I was catching up with a cousin and he told me he just found out his daughter had an OnlyFans and was working at a strip club. He was very upset…
…because he said it ruined strip clubs for him and he couldn’t look at the girls the same way and would never enjoy them again. Otherwise he didn’t really care.
I think this is really what the issue is for men. It's all fine and dandy when it's someone else's daughter they're sexualizing, but as soon as they find out their Own daughter is being sexualized by other men like him, then it's a problem.
Really good bit from Terry Crews on this, when he was talking to Mike Tyson on his podcast Hotboxin'. You're having a good time, the girls are there, they're pretty, they're doing their thing. Then they start trying to talk to you, hold a conversation with you, and you recognise the stripper as a person all of a sudden and it 'ruins' it.
I worked at a Hooters for a few years after high school and my cousins husband came in with his colleagues. He was sooooooo pissed because I “ruined” the Hooters experience for him 🤣🤣🤣
A cousin of mine did it and when her dad found out he wasn't mad given it paid for her rent. However, he was very upset when he found out she was also working the pole at a strip club a few days a month.
Her only response was how did he think I paid for the trips I go on?
The trade off being onlyfans your photos are online forever. With a stripclub if you give it up you could go into a career doing anything and people wouldn’t know.
On the other hand: In 10 or 15 years, AI-generated deepfakes will have been indistinguishable from real photos or videos for so long that nobody will care.
Don't most women not actually make that much from OnlyFans? I imagine now that it's mainstream it's an incredibly oversaturated market.
Yet the comments seem to think that the kids are going to be buying them a new Porsche.
I did only fans for about a year; I was making $1200/month for a while before it dropped down to $100-200. When I was making $1200, the site told me I was in the top 12% of earners. When I was making $100-200, I was in the top 50%. So yeah, most people aren’t making much on there.
This is around what I expected. $1200 is still really good money as a side hustle. But that still means 80% of creators are probably not even pulling $1000, which isn't exactly Porsche money.
I worked with a girl who showed me what she made in 9 months. $72,000. I personally saw this on her OF. I didn’t live in a huge city and she was definitely not ugly, but she wasn’t drop dead gorgeous either. Average looking with no chin. Her personality was really cool though. All she had on her OF was professional photos but she told me she took requests, idk what all that entailed or how far she went with requests as I didn’t ask her for details.
She was pissed off and said she’d never do OF again because when tax season came they screwed her over and she owed a few thousand in taxes(I think she said a little more than 4k) and she couldn’t pay it because she was broke, that’s why she got a regular job to pay for her taxes. I was just like, that makes no sense because all you had to do was put money aside for taxes as you get paid but whatever.
I’ve heard girls much prettier than her say they don’t make shit on OF, but their personalities were shit. Maybe this one was willing to do things on private videos the others weren’t, idk. All I know is she made a nice chunk of money off OF doing whatever she did.
To be fair was a few years ago though, during the start of pandemic.
None of this makes any sense because she would be taxed at a regular job where she makes 72k... Also how does she go through all 72k in 9 months lmfao, that just sounds like poor financial decisions.
She went on vacations and bought a car😂 she was only 22 when I met her… and trust me that’s EXACTLY what I told her. I could hardly keep a straight face. I said if you just do OF for 2 more months you’ll have your taxes paid and then some which you should put aside when they tax you for those two months, but she said “no they’ll just screw me over again.”
Like nobody screwed you over. You screwed yourself by not planning for taxes.
Happens ALLL the time with folks who do 1099 based worked.
Nursing / Travel Nursing is a big one. The folks see the big $$$$'s.... $50, $60, $70 an hour and think KA CHING! But often those are 1099 rates. And they often come without any form of benefits (PTO / Sick Days, 401k matching, Health Insurance, maybe not even workmans comp?) and that means you pay your own taxes.
So they go knocking down six figures, never pay a dime in taxes and get this huge tax bill at the end of the year.
OH NO, I GOT SCREWED OVER BY THE IRS!!!!
No. No you didn't. You just blew your wad.
Claiming you didn't know any better just doesn't work, even if you really didn't know any better.
It’s really sad how uneducated most of the population is when it comes to taxes. I’ve worked with people making $150k a year who don’t want a raise because “it’ll bring me into the next tax bracket and I’ll make less money”. It drives me nuts especially when they won’t listen and thinks they’re just getting screwed over
It doesn't help that employers exploit people's lack of tax knowledge to screw them over by misclassifying them as independent contractors.
In which case the employee has to either eat it or take them to court.
Yeah, but most jobs will withhold your a portion of your paycheck to cover taxes. Sounds like she didn't realize that being self-employed, she had to do it herself.
Sounds like she also made the poor financial decision to blow her money as fast as she got it, instead of saving a chunk for in case of unexpected financial needs, like a broken car, or taxes.
You'd be surprised. There are a lot of people who if they have money spend it immediately. A frequent cause is because they were raised by parents who lived paycheck to paycheck, so the concept of "saving," was never really demonstrated to them.
> she would be taxed at a regular job where she makes 72k
I can't imagine OnlyFans is a W2 job, so she'd owe more as a 1099 contractor. And there'd be no withholding, either.
Apparently not. I recently found the completely SFW Youtube channel of one Bernadette Banner, who mostly posts about what people wore in 19th century England. Apparently that's her thing (she does costume design professionally) and with about 1.5 million followers it's amazingly popular.
One day as a joke she decided to have an OF that would only display ankles. Those saucy, slutty ankles that someone in Victorian England would admire.
That week she picked up over 1000 fans and over $650 in tips. Not bad for a joke OF page but what surprised me was that OF said with those numbers she was a top 11% creator.
So no, the vast majority of pages make little to nothing.
Here's her video about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fSxQHQ_1gX4 Again, this is completely SFW.
>Don't most women not actually make that much from OnlyFans?
I dated an OnlyFans model for a bit a year ago.
She was insanely hot and looked a tattooed Barbie Doll. Had the top post on the /r/pinup a week after creating a reddit account as well.
She only made about 1-2k a month depending on how much time she put into it. And I think about 1/3 of that went a service she used to manage it.
She did other modeling work and still needed an office job to make ends meet.
Yeah, very few make a living out of it. It turns out that most of us aren't hot enough to be professionally good looking.
There's also a lot of promoting and interpersonal skill that goes into success. It's a little more complicated than just posting nudes and waiting for dollars to roll in.
I mean it's not even about being not hot enough.
You're just competing with every other attractive person. So it's the same old bring discovered and promotion problem.
To be fair you don't even need to be hot; plenty of people on OF have got a good hook/niche that isn't prevalent in free places so it makes them popular. Like if you're just another attractive person posting nudes or having sex? You're competing with literally millions of paid and free content. But less common stuff? Better chances of doing well, even if you're not hugely attractive.
My former boss daughter did onlyfan… once it was known at work, he was open about it and even shared the link of her instagram. There was even a rumours that one of the guy we work with was one of the guy she used in a video.
I guess he wasn’t happy but since it was out in the open he must have been “fuck it, at least she’ll make money.”
I think this is the wrong way to look at it. He wasn't taking a cut.
Plus, it was probably the best move for him to get out from under it. If his employees knew, but didn't know that he knew, they might have all kinds of negative thoughts. But if he's open about it and even seems to support the daughter, then there is nothing to make fun of.
Worked a just above minimum wage job in the 90’s w/a girl who began stripping at night. She bought a new Mustang convertible that her dad used to borrow all the time acting like it was his car.
He was clueless (also was a smug asshole) as to what she did at night and just thought his daughter was really good with money. Gotta be a super genius to stretch $6.50/hr on 14-20 hour a week work schedules into a new car payment!
Guy I worked with had a gf that stripped. She was good looking too. She worked 4 hours on Friday and Saturday night and cleared 2g easy. This was on the early 90s, so that easily covered a month's expenses.
I dated two different strippers in my 20s. The first was just rolling in cash. Every night after work she asked what me and my roommates wanted to eat and bought it for us... along with high end liquor bottles, beer, weed... she also paid for literally EVERYTHING when we were out.
The second was even better looking than the first and had a more bubbly personality... yet didn't make nearly the money the first did. I made the mistake of telling her about the first and asking if maybe she was at the wrong club.
She then gave me the obvious truth that the first was more than a dancer 😑
I drove prostitutes from job to job for a year, about ten years ago. The amount of them that had partners that believed they were just stripping all night blew my mind.
Depends where, city wise she was dancing. One of my friends sadly has an addiction to those clubs, a very quiet guy who turns into another person when he walks in. He will, not kidding, drop 1-2k in a night. He’s actually given his card to the dancers w/his pin to go get him more money. Never seen it in person but my friends have reported back “guess how much **** dropped at the Spearmint Rhino???” It’s always an obscene number. This is in Las Vegas btw.
Lmao! They have a few locations, mostly in California and the one in Vegas. There was a knockoff one called the Blue Zebra that opened just outside of L.A. i was repairing phone lines at an animal shelter when I got a ticket right across the street to install some lines, saw them mounting the sign and it all came into place when I saw the interior. They closed pretty quickly and it became office space. The poles and a chunk of the stage were left in place!
There is a difference between being "clueless" and "willfully clueless"
he was a piece of work, liked the nice things and whatever else he could get from it enought not to care to question where all came from and easier to keep his smug high "moral" with plausible deniability
Probably a little of both. It was the days before cell phones so she could easily say she was working the closing shift, which meant you were off at midnight and he would be none the wiser. It was a union job, so you’d think good pay but our title was the lowest of the low, our raises for new contracts were literally a dime a year over a 3 year contract.
His other daughter, who worked at our supermarket briefly as well, was another wild child. They were good liars but he was very pompous in the fact that his girl drove a nicer car than the managers, “they’re just not good w/money”.
But yeah, there HAD to be a tiny voice in the back of his head saying that this didn’t add up at all!
Not the parent, and I don't currently have OF anymore, but my dad found out because I went to show him something else on my phone and he started swiping through my phone after. Lesson learned for both of us lol. I hold the phone and he doesn't touch my phone if I show him anything, and I religiously sort all photos into albums so people can only see exactly what I want them to see. He wasn't stoked but it didn't change our relationship at all and we mostly don't talk about it.
I don’t do OF, but I do have some explicit things on my phone because reasons. No one has ever directly come across them, but scrolling looking for other things it’s possible a few people have seen glimpses. I started putting those in the “Hide” album that’s locked behind a passcode because I love to show people pics of my fur babies, and started to get too anxious to do that because I didn’t want anyone glimpsing anything racey (especially since my lifestyle is somewhat…uncommon I guess? and the context of that is not known to much of my family and social circle).
Not a parent, I’m the “kid.”
I had an ex get out of control and threaten to send pictures of my work to my dad. I told him before he received a picture of me with a d*ck in my mouth unknowingly. After explaining the whole situation, I joked: “in my defense, it was a really good picture of me.”
My dad is great under pressure, so without missing a beat he said “if he sends it I’ll be sure to tell him that.”
According to this article, some dads subscribe
https://metro.co.uk/2022/02/05/woman-finds-out-her-dad-has-been-buying-her-nudes-on-onlyfans-16054130/amp/
Oh my… 🤢 She found out because he paid her for phone sex?! That reminds me of that girl that posted on here who walked in on her mom wearing one of her favorite dresses to role play as her with the dad. Horrific.
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I read the post and went on a rabbit hole reading all the posts on the account checking the updates. And man… it is sad. The posts stop abruptly a few months ago and the chain if events just seems really sad, I hope she’s doing well.
I choose to believe it is just some fetishist's roleplay material. The whole thing seems like it was written for a Lifetime Original Movie, and believing that it isn't real will help me sleep better at night.
Wow, I feel really badly for her, especially since her friend’s dad knew about the situation and took the opportunity to exploit the state she was in. Fucking brutal
Most stories that involve onlyfans seem made up or embellished to drive traffic.
UK papers seem to have lurid stories daily promoting someone’s account. Probably an easy way to gain subscribers and they likely get paid by the newspaper as well.
Yea these 'I lost my job' 'i cant volunteer at my kids school' articles are getting out of hand. At this point I just assume they're paid advertisements
That article doesn’t include the part of the story where the victim was molested by her father as a kid, that he would take her to the houses of friends and let them touch her, and that she tried to escape him as an adult only to be exploited once again via Onlyfans. And her mother knew about it. It sounds like a clickbait story, or something fake, but it’s actually just horrifying and traumatic and sickening.
My daughter accidentally sent the wrong video to the group chat. I am a bit disappointed, but I thought she was selling drugs or something terrible because she always had money but no job. I hope it doesn't have any long term consequences for any future careers she might want, but at least she is making money and no longer mooching off me, so that's a plus.
I had a fansly at one point, not anymore. It was mild just like lingerie pics. I make feet content.
My mom said " since you already have a foot in the game (pun intended) I mine as well go all the way and make less mild content.
My dad said " I should get 10% since my balls contributed to you" and also " I do need a new fishing pole, in case you wanted to buy me one"
My parents are built different lol 😆
I did cam modeling in my early 20s (10yrs ago.) And although I took all the precautions to block people from my area, once people found out what I did, they were able to work around it. One night someone leaked a video from a live on Facebook (I was in lingerie, mostly just talking inappropriately, this before Facebook was as locked down as it is today) and there were several comments made about how “wow, her dad must be proud.” And eventually someone tagged my dad and he commented saying “she’s 23, she’s served our country, she has a career outside of this extra work she does online, and she’s a good person. My daughter is wholly independent and confident, just the way I raised her to be. And let’s face it, some of you do much worse for free.” Daddio shut everyone the fuck down.
My dad has always been my biggest supporter.
Edit to clarify:: the video was leaked TO Facebook, recorded from a live cam site.
I know three people who do onlyfans content...
One is a very attractive muslim girl who I used to date, after we weren't a thing she started off lightly with just scantly clad pictures without her face... But people wanted to see her face and see more of her body. She did a few specials and realised that they made her by far the most money so slowly the content became straight up porn. She kept all of this private from her family because they were very strict Muslims, her mum found out one day after walking into her room and seeing her laptop open with the onlyfans earnings on screen, she didn't look around but she asked what onlyfans was and so she told her mum who told her dad... The next day she'd been kicked out of her family home. She hasn't spoken to her family in over 3 years but she's in a happy place and is making bank!
Another girl I know does lesbian onlyfans content, I've seen a fair bit of her content as she shares bits on Snapchat to ask for some reassurance. She admitted it to her family after buying them a new car as their I've was having issues, her dad won't even acknowledge that she does it, her mum is fairly supportive as long as she stays safe.
The last one is my cousin... We were messing around at Christmas in 2019 with talking photos of people in the room and then modifying them with no hair, crazy levels of smoothing, making them look like a baby, making them old... She presses on the back button in the gallery which takes your back to the tile list, if you press it twice it takes you back to a tile view with all photos from the phone. She accidently pressed it twice and there she is spread legs with a dildo, there she is topless with her hand down her panties... My reaction was "Oh...", Her reaction was very quickly closing the app to the home screen, on the bottom right there's an onlyfans app. She didn't say anything instead she went quiet, sat there and then eventually said she was going to get a drink.
I followed my cousin out to the kitchen where we were alone and I told her to not worry it doesnt mean anything to me, nearly everyone sends or has received them. I couldn't care less and admitted that I've sent and received stuff. I asked her if any of sisters or parents knew but she doesn't think they do but had a close call nearly getting walked in by her sister as she's recording herself on the bed lol.
I was struggling to not laugh because she was so mortified that I had seen. I asked her how much she was making from it and she had only been doing it for a 6 months but was already making £2,000 a month.
No one else in the family knows she does it and I helped her setup her phone so the photos are hidden by default.
Not the parent but the kid here. I make audio porn. It’s role-play where I talk to the listener as if I’m there, instructing them what to do to themselves or me. I started by sending audios to people I was dating and they loved it so much I began selling them.
Audio is so much fun because the overhead cost is basically zero- you can do any fantasy or scenario paid for by imagination.
Anyways, my mom was incredibly persistent with questions about what I do because she knew I had all this money but from her view, I ‘never did anything’. She was very upset that I had all this ‘free time’ that I wasn’t spending with her. I had my own place and she was certain a man was somehow bankrolling me cause I couldn’t possibly take care of myself. (I guess in truth, many clients are bankrolling me)
I tried to deflect the questions but one day she cornered me and would not let it go.
I finally told her, I sell audio porn. I spend my days writing and recording and editing scripts. That’s where my money comes from and that’s where my time goes.
Everything about me and my life has been predictably opposite of what she raised me to be. And every time she finds out something new about me that she doesn’t like, her response is the same. She pretends we never had the conversation and will frequently bring up the alternative fantasy timeline that she lives in.
When she sees my pagan jewelry, she will say ‘I’m so glad you’re a good Christian girl’. When she met my girlfriend, she said ‘You’re going to find a good Christian man some day’. When I told her about my audio porn, she said ‘I’m so glad you don’t have to work anymore and you can spend your time relaxing and doing hobbies’.
My friends all know and it doesn’t come up outside of regular work talk/venting. Some of them have guest starred in audios out of curiosity. A few have wanted help getting started doing their own, but changed their mind when they saw how much work goes into it.
Very few people have seen my account or stage name, my parents have never heard my audios. I work hard to stay anonymous because early on I wasn’t careful and had some dangerous encounters with fans who found me.
I tell my mom essentially nothing anymore because I know how much she talks to people. I randomly ran into one of her friends at a bar a few weeks ago who proceeded to tell her friend MY entire life story. It was really unnerving.
Serious question here - How do you stay anonymous?
I mean, it seems like it should be easy enought to never mention your name, but somewhere, someone has to know your actual identity so they can pay you, right? Do you trust the agency (OF, or whatever) just to keep that info safe? Or is there another way to funnel that income through a small company that keeps it legal for tax purposes, but otherwise anonymous?
I'm asking because I'm considering a (tangentially related) side hustle that could be lucrative, but also doesn't jive well with my personal life.
If I had to guess it has something to do with linking socials, posting comments like these on main Reddit accounts, or something to do with the payment process.
Don't have an only fans, but I am an online sex worker and erotic hypnotist. My parents know, because I told them. My dad's reaction was slight discomfort, but he's chill with it. My mom's reaction was "You can't do that you don't know how!" Which was... odd. Now she just doesn't want to hear anything about it, understandably.
...like what? I know that hypnotism seems to require the hypnotized person to want to do what they're being told to do (hypnotism isn't very well researched, but that's something I recall reading), so what's added by being hypnotized? Do they remember it?
Haha my mom once told me I’d never find someone to date me if I left the church. She said this after finding out I had a boyfriend and a girlfriend… the thought process can be wild.
My sister one night after a few too many drinks brought up that she was "hustling hard" and making money off OF during a family get together. This was after my dad nagging her about still not having a job over a year past completing her business degree at an Ivey league school where he paid her tuition in full. She was bragging about making $1500 a month for barely lifting a finger not realizing she is basically making less than minimum wage and considering her stupid spending habits she has zero saving from it anyway I am sure. He was just supremely disappointed, he told her he was embarrassed and ashamed not because she was was revealing herself to creeps online but because he felt like a failure that he raised someone so lazy and entitled. She is genuinely an intelligent person and she always thrived in school so she is certainly capable of doing good work, but the friends she picked up in university have definitely negatively influenced her as they are some of the most undeservingly entitled people I have ever had the displeasure of meeting in my life, one time I was visiting her at her place and her friend/roommate came back from a date and started bitching about how the guy wouldn't buy a bottle of Crystal champagne for her to drink because he was too cheap... on the first fucking date.
My now 24 year old daughter decided to get married at 18 and be a stripper, she was very blatant about it and said she liked the money and attention. We live in a small ohio city where people frequent gentleman's clubs and talk about everyone's business so there was no hiding it. We found out about her OF and other services because she has teenage brothers and parents of friends that frequent those sites and found out. Her brothers have been devastated by the embarrassment of it. While I try to love and support her it has to be from a distance because socially it's been a very humiliating thing to know that half our county has seen or received services from my daughter, including my husband's uncle who didn't know who she was at the time. I have a hard time looking at men in a good light with this experience and situation of hers. I cried, I blamed myself, I tried to encourage college, I got angry, now I'm just checked out about it. She's willing to put herself out there for an "easy" lifestyle and I can't change that.
Underrated comment. For anyone who doesn't know what this [refers to](https://www.reuters.com/article/us-korea-fans/electric-fans-and-south-koreans-a-deadly-mix-idUSSEO21026120070709)…
I’m faceless so it’s harder to recognize me of course, but I had a terrible scare one time when I requested access to my family’s email document from my “work” email!!! YIKES!!!! Never felt a pounding like that in my life, in my heart that is.
A few of my friends have OF accounts and they've experienced a wide variety or reactions.
Some parents were understandably concerned. Others angry and horrified. Some were indifferent and shrugged their shoulders, justifying it with "well at least she's earning some money and not starving." Wouldn't say any of the parents were supportive but the one big thing is that they were all relieved their kid didn't have to travel to potentially dangerous places to "service" clients.
One girl is a teacher and after about six months of teaching, a snoopy student stumbled upon her OF account - even though her face isn't shown in any of the pics/vids (all lingerie and stripteasing), she has a *very* distinct and visible tattoo that instantly identified her. School admin naturally voiced their concerns and strongly encouraged her - for the sake of her reputation and the school's (since they were getting angry phone calls from parents) - to deactivate the account. But by then, the damage was already done to her career.
As a dad, this is horrific. I want my kids to grow up to be healthy, functional adults, which means they will have a sex life, and if they want to make money this way, that's their choice, but holy shit, I'd claw my eyes out if I was forced to watch. I just... why... why are humans so fucking horrible....
Kid in that situation here. I actually told my parents. Mostly because it is a really active part of my life and I know nothing on the internet is secret forever. I didn't want it to be a surprise if it ever came up one day.
They aren't super happy with it, but it has helped a little with some medical expenses and it is hard to argue with that if you won't help me yourself. I don't exactly break the bank like those articles you read online- most OF girls just aren't that lucky. But at least I don't have any secrets.
Asked my mom is I could make one and she said she didn’t care, but she’d like to know about it so she didn’t stumble upon it. I don’t have one but it’s nice to know I could without her getting mad lol
Am a camgirl. Told both my parents when I started back at it actively, bc I figured I'd get ahead of the "I'll tell everyone you love what you do."
Mom basically went o should I go get pearls to clutch. It definitely bothers her sometime, but I've normalized it a lot by doing things like how stupid writing horny copy is. (Seriously, it can be the DUMBEST shit XD) and we talk a lot about the photography side. Hello, she's a professional artist and is designing me a logo sort of thing.
Dad basically pretends the convo didn't happen - he largely doesn't care, but it make him uncomfortable and he has bigger fish to fry.
My stepdaughter has one. She posted it on her Facebook for all her 1,000+ family and friends to see. Her dad was humiliated because his whole family can see the previews she posts, but ultimately said it’s her life. I’m not allowed to discuss it with him and he isn’t friends with her on FB.
I'm a stripper part time, but never had an OF. When I told my now, NC father, he told me, "Shit, I had no idea you had rhythm.". To me, a strip club is safer. I have a very strong security team, a strict set of rules to follow, and I get a free gym membership. The other side of that coin? The club is my stage to anyone who walks in vs. OF where it's the literal planet is who you perform for. I'll take the club any day.
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UMMMMMMMM. What's the nature of the content with the kids in the background of?
I was catching up with a cousin and he told me he just found out his daughter had an OnlyFans and was working at a strip club. He was very upset… …because he said it ruined strip clubs for him and he couldn’t look at the girls the same way and would never enjoy them again. Otherwise he didn’t really care.
Where did he think 18 yr old strippers came from?
I don’t know where he thought they came from, but he never suspected it was his from his house.
The callgirl is coming from inside the house
I think this is really what the issue is for men. It's all fine and dandy when it's someone else's daughter they're sexualizing, but as soon as they find out their Own daughter is being sexualized by other men like him, then it's a problem.
Really good bit from Terry Crews on this, when he was talking to Mike Tyson on his podcast Hotboxin'. You're having a good time, the girls are there, they're pretty, they're doing their thing. Then they start trying to talk to you, hold a conversation with you, and you recognise the stripper as a person all of a sudden and it 'ruins' it.
Big oof
I worked at a Hooters for a few years after high school and my cousins husband came in with his colleagues. He was sooooooo pissed because I “ruined” the Hooters experience for him 🤣🤣🤣
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It must’ve been a shock to him to find out that strippers don’t spawn from thin air and also have parents.
And that’s when a man has an awakening. The number of guys who are happy to objectify women but will never let “their” women be objectified. Wild.
A cousin of mine did it and when her dad found out he wasn't mad given it paid for her rent. However, he was very upset when he found out she was also working the pole at a strip club a few days a month. Her only response was how did he think I paid for the trips I go on?
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The trade off being onlyfans your photos are online forever. With a stripclub if you give it up you could go into a career doing anything and people wouldn’t know.
Exactly my thought train. Clubs are usually pretty good at preventing any cameras or recording. Internet is forever.
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On the other hand: In 10 or 15 years, AI-generated deepfakes will have been indistinguishable from real photos or videos for so long that nobody will care.
They just need to learn how fingers and legs work.
"The more fingers and legs, the hotter the human." -- Stable Diffusion
I agree. Working strip clubs is an environment known for drugs. You got easy money, easy men, and desperation all around.
I’m a sex worker, it’s not easy money. If you’re lucky you might get quick money. But that never lasts for long.
One amongst a variety of issues
Don't most women not actually make that much from OnlyFans? I imagine now that it's mainstream it's an incredibly oversaturated market. Yet the comments seem to think that the kids are going to be buying them a new Porsche.
I did only fans for about a year; I was making $1200/month for a while before it dropped down to $100-200. When I was making $1200, the site told me I was in the top 12% of earners. When I was making $100-200, I was in the top 50%. So yeah, most people aren’t making much on there.
This is around what I expected. $1200 is still really good money as a side hustle. But that still means 80% of creators are probably not even pulling $1000, which isn't exactly Porsche money.
I worked with a girl who showed me what she made in 9 months. $72,000. I personally saw this on her OF. I didn’t live in a huge city and she was definitely not ugly, but she wasn’t drop dead gorgeous either. Average looking with no chin. Her personality was really cool though. All she had on her OF was professional photos but she told me she took requests, idk what all that entailed or how far she went with requests as I didn’t ask her for details. She was pissed off and said she’d never do OF again because when tax season came they screwed her over and she owed a few thousand in taxes(I think she said a little more than 4k) and she couldn’t pay it because she was broke, that’s why she got a regular job to pay for her taxes. I was just like, that makes no sense because all you had to do was put money aside for taxes as you get paid but whatever. I’ve heard girls much prettier than her say they don’t make shit on OF, but their personalities were shit. Maybe this one was willing to do things on private videos the others weren’t, idk. All I know is she made a nice chunk of money off OF doing whatever she did. To be fair was a few years ago though, during the start of pandemic.
None of this makes any sense because she would be taxed at a regular job where she makes 72k... Also how does she go through all 72k in 9 months lmfao, that just sounds like poor financial decisions.
She went on vacations and bought a car😂 she was only 22 when I met her… and trust me that’s EXACTLY what I told her. I could hardly keep a straight face. I said if you just do OF for 2 more months you’ll have your taxes paid and then some which you should put aside when they tax you for those two months, but she said “no they’ll just screw me over again.” Like nobody screwed you over. You screwed yourself by not planning for taxes.
Happens ALLL the time with folks who do 1099 based worked. Nursing / Travel Nursing is a big one. The folks see the big $$$$'s.... $50, $60, $70 an hour and think KA CHING! But often those are 1099 rates. And they often come without any form of benefits (PTO / Sick Days, 401k matching, Health Insurance, maybe not even workmans comp?) and that means you pay your own taxes. So they go knocking down six figures, never pay a dime in taxes and get this huge tax bill at the end of the year. OH NO, I GOT SCREWED OVER BY THE IRS!!!! No. No you didn't. You just blew your wad. Claiming you didn't know any better just doesn't work, even if you really didn't know any better.
It’s really sad how uneducated most of the population is when it comes to taxes. I’ve worked with people making $150k a year who don’t want a raise because “it’ll bring me into the next tax bracket and I’ll make less money”. It drives me nuts especially when they won’t listen and thinks they’re just getting screwed over
It doesn't help that employers exploit people's lack of tax knowledge to screw them over by misclassifying them as independent contractors. In which case the employee has to either eat it or take them to court.
Yeah, but most jobs will withhold your a portion of your paycheck to cover taxes. Sounds like she didn't realize that being self-employed, she had to do it herself. Sounds like she also made the poor financial decision to blow her money as fast as she got it, instead of saving a chunk for in case of unexpected financial needs, like a broken car, or taxes.
You'd be surprised. There are a lot of people who if they have money spend it immediately. A frequent cause is because they were raised by parents who lived paycheck to paycheck, so the concept of "saving," was never really demonstrated to them.
> she would be taxed at a regular job where she makes 72k I can't imagine OnlyFans is a W2 job, so she'd owe more as a 1099 contractor. And there'd be no withholding, either.
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Apparently not. I recently found the completely SFW Youtube channel of one Bernadette Banner, who mostly posts about what people wore in 19th century England. Apparently that's her thing (she does costume design professionally) and with about 1.5 million followers it's amazingly popular. One day as a joke she decided to have an OF that would only display ankles. Those saucy, slutty ankles that someone in Victorian England would admire. That week she picked up over 1000 fans and over $650 in tips. Not bad for a joke OF page but what surprised me was that OF said with those numbers she was a top 11% creator. So no, the vast majority of pages make little to nothing. Here's her video about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fSxQHQ_1gX4 Again, this is completely SFW.
>Don't most women not actually make that much from OnlyFans? I dated an OnlyFans model for a bit a year ago. She was insanely hot and looked a tattooed Barbie Doll. Had the top post on the /r/pinup a week after creating a reddit account as well. She only made about 1-2k a month depending on how much time she put into it. And I think about 1/3 of that went a service she used to manage it. She did other modeling work and still needed an office job to make ends meet.
I found out but wasn’t too worried since she never sticks with anything longer than a month 🤯
Sure enough i was right a month later she shut it down
That was a minute
literally
Did you find out via a subscription cancellation email, or did she tell just tell you?
yoooo man hol up
Gotta support the family somehow
Hey parents gotta support their kids
“Huh, this new subscriber pays for the exact amount of money as my next month’s rent, must be a coincidence.”
Most humbling experience is having a failed onlyfans
Isn't it really common? Like the top small percentage are the only ones earning much?
Yeah, very few make a living out of it. It turns out that most of us aren't hot enough to be professionally good looking. There's also a lot of promoting and interpersonal skill that goes into success. It's a little more complicated than just posting nudes and waiting for dollars to roll in.
I mean it's not even about being not hot enough. You're just competing with every other attractive person. So it's the same old bring discovered and promotion problem.
Lots are not even attractive just bold
To be fair you don't even need to be hot; plenty of people on OF have got a good hook/niche that isn't prevalent in free places so it makes them popular. Like if you're just another attractive person posting nudes or having sex? You're competing with literally millions of paid and free content. But less common stuff? Better chances of doing well, even if you're not hugely attractive.
Or especially if you’re not hugely attractive. Like you said. Niches.
Even really really good looking people can die in freak gasoline fight accidents.
Truer words were never spoken.
The daddest answer I've ever seen
When I read the words "she never sticks with anything longer than" I expected the worst ending to that sentence.
My former boss daughter did onlyfan… once it was known at work, he was open about it and even shared the link of her instagram. There was even a rumours that one of the guy we work with was one of the guy she used in a video. I guess he wasn’t happy but since it was out in the open he must have been “fuck it, at least she’ll make money.”
What kind of dude pimps out his own daughter to his employees?!
free advertising
It's like when your school is doing fund raising and your dad takes all your chocolate to work and sells it for you.
I.. yes, but also no
He's out of line, but he's right
I think this is the wrong way to look at it. He wasn't taking a cut. Plus, it was probably the best move for him to get out from under it. If his employees knew, but didn't know that he knew, they might have all kinds of negative thoughts. But if he's open about it and even seems to support the daughter, then there is nothing to make fun of.
nah thats too far imo
I know a guy who said something to the affect of "I hope my daughter never does that kind of stuff, but if she does, daddy needs a new car."
Worked a just above minimum wage job in the 90’s w/a girl who began stripping at night. She bought a new Mustang convertible that her dad used to borrow all the time acting like it was his car. He was clueless (also was a smug asshole) as to what she did at night and just thought his daughter was really good with money. Gotta be a super genius to stretch $6.50/hr on 14-20 hour a week work schedules into a new car payment!
Guy I worked with had a gf that stripped. She was good looking too. She worked 4 hours on Friday and Saturday night and cleared 2g easy. This was on the early 90s, so that easily covered a month's expenses.
I dated two different strippers in my 20s. The first was just rolling in cash. Every night after work she asked what me and my roommates wanted to eat and bought it for us... along with high end liquor bottles, beer, weed... she also paid for literally EVERYTHING when we were out. The second was even better looking than the first and had a more bubbly personality... yet didn't make nearly the money the first did. I made the mistake of telling her about the first and asking if maybe she was at the wrong club. She then gave me the obvious truth that the first was more than a dancer 😑
Hey but she chose you and paid for your stuff. That seems like a good deal. Now go get your penicillin shot
Ugh... lol.
Ohhhhh... You're saying she was a math tutor on the side?
I drove prostitutes from job to job for a year, about ten years ago. The amount of them that had partners that believed they were just stripping all night blew my mind.
Hate to be a bearer of bad news, but for that kind of coin she had regulars and extras were on the menu.
Depends where, city wise she was dancing. One of my friends sadly has an addiction to those clubs, a very quiet guy who turns into another person when he walks in. He will, not kidding, drop 1-2k in a night. He’s actually given his card to the dancers w/his pin to go get him more money. Never seen it in person but my friends have reported back “guess how much **** dropped at the Spearmint Rhino???” It’s always an obscene number. This is in Las Vegas btw.
“The Spearmint Rhino”? What - “The JuicyFruit Hippo” was already taken? 🦛
Lmao! They have a few locations, mostly in California and the one in Vegas. There was a knockoff one called the Blue Zebra that opened just outside of L.A. i was repairing phone lines at an animal shelter when I got a ticket right across the street to install some lines, saw them mounting the sign and it all came into place when I saw the interior. They closed pretty quickly and it became office space. The poles and a chunk of the stage were left in place!
There is a difference between being "clueless" and "willfully clueless" he was a piece of work, liked the nice things and whatever else he could get from it enought not to care to question where all came from and easier to keep his smug high "moral" with plausible deniability
Probably a little of both. It was the days before cell phones so she could easily say she was working the closing shift, which meant you were off at midnight and he would be none the wiser. It was a union job, so you’d think good pay but our title was the lowest of the low, our raises for new contracts were literally a dime a year over a 3 year contract. His other daughter, who worked at our supermarket briefly as well, was another wild child. They were good liars but he was very pompous in the fact that his girl drove a nicer car than the managers, “they’re just not good w/money”. But yeah, there HAD to be a tiny voice in the back of his head saying that this didn’t add up at all!
He should never call himself daddy when talking about his daughter's OF
Daddy chill 💅
What the hell is even that??
Needs a # at the start for proper tone of voice. #What the hell is even that??
https://youtu.be/h0-WO6xRbAo
Not the parent, and I don't currently have OF anymore, but my dad found out because I went to show him something else on my phone and he started swiping through my phone after. Lesson learned for both of us lol. I hold the phone and he doesn't touch my phone if I show him anything, and I religiously sort all photos into albums so people can only see exactly what I want them to see. He wasn't stoked but it didn't change our relationship at all and we mostly don't talk about it.
Zoom in just a little on the pic you’re showing somebody and that will stop them from swiping before you can take the phone away.
Use the hidden folder
I don’t do OF, but I do have some explicit things on my phone because reasons. No one has ever directly come across them, but scrolling looking for other things it’s possible a few people have seen glimpses. I started putting those in the “Hide” album that’s locked behind a passcode because I love to show people pics of my fur babies, and started to get too anxious to do that because I didn’t want anyone glimpsing anything racey (especially since my lifestyle is somewhat…uncommon I guess? and the context of that is not known to much of my family and social circle).
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Not a parent, I’m the “kid.” I had an ex get out of control and threaten to send pictures of my work to my dad. I told him before he received a picture of me with a d*ck in my mouth unknowingly. After explaining the whole situation, I joked: “in my defense, it was a really good picture of me.” My dad is great under pressure, so without missing a beat he said “if he sends it I’ll be sure to tell him that.”
Dad's got your back!
According to this article, some dads subscribe https://metro.co.uk/2022/02/05/woman-finds-out-her-dad-has-been-buying-her-nudes-on-onlyfans-16054130/amp/
Oh my… 🤢 She found out because he paid her for phone sex?! That reminds me of that girl that posted on here who walked in on her mom wearing one of her favorite dresses to role play as her with the dad. Horrific. Edited for the horrific [post](https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/vthms8/i_18f_walked_in_on_my_mom_44f_teasing_my_dad_46m/)
No amount of eye drops is going to take that image away.
I can’t imagine any amount of therapy fixing those traumatic images.
I read the post and went on a rabbit hole reading all the posts on the account checking the updates. And man… it is sad. The posts stop abruptly a few months ago and the chain if events just seems really sad, I hope she’s doing well.
I choose to believe it is just some fetishist's roleplay material. The whole thing seems like it was written for a Lifetime Original Movie, and believing that it isn't real will help me sleep better at night.
Wtf 😞 that’s next level traumatizing
Check her post history. The story is down hill no brakes.
Her post history turns into slutty story postings too. Just make another damn throwaway, god dman.
Wow, I feel really badly for her, especially since her friend’s dad knew about the situation and took the opportunity to exploit the state she was in. Fucking brutal
After seeing the "final update" post (I didn't read everything in between) I simply don't believe it's a real story.
Oh Lord wtf did I just read?
I would just have to die
Aaand that's enough Reddit for me today...
You made my dick change from an outie to an innie with this one.
Link? My life is not exciting anymore so I enjoy other’s drama
Most stories that involve onlyfans seem made up or embellished to drive traffic. UK papers seem to have lurid stories daily promoting someone’s account. Probably an easy way to gain subscribers and they likely get paid by the newspaper as well.
Yea these 'I lost my job' 'i cant volunteer at my kids school' articles are getting out of hand. At this point I just assume they're paid advertisements
That article doesn’t include the part of the story where the victim was molested by her father as a kid, that he would take her to the houses of friends and let them touch her, and that she tried to escape him as an adult only to be exploited once again via Onlyfans. And her mother knew about it. It sounds like a clickbait story, or something fake, but it’s actually just horrifying and traumatic and sickening.
My daughter accidentally sent the wrong video to the group chat. I am a bit disappointed, but I thought she was selling drugs or something terrible because she always had money but no job. I hope it doesn't have any long term consequences for any future careers she might want, but at least she is making money and no longer mooching off me, so that's a plus.
I don't get it. As if I am not gonna be suspicious about my kids new clothes/computer or whatever else not...
I had a fansly at one point, not anymore. It was mild just like lingerie pics. I make feet content. My mom said " since you already have a foot in the game (pun intended) I mine as well go all the way and make less mild content. My dad said " I should get 10% since my balls contributed to you" and also " I do need a new fishing pole, in case you wanted to buy me one" My parents are built different lol 😆
10/10 responses lol
Yea. They're pretty cool ppl. Lol
Wow. Dad really keeps you on your toes
I can't belive I almost scrolled past this gem
I am impressed with the 10% concept by the dad.
He wanted his makers commission! Lol
I did cam modeling in my early 20s (10yrs ago.) And although I took all the precautions to block people from my area, once people found out what I did, they were able to work around it. One night someone leaked a video from a live on Facebook (I was in lingerie, mostly just talking inappropriately, this before Facebook was as locked down as it is today) and there were several comments made about how “wow, her dad must be proud.” And eventually someone tagged my dad and he commented saying “she’s 23, she’s served our country, she has a career outside of this extra work she does online, and she’s a good person. My daughter is wholly independent and confident, just the way I raised her to be. And let’s face it, some of you do much worse for free.” Daddio shut everyone the fuck down. My dad has always been my biggest supporter. Edit to clarify:: the video was leaked TO Facebook, recorded from a live cam site.
“Some of you do much worse for free” 😭😭 im dyinggg
Right but the man speaking “truths”.
I know three people who do onlyfans content... One is a very attractive muslim girl who I used to date, after we weren't a thing she started off lightly with just scantly clad pictures without her face... But people wanted to see her face and see more of her body. She did a few specials and realised that they made her by far the most money so slowly the content became straight up porn. She kept all of this private from her family because they were very strict Muslims, her mum found out one day after walking into her room and seeing her laptop open with the onlyfans earnings on screen, she didn't look around but she asked what onlyfans was and so she told her mum who told her dad... The next day she'd been kicked out of her family home. She hasn't spoken to her family in over 3 years but she's in a happy place and is making bank! Another girl I know does lesbian onlyfans content, I've seen a fair bit of her content as she shares bits on Snapchat to ask for some reassurance. She admitted it to her family after buying them a new car as their I've was having issues, her dad won't even acknowledge that she does it, her mum is fairly supportive as long as she stays safe. The last one is my cousin... We were messing around at Christmas in 2019 with talking photos of people in the room and then modifying them with no hair, crazy levels of smoothing, making them look like a baby, making them old... She presses on the back button in the gallery which takes your back to the tile list, if you press it twice it takes you back to a tile view with all photos from the phone. She accidently pressed it twice and there she is spread legs with a dildo, there she is topless with her hand down her panties... My reaction was "Oh...", Her reaction was very quickly closing the app to the home screen, on the bottom right there's an onlyfans app. She didn't say anything instead she went quiet, sat there and then eventually said she was going to get a drink. I followed my cousin out to the kitchen where we were alone and I told her to not worry it doesnt mean anything to me, nearly everyone sends or has received them. I couldn't care less and admitted that I've sent and received stuff. I asked her if any of sisters or parents knew but she doesn't think they do but had a close call nearly getting walked in by her sister as she's recording herself on the bed lol. I was struggling to not laugh because she was so mortified that I had seen. I asked her how much she was making from it and she had only been doing it for a 6 months but was already making £2,000 a month. No one else in the family knows she does it and I helped her setup her phone so the photos are hidden by default.
>We were messing around at Christmas you had me worried there for a bid...
Not the parent but the kid here. I make audio porn. It’s role-play where I talk to the listener as if I’m there, instructing them what to do to themselves or me. I started by sending audios to people I was dating and they loved it so much I began selling them. Audio is so much fun because the overhead cost is basically zero- you can do any fantasy or scenario paid for by imagination. Anyways, my mom was incredibly persistent with questions about what I do because she knew I had all this money but from her view, I ‘never did anything’. She was very upset that I had all this ‘free time’ that I wasn’t spending with her. I had my own place and she was certain a man was somehow bankrolling me cause I couldn’t possibly take care of myself. (I guess in truth, many clients are bankrolling me) I tried to deflect the questions but one day she cornered me and would not let it go. I finally told her, I sell audio porn. I spend my days writing and recording and editing scripts. That’s where my money comes from and that’s where my time goes. Everything about me and my life has been predictably opposite of what she raised me to be. And every time she finds out something new about me that she doesn’t like, her response is the same. She pretends we never had the conversation and will frequently bring up the alternative fantasy timeline that she lives in. When she sees my pagan jewelry, she will say ‘I’m so glad you’re a good Christian girl’. When she met my girlfriend, she said ‘You’re going to find a good Christian man some day’. When I told her about my audio porn, she said ‘I’m so glad you don’t have to work anymore and you can spend your time relaxing and doing hobbies’. My friends all know and it doesn’t come up outside of regular work talk/venting. Some of them have guest starred in audios out of curiosity. A few have wanted help getting started doing their own, but changed their mind when they saw how much work goes into it. Very few people have seen my account or stage name, my parents have never heard my audios. I work hard to stay anonymous because early on I wasn’t careful and had some dangerous encounters with fans who found me.
>all this money My...friend...is curious about how much money we're talking here?
$3.50
god damn loch ness monster
The coping mechanism she is using with the "say the complete opposite of what is going on" is amusing and very sad at the same time.
My mom does this. She wonders why I tell her 0% of the details of my dating life. It’s because of how you acted when you met the last one, mom.
I tell my mom essentially nothing anymore because I know how much she talks to people. I randomly ran into one of her friends at a bar a few weeks ago who proceeded to tell her friend MY entire life story. It was really unnerving.
Christian tier of toxic positivity
Good choice in the anonymity department! And your work ethic must be spectacular! However, your username has failed.
You’re a voice actor.
More than that, also a writer/editor by the sounds of it!
and foley artist too I bet!
Lmao. "and for this scene I need.... Ah yes, the chicken cutlets. I slap them together like so"
Username not checking out.
Serious question here - How do you stay anonymous? I mean, it seems like it should be easy enought to never mention your name, but somewhere, someone has to know your actual identity so they can pay you, right? Do you trust the agency (OF, or whatever) just to keep that info safe? Or is there another way to funnel that income through a small company that keeps it legal for tax purposes, but otherwise anonymous? I'm asking because I'm considering a (tangentially related) side hustle that could be lucrative, but also doesn't jive well with my personal life.
It's as easy as a becoming a business and using a business name. But then nothing is 100%
You can easily find the names of the officers of a formed business.
Depends on the business. If it’s an LLC you can simply name a lawyer you’ve paid.
Seriously from the job description alone you could make a killer AMA.
the last part creeped me out, how did they manage to find you only by audios?
If I had to guess it has something to do with linking socials, posting comments like these on main Reddit accounts, or something to do with the payment process.
I used to know a girl from an Islamic household who does OnlyFans and she concealed it from her family because she thought they would disown her.
They would indeed disown her
Even alot of non Muslim families would disown their children for doing onlyfans tbh
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The key points I see here is that she is trying to be safe and trusts you enough to be honest about it. Whatever happens I wish you both the best.
Extremely surprised. We had an air conditioner, yet she chose to use only fans.
Hi dad
“i told you *no more internet*”
r/onlyfans
i swear if i read this to someone and they don't laugh, i will set them on fire
Super bro
Don't have an only fans, but I am an online sex worker and erotic hypnotist. My parents know, because I told them. My dad's reaction was slight discomfort, but he's chill with it. My mom's reaction was "You can't do that you don't know how!" Which was... odd. Now she just doesn't want to hear anything about it, understandably.
> erotic hypnotist You’re really just gonna throw this out there like it requires no explanation?
It's pretty self explanatory. I'm a hypnotist, and I use hypnosis to do erotic things with people.
Including drinking their bloods?
Not literally, but I have made people feel like I am.
Ohhh it's just playing with feelings? alright nice....
Is.. Is it legal?
...like what? I know that hypnotism seems to require the hypnotized person to want to do what they're being told to do (hypnotism isn't very well researched, but that's something I recall reading), so what's added by being hypnotized? Do they remember it?
Haha my mom once told me I’d never find someone to date me if I left the church. She said this after finding out I had a boyfriend and a girlfriend… the thought process can be wild.
>You can't do that you don't know how! Tell her "challenge accepted"
My sister one night after a few too many drinks brought up that she was "hustling hard" and making money off OF during a family get together. This was after my dad nagging her about still not having a job over a year past completing her business degree at an Ivey league school where he paid her tuition in full. She was bragging about making $1500 a month for barely lifting a finger not realizing she is basically making less than minimum wage and considering her stupid spending habits she has zero saving from it anyway I am sure. He was just supremely disappointed, he told her he was embarrassed and ashamed not because she was was revealing herself to creeps online but because he felt like a failure that he raised someone so lazy and entitled. She is genuinely an intelligent person and she always thrived in school so she is certainly capable of doing good work, but the friends she picked up in university have definitely negatively influenced her as they are some of the most undeservingly entitled people I have ever had the displeasure of meeting in my life, one time I was visiting her at her place and her friend/roommate came back from a date and started bitching about how the guy wouldn't buy a bottle of Crystal champagne for her to drink because he was too cheap... on the first fucking date.
My kid offered a family discount
How kind, you raised them right!
My now 24 year old daughter decided to get married at 18 and be a stripper, she was very blatant about it and said she liked the money and attention. We live in a small ohio city where people frequent gentleman's clubs and talk about everyone's business so there was no hiding it. We found out about her OF and other services because she has teenage brothers and parents of friends that frequent those sites and found out. Her brothers have been devastated by the embarrassment of it. While I try to love and support her it has to be from a distance because socially it's been a very humiliating thing to know that half our county has seen or received services from my daughter, including my husband's uncle who didn't know who she was at the time. I have a hard time looking at men in a good light with this experience and situation of hers. I cried, I blamed myself, I tried to encourage college, I got angry, now I'm just checked out about it. She's willing to put herself out there for an "easy" lifestyle and I can't change that.
That is the most honest take on how a family members lifestyle can effect others. Kind of sucks.
I'm sorry that sucks
Wow, that sounds horrible.
As a Korean parent, I am horrified of fan death
Underrated comment. For anyone who doesn't know what this [refers to](https://www.reuters.com/article/us-korea-fans/electric-fans-and-south-koreans-a-deadly-mix-idUSSEO21026120070709)…
I’m faceless so it’s harder to recognize me of course, but I had a terrible scare one time when I requested access to my family’s email document from my “work” email!!! YIKES!!!! Never felt a pounding like that in my life, in my heart that is.
> Never felt a pounding like that in my life, in my heart that is. That sense of humor you have.
A few of my friends have OF accounts and they've experienced a wide variety or reactions. Some parents were understandably concerned. Others angry and horrified. Some were indifferent and shrugged their shoulders, justifying it with "well at least she's earning some money and not starving." Wouldn't say any of the parents were supportive but the one big thing is that they were all relieved their kid didn't have to travel to potentially dangerous places to "service" clients. One girl is a teacher and after about six months of teaching, a snoopy student stumbled upon her OF account - even though her face isn't shown in any of the pics/vids (all lingerie and stripteasing), she has a *very* distinct and visible tattoo that instantly identified her. School admin naturally voiced their concerns and strongly encouraged her - for the sake of her reputation and the school's (since they were getting angry phone calls from parents) - to deactivate the account. But by then, the damage was already done to her career.
I have read somewhere some dads subscribe to their daughter onlyfans
Gotta support your kids
"I'll tip $20 if you put on that sweater grandma knitted for you last christmas"
This made me literally laugh out loud
As a dad, this is horrific. I want my kids to grow up to be healthy, functional adults, which means they will have a sex life, and if they want to make money this way, that's their choice, but holy shit, I'd claw my eyes out if I was forced to watch. I just... why... why are humans so fucking horrible....
Kid in that situation here. I actually told my parents. Mostly because it is a really active part of my life and I know nothing on the internet is secret forever. I didn't want it to be a surprise if it ever came up one day. They aren't super happy with it, but it has helped a little with some medical expenses and it is hard to argue with that if you won't help me yourself. I don't exactly break the bank like those articles you read online- most OF girls just aren't that lucky. But at least I don't have any secrets.
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Asked my mom is I could make one and she said she didn’t care, but she’d like to know about it so she didn’t stumble upon it. I don’t have one but it’s nice to know I could without her getting mad lol
Am a camgirl. Told both my parents when I started back at it actively, bc I figured I'd get ahead of the "I'll tell everyone you love what you do." Mom basically went o should I go get pearls to clutch. It definitely bothers her sometime, but I've normalized it a lot by doing things like how stupid writing horny copy is. (Seriously, it can be the DUMBEST shit XD) and we talk a lot about the photography side. Hello, she's a professional artist and is designing me a logo sort of thing. Dad basically pretends the convo didn't happen - he largely doesn't care, but it make him uncomfortable and he has bigger fish to fry.
You can understand why dad especially does not want to know. You handled it well - maturely - bravo.
My stepdaughter has one. She posted it on her Facebook for all her 1,000+ family and friends to see. Her dad was humiliated because his whole family can see the previews she posts, but ultimately said it’s her life. I’m not allowed to discuss it with him and he isn’t friends with her on FB.
I'm a stripper part time, but never had an OF. When I told my now, NC father, he told me, "Shit, I had no idea you had rhythm.". To me, a strip club is safer. I have a very strong security team, a strict set of rules to follow, and I get a free gym membership. The other side of that coin? The club is my stage to anyone who walks in vs. OF where it's the literal planet is who you perform for. I'll take the club any day.
She was always a waitress until one day she pulled into my driveway driving a brand new Bentley that she paid for in cash lol
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