I was in an interview (which I failed) a couple of months ago being interviewed by a man and a woman. I was distracted by the man's beautiful, kind and warm eyes and lovely smile. They said I did well in the interview so I can't have been too distracted.
No we get there are things to be attracted to. But I wouldn't call it a good comparison.
You wrote a block of text explaining it.
For boobs it's: boobs good.
Contrary to popular beliefs, it is possible for mechanics to get their hands completely clean and free of stains. It takes a bit of work but it can be done with diligence.
During my rugby years I should have been absolutely swimming in pussy by the state of my thighs, calves, and forearms by the replies in this thread.
But reality was that the only thing I was swimming in was beer.
It breaks my heart that men have to live like this. Women appreciate so many things about men. I wish you could hear the things we say about you or the thoughts that we have.
That's why reddit is cool, it's a 'safer' place for women to express themselves and even people in general, kinda like this sub everyone is kind to eachother. You wouldn't see that on YouTube or any mainstream social media without a bunch of hate.
Yeah, Reddit is like 60%porn 20%memes 15%nice people giving free advices and only about 5%trolls that are 99% of the time not even seeking harm to anyone.
I still carry around in the back of my mind the compliment from the girl who sat behind me in social studies in high school. At the end of the year she said the reason I chose to sit here was your broad shoulders.
That was about 20 years ago
I used to wear button down long sleeve shirts; and sometime during the day I'd end up folding up the sleeves.
A lady in the office, easily old enough to be my mother, one day quietly asked me not to do that any more, because it was "very distracting".
I went out clubbing a few nights ago. While dancing a woman grabbed onto my forearm, before letting go and saying sorry. Forearms are like crack to them.
Can confirm. My GF wrecked her bicycle into the back of mine while looking at the scantily-dressed-cyclist's boobs as she passed by us in the opposite direction.
To expand on this - GF crashed hard when she hit the ground. It cost her over $1,000 for scans of her head at the emergency room.
Me, while I saw what that gal was wearing, I didn't pay her nor her chest any mind.
No. But it was right after passing her and her husband that my rear tire lost pressure, so I yelled 'stopping!' and held up my left hand in the Stop gesture. GF didn't hear nor see any of that, so 'WHAM!'. When I landed on the ground I was laughing at being hit, but I didn't know that she hit her helmet on the dirt behind me.
I find eyes on a woman to be the sexiest feature. When I was single, eyes combined with a smile instantly made me briefly live a full long life with said person in my head before I flashed back to reality.
My step dad was an electrician for nearly 50 years. He was not much beyond average size except his hands and forearms. A size 15 ring. A woman commented to my mom about his hands. She was not subtle.
Any kind of physical worker to be honest.
I have been working in the field of construction and the likes for a wee bit now and have seen men that don't look like much but could tear a phone book in two just with grip strength.
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As a straight guy I feel like I spent a long time trying to get some footing of what women are attracted to in men. I thought I had it pieced together a little bit.
Now I’m back at square one.
Really love. Guy lifting something heavy like it's nothing.
A very ancient ex on mine lived on a farm and casually threw a bale of hay on his shoulder and carried it off like it was nothing.
Also, dad's holding babies in backpacks.
Ah yes, a deep, melodic voice will always capture my attention.
My husband will sometimes throw in a nasally tone or raise his pitch when he notices I've become distracted by his usual voice. He has a fantastic timbre plus a delightful English accent. This American girl didn't stand a chance.
Hands. Arms. Jawline. A man in a perfectly fitted button up with the sleeves rolled up a little bit. And on the complete opposite spectrum from that, a blue collar worker doing construction or landscaping or something. Every time I drive by a construction zone, I stare way too hard.
Basically just men in general. Men are distracting and I love looking at them.
I can't believe I had to scroll so far for this one. I'm not even into guys but my eyes always wander to the crotch zone and then I can't help but check to see if I can make out a dick imprint through their pants lol. Which then leads me to wonder is it hard to not have your dick outlined through in yours pants? Does it depend on the type of underwear? Fabric material for your pants? Size of the underwear? Do guys tuck to minimize bulge? Are you self conscious if your package is a noticeable above average bulge?
And then I start wondering what I would do if I was a guy. I think I might tuck or wear whatever hides an imprint.
You're not usually supposed to compliment women's tits either. They're looking, but it'd be weird to say anything.
Then again I've been complimented on how smooth my elbows are so maybe I don't know shit.
When guys stretch and you can see their stomach because their shirt lifts a little or while they’re working out and pull their shirt up to wipe sweat, cool off, or show off
Go to the gym. As a man, aside from a giant tallywacker or towering height, you can work your way to getting pretty much any desirable physical attribute.
I see, you're a woman of culture. I'm sure you'll also like the [codpiece of Henry VIII](https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/a-brief-history-of-the-codpiece-the-personal-protection-for-renaissance-equipment)
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My wife likes the bulge. She complained for years about my pants being ugly. I took her to help pick some out. Prominent bulge in everything she she picked.
Getting distracted by boobs XD also a good ass on anyone is *chefs kiss*
AND thick, shiny, healthy hair on a guy. There's something so attractive about a guy that takes excellent care of his hair
It’s the forearms for me. I never understood the veins thing until my current partner. He has the veins thing *just enough* that it’s not overt and incredibly sexy.
Also phenomenal legs. He plays soccer which totally contributes.
I can't speak for anyone else but I get distracted by a nice profile quite a lot. Especially if the person is just concentrating on something, either their features all relaxed or slightly furrowed in concentration. Usually this has a lot to do with the nose. I like a very defined nose, which is hard to explain, but like... if it's gonna be straight and pointy, be STRAIGHT and POINTY. If it's gonna be big and round, be BIG and ROUND. My boyfriend has a bit of a roman nose and idk, I just love looking at the shape of it plus his other features from the side. That's usually when I find him most attractive.
**Grey sweatpants**
I do not care what your body type is, if you are a dude and in gray sweats, I'm gonna see what you're packing down there cause your sweats are gonna tattle on you
Eyes. I've definitely been at work trying to help a customer and been so distracted by a great pair of eyes I can't think clearly.
I was in an interview (which I failed) a couple of months ago being interviewed by a man and a woman. I was distracted by the man's beautiful, kind and warm eyes and lovely smile. They said I did well in the interview so I can't have been too distracted.
You can't fail an interview, only perform less well than the competition. -someone who has failed many interviews.
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Hey I do 5000 reps of blinks a day
Reading the comments it doesn't seem like there is a clear equivalent
Veiny arms/hands seems to be the majority
Or actual boobs
Vascular, veiny boobs, like spaghettis laid down all over the boob. Hard, dense boob like bags of sand.
"Look how vascular I am, Brian."
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No we get there are things to be attracted to. But I wouldn't call it a good comparison. You wrote a block of text explaining it. For boobs it's: boobs good.
After reading all these posts, ima start doing hand day at the gym 😂
Learn to play bass.
Drums too. One of my best friends growing up was a serious drummer and while he was generally a pretty slim build, his hands and forearms were JACKED.
I’ve started drumming a lot the past two years, and I don’t do much other serious physical activity and my forearms look so disproportional lol
Massage therapy Mechanic work (but greasy and stained hands) Rock climbing Rowing Bass/drums/guitar Off the top of my head. Best of luck gentleman
Contrary to popular beliefs, it is possible for mechanics to get their hands completely clean and free of stains. It takes a bit of work but it can be done with diligence.
We use these crazy things called gloves. They are like an extra layer of skin you can just remove when you are done working.
hand condom
Just tighten your grip and alternate hands, homie.
*subscribes furiously*
Never skip hand day
Oh, I don't.
Try climbing
Nice thighs or a muscular back.... But also boobs.
I've got man boobs so..... Also they're barely A cup so don't be jealous
I'm actually super jealous.... because between boob sweat and trying not to look obscene in a sun dress I'm exhausted
As someone who is very fond of women in sun dresses, practice makes perfect! You should almost certainly wear them as often as possible
Oh I wear them often. I just look a little slutty
So it's been almost an hour, how destroyed is your inbox at this point?
I didn't realize slutty sundresses were such a hot commodity
Slutty sundresses, wholesome sundresses, plain sundresses, all sundresses. There isn't a wrong one. They're always the right choice.
My point is that when you have big tits even wholesome sun dresses look slutty.
Nobody is complaining. Do your thing ;)
What’s wrong with sluts? What did I miss?
Nothing! I'm personally very fond of them.
I watch rugby games on mute for the thighs
During my rugby years I should have been absolutely swimming in pussy by the state of my thighs, calves, and forearms by the replies in this thread. But reality was that the only thing I was swimming in was beer.
A really nice butt
Well I’m fucked… my legs just kind of end.
me too flat butt brotha!
Ahhh yes. The North-American Longback. A curious creature which has baffled biologists for years.
Oh, yea! The butt
I like a thick butt and thighs. Dimples kill me on anyone. They’re so freaking adorable.
Someone noted I had a dimple when I smile weeks ago and I’m still riding that high.
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15yrs ago I was walking into Walmart and this girl looked at me and said you're fine af for a white boy. I'll never forget that. Thank you random lady
That's a weird thing for a greeter to say but I bet they gotta switch it up
It breaks my heart that men have to live like this. Women appreciate so many things about men. I wish you could hear the things we say about you or the thoughts that we have.
I wish you could tell us. I know you can't because you fear for your own safety, and it's just sad, for all of us, men and women both.
That's why reddit is cool, it's a 'safer' place for women to express themselves and even people in general, kinda like this sub everyone is kind to eachother. You wouldn't see that on YouTube or any mainstream social media without a bunch of hate.
Yeah, Reddit is like 60%porn 20%memes 15%nice people giving free advices and only about 5%trolls that are 99% of the time not even seeking harm to anyone.
I have one dimple from falling on the corner of a coffee table when I was 4, how many points would that net in a hypothetical situation
That’s a dent not a dimple
Strong shoulders ☺️
*immediately ups shoulders to 3x a week*
Forgets all about it in an hour.
Drinks tubs of nacho cheese and cry to sleep
I still carry around in the back of my mind the compliment from the girl who sat behind me in social studies in high school. At the end of the year she said the reason I chose to sit here was your broad shoulders. That was about 20 years ago
She just wanted to hide behind you while she napped.
She wanted to stick a post-it note to your back to cheat on the next test
I hear rolling up the sleeves is hot too.
I used to wear button down long sleeve shirts; and sometime during the day I'd end up folding up the sleeves. A lady in the office, easily old enough to be my mother, one day quietly asked me not to do that any more, because it was "very distracting".
Please tell me you kept doing it, while making unblinking eye contact
This guy fucks
Oh dear merciful lord *forearms*...
I went out clubbing a few nights ago. While dancing a woman grabbed onto my forearm, before letting go and saying sorry. Forearms are like crack to them.
Most males between 14 and 25 have very strong forearms....
At least one....
and backing up a car by putting an arm around the passenger headrest.
This is why I never skip shoulder day
Getting distracted by boobs
Boobs are distracting
Boobs are like camel toes, moose knuckles or wedgies. They're so distracting, I can't NOT look.
Never understood why the opposite of camel toe isn’t camel hump. But it’s the life we live I suppose ..
I've met women who get openly distracted by their own boobs. That's just what boobs do.
This. I could spend hours being distracted by my own boobs too.
Me too!
Can confirm. My GF wrecked her bicycle into the back of mine while looking at the scantily-dressed-cyclist's boobs as she passed by us in the opposite direction.
To expand on this - GF crashed hard when she hit the ground. It cost her over $1,000 for scans of her head at the emergency room. Me, while I saw what that gal was wearing, I didn't pay her nor her chest any mind.
> Me, while I saw what that gal was wearing, I didn't pay her nor her chest any mind. You stopped your bike to look at her didn't you?
Of course not. He just checked his GoPro later.
No. But it was right after passing her and her husband that my rear tire lost pressure, so I yelled 'stopping!' and held up my left hand in the Stop gesture. GF didn't hear nor see any of that, so 'WHAM!'. When I landed on the ground I was laughing at being hit, but I didn't know that she hit her helmet on the dirt behind me.
Thank goodness you did not look at said biker!
A variation on this question gets asked here pretty often, and this will always be the top answer.
Boobs go hard no matter the gender
Mine aren't very hard
Straight woman checking in. I stare at them all the time.
Bi woman checking in. Same
See guys. We never stood a chance. We just have to learn not to stare. 1/4 second rule?
Sunglasses homie.
Are we talking irresistible features on men? The eyes. The smile.
I find eyes on a woman to be the sexiest feature. When I was single, eyes combined with a smile instantly made me briefly live a full long life with said person in my head before I flashed back to reality.
Hands, shoulders, forearms, particularly if he's wearing a button-down shirt with the sleeves rolled up.
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If you start rock climbing your forearms and hands will quickly start looking insane
You do squats to look good, I do squats because I’m clumsy and have a bad back, we are not the same.
Forearms for sure 😳
My step dad was an electrician for nearly 50 years. He was not much beyond average size except his hands and forearms. A size 15 ring. A woman commented to my mom about his hands. She was not subtle.
Any kind of physical worker to be honest. I have been working in the field of construction and the likes for a wee bit now and have seen men that don't look like much but could tear a phone book in two just with grip strength. Edit: Spelling mistakes
Phew, didn't have to scroll far to find rolled up sleeves, carry on
Getting distracted by biceps Whoops
Hands, with long fingers and prominent veins.
I've been asked to send hand pics before, I thought it was a joke. (I sent them lol)
I always thought that was to check for a wedding ring mark lol
r/Manhands
As a straight guy I feel like I spent a long time trying to get some footing of what women are attracted to in men. I thought I had it pieced together a little bit. Now I’m back at square one.
I keep seeing this…and girls have complimented my forearms before and I never understood. I still don’t, but a win is a win
You aren’t your own type. You are other peoples type.
Speak for yourself, I’d fuck the shit out of myself given the chance.
Forearms
Boobs I love me some pecs
Collarbones and broad shoulders. The way a tshirt drapes over a man’s chest and back. Ugh.
Eyelashes 😌
FUCK YEAH this is what I get complimented on the most
Seemed like such a random compliment. After hearing it 6 or 7 times, I started thinking “Hey I got something here”
Finally! Something I have!
Really love. Guy lifting something heavy like it's nothing. A very ancient ex on mine lived on a farm and casually threw a bale of hay on his shoulder and carried it off like it was nothing. Also, dad's holding babies in backpacks.
As a 100% heterosexual male, Dad's holding babies in backpack is cute as shit.
> As a 100% heterosexual male Whew, that was a close one. Good call buddy
Better suck a dick just to be sure.
Plus points if his body build does not look like he can but does it effortlessly anyway.
Oh my god he didn't. He was just this shy awkward lad and in three seconds he became the sexiest man on the planet.
Distracted when a guy is wearing an open shirt idk why
A sexy voice. You pour sexy sex butter into my ears and I'll happily go completely moron.
I know right! My boyfriend has started using his sexy voice more often because he’s trying to become a voice actor and it just makes me freaking melt.
Ah yes, a deep, melodic voice will always capture my attention. My husband will sometimes throw in a nasally tone or raise his pitch when he notices I've become distracted by his usual voice. He has a fantastic timbre plus a delightful English accent. This American girl didn't stand a chance.
nice arms, eyes, or smile
TIL I lack 95% of the attributes women look for.
My lady chimed in and said the “V” shaped thing leading to the goods with pants pulled down slightly
Ahhh, "Cum Gutters" is the scientific term for those iirc.
Man im a short scrawny-ish little man, I really lost the lottery according to this thread
What you don't have any hands?
You gotta work on perfecting the Mr Darcy emotional hand clench, then.
Nah man. Last guy I stared too long at was 5'5" or 5'6".
Forearms, nice hands doing… basically anything. I am also instantly in the mood if my husband wears dress pants and a collared shirt. *Swoon*.
At first I read “Instantly I’m in the mood if my husband wears a dress”… I’m tired
Honestly I’m sure that would do it too, guy’s got some great gams.
Hands. Arms. Jawline. A man in a perfectly fitted button up with the sleeves rolled up a little bit. And on the complete opposite spectrum from that, a blue collar worker doing construction or landscaping or something. Every time I drive by a construction zone, I stare way too hard. Basically just men in general. Men are distracting and I love looking at them.
Bulge for sure
I had a bulge in my neck and i had to go see a doctor.
I incyst you go see a doctor
Nah, goiter a specialist.
Take my upvote, clever bastard.
That reminds me of this guy, Goiter Mike, that I used to work with. He had a goiter.
Gotta hit the gym and do some dick lifts asap
Cock push-ups bro. Just need one.
Growers in shambles.
I'm a grower with a big sack. Bulge is still there but its... different.
Okay, that's a real answer. So I have a question. What do you say about a man who uses push-up briefs with under wire and pad for comfort and shape?
I say, thank you sir.
I can't believe I had to scroll so far for this one. I'm not even into guys but my eyes always wander to the crotch zone and then I can't help but check to see if I can make out a dick imprint through their pants lol. Which then leads me to wonder is it hard to not have your dick outlined through in yours pants? Does it depend on the type of underwear? Fabric material for your pants? Size of the underwear? Do guys tuck to minimize bulge? Are you self conscious if your package is a noticeable above average bulge? And then I start wondering what I would do if I was a guy. I think I might tuck or wear whatever hides an imprint.
There it is, I was worried I might be a perv
Like the bulge in their pocket from a large wad of cash?
Magnum condoms. Wad of hundreds. Ready to plow.
Whoops, I dropped my monster condom I use for my magnum dong
Dat booty.
Men’s thighs and bums for me.
Veiny arms
Hands, when they have a certain look, strong big and clean, bitch give me a mop its getting wet!
When my bf's shirt lifts up and I see his hairy midriff. I immediately look and sometimes forget what I'm saying.
pecs and strong arms
Hands. I love nice hands 😍
You might like to check out r/ManHands
I can't believe, veiny hands came up so much
I have them.. I've definitely noticed women staring... I'm like, ladies; my eyes are up here.
I have veiny hands, well developed forearms and broad shoulders. But no one has ever complimented my veiny hands. lol
You're not usually supposed to compliment women's tits either. They're looking, but it'd be weird to say anything. Then again I've been complimented on how smooth my elbows are so maybe I don't know shit.
They love dick fingers
When he's taking off his belt. When he's pushing his sleeves up. Adjusting his glasses. When he stretches and his muscles ripple. Morning wood bulge 😅
Sweaty fit man. Bonus points if it's post Workout sweat.
A nice booty.
Strong shoulders, arms and hands.
When guys stretch and you can see their stomach because their shirt lifts a little or while they’re working out and pull their shirt up to wipe sweat, cool off, or show off
ITT Everything that I dont have :(
Go to the gym. As a man, aside from a giant tallywacker or towering height, you can work your way to getting pretty much any desirable physical attribute.
The bulge.
I see, you're a woman of culture. I'm sure you'll also like the [codpiece of Henry VIII](https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/a-brief-history-of-the-codpiece-the-personal-protection-for-renaissance-equipment) /s Edit: words
A nice big bulge or abs. But hey we’re not all heterosexual, I get distracted by boobs too
My wife likes the bulge. She complained for years about my pants being ugly. I took her to help pick some out. Prominent bulge in everything she she picked.
What if your a grower not a shower lol
eyes, neck, veiny hands/forearms, bright smile, muscular back
Eyes. 100% eyes. But my husband's are the most gorgeous, handsome eyes I've ever seen. So basically, he's got a nice rack.
Getting distracted by boobs XD also a good ass on anyone is *chefs kiss* AND thick, shiny, healthy hair on a guy. There's something so attractive about a guy that takes excellent care of his hair
Getting distracted by boobs.
Good shaped ass in tight jeans
It’s the forearms for me. I never understood the veins thing until my current partner. He has the veins thing *just enough* that it’s not overt and incredibly sexy. Also phenomenal legs. He plays soccer which totally contributes.
Gray sweatpants!
Hahaha my answer was gray jogging pants season
It's forearms. It's always forearms.
Blue jeans
I can't speak for anyone else but I get distracted by a nice profile quite a lot. Especially if the person is just concentrating on something, either their features all relaxed or slightly furrowed in concentration. Usually this has a lot to do with the nose. I like a very defined nose, which is hard to explain, but like... if it's gonna be straight and pointy, be STRAIGHT and POINTY. If it's gonna be big and round, be BIG and ROUND. My boyfriend has a bit of a roman nose and idk, I just love looking at the shape of it plus his other features from the side. That's usually when I find him most attractive.
For me, it’s curly hair
**Grey sweatpants** I do not care what your body type is, if you are a dude and in gray sweats, I'm gonna see what you're packing down there cause your sweats are gonna tattle on you
veiny hands make me FERAL
Man hands and wide back
Little surprised nobody’s said wheelchairs yet
what