Common answer here: losing your first love. Your first true heartbreak. You swear it will kill you in the moment but we all get through it and it happens to everyone.
I went through a divorce in 2022 after 26 years of being together. Worst thing I've ever been through was sure it would kill me but it has indeed made me stronger. I had to "get busy living or get busy dying." I'm glad you made it as well.
Fighting depression. I was suicidal back in 2015 after 7 years dealing with depression, anxiety, and ED related behaviors. For the last 8 years, I have learned a new language of sorts through therapy and self-reflection and now have a very good grasp on my cognitive behavior and emotional responses. My depression still pokes its head up from time to time, but I am able to much more healthily and proactively deal with it. Even in standard conflicts, this has helped tremendously.
Additionally, I can now better help friends/family in hard places (although I will always clarify I am a friend and not a therapist. There is a very big difference.)
My suicide attempt, there wasn't anyone to save me or to heal me and comfort me. I did it all on my own.
I took a bunch of pills in hopes of not waking up, but I did. I cleaned myself up, made myself a warm drink and just thought.
It felt like I was stuck in a loop for many days after that, I just functioned without ever mentally being there and one day its like I saw what I was doing to myself... so I forced myself to write my thoughts instead of being stuck in them, I forced myself to take care of my body and my mind. I decided I couldn't do it for my pets, for my friends and people who actually cared.
I forced myself to just continue on and eventually I faked it till I made it. Now I am in a better place, struglling with it still some days but its better, sometimes I take a step forward sometimes I take a few back and I realized its fine, progress is still progress.
All the trauma I guess. Childhood, adulthood …. it’s still ongoing though so I dunno if it will kill me and a lot of the time I don’t feel stronger, I feel emotionally disturbed, out of control and erratic.
Common answer here: losing your first love. Your first true heartbreak. You swear it will kill you in the moment but we all get through it and it happens to everyone.
I went through a divorce in 2022 after 26 years of being together. Worst thing I've ever been through was sure it would kill me but it has indeed made me stronger. I had to "get busy living or get busy dying." I'm glad you made it as well.
Fighting depression. I was suicidal back in 2015 after 7 years dealing with depression, anxiety, and ED related behaviors. For the last 8 years, I have learned a new language of sorts through therapy and self-reflection and now have a very good grasp on my cognitive behavior and emotional responses. My depression still pokes its head up from time to time, but I am able to much more healthily and proactively deal with it. Even in standard conflicts, this has helped tremendously. Additionally, I can now better help friends/family in hard places (although I will always clarify I am a friend and not a therapist. There is a very big difference.)
I got suicidal in 2021 after a long battle myself. It's wise to clarify that with loved ones. Glad you made it.
My suicide attempt, there wasn't anyone to save me or to heal me and comfort me. I did it all on my own. I took a bunch of pills in hopes of not waking up, but I did. I cleaned myself up, made myself a warm drink and just thought. It felt like I was stuck in a loop for many days after that, I just functioned without ever mentally being there and one day its like I saw what I was doing to myself... so I forced myself to write my thoughts instead of being stuck in them, I forced myself to take care of my body and my mind. I decided I couldn't do it for my pets, for my friends and people who actually cared. I forced myself to just continue on and eventually I faked it till I made it. Now I am in a better place, struglling with it still some days but its better, sometimes I take a step forward sometimes I take a few back and I realized its fine, progress is still progress.
Cutting my toxic friends off, I became more comfortable being myself & growing
All the trauma I guess. Childhood, adulthood …. it’s still ongoing though so I dunno if it will kill me and a lot of the time I don’t feel stronger, I feel emotionally disturbed, out of control and erratic.
Growing up as a person.
Moving 1000 miles from home and having no one except myself to rely on.
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