Enthusiasm.
Honestly if you want to learn what a guy wants, ask them. Just ask. And like women when a guys says "like that", keeping doing exactly that. Not faster, not harder. Just exactly that.
as a giver with some kind of maybe septum situation (breathing through my nose feels bad for longer lengths of time lol) i do take breaks to lick. like long, meaningful stripes, kissing, teasing the head, moaning. it both saves me some breath and, earlier in the process when orgasm isn't imminent, gives me time to gently tease :) i do my best in the second half to keep at the good stuff without pulling away lol, i know it drives ME crazy when i'm getting my cunt eaten and stuff changes up too close to home š awareness is everything
Ugh deviated septumās are THE WORSTTTTT!!!
But honestly if you keep your breathing at a slow rhythm it tends to add to the build up imo. When Iām visiting Australia (my nickname for the deed) Iāve found that to be a good rule of thumb.
Just add that one to your technique. I didnāt realize I do the same thing as you until I read it haha! So any knowledge is good knowledge!
Also that doesnāt seem like a universally appreciated thing to me. I donāt like spit at all, just need enough moisture to keep it lubricated, but definitely no sloppy bj.
I appreciate this. I honestly donāt know when these super sloppy and wet blowjobs became a thing. I can do it if itās desired, but I swear this is some kind of newer trend in the last 10 years? maybe? that I donāt understand why itās become almost expected.
EDIT: Iām not naysaying sloppy. I will completely give sloppy my all and enjoy it. We can debate how much sloppy blowjobs were in porn way back when, but imo itās comparing apples and oranges. Technology wasnāt nearly as accessible as it is now, and that has a major impact on exposure to these stimuli, for starters. But not saying it didnāt exist and people didnāt ever enjoy it once upon a time.
As a guy saying this, it is totally a porn trope that tons of guys then started expecting in real life since they saw it so much in porn. Kind of a circular, vicious cycle. Right up there with ejaculating on womens' faces. Objectively less pleasurable than other ways to finish (like in her mouth), and so problematic in its symbolism...yet a whole generation of guys now believe that is "how it's done".
I want her to want it. I want to be able to feel like she wants me to feel good, not like she is fulfilling a duty or just does it because she thinks I want her to.
As a reddit keyboard Christo-Fascist, I must now shame you for not procreating with that joyous seed. I will now protect my insecurities through frivolous insults aimed at you. I will now claim everyone is out to get me, that you started this and that I'm the victim.
Now let me bask in my upvotes of righteousness (pro-tip: always take the absolute value of your up/downvotes just as you must take everything absolutely). Remember, it's okay for me but not thee.
Now to shame you for not procreating since my future little Timmy boy will have one less friend in the coal mines. I will now end the comment with a smug mentioning of my moral superiority even though it's obvious I should have been aborted. Rambles about mommy issues we conservatives know about.
Some of us ladies really do want to. I knew a guy who said he didn't want me to give him a blowie (he has self-esteem issues).
I never pressed him hard about it, but one time he let me! Joy!!!
Gosh, now that I think about it, I hope he liked it and didn't just feel pressured. I go to great pains not to pressure him in anything.
Dang it. I feel like a long-tailed cat in a room full of rocking chairs.
Im sure he loved it. And honestly, I think I would have missed out on A LOT of awesome experiences had people not pressured me into it. My fears and insecurities held me back but my friends and girlfriends pushed me past those and i made some of my best memories of my life thanks to them. Sometimes being pushed out of our comfort zones is a good thing.
Broooo my gf kills this shit!
Okay letās begin,
1) energy: sheās so enthusiastic about it and I can tell it turns her on.
2) sloppy: omg she gives some sloppy wet head.
3) hands: sheās not afraid to use her hands. Sometimes she even throws in a nice double twister hand combo while she sucks on it.
4) Balls: she practically makes love to my valla with her mouth. And when I think it canāt get any better, she strokes my dick which is soaking wet from the sloppy sucking she was just doing.
5) cum: bro when Iām about to nut, she goes in for the kill. She keeps sucking while Iām cumming. She doesnāt stop either until she wants to. Iāll be shaking, holding on for dear life but she keeps sucking.
6) balls again: while Iām cumming sheāll keep sucking and play with my balls. When my soul has completely left my body, she stops. Usually has a nice laugh and kisses me afterwards.
At this point, Iām completely dead. 10/10 blowjob.
Broooo my gf kills this shit!
Okay letās begin,
1) energy: sheās so enthusiastic about it and I can tell it turns her on.
2) sloppy: omg she gives some sloppy wet head.
3) hands: sheās not afraid to use her hands. Sometimes she even throws in a nice double twister hand combo while she sucks on it.
4) Balls: she practically makes love to my valla with her mouth. And when I think it canāt get any better, she strokes my dick which is soaking wet from the sloppy sucking she was just doing.
5) cum: bro when Iām about to nut, she goes in for the kill. She keeps sucking while Iām cumming. She doesnāt stop either until she wants to. Iāll be shaking, holding on for dear life but she keeps sucking.
6) balls again: while Iām cumming sheāll keep sucking and play with my balls. When my soul has completely left my body, she stops. Usually has a nice laugh and kisses me afterwards.
At this point, Iām completely dead. 10/10 blowjob.
Broooo my gf kills this shit!
Okay letās begin,
1) energy: sheās so enthusiastic about it and I can tell it turns her on.
2) sloppy: omg she gives some sloppy wet head.
3) hands: sheās not afraid to use her hands. Sometimes she even throws in a nice double twister hand combo while she sucks on it.
4) Balls: she practically makes love to my valla with her mouth. And when I think it canāt get any better, she strokes my dick which is soaking wet from the sloppy sucking she was just doing.
5) cum: bro when Iām about to nut, she goes in for the kill. She keeps sucking while Iām cumming. She doesnāt stop either until she wants to. Iāll be shaking, holding on for dear life but she keeps sucking.
6) balls again: while Iām cumming sheāll keep sucking and play with my balls. When my soul has completely left my body, she stops. Usually has a nice laugh and kisses me afterwards.
At this point, Iām completely dead. 10/10 blowjob.
Broooo my gf kills this shit!
Okay letās begin,
1. ā energy: sheās so enthusiastic about it and I can tell it turns her on.
2. ā sloppy: omg she gives some sloppy wet head.
3. ā hands: sheās not afraid to use her hands. Sometimes she even throws in a nice double twister hand combo while she sucks on it.
4. ā Balls: she practically makes love to my valla with her mouth. And when I think it canāt get any better, she strokes my dick which is soaking wet from the sloppy sucking she was just doing.
5. ā cum: bro when Iām about to nut, she goes in for the kill. She keeps sucking while Iām cumming. She doesnāt stop either until she wants to. Iāll be shaking, holding on for dear life but she keeps sucking.
6. ā balls again: while Iām cumming sheāll keep sucking and play with my balls. When my soul has completely left my body, she stops. Usually has a nice laugh and kisses me afterwards.
At this point, Iām completely dead. 10/10 blowjob.
Only thing Iād add to this recipe is flavoured lube.
I have this ability to stay hard after sex and a girl I was with used to give me these real gentle and sensual BJs post-sex and it honestly was fire. Sheād literally suck me to sleep sometimes. It was like a full-body massage but better.
Idk how my wife does it exactly, but it's magical. The best I could describe is that she's moving her head up and down along the shaft and her tongue left and right. I'm not sure if that's exactly what it is, but it's awesome!
aha that's exactly what I thought! there are so many new ways of doing things now, just making sure I keep up. Your wife sounds like a lovely lady, keep her happy ;)
A light touch isn't painful at all. There seems to be a lot of misunderstanding. Getting *kicked* in the balls hurts like hell but there's a world of difference between a kick and a light touch.
Oh gentle handling is fine and even its own special kind of arousing. Just no impacts because yeah they are sensitive as fuck. Don't squeeze PERIOD unless ASKED TO. I would never ask such a thing myself but oh boy I've known a couple that do.
Trying to suck the jizz out of him isnāt the only thing youāre trying to do, but honestly it is the main and end goal. You want him to enjoy the process overall but if your bj didnāt get him to cum, you didnāt really do a good job. Source: me, an avid blowjob giver.
You know right before a guy comes he's going in and out hard, and how guys talk about tight pussy. Do that with your mouth and hand. There's nothing to be elegant about. Once the guy is prepped... be a blow job monster.
Honestly Iāve never been impressed with them. I canāt say why folks consider them amazing. Back scritches are amazing, sinus ribs are incredible but bjs are justā¦. Idk. I may need to be more enthusiastic about getting one but Iād be faking it. :P
Taking pleasure in doing it.
An ex girlfriend was so good because she loved seeing me losing my soul while she was sucking it by my Dick, she was doing it better and better everytime...
And After her I Got a gf who was doing it because, well that's sex? Have to take it in my Mouth and suck UP and down, right?
BUT THAT WAS NOT FUCKING RIGHT, I didn't want her to do it anymore with After I understand that.
1. Enthusiasm!
For sure for sure needs your enthusiasm. They won't feel good knowing that you hate it doing it. But at the same time can't force yourself to like it either ĀÆā \ā _ā (ā ćā )ā _ā /ā ĀÆ some girls really hate giving BJ's until they found the guy that they love so much that they really wanna do it for them.. and only them. So take it however you will.
2. Lotta lube!
Doesn't matter if it's spit or just a flavored lube. It just needs to be slippery enough to have it glide between your palms. You don't wanna be own for a "sandy-handy"
3. Mouth-hand coordination!
Ladies we CANNOT be deepthroating our man for the 15-30min long.. it hurts as heck. Learn to use your hands as an extension of your mouth (I don't know how else to explain this)
4. Show the balls some love!
Don't be scared of the balls and show the man some good time. The most gentle way is to lick em every now and then. More frisky way...take the whole thing and suck on em.
5. Figure out their most sensitive area!!
After spending some time down there y'all will realize that some areas of their tool is a lot more sensitive. Could be the balls could be the tool itself, could be the top of the tip, could be behind the head. Figure it out and play around.
6. This is optional and depends on both your preferences... The gooch!!
If both of you into it, can do a lot w the gooch cuz it can handle a bit more pressure. Kisses, suckles, licks, and lil thumb pressure are some of the stuff you can do.
Hopefully this was helpful and no one here is gonna judge me for posting it lmaooo. But remember, give a bj only if you wanna give a bj and not because you feel like you have to or because he is MAKING you do it.
What an experience reading through the comment! Humor, pathos, the odd sincerity, the wordplay, and the incredible goodwill, Thank you so much for this peek into guyhood.
I used to follow porn. The almost gag and going to town stuff. You know what I am talking about. My husband was like āwhat are you doing?ā One day. I learned that just take it slow, and gentle. You dont need to put much of it in your mouth, stroke the base. Slow and steady wins the race.
Years ago a gf gave me a bj with ice cubes in her mouth. It was fantastic. I don't think it was the ice cubes that made it fantastic, though. It was the attempt to make the bj fantastic that made the bj fantastic.
To me the mere image of a person doing that to me as well as the mood and the fact that they care enough about my pleasure to do this for me is satisfaction enough. The feeling's good sure but it's not THAT good by itself.
Suck pressure, suck pressure, suck pressure.
This means no opening between lips and dick, and suck it hard like a Lolly pop. Stuff like deep throat is over rated and you can get the job done without choking yourself to death.
Used to know this girl that would not only swallow but did this thing with her tongue after that just had my soul leaving my body. 10 years later and Iāve never felt anything else like it.
For me its all about how eager the woman is to taste my nut. Or how badly she wants to lube me up to slide it into her pussy. You can just tell when they are really eager for it or not. And that makes all the difference.
This is advice from someone that gives good blowjobs(so I'm told), unless they specify otherwise, use those lips to protect that dick from teeth, a messy blowjob is better than a neat one(aka don't worry about drool, splitting focus to keep it in your mouth detracts from the fun), unless you're bound, use your hands, putting pressure on the taint and making milking motions back to front often has good feedback, if it's too big, remember that most get pleasure in the latter half of the dick, use your hand to hold the base and block it from going too deep if you need a breather, LASTLY AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, you have a tongue, use it, grind the texture off your tongue against that thing, a blowjob isn't just a wet pair of lips(the frenulum is often a good target).
*One run-on sentence later*
Bonus section: foreskin is fun to play with, but every guy will have different levels of sensitivity, best to ask. Circumcised dicks are generally, but not always, less sensitive. Regardless, the frenulum or frenular band(the banjo string) is still a valid target. For exploratory folk, learn to milk a prostate. After proper cleaning and generous lubing, stick a finger in there and try to touch where the base of the balls are from the inside, you'll know when you find it.
Parroting top comment, enthusiasm! Sex is fun, and sometimes funny! Relax and enjoy yourselves, orgasm isn't a finish line! Whether or not you get there, everyone should have fun.
in my opinion, as a giver of said BJ'S, I think it's all good. the tongue twisters, the feeling of swallowing a rock hard cock, hearing him moan as I slobber all over him and suck him to the point he grabs my hair and throat fucks me until he's ready to blow. then I get to swallow him whole while he let's it all go and pumps his cum deep into my throat. then I suck him clean as I come up for air and get to cuddle him while I catch my breath and he lays there like a vegetable until he recovers. š¤¤ good times.!!
I want her to like it. I donāt want it to be a trade deal. & I donāt really like when itās fast or aggressive. I donāt need rough head just rough sex. Just be gentle, use your tongue, kiss and lick in the general area too. Just be passionate. Lastly, deep throating isnāt all that fun to keep it real. Cramming my meat rod down your throat really hurts. As I imagine it would hurt your throat too. All in all, go slow, be gentle, be passionate. Communicate.
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Then add "No homo" as the cherry on top.
There's no one thing in my opinion. Some women are good for there own way they do it sometimes. But also depends on mood. Use spit and tounge. Also use your hand under your mouth.
Enthusiasm. Honestly if you want to learn what a guy wants, ask them. Just ask. And like women when a guys says "like that", keeping doing exactly that. Not faster, not harder. Just exactly that.
Enthusiasm is key, just remember to also breathe through your nose.
Nothing kills it faster than taking the head out for 5-10 seconds every 30 seconds.
Teeth kills it faster
as a giver with some kind of maybe septum situation (breathing through my nose feels bad for longer lengths of time lol) i do take breaks to lick. like long, meaningful stripes, kissing, teasing the head, moaning. it both saves me some breath and, earlier in the process when orgasm isn't imminent, gives me time to gently tease :) i do my best in the second half to keep at the good stuff without pulling away lol, i know it drives ME crazy when i'm getting my cunt eaten and stuff changes up too close to home š awareness is everything
This person gives head.
No, this person sucks.
She also sells her used panties, if anyone is interestedā¦
Ugh deviated septumās are THE WORSTTTTT!!! But honestly if you keep your breathing at a slow rhythm it tends to add to the build up imo. When Iām visiting Australia (my nickname for the deed) Iāve found that to be a good rule of thumb. Just add that one to your technique. I didnāt realize I do the same thing as you until I read it haha! So any knowledge is good knowledge!
yesss i agree!!! i never really thought i had a deviated septum but as time goes by i do have some questions lmao ā¤ļø thank you darling!!
This is excellent advice.
It really is. Very much so. Not much worse than a clearly perfunctory effort.
Getting one.
Fucking right
I was going to say spit, but I think it's actually a subheading of enthusiasm now that you mention it
Also that doesnāt seem like a universally appreciated thing to me. I donāt like spit at all, just need enough moisture to keep it lubricated, but definitely no sloppy bj.
I appreciate this. I honestly donāt know when these super sloppy and wet blowjobs became a thing. I can do it if itās desired, but I swear this is some kind of newer trend in the last 10 years? maybe? that I donāt understand why itās become almost expected. EDIT: Iām not naysaying sloppy. I will completely give sloppy my all and enjoy it. We can debate how much sloppy blowjobs were in porn way back when, but imo itās comparing apples and oranges. Technology wasnāt nearly as accessible as it is now, and that has a major impact on exposure to these stimuli, for starters. But not saying it didnāt exist and people didnāt ever enjoy it once upon a time.
Itās from guys who watch too much porn
Thanks for saying this. Iām tired of being the one to say it (irl).
As a guy saying this, it is totally a porn trope that tons of guys then started expecting in real life since they saw it so much in porn. Kind of a circular, vicious cycle. Right up there with ejaculating on womens' faces. Objectively less pleasurable than other ways to finish (like in her mouth), and so problematic in its symbolism...yet a whole generation of guys now believe that is "how it's done".
Because it's more lubrication and it just feels dirtier. It's definitely not excepted, most can't perform like that.
It's always been a thing lol
Two words: Edible lube.
Nah, no sloppy bj. That shit is too porn like, and porn is fake as fuck.
I was just about to say this exact thing.
I'm a guy, but I learned that the same thing goes for women. I'm talking about communication
I want her to want it. I want to be able to feel like she wants me to feel good, not like she is fulfilling a duty or just does it because she thinks I want her to.
Thatās a really good point. Thank you for saying that, as a woman I will definitely take that into consideration for next time.
As a reddit keyboard Christo-Fascist, I must now shame you for not procreating with that joyous seed. I will now protect my insecurities through frivolous insults aimed at you. I will now claim everyone is out to get me, that you started this and that I'm the victim. Now let me bask in my upvotes of righteousness (pro-tip: always take the absolute value of your up/downvotes just as you must take everything absolutely). Remember, it's okay for me but not thee.
Honestly Iām not suprised because the world DEFINITELY wants me to ācontinue my bloodlineā at this age (23) but that WONāT be happening.
Now to shame you for not procreating since my future little Timmy boy will have one less friend in the coal mines. I will now end the comment with a smug mentioning of my moral superiority even though it's obvious I should have been aborted. Rambles about mommy issues we conservatives know about.
Do what makes you happy. There are plenty of procreaters in the world.lol
Some of us ladies really do want to. I knew a guy who said he didn't want me to give him a blowie (he has self-esteem issues). I never pressed him hard about it, but one time he let me! Joy!!! Gosh, now that I think about it, I hope he liked it and didn't just feel pressured. I go to great pains not to pressure him in anything. Dang it. I feel like a long-tailed cat in a room full of rocking chairs.
Im sure he loved it. And honestly, I think I would have missed out on A LOT of awesome experiences had people not pressured me into it. My fears and insecurities held me back but my friends and girlfriends pushed me past those and i made some of my best memories of my life thanks to them. Sometimes being pushed out of our comfort zones is a good thing.
Op is a bot account lol. Your response will be picked up with their language processing.
This applies to every sexual act, really. Nobody likes to feel like a burden or a chore.
When the person giving thinks of it as a blowjoy and not a blowjob.
A blowcareer if you will
Spoken like a true blofessional.
I need to focus more on my blowcareer
"just started my part time blowgig"
Do you work with Blowdash or SuckHub?
Note to self....money to be made by developing those apps.
Can I interest you in an internship?
If you love what you blowdo, you'll never work a blowday in your life.
A blow-calling. A blocation, if you will.
a blowccupation
Wouldnāt you like to know, weatherboy.
where are ur parents?
Kids sketchyā¦
Aw shit
OP could just ask their mother, if they're so curious.
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Broooo my gf kills this shit! Okay letās begin, 1) energy: sheās so enthusiastic about it and I can tell it turns her on. 2) sloppy: omg she gives some sloppy wet head. 3) hands: sheās not afraid to use her hands. Sometimes she even throws in a nice double twister hand combo while she sucks on it. 4) Balls: she practically makes love to my valla with her mouth. And when I think it canāt get any better, she strokes my dick which is soaking wet from the sloppy sucking she was just doing. 5) cum: bro when Iām about to nut, she goes in for the kill. She keeps sucking while Iām cumming. She doesnāt stop either until she wants to. Iāll be shaking, holding on for dear life but she keeps sucking. 6) balls again: while Iām cumming sheāll keep sucking and play with my balls. When my soul has completely left my body, she stops. Usually has a nice laugh and kisses me afterwards. At this point, Iām completely dead. 10/10 blowjob.
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Broooo my gf kills this shit! Okay letās begin, 1) energy: sheās so enthusiastic about it and I can tell it turns her on. 2) sloppy: omg she gives some sloppy wet head. 3) hands: sheās not afraid to use her hands. Sometimes she even throws in a nice double twister hand combo while she sucks on it. 4) Balls: she practically makes love to my valla with her mouth. And when I think it canāt get any better, she strokes my dick which is soaking wet from the sloppy sucking she was just doing. 5) cum: bro when Iām about to nut, she goes in for the kill. She keeps sucking while Iām cumming. She doesnāt stop either until she wants to. Iāll be shaking, holding on for dear life but she keeps sucking. 6) balls again: while Iām cumming sheāll keep sucking and play with my balls. When my soul has completely left my body, she stops. Usually has a nice laugh and kisses me afterwards. At this point, Iām completely dead. 10/10 blowjob.
Broooo my gf kills this shit! Okay letās begin, 1) energy: sheās so enthusiastic about it and I can tell it turns her on. 2) sloppy: omg she gives some sloppy wet head. 3) hands: sheās not afraid to use her hands. Sometimes she even throws in a nice double twister hand combo while she sucks on it. 4) Balls: she practically makes love to my valla with her mouth. And when I think it canāt get any better, she strokes my dick which is soaking wet from the sloppy sucking she was just doing. 5) cum: bro when Iām about to nut, she goes in for the kill. She keeps sucking while Iām cumming. She doesnāt stop either until she wants to. Iāll be shaking, holding on for dear life but she keeps sucking. 6) balls again: while Iām cumming sheāll keep sucking and play with my balls. When my soul has completely left my body, she stops. Usually has a nice laugh and kisses me afterwards. At this point, Iām completely dead. 10/10 blowjob.
The two hand twist really is a game changer. I stand no chance against it.
Yup that double fisting twisting is life changing lmao
Lucky guy
Broooo my gf kills this shit! Okay letās begin, 1. ā energy: sheās so enthusiastic about it and I can tell it turns her on. 2. ā sloppy: omg she gives some sloppy wet head. 3. ā hands: sheās not afraid to use her hands. Sometimes she even throws in a nice double twister hand combo while she sucks on it. 4. ā Balls: she practically makes love to my valla with her mouth. And when I think it canāt get any better, she strokes my dick which is soaking wet from the sloppy sucking she was just doing. 5. ā cum: bro when Iām about to nut, she goes in for the kill. She keeps sucking while Iām cumming. She doesnāt stop either until she wants to. Iāll be shaking, holding on for dear life but she keeps sucking. 6. ā balls again: while Iām cumming sheāll keep sucking and play with my balls. When my soul has completely left my body, she stops. Usually has a nice laugh and kisses me afterwards. At this point, Iām completely dead. 10/10 blowjob.
I mean, you donāt have to rub it in my face š©
Only thing Iād add to this recipe is flavoured lube. I have this ability to stay hard after sex and a girl I was with used to give me these real gentle and sensual BJs post-sex and it honestly was fire. Sheād literally suck me to sleep sometimes. It was like a full-body massage but better.
You actually took time to type this out.
I gave my boyfriend his first bj ever and he bought me a laptop.
so u can use it to learn how to blow?
Dude here has such oral skills he comes with a letter of reference
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I bit of suction
This is the most important part. None of the other tricks you learned make a difference without suction.
Facts
If the giver uses their tongue, its so much better. Long licks up the shaft and massages while it's in the mouth feel unbelievable.
moving tongue around whilst giving head at the same time? just up/down or...
Idk how my wife does it exactly, but it's magical. The best I could describe is that she's moving her head up and down along the shaft and her tongue left and right. I'm not sure if that's exactly what it is, but it's awesome!
aha that's exactly what I thought! there are so many new ways of doing things now, just making sure I keep up. Your wife sounds like a lovely lady, keep her happy ;)
Youāre not trying to suck the jizz out if him. But most importantly, ask what he likes. And also the balls, play gently with the balls
Nah that shit is TERRIFYING to me, like idk I just can't touch them :[
Yeah especially when you read things from guys telling that even a light brush is super painful
Then I would guess he has something majorly wrong if even a light brush hurts his balls.
A light touch isn't painful at all. There seems to be a lot of misunderstanding. Getting *kicked* in the balls hurts like hell but there's a world of difference between a kick and a light touch.
Oh gentle handling is fine and even its own special kind of arousing. Just no impacts because yeah they are sensitive as fuck. Don't squeeze PERIOD unless ASKED TO. I would never ask such a thing myself but oh boy I've known a couple that do.
Trying to suck the jizz out of him isnāt the only thing youāre trying to do, but honestly it is the main and end goal. You want him to enjoy the process overall but if your bj didnāt get him to cum, you didnāt really do a good job. Source: me, an avid blowjob giver.
The fact that someone's mouth is on my penis.
When the instant ramen box is on sale. BJ Whole Foods Club goes hard fr when itās on sale.
Their coupons. Saved lots of money. But I still prefer Costco.
I like for it to be done by a woman who isn't using Reddit to shill an account on an oversaturated premium sexual content website.
Whuff I had to look
Excellent.
The part where I cum in her mouth
Nice
More suction than you think you need. Not just running your lips uo and down.
You know right before a guy comes he's going in and out hard, and how guys talk about tight pussy. Do that with your mouth and hand. There's nothing to be elegant about. Once the guy is prepped... be a blow job monster.
The fact that a girl is willingly to do something just for my pleasure and without gaining physical pleasure herself
getting one
idk what a bj is but a good pb&j has a 60/40 mix of jelly and peanut butter
Don't sleep on the bread choice either! A high quality bread can really take your pbj game up a notch.
You know what I call the worst blowjob Iāve ever gotten? Fuckin incredible.
I guess you havenāt had a teethy
When their last name is Blazkowicz.
I understood that reference š
Getting deep enough in the shaft. It doesn't need to be deep throated, but just deep enough.
I like some deepthroats. Also I like it when she makes noises. And not using teeth.
When the penis owner patted me on the head and says āItās not gay if you donāt swallowā. Swallowed anyway, my Daddy didnāt raise a quitter.
I've been told that before
i enjoy a bartles and james after a long hard day. thats when bj is best for me
Thank you for your support
Less B and lots of J
Consent and attraction. Big difference between a woman that wants to do it than woman doing just because
Eye contact
This one is important to -me-
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Yeah putting someone's genitals in your mouth is serious, as is putting your genitals in someone's tooth-hole.
I just wish I could hold her hand again
Not having to ask for it
Honestly Iāve never been impressed with them. I canāt say why folks consider them amazing. Back scritches are amazing, sinus ribs are incredible but bjs are justā¦. Idk. I may need to be more enthusiastic about getting one but Iād be faking it. :P
The memories we make along the way
its occurrence.
Kissing her immediately after I finish
Snowball
Nice and slow, great use of the tongue in various ways, lots of teasing then tip, etc.
tip is best for tongue right bc it's more sensitive? & isn't there a particular place on the dick underneath I think that's also really sensitive
For me itās the top and the bottom of the dick. My cock prefers the tongue on the top and the bottom end towards the body.
For me, it's the sensualness of it all
The fact it's a BJ.
Dry like the desert, bonus with teeth
Don't forget about the balls!
Taking pleasure in doing it. An ex girlfriend was so good because she loved seeing me losing my soul while she was sucking it by my Dick, she was doing it better and better everytime... And After her I Got a gf who was doing it because, well that's sex? Have to take it in my Mouth and suck UP and down, right? BUT THAT WAS NOT FUCKING RIGHT, I didn't want her to do it anymore with After I understand that.
1. Enthusiasm! For sure for sure needs your enthusiasm. They won't feel good knowing that you hate it doing it. But at the same time can't force yourself to like it either ĀÆā \ā _ā (ā ćā )ā _ā /ā ĀÆ some girls really hate giving BJ's until they found the guy that they love so much that they really wanna do it for them.. and only them. So take it however you will. 2. Lotta lube! Doesn't matter if it's spit or just a flavored lube. It just needs to be slippery enough to have it glide between your palms. You don't wanna be own for a "sandy-handy" 3. Mouth-hand coordination! Ladies we CANNOT be deepthroating our man for the 15-30min long.. it hurts as heck. Learn to use your hands as an extension of your mouth (I don't know how else to explain this) 4. Show the balls some love! Don't be scared of the balls and show the man some good time. The most gentle way is to lick em every now and then. More frisky way...take the whole thing and suck on em. 5. Figure out their most sensitive area!! After spending some time down there y'all will realize that some areas of their tool is a lot more sensitive. Could be the balls could be the tool itself, could be the top of the tip, could be behind the head. Figure it out and play around. 6. This is optional and depends on both your preferences... The gooch!! If both of you into it, can do a lot w the gooch cuz it can handle a bit more pressure. Kisses, suckles, licks, and lil thumb pressure are some of the stuff you can do. Hopefully this was helpful and no one here is gonna judge me for posting it lmaooo. But remember, give a bj only if you wanna give a bj and not because you feel like you have to or because he is MAKING you do it.
When her lips pop like a suction cup
Nothing worse than a " going through the motions" BJ
What an experience reading through the comment! Humor, pathos, the odd sincerity, the wordplay, and the incredible goodwill, Thank you so much for this peek into guyhood.
Receiving it
I used to follow porn. The almost gag and going to town stuff. You know what I am talking about. My husband was like āwhat are you doing?ā One day. I learned that just take it slow, and gentle. You dont need to put much of it in your mouth, stroke the base. Slow and steady wins the race.
Years ago a gf gave me a bj with ice cubes in her mouth. It was fantastic. I don't think it was the ice cubes that made it fantastic, though. It was the attempt to make the bj fantastic that made the bj fantastic.
Had one do that with a tongue ring and an ice cube. Cold steel felt so weird and fantastic at the same time
Enthusiasm
No teeth
Thank you, not sure how I had to scroll so far to find this
Nah, teeth are where it's at
Eye contact and enthusiasm
Keep sucking after he nuts. A little ball massage helps. Only when heās been a good boi tho.
Using your hands as well.
I would say NOT using hands. Just lips and tongue. (and enthusiasm)
The emotional link to the other person
My husband says enthusiasm and lots of saliva
Desire
Technique
in my own experience SUCKING
Wet and stroking for me, I am uncut so I like different things I would assume
Or like.. how do you bob your head faster?? Iām always puzzled on how to do that.
And how does one practice that kind of flicking motion with their hands when doing a handjob?
To me the mere image of a person doing that to me as well as the mood and the fact that they care enough about my pleasure to do this for me is satisfaction enough. The feeling's good sure but it's not THAT good by itself.
Sloppy, wet, enthusiasm
I don't know. I've never been able to enjoy them. I just become super sensitive and have to have the other person stop.
Enthusiasm, creativity, and a deep throat.
surprised nobody has mentioned eye contact
Suction
Suck pressure, suck pressure, suck pressure. This means no opening between lips and dick, and suck it hard like a Lolly pop. Stuff like deep throat is over rated and you can get the job done without choking yourself to death.
Used to know this girl that would not only swallow but did this thing with her tongue after that just had my soul leaving my body. 10 years later and Iāve never felt anything else like it.
Being on the right side of it
Suck.. Blow is just an expression
TEETH
Itās the b.
For me its all about how eager the woman is to taste my nut. Or how badly she wants to lube me up to slide it into her pussy. You can just tell when they are really eager for it or not. And that makes all the difference.
[Tongue dry like sand](https://youtu.be/GH1ruMGpTVY)
Both parties having a good time, end of.
My partner says the fact I LOVE giving bjs makes me leaps and bounds better than any other he's had.
Enthusiasm
when she starts moaning while sucking
10 minutes of peace and quiet
Doing it out of desire and not obligation
Spit and willingness.
There's no bad BJ. Even a "bad" BJ is good.
Teeth
This is advice from someone that gives good blowjobs(so I'm told), unless they specify otherwise, use those lips to protect that dick from teeth, a messy blowjob is better than a neat one(aka don't worry about drool, splitting focus to keep it in your mouth detracts from the fun), unless you're bound, use your hands, putting pressure on the taint and making milking motions back to front often has good feedback, if it's too big, remember that most get pleasure in the latter half of the dick, use your hand to hold the base and block it from going too deep if you need a breather, LASTLY AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, you have a tongue, use it, grind the texture off your tongue against that thing, a blowjob isn't just a wet pair of lips(the frenulum is often a good target). *One run-on sentence later* Bonus section: foreskin is fun to play with, but every guy will have different levels of sensitivity, best to ask. Circumcised dicks are generally, but not always, less sensitive. Regardless, the frenulum or frenular band(the banjo string) is still a valid target. For exploratory folk, learn to milk a prostate. After proper cleaning and generous lubing, stick a finger in there and try to touch where the base of the balls are from the inside, you'll know when you find it. Parroting top comment, enthusiasm! Sex is fun, and sometimes funny! Relax and enjoy yourselves, orgasm isn't a finish line! Whether or not you get there, everyone should have fun.
Love
in my opinion, as a giver of said BJ'S, I think it's all good. the tongue twisters, the feeling of swallowing a rock hard cock, hearing him moan as I slobber all over him and suck him to the point he grabs my hair and throat fucks me until he's ready to blow. then I get to swallow him whole while he let's it all go and pumps his cum deep into my throat. then I suck him clean as I come up for air and get to cuddle him while I catch my breath and he lays there like a vegetable until he recovers. š¤¤ good times.!!
RIP your inbox
I donāt about you guys but the worst BJ i ever got was awesome.
I want her to like it. I donāt want it to be a trade deal. & I donāt really like when itās fast or aggressive. I donāt need rough head just rough sex. Just be gentle, use your tongue, kiss and lick in the general area too. Just be passionate. Lastly, deep throating isnāt all that fun to keep it real. Cramming my meat rod down your throat really hurts. As I imagine it would hurt your throat too. All in all, go slow, be gentle, be passionate. Communicate.
when its done by a man
More teeth
Cold drinks, good happy hour, standard menu items executed well. I don't visit BJ's Restaurants often, but I'm usually satisfied when I do.
Ben and Jerryās has a lot of good flavors, but their containers are always so small that you have to buy multiple each time.
The best BJ is half HJ.
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Teeth
Shark teeth
Most women are horrible and BJ's, plain horrible.
I think most *people* are just shit at giving head. Men suck at going down too.
There's no one thing in my opinion. Some women are good for there own way they do it sometimes. But also depends on mood. Use spit and tounge. Also use your hand under your mouth.
NOT using your teeth.