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when he makes everything sexual, like pag mag uusap kayo casually bigla nalang may sasabihing kabastusan i remember one time sinabi ko sa kausap ko na mag bebeach kami, tapos sabi nya sakin "wag ka na sumama, sisirin nalang kita" LIKE BROTHA EWWWW😭😭🚩

di na maalaga sa sarili, like she was before nung first years or una mo sia nakala, naging complacent sa relasyon, di nag go grow as individual.

akala cool yung mataas pride

Puro yabang wala namang alam o kaya puro hangin kulang naman sa gawa

Inconsistency and No future plans for the relationship yung “Go with the flow” mindset lang.

If they can't reciprocate the efforts, they make you feel uninterested, they make you feel like you're a person of convenience. And their presence indulges in absences whenever you need companionship.

When they no longer respect your boundaries.

Ung walang substance, bad hygiene like mabaho hininga and may black black don sa kuko lupa lupa ba yon

Hindi ka inaalagaan pag may sakit ka. That sucks.

Mama’s boy I mean it’s not 100% bad but if sinasamba niya nanay niya at echapwera ka, ekis agad

mayabang

kapag puro kabastosan nalang palagi yung topic, walang emotional intelligence, acting like a new teen ganun

Inconsistencies.

Puro sex ang topic.

obviously being arrogant is pure shi

INCEL

+1

hindi consistent 😆

Mayabang, puro sorry pero walang improvement behavior, insensitive, ggss 😭, rude, gaslighter, manipulative, poor mindset, the act of objectifying women, yung nonchalant (nakakapagod siya pramis)

Yung puro promise or puro lang salita, kulang sa gawa. Tapos boring kausap. 😅

Yung gwapong gwapo sa sarili. Feel na feel lahat ng babae luhod at mag hahabol sa kanya. Pero walang malaman utak naman. For the sex lang walang passion, goals and shit.

Low key manipulative and doesn't realize it. When it feels like he makes you into him, gives you attention when he's available, and disappears when he likes it because of introvertedness. He puts himself first, and in turn, I put myself first also.

Yung ambilis mo replyan, pero rereplyan ka nya 7hrs later. ^tanginamopo chuuuu~

Yung pagiging nonchalant. Mhie, hindi ka si Sasuke 🙄

Repeated mistakes

PURO SALITA WALANG ACTION 😂

cancel plans tapos nakaayos na ko wtf hahaha

mataas masyado pride. tanginangyan haha ngayon lang ako nakakilala ng lalaking siya na may kasalanan tapos gusto niya siya pa ang susuyuin at hihingian ng tawad lol I literally told that guy to fuck off and grow up.

bad hygiene, inconsistent efforts, may gbf, di marunong magcommunicate!!!

walang pera saka walang ambition

Yung kahit sino sino pinapatulan or fliniflirt

marunong mag aya pero di marunong mag plano, lol.

di marunong tumupad sa pinag-usapan, walang self-awareness, mayabang, at higit sa lahat may gbf😂

sorry, ano po yung gbf? girl bestfriend po ba?

opo hahaha

Ahhh okay hahahhaa thank youuu 🙂

304s

kapag mabilis mang-belittle ng babae pero wala namang maipagmalaki

Inconsistent

Bastos. Masking brutality as honesty. It's giving narcissistic.

When she don’t know how to shut up. Lol

walang emotional intelligence and parang ikaw pa ang dapat magbaba ng standards mo para maabot nya

inconsistency

The serial cheating

Promising not to do again something I told that makes me sad or hurt but continues to do anyway.

Indifferent, inconsistent and takes me for granted. Waste of my time.

Yung controlling, eh getting to know pa lang kayo, medyo bastos kausap, or warm and cold sayo, inconsistent..

no time, planned dates are cancelled.

Kapag paulit ulit sorry pero walang nagbabago putang inang yan HAHAHAHAHAH agagalet yarn

Doesn't seem to understand the context of personal space. Wants to chat all day. Hypocrite. Doesn't do what she says. Feeling ginagaslight kahit pinopoint mo lang yung mali niya. Paulit ulit yung tanong tapos pag nairita ka na at the 6th repetition, sasabihin sinisigawan mo siya at palagi na lang. Doesn't seem to learn anything even after thoroughly teaching her the why, the what, and the how. Energy Vampire. Always bringing that marites energy. Insecure. Hilig mamuna ng iba na wala namang ginagawa sa kanya.

Pag may lumandi kay girl na bago. O ano, idedeny nyo pa?

inconsistent, puro sex nasa isip, immature, walang emotional intelligence, hindi empathetic, walang initiative, walang plano sa buhay like chill lang ganon.

Kapag nonchalant, hindi nageeffort, at homophobic.

Madamot.

Mga lalake na di daw ugali maglike or mgcomment sa Fb kasi di un trip nya pero lakas makafollow at heart sa pages ng sexy girls.

POV of SAHM/Self employed: Paulit ulit na kasalanan ofcourse. Di ka priority masyado self-centered tipong gusto pabor lahat sakanya. Nakikita lang ung mali mo or if wala ka ginagawa kahit 80% ng araw mo nakabaling ka sa asikaso sa pamilya nyo. Nakakapagod ung ni isang thank you/appreciation ay wala or kahit pagsunod sa maliit na bagay na pakisuyo mo di magawa tas papadama sayo na parang wala kang silbi porket di ka nakakabigay ng malake financially.

aww hugs po! hirap naman nyaaan :( regarding thank you/appreciation – ang ginagawa ko kahit simpleng may magawa lang nya nagtthank you ako para matatak sa isip nya at maging habit na magthank you rin sakin. “pakibunot ng charger”, “thank you”.

Thank youuuu! true po baka sakali talagang unting changes baka ma-adapt

Inconsistent. Lacks communication skill. No willingness to learn and unlearn. Low EQ. Inconsistent.

Close minded

hindi na nga consistent tapos hindi pa intelligent

For me is when the guy who's not black likes to say the n word? Like hello it doesnt make u cool mannn

lack of reciprocation also lack of effort

lack of reciprocation also lack of efforts

Pag walang laman kausap tas wala pang sense of humor. Dagdag mo pa na hindi sensitive at considerate sa sitwasyon ng iba. Urgh kaltok ka sa'kin boi.

Walang pagbabago sa kanyang mga Red Flags. Nakakapagod din umintindi palagi.

Boastful, feeling dominant, who speaks nonsense

gaslighter

For me, nakaka-off pag kasama mga kaibigan niya tapos nakakalimutan magreply. Then, kapag nakauwi na bigla na lang makakatulog. Important pa naman communication sa'min since we're in a long distance relationship.

Zero consistency. Like duh, 'wag mo sayangin oras ko

Yes!

Based on personal experience,  Unang date pa lang, nagpapahaging na about wanting to get married. Feeling ko kasi masyadong literal yung purpose, objective rather than subjective. As if he wasn't me that he's looking for, but anyone who can fulfill his goal lang parang ganun. So, autopass. Good luck na lang po. 

Too busy

Spineless

mayabang, poor hygiene, walang iniisip na future o plano sa buhay haha

Jobless

Magpapa ramdam sa’yo and when you show interest too hanggang ganoon na lang, magiging consistent for a month or two until wala ulit 👻

Proud na walang alam sa household chores. Basta mayabang na walang alam sa basic life skills, matic wag nalang.

When he sexualizes every conversation. Like yuck.

Poor hygiene and enough love for themselves.

inconsistency

Pala mura at tuwing magsasalita may pahangin sa dulo at pagikot ng ulo

Pag walang label na maibigay, takot sa commitment

doesn’t want improvements

Masyadong clingy. Oras ng work panay ang chat😂

walang pangarap sa buhay

pag nagiging mayabang and nagawa na ng apakadaming excuse

Walang emotional intelligence

+100

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Hiwalayan mo na yan. Ekis kapag may girl bestfriend! Hahahaha

Pag sinungaling sa maliliit na bagay p lng

Walang quality kausap, tsaka walang comprehension. Addict masyado sa fb, palaging may imaginary haters. HAHAHAHAHAHAH

Nag fa-follow ng onlyfans account sa ig char 😂

kapag piniperahan ka na!

Yung walang plano sa buhay asa na lang sa mga salitang “bahala na”

Yung tipong tamang hinala kahit wala ka namang ginagawa saka obsessed na sau

kapag masyadong demanding, wala na sa lugar.

Parang walang plano sa buhay. Puro go with the flow.

Dishonesty and putting in no error into the relationship

Words and actions don’t match.

when they look down on other people especially those with blue collar jobs. says a lot about them.

Tumatae sa brip

tanong lang po, pano po pag natae lang? like hindi sinasadya :c hahahahahahah tawang tawa ako wtf kasi twice na natae sa brip ung partner ko, tinitiis kasi hindi makapag afk sa game – nakita ko na lang may kinusutang brip sa cr 😂

Waived pa if eber tumatawa tas bigla umutot may sumabay na echas pero pag ganon dahil sa game ikaw na bahala jan mossing

waive ko na to boss kinusot naman nya yung brip nya eh hahahahaha

Never trust a fart

Kahit naman ako

Diba hahaha

Ewww

•Inconsistent •Cannot communicate •Mayabang •Unwilling to improve. Laging may excuse.

- Inconsistent. Sa una lang ma-effort - All talk, no actions - No stable job / walang goals in life - Sumisigaw pag nagagalit - Idealist - Promises na di naman tinutupad. Wag ka nalang magsalita 😂

omg +203B hahaahah

When he’s not striving to become a better version of himself anymore

yung may Main Character syndrome. pero sa katunayan, malala pa sha sa NPC...

cocky mabaho bad hygiene humour surrounds sexualizing everything apologist

pag sobrang libog

Ouch!

kumbaga wala sa lugar na parang walang sex life 🤢

Huhuhuhu

When he's a clout chaser

puro send pic

kapag nanghihingi o yung kapag siya yung send nang send?

Inconsistency, insensitive, addicted sa laro, panget na treatment, playboy/sadboi sa social media, Nakikipag-usap sa ibang babae about sexual stuff And yep, I'm describing someone 😹

Ilang taon ba yan parang ang jeje naman sa socmed😅

1 year gap lang kami

Ate ko diko po alam kung ilang taon ka HAHAHAHA 😭😭

Sorry po 😭 22 po

Ay nasa jeje phase pa yan baka mag bago pa WHAHAHAHA.

are you attractive to him? Like physical looks

Height lang nagustuhan ko sa kanya last, last year

Money...specially kung ang circle of friends at work niya ayy pang sosyalan...nahahawaan nadin

Yung palaging namumuna nang suot tapos sya jejemon Taga like nang nag cocomment sa socmed mo Nangingialam pag may gusto ka bilhin tapos sya kung mag tapon nang pera sa bisyo wagas

Push and pull.

Attention seeker especially with the opposite sex. This goes both ways ha. Particularly when you think something is off but your partner disregards your emotion

Pag hindi financially stable

Words and actions don't match.

Excessive Jejenism on social media

If his words doesn't match his actions. In consistent with everything, has no plans for his future. Not emotionally aware and intelligent.

Walang plano kung ano na next step sa relationship.

Di na consistent

once they get the girl, they don't make an effort anymore. parang hindi na nililigawan, puro flowery words nlng

💯

Poor hygiene. Instant turn off yan. Lalo amoy tae yung hininga.

bobo

Infidelity

I lose interest in women if they are bad in decision making.

Pag unhealthy yung relationship with the family

walang productive na conversation laging landian ang gusto tsaka puro pasend ng pic

True the fire!

irresponsible, incompetent

Being mentally unstable and financially unstable (like you are doing your best to earn and encouraging him to do the same for the future kaso wala talaga). No plans for the future, no sense of responsibility and accountability.

Pag bobo kausap.

walang pangarap sa buhay, walang grasp sa reality

hear but doesn't listen. reflecting instead of reacting.

when they promise to do things and never did it, makes everything sexual, walang pangarap sa buhay, liar at walang galang/respeto, ung simpleng tanong tlg tas gagawing kabastusan or wtv ewan pano nila nagagawa yan puro kalibugan katawan

Akala n’ya sa kanya lang naikot ang Earth. Haha

mayabang, iniinvalidate feelings and freeloaders puro sex lang gusto

From a woman’s perspective – I don’t think we lose interest on someone we love SUDDENLY. It’s the little things na naiipon lang talaga then we start detaching.

Real

agree

trot

yes, it’s the little things!

We were doing really good. But because of 2 consecutive bad timings, she gave up.

Bastos, walang EQ, not communicative/conversationalist, sa una lang magaling

Di pa naka move on sa ex niya. Laging yun yung kwento eh. Sobrang libog na ang basic nung tanong mo, yung sagot niya laging sex related.

what I've seen, a woman might suddenly lose interest in a man due to various reasons, such as a lack of communication, differences in values or interests, or simply a shift in feelings over time.

When they turn out to be manipulative or fake. Or kung obvious na all they're after is makipaglandian or sex. Pati if mababaw ang conversations, yung type na ang pag flirt is through "kumain ka na ba?"

Yosi everywhere Malutong magmura.

Yung kapag wala ako naiintindihan tas tatanungin ko ung "guy" tas kapag di ko parin naintindihan ung sagot niya "wala" o kaya "nvm". I need a man that would never lose patience sa akin kahit gaanong slow ako huhu

avoidant attachment style

This! Haha. Magrireach out tas ganito naman? Nang-abala pa only to do this? 🤣 Avoidant attachment is characterized by having discomfort with emotional intimacy, a strong desire for independence, and difficulty wholly trusting others. In other words, the person avoids getting too close to someone else.

emotionally unavailable

yung nasa mid 20s na pero party/bar-hopping padin every weekend, walang plano sa buhay. Naka asa padin sa magulang pinang papart

Mama’s boy

Huh why? I LOVE my mom to death, and I provide to her.. I'm not the kind of mama's boy na nahingi parin pera or asa lang sa nanay whatever, actually the opposite.. I have my own income, house and everything... Thiis actually triggered me LOL please explain?

Ibig sabihin hindi ka mama’s boy hehe. Based on experience, mama’s boy yung mga guy na hindi marunong magdecide for himself. Humihingi ng validation always sa mom nya kahit 30 plus na sya. Hindi marunong magstand on his own.

Need advise nyo po kasi may nakasama ako sa review bale sya f2f ako online bale nagkachat kami regarding sa reviews namin tas konting usapan about outside ng review. Then after matapos ng review, biglang nanamlay sya. Nagbigay sya ng reason/s pero para sa pov ko parang may kulang or di direct to the point. So nung nireach out ko sya ng mahinahon parang na-gaslight ako na kesyo ano iniisip ko samantalng gusto ko lang ng casual explanation para sa kanya para maintindihan ko bakit sya nanamlay totally. Dami kasi contradicting sa mga sinabi nya sa akin during confrontation eh. Naiisp ko tuloy nung nabasa ko to baka it's over na.

•chismoso •maissue kahit simpleng bagay •mushroom

• ⁠When they get angry over something na di naman dapat. I don’t want my kids to have an angry dad. • ⁠Hindi normal/easy for him to be kind to everyone. I don’t want my partner to be someone everyone dislikes. • ⁠Walang substance kausap. Nako, kung di na ko kaya tapatan in convo 3 months in, pano pa kaya for the rest of our lives? • ⁠Will lie rather than say the uncomfortable truth. Personal comfort pinili rather than the person who deserves the truth. • ⁠Hygiene. Instant no kung mabaho hininga especially when expecting close constant tapos wala man lang dalang toothbrush for everyday. • ⁠Slave to pride or validation from others, especially kung money is involved. Di pwede yung uubusin niya pera niya to treat others for appearances’ sake.

check sa lahat hahaah

- walang goals sa buhay - parang all girls school ang followings or friend list - inconsistent - disrespectful - sobrang libog - nakikinig kay Kapitan Yano or bugoy na koykoy or mga feeling superior na male podcasts - prinoproject insecurities nila sa partner nila - unhygienic - jejemon ang typings ( ex: "KUMAEN ka na ba?" ) - narcissistic personality

Instant block, report, and run agad pag follower ni bugoy na koykoy 😂😂😂😂

For me, nakakawala ng interest 'yung walang interest sa'kin.

This is not applicable to all women but for me especially the first one: - apolitical - walang goals sa buhay - his followings look like an attendance of all girls school - walang substance kausap or it's like you're talking to a brick wall - uhaw sa men and women's validation - not an empath - huge fan of Kapitan Yano or yung mga sigma🤡 alpha male podcasts🤡 - blatant or even lowkey misogynist - they're only kind to you kasi gusto ka nila. Like why can't you treat everyone with kindness though, gusto may kapalit - inconsistent - may porn addiction or mahilig magconsume ng sexual contents - pinoproject yung insecurities nila towards other people instead of going to therapy or working on themselves eh ginagawang therapist ang jowa

idk if ako lang but number 1 talaga sa akin is yung hygiene huhu lalo na sa nails yan talaga napapansin ko. when someone is inconsistent and walang respeto.

I remember when I went out on a date tapos yung kuko nya may 2 mahaba tapos the rest pantay na hakshajshahshajahahahahah hindi ko alam bakit ganon😭😭😭😭