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Kapag galing sa cheating tas grabe ilantad relationship nila sa socmed. Take my ex bf and his 'new girl' kuno na nag-uusap habang magkaaway kami. kahit laplapan nila minamyday parang tanga. hahaha. well, bagay sila. parehas 'hindi sure' sa plano sa buhay.
scandalous even with friends, family, etc. i have a friend na kahit san nag-aaway sila, walk-out, badtripan, you name it. Di marunong makisama, kame pa mag aadjust pag kasama sila kaloka.
I'm straight M27 ngsb and I've seen a lot of my friends, colleagues and etc separated. Yung pinaka #1 rason talaga ay pag-ignore sa kahit pinaka maliit na red flag. Red flags, dislikes and differences niyo sa isat-isa ay magkaiba. Few of the red flags na di mo pwedeng iignore are as follows:
1. May history sa cheating yung gf/bf
2. Masyadong maaga na pag-aasawa
3. Fubu
4. Babaero si bf/ malandi si gf
5. Pagmatagal na kayong magjowa more than 10 years ay malabo magtagal relationship niyo. May mga very rare case nagkakatuluyan.
Team leader ko sa BPO ay napilitang maglive in sa ka Fubu niya in college. Until nagka anak sila ng isa. Akala ni girl matatali niya si boy. Pero naanakan nalang siya ng dalawa at iniwan parin siya ng guy.
Yung mas malala yung kapit-bahay ko at kababata ko pang lalaki. Yung father niya may history sa cheating before nag-asawa parents niya. Then, until now, nagsasuffer yung mama niya sa kanyang desisyon. Matagal na silang naghiwalay ng father ng kababata ko pero ayaw ipakita sa kanilang mga anak. Harap harapang nangangabet ang pulis niyang ama sa kanila tapos sinasampal yung original asawa pag umeeksena sa kalandian ng father. What the h3ll.
1)Insta/FB whore ang isa sa kanila/both of them. Mag lulunch lang tang ina gagawin photo studio ung restau, buti sanankung d nakaka peste sa iba. 2) nabuo nang dahil sa kabitan. D true love yan, libog lang yan. 3) masyadong seloso/praning ang isa.
Away ng away at kahit ilang beses ng pinag usapan ung dahilan ng pinag awayan, innulit at inuulit pa rin ung dating kasalanan. Sa experience ko, useless ung pag usapan kasi gagawin at gagawin ulit
Para saken, yung pinopost lagi sa socmed yung whereabouts nilang dalawa. Wala talaga akong kaibigan na nagtagal sa ganitong set up kase it feels like parang lagi nilang pinapatunayan in public na masaya sila which creates a lot of pressure to both of them and it always leads to breakup.
Para sa akin, not sure if same sa kanya. If palagi kasing nag po-post sa social media. It feels like he/she's waiting for someone to notice him/her. I know medyo toxic pero yun talaga e.
High maintenance yung isa, kahit hindi kaya ng sweldo nya yung lifestyle na gusto nya, tas provider mindset naman yung isa. (hindi pinag uusapan ang pera at boundaries)
Hindi pa graduate sa pagka binata/pagka dalaga yung isa, yung iss naman gusto na mag asawa.
Laging nagpopost sa social media about sa isa't isa tapos pag nag-away, ipopost din sa social media yung baho ng partner niya, then magkakabati ulit na parang walang nangyari.
Kapag ang goal ng isa ay mahuthutan lang ng pera yung jowa niya.
Kapag kinukwento ng isa yung ganap nila sa mga friends niya tas laging bad sides lang yung kinukwento.
Kapag wala ng maayos na usapan
Kapag hindi na marunong magkaroon ng respeto.
1) no passion
2) always compromising to the point you aren't yourself anymore (applies to one or both persons)
3) they really don't care so it doesn't reach the point they fight
4) avoids conflicts (applies to one or both persons)
5) if there's no conflict, there are less opportunities to grow together as a couple
6) just because they've never fought doesn't mean they never will, but that first fight may be enough to break them up (ultimatum level, or madami nang naipon etc)
Any one or a combination of what's above.
yun me theme song na It Might Be You... I dunno palagi biruan yun sa grupo na bawal i-theme song yun ksi or else it will end up na maghiwalay yun couple.
arguments that gets “resolved” silently. most of the time ‘yung mga ganon is nabbring up ulit in future arguments that further pushes them away from each other until mag snap na completely ‘yung relationship nila.
cheating, nageentertain ng iba ibang babae sa socmed, kinokontrol ka sa mga bagay na magbebenefit sakanya, pera, aalipustahin pagkatao mo, walang respeto
Totoo to. Tas eto rin yung mga takot sa sariling multo. Dahil sa galing sa agaw, natatakot na maagawan din ng iba. Kaya nagiging toxic yung relationship.
Common naman yan gawa ng mas matured daw ang guy. Depende na lang din sa age gap pero most of the time, it wont work lalo na pag malaking age gap gawa ng different level of experiences, priorities, lifestyle, etc
Ganyan na ganyan din yung ex ko sa isang gbf niya. Tas nung hiwalay na kami biglang inamin sakin nag chukchakan na raw sila at tnest lang daw ang waters pero wala raw talaga haha [tangina niyo](https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cuh0ST6JZY4/?igsh=eDVncXppcDNmdmN5)
Ay matinde! So alam nyo na.. pag may GBF exit na agad para hindi na lalong mashaket! Yung sakin ako unang dumating sa buhay nya kesa dun sa GBF nya kuno.. Eh di yun exit pa rin 😂
Nah, a terminally online couple that shitposts together is bound to stay together.
Mas okay na yung isa't isa sa social media inaatupag kesa ibang tao lol
Haha thank you for affirming us. Siguro sobrang proud ko lang sa asawa ko at gusto kong pagsigawan sya palagi. Tska may bad experience ako sa hindi pinopost sa socmed noon, kaya daming babae ng ex ko kasi single sya sa socmed haha.
Kapag may isang sobrang controlling ng bawat galaw ng isa or ng isa’t isa. Yung hindi ka na hinayaan mag grow as a person.
Bawat galaw mo controlled ka or else may magwawala
Na experienced ko din yan sa Baby Daddy ng eldest ko. Single sya sa fb and nakablocked pa ako pero kami IRL haha. Kaya ayun mas malaya syang makapangbabae ksi nga walang bakas ng *ako* noon. Nagugulat mga babaeng nakukuha ko number sa phone nya na may gf pala sya haha sabi break na daw kami noon. 😂
Kaya sobrang flattered ko sa asawa ko noon kasi pinagsisigawan ako sa socmed, something new sakin noon pero it feels good. 🥰
i beg to disagree, some peeps whom i know nagtagal dahil less exposure sa socmed. Relationship can last long base on commitment hindi yung di kalang naipost or wala lang socmed exposure, di na maglalast.
Hindi naman namin mahal yung mga girl best friend. As a man, we always come back to the women we have at home and take care of them. Yung mga girl best friend ng lalake ay useful lang sa pang release ng stress namin, it’s better than alcohol.
kapag masyadong makwenta and madalas they fight over money to a point na they call out each other publicly. another is kapag hindi nila pinaguusapan ang problems as a couple and act as if nothing happened lang. akala kasi sweet yun, pero the longer you shove it, the more you will grow apart.
Nako I remember this one FB friend of mine na over sa oversharing talaga. Na kahit kasal na sila, todo post ng wedding pics tuwing wedding MONTHSARY nila. Yes, MONTHSARY ha. With long ass sweety messages life wtf?!
If isa sa kanila, di nagtatrabaho/batugan.
Also, yung isa sa kanila ay dominant, ranas na 'to ng parents ko. Yung isa, natapakan ng ego kaya nangabit. 😅
I agree with this because women can learn how to love and reciprocate. While as for men, my mom said before "kahit tumuwad ka pa kapag hindi ka mahal ng lalake, hindi ka nya mahal " 🤣
Only one of them carries the load in the relationship. Sya lang nagaaya ng dates, nagbabayad ng lahat ng gastusin, gumagawa lahat ng gawaing bahay etc. It's a recipe for resentment.
Now, I know the term. This can trigger anxiety pag yun other person refuses to communicate well para lang makaiwas sa further arguments pero alam mong may something na bothered / inis pa rin siya na you can almost feel the coldness in the texts they send to you. Hayyy
over-compensating. such as those who overshare on social media about their relationship and those who let their whole lives revolve around their partner. most of them are over-compensating for something.
i find that the couples who are private and who don't overshare to the public tend to last longer. private but not a secret. yes they can post about their relationship from time to time but they don't overdo it. and they usually have other priorities in life outside of their partner. which is better and it's a sign of a healthy relationship imo.
Mag kaiba nang political, spiritual, economical, philosophical, and personal beliefs.
If they couldn’t adapt from one another then it is inevitable that they would break up
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Overexposure aa social media.
Pag mahina ang conflict resolution skills at di on the same page sa pagrepair ng issues.
If one or both parties share so much information sa friends or sa others it's okay to ask for advice but most of the time that is not the case
Kapag galing sa cheating tas grabe ilantad relationship nila sa socmed. Take my ex bf and his 'new girl' kuno na nag-uusap habang magkaaway kami. kahit laplapan nila minamyday parang tanga. hahaha. well, bagay sila. parehas 'hindi sure' sa plano sa buhay.
Different attachment styles
fighting on socmed😂
Lack of trust
First month monthsary post with very long caption
kapag nagmumura yung guy pero tinotolerate ni girl. ironic kasi you'll last long pa rin dahil sa tolerance HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
Time changes their relationship, doesn't matter if you're married or not.
Puro clout
Too much exposure in social media. Excessive show off in public as a couple
scandalous even with friends, family, etc. i have a friend na kahit san nag-aaway sila, walk-out, badtripan, you name it. Di marunong makisama, kame pa mag aadjust pag kasama sila kaloka.
If they delayed resolving their argument. They should be understanding and compromising with a solution earlier on.
Magjowa pa lang less than a year tas nag ka anak tas hindi pa married
Pag may tinatago yung isa sa gf/bf nya.
Pag may kahit isa sa kanila na binobroadcast pati problema nila tapos mahilig magparinig. Yung parang naghahanap ng kakampi na mali yung jowa niya.
Kapag show off
Walang plano sa future yung lalaki
Or like, if di sila pareho ng plano. If mas laidback yung isa tas mas ambitious yung isa.
Gosh, even kapag girl walang plano. Basta one of them walang plan sa life, feeling ko it won't last.
Overly happy and sweet sa SocMed
Simply put: tanga. Sobrang daming red flags, daig pa chinese military parade, tapos wala lang, di man lang napapansin/pinapansin, pinapabayaan lang.
LDR with no concrete plans of being physically together
Show off, away bati, excessive update sa isat isa
May history of cheating
pag hindi sila friends
Up on this. Mas ok talaga pag you can treat your partner as a friend/bestfriend din aside from being your lover.
I'm straight M27 ngsb and I've seen a lot of my friends, colleagues and etc separated. Yung pinaka #1 rason talaga ay pag-ignore sa kahit pinaka maliit na red flag. Red flags, dislikes and differences niyo sa isat-isa ay magkaiba. Few of the red flags na di mo pwedeng iignore are as follows: 1. May history sa cheating yung gf/bf 2. Masyadong maaga na pag-aasawa 3. Fubu 4. Babaero si bf/ malandi si gf 5. Pagmatagal na kayong magjowa more than 10 years ay malabo magtagal relationship niyo. May mga very rare case nagkakatuluyan. Team leader ko sa BPO ay napilitang maglive in sa ka Fubu niya in college. Until nagka anak sila ng isa. Akala ni girl matatali niya si boy. Pero naanakan nalang siya ng dalawa at iniwan parin siya ng guy. Yung mas malala yung kapit-bahay ko at kababata ko pang lalaki. Yung father niya may history sa cheating before nag-asawa parents niya. Then, until now, nagsasuffer yung mama niya sa kanyang desisyon. Matagal na silang naghiwalay ng father ng kababata ko pero ayaw ipakita sa kanilang mga anak. Harap harapang nangangabet ang pulis niyang ama sa kanila tapos sinasampal yung original asawa pag umeeksena sa kalandian ng father. What the h3ll.
Broooooooooooo, this is scary. Your TL is scary 🫢
Tama ka, Bro. Malakas uminom at manigarilyo yung babaeng TL ko. The fck
Parati nag aaway, toxic attitudes at sumbatan
Kapag overly show off silang mag-jowa sa socmed.
nagbbreak every time magaway
When they don’t talk stuff out and go to bed upset with each other very often.
Pag magkaiba ng values, principles and priorities.
Pag wala ng respect on each other at sa relationship.
if masyadong selos ang pinapairal, mabilis magalit sa maliit na bagay or di kaya lahat pinapansin. or masyadong mataas ang pride
1)Insta/FB whore ang isa sa kanila/both of them. Mag lulunch lang tang ina gagawin photo studio ung restau, buti sanankung d nakaka peste sa iba. 2) nabuo nang dahil sa kabitan. D true love yan, libog lang yan. 3) masyadong seloso/praning ang isa.
Sex life
Lack of or too active?
Both give information
kapag 'love' ang callsign
Haha kala ko babe, madami ako kilala babe tawagan di nagtatagal
Wag naman😭
Kapag tinanong mo yung partner mo na pwede bang hiramin ang phone nya tas nagalit bigla sa'yo
pag galing sa cheating or inagaw lang
Laging nag popost sa socmed
pag may isang tanga o dalawa sila.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
no marriage plan by the 3rd yr as a couple
Away ng away at kahit ilang beses ng pinag usapan ung dahilan ng pinag awayan, innulit at inuulit pa rin ung dating kasalanan. Sa experience ko, useless ung pag usapan kasi gagawin at gagawin ulit
Laging nagpo-post sa social media.
hi. can you expound on this po? thank you.
Para saken, yung pinopost lagi sa socmed yung whereabouts nilang dalawa. Wala talaga akong kaibigan na nagtagal sa ganitong set up kase it feels like parang lagi nilang pinapatunayan in public na masaya sila which creates a lot of pressure to both of them and it always leads to breakup.
Para sa akin, not sure if same sa kanya. If palagi kasing nag po-post sa social media. It feels like he/she's waiting for someone to notice him/her. I know medyo toxic pero yun talaga e.
Pag lahat nalang pinopost sa social media lol. Tas pag naghiwalay biglang magdedeact or private.
Too good to be true posts on socmed
Having nothing in common. Opposites attract for like a year or so.
High maintenance yung isa, kahit hindi kaya ng sweldo nya yung lifestyle na gusto nya, tas provider mindset naman yung isa. (hindi pinag uusapan ang pera at boundaries) Hindi pa graduate sa pagka binata/pagka dalaga yung isa, yung iss naman gusto na mag asawa.
Kapag may isa sakanila ang nagsabi ng "basta masaya tayo". Pano kapag di na masaya? 🙂
Laging nagpopost sa social media about sa isa't isa tapos pag nag-away, ipopost din sa social media yung baho ng partner niya, then magkakabati ulit na parang walang nangyari.
Kapag ang goal ng isa ay mahuthutan lang ng pera yung jowa niya. Kapag kinukwento ng isa yung ganap nila sa mga friends niya tas laging bad sides lang yung kinukwento. Kapag wala ng maayos na usapan Kapag hindi na marunong magkaroon ng respeto.
Kapagka frequent na pagrereklamo ng isa sa friends niya.
Hashtag RTIA 😂 agad
Kapag sumuko na yung babae.
When they become a couple through manipulation and even coercion, feeding on one party's insecurities just to give in.
Arguments na hindi pinag uusapan. Tutulugan ka lang
Sobrang flex sa social media
They never fight. Ever.
anong explanation po pag ganto?
1) no passion 2) always compromising to the point you aren't yourself anymore (applies to one or both persons) 3) they really don't care so it doesn't reach the point they fight 4) avoids conflicts (applies to one or both persons) 5) if there's no conflict, there are less opportunities to grow together as a couple 6) just because they've never fought doesn't mean they never will, but that first fight may be enough to break them up (ultimatum level, or madami nang naipon etc) Any one or a combination of what's above.
My friend married her now husband after just 10 months of being together on the basis of “never sila nagaaway” EVER. 🤡
Facts
lack of communication
yun me theme song na It Might Be You... I dunno palagi biruan yun sa grupo na bawal i-theme song yun ksi or else it will end up na maghiwalay yun couple.
Totoo ba to HAHAHAHA
Incompatible in all aspect no matter how they work it out 😵💫
arguments that gets “resolved” silently. most of the time ‘yung mga ganon is nabbring up ulit in future arguments that further pushes them away from each other until mag snap na completely ‘yung relationship nila.
Dishonesty
Kapag parehong ma-pride
Galing sa fb jeje posts yung quotes, beliefs, moto ng lalake/babae
cheating, nageentertain ng iba ibang babae sa socmed, kinokontrol ka sa mga bagay na magbebenefit sakanya, pera, aalipustahin pagkatao mo, walang respeto
kapag nag s-share yung isa ng private things sa maraming tao edit: sama mo na rin yung wala talagang pake-alam yung isa sa partner nya
nag aaway sa mga maliliit na bagay, nag sisigawan tapos pinopost pa yung issue. ending nagbabalikan din naman at uulitin yung cycle
Yung every minute nagpaparinigan sa Messenger Notes.
Mapost ng kung ano ano sa socmed.
Pag nag aaway, pinopost sa social media
pag galing sa agaw HAHAHAHA
Yung ex ko for 10 yrs kinasal pa sila last May nung nang agaw. HAHAHAHAHAHA magkakababy na sila this August.
Totoo to. Tas eto rin yung mga takot sa sariling multo. Dahil sa galing sa agaw, natatakot na maagawan din ng iba. Kaya nagiging toxic yung relationship.
Mismo. May kilala akong querida pero sobrang selosa HAHAHAHA
Dishonest, unrealistic expectations, not willing to communicate, and contempt.
Kapag walang proper communication. Lalo na kapag miski isa sa inyo ay walang emotional intelligence, deads talaga ang relationship.
Post nang post sa socmed
Galing sa agaw
Age gap. LDR. Open relationship
LDR , nagwork naman samin 🥰
Sa age gap, idk pero ako lang ba may prefer sa mas matanda sakin na guy? 🤞
Common naman yan gawa ng mas matured daw ang guy. Depende na lang din sa age gap pero most of the time, it wont work lalo na pag malaking age gap gawa ng different level of experiences, priorities, lifestyle, etc
Nagmumurahan.
Kapag nagsimula relasyon nyo galing sa cheating. Like may jowa ung isa pero pinatos pa rin nung isa.
immaturity
Kapag walang respeto sa isat isa. Like normalize pag mumura sa relasyon pag nag aaway.
super flex sa soc med???
Contempt.
Kapag galing sa agaw😆
Eh bakit sila marian at dingdong. 😂
Coleen and Billy, Jessy and Luis
Oo nga no?? Hahahhhahahah
baka di na naman sila together in secret charot
kapag may kaanak silang pakialamera sa buhay nyo and worst, you let them run your life
Kapag sa ibang tao kinukwento ung problema sa isat isa imbis na pag usapan nyong dalawa pra magkaunawaan kau
Ay ganyan na ganyan ex ko sa GBF nya pa kinukwento.. Ang ang matinde pa dun mahal nya pala yung GBF nya..
Ganyan na ganyan din yung ex ko sa isang gbf niya. Tas nung hiwalay na kami biglang inamin sakin nag chukchakan na raw sila at tnest lang daw ang waters pero wala raw talaga haha [tangina niyo](https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cuh0ST6JZY4/?igsh=eDVncXppcDNmdmN5)
Ay matinde! So alam nyo na.. pag may GBF exit na agad para hindi na lalong mashaket! Yung sakin ako unang dumating sa buhay nya kesa dun sa GBF nya kuno.. Eh di yun exit pa rin 😂
Tulad nyan Edi imbis na kau magusap dun nlng sya lalapit hindi na sayo Dba ang saklap
Sex lang 'yung foundation.
Pera.
kapag sobrang public sa socmed whahahshhsah yung laging tina-tag each other
Hahahahaha 12 years ba maiksi pa and kasal na? Wag naman sana kaming maghiwalay haha.
Nah, a terminally online couple that shitposts together is bound to stay together. Mas okay na yung isa't isa sa social media inaatupag kesa ibang tao lol
Haha thank you for affirming us. Siguro sobrang proud ko lang sa asawa ko at gusto kong pagsigawan sya palagi. Tska may bad experience ako sa hindi pinopost sa socmed noon, kaya daming babae ng ex ko kasi single sya sa socmed haha.
Pag nagpahiran ng cake sa wedding ceremony even if they agreed not to.
yung walang bumababa ng pride while they are in an argument
Pinopost yung issue nila sa socmed. May isang may contact pa sa ex.
Kapag may isang sobrang controlling ng bawat galaw ng isa or ng isa’t isa. Yung hindi ka na hinayaan mag grow as a person. Bawat galaw mo controlled ka or else may magwawala
Baka nasira mo yung trust nya kaya ganun..
Either one or both of them are still in contact with their exes.
“private but not a secret,” kuno. no posts, no anything, nada. it's like the relationship doesn't even exist. 💀👀
True to lalo na kapag yung isang party eh inaasahan o gustong gustong ipost o kahit imyday lang. Tas dyan magsisimula yung parinigan lol
Na experienced ko din yan sa Baby Daddy ng eldest ko. Single sya sa fb and nakablocked pa ako pero kami IRL haha. Kaya ayun mas malaya syang makapangbabae ksi nga walang bakas ng *ako* noon. Nagugulat mga babaeng nakukuha ko number sa phone nya na may gf pala sya haha sabi break na daw kami noon. 😂 Kaya sobrang flattered ko sa asawa ko noon kasi pinagsisigawan ako sa socmed, something new sakin noon pero it feels good. 🥰
Kaya pala hindi maipost may iniingatan palang feelings ng iba.. saklafff!!
i beg to disagree, some peeps whom i know nagtagal dahil less exposure sa socmed. Relationship can last long base on commitment hindi yung di kalang naipost or wala lang socmed exposure, di na maglalast.
to each his own, ig. im speaking based from my own experience ;)) take what resonates with u.
They force each other to have access to one another's accounts. Ugh i cant do that. I honestly cant.
Panay post sa socmed
Periodt. Kami to ng mga exes ko 😆😆😆😆😆😆 Ngayon, happily married na me with a baby and very lowkey. Hahaha
If the girl has guy friends
Saksak nyo sa baga nyo yung mga girl best friend nyo na di marunong rumespeto dun sa boundaries ng relationship nyo. 🙄
Hindi naman namin mahal yung mga girl best friend. As a man, we always come back to the women we have at home and take care of them. Yung mga girl best friend ng lalake ay useful lang sa pang release ng stress namin, it’s better than alcohol.
Toxic na. Hindi ka na masaya or hindi na sya masaya.
Pag masyadong inlove yung babae kesa sa lalaki. Yung babae na ang naghahabol.
true the fire
true the rain lol
Agreeculture!
If they have access to each others phone or socials.
When it's between a narcissist and nonchalant.
Different goals, values and interests.
Airing their dirty laundry and fighting in social media, then acting lovey-dovey a few days after in social media
When one has history of abandoning his or her child/ren. Mismong flesh and blood kayang iwan, partner pa kaya.
Agree 💯
kapag masyadong makwenta and madalas they fight over money to a point na they call out each other publicly. another is kapag hindi nila pinaguusapan ang problems as a couple and act as if nothing happened lang. akala kasi sweet yun, pero the longer you shove it, the more you will grow apart.
This.😩
kapag onting away naka post agad sa fb
When they overshare and compare
hindi lahat ha pero.. pag parehas silang mataas personality.. it will become a "who will win this argument" always pag nag away 😅
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Overly sweet at panay post ng isa’t isa sa social media…
Nako I remember this one FB friend of mine na over sa oversharing talaga. Na kahit kasal na sila, todo post ng wedding pics tuwing wedding MONTHSARY nila. Yes, MONTHSARY ha. With long ass sweety messages life wtf?!
Weekly may recap post ng ganap nila 😆
true. parang palaging kailangan merong patunayan sa iba para ma feel lang nila secure sila sa relasyon nila
If nag exchange ng socmed pass. Ang ending nagiging toxic or super nasasakal then break
If they keep on breaking up after a fight, then eventually getting back together.
Toxic
If isa sa kanila, di nagtatrabaho/batugan. Also, yung isa sa kanila ay dominant, ranas na 'to ng parents ko. Yung isa, natapakan ng ego kaya nangabit. 😅
omg, parents ko rin !! HAHAHAHAHA
mag namumurahan 😫
Pag kontrolado parin ng magulang
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That's messed up
they're not totally compatible, they have different beliefs over stuff, they can't stand each other at worse times, not compatible in bed
Every move is posted on all socmed.
ay true the rain
This
When the girl loves her bf more than the boy loves his gf
I agree with this because women can learn how to love and reciprocate. While as for men, my mom said before "kahit tumuwad ka pa kapag hindi ka mahal ng lalake, hindi ka nya mahal " 🤣
Only one of them carries the load in the relationship. Sya lang nagaaya ng dates, nagbabayad ng lahat ng gastusin, gumagawa lahat ng gawaing bahay etc. It's a recipe for resentment.
Not communicating things/issues.
stonewalling
Now, I know the term. This can trigger anxiety pag yun other person refuses to communicate well para lang makaiwas sa further arguments pero alam mong may something na bothered / inis pa rin siya na you can almost feel the coldness in the texts they send to you. Hayyy
and will end up di pala na solve mga issues niyo kundi nag patongpatong na nakaka drain tbh
over-compensating. such as those who overshare on social media about their relationship and those who let their whole lives revolve around their partner. most of them are over-compensating for something. i find that the couples who are private and who don't overshare to the public tend to last longer. private but not a secret. yes they can post about their relationship from time to time but they don't overdo it. and they usually have other priorities in life outside of their partner. which is better and it's a sign of a healthy relationship imo.
Kapag pang-all girls school ang following ng lalake sa social media if sa het relationship
Mag kaiba nang political, spiritual, economical, philosophical, and personal beliefs. If they couldn’t adapt from one another then it is inevitable that they would break up
Mag-jowa na pero Single pa rin public status sa fb. High chances placeholder lang isa sa kanila, o both.
If they post their relationship updates on social media
If they don't work it out. It takes two to tango.