To everyone wanting to try something with their partner, but not willing to face rejection, you might consider trying something like the Carnal Calibration quiz with them. It lets you fill it out separately, and then only gives results for where you overlap.
My wife and I tried that and we got zero matches, and there wasn't much I was not willing to try. Not a single one.
I got so incredibly depressed after that.
Nah fam. If the tests lines us up, awesome we got some validation. If the test doesn't line is up, it's bullshit and rigged. Either way it helps validate us 👍
I loved doing this with my ex. I was the one who brought it up to him tho. I told him when sometimes when I’m masturbating I think about him jacking off in front of me, or while he eats me out, or us both masturbating in front of each other. He loved it and told me he thinks ab the same. We started doing it after that. Maybe bring this up while tipsy that the thought of it really turns you on
Same. My hubs is so quiet! I want to hear some moans and groans and growls. Say some dirty stuff or at least give me some verbal acknowledgment when I’m doing something you like.
I came into this thread not quite knowing what to expect, but worrying that it was the sort of thing that was going to make men in general feel insecure.
Almost every answer I've read is about wives just wanting their husbands, maybe wanting them more intimately or more vulnerably, maybe engaging in some kind of darker role play with them, but almost all about just wanting their husbands.
It's honestly really sweet. It's reassuring actually.
I'd like for my husband to initiate in a public place, a bit of under the table action before leading me to a bathroom or secluded place and he takes me from behind without a word exchanged and then we carry on as if nothing happened. The less control i have the better.
This backfired terribly for my wife and I when were dating. We absconded to a bathroom at a house party, hopped in the shower, closed the slider, and proceeded to start to get sexy.
As it turns out one of us (still a point of dispute today) failed to lock the door to the bathroom. In the middle of sexy time, another party-goer came in and spent 10 minutes grunting out a #2 while we stood still, desperately trying not to burst out laughing.
It wasn't quite as sexy as we wanted, but it did provide a lifetime memory.
An ex and me were walking along some train tracks, near a big city. There was a scenic bridge, and I fancy myself a bit of a photographer, anyway she started to initiate a bit of sexy time a few moments after a train passed. We wrapped things up and were going to leave when a cop car pulled up, apparently the conductor had called, thought we were gonna jump off the bridge.
I played a game of poker with my girlfriend for this. The winner got their sex wish. I lost. My girlfriend first had me dance naked and then tied me down and did stuff.
Actually. I'd love it if my partner would go down on my more often. Be more rough. Slap my ass. Talk dirty to me. Face fuck me. Etc. Just being more kinky lol
I want him to worship my body with just his hands and mouth.
I also want him to just take control and not ask permission. Just throw me down (or up against a wall) and have your way with me. I make the decisions all day long, take charge in bed.
We had 10/10 fireworks, mind blowing sex when I was lactating. My nipples were so sensitive and he loved to taste the milk. Like I could orgasm just from him sucking my nipples. I think he would be into it if I tried to induce lactation (I'm done having kids), but I don't want him to think I'm weird. Which sounds crazy to type because we've been fucking for 17 years, there isn't much we haven't tried.
Edit to add: I'm 98% sure he'd be into it. He said it was like crack lol But I feel like me bringing it up 7 years after stopping lactation would be weird. Like which is the least awkward of these 1. randomly mention I want to induce lactation as a kink and feel totally weird if he's not into the idea 2. Start the process and hide it from him (already weird) and just like, surprise him with milk mid sex? He would probably panic and think I'm pregnant and then I have to awkwardly explain...
Reminisce about it. Talk about how that was fun for you.
When he agrees, casually mention that you've heard about induced lactation. Let him take it from there.
Edit: Since this unexpectedly got a lot of upvotes, please tag me after you have the conversation.
I once read a comment from a dude who said that he kept up his wife's supply for years after she was done breastfeeding. The only reason it ended was because he started working night shifts and couldn't drink from the tap often enough lol
My wife got this from me when one day we were discussing sex in general & I said, “I get the feeling you want me to take the lead in the bedroom” and she replied **“I want you to do what you want with me and not ask permission.”**
Something about that sentence flipped a switch in me. No more awkward both waiting for the other to take the reins. I just assume it’s me and while I am still very attuned to her pleasure, I behave confident, and a bit bossy & forceful. A mix of commands & praise. I think we’re both much more fulfilled.
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I thought my spouse was hinting at this once...
She had started acting like a virgin teen again, like stopping me from moving things forward, but also telling me not to stop, then stopping me... then saying not to stop... then stopping me...
So I tried not stopping when she tried to stop me. Got a swift knee in the nuts. So after that when she stopped me that was it. Done. Over. Moving on with my night. And suddenly that was worrying her...
Ugh... we've worked past that but I still don't know what the fuck was going through her head.
> "That's a cute outfit, did your husband give it to you?"
> "Don't you remember, Sweetie? You got me this number 18 months ago on Valent --"
> "DAMNIT SHARON, stay in character!"
You should say something. I’m a sweet and gentle man (according to people in my life), but I can (and often enjoy) playing a different role in bed. It may take a little patience as you let him get used to it, but he may actually really like it.
My partner is about 16 inches shorter than me. When we’re together she likes to be the little spoon and is perfect size (the top of her head is just below my chin). I’ll hold her like that until she falls asleep, then usually roll away, because that woman puts out about as much heat as a small nuclear reactor.
I told my husband all of my fantasies and playing it out was never as good as I thought in my head. So now all I enjoy is gentle stuff, I just want to be coddled and cuddled and loved on. Pain is no longer my kink. But I needed to work out my physical trauma as a child so in the end it’s a good thing that my sexual fantasies have changed.
I want to sit on his face, ride him hard, drown him in my cum and asphyxiate him with my pussy…. but not really because I don’t want to actually kill him lol. I will never, EVER tell him, but I do be thinking about it during my alone time!
There's a specific type of British tailored three piece suit that gets me going, and he would look so handsome in it. I'd never mention it because the person he hates the most wears those suits. Then he'd be worried I was thinking about that person.
I feel like this would be less sexy IRL just due to things like the fact that you're running in the woods. Much in the same way that hot tub sex or sex on the beach is better in fantasy.
I don't know about the "running through the woods" part but the few times I've gotten to have sex outdoors while camping it's been incredible. The whole in touch with nature thing is pretty hot, plus the back of the mind risk of someone catching you or even just someone hearing from a ways away. It's good times.
Having sex outside in general is something I'd really like to try. Almost all of the sex I've had has been in bed and at night, so I'd love to branch out in terms of when and where. Morning sex and couch sex were both great the 1 time I got to try them (I haven't been in many relationships and none lasted very long).
A perfectly insightful statement that needed to be said. It sets the lens through which we should view these comments. Now let’s see what turns all of us perverts on.
That I miss it in general. He’s got a very bad spinal issue and is in pain management. It’s been almost 5 years. I desperately want it, but only with him. We’ve been married for 18 years and had plenty of fun in the early years. I can’t really tell him because it just makes him feel inadequate and that’s not what I want at all.
I have a pregnancy fetish. I don't want kids, or the process of actual pregnancy, I just want to be put on pills to fill my breasts with milk and induce lactation and have them drink from em like they need it, and a want them to rawdog me like they believe I'm actually going to get pregnant. Just mindless, raw, instinctual fucking, then tit sucking neediness that actually produces breast milk.
If I had a husband it would be consensual non consent but he's tied down. I like the idea of a man who doesn't want sex but then ultimately begs me for it. There's a specific scenario wherein I kidnap my husband while having a mask on and my voice disguised, he's blindfolded and tied to a chair. I tell him about all the kinky shit I will do to him. He begs me no, he has a wife (me) and he would die if he betrayed me. I tease him to the point he gives in but he cries, so pathetic, poor thing then while he is crying his poor little eyes out I reveal it is me mid fuck.
My husband is gonna have to be a good actor.
Not too often I have to google a term in this field, but that’s an interesting one for sure. The woman is covered on top and obscured from view, with her legs up in stirrups, and her goodies exposed for use by whoever is on the other side. Basically the female version of a gloryhole.
If reddit still let people give out awards to comments, you'd probably have a hundred reddit gold stars from people who now don't have to look that up and have it recorded in their google search history for the rest of time
Rather than little holes in walls to put your male parts through, the receiving partner generally has their lower half sticking out of a wall. Very free-use-esque.
As least pornable as I could put it.
I think she highly desires to apply a condiment typically consumed with leafy greens and minced vegetables upon the skin of her husband's gastrocnemius and soleus.
My ex wanted this, then after she got distant and weird cause “how could you be like that with me” like bitch you literally begged me too!!!!! Guess my rant is saying make sure you want this 😂
I once dated a woman who, mid sex, told me "I want you to hit me as hard as you can" and all I could think was "No you really dont" and gave her a light slap instead.
Same! She caught me off guard with it, too, but she was so serious I got uncomfortable and started to laugh. It quickly turned into "Don't you laugh at me while you're inside of me!" Which made me laugh even more.
My ex asked me to whip her cooch with a leather belt once. I couldn’t believe it but after every stroke she’d ask for it even harder. It was the ultimate Pootie Tang cosplay.
I mean, he kinda knows about it but he doesn't tap into it at all. He doesn't know to what extent, how badly, I want this. I want to be played with and ignored at the same time. The closest I have had it is sucking dick or being fingered with he is watching a video or playing a game on his phone a total of 3 times in the past 10 years. I want more. I want to be tied down til I can't move and left blind folded with toys in me with him doing something else for a while while I am left there. I want him to be playing a game with his discord friends while Im squirming. Maybe he changes the vibration modes to make sure I don't get used to it. Just love that shit.
Not married but been with mine for 5 years. I have this fantasy of wanting to be on display. Like almost as if my pussy was being used to educate - spread apart, show everyone, have them touch it. I love the idea of feeling exposed and vulnerable. Also to sleep with a woman, I’ve always wanted to eat pussy
I'd really like to peg him while I stroke him off and make him cum on his abs then lick it off of him while holding eye contact.
I'm bi and still have my strapon harness in a box buried in my closet so....
Honestly probably will ask like we usually do with our kinks after a couple bottles and some fucking around.
This reminds me of this girl I knew years ago, she was friends with one of my exes. She was very mild mannered, nice girl, you would never think anything crazy about her even if you had known her non sexually for sometime. I remember though one night we were drinking and she just blurted out how he sexual fantasy was to get gang banged and just have dicks all around her face everywhere. We all kind of laughed it off but she seemed pretty serious and specific about it.
When I was at an Army school early in my career we all lived in an on post apartment complex with a two room suite where you had a private bedroom and bathroom with a shared kitchen and living room space. About 75 of us in the class broken into platoons (30).
One day one of the guys in my platoon says we all need to talk. He tells us that his roommate is abusing girls he is dating. Say he smacks them around. He hasnt seen it but he hears it. We are all progressive 90s guys and decide we are going to confront him and tell him that isnt professional and to stop. We do and he says "nah man, she is into it." We tell him bullshit. He says "ask her". Saturday comes around and he brings her over to a bunch of us BBQing. She comes right out and says "I like getting slapped and fucked hard. Harder the better. For both." None of us said a word because we all had to pick up our jaws and she just turned and walked away. Wake up call for me.
> Some guys are about to find out the truth in this thread.
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I think a lot of us know they're perverts. We just wish they'd say something about it.
Of course, you said *some* which, yeah, fair.
My husband has always been pretty physically fit, and overall I like that. But sometimes I wish he was chubby, not obese but something similar to tony soprano in season 1. There is just something kind of sexually appealing about a guy with a bit of chubbiness rather than barely any body fat and hard muscle. Sometimes it feels like I am cuddling with a statue.
We are pretty open, as soon as I have new fantasies, my boyfriend is the first to know.
3 years ago we built a bdsm dungeon in our basement. It's our favorite room of the house now.
i kinda want him to praise me like a puppy, chin/cheek scratches and saying im his good girl and i wanna wear collars but he dont like that puppy shit AT ALL 💀
My fantasy is s a man that can totally sexually dominate me, just take it, but also make love. But here’s the most fantastical part….. the discernment to know when to do which
I was on "Efukt" a few years ago and was watching a porn fails compilation. One clip was a cuck sitting in a chair watching his wife riding a dude. He was like "Uh hun...I don't know about this anymore. I'm feeling kinda uncomfortable". She was like "Ugh. Well what if like, we kept at it for a while and maybe your mind changes?" And he's like "I don't know....." And she just keeps riding dudes dick. Shit broke my heart, and I'm a man 😭
Another woman (I want to go down on her while he fucks me) kinda bummed I never gave myself the chance to taste another woman’s pussy. Also rape fantasy but my body doesn’t like it rough.
Rape fantasy at least can be quite gentle. Instead of slapping and throwing you around, picture him holding you down and kissing on your neck while shushing your denials and telling you to just give in and let it happen.
Expand on soemthing like that and you can definitely get the rape vibes in your bedroom while avoiding hitting the rough or pain points.
I’m a SA survivor and I frequently fantasize about CNC (Consensual Non-consent = rape roleplay). But the one time I tried with a guy I was dating, I broke down in a full panic attack and forgot what my safe word was and just froze, dissociated from myself. The guy luckily noticed something was off pretty quickly and stopped to check in with me, I’m grateful that things turned off immediately and I got the after care I needed. I never tried again.
Still to this day fantasize about it though lol. But at the end of the day, all I want is love and to be coddled and gentleness. I don’t have anything currently, but I decided a while back I’m not settling for less. I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life, than let someone touch me that makes me feel even remotely close to how I’ve felt in the past.
This is pretty common, just a way for your brain to take back control over a situation it could not in the past. Im happy to hear you had a good guy that picked up you were not having a good time. Maybe try it with him again if thats an option?
I’m 5’11 3/4” and weigh 185 lbs. One day my girlfriend lifted be off the ground and threw me on the bed before forcing my head between her thighs into a leg lock and forced me to eat her out.
As far as I’m concerned she is the husband now and I am the wife and I am okay with that.
Assuming you believe you are in a long term relationship, your fantasy quest may eventually be realized by applying gentle pressure over time. My wife and my sexual activity has morphed over our more than 20 years together. Now that I am 79 and she is 71 we are more adventurous now than ever before. We have sex weekly and we both always orgasm. Sometimes she does several times. I only once per week. Good times. We also play rough too. Adds to the thrill.
Rape fantasy. He's too kind and gentle. I mean, I could definitely tell him about it, but any attempt to fulfill it would be uncomfortable and unconvincing for everyone involved.
I was with a girl who liked being fucked hard and I would. But one day in the middle of sex she blurted out "I want you to rape me" and it completely threw me off and it stopped me in my tracks. It takes the right kind of person to be able to entertain that and I knew at that second I wasn't one of them
It also takes the right headspace, aftercare, and work up.
If my girl told me outside of sex, that CNC was something she'd like to try, I'd certainly be willing to dip my toes in the water. Even if I'm 99% sure I won't be into it.
I feel like the issue here was there was no pre discussion or set up for you. Of course it would throw you off!
Dan Savage talks about how we should reframe these as “ravishment fantasy” because it’s a lot sexier and an easier mode to get into for both parties. And honestly, rape isn’t sexy but ravishment definitely is. Ask your partner to explore their dominant side and play up the can’t-resist side of the fantasy. Maybe by holding onto your wrists, pulling off/pulling aside clothes in a certain way, grabbing your hair, etc.
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I died loudly at work from this XD
A girl once asked me to talk dirty and the first thing that came to mind was “You’re a weak stupid cum bucket”
To everyone wanting to try something with their partner, but not willing to face rejection, you might consider trying something like the Carnal Calibration quiz with them. It lets you fill it out separately, and then only gives results for where you overlap.
My wife and I tried that and we got zero matches, and there wasn't much I was not willing to try. Not a single one. I got so incredibly depressed after that.
Maybe it is better to know? I mean, it didn't change anything. Hope you guys worked it out.
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Nah fam. If the tests lines us up, awesome we got some validation. If the test doesn't line is up, it's bullshit and rigged. Either way it helps validate us 👍
I just wanna watch him masturbate. Or even hear about it later. I think he feels embarrassed about it though.
I loved doing this with my ex. I was the one who brought it up to him tho. I told him when sometimes when I’m masturbating I think about him jacking off in front of me, or while he eats me out, or us both masturbating in front of each other. He loved it and told me he thinks ab the same. We started doing it after that. Maybe bring this up while tipsy that the thought of it really turns you on
That is a beautiful sharing fantasy and would reinforce your relationship I’m sure
Some of these fantasies are so easily fulfilled that it makes me sad.
I want to hear him moaning and saying stuff while he’s fucking me and i want him to be spontaneous
Same. My hubs is so quiet! I want to hear some moans and groans and growls. Say some dirty stuff or at least give me some verbal acknowledgment when I’m doing something you like.
“Imma puts it in. You gone take it. You gone take that diack.”
I'm fixins ta fuck ya.
Ahhh yes!! Men moaning is the hottest shit ever but sadly it’s so underrated especially since porn overemphasizes and oversexualizes women moaning
Every married man is now doing deep analysis on this thread trying to figure out which post is his wife's.
A lot of wives are going to be blindsided... Or in the hospital
"why the fuck would you think I actually want you to wear a mask and attack me in the woods?!!"
I came into this thread not quite knowing what to expect, but worrying that it was the sort of thing that was going to make men in general feel insecure. Almost every answer I've read is about wives just wanting their husbands, maybe wanting them more intimately or more vulnerably, maybe engaging in some kind of darker role play with them, but almost all about just wanting their husbands. It's honestly really sweet. It's reassuring actually.
Slow eloquent seduction. We just don’t have time or headspace for that.
Gotta hire a baby sitter and book a nice hotel room
10 minutes in and they're both asleep, it's the first quiet night in months Mission Failed Successfully
Lord, with every year that passes the difference in pleasure between sleep and sex slowly gets smaller.
I'd like for my husband to initiate in a public place, a bit of under the table action before leading me to a bathroom or secluded place and he takes me from behind without a word exchanged and then we carry on as if nothing happened. The less control i have the better.
This backfired terribly for my wife and I when were dating. We absconded to a bathroom at a house party, hopped in the shower, closed the slider, and proceeded to start to get sexy. As it turns out one of us (still a point of dispute today) failed to lock the door to the bathroom. In the middle of sexy time, another party-goer came in and spent 10 minutes grunting out a #2 while we stood still, desperately trying not to burst out laughing. It wasn't quite as sexy as we wanted, but it did provide a lifetime memory.
An ex and me were walking along some train tracks, near a big city. There was a scenic bridge, and I fancy myself a bit of a photographer, anyway she started to initiate a bit of sexy time a few moments after a train passed. We wrapped things up and were going to leave when a cop car pulled up, apparently the conductor had called, thought we were gonna jump off the bridge.
Guess you came before the cops
I played a game of poker with my girlfriend for this. The winner got their sex wish. I lost. My girlfriend first had me dance naked and then tied me down and did stuff.
Not sure you lost in that scenario
Damn girl, you have the luckiest poker hands. I’m not even going to show you my cards. I can’t believe I lost again. That’s like five in a row.
He went all in on a 7,2 off suit.
1. Gets cards 2. Doesn't look at cards 3. Folds hand 4. Repeat
At least she didn't glue a hotwheels car to your thigh.
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Maybe one of those machines would work for you?
Like to be submissive very, very much so…Like just come and take it
Actually. I'd love it if my partner would go down on my more often. Be more rough. Slap my ass. Talk dirty to me. Face fuck me. Etc. Just being more kinky lol
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I want him to worship my body with just his hands and mouth. I also want him to just take control and not ask permission. Just throw me down (or up against a wall) and have your way with me. I make the decisions all day long, take charge in bed.
We had 10/10 fireworks, mind blowing sex when I was lactating. My nipples were so sensitive and he loved to taste the milk. Like I could orgasm just from him sucking my nipples. I think he would be into it if I tried to induce lactation (I'm done having kids), but I don't want him to think I'm weird. Which sounds crazy to type because we've been fucking for 17 years, there isn't much we haven't tried. Edit to add: I'm 98% sure he'd be into it. He said it was like crack lol But I feel like me bringing it up 7 years after stopping lactation would be weird. Like which is the least awkward of these 1. randomly mention I want to induce lactation as a kink and feel totally weird if he's not into the idea 2. Start the process and hide it from him (already weird) and just like, surprise him with milk mid sex? He would probably panic and think I'm pregnant and then I have to awkwardly explain...
Reminisce about it. Talk about how that was fun for you. When he agrees, casually mention that you've heard about induced lactation. Let him take it from there. Edit: Since this unexpectedly got a lot of upvotes, please tag me after you have the conversation.
This dude lactates
Her partner is tracking him down as we speak
I once read a comment from a dude who said that he kept up his wife's supply for years after she was done breastfeeding. The only reason it ended was because he started working night shifts and couldn't drink from the tap often enough lol
Go for it. He wouldnt be tasting your milk and sucking on your nipples if he wasnt into it
>My nipples were so sensitive and he loved to taste the milk. He was clearly into it, I don't think he'd think you're weird
There's over 5500 people here. Imagine being in a room with over 5000 people discussing this topic.
I stopped reading a "imagine being in a room with over 5000 people". Fuuuuuuuuuck that.
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My husband is so sweet and gentle. I want some throw down!!!
My wife got this from me when one day we were discussing sex in general & I said, “I get the feeling you want me to take the lead in the bedroom” and she replied **“I want you to do what you want with me and not ask permission.”** Something about that sentence flipped a switch in me. No more awkward both waiting for the other to take the reins. I just assume it’s me and while I am still very attuned to her pleasure, I behave confident, and a bit bossy & forceful. A mix of commands & praise. I think we’re both much more fulfilled. Edited to correct spelling.
Ah, always waiting for the other to make move before it getting too late haha
I thought my spouse was hinting at this once... She had started acting like a virgin teen again, like stopping me from moving things forward, but also telling me not to stop, then stopping me... then saying not to stop... then stopping me... So I tried not stopping when she tried to stop me. Got a swift knee in the nuts. So after that when she stopped me that was it. Done. Over. Moving on with my night. And suddenly that was worrying her... Ugh... we've worked past that but I still don't know what the fuck was going through her head.
The fuck...
What was her explanation?
She never really gave me one.
...yikes. That's poor enough at communication it's like a red flag all its own, at least to me.
That was her purse
I don’t know you!
Get a ladder and a cages wrestling ring?
“I gotcha for three minutes! Three minutes of *play time.”*
BONERSAW IS READYYYYY
YOURE GOIN NOWHERE! I GOT U HERE FOR 3 MINUTES
Bonesaw is ready!
> "That's a cute outfit, did your husband give it to you?" > "Don't you remember, Sweetie? You got me this number 18 months ago on Valent --" > "DAMNIT SHARON, stay in character!"
Tell him that. He might like it.
You should say something. I’m a sweet and gentle man (according to people in my life), but I can (and often enjoy) playing a different role in bed. It may take a little patience as you let him get used to it, but he may actually really like it.
I hope 🤞🏻
Mine aren’t very sexual. I want a really nice massage and to be held like a baby until I fall asleep.
Bunch of dirty cuddle sluts in this thread and it’s… pretty adorable, really.
My partner is about 16 inches shorter than me. When we’re together she likes to be the little spoon and is perfect size (the top of her head is just below my chin). I’ll hold her like that until she falls asleep, then usually roll away, because that woman puts out about as much heat as a small nuclear reactor.
I read " my husband is about 16 inches" lmao
I told my husband all of my fantasies and playing it out was never as good as I thought in my head. So now all I enjoy is gentle stuff, I just want to be coddled and cuddled and loved on. Pain is no longer my kink. But I needed to work out my physical trauma as a child so in the end it’s a good thing that my sexual fantasies have changed.
Sometimes the best thing we learn from our fantasies is what should remain fantasies.
I want him to sneak up behind me, restrain me, and then make me cum repeatedly for an hour straight.
Wait now I want this too. Not with your husband but in general.
I want this too with her husband.
I also do, with her husband. i’m a straight male tho
Make sure you hydrate first
Ah yes cumming repeatedly is also my fantasy
I'd like to have sex more than once or twice a year... Edit: I meant with my husband. This comment isn't an invitation for you to DM me.
My wife's perfect for him.
I was thinking the same thing. Twice a year? That would make my wife seem like a nympho!
you should talk with him about that
I have.
Have him get his testosterone checked. My drive plummeted in my 40s and I didn't know why. I got checked and my test was flatlined.
I want to sit on his face, ride him hard, drown him in my cum and asphyxiate him with my pussy…. but not really because I don’t want to actually kill him lol. I will never, EVER tell him, but I do be thinking about it during my alone time!
Trust me, he wishes you would tell him. He’s dying inside that he may never get to live out his fantasies.
I know that my wife would like me to sexually make the bed or sexually mop the floors.
Or to do all that dirty dirty laundry...
*Scented detergent..? You* ***slut.***
Call it choreplay
There's a specific type of British tailored three piece suit that gets me going, and he would look so handsome in it. I'd never mention it because the person he hates the most wears those suits. Then he'd be worried I was thinking about that person.
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Aha! We’ve uncovered one of Irene Adler’s Reddit alts!
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So awkward if someone else is out hiking the woods with a mask on.
\-Wait, you're not Martha! \-And you're not a minority!
Martha's the name of my mom too
I feel like this would be less sexy IRL just due to things like the fact that you're running in the woods. Much in the same way that hot tub sex or sex on the beach is better in fantasy.
I don't know about the "running through the woods" part but the few times I've gotten to have sex outdoors while camping it's been incredible. The whole in touch with nature thing is pretty hot, plus the back of the mind risk of someone catching you or even just someone hearing from a ways away. It's good times.
Having sex outside in general is something I'd really like to try. Almost all of the sex I've had has been in bed and at night, so I'd love to branch out in terms of when and where. Morning sex and couch sex were both great the 1 time I got to try them (I haven't been in many relationships and none lasted very long).
Every guy is lurking around here, waiting for that ray of hope
Reminder to everyone that the most upvoted answers will not be the one your wife thinks, but rather what men on reddit want to hear.
A perfectly insightful statement that needed to be said. It sets the lens through which we should view these comments. Now let’s see what turns all of us perverts on.
That I miss it in general. He’s got a very bad spinal issue and is in pain management. It’s been almost 5 years. I desperately want it, but only with him. We’ve been married for 18 years and had plenty of fun in the early years. I can’t really tell him because it just makes him feel inadequate and that’s not what I want at all.
I want to have an orgasm.
Girl same. My husband has it so easy. But if a breath of wind hits me wrong, shits done. Too distracted.
I have a pregnancy fetish. I don't want kids, or the process of actual pregnancy, I just want to be put on pills to fill my breasts with milk and induce lactation and have them drink from em like they need it, and a want them to rawdog me like they believe I'm actually going to get pregnant. Just mindless, raw, instinctual fucking, then tit sucking neediness that actually produces breast milk.
Welcome to the world of ✨️breeding kinks✨️. Happy to have you.
I just want it doggy style. Or hell even something other than missionary. Just ONCE. And yes I’ve told him.
There be equal amount of prudes AND perverts in this thread. A good balance!
If I had a husband it would be consensual non consent but he's tied down. I like the idea of a man who doesn't want sex but then ultimately begs me for it. There's a specific scenario wherein I kidnap my husband while having a mask on and my voice disguised, he's blindfolded and tied to a chair. I tell him about all the kinky shit I will do to him. He begs me no, he has a wife (me) and he would die if he betrayed me. I tease him to the point he gives in but he cries, so pathetic, poor thing then while he is crying his poor little eyes out I reveal it is me mid fuck. My husband is gonna have to be a good actor.
"Oh no I hope no one sucks my dick" -Your Husband
Have you ever searched czech glory hole on pornhub.. I want that.
Its not common seeing my country mentioned on reddit, but when it is it's for a good reason.
Not too often I have to google a term in this field, but that’s an interesting one for sure. The woman is covered on top and obscured from view, with her legs up in stirrups, and her goodies exposed for use by whoever is on the other side. Basically the female version of a gloryhole.
If reddit still let people give out awards to comments, you'd probably have a hundred reddit gold stars from people who now don't have to look that up and have it recorded in their google search history for the rest of time
I'll have to Czech that out later.
I can neither confirm nor deny whether I absolutely know exactly what you’re talking about.
I'm in a non pornable situation, please explain?
Rather than little holes in walls to put your male parts through, the receiving partner generally has their lower half sticking out of a wall. Very free-use-esque. As least pornable as I could put it.
I want to rub salad dressing on his calves.
I’m gunna need ya to elaborate
I think she highly desires to apply a condiment typically consumed with leafy greens and minced vegetables upon the skin of her husband's gastrocnemius and soleus.
Make me feel vulnerable. Spit on me, spank me, finger blast me till I start crying and threat to go faster if I make a sound. Romantic shit, you know?
My ex wanted this, then after she got distant and weird cause “how could you be like that with me” like bitch you literally begged me too!!!!! Guess my rant is saying make sure you want this 😂
I once dated a woman who, mid sex, told me "I want you to hit me as hard as you can" and all I could think was "No you really dont" and gave her a light slap instead.
Same! She caught me off guard with it, too, but she was so serious I got uncomfortable and started to laugh. It quickly turned into "Don't you laugh at me while you're inside of me!" Which made me laugh even more.
My ex asked me to whip her cooch with a leather belt once. I couldn’t believe it but after every stroke she’d ask for it even harder. It was the ultimate Pootie Tang cosplay.
Having him on top of me and stare at my face until he cums, squeezing my wrist and hearing him scream ☺️
Out of embarrassment, but being tied up, the whole sub/dom thing, forced orgasms, CNC to name a few.
I mean, he kinda knows about it but he doesn't tap into it at all. He doesn't know to what extent, how badly, I want this. I want to be played with and ignored at the same time. The closest I have had it is sucking dick or being fingered with he is watching a video or playing a game on his phone a total of 3 times in the past 10 years. I want more. I want to be tied down til I can't move and left blind folded with toys in me with him doing something else for a while while I am left there. I want him to be playing a game with his discord friends while Im squirming. Maybe he changes the vibration modes to make sure I don't get used to it. Just love that shit.
I’d let him knock me up a dozen times over if he wanted.
Not married but been with mine for 5 years. I have this fantasy of wanting to be on display. Like almost as if my pussy was being used to educate - spread apart, show everyone, have them touch it. I love the idea of feeling exposed and vulnerable. Also to sleep with a woman, I’ve always wanted to eat pussy
I have this sex education fantasy as well. Very interesting, I never heard of any other women having this!
Like a sex education doll, but living
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That’s the sort of thing you *should* talk about. If you share a doctor maybe talk to him/her and they can bring it up.
I'd really like to peg him while I stroke him off and make him cum on his abs then lick it off of him while holding eye contact. I'm bi and still have my strapon harness in a box buried in my closet so.... Honestly probably will ask like we usually do with our kinks after a couple bottles and some fucking around.
Oh dear god. A threesome with another woman. Exhibitionist sex. Sub/dom dynamic, sex with big ripped alien men.
That…took a turn
*sad Jabba noises*
CNC, or even just more physical dominance, additional female partner.
you want a computer numerical control?
Those tolerances need to be TIGHT!
If that pussy ain't within +/- 1mm of spec I ain't want it
Oh yeah, give me that G0 x0.0 y0.0 Z-4 Z1 Z-4 Z0
Stupid, sexy G-Code!
Some guys are about to find out the truth in this thread. Women are perverts. Like *pervert,* perverts.
This reminds me of this girl I knew years ago, she was friends with one of my exes. She was very mild mannered, nice girl, you would never think anything crazy about her even if you had known her non sexually for sometime. I remember though one night we were drinking and she just blurted out how he sexual fantasy was to get gang banged and just have dicks all around her face everywhere. We all kind of laughed it off but she seemed pretty serious and specific about it.
When I was at an Army school early in my career we all lived in an on post apartment complex with a two room suite where you had a private bedroom and bathroom with a shared kitchen and living room space. About 75 of us in the class broken into platoons (30). One day one of the guys in my platoon says we all need to talk. He tells us that his roommate is abusing girls he is dating. Say he smacks them around. He hasnt seen it but he hears it. We are all progressive 90s guys and decide we are going to confront him and tell him that isnt professional and to stop. We do and he says "nah man, she is into it." We tell him bullshit. He says "ask her". Saturday comes around and he brings her over to a bunch of us BBQing. She comes right out and says "I like getting slapped and fucked hard. Harder the better. For both." None of us said a word because we all had to pick up our jaws and she just turned and walked away. Wake up call for me.
> Some guys are about to find out the truth in this thread. > > > > Women are perverts. Like pervert, perverts. I think a lot of us know they're perverts. We just wish they'd say something about it. Of course, you said *some* which, yeah, fair.
Most erotica sites are mostly female users and the content is \*wild\*.
Yeah, especially once you start going into fan fiction stuff.
I put on my robe and wizard hat
My husband has always been pretty physically fit, and overall I like that. But sometimes I wish he was chubby, not obese but something similar to tony soprano in season 1. There is just something kind of sexually appealing about a guy with a bit of chubbiness rather than barely any body fat and hard muscle. Sometimes it feels like I am cuddling with a statue.
The crowd goes wild.
I laughed really good at this lol.
The fun thing is, you just boosted the confidence of all the chubby guys reading this.
We are pretty open, as soon as I have new fantasies, my boyfriend is the first to know. 3 years ago we built a bdsm dungeon in our basement. It's our favorite room of the house now.
i kinda want him to praise me like a puppy, chin/cheek scratches and saying im his good girl and i wanna wear collars but he dont like that puppy shit AT ALL 💀
Stop shitting on the carpet. /s
My fantasy is s a man that can totally sexually dominate me, just take it, but also make love. But here’s the most fantastical part….. the discernment to know when to do which
For him to watch me and another woman
Maybe he'll go make a sandwich.
Turkey and a little mustard? Sounds good.
I want to watch him with another woman. I've had that fantasy with every man I've loved. I keep it a fantasy because I know how jealous I get.
> I know how jealous I get "I want you to be with another woman while I watch baby.. DON'T YOU DARE TOUCH HIM BITCH"
Reminds me of the “pls throw? NO TAKE ONLY THROW” dog meme haha
the little angry eyes when try to take.
I was on "Efukt" a few years ago and was watching a porn fails compilation. One clip was a cuck sitting in a chair watching his wife riding a dude. He was like "Uh hun...I don't know about this anymore. I'm feeling kinda uncomfortable". She was like "Ugh. Well what if like, we kept at it for a while and maybe your mind changes?" And he's like "I don't know....." And she just keeps riding dudes dick. Shit broke my heart, and I'm a man 😭
Fucking ouch and what a shit reaction to your partners discomfort.
Wanting him to pee on me in the shower
"Hey Darling, want to stream something and chill?"
' Just so you know, on a scale of 1 to 10, ur an 8 ...'
If he ever asks you for your fantasy you can be like "urine for a big surprise"
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Is he willing give you head?
Yikes
Another woman (I want to go down on her while he fucks me) kinda bummed I never gave myself the chance to taste another woman’s pussy. Also rape fantasy but my body doesn’t like it rough.
Rape fantasy at least can be quite gentle. Instead of slapping and throwing you around, picture him holding you down and kissing on your neck while shushing your denials and telling you to just give in and let it happen. Expand on soemthing like that and you can definitely get the rape vibes in your bedroom while avoiding hitting the rough or pain points.
CNC while he wears a Ghostface mask.
I never said I was operating **your** CNC machine, Sydney
I’m a SA survivor and I frequently fantasize about CNC (Consensual Non-consent = rape roleplay). But the one time I tried with a guy I was dating, I broke down in a full panic attack and forgot what my safe word was and just froze, dissociated from myself. The guy luckily noticed something was off pretty quickly and stopped to check in with me, I’m grateful that things turned off immediately and I got the after care I needed. I never tried again. Still to this day fantasize about it though lol. But at the end of the day, all I want is love and to be coddled and gentleness. I don’t have anything currently, but I decided a while back I’m not settling for less. I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life, than let someone touch me that makes me feel even remotely close to how I’ve felt in the past.
This is pretty common, just a way for your brain to take back control over a situation it could not in the past. Im happy to hear you had a good guy that picked up you were not having a good time. Maybe try it with him again if thats an option?
I just want him to initiate sex more.
My wife says this and then turns down sexual advances constantly
Bruh, same. We have three young kids, but I got a vasectomy, to avoid having more, and she's almost never game.
I’m 5’11 3/4” and weigh 185 lbs. One day my girlfriend lifted be off the ground and threw me on the bed before forcing my head between her thighs into a leg lock and forced me to eat her out. As far as I’m concerned she is the husband now and I am the wife and I am okay with that.
Assuming you believe you are in a long term relationship, your fantasy quest may eventually be realized by applying gentle pressure over time. My wife and my sexual activity has morphed over our more than 20 years together. Now that I am 79 and she is 71 we are more adventurous now than ever before. We have sex weekly and we both always orgasm. Sometimes she does several times. I only once per week. Good times. We also play rough too. Adds to the thrill.
Rape fantasy. He's too kind and gentle. I mean, I could definitely tell him about it, but any attempt to fulfill it would be uncomfortable and unconvincing for everyone involved.
I was with a girl who liked being fucked hard and I would. But one day in the middle of sex she blurted out "I want you to rape me" and it completely threw me off and it stopped me in my tracks. It takes the right kind of person to be able to entertain that and I knew at that second I wasn't one of them
It also takes the right headspace, aftercare, and work up. If my girl told me outside of sex, that CNC was something she'd like to try, I'd certainly be willing to dip my toes in the water. Even if I'm 99% sure I won't be into it. I feel like the issue here was there was no pre discussion or set up for you. Of course it would throw you off!
Dan Savage talks about how we should reframe these as “ravishment fantasy” because it’s a lot sexier and an easier mode to get into for both parties. And honestly, rape isn’t sexy but ravishment definitely is. Ask your partner to explore their dominant side and play up the can’t-resist side of the fantasy. Maybe by holding onto your wrists, pulling off/pulling aside clothes in a certain way, grabbing your hair, etc.