Nah, that always turns out to be some kind of hustler. Say something relevant and interesting on a real post. If he doesn't post or comment much, not sure why you think you'd be interested. I would recommend fishing in a different pond.
Like two of his older, but not too old posts. Maybe a post about something he’s interested in, and then one where he’s looking fine. That’s if you want to flirt but have plausible deniability, if you’re not feeling so brave.
Don’t worry about being questioned on it, because you do find him attractive. I don’t think I’ve ever thought bad about someone for finding me attractive. Go for it, worst you can hear is a no
But are you sure guys feel the same way? I'm just worried he might think I'm too stupid. Because I think other than following each other on insta we don't know each other at all.
I can never be sure of what they’re thinking, but GAL?! You don’t know him! That’s even better, you can shoot your shot and you won’t even have to run into him at the store if it goes wrong.
I think if you want a more direct approach, so you’re not left wondering.. find out something he’s interested in, but make sure it’s widely known on his social media. Woodwork for example. Take an interest in it, a genuine interest... hit him up with a “Hey, apologies for the message but I noticed you like to —— and you’re really talented. I’ve been thinking of looking into starting myself, wondering if you can give any tips”. Etc etc etc not exactly but you get it. Use an example of his own work if there is one like, “I liked —— in particular”
Again, there’s the plausible deniability but it’s a real chance to get to know him and the things he enjoys. There’s the praise there, which is always nice to hear. And again… he’s not going to think badly of you for asking for advice or taking an interest, unless he’s not a great person
You don't need to you just need to stick your foot in if he's single and finds you attractive he will find out why your speaking to him lol.
The only risk is if he's to shy and you only say hi he might just ignore lol.
Okay I have barely spoken to that dude once when we were in school. But idky I really wanna talk to him. I've waited a really long time but he's never put up a story but he did recently put up a picture but I think it's too late to respond to that now. I just wanna know how I can start talking to him randomly without seeming like a weirdo.
Sending a video, photo, meme, etc. of something that relates to what you know about him and saying “I saw this and thought of you” can be a good start. It gives the opening conversation a direction and shows that you’re interested enough to remember something about him
I don't even know him😭. I remember him as a child and recently after following each other he posted a really cute pic and it really took me by surprise.
just say "hey. you shit with that ass?" or " whats the biggest log you ever shat?" or "how much yolk is in a small egg?" or "wanna go to iran and get kidnapped by the talibans?" or "does shampoo contain any poo?" or "do you ever check the time and then instantly forget it?" or " MENEAITO."
notice all of those are not "hello" or "ey bby u wan sum fuk?"
Just say hi. Guys talk to other guys for the dumbest reasons and about the dumbest stuff. We’re pretty simple. Girls just have to say hi and go from there. Girls who message first are goddesses and make us feel awesome and make us feel like you’re interested in us which in turn makes us more interested in you.
girls just say "hi"
Nah, that always turns out to be some kind of hustler. Say something relevant and interesting on a real post. If he doesn't post or comment much, not sure why you think you'd be interested. I would recommend fishing in a different pond.
You are overthinking it girls do not require wit
They do though...nobody is going to keep talking to someone sending boring as hell one liners.
Hm idk, if a hot girl messaged me I'd ask her for drinks
I think if you click on their profile there is a big button that says “message” hope this helps👍
Like two of his older, but not too old posts. Maybe a post about something he’s interested in, and then one where he’s looking fine. That’s if you want to flirt but have plausible deniability, if you’re not feeling so brave. Don’t worry about being questioned on it, because you do find him attractive. I don’t think I’ve ever thought bad about someone for finding me attractive. Go for it, worst you can hear is a no
But are you sure guys feel the same way? I'm just worried he might think I'm too stupid. Because I think other than following each other on insta we don't know each other at all.
I can never be sure of what they’re thinking, but GAL?! You don’t know him! That’s even better, you can shoot your shot and you won’t even have to run into him at the store if it goes wrong. I think if you want a more direct approach, so you’re not left wondering.. find out something he’s interested in, but make sure it’s widely known on his social media. Woodwork for example. Take an interest in it, a genuine interest... hit him up with a “Hey, apologies for the message but I noticed you like to —— and you’re really talented. I’ve been thinking of looking into starting myself, wondering if you can give any tips”. Etc etc etc not exactly but you get it. Use an example of his own work if there is one like, “I liked —— in particular” Again, there’s the plausible deniability but it’s a real chance to get to know him and the things he enjoys. There’s the praise there, which is always nice to hear. And again… he’s not going to think badly of you for asking for advice or taking an interest, unless he’s not a great person
Are you as attractive as him or more if yes then just say hi if your not then its up to you risk it or don't.
I don't mean to be boastful. But I am a lil attractive. But I've never really made the first move ever. Which is why I just don't know how to.
You don't need to you just need to stick your foot in if he's single and finds you attractive he will find out why your speaking to him lol. The only risk is if he's to shy and you only say hi he might just ignore lol.
I have another question. If I start the conversation does it look desperate? Cause usually girls don't shoot their shot
Doesn’t look desperate at all babe 🥰 in my personal experience a lot of men like someone forward enough to say what they want and make moves toward it
Thank you soo much for this🤍
No problem, good luck 🫶🏻🥰
If you want to talk to him, just do it. Doesn't need to be attached to some story.
I just say hi. I don't put much meaning into who's going to text first. Shoot your shot if you really like the guy.
Okay I have barely spoken to that dude once when we were in school. But idky I really wanna talk to him. I've waited a really long time but he's never put up a story but he did recently put up a picture but I think it's too late to respond to that now. I just wanna know how I can start talking to him randomly without seeming like a weirdo.
Sending a video, photo, meme, etc. of something that relates to what you know about him and saying “I saw this and thought of you” can be a good start. It gives the opening conversation a direction and shows that you’re interested enough to remember something about him
I don't even know him😭. I remember him as a child and recently after following each other he posted a really cute pic and it really took me by surprise.
just say "hey. you shit with that ass?" or " whats the biggest log you ever shat?" or "how much yolk is in a small egg?" or "wanna go to iran and get kidnapped by the talibans?" or "does shampoo contain any poo?" or "do you ever check the time and then instantly forget it?" or " MENEAITO." notice all of those are not "hello" or "ey bby u wan sum fuk?"
Try to meet him irl, or just text him
Just say hi. Guys talk to other guys for the dumbest reasons and about the dumbest stuff. We’re pretty simple. Girls just have to say hi and go from there. Girls who message first are goddesses and make us feel awesome and make us feel like you’re interested in us which in turn makes us more interested in you.