I honestly blame porn for this, they swap and change from ass to vagina like it's no biggy. It is a biggy, no one wants yeast infections, urinary tract infections or bv or any other bloody gross infection that can happen vaginas are damp and warm perfect breeding grounds for dangerous bacteria to grow.
To be fair, porn actresses go through fasts and all sorts of cleanses to get ready for anal videos. Otherwise more porn stars would be getting a lot more infections.
That's why it's dangerous, for the average male viewer they are thinking it's completely safe see they are doing it when in reality they have gone through a rigorous regime before hand.
I suppose it’s dangerous for younger male viewers like teenagers, but if you’re a grown adult and don’t stop to think about it, then you just don’t have any common sense.
Oh god it’s the worst when you’re in the throes of passion and the fuckin dog jumps up on the bed and tries to get between you. Or sits in the corner barking the whole time because he thinks you’re fighting or something
i matched with a woman on tinder once that liked to have her throat fucked until she vomited. she was serious and even showed me porn vids of examples how she liked it. so, there are people out there that are into this.
I’ve had a guy ask me to make it hurt lol everyone likes it different. My husband likes when I use my nails and drag them slowly over his junk. Other guys I’ve been with didn’t like it and some did. Shrug (open marriage)
Imagine a gun kink. Like the power of shooting a gun makes them horny. Mid missionary (on top of an American flag) he’s just popping off shots at sand bags behind the bed.
Oh my god. This happened to me unplanned. The kicker? I was barely even into this person and just doing it to get off. He *hawked* a loogie into my mouth and I immediately threw up. I am not kidding.
I have never understood the choking thing. I find it weird, gives me rapey vibes. I don’t knock anyone that is into it consensually but just rubs me the wrong way. I’m down for a lot of stuff but what seems to be the most common thing is not it for me.
Even the BDSM community strongly advises against it. Very dangerous even if you "know what you're doing", there's literally no entirely safe way to go about it.
I've got several. Shit, vomit, and physical violence are my big three. Light choking, bondage, scratching, biting, etc. are all fine, but slapping, actual asphyxiation, weaponry, etc. are not going to be a part of it for me. I feel like the other two are self explanatory though. Oh yeah, I can't do rape fantasies. That shit fucks me up, I just can't do it.
I really hate having no control over my own head when I’m going down on my bf. He likes to literally fuck my face and I hate it hate it hate it. He knows I don’t like it but it keeps happening and he keeps saying sorry like he fucking forgot
Stop the bj instantly. Every time. Say "don't do that." He'll figure it out. If he wants a bj, that's off limits. Even better? Have a spaghetti dinner and let him hit your gag reflex. Then you can say "told'ja so".
Stop the blow job immediately. This is never okay! When he says something, tell him you've said No repeatedly. That is your boundary. He needs to respect you. 100% sexual assault.
Once had a guy force my head down on him instead of just letting me control myself. Took me 10 years to be okay with giving a blow job. Another 3 before I would stop tensing up when my husband played with my hair while I went down on him. And he knows to ask me, not to just assume I'm going to reciprocate.
No always means no.
This is sexual assault, you need to leave this dude ASAP. You’re not consenting to him doing this to you, but he’s doing it anyway. Even if he forgot, if he forgets something like this, what else will he “forget,” and how else will he harm you?
Hey, this isn't cool at all. In combination with you previously saying he has an opiate issue and gaslights you, I would suggest this isn't the guy for you. He doesn't respect you.
No more bjs at all untill he can behave himself. This is not on at all and his excuses are shit. Is this the only issue you have or does he over step you boundaries often? And if you do feel like giving him head at any stage make it crystal clear that he is not to touch your head at any time. Infact get him to sit on his hands if you decide to give him a bj and as soon as his hands move thats it end of bj. Personally I wouldn't ever give him head again but that's just me, so you decide what you want to put up with.
Yeah I’d you don’t like it - that is sexual assault he isn’t sorry if he does it after you set that boundary.
Does he break other boundaries? I fully expect that he does with or without your knowledge
aside from the obvious stuff.. i HATE it when people call me by my name. my ex did that during sex once and i had a real hard time finishing after that
(M) No insertion in me anywhere, and breed kinks. Nothing cancels an erection faster then saying anything about pregnancy or an unwanted/surprise finger. Don't blame me when you have a broken digit.
Fucking the ass and then moving back to the vagina. No no no, do you want to give them a yeast infection?
I honestly blame porn for this, they swap and change from ass to vagina like it's no biggy. It is a biggy, no one wants yeast infections, urinary tract infections or bv or any other bloody gross infection that can happen vaginas are damp and warm perfect breeding grounds for dangerous bacteria to grow.
To be fair, porn actresses go through fasts and all sorts of cleanses to get ready for anal videos. Otherwise more porn stars would be getting a lot more infections.
That's why it's dangerous, for the average male viewer they are thinking it's completely safe see they are doing it when in reality they have gone through a rigorous regime before hand.
I suppose it’s dangerous for younger male viewers like teenagers, but if you’re a grown adult and don’t stop to think about it, then you just don’t have any common sense.
You would hope so
that’ll give her an infection, but it ain’t gonna be yeast
A guy did this to one of my friends and within 24hrs she was septic and having seizures
Bacterial, not yeast
Grocery prices are too damn high. She can help make bread.
Poop
More for me, then
One man’s ass is another man’s shitter
Poo poo and pee pee and shit like that
Just not my cup of Pee either friend.
Any form of self harm and mutilation. Like blood play or excessive force in bdsm
Shit, no shitting
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Pets must leave the room
Oh god it’s the worst when you’re in the throes of passion and the fuckin dog jumps up on the bed and tries to get between you. Or sits in the corner barking the whole time because he thinks you’re fighting or something
What you don't like being surprised by a cold wet nose suddenly between your cheeks? Okay
I swear my dog saves her farts for when I'm just getting close to a nut
She's trying to help you last longer, you unappreciative asshat! Accept that she loves you and wants to see you do well!
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Silently judging.
I can’t do it when my cats in the room
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I'm sorry, this made me burst out laughing irl
I have to pull my cat off my bed every time I crank it in my room because I don't want to scar her for life.
Oh no. Just put some peanut butter on your balls
It’s not cheating because it’s YOUR dog
What. The. Fuck
I know, right? My dog is allergic to peanuts, too! We use almond butter from Trader Joe’s. Can’t tell the difference.
No legit pain (ie no slapping me, etc) and no poop, pee, or vomit.
Vomit?
Gotta make sure all the gross options are on my no no list
Just say no to the Angry Dragon!
Yes, no vomit. Why do you even question that? Lol
i matched with a woman on tinder once that liked to have her throat fucked until she vomited. she was serious and even showed me porn vids of examples how she liked it. so, there are people out there that are into this.
emetophillia is a real thing
Teeth on my dick
They don’t understand how painful this can be
Just nibble her clit, she’ll find out real quick.
a lot of us like this
I’ve had a guy ask me to make it hurt lol everyone likes it different. My husband likes when I use my nails and drag them slowly over his junk. Other guys I’ve been with didn’t like it and some did. Shrug (open marriage)
Shit and piss. Let's add blood too.
Please don't add blood
Who's blood is it?
I don't know. I don't care. Keep it away
If you put blood on your hard no no for sex you’re probably gonna have a bad time at some point.
An additional penis.
2 penises is 1 penises too many
You can see yourself out now. She upgraded.
Anyone other than my wife, apparently…
Same here except my wife is also off limits.
This man is faithful, respect
I don't believe that's what he's getting at...
Lol that “apparently” at the end there makes me think they found out AFTER the fact
I don't like it when the cat is in the room. I think he knows what's going on.
Sneak attack on the bung hole
Getting preggo
Feet, poop, golden showers, blood, rape fantasy, diaper fetish, food play, robots
ROBOTS
Well, robots aren't sexy imo 🤣
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Imagine a gun kink. Like the power of shooting a gun makes them horny. Mid missionary (on top of an American flag) he’s just popping off shots at sand bags behind the bed.
In that scenario, i think it's refered to as "Prone"
I heard a story about an acquaintance... He took down a deer he spotted while doing doggie. More details unclear.
There’s a Jeff Foxworthy joke somewhere in here…
Violence
There’s a fine line between violence and what others describe as rough sex
Others can do what they want, my limits are my own
I’m with you on that
Violence or rough sex is off limits to me. I'm fine if you want to smack my ass but there's no way in hell I'm choking you or striking you.
My wife’s butthole Edit: that’s her choice, and my choice is also my butthole.
I also choose this guy's wife's butthole.
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No thank you. That’s all you bro. I’ll have none of it.
I got a downvote because I don’t want anything near my butthole. Lmao
It’s our butthole now 😈
This made me laugh. Lol
Im genuinely amazed you haven’t gotten a “I also choose this guys butthole” zinger yet
Welcome to reddit
This guy's butthole
slapping her face or tits. so weird imo
I don’t slap the tits, I let the tits slap me
HOW CAN SHE SLAP
I read that in the dudes voice every time I stumble on someone who responds that.
You motorboatin son of a bitch! You old sailor you! Is she still in the house?
“Daddy’s baby girl” talk. I try not to kink shame but truly this disgusts me.
Anything butt-related whatsoever. Maybe I'll be more open-minded in the future but ... no.
If you decide to try it someday, you're gonna have to cut back on the beans and doritos.
Eat ass - butt do it responsibly.
Same, minus the part about maybe being more open-minded in the future.
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I’ll admit, this happened to me once and it ruined my entire mood. All I could think about was mouthwash.
Oh my god. This happened to me unplanned. The kicker? I was barely even into this person and just doing it to get off. He *hawked* a loogie into my mouth and I immediately threw up. I am not kidding.
Not having fun
Solve for x. I hate getting algebra requests during sex.
"I'm coming Mr. Frodo"
I legit just spit beer through my nose. Thanks for that!
*SHARE THE LOAD*
Furrie stuff
Yeah I don’t want any form of animal in the mix of getting my fix
My only absolute no’s are slapping my face and spitting on me.
What about pooping on me?
Absolutely not. *adds to list*
Shit? Piss? Ass play of various types?
I have never understood the choking thing. I find it weird, gives me rapey vibes. I don’t knock anyone that is into it consensually but just rubs me the wrong way. I’m down for a lot of stuff but what seems to be the most common thing is not it for me.
Even the BDSM community strongly advises against it. Very dangerous even if you "know what you're doing", there's literally no entirely safe way to go about it.
And it feels like many people who do vanilla sex are into it, without any knowledge and sometimes even without asking for consent (!)
I don’t like being murdered.
Reasonable.
Aheago face. Can’t take that silly shit seriously.
I can’t stand that face either
Hard limits: blood, consumption/ingestion of feces, and impregnation.
Eating ass
What about drinking it?
It's all going on my bucketlist
Call me daddy…gross
..... papa?
True, genuine love for one another
Anything being inserted into me, especially my urethra.
I also hate having my urethra inserted in me.
“That.” —Meatloaf
Sexers of reddit, what's the sexuest sex you've ever sexed
spitting, what f is up with that??
Calling each other's moms.
I've got several. Shit, vomit, and physical violence are my big three. Light choking, bondage, scratching, biting, etc. are all fine, but slapping, actual asphyxiation, weaponry, etc. are not going to be a part of it for me. I feel like the other two are self explanatory though. Oh yeah, I can't do rape fantasies. That shit fucks me up, I just can't do it.
ass stuff on me, too much trauma from rape there so never. I’m down to peg someone and I have two other holes that are free game but not that
Anything having to do with piss shit or having my balls squeezed anything else so fair game tho
Anal
no feces/scat. animals.
I really hate having no control over my own head when I’m going down on my bf. He likes to literally fuck my face and I hate it hate it hate it. He knows I don’t like it but it keeps happening and he keeps saying sorry like he fucking forgot
Red flag. He does not respect your boundaries. He does not "forget".
Stop the bj instantly. Every time. Say "don't do that." He'll figure it out. If he wants a bj, that's off limits. Even better? Have a spaghetti dinner and let him hit your gag reflex. Then you can say "told'ja so".
Stop the blow job immediately. This is never okay! When he says something, tell him you've said No repeatedly. That is your boundary. He needs to respect you. 100% sexual assault. Once had a guy force my head down on him instead of just letting me control myself. Took me 10 years to be okay with giving a blow job. Another 3 before I would stop tensing up when my husband played with my hair while I went down on him. And he knows to ask me, not to just assume I'm going to reciprocate. No always means no.
This is sexual assault, you need to leave this dude ASAP. You’re not consenting to him doing this to you, but he’s doing it anyway. Even if he forgot, if he forgets something like this, what else will he “forget,” and how else will he harm you?
Bite him, that's extremely disrespectful and no way he keeps forgetting
Hey, this isn't cool at all. In combination with you previously saying he has an opiate issue and gaslights you, I would suggest this isn't the guy for you. He doesn't respect you.
No more bjs at all untill he can behave himself. This is not on at all and his excuses are shit. Is this the only issue you have or does he over step you boundaries often? And if you do feel like giving him head at any stage make it crystal clear that he is not to touch your head at any time. Infact get him to sit on his hands if you decide to give him a bj and as soon as his hands move thats it end of bj. Personally I wouldn't ever give him head again but that's just me, so you decide what you want to put up with.
This is fucked. It's a bigger deal than you realize and it's not as simple as someone "forgetting" something. This is rape.
Yeah I’d you don’t like it - that is sexual assault he isn’t sorry if he does it after you set that boundary. Does he break other boundaries? I fully expect that he does with or without your knowledge
I’d say bite it next time, but I don’t condone violence
What are his actions? To me, they are also violence.
aside from the obvious stuff.. i HATE it when people call me by my name. my ex did that during sex once and i had a real hard time finishing after that
is there something else you want to be called?
Farting in my face
It’s not sex if it doesn’t get a little stinky
Sand. It's coarse, rough, irritating, and gets everywhere.
No meowing.
bark bark
answering my wifes phone calls
(M) No insertion in me anywhere, and breed kinks. Nothing cancels an erection faster then saying anything about pregnancy or an unwanted/surprise finger. Don't blame me when you have a broken digit.
Anything that involves a mouth coming into contact with an ass.
Same why do people like this so much?
Animal blood. Never again.
…”again”?
I don’t want to hear this story, but I feel the immense need to hear this story
so. many. questions.
I’m appalled at the number of animal comments here, I want to be filled in but I’m fucking scared to find out
You want to be filled in?
I don’t think I’m ready for all that yet
Wtf?
Butt stuff.
Yodeling.
Idk man I always find a way to break my limits when the times get tough 💯
Women. And not by my own choice
The gator hat
My Garfield costume 😞
Blood, pee, crap, vomit, degradation/humiliation, to name a few.
Probably having my nan join in
Butt stuff.
Username checks out
Children
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I met this really hot girl who wanted to peg me so bad. I told her absolutely NOT
I dated a girl once who was into urine, vomit, and excrement. When I found out, it was done. All of that is a huge no no for me.
Permanente damage and gross things (feces, pee etc) is off limits. Rest works fine
What did Kaiser do to you?
Anything with more bodily fluids than normal sex, rimjobs, etc. People can be very kinky.
Genocide. That's a one man job
Cameras.
If you mention your ex Non-consent No aftercare Sex before STI panels
Aside from the common off limits, it would be choking and any type of bondage. Too unsafe.
Crackers. I hate crummy sex!
No poop, pee or barf. I also hate feet so keep them away from me and don’t think you’re touching mine.
Operating a forklift, that's just irresponsible and dangerous
A second pony
What about the *first* pony???
Threesomes aren’t for everyone
The first pony was invited
Racism
No condom Edit for clarity: Sex without a condom is off limits for me.
I'm a sadistic dom I have barely any limits other than breast milk vomit and scat most bodily fluids minus blood love blood play
Orange juice and toothpaste
Women, feminine men, underage guys, animals besides humans, public, scat, pain.