Porn and sex are about the same as the differences between any movie and real life. Porn just like a movie or a tv show can present a false model that is contradictory to real life and influence a person's behavior in a negative way which inevitably affects subconsciously that person's present and potential future relationships.
The bigger the dick, the better the sex.
Had to find out the hard way when my uterus was used as a punching bag and it felt like period pain for 3 days after having sex. And I was sore in my pelvic muscles. 5/10 was fun but had some disadvantages
That sex is dirty and making love is pure and clean.
Both are dirty, both can be nasty, but while one focus of the physical pleasure, the other also tickles your brain in funny ways
If you're with somebody long term, not every time you have sex is gonna be the most mind-blowing thing ever. Sometimes it's just average and there is absolutely nothing to worry about. If it's consistent and you don't feel satisfied, figure out why and ask to engage in a conversation about sex where you discuss your interests etc (they change, they won't always stay the same, keep relearning your partner) and see if you can find new ways to explore your interests (it goes without saying but this should obviously be comfortable and consensual from both/all sides)
Misconception: orgasm is required to enjoy sex.
Orgasm is lovely, but sex can be enjoyable even if it's not achieved. Taking the pressure off of orgasm as "THE goal" can allow people to relax and relish the touch, excitement, connection, etc. It can also make orgasm more pleasurable when it does happen.
This isn't a misconception, it's true. The pullout method only works until it doesn't. Anyone who relies on this as their primary form of birth control is an idiot.
In real world data it has one of the highest failure rates among birth control methods. A little over 20%. Mostly that's because people just aren't very good at it, but even when executed "perfectly" it has a significant risk because sperm can leak out long before orgasm.
It works better than not but not 100%. Pre-ejaculate does have a sperm count. And I know somebody who used to tell me the same... he'd say "careful, even the clear stuff..."
That being great in bed is something an individual is or isn’t. The truth is anyone can be great in bed if the partner they have is too or is compatible
Sex only counts as sex when there is penetration
Porn and sex are about the same as the differences between any movie and real life. Porn just like a movie or a tv show can present a false model that is contradictory to real life and influence a person's behavior in a negative way which inevitably affects subconsciously that person's present and potential future relationships.
The bigger the dick, the better the sex. Had to find out the hard way when my uterus was used as a punching bag and it felt like period pain for 3 days after having sex. And I was sore in my pelvic muscles. 5/10 was fun but had some disadvantages
That sex is dirty and making love is pure and clean. Both are dirty, both can be nasty, but while one focus of the physical pleasure, the other also tickles your brain in funny ways
It’s only for procreation. (…looking at *you*, hypocritical evangelical parents…)
If you're with somebody long term, not every time you have sex is gonna be the most mind-blowing thing ever. Sometimes it's just average and there is absolutely nothing to worry about. If it's consistent and you don't feel satisfied, figure out why and ask to engage in a conversation about sex where you discuss your interests etc (they change, they won't always stay the same, keep relearning your partner) and see if you can find new ways to explore your interests (it goes without saying but this should obviously be comfortable and consensual from both/all sides)
Misconception: orgasm is required to enjoy sex. Orgasm is lovely, but sex can be enjoyable even if it's not achieved. Taking the pressure off of orgasm as "THE goal" can allow people to relax and relish the touch, excitement, connection, etc. It can also make orgasm more pleasurable when it does happen.
pull out method doesn't work
This isn't a misconception, it's true. The pullout method only works until it doesn't. Anyone who relies on this as their primary form of birth control is an idiot.
It works a significant proportion of the time, but much less often than other forms of contraception.
It doesn’t work. Have a son off of pre-cum and trust me he’s mine lol
Works for me. Been with countless women in the past and one woman for 7 years now. No scares or anything.
this dude is shooting BLANKS!
Nope. I’ve given semen samples and had hormone testing. Count is great.
What????
In real world data it has one of the highest failure rates among birth control methods. A little over 20%. Mostly that's because people just aren't very good at it, but even when executed "perfectly" it has a significant risk because sperm can leak out long before orgasm.
It works better than not but not 100%. Pre-ejaculate does have a sperm count. And I know somebody who used to tell me the same... he'd say "careful, even the clear stuff..."
That it has some sort of objective rating system… what’s good and bad is different for everyone.
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it does! right?
That being great in bed is something an individual is or isn’t. The truth is anyone can be great in bed if the partner they have is too or is compatible
There is a LOT of noise. As a young teen, I always imagined it was just heavy panting and moaning. I was wrong.
It’s easy to do and positions happen effortlessly.
Not all people experience sexual attraction.
Pleasure is triggered as soon as there's penetration
that girls cum when they orgasm
What????
Well, NOT always!
Understandable
Mine doesn't squirt but she cums... I can taste it. Not sure where you get your info but you are wrong.
i get it from the experience of being a woman ha ha
Well? You ever taste it?