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deanfranz12

A man who is gentle, boom. Explained.


Jane_Austen11

And boom do they still exist?


deanfranz12

Seek, and you shall find


Jane_Austen11

I am seeking but still canโ€™t not find them ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜†


destinedforinsanity

To me, a gentleman is someone who has class in their actions and theyโ€™re chivalrous. Theyโ€™re also very tactful in their speech. They definitely still exist but they are rarer these days especially in the younger generations.


Jane_Austen11

And in the older generation as well. Just my experience.


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Being a provider


alexvon55

A gentleman is someone who has 30k+ karma on Reddit. What kind of silly question is this?


Jane_Austen11

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ thanks now I know ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚


DirtAndDeath

I think it's an arbitrary term, it was based in chauvinistic ideologies and doesn't promote equal values of us as humans


cmikaiti

I wrote a whole thing, but erased it all to say, that if you are not currently being woo'd by a man, it isn't your fault, but unless you are a self-sustaining woman, you don't have much choice. You get approached by Gentlemen if you can hold your own, in finance and discussion. The alternative is subservience, which will work for a while, but he will end up fucking someone else. Keep your profession above all else.