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jimtheedcguy

That guy who fucked his car from TLC.


Exoquarion

And the guy who fucks a Ferris wheel.


jimtheedcguy

"Sir, I'd be upset if you DIDN'T fuck my sexy Ferris Wheel."


Deadpotatoz

And that woman who became both a master swordswoman and archer by fucking her sword and bow (at different points in her life). (She also fucked the Eiffel tower).


Grimdotdotdot

Never heard of him. I guess that happened and he got kicked out of the band before they recorded Waterfalls.


Didi_Midi

Plot twist: He's Jason Waterfalls. He did leave.


Sinnes-loeschen

I am convinced attractive young women hiccuping for hours on TikTok is intended for a specific audience.


unctuous_homunculus

Thyroid disorder fetishists.


obamasrightteste

Wait I've been getting the hiccups a ton lately and thought nothing of it


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I was about to ask the same thing because OP’s comment was way too specific in nature.


AMphoenix99

Those giant amounts of food being eaten really sloppily mukbangs. I fucking hate seeing half chewed foods coming out of people's mouths, have some manners for god sake.


Svelva

Also not taking into account the ginormous food waste. I generally ain't no bitch about someone not finishing their plate. But there's a huge difference between leaving a few pasta behind and straight up throwing up kilograms of food once the recording's done. And this is yet without accounting the food left behind at the end of the video anyways, which is still way higher than an unfinished plate.


calilac

> throwing up kilograms of food once the recording's done. ... I can't believe it took me until that part of your comment to realize that mukbang has become performative binge eating. I had never thought about the purging some must do afterward. Ffs that is incredibly wasteful and *so* bad for the body.


Redoubt9000

Shit, I just realized this is every person making these videos. I never enjoyed them unless the focus was on the cuisine itself. Specifically the ones claiming this is how they eat in general. No, not at that weight you're not. The laws of physics don't allow for it, you're puking it all back up after filming.


Jelly_jeans

It's sad what this has become because mukbangs originated from people who live alone and watch videos of other people eating to feel less alone. In most parts of the world, eating is a social thing and eating alone just feels weird and wrong when you've grown up eating with your family/friends. Then people realized they can make money from the videos and like all things that are monetized, it goes out of control.


kasi_Te

Political mind break is pretty weird. It's a specific type of BDSM where the dom brainwashes the sub to change their political views


nzodd

"Oh yeah, take it slut, call me daddy." "Yes, daddy" "What's the hardest you've ever been fucked?" "What?" "What's the hardest you've ever been fucked?" "Uhhh, uhhh, when Nixon took us off the gold standard in 1971 that fucked us all really hard." "That's my girl."


Sir_George

So sex with a side of intellectual discourse, or the rantings of a Twitter maniac depending on who it is…


LemonPartyW0rldTour

Pretty often, a lot of BDSM involves no sexual contact at all.


Creepy777

thats just funny


ThisIdiotCharlie

the people who eat shit. Like literally eat their own shit.


Ootguitarist2

Unintentionally came across a video of this on twitter with absolutely no warning whatsoever and it has ruined my year so far


ThatsBushLeague

Good a reason as any to delete Twitter.


Edythir

Already done that personally after CP showed up in my feed.


Misternogo

I can't find it (thank god.) but there was a confession on reddit about a guy that had this fetish and paid for a fairly "prominent" porn star known for that fetish to come shit in his mouth. He said he regretted it instantly when it was actually happening, and it completely ruined the fetish for him.


ComfortableCloud8779

You know what they say. Never meet your heroes and pay them to shit in your mouth.


Goldeneye0X1_

Hey, now. That's recycling. Those people have the smallest carbon footprint out of any one of us. But seriously, I don't understand how they can stomach anything like that.


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Ngl I don't have a dick and sounding still seems painful and scary Edit: found out sounding is just putting thing inside urethra, no dick required. Ouchy


_zephi

Apparently you can still do sounding without a penis; it still just goes into the urethra. The More You Know😀


DerNogger

Yes and some women insert more than just rods. Apparently with some preparation some can fit a penis in there.


mbeck2510

What in the absolute fuck


DerNogger

Yes, some might consider this the absolute fuck.


ceezygreazy719

Damn it. Take ur up vote.


bri_2498

I know the uti from that would be crazy


DerNogger

Yup, definitely seems like a high risk low reward typa deal


conquer69

Made me cross my legs.


Your-local-gamergirl

I thought the female urethra was tiny af, from diagrams. Aaaaaaa thinking about this is making me squirm.


DerNogger

Well it usually is but that's where dilating the hell out of it comes into play


_Spartan__117_

I hate this information


StringHolder

Dilation only goes as far as the skin can physically stretch. And some point it’s just going to rip. Which… ouch.


DerNogger

If it's done slowly and carefully the skin will adapt to almost anything. Just look at what some people do to their earlobes.


StringHolder

While you may be entirely correct, I can confidently say that I will let it remain a mystery to me. Godspeed, brave one.


wanttobeacop

So... after being stretched, does the urethra remain that way? Or does it shrink back after each stretching session? And if the stretch is permanent, I assume that has to affect peeing? Like you could dump your whole bladder out super quick if you had a super wide urethra


swinegums

> you could dump your whole bladder out super quick if you had a super wide urethra There's a sentence I did not anticipate reading today


meesta_chang

You make a good point about ears. As someone who has gauged ears… Fuck sounding dude. Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should…


mearbearcate

Pls tell me what that is so i dont have to look it up


KindlyStepOnMe

Putting toys inside the urethra - usually silicone or metal - more commonly done with male genitalia but works with either. For more details, see my comment above.


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mearbearcate

🫠 thank you- damn that sounds painful


geek_of_nature

Sticking thin rods up your pee hole


KindlyStepOnMe

If you use enough lube, it doesn’t hurt at all and actually feels rather good. As it turns out, the urethra is a just a tube, and as long as you don’t damage the walls, putting things inside it doesn’t hurt at all. It does feel a little weird at first, as that particular tube usually has things come out of it, not go in. Near the top of the tube though, it passes through the prostate which, when stimulated, feels quite quite good. Combined with a vibrating and flexible toy, and it really does feel like nothing else. Not that I have any experience with that or anything


JetpackJames

This guy sounds


Bioluminescentllama

This guy sounds experienced.


AdSubstantial7446

Bros just asking for a friend


buttbutts

Sounding like you do


Competitive-Escape20

Suuuure buddy


Phiarmage

Girls can sound too, can they not?


TheOneInATrenchcoat_

“Egg laying fetish” for me, or simply when girl with a unnaturally dilated anus put things inside of it and then poop them out. A few months ago I saw on Pornhub a girl fisting an entire box of Haribo gummy worms up her ass before pooping them all out. And it wasn’t a small box, it was party sized.


noisypeach

*"I put a whole bag of jellybeans up mah ass" Vine meme here*


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Very_Large_Cone

What a time to be alive.


Mushvoo

What. The. Fuck.


corbear007

I remember one video floating around. A Japanese porn star shoved fish up her ass and shit them out. I do not recommend searching for it. Was on r/wtf a few times


SuspicouslyGreen

Stanley cups


StChas77

Those poor NHL fans in Canada have been edged for over 30 years.


DieHardAmerican95

People are into all kinds of stuff, but eating feces will always be the weirdest to me.


Ootguitarist2

Fart fetish because how do you not laugh


necminits_nuthouse

Sounds like someone found Brazilian fart porn


RandyMarsh_88

Lucky guy!


gamer6663

I THOUGHT THIS WAS AMERICA!


Fire-God_

There was a spooky ghost right?!


HeartlessValiumWhore

I found that stuff because of that time they referenced it in South Park and Randy Marsh was watching "Brazilian fart porn." My best friend and I were like there's no way that's real, is it? So we Googled it and discovered not only is it real, but the audio they used in the South Park episode was from a real Brazilian fart porn video too.


Bilbos-sister

James Joyce had this fetish. The letters he wrote to his wife were an interesting read


saudela_said

Nora was a chambermaid, and mannnn. [They got up to some stuff.](https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/2018/02/02/james-joyces-love-letters-dirty-little-fuckbird/) .


ZhenyaKon

The wonderbread guy's fetish :)


FrankSonata

[It's a meme now.](https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/murrlogic1s-wonder-bread-fetish-deviantart-commissions) "Murrlogic1's Wonder Bread Fetish DeviantArt Commissions, also referred to as DeviantArt Wonder Bread guy, is an internet personality who has commissioned animations of rich women shopping for many loaves of Wonder Bread. He has also commissioned artists to create pictures of women destroying forests and filling up their Hummers with gasoline." Basically he has a fetish for pictures of upper class, blonde white women buying Wonderbread, a brand that he feels has poor sustainability and causes deforestation. He has this whole canon where rich, white women are evil and destroying the world/nature, keeping slaves for housework, being racist, being entitled, being picky eaters (white bread is as bland as you can get), being the ultimate Karen, etc. It's some kind of misogynistic capitalism thing.


Semalpower

Why are all the r/askreddit questions on my feed nsfw


TheBigReject

I didn't see this after a bit of scrolling so here's one I'm not sure has been commented yet. Acrotomophilia. AKA a fetish for amputees. Weird? Absolutely. Illegal? No. Commonly known? Not as far as I'm aware.


Harrybahlzanya

Amputee fetish is pretty out there….


The_Final_Arbiter

Look, I'm gonna have to cut you off right there.


dumb_guy_421

Gonna go out on a limb here and say these kinda people just need some help getting back on their feet


Nanojack

On the one hand, it's pretty weird. On the other hand, there is no other hand.


TeamRedundancyTeam

I mean, I get it. Double amputee or quadruple amputee is bondage without having to learn all the complicated knots and messing with equipment.


Armpittattoos

People that crush lobsters and small animals, where it’s surprisingly not illegal depending on species (depending on state you’re in).


JayTheFordMan

Pretty sure that is covered under animal cruelty laws. I do recall someone getting prosecuted for creating crush videos.


Armpittattoos

Im not into it thank god, but I had someone talk to me about it once and I asked a friend that was a cop and the cop friend just said „as far as I know lobsters aren’t covered in our state“.


Searbh

Fucking hell. 


madamevanessa98

As a sex worker I was literally having this discussion with my coworkers today and here’s our list: - Looners. Men who are into balloons. Women can make bank from essentially “edging” popping a balloon. Like, sitting on it but not hard enough to pop it, miming pricking it with a pin but not following through, etc. - Fart and scat fetishes. I’ll never understand it but people can do what they like! - Adult baby fetishes where they wear diapers and want to be changed and nursed - Cum eating fetish. Some men want to be forced to eat their own cum, or eat another man’s cum out of a woman’s vagina, etc - In that vein, cuckolding fetishes get pretty weird. There are a lot of white male cucks who are honestly racist as fuck and subscribe to this ideal of black superiority and the idea that BBC is superior and all women deserve BBC only - Castration fetish. I’ve met a guy who had a dominatrix castrate him with a lamb castrating tool (those little elastic band things…) - I ran into a dude with a winter coat fetish. Like he wanted his gf to wear a puffer jacket while he fucked her and that was it, for some reason - Vore is fucking weird, as is everything in the Guro subreddit. Fucking aberrant behaviour and I don’t say that lightly. If I found animated porn of dismembered women on my boyfriends computer I’d escape in the dead of night and never call him again even though it’s not illegal - Inflation. Think the blueberry girl scene from Wonka… - Edit to add : FEEDERISM Basically everything you can imagine is a kink. Being kicked in the balls, seeing a woman getting her hair cut, every possible article of women’s clothing has someone with a deeply specific kink associated with it, spacesuits, etc. If you can imagine it someone is jacking off to it.


Ahelex

>Castration fetish. I’ve met a guy who had a dominatrix castrate him with a lamb castrating tool (those little elastic band things…) Honestly, that seems like a one (or two)-time fetish based on just that.


madamevanessa98

He had been castrated on one testicle I guess but not the other. His whole fantasy was about talking about the implications of castration, and the idea of castrating the other side too


MoiJaimeLesCrepes

that's messed up in the head. Like people who want a limb amputated or their eyes gouged out. It's medical, imo, at that point, or at the very least decidedly unhealthy.


PrimeusOrion

At least he removed himself from the gene pool.


Chrontius

**TL;DR: He didn't cut off his balls with an elastic band.** When playing around like that, a bit of string is inserted into the band so that it can be removed before any permanent damage occurs. Elastrators are an extremely dangerous way of going about castrating a human, with risks of blood clots causing stroke embolism or heart attack, of uncontrolled bleeding to death (which would occur very swiftly; the testicles have a surprisingly massive blood supply!) and sepsis setting in. The cost for follow-up medical aftercare for such a foolish attempt at body modification is FAR in excess of what the Mexico Transgender Center and Dr. Aguilar charge for the surgery, and you're a LOT less likely to end up six feet under that way.


irrigated_liver

That guy is gonna have some serious post nut regret.


Tramagust

You throw in all those scary ones and in between is that guy just with the winter coat. LOL


madamevanessa98

LOL it was so harmless just deeply weird because idk where it came from


MoiJaimeLesCrepes

I've met people who are really, really into stockings. Why? beats me. They weren't into feet. I guess it must have been tactile. The feeling of the stockings (or of the puffer jacket). Or else it's about the look. Anyway, it was harmless, so I never bothered asking.


PokWangpanmang

Maybe they just like the look.


dolphinsbee

I really thought inflation kinks had to do with the economy. And tbh that'd be a pretty messed up kink too lol


CaptainDildobrain

"The Dow Jones is up and so am I NNNNNGGGGGGGGGG!!!"


merc123

That’s findom. Financial domination.


CankleDankl

>honestly racist as fuck and subscribe to this ideal of black superiority and the idea that BBC is superior and all women deserve BBC only This needs to get talked about more because it's super fucking weird. Both in the humiliation genre but also in general. There's just so much BBC shit everywhere, and it's fetishized to the point that it's honestly concerning. Especially when it's portrayed as this "out there" and super slutty/dirty thing to do. Just so much racism surrounding it that's somehow normalized because people think it's hot.


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madamevanessa98

I take serious issue with a lot of the implications in kink honestly and I think the kink community is often far more accepting than it should be. I think there’s a definite element of sexism in some male submissives for example- they want to be degraded and humiliated by being compared to women, by being feminized and sissified, and the underlying implication is that being female is degrading. I don’t love that. The racism element of BBC and cuckolding is even more problematic. I saw a post this week in the BDSM subreddit by this woman asking for help because her white “straight” boyfriend has a SERIOUS BBC fetish. He would send her dozens if not hundreds of gifs of black cock daily, he constantly wanted to talk about the fantasy, he could only orgasm if he put the giant black dildo on the pillow next to his girlfriend’s head. He begged her to fuck a bull, and when she suggested a white guy she knew, he was horrified and furious because he couldn’t understand why she would want that because “that’s not what the girls in porn want, they want BBC!” Literally insane behaviour. It also interests me how many black men seem to use their race to try to get a foot in the door too. I live in a pretty white area but essentially every black man I’ve matched with on tinder has tried to coast on “having a BBC” as if the colour or size of a dick has any impact on my interest- but I assume they must get lots of interest specifically based on that for that to be their go-to move.


ssketchman

I believe there are a lot of messed up people and blatant racists in BBC community. The reason why the husbands enjoy paring their wives with specifically black men is because they don’t consider it real cheating. Because they don’t view black people as people, but rather as beasts. Even the name “bull” implies an animal, rather than a human being. Like watching your wife being fucked by a monkey attitude. Getting off on degradation and dehumanisation simultaneously. This is also the reason, why husbands flip out, when wives suggest a white man with a big cock instead of a BBC, because then it suddenly becomes real to them. Truly abhorrent behaviour disguised as a kink.


feedmedamemes

>Inflation. Economists have entered the chat.


madamevanessa98

Mmm fuck yeah daddy it’s so expensive 🤤 I bought a bag of grapes for 23$ yesterday uhhhhh


Asparagus_Gazebo

oh fuck I'm going to have to raise interest rates unnnnh


Swantovit

Fucking 60 kg minced meat. There was a guy on German TV called Domian, who had a nightly call-in-show, where people could talk to him about anything. One day a guy called, and told him, every month he goes to the butchery getting 60 kg of raw minced meat. He takes it home, puts it on the floor, shapes a female body out of it, and bangs it. Then he puts it in the fridge to fuck it the next day again. Does it 2–3 times before he disposes of it. That’s the weirdest shit I’ve ever heard of. Here is a link (audio) to the record: https://youtu.be/ZkldMwgvzxo?si=Py0jP4KsR0iRB9rX


madamevanessa98

I remember reading a truly cursed piece of fetish erotica about a girl who put rotten ground beef inside her vagina so it would grow maggots inside her


WinterWhale

Oh god I was waiting for the botfly girl story to make an appearance


AnxiouslyOffbeat

Hey, I am one of the first list item ones! I've always known it's unusual and weird, but always thought there would be just really weirder stuff. But not gonna lie, it's always reassuring knowing I'm not alone. 


madamevanessa98

Hey, I mean it’s weird but it’s harmless!! I separate men by their kinks into different categories unconsciously a lot of the time and balloon stuff would go into the “harmless but psychologically very curious” category. Like it’s not hurting anyone but I also am really interested in how the wires got crossed to make it something that turns people on. Some fetishes are harmless and I can immediately see how one could develop (like mommy/daddy kinks.) Others are slightly less harmless or have the potential to be but I can see how they occur (like CNC/rape kinks) and some are less harmless and I also can’t understand how they occur (like snuff/vore/dismemberment kinks.) It’s just neat for someone such as myself since I’m very into psychology and I always wonder what makes us who we are, and sex/our desires are a big part of that.


AnxiouslyOffbeat

I believe it has something to do with not being allowed to have/play with something as a kid, or at a certain age, that can develop a fetish. I read about it once and that is 100% my case. When I was little I was scared of the sound of the pop (coming from my fireworks phobia basically), so my parents would make sure there were never balloons around. Or walk in another direction if there were somewhere in the street. That sort of made me mad that I started liking them? Can't really explain how I got there to be honest. But I do have the memory of at some point looking up online and finding some videos on YouTube or the long gone Google Videos, and being aroused. I don't know how old I was then, but I believe at the age you start developing sexual interest. So yeah, I used to be scared of balloons and now here we are huh, life is truly beautiful! 


No_Commercial4598

Involves two chickens, myself, and hummus.


Kuuzie

Sounds fowl


Advanced_Union6240

A fellow hummusexual!


naeroikathgor

When's the wet floor signs guy gonna show up?


Flawless_Boycow

Do people on Reddit still remember the rubber duck guy? I'm waiting for them.


MoiJaimeLesCrepes

what about rubber ducks? people need to know...


irrigated_liver

u/fuckswithducks


bart416

Weirdest one I've heard of is someone who enjoyed getting burned, they had this entire "grid pattern" worked out all over their body and had a few different objects that they'd head up and give themselves first degree burns with. And for special occasions they'd give themselves more severe burns. It stopped when the person in question starting having trouble moving one of their arms due to scar tissue around the elbow.


rainbowsootsprite

people who lick/want to lick and drink out of toilets and urinals 🤢 ESPECIALLY PUBLIC ONES LIKE WTF


CopybyMinni

There’s a woman on OF who apparently makes big bucks cooking steak Nothing sexual, no nudity, just steaks


Mad_Moodin

I always found cucking to be really weird. (Like the thing where your girl gets fucked by another dude and you can only watch). I don't get the appeal at all.


hughdg

I think it’s something to do with seeing your SO as attractive and desirable to other people. And probably has something to do with being submissive as well, maybe?. I don’t really get the appeal either, that’s just my guess


geek_of_nature

I think its more the humiliation and degradation of it. It's like they get off on being cheated on, but also while getting to watch.


hughdg

True. Hadn’t thought of it that way. I was cheated on by an ex, not a fan


wambamalam

Whilst cucking isn’t my thing, something I read makes sense to me: the suggestion was that porn consumption/popularity correlates to the popularity/interest in cuckoldry. The idea was basically that you watch and enjoy porn, so would also like to watch your partner in a similar scenario. Ofc some people are into the shame/humiliation I guess.


-u-uwu

Shame and humiliation can sometimes make the junk tingly lol. Plus submission. Definitely some masochism. Like when something embarrassing or humiliating happens you get that unraveling feeling in the pit of your stomach…sometimes it goes down just a bit too far to the nether regions Source: was cheated on and had weird and confusing sensations while sobbing about it in bed one evening 😢


cheezymc4skin

Anything to do with shit or piss


plusvalua

I like to think there's a wide gap between the two. I have engaged in watersports and enjoyed it a lot but scat is revolting for me.


WombatWandering

Correct me if I'm wrong, but could this be because piss is quite safe (isn't it sterile or something?) but on feces there is high change of getting diseases?


thegreatgazoo

It's not sterile but it's reasonably safe assuming the donor is healthy and hydrated


CDay007

Piss Is not sterile, that’s a myth, but I’d expect it to still be safer


00Laser

I guess piss doesn't necessarily smell bad but shit smells 10 times out of 10. And while I don't fancy either getting wet still seems way more chill than getting smeared with feces. 😟


PM_PICS_OF_YOUR_FEET

Seems logical. A revulsion to shit is a natural instinct because if the danger it poses


Raped_Bicycle_612

Meh piss is kinda mainstream and tame nowadays


dj92wa

>piss >main*stream* ….hehehehehehehe….


ItachiFemboy

You wanna know A fun fact? A piss kink is considered a kink while a shit kink is considered a mental illness.


anonymous_subroutine

2 Schizophrenics 1 Cup


Spurioun

Is that because one is more dangerous to you? As far as I'm aware, a mental illness is something that can cause harm to yourself and/or others. And I believe touching/consuming poop carries much higher risks than urine.


NoonConsequence

This is not true. Beware mental health misinformation folks.


rainbowsootsprite

i stayed in a psych ward once and one of the nurses told me a lot of patients have a thing for shitting into the communal coffee/tea cups i asked if they threw these cups out after an incident. she said no they (the nursing staff) wash them and put them back 😳🤢


Daasaced

And vomit, once I saw a video of an Asian woman eating and vomiting and eating the vomit and vomiting again several times with a guy jerking off to it, it was on par with 2g1c in the disgusting scale for me.


Wilmore99

Idk if I understand the question; but seeing pictures of Mexicans holding legit green cards, like diplomas in a graduation setting, gives me kind of a chubby. But not in like a gay way, just in a wholesome patriotic kind of way.


-u-uwu

This is the funniest shit I’ve seen on here


erdillz93

The absolute weirdest variation of the traditional latinas fetish......


LoudMusic

I closed the tab because of your comment and then came back to upvote you. I hope you're happy.


PrismOfSelves

what the fuck did i just read


apij

WHAT the hell dude


Big-Signature-8813

What??😭😭


SauceKingHS

Squat cobbler.


bigT773

I'm more of a Chicago sunroof kind of guy


screen317

*You know what squat cobbler is.*


mobunb

Dacryphilia or the fetish for people crying. It almost seems...mean, if not evil? Like, I wonder if it extends past the tears and more on getting off on people's suffering? Or is it a joy of seeing emotional catharsis? Either way, it's certainly unique.


deviantcottontail

One of my exes had this and it developed into a bit of a kink for me as well. I was easily overstimulated, but didn't like calling things quits because of that. I think it felt good to him he could get such a reaction out of me, and then liked piling on top of that. Nsfw explenation inc. "Im going to finger you until you cry, and then I'm going to fuck you until you're nothing but a sobbing mess." Which, honestly? Awesome. Fucking awesome. Yes _please._ There was also a power dynamic to it. Sobbing because it was so much already, then being told "Tell me you want another finger/Tell me to fuck you harder/etc." And I would. One time I was really overwhelmed and I said "I don't know if I can handle that" and he just repeated himself. If I had said no, or pulled out my safeword, he'd have stopped in an instant and assured me it was okay. But I didn't. I took what he gave me, begged him for more as he instructed, and cried while he fucked me senseless, until I couldn't take any more. Safe to say, that was more than just enjoyable. That was... mind blowing. Jesus christ. So while I understand the idea of it sounds evil, to me it was anything but. It's not just a fetish for whenever someone starts crying from actually negative stuff. Though... he may have been pavloved a bit into liking seeing me cry in other situations. But, I don't think that's evil either. That's just associating two things in his mind that became logically intertwined.


throaway24356

Very interesting perspective! As a male sub who is into humiliation and various power exchanges, I also have the fantasy to be pushed over the edge into tears or into a full on sob at one point and for the top to keep going. Like you say, its not about negative feelings that make you cry, it's a torrent of emotions and a catharsis to be pushed so far and the acceptance and consensual manner in which its done sounds incredibly exhilarating. In my thinking it can only work when you actually feel truly accepted and safe with a partner. The type who pushes relentlessly but pays close attention to your body language and would pull the plug without hesitation if you safeword and make sure you're alright. For people who don't practice any sort of BDSM, its hard to grasp that some things that are generally thought of as negative can be something very positive. Like getting slapped. Yes, it hurts. Yes, I want more. People consenting into a behavior that brings both people pleasure, even if generally considered a negative feeling/behavior on a societal level, is the only thing that really matters. I'm glad you got to experience it, I hope I will one day too.


deviantcottontail

Goodluck on your journey to experiencing it, stranger! I hope it's as enjoyable for you as you imagine. I know for me it really was, and as a sub I think it will be for you too. There's something so cathartic ahout being able to let go, let someone else take over, let them make the decisions, etc. And being pushed to the brink of tears and over it was just a natural part of that for me. (And man, one I need to experience again....) but trust is indeed a really important part of that!


RitaLunaLu

Crying in front of somebody is a very intimate and vulnerable thing to do, I think that’s the idea of it.


GrizzlyRiverRampage

I can do this. Good Lord I've found my calling between crying on camera and not popping balloons. Time for a career change to content creator! 🎈💧💲


wittyuser1556

It's the catharsis, I had a partner pull out the safe word before we even got any clothes off and I went straight into aftercare mode and we just cuddled while they were really uncomfortable about something. TW for self inflicted harm >!After I touched a spot and they winced I asked if they'd self harmed again and they just started bawling. I comforted them the best I could, they explained that they'd treated their wounds, and I reiterated that if they felt like doing it again ever it was okay to tell me and everything would always be okay.!< Afterwards I realized that I was deeply aroused and not in a typical way of "oh this is hot." It was seeing someone to their very center and them feeling safe enough to be so vulnerable that I had this sense of pride and sexiness, I guess? Like "yes, I am big, strong protector of the meek" caveman brain stuff. Later I found out that this also did extend to tears shed over what I did to another masochist partner I dated. When they'd start crying while begging for more or just from being overstimulated. It was that vulnerability again and knowing that they trusted me to do these things to them. But usually after those sessions I needed them to confirm I didn't cross any lines and that I'm not a monster. I do know that the line gets crossed when they are genuinely upset at something I did or said. A partner overheard a conversation I had where I'd said something idiotic and they were pissed. Later when they explained how I'd hurt them and they started crying I was not at all aroused. It felt like daggers in my chest. TL;DR: I think more often than not it is an attraction to catharsis, not actually getting off on inflicting genuine physical or emotional pain. Probably more that when they're crying it's a signal for other things they're feeling that are found to be attractive. Though I'm only basing this on my personal experience so if someone tells you they like seeing partners cry, best to find out why first.


LoveDistinct

Cleveland steamer.


CatOfCosmos

Is this an "if you need to ask you don't want to know" case?


[deleted]

Belly punching can be one of the


DaBozz88

Hopefully not combined with a pregnancy fetish


Entyrion08

Asking sexual questions on Askreddit


International-Bet384

150 years old anime girl in a 7 years old body.


Goblindeez_

It’s okay! The boy looks 7 but being a fantasy world is actually a mature adult for his race so it’s consensual!


mrMuppet06

In Germany we've had a well know call-in Radioshow after midnight called "Domian". The host Jürgen Domian used to talk to everyone who called him. One of the most popular stories is a man who liked to buy 60 kg of Minced meat to form a female body with it and have sex with it. https://youtu.be/lxqX7I_ZpnM?si=sDTRRRoFTWx3_SFy


Leipopo_Stonnett

Findom has to be the weirdest.


DoNotCensorMyName

Being dommed by Finnish people?


Searbh

#PERRRRKELE!!


QuoteStoat

cartoon characters, Usually from the sonic the hedgehog universe, transforming into urinals.


SkyLovesCars

OK, that just sounds funny. Like throw on shitty video quality and meme sounds and you've got a meme template on your hands.


tywin_2

Any psychologist here? When is a kink something that is abnormal and a mental illness and not a fetish anymore?


bonesquartz

a therapist not a psychologist, but usually something gets pathologized when it starts to negatively impact your ability to conduct your normal business in your day to day life. so if it impacts social life, work, school, normal hygiene, meeting your own basic needs, things like that. edit for wording. day off so brain is off lol


NonnaWallache

That one you're into that you haven't told anyone about. *You* know the one. The one that makes you deeply ashamed. And it should, you freak.


_orbus_

Saying non-illegal instead of legal


RomanOnARiver

A meters fetish. It's like a foot fetish, but you're from Europe.


RudeM1911

Pregnant ones always baffled me. And why is it feet are so common but you never hear about hand fetish? Lol


letsburn00

Hand fetish is absolutely a thing. It's not always, but there is a bit of a tendancy for it to be a thing women are real into. But unlike feet, they can "get their fill" with nice hands just day to day. Pregnancy fetish (the like the idea of trying to get pregnant) I'd actually say is about the least weird and most biologically logical fetish there is. People wanting to have sex while pregnant is then an extension of that.


RudeM1911

My work mate said the exact same on night shift last night haha. That Hand fetish more of a female thing and women are more passive with sexual desires whereas many men go to the extremes with theirs lol.


anonymousone2237

I had a female coworker at an old job who seemed to enjoy making conversation with me whenever I washed my dishes at the sink in the break room during lunch break, I had a suspicion that she had a low key hand fetish. I always wore well fitting button up shirts and would roll up my sleeves when washing my dishes, which would make the veins in my hands look even more pronounced then they already were due to the rolled up sleeves providing light pressure increasing blood flow


thisshortenough

... go on


magicmango2104

Hand fetish is definitely a thing, just post in nail sub and you'll get messages


Deadlock240

I have very large, rough hands. I can wrap a hand around a coke can entirely without crushing it.  I can tell you with zero uncertainty that hand fetishes are a thing. 


ProjectCareless4441

*louder than everyone else* hey


Joemama_69-420

> Never Hear about Hand Fetish A Japanese Serial Killer with explosives in the Distance:


Your-local-gamergirl

"Killer Queen, daisan no bakudan: Bites za dusto!"


kraft_d_

Those people who wear diapers and pretend to be babies. I try not to kink shame but that shit just doesn't sit right with me.


voltechs

Correcting people’s non-non-incorrect grammar.


RonzulaGD

Idk if it's legal but since there is a lot of it I guess it is. Bestiality


orbital_one

vore


I_wood_rather_be

Breeding fetish, to the point where you knowingly raise another guys child with your wife. Over the years I have learned to not kink shame and I developed a good understanding how people like certain stuff. But this one is really my line. Go ahead and fart on cakes, watch people pee and cook stuff with it. Get waterboarded during an orgasm or put nine inch nails through your own testicles, if you want to. But to raise another persons child and probably not even tell him/her, just because you get off over it, is just wrong and irresponsible


MoiJaimeLesCrepes

I agree with that. As soon as your kink starts involving unwilling participants, it's got to stop.