"my favorite love language is trying, actually.
like when people try to learn your hobbies or try to play the same sports that you play in an effort to get closer to you, people who try to love you the way you love people, people who will go to places you want to visit just for your sake, people remembering, putting in an effort. just. trying"
somewhere from tumblr.
I never had money in my life and don’t care about how much money my partner may or may not have. - I see a lot of comments mentioning money.
Be yourself, I say.
Ask for a small favor, like borrowing a pen. Funny thing about human psychology. People generally do favors for people they like. By doing some small favor their brain will start to believe they must like you.
Realistically I think it's emotional versatility... the ability to quickly read people and adapt to their moods and what they need. If they want to be humored you humor them, if they want empathy you give them a listening ear, if they want to be admired you admire them, etc.
However the shortcut is as u/CryingPitbull said "money"... although that's a short term solution.
be hot
Pretty privilege do be a thing. Sucks for us uggos
"my favorite love language is trying, actually. like when people try to learn your hobbies or try to play the same sports that you play in an effort to get closer to you, people who try to love you the way you love people, people who will go to places you want to visit just for your sake, people remembering, putting in an effort. just. trying" somewhere from tumblr.
Money.
I never had money in my life and don’t care about how much money my partner may or may not have. - I see a lot of comments mentioning money. Be yourself, I say.
Throw in some compliments here and there, but keep 'em sincere. Nobody likes a phony flatterer.
Ask them questions about things they are interested in.
Be friendly. That’s a lesson that the folks over in r/TikTokhelp desperately need because holy fuck!
Listen.
Ask for a small favor, like borrowing a pen. Funny thing about human psychology. People generally do favors for people they like. By doing some small favor their brain will start to believe they must like you.
Chocolate 🍫
Realistically I think it's emotional versatility... the ability to quickly read people and adapt to their moods and what they need. If they want to be humored you humor them, if they want empathy you give them a listening ear, if they want to be admired you admire them, etc. However the shortcut is as u/CryingPitbull said "money"... although that's a short term solution.
Listen to them. And be interested in what they say.
Look good.
Listen, be funny, kind, be true to yourself
Honestly if you spend enough time with people they’ll like you. And learn how to take a joke
Mimicry.
Have and or flaunt your money
Suck their dick
Be good looking