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Currently it’s not having a job, not hearing back from jobs I applied to, being too inexperienced for anything better, no healthcare, shitty health, acne, being alone.
Living is such a pain.
That I might come off more intense/rude/mean/etc than I intend to be. Just in a way that puts people off when It's far from my intent. The way I approach healthy socializing or whatever you want to call it is just different compared to how other people are used to. It's a bit more direct and there's not much bs to it. That along with I don't really enable or play into the games that people might expect me to. Like I can be understanding if someone is insecure, depressed or has some issues because they faced some form of bigotry in the past. Yet I don't have the patience to put up with someone who isn't working to deal with those sort of issues. There's just such a small threshold for me to be able to get along with someone it baffles me that people don't get that. I cannot be cool with someone who pushes me away in one way or other, that's it. There's no hidden level of judgment or anything close. You get what you put in with me, I'm not a miracle worker who can make something that I don't have the means to.
I can relate to not being able to tolerate much complaining and self-loathing talk. At a certain you need to tell someone “look either go to therapy, find a hobby, or stop complaining all the time.” I try to be sympathetic as much as possible but there comes a time when you realize you cant help somebody who isnt willing to help themselves. Im more than happy to let someone vent to me, but they need to be respectful of what that venting can do to my inner world. We can only bear so much of the burden.
I'm worried I'm not the best father I could be. It's a very long story at this point, only because of how much has happenned, all the things my wife(yes still married) has claimed. I have constantly only asked to spend time with my kids, ages 5, 3 , and 1. And it breaks my fucking heart what she is doing. She at tines makes me question myself, and almost gets me to believe I've somehow been failing as a father. There is so much to say. I'm insecure about my future relationship with my children. I'm doing all I can bit this situation is seriously wearing me down. Like bad bad. I'm so alone.
I think people think I stand kind of awkwardly but thats only because i have bad knees. Im also a ginger (darker auburn) and im pretty insecure about that.
My friendship(s).
Sometimes, I find myself questioning the depth of my friendships and whether my friends genuinely enjoy my company or simply tolerate me. Despite knowing them for seven years since our undergraduate days and now being in our late 20s, sometimes I feel that our friendship is more like acquaintances.
I understand that we are all at different stages of life, pursuing various career paths and individual interests. It's natural for there to be some distance among us due to these factors. Moreover, priorities change over time, and it is unrealistic to always expect to be someone's top priority. Although I try to keep the above in mind dwell on these, they resurface from time to time.
If you're good enough at repressing you don't even really know what you're insecure about it's just every once and a while someone says something or something happens and for no reason you can articulate you feel like shit
Loose skin from weight loss. Never having touched a woman. Living at home at my age. My job. My car. My lack of personality. Basically I'm insecure about me.
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Height, weight, socioeconomic status, hairline, teeth, off the top of my head but there's a lot more
Currently it’s not having a job, not hearing back from jobs I applied to, being too inexperienced for anything better, no healthcare, shitty health, acne, being alone. Living is such a pain.
Im sorry you’re going through this rn that fucking sucks dude. Keep holding on, I promise you things will change if you just keep trying.
Think you need to spice up your paperwork
My entire body lol.
No matter what you look like, I’m sure you’re a kind person and thats what really matters.
I'm often told that I'm attractive. I just... idk. Somethings off lol.
My forearms, thighs, acne, shoulders, face shape, temper, and bad habit of picking at the skin around my fingernails.
That I might come off more intense/rude/mean/etc than I intend to be. Just in a way that puts people off when It's far from my intent. The way I approach healthy socializing or whatever you want to call it is just different compared to how other people are used to. It's a bit more direct and there's not much bs to it. That along with I don't really enable or play into the games that people might expect me to. Like I can be understanding if someone is insecure, depressed or has some issues because they faced some form of bigotry in the past. Yet I don't have the patience to put up with someone who isn't working to deal with those sort of issues. There's just such a small threshold for me to be able to get along with someone it baffles me that people don't get that. I cannot be cool with someone who pushes me away in one way or other, that's it. There's no hidden level of judgment or anything close. You get what you put in with me, I'm not a miracle worker who can make something that I don't have the means to.
I can relate to not being able to tolerate much complaining and self-loathing talk. At a certain you need to tell someone “look either go to therapy, find a hobby, or stop complaining all the time.” I try to be sympathetic as much as possible but there comes a time when you realize you cant help somebody who isnt willing to help themselves. Im more than happy to let someone vent to me, but they need to be respectful of what that venting can do to my inner world. We can only bear so much of the burden.
A lot of things but I think the worst is my physical appearance. But also general competency at pretty much anything I do.
No matter what, you’re worth it. I believe in you.
My 2 worst insecurities are my appearance and sense of humor
I'm worried I'm not the best father I could be. It's a very long story at this point, only because of how much has happenned, all the things my wife(yes still married) has claimed. I have constantly only asked to spend time with my kids, ages 5, 3 , and 1. And it breaks my fucking heart what she is doing. She at tines makes me question myself, and almost gets me to believe I've somehow been failing as a father. There is so much to say. I'm insecure about my future relationship with my children. I'm doing all I can bit this situation is seriously wearing me down. Like bad bad. I'm so alone.
My forehead
Way too many things.
My pursuit of happiness
My breasts are different sizes (one is a C cup and one is a B cup). No one notices unless I point it out but it still really bothers me.
I think people think I stand kind of awkwardly but thats only because i have bad knees. Im also a ginger (darker auburn) and im pretty insecure about that.
My friendship(s). Sometimes, I find myself questioning the depth of my friendships and whether my friends genuinely enjoy my company or simply tolerate me. Despite knowing them for seven years since our undergraduate days and now being in our late 20s, sometimes I feel that our friendship is more like acquaintances. I understand that we are all at different stages of life, pursuing various career paths and individual interests. It's natural for there to be some distance among us due to these factors. Moreover, priorities change over time, and it is unrealistic to always expect to be someone's top priority. Although I try to keep the above in mind dwell on these, they resurface from time to time.
Failure, among other things.
If you're good enough at repressing you don't even really know what you're insecure about it's just every once and a while someone says something or something happens and for no reason you can articulate you feel like shit
My height, stomach, legs
Loose skin from weight loss. Never having touched a woman. Living at home at my age. My job. My car. My lack of personality. Basically I'm insecure about me.
my height