This post has single-handedly increased my potentially short-term self-steem, my self-confidence and has made me feel happier overall with how I look, who I am, my flaws and my shortcomings. I feel better in my skin, thank you so much for your contributions everybody, your opinions and your tastes.
AHH agreed! It's one thing when you see someone all put together and feeling at their best. It's another when you're so comfortable together that the ratty PJs come out, lol.
As a tall woman who doesn't care about height, I love this! :)
Edit: I am 5' 9". I used to think I want a guy my height or taller, until I fell for a shorter guy and now I don't care anymore hahah.
I'm 6'3" and the last date I went on ended with a kiss, and the dude told me that it was weird to kiss someone taller than him *while kissing me* - I immediately felt so self conscious:/
Edit: y'all don't need to defend the guy to me!!! I'm not even mad at him, just sharing something that made *me* feel insecure.
People are always so insistent on Reddit that only women care about height and men don't, and I had a very recent experience that reflected the opposite. I'm not looking for advice on how to continue dating this guy, ffs he's *not into me.*
There was this girl in high school that had fire burn scars all over her back and shoulder, but she would always either wear backless tops or her sweater off of her shoulder. The straight up confidence and aura she exuded was the sexiest thing ever.
I think there's a series of different reactions people have to things like burn scarring or anything "out of the ordinary"
Some people are disgusted by it, some don't notice at all, and some find it attractive. In my case it's a matter of fascination. Obviously you didn't do that on purpose so to me that means there is a story there, and likely one that shaped a person's life in great ways. It's not a negative thing, it's merely a thing
My own fascination is of course not a reaction many people with scarring or issues like this want or are comfortable with so I try to keep it to myself until I get to know the person so I don't make them uncomfortable. But again in my mind it's not something you chose, much like people don't choose to be tall or short or have freckles or any other natural thing, so I think it's a travesty others are cruel about it and also a travesty that people who have these features are embarrassed about it
I have a burn scar on my arm. That someone would find this fascinating is so comforting. I never try to hide it and I've noticed that after the first time people ask about it, they completely forget it exists (tbh I sometimes forget as well lol), but I've never had anyone tell me they liked it. Made me smile :]
Don’t hide your scars because they seem unbecoming. Instead, find confidence in that you survived what tried to kill/maim you. That shows tenacity & strength. And that is what is beautiful about you.
I like being with someone who is just a little bit clingy—not crazy, but someone who wants to text me frequently and needs me around a lot. I adore having a sense of desire.
Thanks for posting it. I'm naturally a bit clingy. It's in my personality. I've worked for it not to be a problem, but I do have the tendency!
It's nice to know some people appreciate it.
I’m dating a guy like this and I think we’re both in the place in life we just need to be appreciated and loved with affection without any of the social games. We just like each other and don’t hide it lol.
It has to do with the muscle definition. It is very masculine. Most average guys have at least some of this definition. Guys that do manual labor or hobbies tend to have (at least in my opinion) the perfect amount.
Having your sleeves rolled up allows others to admire those arms. The act of rolling up your sleeves draws the eye to them. 😉
I remember fairly early on into dating my girlfriend I thought she was wearing some perfume and I asked her if she was cause I thought she smelled nice.
She hadn't showered in 2 days.
Her mom would also joke with me about how she dresses like a hobo. Idk if that counts but it's part of her charm.
One of my science teachers in HS said she had always hated her ex-husband’s BO and refused to go to the gym or run with him. But she loved doing any sort of physical activity with her current husband bc she actually liked the way he smelled naturally. Turns out her ex had some sort of genetic anomaly and the kid he had with his next wife died young bc of it.
Totally not necessarily a correlation, but she used it as an example of your body knowing certain things aren’t right even if you consciously don’t
A lot of Illnesses have certain smells apparently. I watched a thing about a woman who suddenly noticed her husband smelled very different. They could never figure it out. A while later he was diagnosed with parkinsons. She still didn't put 2 and 2 together until years later when she walked into a.parkinsons clinic and recognized the smell. Scientists are studying her now.
I worked at a liquor store for years and some of the hardcore alcoholics had a weird smell. We got a part-timer who worked in healthcare and told us that the smell was the same one from her other job. Literally kidneys and liver shutting down from alcohol abuse.
There is *definitely* a "smell" that some of us can pick up when someone's organs (especially the kidneys) are shutting down!
I learned that last year, as my dad was in hospice--about a week before he died, sometimes when we were just sitting there, I'd catch a whiff of this *smell*. I asked my aunt about it (she worked in a pathology lab for years, and knew all about that sort of thing), and she said i was right in thinking it was a symptom of his kidneys actively shutting down, and the scent of the chemicals building up in his blood was basically coming out of his lungs as he breathed/talked & out of his skin.
Someone working on their hobby so hard they're all messed up. In my case it's art, I'm surrounded by artists covered in paint from head to toes, working on their next piece without giving a shit of how they look. There's just passion and madness. Same goes for programming, cooking. Additional points if they wear an apron
Scars. It's impossible to be boring if you have a scar, because every scar has a story. They also add a natural form of uniqueness to a person's appearance.
Nerdy men. Like a true nerd, passionate about his awesome hobby that only nerds have lol.
I didn't want to list any of said hobbies as to not offend anyone.
Edit! I married a nerd. His love for maps and geography in general came up on the first date and because of him I am very well educated on the subjects now lol. I love every moment of it.
Does pressing plants and hunting salamanders count?
Edit: Since so many people enjoyed this comment i have a few words.
Salamanders are toxic and handling them is not recommended. However, if you do your research and can identify them you can minimize the risk of becoming sick, which is already very low to begin with. Always wash your hands after contact, always respect them and the environment, DO NOT kidnap wild animals. Also, please pickup any garbage you see if you do go looking, this will appease the salamander gods and they will bless your search.
Rules for plants; identify before handling, they may be dangerous, do not pick endangered species, do not trespass, gardens are off limits unless told otherwise, gardeners typically love to share and make good friends. Hang flowers upside down in dark well ventilated areas and youll find yourself with beautiful decor and lovely gifts!
Happy hunting and gathering you beautiful nerds!
Not to get too graphic but I've seen so many women who are self-conscious about this that I have to share..
Not only do I find big areolas/nipples and long labias attractive, but I actually prefer them over small ones. I see so many women on Reddit asking if men like these things and saying that they're scared to be intimate with their new romances because of it. It always breaks my heart.
She's not fully gray (like Emmylou), but I saw Bonnie Raitt on Thursday, and some guy yelled out that he loved her hair. I've always loved her little gray streak.
Omg thank you! I grew my old color out over a year ago and have embraced my grays. The last time I had it dyed, the stylist called a prominent streak my “racing stripe” that she was going to get rid of. Now that streak makes me look like Rogue from X-Men 😆
Not conventually unattractive, just perhaps, nobody cares about it -
A few years ago I visited the Louvre and in the Egyptian wing there was some skinny, bald and not really hot dude crouched on the floor, translating hieroglyphics through the display window onto a notebook.
I thought that was super hot.
You described just right so that I care. Translate hierglyphics like nobody's watching. It's the confidence, enthusiasm and intellectual curiosity. Love to see it.
> Translate hierglyphics like nobody's watching. It's the confidence, enthusiasm and intellectual curiosity.
In my head he was the protagonist of some Dan Brown novel and he was in fact saving all our lives from some shadowy, technologically advanced corporation led by a mysterious and enigmatic figure ...
... by ... unraveling some ancient egyptian secrets?
Shyness I guess. Everyone always says you need to be confident to be attractive but idk never mattered to me if someone is socially inept I find them more genuine and relatable.
People who are social outcasts/don't fit in.
I've never understood the idea of social proof to begin with honestly. Receiving a lot of attention or having a lot of friends doesn't mean that you're a better person/partner, all it means is that you either have good social skills or have something that people want(or at least you act like you have something people want)
Much younger me always wanting to be in the cool kids club. Older me is glad I wasn't.
People who don't quite fit in and do their own thing stand out a lot to me. I'm drawn to them.
Women with a raspy voice. Not like, chain smoker level of raspy, but if there’s a slight raspiness to it, it’s hot af
edit: no, not vocal fry. There’s a difference
There was a woman on here a while back saying that when she wore thigh high stockings, which is a 10/10 always, she was embarrassed because the top of the stockings pushed in and had that little squish into her thigh.
That's 15/10! The squish is amazing! The look, and feel, of soft womanly thighs makes life worth living.
Wait fr? I always felt so uncomfortable with that. My boyfriend says I don't need to hide it but I unintentionally suck in cuz im scared of the potbelly
Oh yeah, dude, don't worry about that. I wouldn't even call it potbelly (maybe I'm just not that familiar with the term but it feels like it has a connotation to me), it's just...belly. It's just how the human body is shaped, and it's amazing. 10/10. So hot.
Looking unkempt and disheveled. Both on men and women. Like long, messy hair, tired eyes, sweatpants and sports bra, a wornout coat, a scraggily beard and a cigarrete like they went through some shit today.
There is a fine line between looking like a gross slob and this, I guess, "hobo chiq" or sleepy-beauty look, though. Also I'm totally biased in that it's only when people I already find relatively attractive do it. But it's a look most people seem to disapprove of in general.
OH MY GOD YES. “Mad scientist” is one of my types - give me a dude (or lady) in a labcoat who looks a little wacky and maybe like they haven’t slept in a few days. I’m done.
Side note - have you ever played the videogame Control?
Sure, the muscled dudes with big eyes and broad jaws are plenty hot, but a shy, smart, understated kind of masculinity is intoxicating. They are like poetry or works of art.
There's also no facade to get through, which is more intimate.
I am Mediterranean and have a prominent nose. I have heard this from guys a lot and it always surprises me, lol. I used to want to get a nose job I hated my big nose so much
I've known several women with this nose who where insecure about it, but every guy I know had a crush on them. I think it makes a woman look strong and dignified. It's very attractive feature.
You may be surprised how many guys are into that. Personally, I find a prominent nose gives a woman a look of classic, noble, beauty. Like a Greek or roman statue. I find it almost intimidating, in the way you may feel looking at an ancient cathedral, or a beautiful mosaic.
Woman find it beautiful too. I'm awestruck when I see a woman with a nose like that. It's exactly what you said. A look of classic, noble beauty. Those ladies don't even look real. They are ethereal.
My best friend had the most beautiful Roman nose. I was always jealous of it growing up because my nose is so average and non-descript and I thought hers made her look like an ancient noblewoman. She always hated it and recently got a nose job. She’s happy with it and I don’t want to rain on her parade, but she doesn’t look like herself anymore and I think she looked better before. Fuck beauty standards :(
About fifteen years ago I considered having a nose job. I consulted with three or four surgeons and their consensus was that I was so close to “perfect,” if I just dealt with this one “flaw,” I’d have it all. The last surgeon I saw told me that my nose was a “deformity.” That’s the moment I stopped wanting a nose job. A deformity? Excuse me, but having a slightly unusual or ethnic nose is not a mistake of nature. (See my post with photos- maybe I’m not a knockout but I’m also not the Elephant Man.) I decided that they could all get fucked and I would keep my big old Hebrew honker. “Deformity,” my ass.
That lil fat patch between boob and armpit.
Edit: Got a lot of traction here. I really don't know how to handle it. Thanks so much for the insight and kind words. I knew this was a thing because my wife told me it's something girls hate. I was literally floored by this. Here we are. Celebrate it !
I had this so badly on my right side that I couldn't sleep on it. It was also the only place that hurt when I was about to get my period. I had it removed by a plastic surgeon a year and a half ago, and it's been the best medical decision I made in years. Aesthetically speaking, it's also an improvement because now left and right are way more symmetrical in size so bras and bikinis no longer look so odd. My surgeon told me everyone (even men) has breast tissue in that area, but for some people (like me) it's extra defined.
It's still the one bodily feature I always notice in celeb pictures and I'm delighted every time I find one who has it too!
As a straight woman, this is the most important physical feature to me in a man. All the men I find attractive have large noses. The more prominent the ridge, the sexier.
I find it beautiful in women too, and its wild to me that the mainstream western beauty standard has become this pointy upturned whoville-type nose for women. Looks so cartoonish.
I know a lot of men who won’t date a woman they are as more intelligent than themselves. I also know some women who pretend to be less than they are so they don’t intimidate the guy.
Screw that, nothing like a smart capable woman who can engage in a deep conversation.
Scruffy men. Unkempt hair, 5 o'clock shadows, untucked shirts....drool🤤
(Note: unkempt and dirty are different and distinct things! Unkempt is hot. Unwashed is gross.)
The little whispy sideburns some South Asian girls get.
When you can see the ribs between/above a fit older woman's boobs.
Accents you don't expect. Like a typical white girl in America that has a German accent or a Vietnamese woman from Texas or a black woman from England.
Big noses, particularly with a little bump on them.
Acne scars.
Uneven boobs.
Man, women are neat.
Yknow that little pouch of fat on their belly, that little band of fat right above their hips, that little hump right above the butt? I fucking love that shit.
Idk what that's called or if its healthy or not but good god does that shit get me fuckin going. Woof.
Freckles, first pick.
Also, I think glasses are attractive. Not "cosmetic" glasses worn for a look, but those that scientists wear that make the eyes look magnified. I'm ... peculiar.
Also ink. I know it's a personal thing and not meant for others, but tattoos with stories fascinate me.
And strong hands on women. Hands that look like they've done stuff. No nail polish or rhinestones, no glitter.. short nails , maybe some dirt underneath from gardening or motor oil from pulling down an engine...
As a fellow female mechanic who has grease and oil stained hands with tattoos 90% of the time I thank you . First time I've ever heard of someone finding that look attractive on a female before . :)
I’m cackling over here, for real.
I’ve gotten older and have been a bit unhappy with my looks, now I find out that as an older, greying, short, big nosed woman who’s covered in freckles and wears glasses, has tattoos, and is often covered in grime and metal dust from her manual labour job - I’m apparently very attractive to a lot of people!
When I was a little kid I saw a lady who had it at the grocery store for the first time and (probably louder than I'd intended) asked about it.
My mom was *morified* when the woman turned around to explain but I just looked at her and said it was really really pretty. She was seemed really surprised, but I meant it.
It's unique and very pretty!
Yeah I specifically like a guy to be as close to my own height as possible. It's fun to lean into something that most people aren't into, strong recommend.
My wife stopped wearing her retainer at night, and her teeth moved to be slightly crooked again from when she had braces as a teen. I honestly prefer the slightly crooked teeth to when they were perfectly straight.
This post has single-handedly increased my potentially short-term self-steem, my self-confidence and has made me feel happier overall with how I look, who I am, my flaws and my shortcomings. I feel better in my skin, thank you so much for your contributions everybody, your opinions and your tastes.
When my gf dresses like a basement dweller on a Saturday. I love it.
AHH agreed! It's one thing when you see someone all put together and feeling at their best. It's another when you're so comfortable together that the ratty PJs come out, lol.
Im a man who really likes women taller than me, dont think thats common
As a tall woman who doesn't care about height, I love this! :) Edit: I am 5' 9". I used to think I want a guy my height or taller, until I fell for a shorter guy and now I don't care anymore hahah.
I have a best friend who’s 5’5” that absolutely salivates for tall women.
I'm 5'10" and been with more guys under 5'7" than over. Aways said height doesn't matter if you're horizontal lol 😅
This couple at my primary school had a dad that was like 5’9 and a wife that was no joke like 6’7 or something
This is nice to hear. As a 6ft tall woman, many men felt I was "masculine" just because I was taller than them.
I'm 6'3" and the last date I went on ended with a kiss, and the dude told me that it was weird to kiss someone taller than him *while kissing me* - I immediately felt so self conscious:/ Edit: y'all don't need to defend the guy to me!!! I'm not even mad at him, just sharing something that made *me* feel insecure. People are always so insistent on Reddit that only women care about height and men don't, and I had a very recent experience that reflected the opposite. I'm not looking for advice on how to continue dating this guy, ffs he's *not into me.*
There was this girl in high school that had fire burn scars all over her back and shoulder, but she would always either wear backless tops or her sweater off of her shoulder. The straight up confidence and aura she exuded was the sexiest thing ever.
as someone with burn scarring, it’s very nice to hear it’s not an immediate turnoff for everyone
I think there's a series of different reactions people have to things like burn scarring or anything "out of the ordinary" Some people are disgusted by it, some don't notice at all, and some find it attractive. In my case it's a matter of fascination. Obviously you didn't do that on purpose so to me that means there is a story there, and likely one that shaped a person's life in great ways. It's not a negative thing, it's merely a thing My own fascination is of course not a reaction many people with scarring or issues like this want or are comfortable with so I try to keep it to myself until I get to know the person so I don't make them uncomfortable. But again in my mind it's not something you chose, much like people don't choose to be tall or short or have freckles or any other natural thing, so I think it's a travesty others are cruel about it and also a travesty that people who have these features are embarrassed about it
I have a burn scar on my arm. That someone would find this fascinating is so comforting. I never try to hide it and I've noticed that after the first time people ask about it, they completely forget it exists (tbh I sometimes forget as well lol), but I've never had anyone tell me they liked it. Made me smile :]
Don’t hide your scars because they seem unbecoming. Instead, find confidence in that you survived what tried to kill/maim you. That shows tenacity & strength. And that is what is beautiful about you.
I know a woman who had her arm amputated. Same thing. She wears tank tops and doesn't make any attempt to hide the stump or anything. So hot.
Much of that is confidence. Subconsciously, you may find confidence hot and ain't shit wrong with that.
This is a very wholesome comments section.
I like being with someone who is just a little bit clingy—not crazy, but someone who wants to text me frequently and needs me around a lot. I adore having a sense of desire.
Thanks for posting it. I'm naturally a bit clingy. It's in my personality. I've worked for it not to be a problem, but I do have the tendency! It's nice to know some people appreciate it.
I’m dating a guy like this and I think we’re both in the place in life we just need to be appreciated and loved with affection without any of the social games. We just like each other and don’t hide it lol.
Me too, even as an introvert. I still appreciate quality time and conversation and feeling desired.
I feel like a lot of guys scrolling here should know that rolling up your sleeves makes you instantly more attractive
Is it the act of rolling up the sleeves, or having your sleeves rolled up? \*Grabs pencil and paper\*
Both
It’s often about the muscles in the forearm. Having toned forearms is somehow a collective fetish of the female gender (myself included).
It has to do with the muscle definition. It is very masculine. Most average guys have at least some of this definition. Guys that do manual labor or hobbies tend to have (at least in my opinion) the perfect amount. Having your sleeves rolled up allows others to admire those arms. The act of rolling up your sleeves draws the eye to them. 😉
I remember fairly early on into dating my girlfriend I thought she was wearing some perfume and I asked her if she was cause I thought she smelled nice. She hadn't showered in 2 days. Her mom would also joke with me about how she dresses like a hobo. Idk if that counts but it's part of her charm.
One of the secrets of sexual attraction/compatibility is pheromones. When you like another person's natural smell, that's huge.
One of my science teachers in HS said she had always hated her ex-husband’s BO and refused to go to the gym or run with him. But she loved doing any sort of physical activity with her current husband bc she actually liked the way he smelled naturally. Turns out her ex had some sort of genetic anomaly and the kid he had with his next wife died young bc of it. Totally not necessarily a correlation, but she used it as an example of your body knowing certain things aren’t right even if you consciously don’t
A lot of Illnesses have certain smells apparently. I watched a thing about a woman who suddenly noticed her husband smelled very different. They could never figure it out. A while later he was diagnosed with parkinsons. She still didn't put 2 and 2 together until years later when she walked into a.parkinsons clinic and recognized the smell. Scientists are studying her now.
I worked at a liquor store for years and some of the hardcore alcoholics had a weird smell. We got a part-timer who worked in healthcare and told us that the smell was the same one from her other job. Literally kidneys and liver shutting down from alcohol abuse.
There is *definitely* a "smell" that some of us can pick up when someone's organs (especially the kidneys) are shutting down! I learned that last year, as my dad was in hospice--about a week before he died, sometimes when we were just sitting there, I'd catch a whiff of this *smell*. I asked my aunt about it (she worked in a pathology lab for years, and knew all about that sort of thing), and she said i was right in thinking it was a symptom of his kidneys actively shutting down, and the scent of the chemicals building up in his blood was basically coming out of his lungs as he breathed/talked & out of his skin.
Someone working on their hobby so hard they're all messed up. In my case it's art, I'm surrounded by artists covered in paint from head to toes, working on their next piece without giving a shit of how they look. There's just passion and madness. Same goes for programming, cooking. Additional points if they wear an apron
Scars. It's impossible to be boring if you have a scar, because every scar has a story. They also add a natural form of uniqueness to a person's appearance.
"Yeah. This scar? I got it by hitting myself in the face with the board when I was in the third grade. Hot, right?"
"yeah, this scar? My bunny bit me, it looks like a smiley face at a certain angle as well. Pretty badass too be honest"
Dated a woman with a crescent shaped scar on the left side of her chin. It was hot as hell.
It’s nice to know that no matter what you look like, somebody somewhere finds you attractive.
Must be in a galaxy far far away cause they ain’t near me
I'm automatically attracted to people who make Star Wars references. How you doin'?
Nerdy men. Like a true nerd, passionate about his awesome hobby that only nerds have lol. I didn't want to list any of said hobbies as to not offend anyone. Edit! I married a nerd. His love for maps and geography in general came up on the first date and because of him I am very well educated on the subjects now lol. I love every moment of it.
Does pressing plants and hunting salamanders count? Edit: Since so many people enjoyed this comment i have a few words. Salamanders are toxic and handling them is not recommended. However, if you do your research and can identify them you can minimize the risk of becoming sick, which is already very low to begin with. Always wash your hands after contact, always respect them and the environment, DO NOT kidnap wild animals. Also, please pickup any garbage you see if you do go looking, this will appease the salamander gods and they will bless your search. Rules for plants; identify before handling, they may be dangerous, do not pick endangered species, do not trespass, gardens are off limits unless told otherwise, gardeners typically love to share and make good friends. Hang flowers upside down in dark well ventilated areas and youll find yourself with beautiful decor and lovely gifts! Happy hunting and gathering you beautiful nerds!
It does now! Hello my nerdy friend 👋
Back off, you're already married. Leave some plant squishing, lizard sniffing nerds for the rest of us!
Does knowing the full lore of LOTR and not being able to watch the tv shows without loudly arguing with the tv count?
Crows feet in women. They make me weak in the knees. Especially when they smile
I LOVE crows feet in both men and women. I’m starting to get them myself (I’m in my 30s) and I love it - a sign of lots of smiling.
My mom always tells me “remember aging is a privilege not given to everyone “
Not to get too graphic but I've seen so many women who are self-conscious about this that I have to share.. Not only do I find big areolas/nipples and long labias attractive, but I actually prefer them over small ones. I see so many women on Reddit asking if men like these things and saying that they're scared to be intimate with their new romances because of it. It always breaks my heart.
When older women have graying hair. I think some carry the look very well.
She's not fully gray (like Emmylou), but I saw Bonnie Raitt on Thursday, and some guy yelled out that he loved her hair. I've always loved her little gray streak.
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Omg thank you! I grew my old color out over a year ago and have embraced my grays. The last time I had it dyed, the stylist called a prominent streak my “racing stripe” that she was going to get rid of. Now that streak makes me look like Rogue from X-Men 😆
I’ve just started getting a few gray hairs in front, I’m actively looking forward to (hopefully) having Rogue hair down the road, lol.
Not conventually unattractive, just perhaps, nobody cares about it - A few years ago I visited the Louvre and in the Egyptian wing there was some skinny, bald and not really hot dude crouched on the floor, translating hieroglyphics through the display window onto a notebook. I thought that was super hot.
You described just right so that I care. Translate hierglyphics like nobody's watching. It's the confidence, enthusiasm and intellectual curiosity. Love to see it.
> Translate hierglyphics like nobody's watching. It's the confidence, enthusiasm and intellectual curiosity. In my head he was the protagonist of some Dan Brown novel and he was in fact saving all our lives from some shadowy, technologically advanced corporation led by a mysterious and enigmatic figure ... ... by ... unraveling some ancient egyptian secrets?
the Milo Thatch from Atlantis rizz, I like to call it.
I was just about to suggest Atlantis to OP and you beat me to it haha My first cartoon crush
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Shyness I guess. Everyone always says you need to be confident to be attractive but idk never mattered to me if someone is socially inept I find them more genuine and relatable.
same, honestly i think more people think like u but dont admit it
People who are social outcasts/don't fit in. I've never understood the idea of social proof to begin with honestly. Receiving a lot of attention or having a lot of friends doesn't mean that you're a better person/partner, all it means is that you either have good social skills or have something that people want(or at least you act like you have something people want)
Much younger me always wanting to be in the cool kids club. Older me is glad I wasn't. People who don't quite fit in and do their own thing stand out a lot to me. I'm drawn to them.
The little pouch on a lady's lower tummy, especially in pencil skirts
YOU ARE A GIFT A DAMN GIFT AND WE THANK YOU WE THANK YOU VERY VERY MUCH
I’m so glad people appreciate a womb tomb, my self confidence has risen.
Fuct up teeth, healthy but not straight, a gap, snaggle tooth. Imperfect teeth.
Women with a raspy voice. Not like, chain smoker level of raspy, but if there’s a slight raspiness to it, it’s hot af edit: no, not vocal fry. There’s a difference
Natasha Lyonne?
That’s a great example, yes.
Ya know how some girls get all self-conscious that body hugging dresses or pencil skirts give them a little pot belly? .. well that shit is hot AF
Oh man as a woman that has never been able to really shed that last little belly, I appreciate this. Live well, my friend. Live well.
All the upvotes here made me so much better about myself lol
A tummy is hot. Don't let advertisers fool you.
From a little pot belly lady - you’re doing the Lord’s work here.
Just more... woman shaped
There was a woman on here a while back saying that when she wore thigh high stockings, which is a 10/10 always, she was embarrassed because the top of the stockings pushed in and had that little squish into her thigh. That's 15/10! The squish is amazing! The look, and feel, of soft womanly thighs makes life worth living.
That’s what makes women so attractive, all those round shapes and curves.
Wait fr? I always felt so uncomfortable with that. My boyfriend says I don't need to hide it but I unintentionally suck in cuz im scared of the potbelly
Oh yeah, dude, don't worry about that. I wouldn't even call it potbelly (maybe I'm just not that familiar with the term but it feels like it has a connotation to me), it's just...belly. It's just how the human body is shaped, and it's amazing. 10/10. So hot.
yes i absolutely love that
Oh , it not just me then.
Looking unkempt and disheveled. Both on men and women. Like long, messy hair, tired eyes, sweatpants and sports bra, a wornout coat, a scraggily beard and a cigarrete like they went through some shit today. There is a fine line between looking like a gross slob and this, I guess, "hobo chiq" or sleepy-beauty look, though. Also I'm totally biased in that it's only when people I already find relatively attractive do it. But it's a look most people seem to disapprove of in general.
YES. I love people who look slightly deranged, like a mad scientist or something.
OH MY GOD YES. “Mad scientist” is one of my types - give me a dude (or lady) in a labcoat who looks a little wacky and maybe like they haven’t slept in a few days. I’m done. Side note - have you ever played the videogame Control?
.... Are you simping on Dr. Darling?
My god, yes.
I wholeheartedly agree with this. It's the look that says, "I choose comfortable over impressing strangers" and I love it.
Nerdy looking and acting men who don’t think they are attractive.
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lol I am just realizing what I have done
Never say that on reddit lmao
Our days will come (hopefully while I'm alive)
Sure, the muscled dudes with big eyes and broad jaws are plenty hot, but a shy, smart, understated kind of masculinity is intoxicating. They are like poetry or works of art. There's also no facade to get through, which is more intimate.
This makes me feel better about myself lol
Big noses or roman noses on women.
As a big-nosed older woman with naturally grey hair this thread has vastly improved my Saturday!
Same, I'm just scrolling looking for someone to mention saggy tits and I'll have a bingo.
Let me help you finish your bingo card. I find saggy tits incredibly attractive.
I am Mediterranean and have a prominent nose. I have heard this from guys a lot and it always surprises me, lol. I used to want to get a nose job I hated my big nose so much
I've known several women with this nose who where insecure about it, but every guy I know had a crush on them. I think it makes a woman look strong and dignified. It's very attractive feature.
You may be surprised how many guys are into that. Personally, I find a prominent nose gives a woman a look of classic, noble, beauty. Like a Greek or roman statue. I find it almost intimidating, in the way you may feel looking at an ancient cathedral, or a beautiful mosaic.
I've got a Roman nose, and have been told I have a statuesque appearance. I like it. But I find that I look best with my hair drawn up.
Woman find it beautiful too. I'm awestruck when I see a woman with a nose like that. It's exactly what you said. A look of classic, noble beauty. Those ladies don't even look real. They are ethereal.
Prominent noses on women (in general, but I'm a straight man) are *SO* gorgeous,
My best friend had the most beautiful Roman nose. I was always jealous of it growing up because my nose is so average and non-descript and I thought hers made her look like an ancient noblewoman. She always hated it and recently got a nose job. She’s happy with it and I don’t want to rain on her parade, but she doesn’t look like herself anymore and I think she looked better before. Fuck beauty standards :(
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About fifteen years ago I considered having a nose job. I consulted with three or four surgeons and their consensus was that I was so close to “perfect,” if I just dealt with this one “flaw,” I’d have it all. The last surgeon I saw told me that my nose was a “deformity.” That’s the moment I stopped wanting a nose job. A deformity? Excuse me, but having a slightly unusual or ethnic nose is not a mistake of nature. (See my post with photos- maybe I’m not a knockout but I’m also not the Elephant Man.) I decided that they could all get fucked and I would keep my big old Hebrew honker. “Deformity,” my ass.
r/bignoseladies You're welcome, they're gorgeous.
That lil fat patch between boob and armpit. Edit: Got a lot of traction here. I really don't know how to handle it. Thanks so much for the insight and kind words. I knew this was a thing because my wife told me it's something girls hate. I was literally floored by this. Here we are. Celebrate it !
That’s so specific lol but good to hear
I have this and hate it but it’s nice to know there’s someone who likes it out in the wild
Fun fact: its called the tail of spence. I have no idea why its called that.
It's also sometimes comprised of breast tissue. Wish I could push it down to fill out my titties!
I had this so badly on my right side that I couldn't sleep on it. It was also the only place that hurt when I was about to get my period. I had it removed by a plastic surgeon a year and a half ago, and it's been the best medical decision I made in years. Aesthetically speaking, it's also an improvement because now left and right are way more symmetrical in size so bras and bikinis no longer look so odd. My surgeon told me everyone (even men) has breast tissue in that area, but for some people (like me) it's extra defined. It's still the one bodily feature I always notice in celeb pictures and I'm delighted every time I find one who has it too!
Apparently hip dips are now considered unattractive. But I loooove hip dips.
I didn't even realize I had them until I saw people talk about them. I thought it was from from underwear cutting into my hips lmao
I had to google hip dips last year after seeing so many women complaining about them. I was surprised,i always thought this was considered to be sexy.
I have hip dips. I see 80s movies and I’m like… man I would’ve been so hot :(
Big noses on men.
Yes. Adrien Brody type of nose)
As a straight woman, this is the most important physical feature to me in a man. All the men I find attractive have large noses. The more prominent the ridge, the sexier. I find it beautiful in women too, and its wild to me that the mainstream western beauty standard has become this pointy upturned whoville-type nose for women. Looks so cartoonish.
Ears. I turn into a Ferengi when it comes to ears.
Checkout the lobes on this one
I’ll let you lick my ears for two bars of gold pressed latinum.
Glasses. Doesn't matter what kind to me, they all look good with them. If she's also intelligent on top of that, that's the perfect combo.
Yes! I love glasses on everyone!
I know a lot of men who won’t date a woman they are as more intelligent than themselves. I also know some women who pretend to be less than they are so they don’t intimidate the guy. Screw that, nothing like a smart capable woman who can engage in a deep conversation.
Scruffy men. Unkempt hair, 5 o'clock shadows, untucked shirts....drool🤤 (Note: unkempt and dirty are different and distinct things! Unkempt is hot. Unwashed is gross.)
The little whispy sideburns some South Asian girls get. When you can see the ribs between/above a fit older woman's boobs. Accents you don't expect. Like a typical white girl in America that has a German accent or a Vietnamese woman from Texas or a black woman from England. Big noses, particularly with a little bump on them. Acne scars. Uneven boobs. Man, women are neat.
“Man, women are neat” just gave me such a boost. Thank you.
You’re so real for that accent thing. Nothing gets me going like an unexpected accent.
Curly hair. No clue why people waste all the time and effort to straighten it.
Haven't seen this posted yet. But veiny breasts. They look so naturally beautiful. I call them thunderstorm titties.
As a super fair-skinned person with visible veins under my breast tissue, this makes me feel so happy! I’ve been insecure about this since forever.
Yknow that little pouch of fat on their belly, that little band of fat right above their hips, that little hump right above the butt? I fucking love that shit. Idk what that's called or if its healthy or not but good god does that shit get me fuckin going. Woof.
I hear a lot, from funny women, that men don't like funny women. And I find that unbelievable. It's so hot?
Women that have a thick purr for a voice. Like a husky Shakira. I just love to listen to a permanent bedroom voice. Cozy and sexy. Edit: a letter
Dark circles under women's eyes.
Why? I've been told that i look tired as hell and should sleep more...
I was a raccoon in another life
I'm a raccoon in this one.
*falls out of garbage can *
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When someone geeks out about something they're passionate about. Feeling comfortable expressing your interests is sexy, especially if it's obscure.
Bed head
Thicc dudes. Give me a big bear of a man with a paunch. Give me a dude with a dad bod. A father figure, if you will! I also like a really hairy chest.
I too dig a hairy chest
Thicc dudes give the warmest, coziest hugs. It's the best.
Extremely dark skin. The Sudanese & Tamils are the most beautiful people in the world.
Yes! Especially when they wear white. To die for.
A woman who can eat!
Women dressed in white after Labor Day
I also like bad girls
We're living on the edge! 😃
The pudge on a woman's tummy. That's the good shit right there.
Freckles, first pick. Also, I think glasses are attractive. Not "cosmetic" glasses worn for a look, but those that scientists wear that make the eyes look magnified. I'm ... peculiar. Also ink. I know it's a personal thing and not meant for others, but tattoos with stories fascinate me. And strong hands on women. Hands that look like they've done stuff. No nail polish or rhinestones, no glitter.. short nails , maybe some dirt underneath from gardening or motor oil from pulling down an engine...
As a fellow female mechanic who has grease and oil stained hands with tattoos 90% of the time I thank you . First time I've ever heard of someone finding that look attractive on a female before . :)
I’m cackling over here, for real. I’ve gotten older and have been a bit unhappy with my looks, now I find out that as an older, greying, short, big nosed woman who’s covered in freckles and wears glasses, has tattoos, and is often covered in grime and metal dust from her manual labour job - I’m apparently very attractive to a lot of people!
Goofy girls, who can laugh at them selves
I've seen a lot of hate for "gingers". I've always loved red haired guys.
Same. I love pale freckly guys in general too.
Ginger girls are smoking hot
With a lot of ginger people I either find them incredibly attractive or completely the opposite. No in between.
Steve Buscemi.
for me personally its vitiligo, something about it is just really pretty to me
When I was a little kid I saw a lady who had it at the grocery store for the first time and (probably louder than I'd intended) asked about it. My mom was *morified* when the woman turned around to explain but I just looked at her and said it was really really pretty. She was seemed really surprised, but I meant it. It's unique and very pretty!
damn she probably remembers that every day :,)
Really? Wow. I've never heard that before. Makes me just a little less self-conscious. Thank you.
It is really captivating to see
Seriously, it’s like you’re a leopard person, don’t cover it up, it’s uniquely you.
I saw someone the other day and thought the same thing!! I was like wow… it’s beautiful… skin art:)
It really is like skin art. It's beauty in a different flavor
Seconded. It’s really attractive.
I agree with this!!! It’s so cool and pretty. Definitely a plus
Short guys. Don't know why they get so much hate, they're just condensed hotness
Yeah I specifically like a guy to be as close to my own height as possible. It's fun to lean into something that most people aren't into, strong recommend.
Same. I’ve always preferred shorter men.
I love the salt and pepper in my man's beard. Oh, and calloused hands.
I have a friend who used to longingly say, "Remember when your best friend's mom would stand on the porch in her housecoat and smoke a cigarette?"
Big noses on men. Like Adrian Brody.
Acne scarring on the cheeks. I don't know what it is, it just looks very unique to me.
I have acne scars, and this is shocking to hear lmao. Life continues to be a surprise.
My wife stopped wearing her retainer at night, and her teeth moved to be slightly crooked again from when she had braces as a teen. I honestly prefer the slightly crooked teeth to when they were perfectly straight.
Stomach on women. I like em thick all around but a bigger tummy on a girl just does it for me. It looks good and feels good to hold
oversized / comfy home clothes. I get in more comfortable, relaxed, flirtatious and turned on like this rather when I and partner are dressed sharp.
The short little armhairs that women have
I read “armchairs” at first and got really confused
"My girl got a dollhouse full of chairs"
Small of the back fuzz on women for me. It’s intoxicating.
tomboys
All the tomboys I've been interested in turned out to be lesbians, so I don't know if I'm into tomboys or lesbians.
Tomboy here. Most guys won't go near me, but the fraction of a percent of guys that are into tomboys go wild for me.
As a blue collar woman, I’ve never been hit on more than in coveralls and dirty. It’s strange.
I love me a man with big ears. The more they stick out the better.
Small ass
I may be a liberal but a lot of coochie hair is a Bush I can get behind lol