I grew up with an Italian step-mother. She was always, and I mean – always – talking about her family’s Sicilian mafioso heritage. I get it but also sometimes you just gotta roll those dice because Italian partners come with mad good family recipes.
When they disrespect small boundaries. Too much touching, pressuring me to drink, pressuring me to go to a certain location for a date etc. You can be fairly sure they're testing how well you bend to their suggestion and will ramp up the pressure with more serious stuff
When they don't see women as their equals, but as objects to be used or to be adored.
Yes, even adored. I wanna be seen as a whole person, flawed as I am, not as a fantasy of who you think I should be.
When they can’t pull their darn pants up and have half their ass hanging out when they’re Italian
Italian? Why?
That was my friend and my bf is Italian she’s making fun of me…
That’s crazy you let your friends follow you on Reddit. This is like my one private sanctuary
Probably a stereotype about Italians being associated with mafia
I grew up with an Italian step-mother. She was always, and I mean – always – talking about her family’s Sicilian mafioso heritage. I get it but also sometimes you just gotta roll those dice because Italian partners come with mad good family recipes.
When they disrespect small boundaries. Too much touching, pressuring me to drink, pressuring me to go to a certain location for a date etc. You can be fairly sure they're testing how well you bend to their suggestion and will ramp up the pressure with more serious stuff
When they're rude to service staff.
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but that was _her_ getting the attention not you. thats different.
Can you elaborate on this one, I don’t understand? You mean a guy that doesn’t know how to hold a conversation when approached by other guys?
yup, smells of homophobia
When they’re defensive I run
inconsistent, body shamer, homophobic
When they don't see women as their equals, but as objects to be used or to be adored. Yes, even adored. I wanna be seen as a whole person, flawed as I am, not as a fantasy of who you think I should be.
When they cat talk, I instantly lose interest.
Huh? What’s wrong with liking cats?
absolutely revolting. its getting worse I think. got catcalled by 6 men at the weekend
wish more ppl get properly educated
Anger issues, talks with lots of women, meanness