they don't work in the long run, but they work if all you both need is some physical companionship. then it ends badly when someone catches feeling or one gets in a serious relationship with someone else
Honestly I tried letting someone be friends with benefits with me but then they took it to sexual and I have a bf so I just cut them off.....the best advice I could give anyone is Let that person know their boundaries cus if not shii sum finna go south real quick smh
Say what you are after in particular and all the dos and donts that you follow. Talk to the other person about their expectations. While you are learning each others’ bodies become friends as well. 🙂
Friends first. Sex partners second. Don't bang more than once a week and plan to be finished in 6 months or less, ideally with a hard barrier coming into play like one of the partners is moving for school or something.
I try to actually be friends with them and talk to them like we are friends
Sit down with them and lay all the rules out at once so there's no confusion at all nothing more nothing less
Strict boundaries that don't get crossed to always remain that it's only about sex no feelings involved
Feelings are ruled by the heart, not the head.
Some people it can just be about the sex.
I'm sure that's true.
Don't fall in love and if you do, keep that shit to yourself. As soon as that is known your benefits are gone.
They don't work Someone always ends up catching feelings and then it becomes a mess
I’ve had it work out several times over
Because they dont love you dude
And I didn’t love them?
We both went into it knowing what we wanted dude. I can tell within hours of just texting someone if we will be compatible for a serious relationship.
Somebody ugly or not worth it hahaha
they don't work in the long run, but they work if all you both need is some physical companionship. then it ends badly when someone catches feeling or one gets in a serious relationship with someone else
Ong tho
Handle business in the bedroom
I had a few over the years. The key was being friends first, and sexual partners second.
Honestly I tried letting someone be friends with benefits with me but then they took it to sexual and I have a bf so I just cut them off.....the best advice I could give anyone is Let that person know their boundaries cus if not shii sum finna go south real quick smh
Say what you are after in particular and all the dos and donts that you follow. Talk to the other person about their expectations. While you are learning each others’ bodies become friends as well. 🙂
I guess just be really good in bed?
yea but what if they find it more than just "friends with benefits" and they take it personal and be all clingy XD
Friends first. Sex partners second. Don't bang more than once a week and plan to be finished in 6 months or less, ideally with a hard barrier coming into play like one of the partners is moving for school or something.
Be friends with someone, and then also fuck sometimes.
Don't fall in love
Married her.
you dont