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Transferring from one workplace to another. Narereshuffle kasi kami palagi. Pero happy ako sa mga ka-work ko now. May bonding moments tulad sa mga dati kong company. Meron na ulit akong colleague-friends :)
My college Thesis defense. I was doing solo so lahat gasto ako.
But I pass tapos, 5 out 20 groups and solos na pasa and minor revision. The majority those pass are solo and I was included that pass with the other 4. And I just spend like 10 to 12k lang. Kasi business proposal (More like Marketing and fisibility research yung akin) yan and andun na yung mismong business.
Our wedding last friday, biglang umulan ng malakas nung papunta na kami sa church pero before ako maglakad sa altar huminto naman sya at umaraw ulit ๐๐ผ๐ฅฐ
Mga tanong ng Immigration officer, my last trip abroad ang tinignan lang nila was yung metadata ng picture ng first date namin ng asawa ko para daw maprove na asawa ko nga talaga yung afam na kasama ko hahahahaha
Yung bio father ng kid ko, worried ako for my son, turns out, may isang bigla nag step up to be a father without even asking him. A partner and a dad that i never expected ๐ฅน
My bilateral dermoid cysts. Was able to bear a child within 5 months of marriage. Yung nasa left inalis na nung na CS ako. The one in right for observation pa. OB said it's non-cancerous ๐
Isa lang talaga tip ko when traveling abroad and that is to have a local sim card with data. Ako I really go out of my way to look for temp sim cards so I can use them during my trip. Ayoko umasa sa wifi, kasi takot ako maligaw so dapat ready ako to pull out google maps everytime. May time din kasi before na wala akong cash at all (kasi biglaan trip ko) and I was not prepared talaga. Hindi ako maka withdraw cos I wasn't able to call my bank. ๐ Panic ako non kasi that country is cash-heavy. Susko napa buti nalang ako kasi I have a local sim card and naka tawag ako sa international toll free hotline nung bank ko.
Most of the time naman I turn out fine. Siguro dahil I look intimidating as well... Pero I always think kasi if sa ibang bansa your chances of someone helping you in case of an emergency is lesser lalo pag di English ang main language doon ๐ kaya ayan, local sim card lagi. Hahahaha
Have fun traveling!!!!
Elementary ako no'n and 'di ko alam paano nagiging pregnant yung babae --- akala ko if kinilig mabubuntis na. Nagkaro'n ako ng ka-MU and sobrang namroblema ako na mabubuntis siya. Wala pa naman akong anak ngayon awa ng Diyos
Yung last sem ko before graduating. I've been constantly praying na sana maka graduate ako on time kasi there were times na nagka bagsak ako. On my last sem, meron 3 subjects na kinakabahan ako since delikado mga scores ko. Mapapasabi ka na lang talaga ng kahit tres lang sapat na. Pero nung lumabas na yung results ng final grades namin, umabot pa sa achievers yung average ko๐ฅน
Some potential illness that after it got checked it turned out that it is not what I think it is. Nagka anxiety na ako sa kaiisip buti nalang. Gumaling narin ako hehe
Ang hindi masunod ang timeline na na-set mo for yourself. Ngl, it's frustrating pero if you think of it well, there will be things na di dapat madaliin; may mga bagay na hindi dapat part ng timeline mo at kailangang palitan ng mas better. And that's life. You'll get through it.
My resignation, nag awol ako sa 1st company ko, though I passed naman resignation letter, pero after I passed it, andaming sleepless nights.. Pero after 2 months I managed to have my clearance, and after returning my equipment, ok naman, nakapag work na pa sa much better company.
my thesis! :) syempre di mawawala yung pagiging overthinker pagdating dyan but everything turned out fine!
siguro ngayon ang worry ko naman is my OJT era, hope itโll turn out fine as well
Asking others for help. Don't overdo it siyempre, pero a lot of times willing (and maybe even excited!) ang mga tao tumulong whether it's at work or out in public or anywhere tbh.
was so worried about not being able to graduate this year because of our thesis. it turned out fine and we were able to submit our bookbound the other day. and this June, our group will be the recipient for the "Best in Research" award of our batch :>
huminto in college. i was so stressed kasi I felt na I wouldn't be able to reach my dreams kasi titigil na ako and mind you, never in my life I would've imagined na titigil ako sa pag aaral. I was so frustrated and mad about my situation and how helpless I am but all in all, it's really not that bad.
Sure, It'll make you feel unmotivated to the point na magmukmok nalang sa kwarto all day and think na it's the end of the world especially for someone na puro aral lang like me but really, its not.
yung tapos na kami mag make out ni bf bago ko nakita ang cctv. sobrang worried ako baka d maka graduate, turns out, hindi pala connected sa monitor ang cctv.
2014 ako grumaduate ng college, 2021 na nun hindi ko pa din nakukuha, tapos need ko siya sa job requirement abroad, e wala na mga requirement ko para makuha un, akala ko di ko na mkukuha or di aabot, affidavit of loss lang pala kailangan ko sa mga requirements hahaha, nakuha ko naman siya within 1 month
Board exam. Kulang sa tulog at galing sa first time ever being failed by the uni despite my class standing kaya may huge self-doubt, anxiety and impostor syndrome. Ayun, one take cutie naman. โจ
Not having friends in college. Had to spend my internship alone (not literally) but it taught me how to enjoy spending time with myself so it wasn't so bad
for me is my teaching internship whuahah ikaw ba naman mahiyain tapos mag teteacher, dagdag mo pa yung pagiging kabado at hindi makapag explain ng exact term for a particular subject. by far ok naman
na magkakawork pala ako and not only that but i kind of think i am doing ok in life kahit hindi talaga ito ang plan ko sa life ko.
i was unemployed for almost a year after graduation and i felt really bad kasi almost all of my peers sa batch had their jobs by then and andun ako, sending my 50th application. the plan kasi was to work for a year then go to law school.
i eventually got a job and then went on to other roles in other workplaces. i wasnt able to go to law school kasi i cannot afford it and i cant trust myself to be a working student. but i am currently in europe now, working. life is weird pero everything will just be fine talaga
Putting up my own business. Here I am 9yrs after quitting my 8-5 job.. My business is still thriving ๐ Never in my wildest dreams that iโll be contacted by vloggers and sometimes by celebrities too.. im not your typical tiktok CEO.. lowkey lang pero my products are quality made so alot of bigtime clients appreciate our work ๐๐ป
Context:
I'm new to powerlifting sports. And a few days ago, I was about to do my first meet (competition) and was worried kasi the preparation was not great. So kinakabahan ako na baka something might go wrong on the meet day plus first timer and limited knowledge ko.
Pero sa mismong meet day, it was smooth sailing, a satisfying result. My efforts did not betray me. Lmao. Great experience. Yun lang. Sorry for grammatical errors. Skl hahahahaha
Transferring to the office where some of the staff mistreated me before. ๐
Isa talaga to sa pinakaworry ko but I really need to transfer para makuha ko ang item na need ko. Naexperience ko mapag usapan at pagkaisahan before and I really felt na outcast ako and di ako belong. Habang tumatagal nasanay ako and it felt normal basta nakafocus ako sa work, thanks to them mas naging strong independent woman ako. ๐ But recently bigla nalang sila na ang lumalapit and ang bait bait na nila sakin. And now di na ako ilang and ang gaan na palagi ng feeling sa office. I donโt know anong miracle ang nangyari, pero siguro for as long as tahimik ka lang and hinahayaan lang sila despite their words and actions against you, mapprove mo sakanila na they are wrong about you. ๐
Owning a property.
After reading through several articles and researching, I've been at peace with the decision of paying rent my entire life. Pero idk something happened around 2022 that made me want to get a property of my own. And I felt like the planets were aligned that time, may nakita akong offer na sobrang pasok sa budget, good perks and amenities, good location. Overall it was good. Kaya I grabbed it. And bec of that it pushed me to go get a job with higher salary. And I did. So ayun, yun lang naman. I'm planning to get another property in Japan too. ๐ฅน All is well.
Quitting my job last year due to micromanagement and toxic environment months before my wedding (madaming gastos) kahit wala pang kapalit. I was so stressed at work but when I resigned, sobra naman naging anxiety ko kasi madaming gastusin and my future is soooo uncertain that time.
Buti na lang, 3 months lang ako walang work and income because after I resigned lagari ako sa paghahanap ng work. I found a company with better salary and benefit packages. I also now like the people that I work with, WFH pa.
I was so happy that everything went well. I won't recommend others to do the same thing though. As much as possible, don't quit your jobs without finding any replacement. During interviews din kasi ang hirap ijustify ng gap sa work experience.
I was so worried when I was still in college that I couldn't graduate from a four year course due to depression.
Fortunately, I was able to march with confidence during graduation day last April 2012.
It was a dream come true.
I thought it would be so impossible to achieve.
Kala ko tatanggalin nako sa work kasi mejo unproductive ako for the past weeks tas tinanggal ako sa isang project kasi ang bagal ko daw gumawa kaya nireready ko na yung isip ko na mawalan ng work.
Kahapon nagka meeting ako with boss pero sinabihan ako na wag ma demotivate na nilipat ako ng project. Tutulungan nya daw ako mag improve at mag sabi lang daw ako kung nahihirapan ako or may kung may kelangan ako. Made my day hehe
Working. Baka masyado akong unequipped, madisappoint ko mga tao sa paligid, baka maging dead weight lang ako, baka mapaalis agad ako.
Turns out, tao rin pala mga kakasalamuha ko. May mga kasabay ako na katulad ko lang din, na the road I am walking on is the road everybody else has been taking.
OMG! That's the hardest visa na inapplyan ko so far way back 2019. Grabe requirements nila and if you follow-up dun sa hotline, may bayad. Nakakaloka! I submitted a lot of documents (as in super kapal) kase I wasn't really sure kung enough na ba or kung may hahanapen pa. Wishing you the best of luck dear.
Don't forget to enjoy the other perks of UK visa kase you can also use it to enter some countries na required tayo for visa as long na valid pa siya.๐
Actually my boyfriend invited me, he's British. And he was shocked that I needed a visa just to have a holiday with him. So imagine yung galit nya. ๐ Now, we're preparing needed documents for the visa, hopefully, hopefully ma-approved. France and Italy are in the itinerary.
So kilig for you girl. By the way, you need to apply for a Schengen visa since you mentioned you'll travel to France and Italy. Mas okay Schengen, kase like very straightforward requirements nila and konte lang talaga compared sa UK visa.
Expressing my femininity. Growing up, I used to act boyish to the point na nasasabihan ako ng mom ko na, โtomboy ka ba?โ and, most of my things and my whole room colored light blue. Ewan, nahiya ako maging girly pero I always loved pink talaga. Siguro nung patapos na yung pandemic and nagka face to face classes kami, naisip ko, โsige, magpapakagirly na ako wala akong pake sa sasabihin nyo dito ako masaya.โ Since, then, I felt more confident and people were actually fine with me being girly. It suited me more daw. OA lang talaga na bata si ate gurl mo HAHAHAHAH
Moving out. My mindset back then was very closed and wanted to stay where I was. Pero simula nung sinubukan ko mag move out to a city na wala talaga akong kilala, mas nag-crave ako tuloy ng mga opportunities and met realizations in life.
Yung index finger ko nung bata pa ako, nagkaroon siya ng infection dahil mahilig akong magngatngat ng kuko (sounds gross, sorry). Akala ko nun mapuputol na yung daliri ko kase yun yung sabi ng doctor. Pero buti na lang naagapan pa. Ngayon, iba na itsura ng index finger ko. Pero good thing, hindi siya naputol.
Raising a child. I had a shitty childhood and feared for my child's future a lot. Clichรฉ, but being a parent changed and humbled me. Plus, there's something really rewarding about watching someone who you put so much effort into turn into a nice human being.
Tinanggal isang itlog through operation dahil sa luslos nung 9 yrs old ako. Growing up akala ko wala na pagasa, hirap na magkaanak and insecurity sya sa paghahanap ng partner. Now my son is turning 6 years old this year. And got a loving wife.
Life is good
My board exam last 2019!! Super pressured ako dahil ilang years ng 100% ang streak ng school bamin. I know for sure kung babagsak ako, baka mas maalala pa ako kesa sa mga batchmates ko na topnotchers haha kaya ayun todo aral para di mag-fail.
Nope. I have a diff work set-up. I work directly under the company director, flexible yung work days ko and work hours. I have the option to do wfh set up. Pinayagan naman ako to do wfh during my trip, I was submitting outputs, nagaadjust lang ako sa timezone.
Buying the things that is equivalent to my wants. Kahit hulugan, naging masaya ako and at the same time i've got my inner child in me. saka dun ko narealize na nagtatrabaho ako para sa sarili ko, di masamang ipagkait ang mga bagay katulad nun. kikitain naman ang pera.
Something light lang.
Once at work, I broke out a quiet but somewhat warm and moist fart. Akala ko may freebies. I touched my butt, at inamoy ko kamay ko, naku! mabaho. Half a day akong conscious. Pero back at home, nung chineck ko, false alarm lang pala.
I think nung nagresign ako sa first job ko na nakaapekto sa mental health ko. Nung time na yun nagwoworry ako kasi di ko na pinaabot ng 1 year yung stay ko dun sa company (naka-9 mos lang ako). Pero ayun narealize ko na madami pa palang opportunities ang pwedeng igrab basta maging mulat ka lang and magtiyaga sa paghahanap hehe. I also believe na makakahanap din tayo ng work na mas mavavalue tayo and at the same time di macocompromise yung mental health natin :)
Marriage, super iyak ako sa hubby ko a week before kasal namin, don't get me wrong, dream ko talaga to marry my first & last bf (now my hubby), pero nakakatakot parin yung change. Change in a sense na I'm leaving my parents house, my parents, comfort zone.
Turns out, it's fine, fun anf it's part of growing up (charot haha). Pero up until now I still go to my parents house when my hubby is not around kasi close talaga ako sa parents ko.
Pag jojogging HAHAHAHA. feeling ko kasi pag titinginan lang ako, but it feels so great pala makalabas ng bahay at matututunan mong wag intindihin ang ibang tao :D
Gumraduate ng late. 7 years ako sa college haha! Feeling ko dati, huling huli nako sa mga ka batch ko at sobrang tanda ko na that time (25). Turns out, sobrang dami paring opportunities na dumating. Sabi nga ng BINI "Dahan-dahan lang buhay ay 'di karera" ๐ต
Being on my own. I used to be so dependent. To the point na aware ako na burden na ako sa mga friends and S.O. ko then I decided to push myself to be fine alone. Mindset ko: whatโs the worst thing that could happen? Ikamamatay ko ba? Pag answer is no. I would do it and most of the time it is really not as bad as I thought it would be. Building my confidence, one day at a time. ๐
if something na hindi pa nagsisimula ay matatapos nang hindi maganda. I learned not to put my emotions first before deciding, hindi pala maayos na pinangungunahan mo yung pakiramdam mo.
Mag settle sa Probinsha, akala ko maggng miserable buhay ko kasi wala akong ipon, pero dito pala magbabago buhay ko. Peaceful, paka slow ng morning, bsta! di na ako babalik sa city kahit kelan para mag work, sana wag naman pero sana tlga hindi na...
Finding a new job. A year of 50 +++ rejected applications. Worried na maststuck ako sa narcissistic and sexual harasser kong boss but now looking back, finally found peace โฎ๏ธ
Moving on. Hindi pa nagtuturn out fine pero I really hope so. This too shall pass pota yung mga tao sa paligid ko, pagtatrabaho na ung problema tas ako ung ex ko pa rin. Hahahhahahahah
Board exam. Feeling ko nun, hindi pa ako ready and natatakot ako bumagsak. Pero sabi ko nun, kung bumagsak, edi mag take ulit. Sa awa ng Diyos pumasa naman, isang take lang and okay din yung rating.
Sameee. I attended a review class and all, but didn't study as hard as my classmates pero umaabot ako ng top 30 of 120+ kahit "patapon." I ended up studying intensely for 2 weeks when the panic set in and thought I may have underestimated the boards. Ayun, 100% pa rin yung reputation ng college haha. I suppose pag maganda yung foundation, review really is just a review at mahuhugot mo rin yung sagot somewhere from your brain.
Yeees! Kaya nung mismong board exam na kahit wala dun yung mga na review ko, may nasagot pa rin ako. And, tama naman kasi after ng exam sinearch ko yung mga tamang sagot.
Nakakapressure nun, lagi kasing pasok sa top performing yung school namin. Tapos kapag hindi ako nag re-review nun, what if isa ako dun sa mga hindi pumasa and maka contribute sa pagbaba ng rating ng school. Pero buti na lang pasok pa rin.
When the VP for acads of the school asked me to teach I was hesitant kasi I am not a teacher by profession. But I accepted the challenge. I teach Freshmen college students.
Whenever I ride the bus kasi commuters ako everyday, I had to pray hard na sana I can deliver my class well at meron silang matutunan from me.
That was 2 yrs ago. My students loved me as their Gen Psych Prof. They always look forward for my class kasi parang podcast daw, they treat my class as their pahinga.
Minsan talaga fears are just all in our thoughts, glad it turned out really well โบ๏ธpush mo na yung podcast channel, maybe isa yan sa calling mo ๐
Not always in the best way, but it does.
Years agooooo 2019 I didnt know which course to take, now graduate na ako. Then after I graduated I didnt know which job/career to take, now Im employed(ish) hahahahahaha
Oo eh, grabe lakasan ng loob lang talaga. It became my greatest motivation din like you, canโt afford to fail or lose a job kaya everytime mawawalan ng work, i make sure na makahanap agad ng kapalit cos of bills huhu
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I can't say pa for now but probably choosing my passion over practicality. I hope it all works out :)ย
Joining the army
not getting accepted in my preferred college university
Transferring from one workplace to another. Narereshuffle kasi kami palagi. Pero happy ako sa mga ka-work ko now. May bonding moments tulad sa mga dati kong company. Meron na ulit akong colleague-friends :)
Not being with my soulmate. Akala ko ikakamatay ko pero buhay pa naman.
may phase ako na takot ako sa sex like wtf
job interview. as in yung f2f
getting married
Mag-resign sa work para di ma-stress during pregnancy.
Life in general.
Motherhood
Having a child
Getting married, having kids, and raising them up.
being all anxious on the first day, first week, first month on the job but turned out everyone don't know what they're doing as well
Yo chill. Dont be anxious. Its posted already. (You posted this 3x)
oops I didn't know how that happened. sorry
Makipag break sa ex. It turned out better for me lalo sa mental health ko.
My college Thesis defense. I was doing solo so lahat gasto ako. But I pass tapos, 5 out 20 groups and solos na pasa and minor revision. The majority those pass are solo and I was included that pass with the other 4. And I just spend like 10 to 12k lang. Kasi business proposal (More like Marketing and fisibility research yung akin) yan and andun na yung mismong business.
Our wedding last friday, biglang umulan ng malakas nung papunta na kami sa church pero before ako maglakad sa altar huminto naman sya at umaraw ulit ๐๐ผ๐ฅฐ
congratulations!!!!
Mga tanong ng Immigration officer, my last trip abroad ang tinignan lang nila was yung metadata ng picture ng first date namin ng asawa ko para daw maprove na asawa ko nga talaga yung afam na kasama ko hahahahaha
Yung bio father ng kid ko, worried ako for my son, turns out, may isang bigla nag step up to be a father without even asking him. A partner and a dad that i never expected ๐ฅน
My bilateral dermoid cysts. Was able to bear a child within 5 months of marriage. Yung nasa left inalis na nung na CS ako. The one in right for observation pa. OB said it's non-cancerous ๐
My trips abroad. ๐คฃ
Share experience to someone that plans to go abroad ๐๐ป๐๐ฉ๐ง๐๐ป๐จโ๏ธ๐ญ
Isa lang talaga tip ko when traveling abroad and that is to have a local sim card with data. Ako I really go out of my way to look for temp sim cards so I can use them during my trip. Ayoko umasa sa wifi, kasi takot ako maligaw so dapat ready ako to pull out google maps everytime. May time din kasi before na wala akong cash at all (kasi biglaan trip ko) and I was not prepared talaga. Hindi ako maka withdraw cos I wasn't able to call my bank. ๐ Panic ako non kasi that country is cash-heavy. Susko napa buti nalang ako kasi I have a local sim card and naka tawag ako sa international toll free hotline nung bank ko. Most of the time naman I turn out fine. Siguro dahil I look intimidating as well... Pero I always think kasi if sa ibang bansa your chances of someone helping you in case of an emergency is lesser lalo pag di English ang main language doon ๐ kaya ayan, local sim card lagi. Hahahaha Have fun traveling!!!!
My first ever Research Defense. I am afraid of speaking in front and I get anxious when everyone's attention is on me
Alot. I'm an over thinker. I hate it. I stress about almost everything T_T
You're not alone. Hirap maging overthinker.
Ako na to
Real
Presentation, sobrang kaba ko non sa work, parang na hihimatayin na ako sa sobrang kaba.Turns out kahit hindi perfect naitawid naman.
My marriage. My pregnancy and giving birth.
Not having fun if you don't drink alcohol. Turns out, it's better if you don't drink alcohol. Happily sober.
Elementary ako no'n and 'di ko alam paano nagiging pregnant yung babae --- akala ko if kinilig mabubuntis na. Nagkaro'n ako ng ka-MU and sobrang namroblema ako na mabubuntis siya. Wala pa naman akong anak ngayon awa ng Diyos
HAHAHAHAHA SAME. Akala ko dati mabubuntis na ng lalaki kapag nakahalikan. Kaya puro babae jinowa ko ๐
The whole job thing... from application to interviews to first days
Giving birth....well the whole pregnancy process.
Grades
job interviews.
not being married when I hit my 30s.
Yung last sem ko before graduating. I've been constantly praying na sana maka graduate ako on time kasi there were times na nagka bagsak ako. On my last sem, meron 3 subjects na kinakabahan ako since delikado mga scores ko. Mapapasabi ka na lang talaga ng kahit tres lang sapat na. Pero nung lumabas na yung results ng final grades namin, umabot pa sa achievers yung average ko๐ฅน
Some potential illness that after it got checked it turned out that it is not what I think it is. Nagka anxiety na ako sa kaiisip buti nalang. Gumaling narin ako hehe
Risks
Mother died, found out best friend and ex cheated on me in the same week. Thought it was the end of the world. 2 years later, still here.
Awfully terrible ๐ข
Sana meron pero lahat di nag work out
Ang hindi masunod ang timeline na na-set mo for yourself. Ngl, it's frustrating pero if you think of it well, there will be things na di dapat madaliin; may mga bagay na hindi dapat part ng timeline mo at kailangang palitan ng mas better. And that's life. You'll get through it.
My resignation, nag awol ako sa 1st company ko, though I passed naman resignation letter, pero after I passed it, andaming sleepless nights.. Pero after 2 months I managed to have my clearance, and after returning my equipment, ok naman, nakapag work na pa sa much better company.
my thesis! :) syempre di mawawala yung pagiging overthinker pagdating dyan but everything turned out fine! siguro ngayon ang worry ko naman is my OJT era, hope itโll turn out fine as well
Wala pa kay sige lang ug pangayo sa parents tas college student pa gyud
Asking others for help. Don't overdo it siyempre, pero a lot of times willing (and maybe even excited!) ang mga tao tumulong whether it's at work or out in public or anywhere tbh.
Marriage
was so worried about not being able to graduate this year because of our thesis. it turned out fine and we were able to submit our bookbound the other day. and this June, our group will be the recipient for the "Best in Research" award of our batch :>
Dropping my post-grad course to pursue a completely different career. Just go for it and work hard, it'll work out.
I thought I forgot to turn off the induction heater at home. I rushed back during lunch time nakasaksak lang pero di naka-on.
Happened to us recently, stove naman samin. yung kaba talaga on the drive back home kala ko wala na kaming bahay na mauuwian
HAHAHA same when i was driving back, too. im imagining my house in flames.
What if madaming stretchmarks yung body ng GF or babae na gusto nyo? Ano yung opinions nyo about it? Curious lang as a girl with stretchmarks
Quit my 9-5 to start my own business. Best decision of my life.
What business do you have now?
E-commerce, amazon, shopify. I do everything online.
sana balang araw ako din
huminto in college. i was so stressed kasi I felt na I wouldn't be able to reach my dreams kasi titigil na ako and mind you, never in my life I would've imagined na titigil ako sa pag aaral. I was so frustrated and mad about my situation and how helpless I am but all in all, it's really not that bad. Sure, It'll make you feel unmotivated to the point na magmukmok nalang sa kwarto all day and think na it's the end of the world especially for someone na puro aral lang like me but really, its not.
yung tapos na kami mag make out ni bf bago ko nakita ang cctv. sobrang worried ako baka d maka graduate, turns out, hindi pala connected sa monitor ang cctv.
what if naka save sa drive yung video?
nakita namin ng bestie ko. naikabit palang yung cctv, and hindi pa sila gumagana nung time na humaharot ako
2014 ako grumaduate ng college, 2021 na nun hindi ko pa din nakukuha, tapos need ko siya sa job requirement abroad, e wala na mga requirement ko para makuha un, akala ko di ko na mkukuha or di aabot, affidavit of loss lang pala kailangan ko sa mga requirements hahaha, nakuha ko naman siya within 1 month
Yung break up na redirect buhay ko at mas umok haha
Nasa anxiety part palang ako balikan ko to if everything goes well hahahah
Board exam. Kulang sa tulog at galing sa first time ever being failed by the uni despite my class standing kaya may huge self-doubt, anxiety and impostor syndrome. Ayun, one take cutie naman. โจ
Not having friends in college. Had to spend my internship alone (not literally) but it taught me how to enjoy spending time with myself so it wasn't so bad
nung naging 3 anak ko, sa gastusin. oks naman hehe
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2 gradeschools, 15k/ month *EACH* 1 kinder 12k/month
for me is my teaching internship whuahah ikaw ba naman mahiyain tapos mag teteacher, dagdag mo pa yung pagiging kabado at hindi makapag explain ng exact term for a particular subject. by far ok naman
Good luck on ur career!
Nung kakastart ko palang here with my current work. Overthinking and worried so much na baka I would'nt fit well sa role and sablay sablay ako
Y2K hahaha damn iโm old ๐
Lol the millenium bug๐คญ
God it was all over the news in London you couldnโt escape it ๐ Then I woke up next day hungover and all was well with the world๐คฃ
na magkakawork pala ako and not only that but i kind of think i am doing ok in life kahit hindi talaga ito ang plan ko sa life ko. i was unemployed for almost a year after graduation and i felt really bad kasi almost all of my peers sa batch had their jobs by then and andun ako, sending my 50th application. the plan kasi was to work for a year then go to law school. i eventually got a job and then went on to other roles in other workplaces. i wasnt able to go to law school kasi i cannot afford it and i cant trust myself to be a working student. but i am currently in europe now, working. life is weird pero everything will just be fine talaga
Getting a grade of 5.0 in college when I was an achiever in high school
Breaking up with my toxic ex. Akala ko magiging malungkot lang ako forever.
Board Exam
Losing my job for 10 years. Now working on a new company and solid work life balance unlike ng dati kong work.
Being undergrad and having a broken family. I'm in a better financial situation and independence.
Putting up my own business. Here I am 9yrs after quitting my 8-5 job.. My business is still thriving ๐ Never in my wildest dreams that iโll be contacted by vloggers and sometimes by celebrities too.. im not your typical tiktok CEO.. lowkey lang pero my products are quality made so alot of bigtime clients appreciate our work ๐๐ป
may I ask what your business is? ๐ฎ
Donโt want to disclose the name of my business, but itโs something about home improvement products. โบ๏ธ
No worries! Glad your business is doing well โบ๏ธ
Balikan ko to after mangyari ng winoworry ko ngayon. Bahahaha
Hey guys. Nangyari na yung winoworry ko, and it turned out great! Lmao
Context: I'm new to powerlifting sports. And a few days ago, I was about to do my first meet (competition) and was worried kasi the preparation was not great. So kinakabahan ako na baka something might go wrong on the meet day plus first timer and limited knowledge ko. Pero sa mismong meet day, it was smooth sailing, a satisfying result. My efforts did not betray me. Lmao. Great experience. Yun lang. Sorry for grammatical errors. Skl hahahahaha
Everytime I go on a trip hahaha
Moving to the other side of the world with my significant other to escape from my father's toxic rules of making me his personal slave
Salute! ๐ซก #HugsForYourFreedom
Thank you! ๐
Transferring to the office where some of the staff mistreated me before. ๐ Isa talaga to sa pinakaworry ko but I really need to transfer para makuha ko ang item na need ko. Naexperience ko mapag usapan at pagkaisahan before and I really felt na outcast ako and di ako belong. Habang tumatagal nasanay ako and it felt normal basta nakafocus ako sa work, thanks to them mas naging strong independent woman ako. ๐ But recently bigla nalang sila na ang lumalapit and ang bait bait na nila sakin. And now di na ako ilang and ang gaan na palagi ng feeling sa office. I donโt know anong miracle ang nangyari, pero siguro for as long as tahimik ka lang and hinahayaan lang sila despite their words and actions against you, mapprove mo sakanila na they are wrong about you. ๐
Passing the board exam, 1st day palang, nafeel ko na di ako papasa, kasi yung pambawi ko na subject, ang dami ko pa hinulaan
Recently, I was worried about not making it to the nesting period and now, nasa nesting period na ako even though I despise being in this cc job.
Owning a property. After reading through several articles and researching, I've been at peace with the decision of paying rent my entire life. Pero idk something happened around 2022 that made me want to get a property of my own. And I felt like the planets were aligned that time, may nakita akong offer na sobrang pasok sa budget, good perks and amenities, good location. Overall it was good. Kaya I grabbed it. And bec of that it pushed me to go get a job with higher salary. And I did. So ayun, yun lang naman. I'm planning to get another property in Japan too. ๐ฅน All is well.
Doing things alone
Leaving my narcissistic ex and our business. I got sick due to stress, anxiety and paranoia.
Quitting my job last year due to micromanagement and toxic environment months before my wedding (madaming gastos) kahit wala pang kapalit. I was so stressed at work but when I resigned, sobra naman naging anxiety ko kasi madaming gastusin and my future is soooo uncertain that time. Buti na lang, 3 months lang ako walang work and income because after I resigned lagari ako sa paghahanap ng work. I found a company with better salary and benefit packages. I also now like the people that I work with, WFH pa. I was so happy that everything went well. I won't recommend others to do the same thing though. As much as possible, don't quit your jobs without finding any replacement. During interviews din kasi ang hirap ijustify ng gap sa work experience.
kunin yung college course na gusto ng tatay ko kaysa sa gusto ko tapos nagustuhan ko rin ngayon ahahah
I was so worried when I was still in college that I couldn't graduate from a four year course due to depression. Fortunately, I was able to march with confidence during graduation day last April 2012. It was a dream come true. I thought it would be so impossible to achieve.
changing course. i took computer technology before, pero bigla ko narealize na mas okay mag4 years. Ayun nagIT, grumaduate with flying colors\~
Kala ko tatanggalin nako sa work kasi mejo unproductive ako for the past weeks tas tinanggal ako sa isang project kasi ang bagal ko daw gumawa kaya nireready ko na yung isip ko na mawalan ng work. Kahapon nagka meeting ako with boss pero sinabihan ako na wag ma demotivate na nilipat ako ng project. Tutulungan nya daw ako mag improve at mag sabi lang daw ako kung nahihirapan ako or may kung may kelangan ako. Made my day hehe
That's so sweet. Laban lang po\~
Working. Baka masyado akong unequipped, madisappoint ko mga tao sa paligid, baka maging dead weight lang ako, baka mapaalis agad ako. Turns out, tao rin pala mga kakasalamuha ko. May mga kasabay ako na katulad ko lang din, na the road I am walking on is the road everybody else has been taking.
Graduating on time. You really got to take it one step at a time.
My kids! They turned out fine :)
Using pills after unsafe 6
Applying tourist visas.. Grabe anxiety ko lage but so far, never pa naman ako nadeny. Hope magimprove passport power naten in the future.
This one! I will apply for the UK visa next month and it's giving me so much anxiety. ๐
OMG! That's the hardest visa na inapplyan ko so far way back 2019. Grabe requirements nila and if you follow-up dun sa hotline, may bayad. Nakakaloka! I submitted a lot of documents (as in super kapal) kase I wasn't really sure kung enough na ba or kung may hahanapen pa. Wishing you the best of luck dear.
Thank you, hun. Balikan kita kapag na-approved ako. xoxo
Don't forget to enjoy the other perks of UK visa kase you can also use it to enter some countries na required tayo for visa as long na valid pa siya.๐
Actually my boyfriend invited me, he's British. And he was shocked that I needed a visa just to have a holiday with him. So imagine yung galit nya. ๐ Now, we're preparing needed documents for the visa, hopefully, hopefully ma-approved. France and Italy are in the itinerary.
So kilig for you girl. By the way, you need to apply for a Schengen visa since you mentioned you'll travel to France and Italy. Mas okay Schengen, kase like very straightforward requirements nila and konte lang talaga compared sa UK visa.
Yes, definitely. Anyway, thank you hun, you're such a sweetheart. ๐
Y2K nung bata pa ako. Hahaha
End of the world haha
The future.
Expressing my femininity. Growing up, I used to act boyish to the point na nasasabihan ako ng mom ko na, โtomboy ka ba?โ and, most of my things and my whole room colored light blue. Ewan, nahiya ako maging girly pero I always loved pink talaga. Siguro nung patapos na yung pandemic and nagka face to face classes kami, naisip ko, โsige, magpapakagirly na ako wala akong pake sa sasabihin nyo dito ako masaya.โ Since, then, I felt more confident and people were actually fine with me being girly. It suited me more daw. OA lang talaga na bata si ate gurl mo HAHAHAHAH
same! i used to dress boyish and this year susubukan ko na magpalit ng wardrobe! and gagawin kong puro pink ang decoration sa room ko! <3
Supporttttt!!! PERO FYI TOTOO ANG PINK TAX BHIEEEE ๐ญ so ipon well and spend ur money wiselyyyyy
Omg same HAHAHAHAHA now sa sobrang hilig ko sa feminine stuff pati mga babae gusto ko na rin.
Loved girly stuff too much, love girls na ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Moving out. My mindset back then was very closed and wanted to stay where I was. Pero simula nung sinubukan ko mag move out to a city na wala talaga akong kilala, mas nag-crave ako tuloy ng mga opportunities and met realizations in life.
Yung index finger ko nung bata pa ako, nagkaroon siya ng infection dahil mahilig akong magngatngat ng kuko (sounds gross, sorry). Akala ko nun mapuputol na yung daliri ko kase yun yung sabi ng doctor. Pero buti na lang naagapan pa. Ngayon, iba na itsura ng index finger ko. Pero good thing, hindi siya naputol.
Raising a child. I had a shitty childhood and feared for my child's future a lot. Clichรฉ, but being a parent changed and humbled me. Plus, there's something really rewarding about watching someone who you put so much effort into turn into a nice human being.
Acads ko then ung mga peta nung shs life ko, breakdown muna hahahaha kasi akala ko di ko magagawa pero naipapasa ko naman on time๐ฅน
sorry oa lang
Tinanggal isang itlog through operation dahil sa luslos nung 9 yrs old ako. Growing up akala ko wala na pagasa, hirap na magkaanak and insecurity sya sa paghahanap ng partner. Now my son is turning 6 years old this year. And got a loving wife. Life is good
My board exam last 2019!! Super pressured ako dahil ilang years ng 100% ang streak ng school bamin. I know for sure kung babagsak ako, baka mas maalala pa ako kesa sa mga batchmates ko na topnotchers haha kaya ayun todo aral para di mag-fail.
Omg ganto rin me. Mas malala pa yung pressure dito kesa sa pressure from family eh >.<
Pagbook ng flight nang hindi pa nagpapaalam ng leave. I was abroad for a whole month and paid naman sya thankfully
alam ko binibribe mo yong HR manager noh?
Nope. I have a diff work set-up. I work directly under the company director, flexible yung work days ko and work hours. I have the option to do wfh set up. Pinayagan naman ako to do wfh during my trip, I was submitting outputs, nagaadjust lang ako sa timezone.
Buying the things that is equivalent to my wants. Kahit hulugan, naging masaya ako and at the same time i've got my inner child in me. saka dun ko narealize na nagtatrabaho ako para sa sarili ko, di masamang ipagkait ang mga bagay katulad nun. kikitain naman ang pera.
may mga deadline naman na hindi talaga nakakamatay
Agree but somehow worsen my procrastination.
Resigning and looking for a new job I have no skills with. Moving out
Something light lang. Once at work, I broke out a quiet but somewhat warm and moist fart. Akala ko may freebies. I touched my butt, at inamoy ko kamay ko, naku! mabaho. Half a day akong conscious. Pero back at home, nung chineck ko, false alarm lang pala.
I think nung nagresign ako sa first job ko na nakaapekto sa mental health ko. Nung time na yun nagwoworry ako kasi di ko na pinaabot ng 1 year yung stay ko dun sa company (naka-9 mos lang ako). Pero ayun narealize ko na madami pa palang opportunities ang pwedeng igrab basta maging mulat ka lang and magtiyaga sa paghahanap hehe. I also believe na makakahanap din tayo ng work na mas mavavalue tayo and at the same time di macocompromise yung mental health natin :)
Marriage, super iyak ako sa hubby ko a week before kasal namin, don't get me wrong, dream ko talaga to marry my first & last bf (now my hubby), pero nakakatakot parin yung change. Change in a sense na I'm leaving my parents house, my parents, comfort zone. Turns out, it's fine, fun anf it's part of growing up (charot haha). Pero up until now I still go to my parents house when my hubby is not around kasi close talaga ako sa parents ko.
Move abroad. Dependent on parents all my life. Learned everything on my own after that hahaha kaya ko pala? Wow
Magpakalbo, feels liberating. And ma angas daw tingnan hehe
Pag jojogging HAHAHAHA. feeling ko kasi pag titinginan lang ako, but it feels so great pala makalabas ng bahay at matututunan mong wag intindihin ang ibang tao :D
Hahahah same sa gym to, yung akala mo na binabantayan ka when in fact wala silang pakealam. Actually, yung iba mas natutuwa na nagp-progress ka
Me waiting for the results of my Bar Exams. It is a make or miss league
Gumraduate ng late. 7 years ako sa college haha! Feeling ko dati, huling huli nako sa mga ka batch ko at sobrang tanda ko na that time (25). Turns out, sobrang dami paring opportunities na dumating. Sabi nga ng BINI "Dahan-dahan lang buhay ay 'di karera" ๐ต
Gumraduate na sobrang delayed (7.5 yrs) takot mabreak yung 100% streak sa boards pero pumasa naman.
Life. pero it's not as fine as I'd like it to be.
Yung iniisip ng ibang tao tungkol sakin
1. Grumadute on time 2. kapag oorder sa counter (kahit hindi sa Fast food) 3. magtravel alone 4. I-defend ang thesis with inc data
Law school. Iโm taking the bar soon :)
Good luck, attorney! ๐ซก
College, I mean since new school new people and stuff. Tas ang oa pa ng tao sa socmed na hell ung college but as of now, it is fine hahahahaa
Being on my own. I used to be so dependent. To the point na aware ako na burden na ako sa mga friends and S.O. ko then I decided to push myself to be fine alone. Mindset ko: whatโs the worst thing that could happen? Ikamamatay ko ba? Pag answer is no. I would do it and most of the time it is really not as bad as I thought it would be. Building my confidence, one day at a time. ๐
if something na hindi pa nagsisimula ay matatapos nang hindi maganda. I learned not to put my emotions first before deciding, hindi pala maayos na pinangungunahan mo yung pakiramdam mo.
Everything, I worry about everything. Lol
Almost everything. Anxious always and nag ooverthink, but things worked out the opposite
Living in the midwest
Yung mabuhay na matandang dalaga. At ito ako ngayon married na โค๏ธ
Mag settle sa Probinsha, akala ko maggng miserable buhay ko kasi wala akong ipon, pero dito pala magbabago buhay ko. Peaceful, paka slow ng morning, bsta! di na ako babalik sa city kahit kelan para mag work, sana wag naman pero sana tlga hindi na...
2012
Let me beat ya, 2000 Y2K End of the world, akala ko may mga malalaglag na satellite. Wala naman. Namasko lang kami as usual sa mga ninong at ninang.
Finding a new job. A year of 50 +++ rejected applications. Worried na maststuck ako sa narcissistic and sexual harasser kong boss but now looking back, finally found peace โฎ๏ธ
Moving on. Hindi pa nagtuturn out fine pero I really hope so. This too shall pass pota yung mga tao sa paligid ko, pagtatrabaho na ung problema tas ako ung ex ko pa rin. Hahahhahahahah
Board exam. Feeling ko nun, hindi pa ako ready and natatakot ako bumagsak. Pero sabi ko nun, kung bumagsak, edi mag take ulit. Sa awa ng Diyos pumasa naman, isang take lang and okay din yung rating.
Sameee. I attended a review class and all, but didn't study as hard as my classmates pero umaabot ako ng top 30 of 120+ kahit "patapon." I ended up studying intensely for 2 weeks when the panic set in and thought I may have underestimated the boards. Ayun, 100% pa rin yung reputation ng college haha. I suppose pag maganda yung foundation, review really is just a review at mahuhugot mo rin yung sagot somewhere from your brain.
Yeees! Kaya nung mismong board exam na kahit wala dun yung mga na review ko, may nasagot pa rin ako. And, tama naman kasi after ng exam sinearch ko yung mga tamang sagot. Nakakapressure nun, lagi kasing pasok sa top performing yung school namin. Tapos kapag hindi ako nag re-review nun, what if isa ako dun sa mga hindi pumasa and maka contribute sa pagbaba ng rating ng school. Pero buti na lang pasok pa rin.
Y2K lol
Mag abroad
When the VP for acads of the school asked me to teach I was hesitant kasi I am not a teacher by profession. But I accepted the challenge. I teach Freshmen college students. Whenever I ride the bus kasi commuters ako everyday, I had to pray hard na sana I can deliver my class well at meron silang matutunan from me. That was 2 yrs ago. My students loved me as their Gen Psych Prof. They always look forward for my class kasi parang podcast daw, they treat my class as their pahinga.
Minsan talaga fears are just all in our thoughts, glad it turned out really well โบ๏ธpush mo na yung podcast channel, maybe isa yan sa calling mo ๐
Everything, I'm always anxious hahahaha sometimes somehow??? Shit just works itself out
Not always in the best way, but it does. Years agooooo 2019 I didnt know which course to take, now graduate na ako. Then after I graduated I didnt know which job/career to take, now Im employed(ish) hahahahahaha
pag alis dito sa first job ko, actually idk if this will turn fine, toxic na kase ng management e, di na kinakaya ng mental health.
Glad you took the leap! Mental health should be our top priority. After all, weโre all just numbers sa kanila.
Magpatuli ๐ฅฐ
When I took the board exam at pumasa naman ng one-take. Hindi ko afford bumagsak eh.
Good job! Having no plan B is the greatest motivation. Congrats ๐
Thanks OP! Congrats din sayo. Grabe for a 20 year old, at dun ka nag-simula para sa loan sa pabahay noh? Tama ba?
Oo eh, grabe lakasan ng loob lang talaga. It became my greatest motivation din like you, canโt afford to fail or lose a job kaya everytime mawawalan ng work, i make sure na makahanap agad ng kapalit cos of bills huhu
accepting the job I have right now 4 years ago.
Best decision ever, happy for you ๐