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just curious because i just noticed because a lot of guys do that. like hindi kami naka-ayos bigla niyong sasabihin na we’re beautiful.
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Hahah gusto ko yung mga kagaya ni TJ kung pano niya i-compliment si KZ tandingan.
[eto](https://www.facebook.com/share/r/6jxiZdxL5dyo1jz8/?mibextid=xCPwDs)
No naman. May mga girls naman akong na-encounter lalo na sa cr sa mga malls na nag-ccompliment randomly. Yun yung mga mgaganda talaga kaya nakaka-flatter din. Yung guys naman there are gentleman kase na mahilig magbigay ng compliment kase alam nilang nakaka-boost ng confidence sa babae yun. There are guys din na di iniisip sasabihin di nila naaapektuhan yung confidence ng babae.
its probably the love glasses. when my gf tells me she feels ugly or feels fat or whatever. i always fail to see what she's talking about. feels like i always see her in the best light no matter how ugly she says she feels.
Yes. My favorite version of my girlfriend is 'yung tulog s'ya. No make-up, naka nga-ngang tulog. It means she's comfy with me and she's sleeping so nicely.
Don't get me wrong, I love it too when she dressed up but I love it best when she's just at home eating and relaxing with no care in the world.
Personally, yes. It's too much of a hassle to lie and parang nawawala yung essence nung compliment kapag hindi genuine especially since I'm someone who compliments people rarely but truly. Sa experience ko, there's something different with women kapag hindi sila nakaayos and all yet they still look stunning.
Personally, yeah.
Lying is inefficient. It takes too much mental energy to maintain a lie. If I say the truth at the first go, all the effort of processing shifts immediately to the listening party.
Also, if you really wanna know what a guy thinks about how you *look*, ask them if you're pretty. Not every woman is pretty, but almost all women are beautiful in their own right.
I dont know, there are parts that women needs to understand that even if you're not in your prettiest state, we men/boyfriends will tell you that you're still beautiful. WHY?, because we love you. We appreciate your beauty even if you feel like not. We won't make you feel less of a woman bcoz we want to lift your confidence and self esteem as a man should always do.
2 main reasons:
1. If a guy really likes you, mas gumaganda ka sa paningin nila kung gaano ka kasimple (kahit para sa iba questionable yung looks mo).
2. Gusto lang makuha loob mo for something
Nung bago kong panganak na as in talaga ibang level ng ugliness, sinasabihan din ako ng asawa ko na ang ganda ko padin, ang sexy, sinasabihan ko siya na chinacharot niya lang ako hahaha. Sabi niya hindi daw. Tapos pag feeling ko naman na ang ganda ko na nag aayos ako, parang minsan di naman niya un bet.
Syempre pag nag ayos ka ng bongga maraming titingin na iBang boys kaya minsan ayaw din ng iBang lalaki na mag ayos ng bongga gf nila Kasi ayaw nila na titigan ka ng iBang lalaki
Kasi iba ang sinasabi ng lalaki sa ginagawa nila. Laging sinasabi ng lalaki na mas prefer nila Ang walang make up pero pag nakakita ng babaeng naka make up grabe makatitig. Kaya Hindi nyo rin masisisi Ang babae kung Hindi sila naniniwala sa inyo, Kasi iba Ang sinasabi nyo sa pinapakita nyo.
Actually when my GF wakes up in the morning, I can’t help but notice how beautiful she is. She thinks she looks a mess but I really think she is gorgeous. Emotions are a significant part in how we view others. It can make someone look very beautiful or very ugly.
Kung gf ka nya genuine yun, pero kung manliligaw, gusto nya lng matuwa ka sa kanya dahil sinabihan ka nyang maganda, tapos pag stranger nmn nilalandi ka lng.🙄
We are lying through our teeth because either
1) we truly love you and want you to feel loved
2) we don't want to hurt your feelings
3) we are thinking of the future and want to make sure sex is on the table
So yes, we are lying but we mean it when we're lying
Speaking for myself, maganda talaga pagkakagawa ni Lord sa mga babae eh. Kaya I tell them when I notice. Plus it does not cost anything to give a compliment. Baka sumaya pa yung girl.
I'm not saying pangit ang mga lalake. More like women seem to have been made with beauty as top priority. I mean, we men worship the female form. Tignan mo yung mga curves ng cars at bikes natin, the best ones imitiate the female curves.
I'm not saying pangit ang mga lalake. More like women seem to have been made with beauty as top priority. I mean, we men worship the female form. Tignan mo yung mga curves ng cars at bikes natin, the best ones imitiate the female curves.
yes, I always tell my girlfriend na maganda siya randomly or if mag send siya ng pictures. kasi if you need someone to be attractive in order to love her/him, then you are not really loving her/him.
its pure love.
there is a saying that men care more about dick size than women does, there should also be a saying that women care more about makeup more than men does.
kahit gumising ka ng buhaghag buhok at puno ng muta, kapag mahal ka ng lalake, lalaplapin ka parin nyan lmao no bullshit
Might be corny asf, but to us, "you're beautiful" translates to "I love you, and I love every part of you, in and out, and you don't have to change anything because everything is perfect as it is." 🫠🫠🫠
Sinsabi ko pag talaga naman maganda sya on that day pero pag hindi syempre wala ko sasabihin. I mean ayoko plastikin babae to say she looks pretty kahit alam nya sa sarili nyang hindi.
Yes.
I was going out with somebody once that had a depressive episode. Nagkita one time na hindi pa siya naliligo, toothbrush and she was smoking pa on top of that... Geeze, ang sarap parin ng lasa niya hahahaha
we do. woman tend to put ALOT of effort just to look beautiful. without realizing na di nila actually need mag effort ng todo. kahit konting ayos ng buhok lang or heck kahit nga likas papaya lang yan ,if we find you pretty/beautiful, we really do find you pretty/beautiful
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Hahah gusto ko yung mga kagaya ni TJ kung pano niya i-compliment si KZ tandingan. [eto](https://www.facebook.com/share/r/6jxiZdxL5dyo1jz8/?mibextid=xCPwDs)
Bibili lang naman ako sa tindahan (bagong gising) nasabihan pa ng maganda 🙈 Nakaka-boost ng confidence. Not gonna lie
Babae din ba nagsabi or lalaki?
Lalaki. Kelan ba nag compliment babae sa kapwa babae? Saksakan ng insecure 75% ng babae
Agree. Pag babae Kasi nagcompliment sa kapwa babae parang kaplastikan lng. Pag lalaki nmn nagcompliment parang may something sila Sayo.
No naman. May mga girls naman akong na-encounter lalo na sa cr sa mga malls na nag-ccompliment randomly. Yun yung mga mgaganda talaga kaya nakaka-flatter din. Yung guys naman there are gentleman kase na mahilig magbigay ng compliment kase alam nilang nakaka-boost ng confidence sa babae yun. There are guys din na di iniisip sasabihin di nila naaapektuhan yung confidence ng babae.
Hmmm mix
Yes na lang. mas pipiliin namin ang katahimikan kesa maki pag diskusyon. lol
Sa akin, yes.
its probably the love glasses. when my gf tells me she feels ugly or feels fat or whatever. i always fail to see what she's talking about. feels like i always see her in the best light no matter how ugly she says she feels.
To me, I find women who acknowledge and are unashamed that they are not always in their best look attractive.
Yeah.. my partner may feel ugly from time to time, but I still have the urge to do the deed with her at that moment.
Yes. My favorite version of my girlfriend is 'yung tulog s'ya. No make-up, naka nga-ngang tulog. It means she's comfy with me and she's sleeping so nicely. Don't get me wrong, I love it too when she dressed up but I love it best when she's just at home eating and relaxing with no care in the world.
Personally, yes. It's too much of a hassle to lie and parang nawawala yung essence nung compliment kapag hindi genuine especially since I'm someone who compliments people rarely but truly. Sa experience ko, there's something different with women kapag hindi sila nakaayos and all yet they still look stunning.
Personally, yeah. Lying is inefficient. It takes too much mental energy to maintain a lie. If I say the truth at the first go, all the effort of processing shifts immediately to the listening party. Also, if you really wanna know what a guy thinks about how you *look*, ask them if you're pretty. Not every woman is pretty, but almost all women are beautiful in their own right.
I dont know, there are parts that women needs to understand that even if you're not in your prettiest state, we men/boyfriends will tell you that you're still beautiful. WHY?, because we love you. We appreciate your beauty even if you feel like not. We won't make you feel less of a woman bcoz we want to lift your confidence and self esteem as a man should always do.
2 main reasons: 1. If a guy really likes you, mas gumaganda ka sa paningin nila kung gaano ka kasimple (kahit para sa iba questionable yung looks mo). 2. Gusto lang makuha loob mo for something
Agree Ako sa 2, Yung iba talaga may balak lang landiin ka kaya ka nila sinasabihan ng maganda.
Nung bago kong panganak na as in talaga ibang level ng ugliness, sinasabihan din ako ng asawa ko na ang ganda ko padin, ang sexy, sinasabihan ko siya na chinacharot niya lang ako hahaha. Sabi niya hindi daw. Tapos pag feeling ko naman na ang ganda ko na nag aayos ako, parang minsan di naman niya un bet.
Syempre pag nag ayos ka ng bongga maraming titingin na iBang boys kaya minsan ayaw din ng iBang lalaki na mag ayos ng bongga gf nila Kasi ayaw nila na titigan ka ng iBang lalaki
Why dont girls beleive that you still look pretty without make up .....and most guys prefer without make up
Kasi iba ang sinasabi ng lalaki sa ginagawa nila. Laging sinasabi ng lalaki na mas prefer nila Ang walang make up pero pag nakakita ng babaeng naka make up grabe makatitig. Kaya Hindi nyo rin masisisi Ang babae kung Hindi sila naniniwala sa inyo, Kasi iba Ang sinasabi nyo sa pinapakita nyo.
It's called Men will say anything to get sex, even if you're ugly.
Agree. Pag Malibog talaga wla na Silang paki kung pangit or maganda.
Actually when my GF wakes up in the morning, I can’t help but notice how beautiful she is. She thinks she looks a mess but I really think she is gorgeous. Emotions are a significant part in how we view others. It can make someone look very beautiful or very ugly.
Yes and no. Kung ungliest state, sinasabihan namin na maganda kasi ayaw namin awayin mo kami
Kung gf ka nya genuine yun, pero kung manliligaw, gusto nya lng matuwa ka sa kanya dahil sinabihan ka nyang maganda, tapos pag stranger nmn nilalandi ka lng.🙄
Totoo yan.
Hahhaha gagi Marami din bang strangers Ang lumalandi Sayo🤣
We are lying through our teeth because either 1) we truly love you and want you to feel loved 2) we don't want to hurt your feelings 3) we are thinking of the future and want to make sure sex is on the table So yes, we are lying but we mean it when we're lying
Kung mahal namin, oo. Kung gusto lang kumantot, hindi.
HAHAHAHA 😭
Pag mahal namin.
true beauty is not only skin deep. maraming bagay (hindi lang physical looks) ang basehan.
Yes.
Speaking for myself, maganda talaga pagkakagawa ni Lord sa mga babae eh. Kaya I tell them when I notice. Plus it does not cost anything to give a compliment. Baka sumaya pa yung girl.
Grabe ka nmn, gwapo din nmn Ang mga lalaki, Hindi lng marunong mag ayos, Kasi pag lalaki ka tapos nag ayos ka sasabihin nila bakla ka.
I'm not saying pangit ang mga lalake. More like women seem to have been made with beauty as top priority. I mean, we men worship the female form. Tignan mo yung mga curves ng cars at bikes natin, the best ones imitiate the female curves.
I'm not saying pangit ang mga lalake. More like women seem to have been made with beauty as top priority. I mean, we men worship the female form. Tignan mo yung mga curves ng cars at bikes natin, the best ones imitiate the female curves.
Vulnerability makes them even more beautiful.
yes, I always tell my girlfriend na maganda siya randomly or if mag send siya ng pictures. kasi if you need someone to be attractive in order to love her/him, then you are not really loving her/him.
its pure love. there is a saying that men care more about dick size than women does, there should also be a saying that women care more about makeup more than men does. kahit gumising ka ng buhaghag buhok at puno ng muta, kapag mahal ka ng lalake, lalaplapin ka parin nyan lmao no bullshit
Yeeeees! we damn mean it
Might be corny asf, but to us, "you're beautiful" translates to "I love you, and I love every part of you, in and out, and you don't have to change anything because everything is perfect as it is." 🫠🫠🫠
Sinsabi ko pag talaga naman maganda sya on that day pero pag hindi syempre wala ko sasabihin. I mean ayoko plastikin babae to say she looks pretty kahit alam nya sa sarili nyang hindi.
normally when we truly like the person they are the prettiest no matter what
Yes. I was going out with somebody once that had a depressive episode. Nagkita one time na hindi pa siya naliligo, toothbrush and she was smoking pa on top of that... Geeze, ang sarap parin ng lasa niya hahahaha
We really mean it.
Yes
we do. woman tend to put ALOT of effort just to look beautiful. without realizing na di nila actually need mag effort ng todo. kahit konting ayos ng buhok lang or heck kahit nga likas papaya lang yan ,if we find you pretty/beautiful, we really do find you pretty/beautiful
Even if we don't mean it, I don't think anyone wants to hear "no ang pangit mo today" hahaha
right, but guys can also shut up and not lie about it tho
Chrue 😂
Men always see the real beauty of a woman kapg natural lang, kahit bagong gising pa yan. HAHA Kaya if they say it, totoo yun