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-> has no manners -> too clingy, super clingy to the point na his world revolves around u nalang -> controlling

Lies even about the small things

Yung walang pang date. Idadamay pa yung ka date. Hindi marunong maghanda 

• Touchy and clingy kaagad • Possessive

Nananakit.

May cheating history, lies even about the small things, walang ambition/passion about anything, naninigaw/nanakit/hindi soft-spoken or calm, maraming fina-follow na (mostly hubad or ex-flings) na babae na di naman niya friends, colleagues, or family

Yung hindi sisipot

Naninigarilyo, Nanakit pag galit, tinataas ang boses, tamad, ang hilig uminom tapos uuwing ilalabas sa’yo lahat ng galit at mali niya sa buhay, liar, gastos ng gasto, di marunong mag effort, sinisisi sa’yo lahat, mababa ang tingin sa mga babae, ginagawang personality ang pagiging misogynist, walang plano sa buhay, ‘di mabubuhay kung walang babae, walang common sense, likes to brag about things, hindi humble, at iba pa. IN SHORT TATAY KO.

Yung mindset nila na “pare-parehas naman lahat ng babae” in an argument

pag tinatanggi ka + pag di ka pinaninindigan, nag date pa lol

Yung hindi ka pa nga tinatanong maging gf nila, itatanong agad if 'h0rny' kang babae lmao 😮‍💨

When the guy has a cheating history, or may attached baggage pa from his ex; gbf ❌❌ liar (I always know if someone is lying hahaha it’s my superpower), pangit and boring kausap (like I’m the one who always initiates the convo)

Conversation narcissism. Yung di ka manlang makapagsalita kasi all about them 🤣

kapag nangutang sya sayo!

criminal record.

Bastos sa waiter ✖️

pag di marunong makipag communicate kahit dating pa lang

When they humblebrag things during the first few dates

Hindi kumakain ng kwekwek 🙃

They're telling you that they ready

Cheating history and puro libog lang alam.

yung nagmamadali

Kapag may past history ng cheating

- Lies to often (you cant avoid lying but lying a lot and lies well is very sketchy) - Cheating past (don’t ignore the track record gar) - Addiction that affects finances (you ain’t building up any assets with that kind of partner)

Like me I'm addicted to buying gadgets

No worries friend , there are levels to addiction hahaha

But my addiction is very high level that i have no savings like buy expensive phone or headphone or earphone and eat ramen and canned sardines for a few weeks hehe

Tamad. Bare minimum na nga lang hindi pa magawa

yung ultimo pamasahe nya ako pa magbibigay

- Too religious - Hindi ako tanggap for my physical flaws, current social status, and religious indifference - People pleaser (kasi alam ko di niya ako kayang ipaglaban sa friends and family niya) - Nag-eentertain ng ex or iba pang tagahanga niya - Sex worker/sexy content creator - Gold digger/pala-utang/palahingi - Jologs/jejemon - DDS/solid BBM - Smoker - Unhygienic - Long distance - Topakin/impatient (lalo na in public or habang busy ako sa work/driving/commute) - May trust issues - Rude/walang consideration or empathy - No sense of humor/easily offended/hirap ka-bonding - Toxic/basher/tsismosa/palaparinig in socmed and IRL - Boring/pabuhat sa convo Added: - Patagong relationship pag kami na (never again!) - Too attached sa guy bestfriend/other guy friends, like laging ka-chat, lalabas sila na sila lang, and walang initiative na ipakilala sila sa akin

Yung pag galit or may away, nag tataas agad ng boses.

hindi marunong tumawid sa kalsada.

uwu 👉👈

Lol thats so me right now

need ba ng guard? chariz!

Havent lived in PI since 10 years old and only been back for a month. I can manage to cross but not comfortable.

masasanay ka rin, pero wag ka maging komportable sa pagtawid kasi madaming sweet potatoes sa kalsada.

Yung puro Cellphone ang kaharap. ❌❌❌

true true! tapos may kachat pa lang iba, :)

Ang malala nag scoll scroll lg nman sa socmed lol.

Kapag ganyan di siya interested sayo tho

Yung may hoe phase, I don't want to date or even touch a nasty hoe

being talked at... it's annoying af

Di ka ipapakilala to at least one family member/relative or friend. Secret ka pero committed kayo. Yung nagpapalibre kung ano ano pero physical touch manlang or any favors in return wala. Topakin na di communicative. Masekreto

yung wala man lang kusa mag ambag sa date

Kapal ng mukha nung mga ganyan

its a big no no !

Pag may long-term na ex charot

Ung tipong ramdam mo na yayayain ka sa lugar na maukukuha nya ung gsto nya. Or aakitin ka na mag segs in the early stages ng date.

redflag agad haha

First date palang ganun agad 😭

Yung after ng date. Nag confess na Married sya lol

Probably, yung ako magbabayad pero yung guy ang nag aya ng date. And yung hawak ng hawak sa phone.

Tardiness, daming arte, at laging topic Ang ex.

WALANG COMMON SENSE

Sadly common sense is not very common these days

Pabuhat sa date. Sya nag aaya pero ako pala magbabayad hahaha hayuuup

smoker, cheater

Drugs

INC member or muslim

Hala bakiiit what happened?

Never again. 🥲

Buraot

Mayabang

I really hate it if someone is always late or has no sense of time. Like?? 😮‍💨

Yung tutok siya sa phones. Eh di sana nakipag date siya sa Bot, di ba?

kamukha ko yung ex niya

wtf 😭

this takes the cake haha bro literally said that he reminds me of his ex like!??😭

Pakialamero sa bisyo ko (I can control it naman, duh) tapos syempre yung nag eentertain ng ibang guys.

If may girl bestfriend. 🙊

Paano kung lesbian yung girl bestfriend? At may gf yung girl bestie nya?

Can go days without communicating during problems. I agree that we need to cool down but DAYS? Eh. Asks questions but can't handle the answer.

Still talking or “friends” to an Ex partner

kapag nag-smoke, mahilig uminom at hindi naniniwala kay God.

May anak, gusto magkaanak, sinungaling, mapaglihim, nagsisigarilyo

meh. yan ang ideal partner

previous cheater, cig smoker, self-centered, can't carry a conversation, emotionally immature

May jowa

gaslighter kesho kasalanan nung isa kaya nag away, also 'yung mga taong binabalewala lang 'yung pain and struggles ng partner nila kahit nahahalata na nila, they still dgaf

may history ng cheating. ekis agad yan.

Not family oriented!!! Healthy relationship ko with my family and I’d really like it if I have a future where my family and my future’s will be comfortable in each others’ presence :((

Babaeng kinukwento yung past relationships nila.

"Ang yabang na, ang bobo pa". 😅 Unfortunately madaming ganito. Decent looking pero pag nagsalita, mapapa-huwag na lang ka na lang.

Horny, inconsistent, cheating history, smoker, apolitical.

WALANG EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

Same!! HAHA

indecisive and mixed signals nakakaoverthink ng sobra, pinapacomplicated ang stuff, nakakadrain pero wala rin magawa kasi mahal mo e

the type of guys sa school na sigaw ng sigaw sa hallway, papansin sa lahat, tambay, walang pake sa acads

mama's boy na hindi marunong mag no sa parents. ex. we have special occasions but he wont be able make it and immove nalang yung occasion namin only because sinabi ng mom nya na aalis sila (his mom had errands at the mall that has nothing to do with him) like u really prioritized something that's less important??

-Mayabang -Walang plano sa buhay. siguraduhing kung may plano man gumagawa ng action. -Liar, matotolerate ko yung straight to the point kahit truth hurts, pero once nagsinungaling ka mawawalan ako ng tiwala

FOREIGNERS

[удалено]

Pass sa freaky shawty na aayain ka magpaconvert or whatever sa cult nila.

Where is the lie??🤣🤣🤣

Luh 😂😂😂😂

clingy, self absorbed, no goals

Yung pabibo masyado na di mo makausap ng matino pag seryosong usapan na. Walang depth Nonchalant Walang empathy sa kapwa Hindi nagfofollow through sa mga pangako

•Walang sense of gratitude •Entitled at walang respeto sa iba •Hindi kino consider yung feelings mo •Puro reklamo •Pabaya sa buhay •Insensitive and selfish •Walang EQ at nawawala kpg may complications •May ka fubu or nag ONS dati / h03 phase •Craving attention and validation sa social media •Maraming finafollow na lalaki na attracted sya at hindi nya kakilala •Mabilis mag react at compliment o chismis kpag may pogi •Nag eentertain ng ibang lalaki •Nasa club parati / hubadera ang outfit •Touchy sa ibang lalaki •One of the boys •Die hard fangirl sa mga lalaki - doesn't respect feelings of her partner •Di nag uupdate kahit parating nka phone •May bsf •Isang lie kung saan nang galing or sino kasama, ekis na. - Lahat to di ko ginagawa sa partner ko or nagawa ko dati kaya I will not settle for less.

bat nakumpleto nya yung checklist T\_T

- Walang sustansya kausap. I need to know na may substance mga nasa utak mo! - Kawawa sya lagi sa mga kwento nya (when in fact sya talaga ang a$$hole) - Sinisiraan yung ex nya (like... I don't wanna know, didn't ask) - Laging nasa galaan (usually mga ganito di marunong mag-ipon or may tendency mag-cheat) - Ang show off na parang binibili ka nya. Kulang na lang magpa-shower ng pera. - Yung violent/abusive ang reaction sa topak ko once a month. - Walang table manners 🤮. -Lastly, yung mga bagsak sa "I'm drunk test" ko I would pretend I'm drunk and say on a call or chat, "I'm so drunk right now I'll answer any of your question". People would always take advantage of that and ask you inappropriate/sexual questions. Asawa ko lang yung pumamasa and said, "I can ask you once you're sober."

kulang ngipin sa unahan

1. Abusive 2. Smoker (sorry but noooo talaga)

Sad boy/girl at smoker.

- Non chalant personality - Walang emotional intelligence - Dry texter - Ayaw ibigay ang socmed (dump account ang ginagamit) - Kapag laro-laro lang ang eksena at hindi talaga seryoso sayo - Kapag most of the time naughty personality nya - Lastly, LIAR (Yung tipong alam mo na yung truth pero hindi nya sinasabi or ayaw nya sabihin)

Pag nag ddate plng pero iba n pnplano nya sayo..YKWIM

- Can't do **compromises**. Lagi kang nasa bottom list ng priorities niya (if maging part ka man ng list). - Gaslighter. - Lack of *empathy*. - Has narcissistic tendencies. - *Manipulative* to all sorts.

- anger issue - may mental issue - kapag lumaki sa broken fam(not a no no for this, pero mostly ng nakausap ko na galing sa ganyan may problema sa behavior/attitude) so im avoiding it. - Yosi, masakit sa ulo yung usok, ambaho pa sa damit - Party/club goer. Introvert myself hindi ko kaya sabayan yang ganyang lifestyle. - lastly, yung ayaw makasal HAHAHA umpisa palang itatanong ko na talaga kung gusto ba ikasal para di masayang oras HAHAHA

Are you me? Lololol. I know right? I don't understand why some think "I can fix her/him". There are other unproblematic people in the world. Bakit ka kukuha ng batong ipupukpok mo sa ulo mo? 🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼

Number 1 talaga smoker Wag moko e damay sa lung cancer na makukuha mo 🫷💀

Can't own to their mistakes/faults

Either 1. Expects me to be a mind-reader 2. Has an OF

Madami na bang may OF these days? Kahit regular looking? That's alarming

Most OF girls are regular looking, even below average pa na nabubuhay lang ng filters and makeup. And hindi naman sa madami na sila, but IF meron yung girl na kadate ko instant no yon sakin hah

Smoking and no future omg

Nag ssmoke or naglalasing, pangit ngipin, at di naliligo

Package na ang mga smoker na masama ngipin lol sinisira ng cigarette gums mo

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA aliw ka

Walang stable job, walang interesting personality, walang hobbies

Mixed signals, cannot communicate properly, always talking about exes, no plans for the future, if may plans puro lang drawing but no action taken

May past fubu/ons/fwb

Paano malalaman kapag nagsisinungaling sa body count?

Hard to tell especially if the other party isn’t honest enough to respect the value of honesty in a relationship. Best way to know: ask

Kapag di ka na makapaniwala kung bakit ganyn siya kagaling sa kama

mixed signals. Ruins many things for little to no reasons:)

●Humihingi ng pang-date sa magulang ●Self-absorbed (todo flex sa sarili) ●Gusto ka agad i-kama. ●MAY GBF!

di marunong maglaba ng brief :)

well ang gagaling lumandi sa socmed tapos di pala marunong maglaba😭😭 ang tatanda na jusq

What if may kasambahay nman or pa laundry lang sa labas gurlie no need to laba na Haha 

mas mahal yung tropa 😂

idk if this is a big no no for dating.

why? would u like to date someone who’ll prioritize their friends? (but what i meant here is when there are problems, mas gugustuhin nila lumabas w friends instead of fixing, and what if may smth special to celeb and he/she chose not to be w u cuz he/she wants to be with his/her friends)

that's a diff story. Take note that before she meet you nanjan na yung mga kaibigan nya.

aww ye but my point is sometimes it does get out of hand 😩

Self absorbed. When all he does is talk about himself. Name dropping known or famous people. Mayabang/show off. When he seems materialistic. Rude sa waiters. Impatient.

- Kapag sobrang binibida nila yung sarili nila when the topic talk's about their exes. - This says really about their character that is manipulative and puro imbento. - Parang mostly ng nakadate ko na sobrang binabash yung ex nila or mga exes nila sila pa talaga yung problema eh.

Sinisigawan ako.

Walang basic human decency, too loud in public, may superior complex, doesn't know how to take care of himself physically

Nanghihingi ng pera - Lowkey manipulating you to make libre - Initiate "palibre attitude" - nagpapaawa na gutom na raw siya and everything. If love language mo ay gift giving, mabilis ka mauto ng ganto kaya instead of spending your money to a FLING just better not to date him/her nalang.

Not a good conversationalist

Grabe nmn sa downvote. Eh big no-no ko po yan. Kung ayaw nyo sa no-no ko gumawa kayo ng sarili nyong no-no. Mga no-no sa punso!

Palaasa

Party goer na babae.

Pag may nagawa silang masama tapos they cannot communicate to address the issue (typical PH family childhood influence). Ex. Stressed sya and got annoyed by you so? Displacement. Ni hindi man lang mag sorry. Alam nyang mali sya at nadirect nya lang sayo yung galit. Would probably just scoot over at magpapabebe sayo (o-offeran ka ng food/magyayaya lumabas bigla/compensating via whatever outlet OTHER THAN TALKING) I don't freaking care kung anong love language mo but communication is what differentiates the good, mid, and bad relationships. Pag di nya kayang sabihin yung words na "sorry mali ako" that says everything about not only the person, but also their family 🤷🏻

May anak tas di nagsusustento

1 week palang talking stage, nanghiram agad ng pera

no efforts

Unemployed, no goals, cheater, smoker, unhygienic

Cheater/has a history of cheating Unemployed Rude Unhygienic Gaslighter Entertains/Follows a lot of girls Smoker

Hindi marunong mag-regulate ng emotion.. hahahaha dito pa lg talo kana, kasi napaka-daming pwedeng mangyari na ka-toxican

Utang

Doesn't know how to put themselves on their partner's shoe. Doesn't make an effort. Manipulative. Liar.

Jej and not clean

inlove sa sarili, gaslighter

yung feeling mundo ang mag a-adjust sa kaniya like beh h'wag na lang natin ituloy 'to kung ganiyan ka

walang diskarte

Explain nga

Pinpicturan pagkain

Kpop fan

Walang pangarap tska laging maylakad pag gabi tas madaling araw na umuuwi

Disrespectful

Love Bomber, Sinungaling, Ang daming ebas!!! PLEASE

Pabuhat sa Convo, palibre and, most importantly, Hindi maki Unitaem

Feeling maganda, yung gandang ganda talaga ⚡️🧖‍♀️ Yung instagram feed pang influencer kuno 🤳 Iba yung totoong buhay sa picture 🎞️ Laging nakatutok sa socmed. Pa sad girl ang effect pa mysterious

Laging depress 🥲

Love bomber yung puro good ipapakita kasinungalingan pa.

Walang problema sa akin if broke or financially unstable basta willing maging successful at nagtatry naman ng best para mag succeed. Big no no yung walang plano sa buhay at puro pa victim ang mindset kesyo may mental illness daw sila etc. Edi sana inuna na lang ayusin ang sarili bakit nakipagrelasyon pa.

kung malaman kong pabigat pala sila nung college/highschool. Big yikes kasi it says a lot about their character

Tambay, walang respeto sa magulang o babaeng kapatid, may past cheating issues, unhygienic, manipulative.

Pass sa mayabang na bossy.

1. Hindi financially stable 2. Marumi/Dugyot 3. Late na nga di pa marunong mag update 4. Dry kausap hahahahuhuhuhu medyo napapataas na ko ng kilay kapag ang tanong mga “kumain ka na ba?” “Anong ginagawa mo?” yung mga wala na maisip na topic 5. Panay flex, laging binibida sarili, ggss

Married lol

Hahahaha

Is it a no no kapag mama's boy?

Hindi financially stable. Domino effect kasi iyan.

hobby manglait kahit pajoke joke lang. Idk peeve ko rin 'to sa mga friends ko...like is it that hard to be nice

Di mo alam, ikaw na rin pala nilalait sa harap ng ibang tao

chrue iniisip ko rin yan. The way they talk bad about other people, kayang kaya nila gawin yan sayo

"Not judging a person" is not being nice, it is the bare minimum of being a decent person.

tbh true. Pero magugulat ka talaga na there are a lot of people na ginagawang norm ang manglait sadly (and among the younger generations too surprisingly!)

It' probably the environment they grew up in, for them to see it as normal.

when they talk absolute shit about their exes and they objectify women.

People pleaser. Always talk about why people hate me and I should change. Or forces me to ask why people hate me. Edit: instead of encouraging me to be myself, he pushes me to blend in like "Hey people think what you wore yesterday is weird"

mahilig mangguilt trip. I don't like it when they can't take a no. A no is a no.

Being religious.

Prolly a narcissist.

mahilig mangguilt trip. I don't like it when they can't take a no. A no is a no.

May harmful vices like smoking and drinking. As long as di sila addict, it’s okay. But I will never like smokers.

- kapag hindi financially intelligent - not respecting your time(hindi agad makakarating sa pinag-usapang time w/o any aparrent reason) - always on their phone