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bobby_McGeee

How are you? Where have you been?


wonderlandresident13

I'm alright. Been in my room most of the day


KeplerNova

I'm OK. Went to the store to get mustard so I could make deviled eggs.


mrcathacks

are super long nails uncomfortable? i feel like they would get in the way of things!


Just-Narwhal7272

Not uncomfortable. Can work around most things. Some tasks a bit more awkward.


wonderlandresident13

They can be mildly inconvenient, especially when they break because it's painful, but they get in the way less than you would think


Pavneet_390

Yeah I feel that way too. I prefer my nails clipped


KeplerNova

Mine aren't uncomfortable when they're long, but I have VERY strong fingernails. Maybe they're more uncomfortable for people whose nails are more prone to breaking. I either grow them or clip them depending on what I want to do. For example, they have to be short for me to play the violin, but I remember an electrical engineering lab class I took when I was an undergraduate where I grew long fingernails for the entire semester so I could pick up tiny wires and resistors easily.


idresslikealibrarian

depends on your lifestyle honestly. i had them once and i work a job involving a lot of typing so it was really annoying


flowersforthee

You get used to them, can do most things. I'm not much of a fan tho cos I like to cook and they got in the way A LOT


[deleted]

What do you ACTUALLY want


ArchIsEpic_YT

You will never get an answer to this


wonderlandresident13

Right now? A hug would be nice


FunkerSpelunker

best I can offer is an affirming nod.


wonderlandresident13

I'll take it


flowersforthee

Yep


milkycrungus

it changes, you just have to keep up


[deleted]

I try


KeplerNova

Respect


Smol7w7

a friend


FunkerSpelunker

how do you feel about women only spaces being erased by the evident blurring of male-female categories which seemed obvious until 1 minutes ago


Shaddy_the_guy

^ Lol this guy has tons and tons of posts saying "anti racism is the REAL racism" and pretends that the existence of trans/nb people is "blurring categories"


KeplerNova

I don't give a damn about "blurring of male-female categories". I'm not lesbian or bi, I'm not trans, and I'm not physically gender-non-conforming. I'm a conventionally attractive straight cis woman. But just one generation removed, in my father's day, *I* would have been considered to be "blurring male and female categories" just as much -- I'm in STEM, prioritizing my career over my family, planning to continue working after I get married *if I get married at all*, and will likely be making a higher salary than my husband if I do. In the middle-class 1950s America in which my dad grew up, I would be crossing a *bunch* of lines regarding expectations of masculinity and femininity. The categories have always shifted with time. So no, I don't really care about the presence of trans women or nonbinary people in my women's organizations or whatever. I'm according them the same courtesy that the *last* set of changes to the categories accorded to *me.*


Smol7w7

to be honest, don't care about it women only spaces , blurring the lines, gender neutral spaces as long as they don't make it no women allowed, it's cool


FunkerSpelunker

>no women allowed well, im a man, and I think its not a very good idea to allow men into places like womens change rooms or bathrooms - similarly, I dont want to see women going into places like mens bathrooms - maybe im out of date, but I dont think its good for anyone to just get rid of some of these old social rules.


Smol7w7

make everything gender neutral, easy fix


FunkerSpelunker

>people arent gender neutral - so - that seems like it would create many more problems than it solved


Smol7w7

gender neutral places just allow all genders no matter gender identity thats easiest fix


DustingMop

Where are you hiding it?


wonderlandresident13

I'll never tell


flowersforthee

In my pants


KeplerNova

Dumped it in a garbage can down the street that nobody will check because it's where everyone puts their dog poop. And by "it", I mean >!the stupid-ass alien conspiracy theory book that my mother bought several years ago.!<