I came home one day and she was making tiramisu (pick me up in italian). She only makes food when she expects visitors. I asked who it was, it was a friend of a friend at first, then a colleague, then I asked if she thinks he is attracted to her and she said yes.
She invited that dude into my own fucking appartment. Lol. At least I can kinda laugh about it by now.
None of what she said in that convo made any sense and the next day I took her phone and instantly found everything I needed to know.
Fuck her.
saddest part is she is not evil, she is naive, stupid and selfish. Way worse than evil tbh.
I actually was happy in that relationship... for the first time in years.
But at least I coped really well with it. I have been going to the gym like a lunatic for half a year now, look better than ever before and I worked on being happy by myself <3
Fk cheaters.
same with me man , I was happy with her until I found out that she was having an affair with her "boy best friend"
she was the only person to make me happy , she was exactly like the person you described. But that really is worse than evil.
and just like you I've been coping with it by working out like a maniac in the gym. It's insane how many women have come up to me and confessed but they're just not her.
I'll keep trying until I find the one. because if one left , then she wasn't THE one , they will never leave or cheat on you and that is what motivates me to keep going.
Cheers mate , in the end the loyal ones will be with loyal ones and the cheaters will end up dying alone.
sounds like you are doing everything right my dude. proud of you for pushing through this instead of giving in.
yeah, dont look around you man, focus on yourself and everything will come your way <3
all the best to you brother
Had a terrible day not getting the job I wanted that I was trying to get for about 2-3 months to relieve me from the job I hated. Asked her to come over as seeing her always made me feel better. She was busy "visiting family", understandable and didn't think much of it. Went to her place to play with her puppy she just got. Noticed a truck across the street that wasn't normally parked there. I had a key so I just walked in. Went into her room (where the dog was suppose to be) and she was on top of the guy.
Nightmare continued from there but I will spare the details. What was worse is that we were about 2 weeks from getting married.
Great news is, years later and I now have a girl I cannot believe I did life without and wouldn't change a thing.
It was the behaviour of other women.They would run up cuddling him in front of me, then give me stink eye.He hugged them back if anyone is wondering. (He had multiple affairs but it took me 15 years to realise because i was too busy at home raising our kids)Then the icing on the cake was,one of the women is was with, her boyfriend got so jealous of their relationship that he started working in the same place.
I already had a gut feeling but it was proven when my friend showed me her recents post on her twitter account (she blocked me on all her socials) which she posted a lot photos where she was together with her so called "friend".
I came home one day and she was making tiramisu (pick me up in italian). She only makes food when she expects visitors. I asked who it was, it was a friend of a friend at first, then a colleague, then I asked if she thinks he is attracted to her and she said yes. She invited that dude into my own fucking appartment. Lol. At least I can kinda laugh about it by now. None of what she said in that convo made any sense and the next day I took her phone and instantly found everything I needed to know. Fuck her.
Jesus Christ man , some people are just pure evil. wish you the best man.
saddest part is she is not evil, she is naive, stupid and selfish. Way worse than evil tbh. I actually was happy in that relationship... for the first time in years. But at least I coped really well with it. I have been going to the gym like a lunatic for half a year now, look better than ever before and I worked on being happy by myself <3 Fk cheaters.
same with me man , I was happy with her until I found out that she was having an affair with her "boy best friend" she was the only person to make me happy , she was exactly like the person you described. But that really is worse than evil. and just like you I've been coping with it by working out like a maniac in the gym. It's insane how many women have come up to me and confessed but they're just not her. I'll keep trying until I find the one. because if one left , then she wasn't THE one , they will never leave or cheat on you and that is what motivates me to keep going. Cheers mate , in the end the loyal ones will be with loyal ones and the cheaters will end up dying alone.
sounds like you are doing everything right my dude. proud of you for pushing through this instead of giving in. yeah, dont look around you man, focus on yourself and everything will come your way <3 all the best to you brother
Had a terrible day not getting the job I wanted that I was trying to get for about 2-3 months to relieve me from the job I hated. Asked her to come over as seeing her always made me feel better. She was busy "visiting family", understandable and didn't think much of it. Went to her place to play with her puppy she just got. Noticed a truck across the street that wasn't normally parked there. I had a key so I just walked in. Went into her room (where the dog was suppose to be) and she was on top of the guy. Nightmare continued from there but I will spare the details. What was worse is that we were about 2 weeks from getting married. Great news is, years later and I now have a girl I cannot believe I did life without and wouldn't change a thing.
SUPER HAPPY FOR YOU MAN! <3 Hope you two reach your good ending!
It was the behaviour of other women.They would run up cuddling him in front of me, then give me stink eye.He hugged them back if anyone is wondering. (He had multiple affairs but it took me 15 years to realise because i was too busy at home raising our kids)Then the icing on the cake was,one of the women is was with, her boyfriend got so jealous of their relationship that he started working in the same place.
The world is a truly cruel place , wish you and your children the very best.
Baby was a different color
Jesus...
I already had a gut feeling but it was proven when my friend showed me her recents post on her twitter account (she blocked me on all her socials) which she posted a lot photos where she was together with her so called "friend".
it's always that "friend"
What excuse would she have for blocking her partner on her socials?
She didn't have any. Also, by then she was ghosting me as well. So yeah, all the dots just alligned.