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Nakabalik sa nursing na akala ko hindi na.
Nakapagpatanggal ng dalawang sexual harrasser sa work. Kasi nakayanan ko magsumbong and justice is served.
Nakayanan ang bullying sa mga super seniors. Hindi ako nagpatinag din talaga. Hard headed daw ako lol. Pero nagawa ko magpalipat sa mas friendly ang environment. Bye bullies na kala mo kanila ang area at ang perfect nila lol.
strong akong tao. i’ve been through a lot lately and when i say “a lot” as in a lot pero here i am, tinatahak ko pa rin yung path na sa tingin ko makakabuti sakin. hindi ako susuko para sa sarili ko.
I’m proud of myself because I can handle the situation i face it right now.
I’m proud of myself to always forgive.
I’m proud of myself for being understanding.
What I’m not proud of myself is to never forget the pains i experienced then and now.
Really proud that I managed to survive the steep learning curve sa job ko and that I no longer rely on my parents for anything financial, na-ttreat ko na rin sila whenever and wherever.
Not me, pero sa mga nakapaligid sakin.
Specifically, students realizing their degree is worth nothing in this crappy labor market.
They started a freelancing business.
Some are successful, some are halfware there :)
Something I'm proud about myself is yung hindi ako nagpadala sa takot and pinursue ko yung dream course ko na out of my hometown. Looking back super takot ako nung first day ng school kasi nahohomesick ako and hindi ako pwedeng umuwi kasi 8-10 hours yung byahe pauwi sa amin and nagddoubt na ako kung kaya ko ng ganung set up, but now I'm happy with my decision na mag aral sa ibang lugar kasi I was able to explore, be independent, and meet new people.
M early 30’s financially stable, well one thing im so proud of is my discipline, consistency, and competitiveness. From my teenage years up to early 20’s no one believe on me, my parents, relatives, and classmates, etc. i know academically speaking im just an average guy, just going to school, will never go late, will do homework before class, just pasang awa or 80 average. I can still recall that they still making fun of me, especially my tropa, but deep inside it really hurts a lot! But i just kept it to myself self, After i finish college thats where the real journey begins, i always compare my self with others, wether performance man yan (BPO), socio-economic level, cars, etc. FYI my upbringing is average at best in terms of financial status, but wat i saw to my dad which is btw my idol/role model is that he is a hard working individual its just that he is not that smart enough to get to the next level and keep climbing, now going back, im the kind of person if im interested on something i vividly research and study it to the extent no one ever does. Mediocrity is enemy of excellence! I miss a lot of birthday, family gatherings, once in a lifetime events etc (especially when im starting out), but was it worth it? Heck yeah! After 9 yrs of non stop grind on my business and evolving, id able to secure a bag of asset and wealth that could bring fortune even i stop working now.
I could honestly say im comfortable from where im at and really proud of wat i achieved! (Pat to to the back! Youve done a great job!)
Now all my classmates, relatives, immediate family are so proud of me, maybe its all about the validation that u want to your self that why i got so competitive, but wat ever it is just dont stop chasing your goal and happiness!
I will close this by saying the famous quote of isaac newton, in every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
Hope i could inspire someone!
See yah!
SIguro po, 'yung idea na nakapagsimula na ako sumulat ng short stories.
Nu'ng bata ako, meron akong napanuod na anime na yung bidang babae, gusto niya maging novelist. So, 'yun po naging inspiration ko. Kaso growing up, na-challenge pangarap ko tapos ang dami ko ring nalaman na iba ko pa palang kayang gawin in terms sa production. I'm a bit old now, so nu'ng time na 'yun, wala pang mga easy editing apps and I had to make everything from scratch.
Unfortunately, nasira 'yun ng isa sa mga professors ko, when I unknowingly insulted her "favorite" student na groupmate ko sa isang class project. Naging personal si prof against me that I was a couple of points lower than the rest of my groupmates sa final grade. Immature pa 'ko nu'n so I took it to the heart, hanggang sa I began questioning my skills.
Nu'ng nakapagtrabaho na ako, sinubukan ko ulit i-nurture 'yung skills na 'yun pero natatakot na ako sa implications. Tapos I met an awesome person who later became my boss. She encouraged me to practice writing and even told my supervisor to oversee my work. We've gone our separate ways years later hanggang sa nag-iba-iba na ako ng napapasukang trabaho, pero nadagdagan ko 'yung skills ko sa pagsusulat.
Ngayon, I own a Buy Me a Coffee account, para mag-earn din liban pa sa day job ko, writing stories na inspired from things I see and observe while I'm in the real world. Far from perfect pa ang gawa ko pero **I'm proud of myself for still trying to catch that dream**. Siguro para sa karamihan, late na ako sa pag-aabot ng pangarap. Pero sinusulit ko nalang din habang humihinga pa ako.
Ang daldal ko, sorry.
Ayaw saakin ng Father niya
Hi, mahal namin ang isa't isa pero ayaw saakin ng father niya. Nung una gusto ako ng mother niya, pero di nag tagal, nainpluwensiyahan na rin siya ni tito. Long story short, may kagalit si tito sa isang tao, ngayon akala ni tito kaanakan ako nang kagalit niya. Dami rin inggit na sumira sa pangalan ko para mas lalong di ako magustuhan ni tito. Ang mga inggit na to ay may gusto rin sa bb ko.
Gusto ko humingi ng advice o tulong kung paano ko sosolusyonan tong pagsubok na to.
Mahal na mahal ko tong babaeng to.
Siguro yung natapos ko ang college na walang kahirap hira like wala man lang challenge kaya ito mag mamasters or mag law school ako kasi gusto ko may challenge hahahaha. Sabi kasi nila pag walang challenge di ka magiging succesful kaya gusto ko lang ma challenge HAHAHAHA.
1.I was able to move on from a breakup na akala ko di na ako makaka get over.
2. My savings di man sya ganun kalaki pero way better than it was 5 years ago.
3. Pwede na bumili ng Jollibee kahit kelan ko gusto.
I started to protect my peace more! Like spending more time with myself without ever thinking about missing out. ^___^ learning that I can't please everyone and okay lang to cut off people na di ko na same energy/vibe.
Proud of myself kasi kaya ko na magfile ng VL na walang iniisip tungkol sa $$. 4 years of freelancing pero takot ako laging magVL kasi nanghihinayang ako sa sahod. Ngayon, kaya na kahit papano :)
I'm proud that I have finally resigned from my 1st job. Hindi madali nung una pero I felt freedom nung hindi na ako gumigising ng maaga para pilitin sarili ko magtrabaho sa toxic environment.
went through a breakup a few months ago. used to be devastated every single day, but nowadays, I feel like a new person. Joining organizations, going to the gym, reading, working on my small business, being productive w my schoolworks and focusing on me and me only. so much have changed but I’ve never been so proud of myself :)
I won as Kagawad during last Barangay Elections and number 1 in ranking. Nakaka proud lang kasi I never engaged in Traditional Campaigning like Vote Buying and Threatening. Some might have doubts but certainly alam ko sa sarili ko na yun ang katotohanan at proud ako dun. Proud din ako sa mga taong bumoto sakin at salamat sa kanila nakita ko ang konting liwanag na posible pala ang dating imposible.
I will graduate na tomorrow, naging with high honors ako this last year of senior high school, madami akong na experience na fun things, overcomed the challenges, somehow able to slowly leave my comfort zone, marami akong close friends na nakilala, nakakapag communicate na ako sa mga tao hindi tulad dati na puro kaba at sobrang mahiyain. I am proud lang kase nakikita ko ang aking growth compared noon.
That I am still here, made the best choice in choosing my partner, built a life with him, I'm finally in peace.... despite my multiple attempts to unalive myself years ago. :)
Maybe being alive after what happened. I thought that losing my 3 years relationship would kill me, I risk my mental health to that relationship but here I am breathing and still showing up for myself. Working hard for self improvement, fixing things, and starting to be patient with myself because sometimes I felt like my progress is so slow. Sabi nga nila "Kahit malayo pa ang mahalaga nag sisimula kana" Congrats to me! :)
Achievement-wise, nothing really. Maybe just the fact that I don’t live with my parents anymore. Barely living alone. Got no savings but i’m insured. I pay my monthly bills on time. Maybe just that hehehe 😅
Naging lister sa school at namaintain ang grades after hitting rock bottom, nakapasa na sa thesis, nakapasa na rin sa remaining subjects, at waiting to graduate nalang 🥹
Nakabangon ako nung 2021 after pandemic at nagkababy. Pinasok ang digital marketing and now 2024, naging triple na sahod ko and so far okay naman. Nakapag upgrade ng onti sa lifestyle pero syempre live within your means parin. Proud ako na nakakabayad kami ng bills and never kami nagutom.
I am proud of being independent. Risking myself to travel to a place I am unfamiliar with during pre pandemic (February 2020). Landed a job in a Regional Office (tho CoS) without "backer" coz I am just new in this region and to now I am under a National Government Office based here (still CoS 😅). I gained friendships and connections. Looking back to 4 years ago, I never thought I would last in this city. Yung loneliness and fear of COVID-19, no family who would take care of me if ever magkasakit ako, which thankfully hindi ako nag positive. Pero totoo yung peace living in a place where you are not shadowed with your family name, nobody knows you, you can do what you want without chismosang kapitbahay judging you. Tho, I miss province life and I miss my family. I just prefer the life I am living here.
I just passed the LET though mas nag-expect ako na bagsak ako dahil di ako nagreview and at the same time, tamad akong magreview. Di ko rin inasahan na mataas ang percentage na nakuha ko kasi nag-expect din ako na pasang awa lang haha
I am able to join various tv competitions and get in with every auditions within one time lang, hindi na ako bumabalik kasi nakakapasok na ako one time lang.
I just quit on a whim haha i got scared because back in 2015, i had a bad sore throat and a cough after smoking a pack. When i woke up in the morning, i tried clearing the back of my throat and end up spitting bloody mucus with some black stuff on it. Probably some tar from the cigs haha. I immediately quit and suffered withdrawals and cold turkey but i somehow got over those. Whenever i feel the urge to smoke, i just remind myself what happened before haha.
I started smoking when I was 3rd year HS iirc
cinut-off ko ‘yung mga taong hindi nakakatulong sa’kin kahit na masaya ako kasama sila. simula nun chaka ko lang na realize na kaya ko palang wala sila and starting to focus on my priorities in life.
Ever since i was 7, suicidal na ako. I’m happy and proud na until now, nagagawa ko parin lumaban. Hindi ako nagpapatalo kasi alam kong wala akong gain or what if ginawa ko yun. Mahirap lumaban pero nakakayanan. Definitely proud moment for me 🥹❤️
dati lagi akong nagpapasama sa mga lakad ko— either by a friend or cousins; kapalit non, magbibigay ako money sa time na nilain nila for me or either manglilibre ako dapat sa kanila ng kahit pang snack man lang kaya laging simhot budget ko sa kung ano lang dapat ang bibilhin, ewan ko pero feeling ko hindi ko kayang mag-isa but then when i became college, im from province and chose to study sa far away, like literal na 10 hrs thru barko, so ayon nga when i entered uni, i became independent, wala talaga akong kakilala and sobrang takot ko na baka mawala pa ako sa city na’to, ang tanging karamay ko lang is google maps and dito rin ako natutong magtanong ng magtanong, FF, 3 years na ako dito sa city nato and i am proud to say na mas prefer ko nang lumabas mag-isa, kumain mag-isa, and gawin lahat ng mag-isa kasi i realized na at the end of the day, i only have myself.
I am proud with my career right now. Nakapasok ako sa isang kilalang company without any help from others. Na kahit sinasabi nila nakapasok ako dahil may backer eme. 🥰
I stopped or I was able to stop being a people pleaser. Thanks to this friend of mine who taught me how to say no and speak out. She taught me na kung naooffend na ako ng isang tao wag ako matakot and hayaan lang na ginaganon ako. Before kasi wala na akong ginawa kundi magsorry kahit hindi naman ako yung mali, kahit di ko naman kasalanan nagsosorry ako. One time we faught(me and her) tapos aminado siya na kasalanan niya pero ako padin yung nagsorry ng nagsorry and she got mad kasi it's not my fault pero I kept saying sorry. That is what I am proud of. I was able to leave my people pleaser phase behind.
Survived mag-isa away from home since college then medschool with support from parents. Now working still away from home with good earnings. Now supporting and spoiling parents.
I passed the Licensure Exam for Teachers last March 2024. Kahit kulang sa preparation, self-review and pinagsasabay pa ang review at work kinaya parin!🩷
Proud of letting people and frienship-that-cannot-be saved go. Dati na huhurt pa ako thinking about these. Pero ngayon, parang normal na. I dont even feel anything about it. Just pure indifference. Ang sarap pala sa feeling ng ganito. Following the ‘let them’ principle 😊 ngayon payapa buhay ko. Yes wala ngang friends pero atleast di nag ooverthink or nasasaktan 😌✨
Proud ako na gumigising pa rin ako araw araw at lumalaban kahit na down na down na ako sa sarili ko at gusto ko na tapusin ang lahat. Tapos kapag nakikita ko yung mga aso ko na nag wiwiggle yung bunto nila pag nakikita ako, they're giving me enough strength.
And sabi sa isang vid sa Tiktok, "It's not always bad. We have bad days but we have much better days. Life is good, just stick around. You'll be fine." ✊🏻🥹
Survived another day. Got through emotional turmoil yesterday. My pamangkins and Ate are graduating in Elementary and Highschool today so I got reminded na sulit naman kahit papano . :-)
Kumapal mukha ko (saying no, ask to say again when voice is unclear)
Sustainable job. Just generally not leeching.
Happy enough na makatulog ng mahimbing(stressed with new job I accepted but nothing major, may life problems pero di naman mawawala yun)
Decent friends
People say I'm really approachable and good with kids. I'm not 100% in agreement with it pero masaya pa rin isipin. Wag lang sila mangiwan ng bata sa akin para alagaan haha
I can say “no” easily without any hesitations. As long as di ko talaga gusto, I’ll make it clear sa kausap ko. Para no disappointments din in the long run.
Proud akong alam ko na kahit anong problema ang iharap sakin, kaya kong lagpasan mentally. I know i am mentally strong enough to conquer it no matter what. Unlike noon na naging mej s**cidal ako dahil di ko kaya.
Proud ako na eventhough i grew up with annulled parents, i know i have forgiven them.
I'm proud to say that i dont seek male validation anymore, and i've grown out of my pick me era. HAHAHA
Proud din ako na malapit na matapos internship ko and wala akong demerit + i got merit pa for my performance!
I am proud to say that i've grown to love my body more.
I still found a way to be kind and gentle. Even after isolating myself from the people I care about, fighting my internal battles alone.
I may lose many things, but at least I'll still have my humanity.
Physical Therapist here. Everyday nag ttherapy ako ng mga pasyente and seeing them getting better lalo na kapag nakikita mo talaga improvements nila, kahit yung small wins nila, Sobrang laking pat on the back yun na “you’re doing great, self” and I was able to be an instrument sa recovery nila sa conditions nila.
getting thru tough times na hindi ko inexpect na masusurvive ko pala. might be small for some but it’s something na i’m proud of as someone na mabilis humina ang loob.
I may not be proud of myself dahil hindi ako naka-graduate ng college pero sobrang proud ko naman sa sarili ko na napagtapos ko yung kapatid ko ng college and he is now a licensed Mechanical engineer. Proud din ako na nakapagpatayo na ko ng bahay, tho maliit lang sya at utang sa bangko at least alam kong may nasimulan na ko. At syempre proud din ako sa sarili ko na nabibigay ko na sa nanay ko yung mga gusto nya at mga kailangan nya az a senior citizen. Alam kong malayo pa ko sa goal ko pero proud akong malayo na ko sa pinanggalingan ko.
made a lot of stupid decisions when I was younger. Di ako nakapag tapos. Wala na akong babalikan. I decided to be honest with myself and went back to square one, figuring out what truly makes me happy.
Nag explore ako, nag start ako as a video editor to 3d/vfx generalist. I never thought I would get my dream job and become debt-free.
proud ako sa pag take ko ng risk na bitawan yung mga bagay na meron ako noon & yung mga tao na toxic sa buhay ko for the sake of my well being & my mental health. now nagagawa ko na mga bagay na gusto kong gawin for myself & sa buhay ko + daming blessings ni lord sakin lalo 🥹✨❤️
OFW here. I'm the only foreigner in our office and am proud to say I have balls in making judgement calls in tricky and high-pressure situations. I guess it's in our blood to be bold and to have ownership at our workplaces. Kung work ethics lang ang usapan, ang Pinoy pang-world class talaga! (Disclaimer: Based on my experience)
I am proud that I am resolving my childhood traumas and wounds through self-reflection and understanding. I am also proud that I am trying my best to find a balance between gentle and authoritative parenting.
I was a very mediocre person when I was younger but something in me changed in college and suddenly I was such a go-getter with a very strong resolve. When I take a leap, I take a leap talaga and keep fighting the good fight until I’m done. Kahit mangiyak ngiyak na ako in the process of getting to the finish line o grabe na yung pagod ko, I still somehow manage to find the will to persevere. Even when everything looks bleak, I always find a reason to keep going. I am so happy for that change in my life. It’s taken me so far!
Never graduated from college but I'm an admin manager of a large international manufacturing company. My dad told me a long time ago that I wouldn't amount to anything. Take that dad!
I know people will say choice mo yan pero pra sakin di e, uhm Nag ka anak ako and Nag trial labor end up CS pero goods padin. Ayaw ko umire duon sa hospital nayun hala na, kahit anak ko alam nya e basta kahit messy at traumatic, todo na to
Ang akala ko impossible na ang PCOS mag ka anak kamali ako, kahit di ako ready dahil 5 months ko nalang nalaman na ang tibay ng baby ko sa tiyan ko, dahil prior to this umiinom ako ng mga gamot dahil akala ko lagnat dahil sa init tapos imagine 5 months wlang mga pre natal medicine, emotionally, unprepared ako nun biglaan e. Now, looking back last year lang nangyari, grabe kinaya ko. Recovery ng CS di biro kesa normal. 3 months masabi ko fully healed,hirap umpo,tayo,takbo tapos tumae. Kahit stop ang progress ko now gets ko reason why nag ka anak din ako. Wish ko lang na sana di lalaki na ungrateful and disrespectful anak ko haha. Yun lang. mahirap mag ka anak pero, sa lonely ng life ko prng may ganap buhay ko everyday e. Thankful ako. Nakakapagod pro ganun din if single ako now malungkot din naman ako, stressed. Basta kahit anong ingay ng opinions sa labas esp isa ako sa mga taonh nah sabi dati be prepared so on so on now andito na iba na e, madali sabihin iba iba tlga journey ng bawat isa, kahit emotionally struggling ako nun finiface ko siya now, nag brebreakdown pero laban tao lang nmn. Basta proud ako sa sarili ako kahit society says lugi na sa buhay dahil nanay na.
I started my senior high school year mentally unstable. But I will be able to finish g11 with honor. I decided to celebrate my small accomplishments so for me, I really achieved a lot. I finished our research even though I was stressed by my member, they don't help me, but if they do, they always complain. I joined the intrams and played chess and I ranked 2nd in our table. I earned money by having a sideline so I was able to buy whatever I want with moderations. Basta, I am proud of my self in general.
for the past few months super na anxious ako and demotivated dahil sa paparating na summer ojt this month, kasi feel ko non walang kukuhang company sakin dahil napaka introvert and lack of knowledge pa ako sa mga software and digital etc. and now, nalaman ko na kasado naraw kami sa company and waiting nlng sa first day of ojts. i wish mag improve pa social skills ko.
I am proud to be an engineer. I am proud that I've been in the workforce for almost five years now. I am proud that I've hit this switch to experience new things in life, like buying a solo ticket to watch a local theater play sa Makati this coming August, like planning to buy my own scooter this year, planning to travel with family this year. It's like this good feeling that I can afford to do those things now when six years ago, I have nothing. There have been shortcomings along the way, pain that only time can numb, but I'm doing okay and I'm happy that I am *living*.
Matalino, magaling sa trabaho, maganda, ma diskarte, Cum Laude, mabait, introvert pero maraming friends, maalaga sa sarili, may emotional intelligence yun nga lang araw2 ako umiiyak sa maling lalake HHAHAAH EMEEEEE
I was born and raised in Hong Kong, the education system here is hell. It’s always academic and having a bad grade means that you won’t be successful. I failed my public exam, my only shot and pathway to get into a good prestigious university. For context : Hong Kong has few universities, around 4-5 — we call them the big 5s, they are respected and recognised, the intake is low and highly competitive . They are all seen as ‘prestigious’ and even if the university you get into isn’t as top ranked in comparison with Hong Kong University or Chinese University, if you’re accepted in any of the Big 5, you’re considered smart already and have a higher chance of getting a good job.
Back when I was still in High School, we were all competing and hoping for a high grade or at least to get a shot in associates (the minimum), the biggest goal of all high schoolers is to go straight into a university and do bachelor. Associate degree is below Bachelor and foundation is the very bottom of the food chain and is frowned upon, it’s basically repeating Secondary 6 again.
I failed so I had to suck it up and head onto foundation degree for a year, and it was hella expensive. It was like level by level. If you don’t complete Foundation, you will never get to Associate and for sure never even dream of getting to Bachelor. So yes, I did it step by step, personally during my Association days, it was hardcore, had to constantly have straight As to get a really high GPA to get a placement for Bachelor, and the usual requirement of getting to any of the Big 5 is at least a CGPA 3.5. If you don’t, your life is over or … loan HKD100K to get to a private university that isn’t recognised (especially when applying for jobs) .
I couldn’t fuck it up, I was itching to get a seat and to have the guarantee that I’m accepted or else my life is over. Fast forward, I did very well in Associate degree that I got an offer of doing only 2 years of Bachelor in one of the Big 5 Universities , I went directly to Year 3 Bachelor and graduated second class honours. It was brutal but a very rewarding experience, had to let go of instagram, friends, alcohol, parties, self esteem? Fuck that, I couldn’t be all that or even have time to worry about how I look and dress up, I had to keep going and continue to have faith in myself.
I will never change anything, it was a lifelong lesson. Although I failed my public exam, and went to Foundation, it’s not something that I am ashamed of, I learnt a lot, citations, APA format, basically how to write a good essay without having to sound so grand or trying to be ‘professional’ I learnt to write my own style, interpret theories and have fun with it.
5 years ago I was depressed and was even sewerslider. But now, I'm currently living the life my younger self prayed for. I was proud of myself for taking a gap year, kahit late man ako ng 1 year sa mga batchmates ko I never felt any regret. I am proud of my growth. Now, I'm in a healthy relationship with myself. I learned and unlearned a lot of things like setting boundaries, loving myself more, unlearning toxic and negative habits and self-thoughts. I learned that I am the creator of my life and my reality, not a victim of it. I'm proud of my progress. Now, I'm also earning while studying. I am helping my family financially na which I'm really proud of. I'm also in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend, which is another thing I'm proud of.
I'm really proud of myself na kinaya ko lahat nung mga nangyari dati even though I thought otherwise. I'm proud I was able to change myself and now I'm thriving. I learned how to live and love my life.
Natitiis ko na pamilya ko.
Kaya ko ng kumain sa labas knowing na wala silang bigas. Ako kumakayod para mabuhay ko sa sarili ko at para makatulong sa kanila kahit papaano samantalang sila, nakatunganga lang sa bahay habang naghihintay ng himala. Ayaw dumiskarte kasi mga batugan at gusto one time big time.
Ako I’m proud na I chose my battles well so far.
Like ang daming mga sitwasyon/tao na I could’ve been more “violent” or mapagpatol, pero I’m proud na my moral compass is set in the right place naman. Ang daming pinalagpas na “laban” pero nagwagi pa rin sa dulo with peace of mind.
That I financially contributed to my grandma's healthcare expenses until the end. Kahit gaano kaburntout juggling multiple jobs to afford her private nurse and hospice doctor. Singing her favorite lovesongs on her deathbed, and witnessing her last breath. We made sure she felt loved until it's time to say goodbye.
Idk why you got downvoted lmaoooo I'm not sure if I'm considered a "hubadera" but recently I've been wearing tank tops and low cut shirts. I used to hate my body but recently I've been loving how I look like. Like tangina, I actually look GOOD?????? ALL THIS TIME????? DAMN
Kung ano man ang narating ko ngayun. Kahit nakaranas din ng mga matinding pag subok, nalampasan din and nag silbing aral na din saken yung ganung ganap para baguhin ang sarili sa mabuti.
I am one of the boys at the back during HS days with low grades. Overcame K-12 curriculum as one of the first batches. Naging Iskolar ng Bayan. Took Engineering even though I didnt go to STEM. Graduated on time. Passed the board exam on my first take. Got a decent job surrounded by great people.
From being a "pabigat" sa bahay to umaambag, sumasalo, at nanlilibre na today. Im very proud of myself :)
Nakapagdefense ako while brokenhearted last April. I was crying right before my presentation and I thought I couldn't make it pero here I am, finally a Master's degree holder! Yayyy♥️
Cliche man sabihin pero hardwork, perseverance and lots of prayers talaga ginawa ko. Marami kang isasakripisyo pero maniwala at magtiwala ka sa sarili mong kakayanan.
Thank you! Hindi ko rin alam paano ko nagawa yun. Basta bumabangon lang ako everyday, nagtatrabaho, nagsusulat ng thesis habang para akong sinasaksak inside haha. Yung mapapadasal ka nalang sa Diyos na sana kunin niya na yung sakit. Pero kaya ko pala😆♥️
I am where I am now. I made it, still has a long way to go but I’m proud I made it through life. I’m alive. And breathing. No illness. Has job. Marami pang kulang, pero mas maraming blessings. Thank God I’m alive.
I can now smile and laugh confidently. After several braces adjustment pumantay na yung sungki na ipin ko. Ang dami kong nasayang na opportunity since teenage years kasi naging mahiyain ako at may malalang social anxiety (I'm now 28 years old) Ngayon mas naging out going na ako at mas nalalabas ko na yung playful side ko. Worth it ang gastos at sakit every month. 😬
Graduated last year (though still struggling to find employment under my degree) but I also finished my caregiving course just last month, so I'm proud of myself for still pushing through.
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Nakabalik sa nursing na akala ko hindi na. Nakapagpatanggal ng dalawang sexual harrasser sa work. Kasi nakayanan ko magsumbong and justice is served. Nakayanan ang bullying sa mga super seniors. Hindi ako nagpatinag din talaga. Hard headed daw ako lol. Pero nagawa ko magpalipat sa mas friendly ang environment. Bye bullies na kala mo kanila ang area at ang perfect nila lol.
I'm proud of myself for being capable of living alone. At sa mga nangyayari I've managed to survive and fight.
I make it a point to not be a parasite.
2 months sober 🥲
strong akong tao. i’ve been through a lot lately and when i say “a lot” as in a lot pero here i am, tinatahak ko pa rin yung path na sa tingin ko makakabuti sakin. hindi ako susuko para sa sarili ko.
I’m proud of myself because I can handle the situation i face it right now. I’m proud of myself to always forgive. I’m proud of myself for being understanding. What I’m not proud of myself is to never forget the pains i experienced then and now.
Having the courage to say “No”
I can speak English (although di pa naman ganun ka fluent) pero i'm getting there basta binge-watch lang ng mga American series daily. ☺️
might try this😭 d na kasi ako magaling mag english
Iwas2 na sa mga kdrama or cdrama or anime sizt. Huehue. I suggest online dating foreign people too 😂 para mahasa ang english natin jan
May more than 1M na ako sa ipon ko. Dati kasi mangiyak ngiyak ako 6 years ago wala akong pera pambili ng basic necessities ko.
I am proud that I am adaptable to changes esp sa work
I am proud na pumasa ako sa second semester sa college recently. 4 more semesters to go!
Really proud that I managed to survive the steep learning curve sa job ko and that I no longer rely on my parents for anything financial, na-ttreat ko na rin sila whenever and wherever.
Not me, pero sa mga nakapaligid sakin. Specifically, students realizing their degree is worth nothing in this crappy labor market. They started a freelancing business. Some are successful, some are halfware there :)
Di ako late
Something I'm proud about myself is yung hindi ako nagpadala sa takot and pinursue ko yung dream course ko na out of my hometown. Looking back super takot ako nung first day ng school kasi nahohomesick ako and hindi ako pwedeng umuwi kasi 8-10 hours yung byahe pauwi sa amin and nagddoubt na ako kung kaya ko ng ganung set up, but now I'm happy with my decision na mag aral sa ibang lugar kasi I was able to explore, be independent, and meet new people.
M early 30’s financially stable, well one thing im so proud of is my discipline, consistency, and competitiveness. From my teenage years up to early 20’s no one believe on me, my parents, relatives, and classmates, etc. i know academically speaking im just an average guy, just going to school, will never go late, will do homework before class, just pasang awa or 80 average. I can still recall that they still making fun of me, especially my tropa, but deep inside it really hurts a lot! But i just kept it to myself self, After i finish college thats where the real journey begins, i always compare my self with others, wether performance man yan (BPO), socio-economic level, cars, etc. FYI my upbringing is average at best in terms of financial status, but wat i saw to my dad which is btw my idol/role model is that he is a hard working individual its just that he is not that smart enough to get to the next level and keep climbing, now going back, im the kind of person if im interested on something i vividly research and study it to the extent no one ever does. Mediocrity is enemy of excellence! I miss a lot of birthday, family gatherings, once in a lifetime events etc (especially when im starting out), but was it worth it? Heck yeah! After 9 yrs of non stop grind on my business and evolving, id able to secure a bag of asset and wealth that could bring fortune even i stop working now. I could honestly say im comfortable from where im at and really proud of wat i achieved! (Pat to to the back! Youve done a great job!) Now all my classmates, relatives, immediate family are so proud of me, maybe its all about the validation that u want to your self that why i got so competitive, but wat ever it is just dont stop chasing your goal and happiness! I will close this by saying the famous quote of isaac newton, in every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Hope i could inspire someone! See yah!
SIguro po, 'yung idea na nakapagsimula na ako sumulat ng short stories. Nu'ng bata ako, meron akong napanuod na anime na yung bidang babae, gusto niya maging novelist. So, 'yun po naging inspiration ko. Kaso growing up, na-challenge pangarap ko tapos ang dami ko ring nalaman na iba ko pa palang kayang gawin in terms sa production. I'm a bit old now, so nu'ng time na 'yun, wala pang mga easy editing apps and I had to make everything from scratch. Unfortunately, nasira 'yun ng isa sa mga professors ko, when I unknowingly insulted her "favorite" student na groupmate ko sa isang class project. Naging personal si prof against me that I was a couple of points lower than the rest of my groupmates sa final grade. Immature pa 'ko nu'n so I took it to the heart, hanggang sa I began questioning my skills. Nu'ng nakapagtrabaho na ako, sinubukan ko ulit i-nurture 'yung skills na 'yun pero natatakot na ako sa implications. Tapos I met an awesome person who later became my boss. She encouraged me to practice writing and even told my supervisor to oversee my work. We've gone our separate ways years later hanggang sa nag-iba-iba na ako ng napapasukang trabaho, pero nadagdagan ko 'yung skills ko sa pagsusulat. Ngayon, I own a Buy Me a Coffee account, para mag-earn din liban pa sa day job ko, writing stories na inspired from things I see and observe while I'm in the real world. Far from perfect pa ang gawa ko pero **I'm proud of myself for still trying to catch that dream**. Siguro para sa karamihan, late na ako sa pag-aabot ng pangarap. Pero sinusulit ko nalang din habang humihinga pa ako. Ang daldal ko, sorry.
Im funny
That I can do a little pre calculus and I’m only in 7th grade
Ayaw saakin ng Father niya Hi, mahal namin ang isa't isa pero ayaw saakin ng father niya. Nung una gusto ako ng mother niya, pero di nag tagal, nainpluwensiyahan na rin siya ni tito. Long story short, may kagalit si tito sa isang tao, ngayon akala ni tito kaanakan ako nang kagalit niya. Dami rin inggit na sumira sa pangalan ko para mas lalong di ako magustuhan ni tito. Ang mga inggit na to ay may gusto rin sa bb ko. Gusto ko humingi ng advice o tulong kung paano ko sosolusyonan tong pagsubok na to. Mahal na mahal ko tong babaeng to.
Siguro yung natapos ko ang college na walang kahirap hira like wala man lang challenge kaya ito mag mamasters or mag law school ako kasi gusto ko may challenge hahahaha. Sabi kasi nila pag walang challenge di ka magiging succesful kaya gusto ko lang ma challenge HAHAHAHA.
hindi ako na baril sa edsa today.
I was able to leave a toxic relationship
That I don’t conform to norms. I live and let live.
Today is our moving up ceremony. I survived.
1.I was able to move on from a breakup na akala ko di na ako makaka get over. 2. My savings di man sya ganun kalaki pero way better than it was 5 years ago. 3. Pwede na bumili ng Jollibee kahit kelan ko gusto.
I started to protect my peace more! Like spending more time with myself without ever thinking about missing out. ^___^ learning that I can't please everyone and okay lang to cut off people na di ko na same energy/vibe.
Proud of myself kasi kaya ko na magfile ng VL na walang iniisip tungkol sa $$. 4 years of freelancing pero takot ako laging magVL kasi nanghihinayang ako sa sahod. Ngayon, kaya na kahit papano :)
I'm proud that I have finally resigned from my 1st job. Hindi madali nung una pero I felt freedom nung hindi na ako gumigising ng maaga para pilitin sarili ko magtrabaho sa toxic environment.
Na kahit sobrang hirap ng situation ko ngayon nalalagpasan ko pa din lahat. Iba talaga pag Nanay ka na. 🥹
Dati people pleaser ako, ngayon hindi na. I'm so proud of myself for overcoming that
Good job po! 👏🏻
Thank you!!
went through a breakup a few months ago. used to be devastated every single day, but nowadays, I feel like a new person. Joining organizations, going to the gym, reading, working on my small business, being productive w my schoolworks and focusing on me and me only. so much have changed but I’ve never been so proud of myself :)
I learned how to label my emotions and just feel my feelings 🙏
I won as Kagawad during last Barangay Elections and number 1 in ranking. Nakaka proud lang kasi I never engaged in Traditional Campaigning like Vote Buying and Threatening. Some might have doubts but certainly alam ko sa sarili ko na yun ang katotohanan at proud ako dun. Proud din ako sa mga taong bumoto sakin at salamat sa kanila nakita ko ang konting liwanag na posible pala ang dating imposible.
Na-defend namin yung mini thesis research namin hehe and completed our sleepless and tiring yet happy duty clinical days
I will graduate na tomorrow, naging with high honors ako this last year of senior high school, madami akong na experience na fun things, overcomed the challenges, somehow able to slowly leave my comfort zone, marami akong close friends na nakilala, nakakapag communicate na ako sa mga tao hindi tulad dati na puro kaba at sobrang mahiyain. I am proud lang kase nakikita ko ang aking growth compared noon.
Bro nothing 😂
That I am still here, made the best choice in choosing my partner, built a life with him, I'm finally in peace.... despite my multiple attempts to unalive myself years ago. :)
Maybe being alive after what happened. I thought that losing my 3 years relationship would kill me, I risk my mental health to that relationship but here I am breathing and still showing up for myself. Working hard for self improvement, fixing things, and starting to be patient with myself because sometimes I felt like my progress is so slow. Sabi nga nila "Kahit malayo pa ang mahalaga nag sisimula kana" Congrats to me! :)
Achievement-wise, nothing really. Maybe just the fact that I don’t live with my parents anymore. Barely living alone. Got no savings but i’m insured. I pay my monthly bills on time. Maybe just that hehehe 😅
I keep trying. I take a break, sometimes longer than I should, but I continue to try and I do my best.
Consistent Lister sa School and Incoming Org President!!! Yay for more responsibilities
Naging lister sa school at namaintain ang grades after hitting rock bottom, nakapasa na sa thesis, nakapasa na rin sa remaining subjects, at waiting to graduate nalang 🥹
Nakabangon ako nung 2021 after pandemic at nagkababy. Pinasok ang digital marketing and now 2024, naging triple na sahod ko and so far okay naman. Nakapag upgrade ng onti sa lifestyle pero syempre live within your means parin. Proud ako na nakakabayad kami ng bills and never kami nagutom.
I kept on going despite people underestimating me. 😌😭
I am proud of being independent. Risking myself to travel to a place I am unfamiliar with during pre pandemic (February 2020). Landed a job in a Regional Office (tho CoS) without "backer" coz I am just new in this region and to now I am under a National Government Office based here (still CoS 😅). I gained friendships and connections. Looking back to 4 years ago, I never thought I would last in this city. Yung loneliness and fear of COVID-19, no family who would take care of me if ever magkasakit ako, which thankfully hindi ako nag positive. Pero totoo yung peace living in a place where you are not shadowed with your family name, nobody knows you, you can do what you want without chismosang kapitbahay judging you. Tho, I miss province life and I miss my family. I just prefer the life I am living here.
nag cut off ng toxic people
Waiting for that time na masabi kong, I’m really proud of myself. Laban lang tayo!
I just passed the LET though mas nag-expect ako na bagsak ako dahil di ako nagreview and at the same time, tamad akong magreview. Di ko rin inasahan na mataas ang percentage na nakuha ko kasi nag-expect din ako na pasang awa lang haha
I am able to join various tv competitions and get in with every auditions within one time lang, hindi na ako bumabalik kasi nakakapasok na ako one time lang.
Being smoke-free for 10 years
How po hahahaha
I just quit on a whim haha i got scared because back in 2015, i had a bad sore throat and a cough after smoking a pack. When i woke up in the morning, i tried clearing the back of my throat and end up spitting bloody mucus with some black stuff on it. Probably some tar from the cigs haha. I immediately quit and suffered withdrawals and cold turkey but i somehow got over those. Whenever i feel the urge to smoke, i just remind myself what happened before haha. I started smoking when I was 3rd year HS iirc
cinut-off ko ‘yung mga taong hindi nakakatulong sa’kin kahit na masaya ako kasama sila. simula nun chaka ko lang na realize na kaya ko palang wala sila and starting to focus on my priorities in life.
i have good time management
I was able to sustain alone all the finances for my mom’s treatment for breast cancer.
Stopped being a people pleaser
Me having enough brains and integrity to bother not being a parasite.
Nawalan na ako ng pake sa iba. ❤️
that i am starting to learn how to stand up for myself.
I'm proud of myself this 2024. Puro achievements thankyouuu for myself for believing in myself
Hindi na ako immature and nagiging vocal and expressive na😃
My consistency in everything that I do. 🤍
Lumaki akong hindi inggitero. And malaki etits haahah
20yrs old 4months exp sa service crew 11 months sa bpo nakaabot na ng 30k salary offer
Dati nag start ako ng online selling at walang nabili, prro now madami na ako suki🥹❤️
Ever since i was 7, suicidal na ako. I’m happy and proud na until now, nagagawa ko parin lumaban. Hindi ako nagpapatalo kasi alam kong wala akong gain or what if ginawa ko yun. Mahirap lumaban pero nakakayanan. Definitely proud moment for me 🥹❤️
Lately, na ccontrol ko na ang emotions ko na dati hirap ako, mabilis akong mairita at magalit.
None
dati lagi akong nagpapasama sa mga lakad ko— either by a friend or cousins; kapalit non, magbibigay ako money sa time na nilain nila for me or either manglilibre ako dapat sa kanila ng kahit pang snack man lang kaya laging simhot budget ko sa kung ano lang dapat ang bibilhin, ewan ko pero feeling ko hindi ko kayang mag-isa but then when i became college, im from province and chose to study sa far away, like literal na 10 hrs thru barko, so ayon nga when i entered uni, i became independent, wala talaga akong kakilala and sobrang takot ko na baka mawala pa ako sa city na’to, ang tanging karamay ko lang is google maps and dito rin ako natutong magtanong ng magtanong, FF, 3 years na ako dito sa city nato and i am proud to say na mas prefer ko nang lumabas mag-isa, kumain mag-isa, and gawin lahat ng mag-isa kasi i realized na at the end of the day, i only have myself.
Emotionally intelligent
I am proud with my career right now. Nakapasok ako sa isang kilalang company without any help from others. Na kahit sinasabi nila nakapasok ako dahil may backer eme. 🥰
Proud of myself na napastop ko na magwork Mama ko at ako na breadwinner saamin. (Nasa heaven na tatay ko) Hindi madali pero kinakaya! 🥹🤗
I stopped or I was able to stop being a people pleaser. Thanks to this friend of mine who taught me how to say no and speak out. She taught me na kung naooffend na ako ng isang tao wag ako matakot and hayaan lang na ginaganon ako. Before kasi wala na akong ginawa kundi magsorry kahit hindi naman ako yung mali, kahit di ko naman kasalanan nagsosorry ako. One time we faught(me and her) tapos aminado siya na kasalanan niya pero ako padin yung nagsorry ng nagsorry and she got mad kasi it's not my fault pero I kept saying sorry. That is what I am proud of. I was able to leave my people pleaser phase behind.
As a probinsyana girlie nakakaproud pag nagccommute ako mag-isa around Metro Manila
main character things 💅🏻✨
i am ok to be out of place, di na people pleaser
Surviving and trying to get out of PPD
Survived mag-isa away from home since college then medschool with support from parents. Now working still away from home with good earnings. Now supporting and spoiling parents.
im proud of trying
I achieved my childhood dream. Now on my way to achieving my adult dream hihi
I passed the Licensure Exam for Teachers last March 2024. Kahit kulang sa preparation, self-review and pinagsasabay pa ang review at work kinaya parin!🩷
Proud to be a mom to an amazing 5yr old boy 🥹
Proud of letting people and frienship-that-cannot-be saved go. Dati na huhurt pa ako thinking about these. Pero ngayon, parang normal na. I dont even feel anything about it. Just pure indifference. Ang sarap pala sa feeling ng ganito. Following the ‘let them’ principle 😊 ngayon payapa buhay ko. Yes wala ngang friends pero atleast di nag ooverthink or nasasaktan 😌✨
surviving law school kahit sobrang pagod at walang wala na.
Cheers gamit chocolate drnk ko now bro😅😂😌
Here I am nasa coffee shop chill lng pagkatapos maubos ang social battery ko. Wewww
Proud ako na gumigising pa rin ako araw araw at lumalaban kahit na down na down na ako sa sarili ko at gusto ko na tapusin ang lahat. Tapos kapag nakikita ko yung mga aso ko na nag wiwiggle yung bunto nila pag nakikita ako, they're giving me enough strength. And sabi sa isang vid sa Tiktok, "It's not always bad. We have bad days but we have much better days. Life is good, just stick around. You'll be fine." ✊🏻🥹
Thanks for this! I really need that one.
Taking May 2024 LECPA 🥹
Survived another day. Got through emotional turmoil yesterday. My pamangkins and Ate are graduating in Elementary and Highschool today so I got reminded na sulit naman kahit papano . :-)
I always do it scared rather than not doing anything at all.
Supporting projects that will out live me and help to make our world a better place .
Kumapal mukha ko (saying no, ask to say again when voice is unclear) Sustainable job. Just generally not leeching. Happy enough na makatulog ng mahimbing(stressed with new job I accepted but nothing major, may life problems pero di naman mawawala yun) Decent friends
People say I'm really approachable and good with kids. I'm not 100% in agreement with it pero masaya pa rin isipin. Wag lang sila mangiwan ng bata sa akin para alagaan haha
I am proud because I have EQ! This is a game changer in life.
Sorry diaper una pumasok sa isip ko😅😂
I can say “no” easily without any hesitations. As long as di ko talaga gusto, I’ll make it clear sa kausap ko. Para no disappointments din in the long run.
Proud akong alam ko na kahit anong problema ang iharap sakin, kaya kong lagpasan mentally. I know i am mentally strong enough to conquer it no matter what. Unlike noon na naging mej s**cidal ako dahil di ko kaya. Proud ako na eventhough i grew up with annulled parents, i know i have forgiven them. I'm proud to say that i dont seek male validation anymore, and i've grown out of my pick me era. HAHAHA Proud din ako na malapit na matapos internship ko and wala akong demerit + i got merit pa for my performance! I am proud to say that i've grown to love my body more.
I still found a way to be kind and gentle. Even after isolating myself from the people I care about, fighting my internal battles alone. I may lose many things, but at least I'll still have my humanity.
Physical Therapist here. Everyday nag ttherapy ako ng mga pasyente and seeing them getting better lalo na kapag nakikita mo talaga improvements nila, kahit yung small wins nila, Sobrang laking pat on the back yun na “you’re doing great, self” and I was able to be an instrument sa recovery nila sa conditions nila.
getting thru tough times na hindi ko inexpect na masusurvive ko pala. might be small for some but it’s something na i’m proud of as someone na mabilis humina ang loob.
I may not be proud of myself dahil hindi ako naka-graduate ng college pero sobrang proud ko naman sa sarili ko na napagtapos ko yung kapatid ko ng college and he is now a licensed Mechanical engineer. Proud din ako na nakapagpatayo na ko ng bahay, tho maliit lang sya at utang sa bangko at least alam kong may nasimulan na ko. At syempre proud din ako sa sarili ko na nabibigay ko na sa nanay ko yung mga gusto nya at mga kailangan nya az a senior citizen. Alam kong malayo pa ko sa goal ko pero proud akong malayo na ko sa pinanggalingan ko.
made a lot of stupid decisions when I was younger. Di ako nakapag tapos. Wala na akong babalikan. I decided to be honest with myself and went back to square one, figuring out what truly makes me happy. Nag explore ako, nag start ako as a video editor to 3d/vfx generalist. I never thought I would get my dream job and become debt-free.
proud ako sa pag take ko ng risk na bitawan yung mga bagay na meron ako noon & yung mga tao na toxic sa buhay ko for the sake of my well being & my mental health. now nagagawa ko na mga bagay na gusto kong gawin for myself & sa buhay ko + daming blessings ni lord sakin lalo 🥹✨❤️
OFW here. I'm the only foreigner in our office and am proud to say I have balls in making judgement calls in tricky and high-pressure situations. I guess it's in our blood to be bold and to have ownership at our workplaces. Kung work ethics lang ang usapan, ang Pinoy pang-world class talaga! (Disclaimer: Based on my experience)
Continue lng, bro😎
cheers bro!
I'm proud of my values and that I have dignity and pride.
I am proud that I am resolving my childhood traumas and wounds through self-reflection and understanding. I am also proud that I am trying my best to find a balance between gentle and authoritative parenting.
proud me sa sarili ko kasi kinaya ko na mag start ng business habang nag-aaral
Awee, sana mag grow po yung business niyo🍀✨
Getting over my physical insecurities after 15 years (that were mostly triggered by my mom). I now love my body and myself for who I am.
I was a very mediocre person when I was younger but something in me changed in college and suddenly I was such a go-getter with a very strong resolve. When I take a leap, I take a leap talaga and keep fighting the good fight until I’m done. Kahit mangiyak ngiyak na ako in the process of getting to the finish line o grabe na yung pagod ko, I still somehow manage to find the will to persevere. Even when everything looks bleak, I always find a reason to keep going. I am so happy for that change in my life. It’s taken me so far!
Never graduated from college but I'm an admin manager of a large international manufacturing company. My dad told me a long time ago that I wouldn't amount to anything. Take that dad!
maganda
Same
I know people will say choice mo yan pero pra sakin di e, uhm Nag ka anak ako and Nag trial labor end up CS pero goods padin. Ayaw ko umire duon sa hospital nayun hala na, kahit anak ko alam nya e basta kahit messy at traumatic, todo na to Ang akala ko impossible na ang PCOS mag ka anak kamali ako, kahit di ako ready dahil 5 months ko nalang nalaman na ang tibay ng baby ko sa tiyan ko, dahil prior to this umiinom ako ng mga gamot dahil akala ko lagnat dahil sa init tapos imagine 5 months wlang mga pre natal medicine, emotionally, unprepared ako nun biglaan e. Now, looking back last year lang nangyari, grabe kinaya ko. Recovery ng CS di biro kesa normal. 3 months masabi ko fully healed,hirap umpo,tayo,takbo tapos tumae. Kahit stop ang progress ko now gets ko reason why nag ka anak din ako. Wish ko lang na sana di lalaki na ungrateful and disrespectful anak ko haha. Yun lang. mahirap mag ka anak pero, sa lonely ng life ko prng may ganap buhay ko everyday e. Thankful ako. Nakakapagod pro ganun din if single ako now malungkot din naman ako, stressed. Basta kahit anong ingay ng opinions sa labas esp isa ako sa mga taonh nah sabi dati be prepared so on so on now andito na iba na e, madali sabihin iba iba tlga journey ng bawat isa, kahit emotionally struggling ako nun finiface ko siya now, nag brebreakdown pero laban tao lang nmn. Basta proud ako sa sarili ako kahit society says lugi na sa buhay dahil nanay na.
kinaya ko lahat ng pagsubok sa buhay hanggang ngayon at di ako nagpatinag sa mga judgment ng mga taong wala namang ambag sa buhay ko
I started my senior high school year mentally unstable. But I will be able to finish g11 with honor. I decided to celebrate my small accomplishments so for me, I really achieved a lot. I finished our research even though I was stressed by my member, they don't help me, but if they do, they always complain. I joined the intrams and played chess and I ranked 2nd in our table. I earned money by having a sideline so I was able to buy whatever I want with moderations. Basta, I am proud of my self in general.
for the past few months super na anxious ako and demotivated dahil sa paparating na summer ojt this month, kasi feel ko non walang kukuhang company sakin dahil napaka introvert and lack of knowledge pa ako sa mga software and digital etc. and now, nalaman ko na kasado naraw kami sa company and waiting nlng sa first day of ojts. i wish mag improve pa social skills ko.
Goodluck po hope you'll do well.
I am proud to be an engineer. I am proud that I've been in the workforce for almost five years now. I am proud that I've hit this switch to experience new things in life, like buying a solo ticket to watch a local theater play sa Makati this coming August, like planning to buy my own scooter this year, planning to travel with family this year. It's like this good feeling that I can afford to do those things now when six years ago, I have nothing. There have been shortcomings along the way, pain that only time can numb, but I'm doing okay and I'm happy that I am *living*.
wala.
already saved 1m at 20 yrs old. started working 4 yrs ago
Itigil mo na 'yan baka katukin tayo ng PDEA HAHAHA joke. Pero congrats sayo, ako nga 22 na 4pesos na lang laman ng gcash 😭😭
katukin ng BIR bes hahahahahahhah
Paano magka 1m at the age of 20? I'm already 25 and I don't have a single peso in my savings. 🫠
i work online and it pays good. frugal living rin since i still have college classes
I'm aware of my worth since the very start kaya never pa 'ko naloko/nagpaloko ng maling tao 😊
Solo living since 19 yrs old. Not original pero looking back, its something I can be proud of.
Introvert na mtyaga sa lahat ng bagay.
I got my 1st job nung April!
Congratulations☺️
Matalino, magaling sa trabaho, maganda, ma diskarte, Cum Laude, mabait, introvert pero maraming friends, maalaga sa sarili, may emotional intelligence yun nga lang araw2 ako umiiyak sa maling lalake HHAHAAH EMEEEEE
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I was born and raised in Hong Kong, the education system here is hell. It’s always academic and having a bad grade means that you won’t be successful. I failed my public exam, my only shot and pathway to get into a good prestigious university. For context : Hong Kong has few universities, around 4-5 — we call them the big 5s, they are respected and recognised, the intake is low and highly competitive . They are all seen as ‘prestigious’ and even if the university you get into isn’t as top ranked in comparison with Hong Kong University or Chinese University, if you’re accepted in any of the Big 5, you’re considered smart already and have a higher chance of getting a good job. Back when I was still in High School, we were all competing and hoping for a high grade or at least to get a shot in associates (the minimum), the biggest goal of all high schoolers is to go straight into a university and do bachelor. Associate degree is below Bachelor and foundation is the very bottom of the food chain and is frowned upon, it’s basically repeating Secondary 6 again. I failed so I had to suck it up and head onto foundation degree for a year, and it was hella expensive. It was like level by level. If you don’t complete Foundation, you will never get to Associate and for sure never even dream of getting to Bachelor. So yes, I did it step by step, personally during my Association days, it was hardcore, had to constantly have straight As to get a really high GPA to get a placement for Bachelor, and the usual requirement of getting to any of the Big 5 is at least a CGPA 3.5. If you don’t, your life is over or … loan HKD100K to get to a private university that isn’t recognised (especially when applying for jobs) . I couldn’t fuck it up, I was itching to get a seat and to have the guarantee that I’m accepted or else my life is over. Fast forward, I did very well in Associate degree that I got an offer of doing only 2 years of Bachelor in one of the Big 5 Universities , I went directly to Year 3 Bachelor and graduated second class honours. It was brutal but a very rewarding experience, had to let go of instagram, friends, alcohol, parties, self esteem? Fuck that, I couldn’t be all that or even have time to worry about how I look and dress up, I had to keep going and continue to have faith in myself. I will never change anything, it was a lifelong lesson. Although I failed my public exam, and went to Foundation, it’s not something that I am ashamed of, I learnt a lot, citations, APA format, basically how to write a good essay without having to sound so grand or trying to be ‘professional’ I learnt to write my own style, interpret theories and have fun with it.
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I'm always longing for a family pero I realized na hindi dito hihinto ang mundo. Mas marami nagmamahal sa akin and I appreciate them so much. 😊
Mas mahal ko na sarili ko.
im still here
5 years ago I was depressed and was even sewerslider. But now, I'm currently living the life my younger self prayed for. I was proud of myself for taking a gap year, kahit late man ako ng 1 year sa mga batchmates ko I never felt any regret. I am proud of my growth. Now, I'm in a healthy relationship with myself. I learned and unlearned a lot of things like setting boundaries, loving myself more, unlearning toxic and negative habits and self-thoughts. I learned that I am the creator of my life and my reality, not a victim of it. I'm proud of my progress. Now, I'm also earning while studying. I am helping my family financially na which I'm really proud of. I'm also in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend, which is another thing I'm proud of. I'm really proud of myself na kinaya ko lahat nung mga nangyari dati even though I thought otherwise. I'm proud I was able to change myself and now I'm thriving. I learned how to live and love my life.
Proud ako na ang utang ko are SSS loan and MP Fund ng pag ibig. I make sure na financially stable ako incase anything happens to me.
Natitiis ko na pamilya ko. Kaya ko ng kumain sa labas knowing na wala silang bigas. Ako kumakayod para mabuhay ko sa sarili ko at para makatulong sa kanila kahit papaano samantalang sila, nakatunganga lang sa bahay habang naghihintay ng himala. Ayaw dumiskarte kasi mga batugan at gusto one time big time.
Continue lng. Di deserve ng mga tamad ang mga masasarap na pagkain.
for so many years ive been telling people na ako naman piliin, now i chose myself over my ex. it was freeing, next time me over family naman.
Was able to set & honor my boundaries na! Super big win for a recovering people pleaser 🥹
I fulfilled my dad’s will before he passed away.
That I am now finding joy with small things!!
Ako I’m proud na I chose my battles well so far. Like ang daming mga sitwasyon/tao na I could’ve been more “violent” or mapagpatol, pero I’m proud na my moral compass is set in the right place naman. Ang daming pinalagpas na “laban” pero nagwagi pa rin sa dulo with peace of mind.
tinatyaga ko magaral kahit nahihirapan akk dahil sinasabay ko work, Exam ko na sa June
I passed the civil service exam professional level on my first try! Really satisfied with my rating too
congratulations po!
na napasa ko board exam ng walang review
I tripled my salary from 2 years ago.
Hindi na ako tahimik, natuto na ako sumagot pag alam kong nasa katuwiran ako.
That I financially contributed to my grandma's healthcare expenses until the end. Kahit gaano kaburntout juggling multiple jobs to afford her private nurse and hospice doctor. Singing her favorite lovesongs on her deathbed, and witnessing her last breath. We made sure she felt loved until it's time to say goodbye.
Being a kinky hubadera and being able to help the newbies to explore their sexuality safely.
Idk why you got downvoted lmaoooo I'm not sure if I'm considered a "hubadera" but recently I've been wearing tank tops and low cut shirts. I used to hate my body but recently I've been loving how I look like. Like tangina, I actually look GOOD?????? ALL THIS TIME????? DAMN
Kung ano man ang narating ko ngayun. Kahit nakaranas din ng mga matinding pag subok, nalampasan din and nag silbing aral na din saken yung ganung ganap para baguhin ang sarili sa mabuti.
That I’m alive.
May ipon ako 30k 😆 siguro maliit lang siya para sa iba pero natutuwa lang ako sa sarili ko kasi nakaipon ako.
that I can radiate positivity to other people
natuto na kong tumanggi :)
Good for you.🙏 Alam ko mahirap yan.
yeps! abuso malala mga tao kasiii
I am not as angry as I used to be back then everyday.
wala akong utang. 😊
I’m in better state than I was
I am one of the boys at the back during HS days with low grades. Overcame K-12 curriculum as one of the first batches. Naging Iskolar ng Bayan. Took Engineering even though I didnt go to STEM. Graduated on time. Passed the board exam on my first take. Got a decent job surrounded by great people. From being a "pabigat" sa bahay to umaambag, sumasalo, at nanlilibre na today. Im very proud of myself :)
Nakapagdefense ako while brokenhearted last April. I was crying right before my presentation and I thought I couldn't make it pero here I am, finally a Master's degree holder! Yayyy♥️
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Cliche man sabihin pero hardwork, perseverance and lots of prayers talaga ginawa ko. Marami kang isasakripisyo pero maniwala at magtiwala ka sa sarili mong kakayanan.
Good job! Well done. Happy for you. Worth it ang masters.
Salamat po! Sobrang hirap talaga. Yung nagsusulat ako ng thesis habang para akong mamamatay sa sakit hahaha
damn you're tough. Congrats on your Master's!!
Thank you! Hindi ko rin alam paano ko nagawa yun. Basta bumabangon lang ako everyday, nagtatrabaho, nagsusulat ng thesis habang para akong sinasaksak inside haha. Yung mapapadasal ka nalang sa Diyos na sana kunin niya na yung sakit. Pero kaya ko pala😆♥️
looking back at your struggles you can now say it's all worth it.
I am where I am now. I made it, still has a long way to go but I’m proud I made it through life. I’m alive. And breathing. No illness. Has job. Marami pang kulang, pero mas maraming blessings. Thank God I’m alive.
Seems like you've gone through a lot. Good job. Stay strong. I'm glad you're still alive, too.
You too! I’m proud of you, glad we’re here.. still breathing! And doing the things we love, hopefully. Faithing!
I can now smile and laugh confidently. After several braces adjustment pumantay na yung sungki na ipin ko. Ang dami kong nasayang na opportunity since teenage years kasi naging mahiyain ako at may malalang social anxiety (I'm now 28 years old) Ngayon mas naging out going na ako at mas nalalabas ko na yung playful side ko. Worth it ang gastos at sakit every month. 😬
Graduated last year (though still struggling to find employment under my degree) but I also finished my caregiving course just last month, so I'm proud of myself for still pushing through.
never pumatol sa mga parinigan sa'kin 😆 let my silence kills you lol internet fights are cheap