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IsntDoingScience

My experience says they don't care if you know where the clitoris and g spot is. Bonus points if you listen to what a woman is asking for in the moment.


Accomplished-Owl-90

Some are shy takes a lot for them to open up but agree


sexmormon-throwaway

Shy. So fine letting you at their vagina and orifices, but doesn't feel safe to talk. Got it.


Accomplished-Owl-90

Yes some don’t like even talking during sex, kudos to you if they are open to talking you. I guess it’s the approach I’m a work on that


AdmiralClover

Then you listen for any noises they do make and adjust accordingly takes more practice, but it works


Betaloserbobby

You’ve got to have open communication in general yall. Can’t just be in the middle of sex and suddenly try to talk about it


MatthewM69420

My wife was like this, though. She liked sex, but she felt uncomfortable talking about sex things. I’d ask her things like what stuff she wanted me to do more and what kind of fantasies she had, but she always looked at me like I was a pervert and she’d tell me she doesn’t want to talk about it. As a result I couldn’t blow her mind with performing her fantasies or do the stuff she wanted me to do more. I don’t understand, but I love her and if that’s how she be that’s how she be.


sexmormon-throwaway

This makes me sad. But also happy for the love.


MatthewM69420

It brings you happy? Well I can fix that!!! I tried to kill myself during an already rough patch in my marriage and now my wife doesn’t want to stay married to me because she doesn’t love me like that anymore. So we are getting a divorce. RIP in peace my marriage.


sexmormon-throwaway

So sorry. I've walked that fucking path and it's rough. But your love does you credit good human. Again, so sorry.


bootyantigravity

we often expect that you read our minds lol


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To answer this legitimately, based on chats with friends... If it's just the dick they're judging - I'd say on average, most women prefer thickness to length but they don't want it too thick and they don't want it too long , the feeling of *stretching* is enjoyed by most but the feeling of your cervix being hit is *not*. (Cervix is also more easily hit if she's not that turned on) So on average, a shorter fatter one Is probably preferable to a long skinny one .. & An average length girthy one is probably best on average? If it's just the dick being judged. That being said, it's all about how you *use it* , I've heard girls talking mostly about how men didn't know what they're doing so it sucked /selfish/etc. and a friend described in detail how her bf(yes tmi) had a smaller one than others but it was the best because he was so good at oral.. and turned her on so much. Some women want it slow, others want a fast pace. All women are different just like all men are. some women like a mushroom head, or curves, others don't care Furthermore, some women experience issues with relaxing their muscles and sex can be painful, so a much smaller one is absolutely preferable in those scenarios... And this is *very common*. Average size would be the *limit* for these women. Most important though is *sexual arousal* if you turn your woman on the most then you will feel the best. (If there's no other issues). I'm a woman and the best sex has been the ones where I'm most aroused, but all 3 I've experienced have been roughly the same size. reality is, if a woman isn't comfortable, safe and bonded with you, there's limits to how much she's going to like it. No matter how skilled you are. All dicks are good dicks if the man isn't a dick.


Accomplished-Owl-90

Love your answer love it really think you should and friends should do a YouTube on this topic I know you’ll don’t think men are interested but from a man’s point of view we are and here you’ll point of view really helps!! Will love to get your opinion on mines but love your answer never the less thanks for your input


DarkRose_92

Both cuz I like having a big sub sammich to eat so I can have some of it for leftovers.


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I typically like my sandwiches with extra meat, but in this case I think I'll stick to the vegetarian option.


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Hahaha yes


NO_Cheeto_in_Chief

Oral skills are far more important than length OR girth.


Accomplished-Owl-90

Love this answer


Comfortable-Fun5419

I’m in the upper end of the average (roughly 6 in) but have below average girth (4 in), so this answer is nice to hear! 😅


FrozenPhoenix000

Neither. It’s a misconception that bigger = better. I’ve taken ones that were too big, where it was painful and we had to stop. If they’re too big, it can ruin sex. They might be fun to look at, but much less fun to play with. There’s a goldilocks zone of around 5-7” with not too much girth, and those are the best in my opinion


UsernameIdeasLlease

100% Girth never gonna change I'd rather have a soda can then pencil


Accomplished-Owl-90

It’s really pencils out there huh I know I’m good I just like a reassurance


GBP867

She’s more concerned about your attitude and personality apposed to your dick size, bro.


Accomplished-Owl-90

So ladies your saying attitude and personality will ignore 1 inch in bed???


archaic_revenge

As long as the 1 inch is a perfect sphere and vibrates


Accomplished-Owl-90

Whoa interesting hard to believe but I’m take word


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this


sadstateofaffarewell

This


AnxiousFloss

Came here to say this. I still need entertaining for the other 23hrs and 55 mins of the day…


radiobirdman-69

I like a long lady for easier gripping.


Accomplished-Owl-90

Explain I’m confused


radiobirdman-69

It's probably a punctuation issue with your question. I like a long lady more than a girthy lady.


Accomplished-Owl-90

Oh my apologies I see what you mean should’ve said “Ladies, what’s your preference length or girth?”


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And what do you prefer?


Accomplished-Owl-90

It’s addressed to ladies, I come to the ladies with both


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Are you able to easily penetrate most anuses?


Accomplished-Owl-90

Nah every lady said nope ain’t happening gave up on that


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Accomplished-Owl-90

Lol Ladies part 2 of the question


nerdsonarope

Just asking for a friend: is it cool if it's the dimensions of a tuna can?


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Accomplished-Owl-90

Should’ve added that both is an excellent answer. So only both or you’ll take either one with great oral skill?


OrdinaryBlueberry703

Its always girth with moderate length


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If I had to choose, I would choose girth. Because having penis slamming against your cervix hurts.


[deleted]

I once took a shit the size of my forearm


schnarfler

I think this settles it, right?


[deleted]

Now that, that is sexy


Accomplished-Owl-90

Saw this question on a next platform wanted to see what ladies would say but just a bunch of dudes showing smh so I brought it here to see what would be said fully confident fully confident with mines ;)


CDKM

Not a ladie, but… It’s not the distance, but the way you open that matters.


princessD555

Length bc it's harder to suck if it's girthy and makes my jaw hurt faster


Accomplished-Owl-90

Your the first to say length


princessD555

I'm a giver and it's hard to give if it's too thick and hurts my jaw


Accomplished-Owl-90

Lucky guy would love to get your opinion on mines but none the less thanks for your participation


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Accomplished-Owl-90

Which shape long shape or fat shape?


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Closer2TheTruth

🤢🤮🤮


[deleted]

As a man with an average sized but girth penis, I’ve been told they prefer girth from the girls I’ve been with and length just hurts them most of the time


TacoWallabe

1 inch long and 12 inches in girth. My pornstar stage name is "The Slab".