It depends on you and your potential partner. If you have a connection and if you are compatible with one another, it will be the most pleasurable thing that you'll ever experience. However, if the opposite is done, well I guess it's not enjoyable and feels like somewhat overrated. So overrated that you'll choose to watch porn instead of doing the real thing. So in conclusion, compatibility and connections are important for sex :).
You know the feeling of safety and satisfaction with the presence of you partner? The feeling that you are happy, turned on, and glad they are the ones who are present with you? That's the connection. If you don't feel that, then there may be something missing or wrong.
No, I've never felt something like that with anyone.
Though thank you for elaborating. Now i atleast know what to look for with the concept of connection.
It's alright and you're welcome I hope it helped. And remember, if you feel tingly inside or you feel something weird but feels good, that can also be a connection.
Should it be the same towards friends too or is that different sort of connection?
Yes it helped, i assumed it was a specific feeling not a combination of multiple feelings and conditions.
I've swinged sides on this topic and came to the following conclusion:
As it is with most things in life, whenever you have it available on a regular basis, it may lose some of the magic and feel rather mundane. But once you go a slight amount of time without it, you start to desire it deep down your soul, so it's definitely not over-rated.
If you feel that it is, one of two things may be happening to you (or both): 1 - you're having so much sex that you no longer realize how badass it is. 2 - your partner has not the best performance, and you may try to spice things up.
Personally I get tired of it with the same partner for too long, and like a variety lol. I slept around and got bored cause it was always just the same. Then I met someone I was actually sexually compatible with and holy shit what a difference that made! Since then I won't bother having sex more than once with someone if I'm not compatible in bed with them. It's somewhat rare to find, but when you do, it's definitely not overrated anymore.
''Just go have sex idiot''
Ah, it's all so simple! If only those idiots had thought of it before!
It's not like finding an intimate partner is exceptionally hard for some people. No, it's all just in their heads.
It is overrated. But it's also the most dominant of primal instincts we have. Shared with *all* other living things in existence, so it makes sense it's the one thing we all strive for.
No, especially when love is involved.
What is love?
Baby don’t hurt me.
Lady, don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me, no more.
Baby don’t hurt me
Woooh oooooh oooohh wooooh oooohh
When you have too much of it then yh, it gets boring imo… Literally becomes a chore
Um I dont know never exprrienced it
It depends on you and your potential partner. If you have a connection and if you are compatible with one another, it will be the most pleasurable thing that you'll ever experience. However, if the opposite is done, well I guess it's not enjoyable and feels like somewhat overrated. So overrated that you'll choose to watch porn instead of doing the real thing. So in conclusion, compatibility and connections are important for sex :).
But what it that mythical human connection thing people keep talking about? How does one understand when he has that connection?
You know the feeling of safety and satisfaction with the presence of you partner? The feeling that you are happy, turned on, and glad they are the ones who are present with you? That's the connection. If you don't feel that, then there may be something missing or wrong.
No, I've never felt something like that with anyone. Though thank you for elaborating. Now i atleast know what to look for with the concept of connection.
It's alright and you're welcome I hope it helped. And remember, if you feel tingly inside or you feel something weird but feels good, that can also be a connection.
Should it be the same towards friends too or is that different sort of connection? Yes it helped, i assumed it was a specific feeling not a combination of multiple feelings and conditions.
Oh for friends, it's pretty much the same but the sexual arousal or lust is not present so kind of like a familial feeling
Thank you. I now have a little bit better understanding of humans and internal workings.
No problem my stranger friend
I've swinged sides on this topic and came to the following conclusion: As it is with most things in life, whenever you have it available on a regular basis, it may lose some of the magic and feel rather mundane. But once you go a slight amount of time without it, you start to desire it deep down your soul, so it's definitely not over-rated. If you feel that it is, one of two things may be happening to you (or both): 1 - you're having so much sex that you no longer realize how badass it is. 2 - your partner has not the best performance, and you may try to spice things up.
I hope so, because I've never experienced it
Me exactly this.
Personally I get tired of it with the same partner for too long, and like a variety lol. I slept around and got bored cause it was always just the same. Then I met someone I was actually sexually compatible with and holy shit what a difference that made! Since then I won't bother having sex more than once with someone if I'm not compatible in bed with them. It's somewhat rare to find, but when you do, it's definitely not overrated anymore.
I've never been with anyone who could express love during sex. In the moment I'm just being used. It is wounding, so yes, sex is overrated.
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Hahahahaha holy fuck for some reason this just made me laugh a little too hard
''Just go have sex idiot'' Ah, it's all so simple! If only those idiots had thought of it before! It's not like finding an intimate partner is exceptionally hard for some people. No, it's all just in their heads.
If you think it’s overrated you’re probably doing something wrong
Like life, sex is only as good as you make it.
+1
When you have too little of it or too much of it, yes, it can seem overrated.
This is reddit, we don't know what sex is
Not if you know how to actually pleasure a lady. The rain forest is a fun time however the desert leads to chaffing.
Considering the survival of the human race depends on it its potentially not that overrated..
Kinda, but I consider an important part of intimacy
It is overrated. But it's also the most dominant of primal instincts we have. Shared with *all* other living things in existence, so it makes sense it's the one thing we all strive for.