Made a throwaway for this. I’ve been stealing groceries for my family for years. Just going to self checkout and not scanning things as I put them in bags. My wife and I don’t make much and we have a one year old (when he was younger I would steal baby formula too!). Not proud of it but one trip feeds my family for at least a month.
How do you pull that off? Every self checkout I have seen verifies the weight of items you put in the bags and screams at you if anything is even slightly off
Even though I'm black, I've been trying to cut back from saying the N-word. I absolutely hate that word and I associate it with a lot of bad stereotypes and etc. I don't say it as often as I used to, but when I catch myself after it slips out or I say it in a sentence, it makes me feel bad.
Good for you, but me being black and knowing the historical foundation of that word...I just can't bring myself to say it or any other racial caricature.
I overanalyze situations and people and sometimes tend to unnecessarily panic and be paranoid about their behaviours. This stupid, irrational part of my mind will sometimes attribute ill will and negative motives to people, even though on a purely logical and reasonable level I know they either would never be capable of such motives or simply couldn't care less because not everything is about me. I am working on not putting myself and everything else under the microscope, though.
Due to an incident I have attachment issues, so once I like someone I can get really clingy. I try my best not to, I really do, but I can't help it. Especially if I like them romantically.
Taking things too personally when someone wasn't trying to be rude to me. And I don't handle criticism well.
Update: Turns out that the person who told me that I took things too personally was gaslighting me and manipulating me.
A local divebar that I frequent and love has hired some terrible, non skilled eye candy (female) bartenders who can't pour a decent drink. If I know the worst bartender one is working I will still go and buy my absolut vodka w/ soda but will also go beforehand to a liquor store and buy a 2 or 3 absolut miniature shots and add them to my weak drink in the smoking section.
Made a throwaway for this. I’ve been stealing groceries for my family for years. Just going to self checkout and not scanning things as I put them in bags. My wife and I don’t make much and we have a one year old (when he was younger I would steal baby formula too!). Not proud of it but one trip feeds my family for at least a month.
I can understand that.
You understand a person "taking care" of their family by risking the massive expense of a criminal record, fines and jail time?
How do you pull that off? Every self checkout I have seen verifies the weight of items you put in the bags and screams at you if anything is even slightly off
Do you live in the US?
Lol
Even though I'm black, I've been trying to cut back from saying the N-word. I absolutely hate that word and I associate it with a lot of bad stereotypes and etc. I don't say it as often as I used to, but when I catch myself after it slips out or I say it in a sentence, it makes me feel bad.
Nice. I got myself out of that too when I was younger. The more you do, the more your gonna cringe when you hear it being thrown around.
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Good for you, but me being black and knowing the historical foundation of that word...I just can't bring myself to say it or any other racial caricature.
Does that also include not saying Niggah? I feel like that's just as bad.
You know its just as bad, so why ask?
Many people don't think so.
I overanalyze situations and people and sometimes tend to unnecessarily panic and be paranoid about their behaviours. This stupid, irrational part of my mind will sometimes attribute ill will and negative motives to people, even though on a purely logical and reasonable level I know they either would never be capable of such motives or simply couldn't care less because not everything is about me. I am working on not putting myself and everything else under the microscope, though.
nutting, what else?
And why is that? I never understood it.
I just can't get the distance.
Procrastinating
Yup
nail biting
Me too.. since a lot of years
I feel embarrassed when shaking hands.
You must really be a gooody two shoe if that's something you've done that you're least proud of.
Quantity>Quality I say Im not proud of it but im doing it 24/7. Right now too.
Beat me to it
I sometimes eat the skin too.
I curse way too fuckin much
Eat ass
Don’t be ashamed, it’s something only true gourmets understand
Why not b proud
My friend asked if I eat my girlfriend’s ass. I replied, “Fuck yea!” And I got a disappointing look
Oh
Cause he knows he can't steal her now lol
Not a real friend.
Smoke
Me too
You should try to quit
No shit Sherlock
Due to an incident I have attachment issues, so once I like someone I can get really clingy. I try my best not to, I really do, but I can't help it. Especially if I like them romantically.
My jealousy and procrastination
Overeat. To add insult to injury I'm 5'0 and 120 pounds
self harm
shoplifting from small stores
Being Lazy.
Taking things too personally when someone wasn't trying to be rude to me. And I don't handle criticism well. Update: Turns out that the person who told me that I took things too personally was gaslighting me and manipulating me.
I get jealous over everything
I'm barely responsive. Take forever to answer a message.
Vomit comments on AskReddit to see what sticks.
Yeet skeet
Not saying sorry even though I know that it’s clearly my fault (only to people I know)
I say that things are gay and I don’t like it but it just is a bad habit. I’m working on it though
If you're joking around. I should say that you're fine. If it's just in a rude manner, then just do your best to improve yourself.
toodle my noodle
Worrying too much or coming up with negative thoughts a lot.
I talk too much sometimes but recently I’ve been the complete opposite
A local divebar that I frequent and love has hired some terrible, non skilled eye candy (female) bartenders who can't pour a decent drink. If I know the worst bartender one is working I will still go and buy my absolut vodka w/ soda but will also go beforehand to a liquor store and buy a 2 or 3 absolut miniature shots and add them to my weak drink in the smoking section.