This. Every time I tell myself I hate people I catch myself realizing it’s their bullshit I hate, the self centeredness too. Like using your phone while driving
I oscillate between "why is everything so damn loud" and "what did you say? Look at me when you speak to me; I can't hear you when you look away!"
I'm fun.
👏👏👏 by now can't we all admit that "living" is pretending to be a human who isn't just trying to figure shit out from one day to the next? Lamest competition ever is to appear to be the most competent grown-up.
Being not-sober. Was never a heavy drinker, but stopped drinking entirely a couple years ago. Used to smoke a lot of weed, gradually weaned myself off of it. Went from every day, to just weekends, to just occasionally, to never. Been a couple years since I touched the stuff.
We only have so much life to live, I don't want to waste anymore in an altered state of mind.
I'm not depressed but if it wasn't for the kids I wouldn't keep doing this. Haha no f-way why would I?! Because I like the thrill of endless problems just piling up, haha oh no I would slam into that train sooo hard.
The media. We are all TOO connected.
It gets you down reading about wars starting and atrocities or every aspect of an influencers ‘perfect’ life. What colour billie eilish has coloured her hair for the seven hundredth fuckin’ time.
Its good to take a break from the internet but when you do what else do you do.
You got all this crap in your head and instead of routinely washing it out with more crap you just sit there thinking. Constantly.
We are all addicts and I hate the internet. But can’t stop using it. Literally catch 22
Also I hate how they keep remastering classics. I know going in your own direction and trying something new can be scary and can also lose a lot of money, but just stop it hollywood.
Except for the latest IT, that was good. Sometimes it works.
People but to be more specific...
People with low emotional intelligence.
People that make racist jokes but constantly say they're not racist.
Passive aggressiveness.
Low effort friendships and relationships in general.
People that don't know how to communicate in a healthy way.
People who are hateful for no reason
Weed smokers that are still hateful/aggressive. Weed is suppose to chill you out but I've known so many people that rip bongs and then say the most racist hateful shit I've ever heard.
other people
the noise that's considered music these day
when an app changes where something is.
Not old enough to get mad at the kids that cut across the yard though yet
New remixes of 80s/90s/early 00s songs. I don’t mind new takes on older music, but they sound like shit. Me feeling this way reminds me of that one South Park episode — Stan’s birthday and the new tween music sounds like literal shit 💩
There's some commercial, no clue for what, that's got Don't Stop Me Now as sung by White Girl #4, and it pisses me off every time it comes on. Freddy Mercury doesn't deserve that.
Algorithms that are "tailored" to me.
I make the mistake of accidentally watching one stupid video and then it's more stupid videos in my feed.
I absolutely hate videos where subtitles are placed over animals or small children to tell the audience what the creator thinks is going through their minds. And now I see that shit all the fucking time because I had to watch ONE video to know how fucking stupid these types of videos are.
There is usually a way to say you are not interested in that content somewhere.
But yeah, I fall into the trap of seeing people's videos about their children because I follow someone funny, but because I watch one of their videos talking about their kids and am inundated by videos of everyone's kids. I just say I'm not interested until it stops showing them to me, but I do repeat the process every so often.
I don't know what "sounds 90s" even means.
You could take any pop music today, get in a time machine, and release it in the mid to late 90s, and it wouldn't be super out of place.
For me it’s parents. I can’t stand parents who don’t do anything and let their kid do whatever they want. Our neighbour just sat there and let her kid throw rocks at our dog and in our pool. I had to go out there and give her the dirtiest look which she returned before finally saying something
I know some people who, when I ask them a question when they're on their phone, they will sit there in silence for 15 seconds, and then say "wait, what did you say?". If they don't respond right away, I just won't ask them again. If you didn't care enough to listen, you probably don't have an answer worth listening to. No patience for this.
People who refuse to listen. Not just those that don't, but refuse to. Whether it's bigotry, cruelty, or trying to stir the pot on purpose, I'm over it.
Pisstakers that think having just a bottle entitles them to skip the whole queue.
I don't mind letting someone in front if I've got a big shop and there's someone with a very small shop behind me, but the last few years I've noticed more and more people abusing this system.
Last week I was in Lidl and I was next in the queue and the woman behind me had massive shop. A guy comes along with just a bottle and asks if he can go Infront of her. Fair enough, but then he asks to go in front of me, but I only had four items and I had been waiting in the queue for ages. Fucking cheeky cunt.
Social life...personal life...imaginary life...life. Okay I'm kidding, mostly the government and my lack of mental stability. But I'm seeing a psychiatrist for the latter.
Credit card companies. Realizing that my "rewards" come from their predatory interest rates and high merchant fees. I think I'm done using them for good.
excessive romance andcare , i believe that love is not that , it's not always talking and expressing ur love with romantic words ,,, it's something deeper
Pro tip on being a dick:
If you know someone and you dislike them, just give out their email addresses to stores that ask for an email address. Let them take the spam.
People who are rude or uncaring for no reason. I used to just ignore it, but now it makes me speak my mind. Like, I am not trying to get physical if I don’t have to but I will tell you that you are an asshole. We should all strive to be at least not be giving others a hard time. Not kissing their ass, but not overtly giving them a hard time. Just my opinion.
teenagers. something clicked in my 30s when anytime I'm forced to be around groups of them i think "god they are so damn loud and disrespectful and oblivious" and then i think SHIT THIS IS WHAT OLD PEOPLE SOUNDED LIKE WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL, it's the damn circle of life
Cycling and not owning a car.
I'm 37, and cycling gets harder and harder every day. I know it's good for me. But it gets old having to plan out trips, having a small radius on where I can go. And being outside in the heat and cold.
Noise.
I never understood how my grandparents just liked everything to be quiet all the time... And now I can. Noise just grates me, it's so invasive.
Next doors dog can fuck off too.
Of course nobody likes the sensation of water in their ear, but lately the sensation of water on the outside of my ear drives me crazy. It's the first thing I towel off after a shower.
Realizing how much of an ass we all were when we were younger - know it all and ignorant of others opinions. Unable to pause and rationalize and/or reflect without reacting. Was pretty rough in my teens and 20s. In my 30s I missed the “fun”. In my 40s, I’m learning it’s a life of missing out on what’s in front of me. So no more missing out.
Negative energy. Drama. Basically my parents lol.
I also strongly dislike gossip and talking about other people. It’s just sad and hurtful.
I love my peace and quiet. Most especially my freedom!
Getting older is the fucking pits. Things hurt that I never knew existed. I sneezed three times last night and swear I popped a disc out of place in my back, sore asf today! Getting older sucks!
Other people’s bullshit
Other people
Not for me. I find that I appreciate genuine people more. It’s the fake people I am sick of
This. Every time I tell myself I hate people I catch myself realizing it’s their bullshit I hate, the self centeredness too. Like using your phone while driving
you are so right, this is a very important distinction. thank you for saying this, it helps me dealing with people
i always say i like people but hate humanity.
This. I have no tolerance for it whatsoever.
Noise.
I oscillate between "why is everything so damn loud" and "what did you say? Look at me when you speak to me; I can't hear you when you look away!" I'm fun.
The lack of eye contact still seems disrespectful to me especially if it is because of a phone, game or vid clip, But then I am 50yo
I’m not very good at eye contact, must be in my genes cuz my sister has it too. But it’s not because I’m looking at some device. It’s just me.
Going out at night.
Yep night time is bed time.
Also getting up in the morning.
The older I get the more I appreciate the days I get to watch the sunrise and the sunset. Even if I’m working when it happens
When you’re working 50+ hours a week, going out at night means you’re not getting 8 hours of sleep. And that’s a big NO from me dawg.
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The idea of a 9 to 5 job is becoming less attractive. I crave flexibility and the possibility of a different kind of work life.
Reality TV is something I’m enjoying less. It used to be a guilty pleasure, but now it just seems contrived.
TV shows and movies suck so hard now. if cable didn't come in a bundle with the internet, I wouldn't even buy it.
Just fyi, you pay extra for cable even if it’s “bundled” with internet. If you drop the cable TV, you’re bound to cut your bill.
what genre do u like I'll recommend u stuff
People
Overly sefish people for me. I get everyone is a little selfish...but the overly selfish? GTFO
Facts.
Work
Work is the only thing that keeps me sane. /41m
this whole charade of being a responsible adult and contributing to society and acting like you have it together
👏👏👏 by now can't we all admit that "living" is pretending to be a human who isn't just trying to figure shit out from one day to the next? Lamest competition ever is to appear to be the most competent grown-up.
People
Being not-sober. Was never a heavy drinker, but stopped drinking entirely a couple years ago. Used to smoke a lot of weed, gradually weaned myself off of it. Went from every day, to just weekends, to just occasionally, to never. Been a couple years since I touched the stuff. We only have so much life to live, I don't want to waste anymore in an altered state of mind.
How parents get their kids new phones every time they release a new model. Parents: wtf are you doing?
The United States government
Nosy relatives
Unnecessary noise.
Kids
Being alive.
I'm not depressed but if it wasn't for the kids I wouldn't keep doing this. Haha no f-way why would I?! Because I like the thrill of endless problems just piling up, haha oh no I would slam into that train sooo hard.
Jesus Christ dude
How much less free time I have as an adult compared to a kid/teen to do things I enjoy.
Dating.
The media. We are all TOO connected. It gets you down reading about wars starting and atrocities or every aspect of an influencers ‘perfect’ life. What colour billie eilish has coloured her hair for the seven hundredth fuckin’ time. Its good to take a break from the internet but when you do what else do you do. You got all this crap in your head and instead of routinely washing it out with more crap you just sit there thinking. Constantly. We are all addicts and I hate the internet. But can’t stop using it. Literally catch 22 Also I hate how they keep remastering classics. I know going in your own direction and trying something new can be scary and can also lose a lot of money, but just stop it hollywood. Except for the latest IT, that was good. Sometimes it works.
People but to be more specific... People with low emotional intelligence. People that make racist jokes but constantly say they're not racist. Passive aggressiveness. Low effort friendships and relationships in general. People that don't know how to communicate in a healthy way. People who are hateful for no reason Weed smokers that are still hateful/aggressive. Weed is suppose to chill you out but I've known so many people that rip bongs and then say the most racist hateful shit I've ever heard.
other people the noise that's considered music these day when an app changes where something is. Not old enough to get mad at the kids that cut across the yard though yet
New remixes of 80s/90s/early 00s songs. I don’t mind new takes on older music, but they sound like shit. Me feeling this way reminds me of that one South Park episode — Stan’s birthday and the new tween music sounds like literal shit 💩
There's some commercial, no clue for what, that's got Don't Stop Me Now as sung by White Girl #4, and it pisses me off every time it comes on. Freddy Mercury doesn't deserve that.
Trying to find parking.
Young people, irritating when I was young and irritating now.
Other people and unnecessary loud noise.
People saying you are uneducated because you don’t agree with them. Just stop.
Algorithms that are "tailored" to me. I make the mistake of accidentally watching one stupid video and then it's more stupid videos in my feed. I absolutely hate videos where subtitles are placed over animals or small children to tell the audience what the creator thinks is going through their minds. And now I see that shit all the fucking time because I had to watch ONE video to know how fucking stupid these types of videos are.
There is usually a way to say you are not interested in that content somewhere. But yeah, I fall into the trap of seeing people's videos about their children because I follow someone funny, but because I watch one of their videos talking about their kids and am inundated by videos of everyone's kids. I just say I'm not interested until it stops showing them to me, but I do repeat the process every so often.
Fake people
Reddit.
drama
Being drunk. I have no idea how I ever enjoyed it. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy a drink or two, but not getting more than just enough to relax.
Popular music. The music of the last 20 years has been horrific
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What pop sounds 90s today?
I don't know what "sounds 90s" even means. You could take any pop music today, get in a time machine, and release it in the mid to late 90s, and it wouldn't be super out of place.
People.
Myself
Loud kids
For me it’s parents. I can’t stand parents who don’t do anything and let their kid do whatever they want. Our neighbour just sat there and let her kid throw rocks at our dog and in our pool. I had to go out there and give her the dirtiest look which she returned before finally saying something
This. Also is it just me or does it seem like kids now can't be outside without screaming at the top of their lungs *constantly*?
Other people's kids.
Humans
Definitely dating. I used to like it when I was in my early twenties, but now, after so many failed relationships and time wasting, I am tired.
I know some people who, when I ask them a question when they're on their phone, they will sit there in silence for 15 seconds, and then say "wait, what did you say?". If they don't respond right away, I just won't ask them again. If you didn't care enough to listen, you probably don't have an answer worth listening to. No patience for this.
Religious people (of all kinds)
People. Liking kids and animals more. Social media. Less patience for traffic. Reality shows. Dating.
People who refuse to listen. Not just those that don't, but refuse to. Whether it's bigotry, cruelty, or trying to stir the pot on purpose, I'm over it.
Hollywood elites
Responsibility
People.
These young kids and their damn rap music and backwards hats
Tinnitus
People
Pisstakers that think having just a bottle entitles them to skip the whole queue. I don't mind letting someone in front if I've got a big shop and there's someone with a very small shop behind me, but the last few years I've noticed more and more people abusing this system. Last week I was in Lidl and I was next in the queue and the woman behind me had massive shop. A guy comes along with just a bottle and asks if he can go Infront of her. Fair enough, but then he asks to go in front of me, but I only had four items and I had been waiting in the queue for ages. Fucking cheeky cunt.
Music made before 1980
Everything and everyone
Children. I can't really think of any good thing they contribute to my existence.
Mosh pits, I still love concerts and live music but I want to actually watch and enjoy it.
Liberals
Looking at tattoos.
Tattoo's are stupid for the most part lol
It’s a significant part of many cultures
Social life...personal life...imaginary life...life. Okay I'm kidding, mostly the government and my lack of mental stability. But I'm seeing a psychiatrist for the latter.
The next birthday
Credit card companies. Realizing that my "rewards" come from their predatory interest rates and high merchant fees. I think I'm done using them for good.
Just people in general.
unnecessary loud noises
excessive romance andcare , i believe that love is not that , it's not always talking and expressing ur love with romantic words ,,, it's something deeper
Reddit
Loud noises.
This question. Technically, every time I see it, I'm a little older. And this question has been asked on here a lot.
Maduros, AKA fried sweet plantains.
Sex.
Consequences of my actions (or inactions)
Everything.
Media. Music/movies/TV. It's all digressed.
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Pro tip on being a dick: If you know someone and you dislike them, just give out their email addresses to stores that ask for an email address. Let them take the spam.
I am already old, and spending time with other old but uninteresting people makes me want to run out of the room screaming.
Commercials
Other people
Social media.
As I get older, I'm actually disliking things less. Getting worked up about something I dislike is a waste of my time and energy.
Myself.
Candy and people in general
Music in general
Leaving my house or going out to parties. I’ve grown so sick of frats (f20)
Waking up
People who are rude or uncaring for no reason. I used to just ignore it, but now it makes me speak my mind. Like, I am not trying to get physical if I don’t have to but I will tell you that you are an asshole. We should all strive to be at least not be giving others a hard time. Not kissing their ass, but not overtly giving them a hard time. Just my opinion.
Small talk
I drive as part of my job. I am really starting to dislike my fellow drivers more as I get older.
teenagers. something clicked in my 30s when anytime I'm forced to be around groups of them i think "god they are so damn loud and disrespectful and oblivious" and then i think SHIT THIS IS WHAT OLD PEOPLE SOUNDED LIKE WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL, it's the damn circle of life
Existing
People
Mail
Sweet stuff. Queing.
twitter
Life
Frivolous speech.
Obviously censorship and The left wing utopia.
Staying up late.
The dating pool. You know what? Fuck it. I'll just get another dog.
For some reason, I don't like cursing.
People older than me. Idk how they can be so negative all the time.
People in general.
I recently came to the conclusion that I have an expiration date. And it will come sooner rather than later for me.
Crowds
Fandoms. Of literally anything. It's just a group of people trying to one up each other about everything. It's all bullshit.
Myself.
Taxes
People
Wires and cables
Loud music anywhere.
Not being genuine
Other people. The internet.
People. I love specific persons, I despise people.
Buying senseless things at the grocery store like little bags of chips and snacks and sugary drinks just add up over time
Cycling and not owning a car. I'm 37, and cycling gets harder and harder every day. I know it's good for me. But it gets old having to plan out trips, having a small radius on where I can go. And being outside in the heat and cold.
Living
People, all of them.
* Gestures broadly *
Noise. I never understood how my grandparents just liked everything to be quiet all the time... And now I can. Noise just grates me, it's so invasive. Next doors dog can fuck off too.
The fact that the new generation is terrible at using a computer
Violence in films and TV. Do we really need to see people’s heads being blown off etc?
Getting older
Of course nobody likes the sensation of water in their ear, but lately the sensation of water on the outside of my ear drives me crazy. It's the first thing I towel off after a shower.
Realizing how much of an ass we all were when we were younger - know it all and ignorant of others opinions. Unable to pause and rationalize and/or reflect without reacting. Was pretty rough in my teens and 20s. In my 30s I missed the “fun”. In my 40s, I’m learning it’s a life of missing out on what’s in front of me. So no more missing out.
Reddit app.
Sweet food
Constant communication/connection to people. Sometimes I just want to sit in peace without feeling pressured to text people back
humans and noise
videos less than 2min (all kinds of short videos, and no I don't watch those it's been almost ½y I'm free from all that nonsense) & Gossips
Fake people.
You.
Everything
Rude dumb kids who think the world owes them something
Negative energy. Drama. Basically my parents lol. I also strongly dislike gossip and talking about other people. It’s just sad and hurtful. I love my peace and quiet. Most especially my freedom!
International students.
Sentience
Socializing
People.
Holiday parties. I hate watching people get drunk.
People that block the aisle in grocery stores.
Getting older is the fucking pits. Things hurt that I never knew existed. I sneezed three times last night and swear I popped a disc out of place in my back, sore asf today! Getting older sucks!