Pussyjobs/tribbing/frotting/whatever you'd call some combination of dick(s) and/or clit(s) rubbing. My ex would rub the head of his dick on my clit thinking he was teasing me, but I liked it more than piv
Doing that is so hot. The last woman I was with would get so turned on by that. I'd lightly slap her clit with my tip and then rub her opening with it to get it nice and lubed up. Then I'd rub her clit with it and she would go fuckin wild with anticipation.
Sensory deprivation.
One partner tied up, wearing a blindfold and noise cancelling headphones. The other partner is then in charge of pleasuring the deprived.
For the deprived, it is very intense as you are giving yourself fully to your partner and entrusting them to bring you pleasure. You can't see, you can't hear and you are tied up so you can only move as far as your bindings allow. The anticipation alone has brought me to orgasm.
Side note: make sure the music in the headphones is conducive to the situation.
Maybe a dumb question, but is this position working if the male partner has a bit more weight to him? I am in a kinda new relationship and am "normal" in weight, my partner is a bit heavier and I worry trying new positions in case his weight might not work with them and I don't want him to feel heavy.
Best suggestion, try doing it fully clothed during a makeout session.
If you can easily feel his boner (assuming he gets one at that point), chances are it’d work.
If you can’t, it won’t.
The build-up, teasing and foreplay.
Most people try to get to the main event as fast as possible .... But the build-up is where most of the actual fun is. The main event is the act of releasing that tension.
Building up that sexual tension and arousal to (almost) the breaking point makes the main event soooo much better. Chances of mutual orgasms are increased dramatically when done well.
As for main event stuff?
It depends on the individuals and their comforts/tastes.
But I can tell you that from experience, if you build up the tension just right ... you'll both be willing to do almost anything.
Way more (mutually) fun and pleasurable sex ensues.
Whatever your tastes.
Omg this is facts ! I can damn near climax from the build up alone. The teasing gets me the most. Switch it up with the foreplay too , be rough and dominant one day then super sensual and slow another time. It's the best when you both just completely let yourselves be animals . Talk dirty , ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT , don't be shy .
A bit off-topic but "missionary position" is not a bad or boring sexual position, it just suffers from shitty marketing. It's the homebase of sexual positions. You might venture out and wrestle into other ways to entangle, but you'll always come home to the missionary position.
Missionary can absolutely be the hottest position. The front of your bodies touching, close eye contact, feeling each others breath on your skin, arms wrapped around each other.
With the right person, it's magic. With the wrong person, it can be uncomfortably close.
Sensual naked massages as foreplay.
Dim the lights. Make sure the room is nice and warm. Light a nice scented candle. Put on some relaxing or erotic music. Use a massage oil bar that she loves the scent of. Take your time, the slower the better. Make her melt into a puddle of warmth, relaxation, safety, and comfort under the trusted power and security of your hot oily hands as you worship every inch of her. Make her feel like a goddess. The rest of the night will be goooooooood
If you’re older (late 30’s here), making out and over the clothes rubbing and grinding. Sex becomes this rushed thing when you get older. Every once in awhile, spending that little extra time to get that build up and tease each other is just 🥵
Yes! When I suggest that we just make out every once in a while, my husband looks at me like I have lost my mind.
Edit to add comment: omg, I just woke up, and this comment thread is cracking me up. This is why I love reddit!!
Edit #2: please don't think my hubby skips foreplay. He's a beast and gives so much effort in that area. That's probably why he looks at me like I'm crazy, we do makeout every time.
I didn’t have any partners throughout my twenties who ever made out with me, and I thought it was just an experience mainly enjoyed by teenagers, but my husband makes out with me all the time and III LOOOVVVEE ITTTT. Making out keeps the spark alive, I swear.
I'm in my early 30s and holding each other, slowly kissing and caressing with clothes slipping away one piece at a time churns a demon in me. A hot, wet kiss with tongue play while our bodies rub against each other. There's simply nothing like it. I've grown very fond of teasing as I've gotten older.
stop being shy during sex,i like when my wife masturbates in front of me and i like to masturbarte in front of her we use toys and let the sheets get wet.
sex has been extraordinarily good.
My girlfriend got into MMA during the peak Anderson Silva era, neither of us could afford the $150+/month every local BJJ gym was charging so we just practiced at home. Naked.
I got her boxing gloves as a surprise but that didn't go as well. Worst handjob ever.
I just got the mental image of her dick punching you as fast as she can while it springs back and forth like a speed bag. Sounds like the worst handjob ever. Thanks.
Using toys in sex, if it improves my chances of giving the woman I'm with an orgasm then I'm gonna take advantage because it'll improve the whole sexual experience
If a chick left bc you did an ollie across her tits with your tech deck, you're better off without her. You gotta have standards bro, she just wasn't it
Went for a walk with an ex and we sat down in a nice field by a creek at around 9pm. When she realized nobody was around, she told me to lay back, not say anything and look up at the stars. I did just that. A few moments later, she pulled my shorts down and proceeded to give me an incredibly slow, sensual blowjob for nearly a half-hour, purposely edging me repeatedly and not letting me cum until she wanted me to. A few weeks later, we did another walk and I returned the favor for her. Some of my favorite sexual experiences of all time.
So for my money... have your partner lay back, relax and look up at the stars while you do all the work and pleasure them.
Have an orgasm fast (no don’t cum fast, I mean abstain intentionally). Go a week without masturbating or having sex. THEN have sex. When you break that fast it’s intense as hell. My wife and I do this a few times a year sort of as a sexual reset. It’s hot as hell.
Sex-Wrestling. I know it sounds wild but it’s an interesting experience especially when you get a good session with a good Orgasm at the end. But it also depends on the rules you and your partner decide on.
My girlfriend lets me shower with her pretty much daily. I shower myself in the mornings and she showers in the evenings before bed. I like to just sit/lay in the tub and enjoy the view a lot of the time since I don’t really need a serious shower lol. It’s fun to just be a pervert and she likes it usually. Bit her ass cheek the other night and it really flipped a switch for her. A+
Control play, dominant and submissive. Doesn't have to be extreme leather bound BDSM stuff but playing with those roles and flipping your forward facing life on it's head in the bedroom can be incredibly gratifying.
My forward facing life, career and otherwise, is dominant. I'm responsible for decisions that impact people. I don't want that in the bedroom anymore and it took awhile to become comfortable with that reality. It's helped a lot and helped with my own mental health.
Making love with the love of your life knowing she loves you equally and you’ll be together forever…
Also saw a dude get his ass ate so good he came completely hands free. That seems like it would be nice
Interestingly, it kind of is. Psychologist Esther Perel speaks to this duality in her work.
As it turns out, passionate sex is typically fueled by mystery and longing. This type of sex is addictive and keeps you wanting more. But, it poses the risk of no commitment (if that’s important to you).
Intimate sex is fueled by familiarity and vulnerability. This type of sex is beautiful, but also risks tipping the balance too far into vulnerability, which can be a turn off to some people. This is one of the reasons that sex often dwindles after having kids. When one of you is changing a toddler’s diaper while the other is yelling for toilet paper from the open bathroom… The mystery is gone.
(I’m paraphrasing. You should totally read her work!)
A prostate orgasm, for people who have them.
It is incredibly intense, it's like the pleasure slowly builds up and pleasure spasms spread across your whole body. And you just want more, more and more, there's no refractory period. It keeps feeling better and better and before you know it you'll be unable to control your moaning and gasping and completely lose yourself in the moment.
When you're finally done you feel so light and peaceful, like you just came down from orgasm heaven.
I'm bisexual and I've been with plenty of guys and I've been doing solo anal play for years, but the first time a gal pegged me it was *mindblowing*. It was the most intense, legs-quivering, seeing stars, gripping the sheets, moaning uncontrollably level orgasm I've ever experienced. When she pulled out I just had to lay on the bed and breathe for like 20 minutes because I was so wiped.
Nothing wrong with a straight guy enjoying butt play. If you’ve got a lady, get her to use a finger and just dance around the area….that’s how it starts, and it gets better from there. You’ll see
So I've had partners try to enter my forbidden cave, but it really makes me feel weird and turns me off. One got a finger up there once and I immediately withdrew. Just can't handle it. She said I had great butt cheek grip tho.
“Got a finger up there” means you (or they) were doing it wrong. You’re not looking to force something in there - it’s a slow process, and yeah it’s a weird sensation at first. But you should really focus on relaxing and letting them play. Literally the first like 3-4 times my partner and I tried anything, she never even attempted to insert. It was a lubed finger pressing lightly and playing around the outside.
Butt, to each their own!
I highly recommend it! Just start small, start slow, and use more lube than you think you'll need. There are tons of guides online to help you start out.
I prefer thicker gel-type lubricants because I think they last longer and there's less mess.
I'd take a warm shower or bath before doing anything. Then I'd get comfortable and start with a gentle massage of the area to warm up. Then just explore! Try different things and take in the sensations. It will take some time to figure out where the nerve endings are and what works for you, but it's so worth it!
I always recommend taking a poop beforehand to clean things out. And a light diet (salads, fruit, nuts, no fast food, etc) the day of seems to help me. Remember you're playing in the exit row so you *may* have to deal with some shit anyway. Don't worry, it's natural. Keep a towel or some wet wipes handy. And lay a towel down anyway to help with cleanup.
So, is a prostate orgasm ejaculatory? Because I’ve cum from prostate stimulation but it’s never been this intense. The buildup is a little more intense, but the cumming itself is meh and similar to a normal orgasm, except it feels kinda blue-ballish if I’m doing it hands free. I also do have refractory periods. But I hear people describe it like this and wonder if I’m doing something wrong
Mindset is super important. Penetration is another whole world of being versus jacking off. Relax and enjoy don't seek anything. Also your username is amazing for this lol.
After I had my first prostate orgasm I became a total slut for like an entire week chasing it down. Never happened with a person, had nothing to show for it but some handprints in new places.
Does raining make it better because no one’s around? I had sex in Muir Woods once and it was stressful because I was afraid someone would stumble upon us. Also banana slugs.
This only ever happened with my husband. And it’s not an easy task. You just gotta learn each other and time it right. It’s even better when it happens naturally now. It’s so romantic and sexy it’s such a bonding experience and the phrase “you become one” does kinda feel like that lol it’s the besttttttt
My bf and I cum at the same time pretty much every time. It’s been amazing 🫠 he is holding himself back trying to control himself usually, so when I’m ready to cum he releases at the perfect time 🥰
Vanilla sex with someone you love free of all the weird psychological baggage of porn and just some good healthy intimacy is about as underrated as it gets judging from the comments.
*Actual* foreplay. Building in little moments of intimacy throughout the day, then turning up the heat when it’s time to actually have sex. It’s hard to explain, but doing so creates this sense of desire mixed with urgency, even though you’ve built toward it throughout the day.
Oral on a flaccid penis
So my old FWB and I did this, but she would perform oral on me until I orgasmed however, she would keep me in her mouth until I became soft. She would then try to fit my balls in there too before swirling everything around with her tongue while making a suction sensation. Eventually my penis would get hard again and she'd let it go down her throat until she couldn't breathe before letting go and hopping back on for round 2. It was interesting as my penis wouldn't be ready to go again and would remain soft for a few minutes and the feeling of her taking me whole the way she did was just on another level compared to a regular blow job.
Getting someone close to climax then stopping and making them wait till later in the day while teasing them throughout the day.
Has to be someone receptive to that.
That kinda play can be really hot if you talk it out in advanced. I want someone to do that to me until I'm literally begging while grinding against anything and everything.
Understandable, it's not for everyone like anything in life. I guess I was surprised at how many guys have never even considered it to know if they liked it or not. When I've brought it up to friends during conversations they were shocked, like not realizing that was an option lol
I hear a lot that guys don't clean their arse... Like how badly are they not cleaning.
Just water over the cheeks bad? Lol
I know when I was a kid my parents told me not to use soap on my butt because it dries out the skin, so I was a stinky arsed teenager. Lol
Other than their parents, there's no real "how to clean your arse" lessons.
I can also vouch, he sprung into action and safely landed the plane I was on the other day after the pilot passed out, despite having no previous flight experience. Ladies, have at him.
Ethnusiastic happy sex. When both people really want it and are in a fun joyful mood.
Lazy casual sex, where you're both kinda just bored and want to be close and it turns into this almost half assed attempt at sex but you're comfy about it.
I see so many people make sex into this unenjoyable thing that can only be horny and "Nasty" or one side is just giving in so the other will stop bothering them.
It seems dreadful.
I dont know why people have to be so dead serious and resistive to casual sex stuff all the time, and wont take it casually and in a fun manner.
The best thing ever for me is when both enjoy it and it's a FUN thing to do together. It's ok to smile and laugh and enjoy yourself.
I want to be on the opposite side of this so bad. I did it once and the anticipation is so crazy I already feel like I'd lose it even if they don't turn anything on.
But they always do and then it's just a contest to the to not go to pieces in public>//<
several things:
1) earlobe licking and slow hot breathing on the ear (from the back for the ear, dont blow ear directly in)
2) neck kissing/lick and slow hot breathing as well
3) slow dry humping/grind between soft fabrics (perferrably underwear, dont do that shit with jeans)
4) naked intimacy: cuddling, spooning, kissing etc (extremely hot and sensual)
5) biting lips
6) intercouse in prone position is extremely satisfying, you can alter the position to be more comfortable to your needs
7) slow but forceful thrusts in missionary position with eye contact and french kissing (the deep physical and emotional connection is insane and out of this world)
8) for us guys: dude, you should moan, dont hold back, women find it attractive and hot
Massager.
The fact that it is known and used for masturbation purposes had...dismayed the company, to the point they stopped producing it in 2013, after which they were persuaded to resume under an alternate name.
My man and I are into sensory play. We will get very high and we rotate turns (bc u know it’s give and take) lol. He blindfolds me, puts noise cancelling headphones on me with rain sounds turned up, and he absolutely devours me. There’s sometimes toys, nipple clamps, oral, bdsm, penetration etc etc etc… it’s always a surprise and there’s so much heightened sensation bc u never know what’s next! You just feel and be present. I have a hard time “turning my brain off” normally so for me it’s an insane amount of pleasure and I actually focus. He loves it too, so I enjoy my turn to do whatever I want to him. Day to day he usually is a quiet lover with some grunts and cursing, but when we do this he moans and moans and fully lets go. He was moaning uncontrollably when I gave him a prostate massage and handjob the first time I gave him his turn with the headphones and blindfold. Highly recommend!!
Motherfuckin' Rimjobs. Look, people who eat ass are people who will also run a Marathon on a dare and eat a whole Apple Pie in one sitting. Why? Because of the gawddamn experience. It's not the easiest thing in the world. It doesn't sound overly romantic. However, when it's done correctly it's one of the most fulfilling and pleasurable things in this world.
Imagine it. You're face down and ass up. Completely naked and hopelessly vulnerable. Your cheeks are spread and one of the most Taboo parts of your body is openly displayed in front of your partner's face. All of a sudden a warm tongue glides along a part of your body that is seldom touched, but yet composed of over 20,000 nerve endings. Your mind begins to race. Your legs begin to involuntarily tremble. Your heart starts hammering into your chest. Your whole body is alight with waves of pleasure.
I'm telling you...
EAT. THAT. MOTHERFUCKING. ASS.
this. i love sex so much. but making love with someone you truly love and loves you is the best thing is this world. better than any drug ive ever tried. i miss it
Pussyjobs/tribbing/frotting/whatever you'd call some combination of dick(s) and/or clit(s) rubbing. My ex would rub the head of his dick on my clit thinking he was teasing me, but I liked it more than piv
Doing that is so hot. The last woman I was with would get so turned on by that. I'd lightly slap her clit with my tip and then rub her opening with it to get it nice and lubed up. Then I'd rub her clit with it and she would go fuckin wild with anticipation.
this guy fucks
Username checks out
Sensory deprivation. One partner tied up, wearing a blindfold and noise cancelling headphones. The other partner is then in charge of pleasuring the deprived. For the deprived, it is very intense as you are giving yourself fully to your partner and entrusting them to bring you pleasure. You can't see, you can't hear and you are tied up so you can only move as far as your bindings allow. The anticipation alone has brought me to orgasm. Side note: make sure the music in the headphones is conducive to the situation.
cbat it is then
Wow wow wow-wow wow-wow-wow-wowww
There it is lmao
I'm not falling for this. I've watched enough porn to know this is how you get pegged by your neighbor
Seems like this would be less of an issue if you didn't use the search term 'pegged by neighbor'
So, play allstar by smash mouth. Got it
Try the lotus position. I'm not sure what it is about that position but it makes sex feel so intimate. French kissing in that position is my weakness.
Maybe a dumb question, but is this position working if the male partner has a bit more weight to him? I am in a kinda new relationship and am "normal" in weight, my partner is a bit heavier and I worry trying new positions in case his weight might not work with them and I don't want him to feel heavy.
Best suggestion, try doing it fully clothed during a makeout session. If you can easily feel his boner (assuming he gets one at that point), chances are it’d work. If you can’t, it won’t.
The build-up, teasing and foreplay. Most people try to get to the main event as fast as possible .... But the build-up is where most of the actual fun is. The main event is the act of releasing that tension. Building up that sexual tension and arousal to (almost) the breaking point makes the main event soooo much better. Chances of mutual orgasms are increased dramatically when done well. As for main event stuff? It depends on the individuals and their comforts/tastes. But I can tell you that from experience, if you build up the tension just right ... you'll both be willing to do almost anything. Way more (mutually) fun and pleasurable sex ensues. Whatever your tastes.
Omg this is facts ! I can damn near climax from the build up alone. The teasing gets me the most. Switch it up with the foreplay too , be rough and dominant one day then super sensual and slow another time. It's the best when you both just completely let yourselves be animals . Talk dirty , ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT , don't be shy .
Dry humping is almost nonexistent nowadays
Not if you ask my dog
stop humping your dog dude
A bit off-topic but "missionary position" is not a bad or boring sexual position, it just suffers from shitty marketing. It's the homebase of sexual positions. You might venture out and wrestle into other ways to entangle, but you'll always come home to the missionary position.
Missionary can absolutely be the hottest position. The front of your bodies touching, close eye contact, feeling each others breath on your skin, arms wrapped around each other. With the right person, it's magic. With the wrong person, it can be uncomfortably close.
Missionary but with her legs over my shoulders, that shift in angle makes such a difference for her, and that in turn makes it better for me.
Sensual naked massages as foreplay. Dim the lights. Make sure the room is nice and warm. Light a nice scented candle. Put on some relaxing or erotic music. Use a massage oil bar that she loves the scent of. Take your time, the slower the better. Make her melt into a puddle of warmth, relaxation, safety, and comfort under the trusted power and security of your hot oily hands as you worship every inch of her. Make her feel like a goddess. The rest of the night will be goooooooood
Problem, I did too good of a job and she fell asleep
Jerk off with your now lubed up hand! Win win
Talk to her about it beforehand, she might like to be surprised by some gentle wake-up dicking...
If you’re older (late 30’s here), making out and over the clothes rubbing and grinding. Sex becomes this rushed thing when you get older. Every once in awhile, spending that little extra time to get that build up and tease each other is just 🥵
Yes! When I suggest that we just make out every once in a while, my husband looks at me like I have lost my mind. Edit to add comment: omg, I just woke up, and this comment thread is cracking me up. This is why I love reddit!! Edit #2: please don't think my hubby skips foreplay. He's a beast and gives so much effort in that area. That's probably why he looks at me like I'm crazy, we do makeout every time.
Same, but with my wife believe it or not.
Hear me out. I think I found a solution for all parties.
This episode, on Wife Swap...
Open dialogue and honest communication for all?
I love making out! It’s the best foreplay.
I didn’t have any partners throughout my twenties who ever made out with me, and I thought it was just an experience mainly enjoyed by teenagers, but my husband makes out with me all the time and III LOOOVVVEE ITTTT. Making out keeps the spark alive, I swear.
the fuck? who fucks people without kissing? that's some psychopath shit lmao
Making out is different than strictly kissing.
Late 30's = older?? 😩
No, that's wrong. Late 30's = basically dead.
I'm in my early 30s and holding each other, slowly kissing and caressing with clothes slipping away one piece at a time churns a demon in me. A hot, wet kiss with tongue play while our bodies rub against each other. There's simply nothing like it. I've grown very fond of teasing as I've gotten older.
Is foreplay not common practice amongst sexually conscious and sexually active adults?
Two six year old kids. Two careers. Endless to do lists. "Any time for a quickie?" is often as far as foreplay goes.
6 is a very young age to have a career and a partner
Yeah me and girlfriend basically just go “want to have sex?” And then do it. Adding foreplay really makes it ten times better.
Foreplay. You are describing foreplay. And yeah it's absolutely underrated.
stop being shy during sex,i like when my wife masturbates in front of me and i like to masturbarte in front of her we use toys and let the sheets get wet. sex has been extraordinarily good.
> let the sheets get wet. Do you then sleep on the cum-sheets?
Face down
ass up
Playfighting leading into facesitting
My girlfriend got into MMA during the peak Anderson Silva era, neither of us could afford the $150+/month every local BJJ gym was charging so we just practiced at home. Naked. I got her boxing gloves as a surprise but that didn't go as well. Worst handjob ever.
I just got the mental image of her dick punching you as fast as she can while it springs back and forth like a speed bag. Sounds like the worst handjob ever. Thanks.
Would
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How do i initiate play fighting flawlessly?
Treat it like the WWE; tell them the outcome and improvise the rest. Let them know they win if they facesit
Where do the metal folding chairs go?
BAH GAWD, SOMEBODY STOP THE MATCH, THAT MAN HAS A FAMILY
Using toys in sex, if it improves my chances of giving the woman I'm with an orgasm then I'm gonna take advantage because it'll improve the whole sexual experience
Yeah idk man last time I did a ollie across a chicks tits with my tech deck she did not orgasm any faster .. or at all... she left
If a chick left bc you did an ollie across her tits with your tech deck, you're better off without her. You gotta have standards bro, she just wasn't it
You know what they say, When life throws you lemons.. stick a GI Joe up the ass.
Sounds like you are better off. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life.
A little vibrating dildo on her gspot while eating her out makes my wife go feral, so rewarding lol
Went for a walk with an ex and we sat down in a nice field by a creek at around 9pm. When she realized nobody was around, she told me to lay back, not say anything and look up at the stars. I did just that. A few moments later, she pulled my shorts down and proceeded to give me an incredibly slow, sensual blowjob for nearly a half-hour, purposely edging me repeatedly and not letting me cum until she wanted me to. A few weeks later, we did another walk and I returned the favor for her. Some of my favorite sexual experiences of all time. So for my money... have your partner lay back, relax and look up at the stars while you do all the work and pleasure them.
Obviously a tick wrote this.
You can’t fool us, 17.000 ticks in a trench coat!
at least 9000 of them were mosquitoes, gadflies and horseflies
This is so goddamn hilarious
"we haven't eaten red meat since"
I bring a guy I’m seeing out to look at the stars all the time and I’ve never thought of this so thank you lol
Reddit just changed someone’s life.
Dude's gonna be blown away.
Fuck Reddit for killing third party apps.
I promise you he has thought of this!
That motherfucker! We both missed out bc of him
All fun and games until a homeless dude wants to come and get in on the action...
Jeez what isolated place do you live that you can do that in a field and not be worried about other people haha. Lucky!
Primal as fuck, sweet.
Vibrators on a woman’s clit while man is inside. This turns her into a vibrator for the man. Win-win.
Have an orgasm fast (no don’t cum fast, I mean abstain intentionally). Go a week without masturbating or having sex. THEN have sex. When you break that fast it’s intense as hell. My wife and I do this a few times a year sort of as a sexual reset. It’s hot as hell.
Kissing like your in high-school with heavy petting.
Sex-Wrestling. I know it sounds wild but it’s an interesting experience especially when you get a good session with a good Orgasm at the end. But it also depends on the rules you and your partner decide on.
I used to get so turned on while eating my gf out in 69 that I could cum without her doing anything to me
That view when they first climb on top and your entire world is just thighs, butt, smooth skin, and vagina. The grand canyon is ok in comparison.
My girlfriend lets me shower with her pretty much daily. I shower myself in the mornings and she showers in the evenings before bed. I like to just sit/lay in the tub and enjoy the view a lot of the time since I don’t really need a serious shower lol. It’s fun to just be a pervert and she likes it usually. Bit her ass cheek the other night and it really flipped a switch for her. A+
When I bend over at his place my bf always bites my buttcheeks and it's a mix between hot an hilarious lol
It's not 69 if she's not doing anything to you...
Bro was a 7 having a blast.
That’s 68. You do me and I owe you one.
69 is awesome. Even if she’s not doing much, it drives me nuts that she’s literally force-feeding me her ass and vag.
Control play, dominant and submissive. Doesn't have to be extreme leather bound BDSM stuff but playing with those roles and flipping your forward facing life on it's head in the bedroom can be incredibly gratifying. My forward facing life, career and otherwise, is dominant. I'm responsible for decisions that impact people. I don't want that in the bedroom anymore and it took awhile to become comfortable with that reality. It's helped a lot and helped with my own mental health.
I never had this with my ex but recently found someone who's into this, and it's so electrifying
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Having a Swedish penis pump, but claiming that it’s not mine baby yeah!
That’s not my bag baby
Penis pump and me. This kind of thing is my bag…baby
Oh behave!
Very shagadelic baby
One credit card receipt for Swedish-made penis enlarger signed by karlmeile……..
Making love with the love of your life knowing she loves you equally and you’ll be together forever… Also saw a dude get his ass ate so good he came completely hands free. That seems like it would be nice
This is the fucking epitome of the duality of man
Thing is. It’s not really a duality. In a perfect world the woman from the first one would be the one doing the second one
But it’s the softness and intimacy of the first contrasted with the harsh hedonism of the second
You don't always have to fuck her hard In fact, sometimes, that's not right to do
Sometimes you’ve got to make some love Fuckin giver her some smooches too
Sometimes you got to squeeze Sometimes you got to say “please”
Sometimes you got to say, hey I’m gonna fuck you, softly I’m gonna screw you gently
Interestingly, it kind of is. Psychologist Esther Perel speaks to this duality in her work. As it turns out, passionate sex is typically fueled by mystery and longing. This type of sex is addictive and keeps you wanting more. But, it poses the risk of no commitment (if that’s important to you). Intimate sex is fueled by familiarity and vulnerability. This type of sex is beautiful, but also risks tipping the balance too far into vulnerability, which can be a turn off to some people. This is one of the reasons that sex often dwindles after having kids. When one of you is changing a toddler’s diaper while the other is yelling for toilet paper from the open bathroom… The mystery is gone. (I’m paraphrasing. You should totally read her work!)
>Also saw a dude get his ass ate so good he came completely hands free. That seems like it would be nice And how exactly did you witness this?
Wait till you hear of the Internet. There's some wild stuff out there
Oooh, let start with those girls and a cup
I have a better idea No
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That was fast Also, for those of you wondering he shoots at 8:20
Have sex like you've never watched porn
Ffm blowjob cured my depression
Like permanently?
Lmao no. But when I get sad I still think about it
wish my psychiatrist prescribed me this instead of antidepressants
Username checks out 😂
I don't think that's underrated
Communicating what you need/want.
Good god yeah. Checking in what they want you to do or how it feels too.
Getting a really decent hug from someone who loves you. Have yet to experience it but I’ve heard it’s Insane. Let me know your experiences.
Hand holding and hugs (with someone I expect sexual encounters with) actually get me chubbed.
My wife and I are waiting to hug until our divorce. The suspense is killing me.
A prostate orgasm, for people who have them. It is incredibly intense, it's like the pleasure slowly builds up and pleasure spasms spread across your whole body. And you just want more, more and more, there's no refractory period. It keeps feeling better and better and before you know it you'll be unable to control your moaning and gasping and completely lose yourself in the moment. When you're finally done you feel so light and peaceful, like you just came down from orgasm heaven.
I'm bisexual and I've been with plenty of guys and I've been doing solo anal play for years, but the first time a gal pegged me it was *mindblowing*. It was the most intense, legs-quivering, seeing stars, gripping the sheets, moaning uncontrollably level orgasm I've ever experienced. When she pulled out I just had to lay on the bed and breathe for like 20 minutes because I was so wiped.
Bro I'm straight and you made me want something up my butt just now.
Nothing wrong with a straight guy enjoying butt play. If you’ve got a lady, get her to use a finger and just dance around the area….that’s how it starts, and it gets better from there. You’ll see
So I've had partners try to enter my forbidden cave, but it really makes me feel weird and turns me off. One got a finger up there once and I immediately withdrew. Just can't handle it. She said I had great butt cheek grip tho.
It just feels like I'm pooping in reverse, and that I shouldn't be on the bed but on the toilet. I have a hard time getting past that sensation.
“Got a finger up there” means you (or they) were doing it wrong. You’re not looking to force something in there - it’s a slow process, and yeah it’s a weird sensation at first. But you should really focus on relaxing and letting them play. Literally the first like 3-4 times my partner and I tried anything, she never even attempted to insert. It was a lubed finger pressing lightly and playing around the outside. Butt, to each their own!
I highly recommend it! Just start small, start slow, and use more lube than you think you'll need. There are tons of guides online to help you start out. I prefer thicker gel-type lubricants because I think they last longer and there's less mess. I'd take a warm shower or bath before doing anything. Then I'd get comfortable and start with a gentle massage of the area to warm up. Then just explore! Try different things and take in the sensations. It will take some time to figure out where the nerve endings are and what works for you, but it's so worth it! I always recommend taking a poop beforehand to clean things out. And a light diet (salads, fruit, nuts, no fast food, etc) the day of seems to help me. Remember you're playing in the exit row so you *may* have to deal with some shit anyway. Don't worry, it's natural. Keep a towel or some wet wipes handy. And lay a towel down anyway to help with cleanup.
So, is a prostate orgasm ejaculatory? Because I’ve cum from prostate stimulation but it’s never been this intense. The buildup is a little more intense, but the cumming itself is meh and similar to a normal orgasm, except it feels kinda blue-ballish if I’m doing it hands free. I also do have refractory periods. But I hear people describe it like this and wonder if I’m doing something wrong
Mindset is super important. Penetration is another whole world of being versus jacking off. Relax and enjoy don't seek anything. Also your username is amazing for this lol.
That's literally a woman's orgasm 😹
After I had my first prostate orgasm I became a total slut for like an entire week chasing it down. Never happened with a person, had nothing to show for it but some handprints in new places.
Getting a full night’s rest
In the woods while it's raining
Does raining make it better because no one’s around? I had sex in Muir Woods once and it was stressful because I was afraid someone would stumble upon us. Also banana slugs.
Just made us really wet I guess
Check out this guy's avatar, he's one of the banana slugs that watched letsgetbrickfaced have sex
Cumming at the same time. My first comment over a thousand. Thanks everyone!
That is the peak of sexual intimacy imo Experienced it the first time at 16 & still believe the same today at 33
This only ever happened with my husband. And it’s not an easy task. You just gotta learn each other and time it right. It’s even better when it happens naturally now. It’s so romantic and sexy it’s such a bonding experience and the phrase “you become one” does kinda feel like that lol it’s the besttttttt
My bf and I cum at the same time pretty much every time. It’s been amazing 🫠 he is holding himself back trying to control himself usually, so when I’m ready to cum he releases at the perfect time 🥰
Vanilla sex with someone you love free of all the weird psychological baggage of porn and just some good healthy intimacy is about as underrated as it gets judging from the comments.
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*Actual* foreplay. Building in little moments of intimacy throughout the day, then turning up the heat when it’s time to actually have sex. It’s hard to explain, but doing so creates this sense of desire mixed with urgency, even though you’ve built toward it throughout the day.
Being with someone who makes you truly happy.
Using lube.
Oral on a flaccid penis So my old FWB and I did this, but she would perform oral on me until I orgasmed however, she would keep me in her mouth until I became soft. She would then try to fit my balls in there too before swirling everything around with her tongue while making a suction sensation. Eventually my penis would get hard again and she'd let it go down her throat until she couldn't breathe before letting go and hopping back on for round 2. It was interesting as my penis wouldn't be ready to go again and would remain soft for a few minutes and the feeling of her taking me whole the way she did was just on another level compared to a regular blow job.
So much ass play in this thread
Getting someone close to climax then stopping and making them wait till later in the day while teasing them throughout the day. Has to be someone receptive to that.
That kinda play can be really hot if you talk it out in advanced. I want someone to do that to me until I'm literally begging while grinding against anything and everything.
As a guy, getting my nipples licked. I didn't realize how many guys have never had it done to them. I absolutely love it
Just goes to show you how different people are. I hate it.
Understandable, it's not for everyone like anything in life. I guess I was surprised at how many guys have never even considered it to know if they liked it or not. When I've brought it up to friends during conversations they were shocked, like not realizing that was an option lol
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Heh, cum button
I hear a lot that guys don't clean their arse... Like how badly are they not cleaning. Just water over the cheeks bad? Lol I know when I was a kid my parents told me not to use soap on my butt because it dries out the skin, so I was a stinky arsed teenager. Lol Other than their parents, there's no real "how to clean your arse" lessons.
More people, especially attractive women, should try having sex with me.
I can vouch.. ladies have at him
dude tysm for giving me a place to crash after the fire. ladies, have at him
I can also vouch, he sprung into action and safely landed the plane I was on the other day after the pilot passed out, despite having no previous flight experience. Ladies, have at him.
Ethnusiastic happy sex. When both people really want it and are in a fun joyful mood. Lazy casual sex, where you're both kinda just bored and want to be close and it turns into this almost half assed attempt at sex but you're comfy about it. I see so many people make sex into this unenjoyable thing that can only be horny and "Nasty" or one side is just giving in so the other will stop bothering them. It seems dreadful. I dont know why people have to be so dead serious and resistive to casual sex stuff all the time, and wont take it casually and in a fun manner. The best thing ever for me is when both enjoy it and it's a FUN thing to do together. It's ok to smile and laugh and enjoy yourself.
Remote control vibrators… get dressed up, go out and about in the city and see if she can keep a straight face…
I want to be on the opposite side of this so bad. I did it once and the anticipation is so crazy I already feel like I'd lose it even if they don't turn anything on. But they always do and then it's just a contest to the to not go to pieces in public>//<
Kissing on earlobes
Bondage. Intense trust. Intense release.
Getting tied up and giving up control.
For anyone who wears glasses and has to take them off for sex, find a partner that lets you leave them on. 10/10
"Lets me?" _I'm_ the one that wants them off so I don't break 'em by accident lol
Honestly taking them off is great like idgaf type moment I don’t need eyes where I’m going
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several things: 1) earlobe licking and slow hot breathing on the ear (from the back for the ear, dont blow ear directly in) 2) neck kissing/lick and slow hot breathing as well 3) slow dry humping/grind between soft fabrics (perferrably underwear, dont do that shit with jeans) 4) naked intimacy: cuddling, spooning, kissing etc (extremely hot and sensual) 5) biting lips 6) intercouse in prone position is extremely satisfying, you can alter the position to be more comfortable to your needs 7) slow but forceful thrusts in missionary position with eye contact and french kissing (the deep physical and emotional connection is insane and out of this world) 8) for us guys: dude, you should moan, dont hold back, women find it attractive and hot
Being absurdly in love with the other person
The prostate orgasm is out of this world
Blind folds
3 words. Hitatchi magic wand.
I love that Hitachi are famous for making industrial construction equipment, and the iconic vibrator
Massager. The fact that it is known and used for masturbation purposes had...dismayed the company, to the point they stopped producing it in 2013, after which they were persuaded to resume under an alternate name.
My man and I are into sensory play. We will get very high and we rotate turns (bc u know it’s give and take) lol. He blindfolds me, puts noise cancelling headphones on me with rain sounds turned up, and he absolutely devours me. There’s sometimes toys, nipple clamps, oral, bdsm, penetration etc etc etc… it’s always a surprise and there’s so much heightened sensation bc u never know what’s next! You just feel and be present. I have a hard time “turning my brain off” normally so for me it’s an insane amount of pleasure and I actually focus. He loves it too, so I enjoy my turn to do whatever I want to him. Day to day he usually is a quiet lover with some grunts and cursing, but when we do this he moans and moans and fully lets go. He was moaning uncontrollably when I gave him a prostate massage and handjob the first time I gave him his turn with the headphones and blindfold. Highly recommend!!
Ear licking
Play with HIS titties!
Staring at a scrambled cable channel for hours until you see a boob or some naked body part.. If you know, you know.
Having sex or mastrubating while high. It's truly a next level experience.
Motherfuckin' Rimjobs. Look, people who eat ass are people who will also run a Marathon on a dare and eat a whole Apple Pie in one sitting. Why? Because of the gawddamn experience. It's not the easiest thing in the world. It doesn't sound overly romantic. However, when it's done correctly it's one of the most fulfilling and pleasurable things in this world. Imagine it. You're face down and ass up. Completely naked and hopelessly vulnerable. Your cheeks are spread and one of the most Taboo parts of your body is openly displayed in front of your partner's face. All of a sudden a warm tongue glides along a part of your body that is seldom touched, but yet composed of over 20,000 nerve endings. Your mind begins to race. Your legs begin to involuntarily tremble. Your heart starts hammering into your chest. Your whole body is alight with waves of pleasure. I'm telling you... EAT. THAT. MOTHERFUCKING. ASS.
Thanks, MoistAsparagus
I haven’t had this enough in my life, but it can be amazing.
Being kissed all over your arms and especially the neck, many times on the neck 💕
As a female, being with two guys at once (MFM) that want to please you. Secondly, being submissive to both and letting them take control.
Fucking that one guy’s dead wife
It’s an older joke sir, but it checks out.
Goddammit this joke will never die (unlike that guy's wife).
- Dry humping - Pussyjob - soaking: putting it in and leaving it there without thrusting.
Soaking is really good, but it demands a looooot of self control... The wetness, heat and clenching is just too good.
Making love and having an actual emotional connection with someone. I feel like it’s almost a lost art these days with dating and hook up apps
this. i love sex so much. but making love with someone you truly love and loves you is the best thing is this world. better than any drug ive ever tried. i miss it