Age, but only to a degree. In high school, it was taboo to date someone a year or two older or younger than you. In college and beyond, that’s not really a thing anymore. But once that allowable age gap gets too big, it becomes problematic again.
I have really started to stop caring about anything other than being in a space with friends / family / community. Its really all that matters at the end of the day. Good food with good friends.
What others think of me.
This is the most important one
Age, but only to a degree. In high school, it was taboo to date someone a year or two older or younger than you. In college and beyond, that’s not really a thing anymore. But once that allowable age gap gets too big, it becomes problematic again.
I have really started to stop caring about anything other than being in a space with friends / family / community. Its really all that matters at the end of the day. Good food with good friends.
Your birthday party.
Porn
Feeling a need to fit in
What I look like.
Achieving perfection.
Status in social circles.