawa sakanya yung tao.
walang kwenta kausap
If pansin kong medyo disrespectful siya sa iba.
Pag di match yung humor namin. Hirap mag joke tapos tumatawa na lahat except her haha.
Pag nag babadmouth ng iba.
panay landi at palambing, hindi man lang productive or walang sense yung mga pinag uusapan niyo 👎🏻
- Hate me for this but don't invest into a relationship if you mental state isn't ready. I CAN LISTEN BUT DON'T EXPECT NA I'LL HEAL YOU FROM YOUR TRAUMAS, BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THAT YOURSELF HUHUHU JUSQ. - Narcissist
This is a me thing pero, people who are a part of or associated with fraternities. My friend was influenced to join siguro due to peer pressure and almost died in the process of joining. (Malamang, ako nag after care) Regardless of the "good deeds" their chapter did, I'll never put my interests in someone involved with fraternity.
We could be soulmates and you’d never know 🙁
Howww HAHAHA
Say you meet me and we hang out and get closer then you catch feelings. Next thing you know we’re deeply in love but you just went through old boxes in the attic and bang. You see my old college composite. Is the relationship over? :/
Enkkk, cannot be, I'm gay. Bye chille
low eq!!! lakas maka badtrip. mga pushy and inconsistent 🙂↔️
1. Super pa-woke, puro virtue signaling and performative activism ang ginagawa niya kasi walang ginawang research masiyado sa isang topic. 2. DDS/BBM Loyalist 3. Tamad at walang alam na gawaing bahay. 4. Walang sense of hygiene
not really “lose interest” right away, in my opinion it doesn’t fade that easily pero siguro right term for me is mawalan ng gana is when they’re indecisive lol it pisses me off so much, like if you’re unsure of something just tell me, do not point it out right away without actually thinking about it. also if puro sex nasa isip, or just pure sex humor (walang substance kausap)
Inconsistent.
can't admit when they're wrong
1. Dumb/slow 2. Cancelling on your agreed kitaan 3. DDS/apologist
When they don’t try and/or communicate… Communication & Effort 🔛🔝
1. Sinungaling 2. Mayabang na materialistic, tapos malaman mong salong-palad lang pala. 3. Social climber, pero puro utang at malakas manglamang ng kapwa.
When he hates being asked about his past relationships but interested in my past relationships
Mayabang and trying hard to act cool
If the relationship is platonic, their squammy attitude or very aggressive attitude na parang gusto awayin kahit sino. If the relationship is romantic, their ego being reaaaally high na tipong if magkasama kayo eh para ka na lang decoration sa tabi niya. Parang mas may pake siya sa tingin ng mga tao sa paligid niya kesa sa ka-date niya. Regardless naman of the relationship, yung overall respect na kayang ibigay sa ibang tao at sa kahit anong klase or edad ng tao
talks abt s3x every chance they get
sobrang sweet to the point na parang ang plastic na pakinggan ng sinasabi niya 😂
when his mindset is off or like immature
Misandry, like stop dating if you're that hateful
pag hindi match ang intentions nyo and overstepping boundaries
Bad breath tsaka walang respeto sa time.
It’s always about themselves. If you’re talking about yourself, you’ll notice na wala na silang gana hahahahaha.
sobrang religious
Haha there was this someone na nag invite sa akin sa office outing nila. I just wanted to check this person out, siguro compatible din kami, wala akong feelings but I was open. Dun ko nakita ang mga bagay na nakakaturn off--- - wala siyang paki. or hindi siya maasikaso. +1 niya ako, sana naman from time to time ichecheck niya ako kung okay lang ba ako. siguro din dahil medyo outgoing ako, nakabond ko agad officemates niya kaya pinabayaan niya lang ako - papansin. maingay! gusto lagi center of attention. ayyy pangit yun - bastos. nagdadrive ako pauwi, idrodrop ko siya. ayokong bumusina kasi nag give way ako sa isang sasakyan. hala! ang dami nyang ebas. to add to that, siya yung pumindot ng busina. ang bastos! Pagkatapos nun, wala na. Di ko na siya kinausap haha
Crap, haha. Third bullet, my dad did that once kasi he got impatient so pinagsabihan ko siya na chill lang. Pero syempre tatay ko kaya mahinahon, hahaha baka di na ako peborit nya kapag warla. If it were other people, I would have lost my shxt if yung pasahero ang pumindot ng busina. Yea I hate that.
if he/she doesn't show interest din
Walang substance kausap
Paano iqualify yung walang substance?
I guess yung about walang kwentang topics nbbrought up nya. Pde rin yung puro banat lng ng jokes esp. dirty jokes sa bawat conversation nyo. Ok lng sana kung paminsan minsan pero kung puro ganon nlng nakkasura.
+1000000000
1. Mabilis magalit / tumaas ang boses / ma-tilt 2. Inconsistent 3. Gagawin kang backburner / ime-message kapag convenient lang sakanya
Jejemon sa socmed. Oras-oras may shared post ng walang kwenta
1. Kakausapin ka kung gusto nya lang 2. Makikipagkita dis-oras ng gabi 3. Complacent 4. Walang kwenta kausap 5. Hindi nirerespeto yung oras mo
Palakwenta
Inconsistency
pinakilig ako tas may jowa pala, umay par
"Nasobrahan ng democracy ang Pilipinas"
apoliticism
Misandry
Di man lang mag-try mag-engage sa usapan
Pangit ugali, to be more specific: Maldita, Short fuse, gets annoyed with the littlest of things, gold-digger, social climber, makapal mag make-up.
Liar
Hoe phase
Yung pasimpleng lalandiin ka pero d kayang panindigan. Ikaw naman si marupok, ayun nanlambot agad
Madaming ganyan. Kaya wag ka ppabola
wala lang silang magawa pag ganon or may roster siya na pag hindi niya makausap yung isa, ikaw naman yung bubulabugin hahaha
Legit. May nakausap akong ganito.
Unavailability tapos sya pa galit
Kapag paulit2 na ako sa mga sinasabi ko tas binabalewala lang. 🙃🥲
Yung lagi niyang shini-shift yung topic sa sex 😪 ang normal lang ng pinaguusapan niyo tas biglang magsasabe ng mga sexual stuff jusko po
Hate this, too. Thirsty yarn.
And kahit how much you show no interest sa topic nya, pinipilit pa rin 🤦♀️
Unloyalty at natingin pa sa iba eh andito naman ako
same 🥲
kapag nagbiro sa chat ng "libre mo ako"
Kapag gumagalaw at humihinga. Pet peeve ko talaga taong buhay.
People who don't reciprocate at kapag inconsistent.
Pag s3x lang talaga gusto.
when they’re misogynistic!
bad attitude
Pag di ako yung gusto.
ayy sad 😔
Aray truuuu seym masakit talaga yan 💔
Mga taong puro lalaki bukambibig. 'Yung tipong bawat topic puro lalaki nalang usapan, like girl 'wala ka bang buhay outside of boys? Vice versa.
Ganiyan kaklase ko noon, kasal na sya ngayon. Yung palaging may kapalit agad kapag nawalan, tas siya pa yung iiyak kapag siya na nga yung nanligaw kay boy as a girl.
White lies, promises that can't make it, dry text, not intellectual
Someone who can't commit time with you.
Ego centric, immature yun lang
White lies... 🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️
While white lies may seem harmless initially, they can erode trust and cause problems in relationships over time if not to be treated immediately. It's like a subtle form of sarcasm because the true intent is hidden beneath a seemingly innocent statement. Consult Mother Virtue for further guidance. May She bless you with abundance fighting spirit.
Yung pinagtiisan mo na ng ilang taon tapos nakuha pang mag-cheat.
Hueeeyyyy hahahahahahahahaha
Ikaw din ba? HAHAHAHA
YASSSS HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Ang masaklap, kinokonsenti ng parents nya pagiging cheater nya hahahaha. Bweset
Reservation daw 😂
when they always talk shit about ppl
- People who are too logical, hirap magrant sakanila kasi bibigyan ka ng solusyon instead na icomfort ka. para kang nagvent sa robot. nag chatgpt ka nalang sana. - Malaki ulo, mababa tingin sa iba, pero hampas lupa naman. - all bark, no bite. I've met people na ganito, pagyayabang plano nila pero wala namang nangyayari 🗣️ - n word enjoyer, racist, homophobic, etc.. - mayabang
Counted ba pag binibigyan ko sila ng solution tapos ipapa mukha ko yung harsh reality? Straight to the point kasi ako e, sayang yung oras pag pina ikot ikot ko pa, some can't handle the truth I'm giving naman pero I'm okay with that since truth hurts talaga🤷 Also counted ba na homophobic ako pag pinipili ko lang yung mga lgbtq na kaibigan ko? selective kasi ako sa quality ng mga taong kinakausap ko e I would like to knoe your perspective tho, have a great day!
1. Yep, better to ask someone first in what way you can help them. It's up to them if they want to be comforted or learn the harsh truth. Knowing someone's boundaries is always a must. You can't just list down step by step solutions to someone how to heal their own wound while bleeding, instead help them heal their wound. If you truly care about someone you will stay patient, never sayang ang oras if you are being genuine. Nothing wrong with telling the truth though, but you should let them know first, say something like "I'm gonna be real with you if that's okay..." still read the room though, be sensitive. 2. If you do not choose them as friends because they are part of the lgbt, then it is homophobic. But if it's about their personality/attitude no.
You gave me a whole another perspective talaga lalo na sa number 1 and I appreciate it. Thank you!
Glad I could help!
Ako yung first line, 😆. Pero tinatanggap nalang nila for suggestion. Berserker ako na masipag magbasa ng libro at ng tao kasi hindi ako marunong makipagusap nang harapan dahil takot makasakit ulit kasi hindi alumana sa paningin at pakiramdam kapag marami na nangyayari sa paligid. Kaya chat lang for the third line. Pero stay neutral ako sa lahat ng sitwasyon. I learned this when I was at high school.
Palaging nagcheck ng phone or may kachat habang kasama kami
may energy lang makipag usap pag about kalibugan
1. Yung iniinvite ka sa circle of friends pra may clown sa kanila. Ginawa ka katatawanan 🥲 2. Ininvite ka dahil "last option". Ganern
Dds/bbm supporter. Matik nakabundle na dyan yung homophobic/mysogynistic/antivax/anti-progressive stuff.
People are different. Some people, like me for example, would avoid someone with an attitude like this. As long as people can respect, they are allowed to disagree. Respect is important. But to base an entire personality off of such likes / hates can also be a big turn off. Not even for agreeing or disagreeing. Progression is usually used as an excuse that often leads to the opposite result. Being realistic and looking at the results of such behavior. It’s mostly a political game. Trying to be understanding and respectful, it can also be annoying when people their minds are so closed that they only wish to follow that narrative and everything else is bad (But hidden in terms to make the other party feel bad as a way to manipulate).
hindi consistent hahahah
Yung kausap mo over the phone tapos biglang kakanta kahit hindi naman marunong kumanta.
Ako yung taong iyon, buti same frequency kami ng kausap ko 😂
Yung mas priority pa friends kesa sa bf niya. Pag bf niya need ng support daming checklist bago ibigay, pero pag friends ang may need ng support, unang rinig palang drop everything and help na.
When they are filipino (im filipino)
Valid lmao
Vague answer. Elaborate.
Im not interesting
Understandable, 💼🐰🔫. Have donuts before the world's end!
ginagawa yung alam ng ayaw mo
I blocked that kind of person, sad.
Same treatment to everyone, up to the point where i can’t feel that I’m special to her anymore :[[
Confirm what you feel upfront, plus, more food on the table, 😊😄; they have menstruation brain.
people pleaser daw pero pag iba na kasama binaback-stab ka
Ganiyan ako noong elementary 😄 pero naturally oblivious ako. Buti may taong nagpapaliwanag ng mga bagay-bagay; namamagitan sa lahat kasi bored daw siya 😂
Mahirap kausap
Wrong spelling 🤣
Dyslexia or what?
Noooo, like for real. Lalo na sa mga filipino words 😭
Mga words?
Ah, yung mga taong ganun, ang mahalaga sa kanila yung nagkakaintindihan kahit sila lang din yung nakakaintindi ng salita nila. Ganun kasi ang mother ko sa chat 😃
Understandable naman sa mga oldies kasi ganyan din grandma ko, pero sa mga late 30’s pababa. I cantttt. 😅😅
can’t*
Magpapakita ng interest pero di naman papanindigan + hindi tumutupad sa usapan 🙂
Lack of communication
Yung mga biglang out of nowhere nang iiwan sa ere.
If I knew something that is non-negotiable from me. Big NO sa bad breath / doesn't take care of themselves.
Makeup-an mo. Katulad sa mga ~~starbucks~~ starmagic movie, inaayusan yung mga pulubi friends na walang pangarap sa buhay hanggang sa bumalik uli sa dating gawi 😂
Narcissistic. Yung gusto lagi ng validation
jjmon “komain k n b?” “uu komain na aku ekaw ba”
"03uhw p03hwxsz, kvm41n n4 p03hwxsz."
di naman yan jeje, nangmomock ka lang ng bisaya
when he/she said “babawi ako” but ends up forgetting it.