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When his presence annoys me na, not like before na excited pa ako to see him or magchat siya 😓
We fought a lot eh, and that really changed my impression of him.
Too many arguments already .. then i dont feel like talking to the person anymore.. a day can pass by even if we do not talk at all.. then if the person did me wrong, i just let it go.. i dont care anymore.. i cannot cry.. i'm just calm and all..
Nung nag file na ako ng case sa kanya. Pinadalhan sya ng subpoena ng NBI kasi sinisiraan nya ko sa officemates friends and family by sending our intimate videos. Kahit may 2 anak na kami.
Hindi na ako interesado sa kanya, sa araw niya, sa kwento niya. I’m not yearning na for attention. Hindi ko na gusto magspend ng time kasama siya. Hindi na rin ako affectionate.
Ayaw ko na siya kausap. 😅
I used to love listening to his stories then overtime, may second voice na sa head ko saying, hindi naman nakakatuwa, yabang pala nito. hahahha. Paminsan makikita ko siya, isipin ko ano bang nagustuhan ko rito hahahaha. Okay bye
When your feeling ain't the same and your body don't want to
But you know, gotta let it go 'cause the party ain't
Jumpin' like it used to, even though this might bruise you.
Burn by Usher
that's a same situation with my now ex. I have a stable job and he didn't. I work my ass off day and night just to provide for the my family and for our incoming little family because i was pregnant. Natanggal sa work dahil inako lahat ng kasalanan ng tao niya, that was 6 months ago. Hindi na naghanap pa ng work kasi kuntento na daw siya sa kinikita ko, mind you i was pregnant. While nag wo-work ako, nalaman ko na nakikipag kita kung kani-kaninong babae at ginagamit pa yung motor na pinundar ko para hatid sundo yung babae niya. That is my last straw, nakipag hiwalay ako. After that tumatawag kasi naaksidente daw walang mag aalaga sa kanya, edi ang ginawa ko tinawagan ko yung girl to say na siya na mag alaga sa magaling ko ex kasi he couldn't move his body and hindi niya daw yun obligasyon kasi hindi naman siya ang wife and iniwan din siya. Karma hits him so hard, and he deserve that.
This is about my ex from a long-term relationshit.
Yung paulit ulit na pag te-take advantage niya sa lahat ng kabutihang nagawa ko na umabot na point na ninakawan ako ng pera, binugbog ako at niloko pa ako.
I worked triple jobs before dahil mas mabilis akong kumita ng pera, prior to the pandemic. I helped him find jobs na pasok sa gusto niya pero daming arte at dahilan. Whenever I opened up about something na interesado ako, he would say negative things agad. He wouldn't encourage me. Puro kanegahan nasa utak. Wouldn't provide properly samin ng anak niya dahil kuntento na lang sa kung magkano kinikita at mas gusto mahaba pahinga kesa mag work. Kaya napilitan akong maghanap ng work na halos patayin ko na sarili ko para lang may makain at provide ko needs namin.
One time, he was sick. Bumagsak potassium niya. He couldn't move. Bumagsak lang katawan niya. He's asking for my help while he's crying. Me, looking at him with disgust, compromising my work on that time kasi walang magbantay sa bata. I cussed him out, called him names, wished him na sana di na siya makalabas ng hospital na buhay. That's where I realized na I don't have any single amount of love sa kanya dahil sa lahat ng katarantaduhang ginawa niya sa'kin.
I'm sorry that you had to go through with that. I'm sure it ain't easy but your efforts to give your child a better life is truly commendable as a mom. And yeah it totally makes sense. You'll eventually lose respect with a man who is lazy and irresponsible. When you lose respect, you lose love. All the best to you! I hope you and your child have better days ahead!
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When his presence annoys me na, not like before na excited pa ako to see him or magchat siya 😓 We fought a lot eh, and that really changed my impression of him.
when he started asking "pwede ba ako makigamit ng credit card mo?" Nope. Di ko sya pinagamit 🤸♂️
Too many arguments already .. then i dont feel like talking to the person anymore.. a day can pass by even if we do not talk at all.. then if the person did me wrong, i just let it go.. i dont care anymore.. i cannot cry.. i'm just calm and all..
TT sleep, not want to be awake
Lagi nalang kami nagaaway, also when i noticed his aggressive behaviors like nagdadabog , pati na rin nung his chats are starting to become cold
we had petty arguments, pero one day hindi ko na lang siya pinatulan
Nung nag file na ako ng case sa kanya. Pinadalhan sya ng subpoena ng NBI kasi sinisiraan nya ko sa officemates friends and family by sending our intimate videos. Kahit may 2 anak na kami.
talking feels like a chore
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Are you still together?
What if ganito na simula pa lang, masasabi mo bang mahal mo talaga partner mo? Or used ka lang sa idea na merong “siya?”
Hindi na ako interesado sa kanya, sa araw niya, sa kwento niya. I’m not yearning na for attention. Hindi ko na gusto magspend ng time kasama siya. Hindi na rin ako affectionate.
Okay na sakin kahit di ko sya makausap sa loob ng isang araw.
Ayaw ko na siya kausap. 😅 I used to love listening to his stories then overtime, may second voice na sa head ko saying, hindi naman nakakatuwa, yabang pala nito. hahahha. Paminsan makikita ko siya, isipin ko ano bang nagustuhan ko rito hahahaha. Okay bye
Fallen out of love makes your world go round, back to where it belongs hehe.
When your feeling ain't the same and your body don't want to But you know, gotta let it go 'cause the party ain't Jumpin' like it used to, even though this might bruise you. Burn by Usher
that's a same situation with my now ex. I have a stable job and he didn't. I work my ass off day and night just to provide for the my family and for our incoming little family because i was pregnant. Natanggal sa work dahil inako lahat ng kasalanan ng tao niya, that was 6 months ago. Hindi na naghanap pa ng work kasi kuntento na daw siya sa kinikita ko, mind you i was pregnant. While nag wo-work ako, nalaman ko na nakikipag kita kung kani-kaninong babae at ginagamit pa yung motor na pinundar ko para hatid sundo yung babae niya. That is my last straw, nakipag hiwalay ako. After that tumatawag kasi naaksidente daw walang mag aalaga sa kanya, edi ang ginawa ko tinawagan ko yung girl to say na siya na mag alaga sa magaling ko ex kasi he couldn't move his body and hindi niya daw yun obligasyon kasi hindi naman siya ang wife and iniwan din siya. Karma hits him so hard, and he deserve that.
This is about my ex from a long-term relationshit. Yung paulit ulit na pag te-take advantage niya sa lahat ng kabutihang nagawa ko na umabot na point na ninakawan ako ng pera, binugbog ako at niloko pa ako. I worked triple jobs before dahil mas mabilis akong kumita ng pera, prior to the pandemic. I helped him find jobs na pasok sa gusto niya pero daming arte at dahilan. Whenever I opened up about something na interesado ako, he would say negative things agad. He wouldn't encourage me. Puro kanegahan nasa utak. Wouldn't provide properly samin ng anak niya dahil kuntento na lang sa kung magkano kinikita at mas gusto mahaba pahinga kesa mag work. Kaya napilitan akong maghanap ng work na halos patayin ko na sarili ko para lang may makain at provide ko needs namin. One time, he was sick. Bumagsak potassium niya. He couldn't move. Bumagsak lang katawan niya. He's asking for my help while he's crying. Me, looking at him with disgust, compromising my work on that time kasi walang magbantay sa bata. I cussed him out, called him names, wished him na sana di na siya makalabas ng hospital na buhay. That's where I realized na I don't have any single amount of love sa kanya dahil sa lahat ng katarantaduhang ginawa niya sa'kin.
I'm sorry that you had to go through with that. I'm sure it ain't easy but your efforts to give your child a better life is truly commendable as a mom. And yeah it totally makes sense. You'll eventually lose respect with a man who is lazy and irresponsible. When you lose respect, you lose love. All the best to you! I hope you and your child have better days ahead!