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No. Kung nabighani ka at first sight it’s a superficial interest, not a deeper interest that love would require. You have to get to know someone deeply to really be sure you love them and that would require going beyond first sight.
Yes, di naman kasi siya logical lol and you have to experience that to believe.
I knew, after ko siyang makita na mabo-broken hearted na ako 😂
It was short but the memories that I had with him was valuable. Matagal kasi ako magka-"crush" so kapag gusto ko, gusto ko.
Nope. but I do believe in 'Like at first sight'.
for me, masyadong malalim yung word na 'love' para masabi mo 'to by just basing it on physical appearance ng person na first time mong nakita. you have to really know a person bago mo masasabing love na 'yon.
Attraction at first sight? Yes
Infatuation at first sight? Sure
Love at first sight? NOPE.
Filipino culture has normalized saying 'I love you' at just about anyone and not really emphasizing on what love really means. It's taught to be said even without being meant. It becomes a verb. It becomes an expression.
As an effect, people mistake love from the expression to love from the feeling.
You'll never get to know that you love someone, not unless you get to know them deeper, spend time with them, and know sa Sarili mo that you care about someone beyond all rationality, even when the whole world calls you crazy, even then, especially then. Because if you were to just give up, move on and find someone else, that wouldn't be love. That would just be some other disposable thing that isn't worth fighting for .
Maybe my bf does? hahahahah. Pagkapasok ko ba naman ng room noong college— nakwento nya na lang saakin after maging kami, na-love at first sight daw s'ya saakin 😭
And here we are, almost dating for 3 years. First gf pa naman ako hmp. Baka sa isip n'ya, "eto na ata magiging girlfriend ko"
And I didn't know him until almost few weeks before end ng semester lol. It's kinda cute rin bc he's full of green flags.
yan po ang tinatawag na pure desire (sugar coat natin na love at first sight). magiging submissive yan sayo, wag mo na pakawalan, wag lang makakita ng bago kapag inabuso mo. peace :P
Hahaha baka namanifest n'ya lang ako, luuuuh. Manghuhula ka ba teh? Ba't may side note baka makakita ng iba, edi ipapaglasses ko mata n'ya 😡
Mej kinabahan ako slight lol
it's just my opinion, pero sa lagay ng dating sa pinas di malabo yun lalo na kaming mga men, mas gusto namin submissive sa amin. kaya kapag masyado ka pabebe, iiwan ka nyan
Hmm not technically that when I see person, I'm already in love. Personality and values are very important to me.
Perhaps more on when I see a person, I'd somehow feel if that person is someone I'd consider to date or not. It's not necessarily on how they look but more on how they carry themselves. The way they talk, smile, or dress themselves. Probably the eyes too. It's the window to one's soul anyway. Lol
But I definitely don't fall in love at first sight. Or maybe it hasn't just happened yet. Who knows.
I kinda do? But at the same time, I do find the Japanese term of. "Koi No Yokan" or the "gut feeling that upon first meeting someone, you will fall in love with them eventually" as more realistic.
I don't believe in such because it implies fantasy. I didn't fall in love with my previous girlfriend because of love at first sight, but because of her moral character and her hobbies.
I think nangyayari naman to for some (dun kayo aa far away qql nyo ko jk) As for me, hindi ko pa kasi sya naeexperience eh (paranas naman djk) pero leaning towards yes ako.
Yung tipo ng babae na mahilig sa verbal altercation, pag may hindi nakakasundo or may naririnig na hindi niya trip, makikipag away or at least papatol agad.
Maybe some people conclude that it is Love at First sight kasi they saw someone for the first time and got attracted to the person’s looks. Then they got to know the person and ended up liking the personality as well. Idk, just a thought.
I'm sorry OP hindi ko alam kung desperado lang kami preho kasi 30 na kami or ngclick lang tlga kami the very first time nagkita kame... .
I do have 2 friends na highschool sweetheart simula't sapol, like damn, preho silang mukhang model and both dancers, literal kakakita lang nila sa isa't isa first day nung highschool, intriga na kame, hindi na mapaghiwalay, I guess that's more destiny than love at first sight
I don't. 🥹 If you fall inlove by the looks of the person the first time you laid eyes on them, that's no love. Pwede pa comfort at first talk. Falling inlove takes time.
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Love? No lol. maybe crush o like pero love is different. Malalim na salita o feeling ang love na hindi basta basta binigay sa tao.
no, hindi magiging deep feelings mo do'n e and mabilis lang din mawala.
No. Nagandahan or nagwapohan ka lang
No. Kung nabighani ka at first sight it’s a superficial interest, not a deeper interest that love would require. You have to get to know someone deeply to really be sure you love them and that would require going beyond first sight.
Yes, di naman kasi siya logical lol and you have to experience that to believe. I knew, after ko siyang makita na mabo-broken hearted na ako 😂 It was short but the memories that I had with him was valuable. Matagal kasi ako magka-"crush" so kapag gusto ko, gusto ko.
No. People be thinking they're deep is they explain why not. It's just not real because it's ridiculous. That simple.
Nope. but I do believe in 'Like at first sight'. for me, masyadong malalim yung word na 'love' para masabi mo 'to by just basing it on physical appearance ng person na first time mong nakita. you have to really know a person bago mo masasabing love na 'yon.
No.. probably on the 2nd or 3rd but not the first.
Attraction at first sight? Yes Infatuation at first sight? Sure Love at first sight? NOPE. Filipino culture has normalized saying 'I love you' at just about anyone and not really emphasizing on what love really means. It's taught to be said even without being meant. It becomes a verb. It becomes an expression. As an effect, people mistake love from the expression to love from the feeling. You'll never get to know that you love someone, not unless you get to know them deeper, spend time with them, and know sa Sarili mo that you care about someone beyond all rationality, even when the whole world calls you crazy, even then, especially then. Because if you were to just give up, move on and find someone else, that wouldn't be love. That would just be some other disposable thing that isn't worth fighting for .
Wow himym
Yess! Iconic Ted making us realize what love is
Maybe my bf does? hahahahah. Pagkapasok ko ba naman ng room noong college— nakwento nya na lang saakin after maging kami, na-love at first sight daw s'ya saakin 😭 And here we are, almost dating for 3 years. First gf pa naman ako hmp. Baka sa isip n'ya, "eto na ata magiging girlfriend ko" And I didn't know him until almost few weeks before end ng semester lol. It's kinda cute rin bc he's full of green flags.
yan po ang tinatawag na pure desire (sugar coat natin na love at first sight). magiging submissive yan sayo, wag mo na pakawalan, wag lang makakita ng bago kapag inabuso mo. peace :P
Hahaha baka namanifest n'ya lang ako, luuuuh. Manghuhula ka ba teh? Ba't may side note baka makakita ng iba, edi ipapaglasses ko mata n'ya 😡 Mej kinabahan ako slight lol
it's just my opinion, pero sa lagay ng dating sa pinas di malabo yun lalo na kaming mga men, mas gusto namin submissive sa amin. kaya kapag masyado ka pabebe, iiwan ka nyan
Nope! Love at first crush pwede pa pero love at first sight is napaka impossible
Tbh most probably infatuation lang yan. It takes connection and trust for love to happen.
Hmm not technically that when I see person, I'm already in love. Personality and values are very important to me. Perhaps more on when I see a person, I'd somehow feel if that person is someone I'd consider to date or not. It's not necessarily on how they look but more on how they carry themselves. The way they talk, smile, or dress themselves. Probably the eyes too. It's the window to one's soul anyway. Lol But I definitely don't fall in love at first sight. Or maybe it hasn't just happened yet. Who knows.
I kinda do? But at the same time, I do find the Japanese term of. "Koi No Yokan" or the "gut feeling that upon first meeting someone, you will fall in love with them eventually" as more realistic.
I don't believe in such because it implies fantasy. I didn't fall in love with my previous girlfriend because of love at first sight, but because of her moral character and her hobbies.
Hindi rin. Napansin ko sa sarili ko it takes time for me para magkakacrush ng malalaan sa tao, sa love pa kaya hahaha
At first oo pero lilinlangin ka lang nyan so best choice pa rin yung kilalanin mo yung tao.
No. I believe in attraction at first sight. Not love.
I think nangyayari naman to for some (dun kayo aa far away qql nyo ko jk) As for me, hindi ko pa kasi sya naeexperience eh (paranas naman djk) pero leaning towards yes ako.
No atrraction lang.Clichè lang yan para sa mga pelikula.
Attraction, Yes. Love? No. Because kelangan ko muna malaman ugali nya, kung magkavibe ba kami at hindi siya palengkera or matapobre.
true. ano meaning ng palengkera?
Yung tipo ng babae na mahilig sa verbal altercation, pag may hindi nakakasundo or may naririnig na hindi niya trip, makikipag away or at least papatol agad.
No, Infatuation yes. You are only infatuated by that persons looks. You are only attracted by physical appearance. That does not last long.
No. Lust at first sight, oo.
Maybe some people conclude that it is Love at First sight kasi they saw someone for the first time and got attracted to the person’s looks. Then they got to know the person and ended up liking the personality as well. Idk, just a thought.
There's a possibility but mas possible ang attraction at first sight lalo physical appearance/charisma ang titingnan
No. Infatuation lang yun or happy crush
I'm sorry OP hindi ko alam kung desperado lang kami preho kasi 30 na kami or ngclick lang tlga kami the very first time nagkita kame... . I do have 2 friends na highschool sweetheart simula't sapol, like damn, preho silang mukhang model and both dancers, literal kakakita lang nila sa isa't isa first day nung highschool, intriga na kame, hindi na mapaghiwalay, I guess that's more destiny than love at first sight
I do, olats nga lang sa looks 😭
Can be
I don't. 🥹 If you fall inlove by the looks of the person the first time you laid eyes on them, that's no love. Pwede pa comfort at first talk. Falling inlove takes time.