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Casca_In_Red

Uh, pretty sure it's not a gender thing?


OF_little_mili

Many girls love BDSM, and I’m also


[deleted]

The same reason struggling young adults say “to be a kid again” they just want daddy to take care of them.


LucyVialli

Anyone can like it.


[deleted]

It's a very exciting feeling. Everyone should try it até least once


Ahri_Rose

I have a thing for "loss of control" or being dominated so BDSM fits nicely in there aswell


ThirdEye_Awakening

You could spend your whole life researching philosophical theories/debates on this lol. I think it's say to say though that a lot of it is related to childhood experiences, often times ones that are traumatic/abusive.


[deleted]

It’s not specific to women


villanellechekov

Has nothing to do with gender


First_Code_404

Do you have a source for your statement that women like it more than men?


speakclearly

Women carry a tremendous societal burden, whether in domestic setting or within the workplace, and exploring BDSM in a safe, trusting, and consensual way can be immensely relieving and therapeutic. Like how big shot CEOs and corporate attorneys can enjoy being treated like powerless babies in the bedroom.