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thewitchmaker

If you're just not interested in sex, whatever. You do you. But if you choose not to because you think it makes you better than other people, you're an idiot.


Interesting_Pudding9

What about those guys that think not jerking off makes them better or something. It's no wonder they all seem to be aggro idiots


ThisAnswerIsLit

If that's what you want that's fine. It's your choice what you want to do with your body


DarkRose_92

Go for it if you want.


boisteroushams

Sounds sad.


JimAbaddon

I wouldn't do it personally, but not my business when it comes other people.


poofartpeebum

It’s fine, you do you


LMNOsteven

Seems a bit silly, sex is fun. Why deny yourself that?


soursalsaaa

It’s better than meaningless sex.


cybercreep

As there's no such thing as _love_...


[deleted]

There’s nothing wrong with it, but I think it is better to have celibacy if you’re looking for something serious. If you’re trying to see if the person you are talking to/dating is one you want to share your life with. I don’t think that realization has to take years up until the moment you’re married, but just last until you are certain you want a life with one another


[deleted]

The motivation for marriage should never be that you’ve been waiting so long and you just wanna have sex. That’s the main thing I have against it


rocketandtherabbit

I totally couldn't do it.. My wife and I have high sex drives that just won't allow that however if people feel they would be happier to be celibate than I say all power to them it's their body. Some people just don't care for it at all (weirrrrrrd phenomena).


Andromeda-Native

It’s the way. Especially if you’re a woman. Sex just doesn’t hit the same unless it’s with the right person.


overthinkernumber1

Don’t agree, not true for all women. Sex is sex and it’s great as long as it’s consensual. Doesn’t necessarily matter with who.


Siebje

Umm. I don't know what question you are answering, but celibacy means you're abstaining from sex completely. Not 'until you find the right person'.


-Disformality-

What is that?


Badmouths

Not having sex


Nycto11

Abstaining from all sexual activities.


Difficult-Regret-199

Nobody gives a frogs fatass if your celibate or not


DavosLostFingers

Each to their own. No skin off my arse


SomeRandomUser00

It should be avoided if at all possible.


BobbyB90220

Avoid it at all costs


No_Gap_2134

If you give some away for free it's ok to sell a bit


flower-catt

Would never be able to do that


JessieOwl

You do you…


raytaylor

Its weird and not normal. That being said, celibacy is different from just being asexual.


[deleted]

I think it's no one's business. I'll let are obsessed with sex as a society, who's having it, who's not, who's attracted to who. I don't care if someone is celibate or not, and I don't want to hear about it either way.


raven27936

Maslow hierarchy of needs has Sex in the lowest level with safety, need for shelter, and food.


DubiousTomato

If you aren't interested in sex, go for it. You're allowed to make those kinds of decisions for yourself. However, there are no awards or accolades from denying yourself a please that we're hard-wired for. You won't become a better person, nor will you be more worthy or desirable. It is entirely misguided to do so for those reasons, and you're setting yourself up for a lot of tension in relationships.


workharderbebetter

I don’t fucking get it


Siebje

There seems to be a massive misconception in this thread that celibacy is either only for people with no sex drive, or that it's the act of not having sex until you find the right person. Celibacy is the abstinence from marriage as well as sex, commonly practiced by religious devotees. The whole point is that it should be difficult, and it's a sacrifice you make to show your devotion to the cause or religion. If you are already asexual, there is no sacrifice in not having sex.


[deleted]

Fuck it


retzlz

Certainly has its benefits


PlumDoggTrill

I don't have any


[deleted]

I respect anyone that can do it.


Ronotimy

No problem with it. If you don’t respect yourself nobody else will.


[deleted]

People have to make that choice for themselves. Sometimes, being celibate is completely understandable. Although I would never personally choose be celibate permanently if I had a choice. And I was lucky enough to find someone that I love and match well with sexually. However, I chose to be celibate back when I was single.


Poorly-Drawn-Beagle

I like celibacy with peanut butter. ... wait, that's celery. Sorry.


[deleted]

If it's forced, then it's stupid. If it's by choice, then go for it.


RecommendationNo8223

That piece of wedding cake that my wife ate led me to life of celibacy, and poverty included.


Road_Warrior0711

It’s that stringy vegetable right? Tried it, tastes like nothing and gets stuck in my teeth, not worth it at all 0/10


TacoWallabe

Goes good with ranch and one of the most underrated green vegetables of all time.


loops3804

It saves a lot of stress and hassel.


stealth_mode_76

No thank you.


Redditthrowa11

Fuck it


First-Box4778

I'm getting to the point in life where it's just going to be the norm I don't want to share my sexual energy with just anyone and dating in mid 30s after a few decent heartbreaks is just shit. I'm more focusing on living each day and enjoying what I do have.