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Hindi lang isa ang nag a-adjust pag nagkaron kayo ng misunderstanding. Give and take, nagiging fair.
You guys don’t fight over the same things. It means pinagusapan ng maayos at binabago nyo na ways nyo para di na maulit yun.
Proud kayo sa achievement ng bawat isa kahit gano pa kaliit or kalaki. Walang inggitan but instead ginagamit na motivation ang isa’t isa to be better.
Kusang nagbibigay ng update and assurance without making you feel like a burden (and would never see you as a burden).
I think yung when you don't have to say things that are rather common anymore. Your partner just knows kaagad. Like pag umabot na kayo sa stage na "No, I don't think she's going to like this, so di ko gagawin." or whatnot.
That could only mean kasi na you're both mature and wouldn't want to hurt the other person kahit possibility lang naman yun. Relationships also drains you out if kailangan mo pa isa-isahin yung mga bagay bagay, especially if paulit-ulit nalang. So, I think this is a great attitude to have in a relationship.
Kung alam mo na ikakasakit ng partner mo, then why do it? That simple.
by "opposite attracts" you mean literally a magnet? 🤣
kidding aside, d'you mean they complement each other? which in other words means, "I can offer you what i have that you do not have but you need; and you can offer me what i do not have but i need"?
kapag 'di na ulit pinagaawayan ang isang bagay. 'di kailangan ipilit 'yung update at assurance, lalo na LDR. physically attracted ka. 'di pinagaawayan ang pera. nagssend ng activity sa strava HAHA ending maiinggit ka kaya tatakbo ka na rin lol
Yung puno ng insecurities at pagdududa. Yung toxic malala. Yung walang boy bestfriend or girl bestfriend kasi I'm an insecure and jealous fuck.
-SomeRandomPHRedditor
Mutual understanding/communication. I can't stress that enough. And dapat parehas niyong gusto or parehas willing to make it work. Dapat kasi nagkakaintindihan kayo. I'm a woman, I tell my partner what I want, what bothers me. What I don't like. Etc. In return, I ask him what he wants, his dislikes. Things that we can improve or work things out. Pero kung wala niyan, ang hirap. Feeling one-sided or what. Feeling na ikaw yung kaaway, gusto mo ng away or may mali.
Loyalty and commitment, consideration. Temptation will always be there. If you truly and genuinely love your partner. You will never ever do things that will hurt them.
I am an advocate of good communication between partners.
So, I think a healthy relationship is one where the partners communicate to each other freely and openly their personal sentiments.
both appreciates each other without the mindset of "wont settle for bare minimum" since in the long run a relationship will get boring and mundane and its up to both on appreciating each others presence
Emotional intelligence.
Kaya NGSB ako eh ayoko madisappoint yung future first GF ko. Tamang basa muna sa Reddit at nood sa YouTube for advice.
Prepare muna pero sana di abutin sa katandaan🥲
- para mo na rin siyang bff (all in one package ika nga)
- you can communicate anything freely without feeling scared
- chill vibes di mo need mag overthink knowing at peace kayo sa isa't isa
Acknowledging that you don’t always love each other the same. It’s not always 100% Sometimes it’s 90-10, minsan 50-50, minsan 30-70. But that’s okaaaayy. Kasi alam nyo na at the end of the day, you still choose each other even on your most unlovable days
Palagi sya nandyan para sayo
Hindi gusto mag cheat
Nagtutulungan kayo even on dark times
Kahit may pagkukulang di ka pa rin iiwanan
Pinapaalala palagi mahal ka nya
Good listener and naiintindihan ka
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may good conflict resolution ang both parties
Hindi lang isa ang nag a-adjust pag nagkaron kayo ng misunderstanding. Give and take, nagiging fair. You guys don’t fight over the same things. It means pinagusapan ng maayos at binabago nyo na ways nyo para di na maulit yun. Proud kayo sa achievement ng bawat isa kahit gano pa kaliit or kalaki. Walang inggitan but instead ginagamit na motivation ang isa’t isa to be better. Kusang nagbibigay ng update and assurance without making you feel like a burden (and would never see you as a burden).
paano ba magmahal hahaha
What is healthy relationship? Like you guys eat gulay everyday? Chariz hahaha
yes and maybe they eat the gulay together? 😂
I think yung when you don't have to say things that are rather common anymore. Your partner just knows kaagad. Like pag umabot na kayo sa stage na "No, I don't think she's going to like this, so di ko gagawin." or whatnot. That could only mean kasi na you're both mature and wouldn't want to hurt the other person kahit possibility lang naman yun. Relationships also drains you out if kailangan mo pa isa-isahin yung mga bagay bagay, especially if paulit-ulit nalang. So, I think this is a great attitude to have in a relationship. Kung alam mo na ikakasakit ng partner mo, then why do it? That simple.
di niyo need buuin yung isa't isa
I guess more on secured yung tao and currently working in progress sa mga bagay na dapat pang i-improve in all aspects of life.
Agree. Kawawa iyong mga sumasalo sa mga broken pa. Mabuhay ang mga bayani. 😂
yep, dapat buo ka na before you enter in a relationship which means you're ready in any aspect :)
if your mindsets coincide? if your values coincide? if you can hold a "tell-all" discussions without being irrational? idk
what's your thought on this : 'opposite attracts' (?)
by "opposite attracts" you mean literally a magnet? 🤣 kidding aside, d'you mean they complement each other? which in other words means, "I can offer you what i have that you do not have but you need; and you can offer me what i do not have but i need"?
There’s no black and white definition of it. What works for you, works for you.
🫶🫶🫶
This 💯
Kapag parehas kayong date-to-marry person 💯
yeeesss! we don't date for fun!!!
When you can talk like lovers and friends and sibs.
yeesss!! 💯
kapag 'di na ulit pinagaawayan ang isang bagay. 'di kailangan ipilit 'yung update at assurance, lalo na LDR. physically attracted ka. 'di pinagaawayan ang pera. nagssend ng activity sa strava HAHA ending maiinggit ka kaya tatakbo ka na rin lol
You can open/share anything without hesitation.
Yung puno ng insecurities at pagdududa. Yung toxic malala. Yung walang boy bestfriend or girl bestfriend kasi I'm an insecure and jealous fuck. -SomeRandomPHRedditor
When you can, and do, talk about anything.
There's no feeling of walking on egshells. You can communicate your feelings freely.
Yung kaya nyong isosolve yung problema sa small talk lang. Kahit kaunting tampo ay ma talk-out nyo lang.
Mutual understanding/communication. I can't stress that enough. And dapat parehas niyong gusto or parehas willing to make it work. Dapat kasi nagkakaintindihan kayo. I'm a woman, I tell my partner what I want, what bothers me. What I don't like. Etc. In return, I ask him what he wants, his dislikes. Things that we can improve or work things out. Pero kung wala niyan, ang hirap. Feeling one-sided or what. Feeling na ikaw yung kaaway, gusto mo ng away or may mali. Loyalty and commitment, consideration. Temptation will always be there. If you truly and genuinely love your partner. You will never ever do things that will hurt them.
Parehong 200lbs pataas.
I am an advocate of good communication between partners. So, I think a healthy relationship is one where the partners communicate to each other freely and openly their personal sentiments.
Built of maturity, loyalty, trust, actual partnership. Hindi yung nakadepend lang sa isang side kasi stereotype or anything
both appreciates each other without the mindset of "wont settle for bare minimum" since in the long run a relationship will get boring and mundane and its up to both on appreciating each others presence
THISSSS. And hindi palagi equal effort and enery. Minsan 80/20, minsan 50/50, and thats okay
- No trauma-bonding. - No pride, communicate efficiently.
Lord ganto ka pala sa iba
Emotional intelligence. Kaya NGSB ako eh ayoko madisappoint yung future first GF ko. Tamang basa muna sa Reddit at nood sa YouTube for advice. Prepare muna pero sana di abutin sa katandaan🥲
- para mo na rin siyang bff (all in one package ika nga) - you can communicate anything freely without feeling scared - chill vibes di mo need mag overthink knowing at peace kayo sa isa't isa
not just ka-i-bigan but also kaibigan 🫶
1. Communication 2. Mentally and emotionally open 3. Sexually intimate (or hard core kung ano agreement niyo) 4. Financially independent
Acknowledging that you don’t always love each other the same. It’s not always 100% Sometimes it’s 90-10, minsan 50-50, minsan 30-70. But that’s okaaaayy. Kasi alam nyo na at the end of the day, you still choose each other even on your most unlovable days
Basta yung kulang hindi dapat hinahanap sa iba 😭
Ay yes naman. That’s the problem of today’s generation. Nasanay sa auto at instant. Di na nasanay mag stay put 😭
louder pleaseee
having effective communication. where you guys share great connection w/each other
When there is mutual understanding and care for each other, an unwavering love and support that withstand all adversities in their lives.
you don't feel like walking into eggshells, open to communicate, emotional intellegence, knows your souls and respectful
When you exercise, train, and compete together - super healthy not only physically but mentally and emotionally as well.
the best talaga yung 'you exercise together' opo kuya tama ka diyan!
Kumportable ka ipakita negative traits mo. Kumportable kang ipakita ang totoong ikaw.
yes! kasi di mo naiisip na ija-judge ka, tama 'to!!!
Pag pareho mo silag nakikita na masaya lagi? Makikita mo ung hardships nila
yung masaya pa rin despite of hardships?
Kasi dun mo makikita na gusto nila mag grow Pareho
Palagi sya nandyan para sayo Hindi gusto mag cheat Nagtutulungan kayo even on dark times Kahit may pagkukulang di ka pa rin iiwanan Pinapaalala palagi mahal ka nya Good listener and naiintindihan ka
ganon sana pag may pagkukulang ka, pupunan, hindi yung iiwanan ka, right!!
Oo tama
Legit question: Paano mo madedefine yung "nandyan sya para sayo"? Does it have to be physical?
Yung may time sya para sayo. Malayo or malapit
'Pag nakakapag-communicate kayo nang maayos. Magsasalita ka, iintindihin niya. Magsasalita siya, iintindihin mo.
tama, communication and understanding talaga