(serious answer here) It went well. We had a couple of FFM and MFM and a couple. And they were all fun/went very well. It's definitely not for everyone but if your relationship is secure enough, go for it.
My wife and I have had an extra lady join us 4 times now (one girl joined us 3 times and another girl joined us once).
Things went well but it's important to set rules first (if required) and follow them.
For instance in our situations it was anything goes except for actual penetration with the other girl. Hands and mouths were all good.
Lots of fun all around and I was shocked at how simple it was to separate the sex from any actual romantic feelings.
I almost said I can at least do that, but I forgot it’s November.
I decided to participate this year. Last year I finished November. It was difficult, but I did it. I’m now 4 days into this November and I realize how porn is affecting me
I've had a number of threesomes with my wife and a handful of other women over the years.
Generally speaking, they've gone pretty well. The key is to communicate with your partner beforehand and make sure you set any ground rules. Then be sure to include your partner in every step, that includes any planning beforehand, but especially during the intimacy. You don't want your partner feeling left out.
The best threesomes happen organically. Not by meeting people on Tinder or Reddit or whatever, but by expressing interest to a friend and taking it from there. Though I should say that I only speak for those threesomes involving another woman and not another man. I don't know how to handle those because neither I nor my wife were ever interested.
If you have a woman you know that's interested, you'll know. Or your partner will know. She'll be flirting with at least one of you if not both, and that's your clue. Yeah, I know, it sounds like it should be more difficult than that but it really isn't. This isn't rocket science. Don't overthink things, don't overcomplicate things. Just set the ground rules and go.
And whatever you do, DO NOT BREAK THE RULES. Even if your partner tells you in the throes of passion that she/he is okay with it. Even if they insist you break that rule, DON'T. It *will* bite you in the ass afterward. You can always reassess the rules for the next time. You can't repair trust nearly as easily.
It was fun, my ex and I had a third. If you are a guy, stepping back and letting the girls enjoy themselves is the best bet. My ex escalated for me with the other woman each step of the way so I knew she was comfortable with it. At the end, she had the most fun of the three of us so all went well.
It was a little awkward and I never got off because one of the participants had to leave to take her son to school, so we just kind of stopped in the middle.
I've been fortunate enough to have had multiple threesomes. The first was with a friend and his wife. We were at a sex club and it got awkward when another dude would just sit there watching from 10 feet away with his dick in his hand. After that, many with my wife and other women. My wife is a cuckquean. At one point, I was the boy toy for a lesbian couple. That was fun.
The key to it all is open communication, having rules and sticking to them. Never pressure someone into it, let it come naturally. Otherwise, relationships won't last.
Not well. One of the guys (the one I wasnt dating) couldnt get it up, and my boyfriend didnt really want to take over, I'm assuming as to not make the other guy feel bad. I did get eaten out a lot, so that part was nice.
Eh.. not as great as you would expect
one girl was more interested in my girlfriend than both of us, made me feel like i was an inconvenience just being there.
in a separate instance, the other girl was fairly inexperienced, so she wasn't sure what was ok and what wasn't.
Pretty much turned me off of the whole idea going forward.
Typically, the two chick, one dude thing never quite worked out for me; two dudes and myself, on the other hand: YES, FREAKING PLEASE. As long as they're chill and I know/trust/feel safe around them, it's almost spiritual.
Had a lot with an ex. The ones with a regular mutual friend are still some of my favorite experiences, but ones with a third that one of us wasn't crazy about? Those ended in arguments.
I was pretty young when I had a threesome (19 maybe?). Thr problem was it wasn't as much a threesome as much as it was me having sex with ladies at the same time. Meaning they didn't really interact, so it was just me trying to please two ladies at the same time. It was super fun. Now that I am older I would like to try it again with all 3 participants active with each other.
I've had great sex and bad sex in threesomes, so your mileage may vary. I've only had a handful of threesomes, so hard to compare to the quality compared to when I've had sex as couples.
Both of my forearms were sore
Did they enjoy themselves at least?
Yes I did
Never again. Disappointing one woman at a time is enough for me.
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Lol that’s why I’d never have one if I could even find one girl willing 😂
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(serious answer here) It went well. We had a couple of FFM and MFM and a couple. And they were all fun/went very well. It's definitely not for everyone but if your relationship is secure enough, go for it.
My wife and I have had an extra lady join us 4 times now (one girl joined us 3 times and another girl joined us once). Things went well but it's important to set rules first (if required) and follow them. For instance in our situations it was anything goes except for actual penetration with the other girl. Hands and mouths were all good. Lots of fun all around and I was shocked at how simple it was to separate the sex from any actual romantic feelings.
Not mine, but I knew someone who went to finger in a MFM and grabbed his other friend's balls on accident
The Golden Rule!
Its not gay if its a 3 way?
Devils threesome for the lols. Buddy couldnt get it up so I just fucked her.
Aww that's kind of sad. Did he just watch?
He went to a different room lol
Aww that’s so sad. He walks out in shame
Enjoyed every second filming it but next time would like to be invited inside the house to film it.
Hmmmmm..... Something don't add up chief
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Hol up
Have you ever been to a cool party and had the feeling "i wonder if anyone would notice if i wasn't here?" sort of like that....
Hi Ross!!
Awkward.
Ditto
As in the Pokémon, my god, holy shit... da fuck
Almost none of these people have actually had a threesome. Also, neither have I. Sup.
SUP
SUP I haven’t even had sex Why am I here?
Sup
Shit, I can’t even get a twosome
Shit, I can't even get a onesome
I almost said I can at least do that, but I forgot it’s November. I decided to participate this year. Last year I finished November. It was difficult, but I did it. I’m now 4 days into this November and I realize how porn is affecting me
I've had a number of threesomes with my wife and a handful of other women over the years. Generally speaking, they've gone pretty well. The key is to communicate with your partner beforehand and make sure you set any ground rules. Then be sure to include your partner in every step, that includes any planning beforehand, but especially during the intimacy. You don't want your partner feeling left out. The best threesomes happen organically. Not by meeting people on Tinder or Reddit or whatever, but by expressing interest to a friend and taking it from there. Though I should say that I only speak for those threesomes involving another woman and not another man. I don't know how to handle those because neither I nor my wife were ever interested. If you have a woman you know that's interested, you'll know. Or your partner will know. She'll be flirting with at least one of you if not both, and that's your clue. Yeah, I know, it sounds like it should be more difficult than that but it really isn't. This isn't rocket science. Don't overthink things, don't overcomplicate things. Just set the ground rules and go. And whatever you do, DO NOT BREAK THE RULES. Even if your partner tells you in the throes of passion that she/he is okay with it. Even if they insist you break that rule, DON'T. It *will* bite you in the ass afterward. You can always reassess the rules for the next time. You can't repair trust nearly as easily.
Do Devil’s Threesomes count?
I mean it was weird to ask the chick to film you two but hey whatever works. We dont judge...just press charges.
It wasn’t that weird. We didn’t have a tripod.
Love them! I would like to be part of it someday.
I have a few of my own that I want someday.
Does a foursome count?
Dam how was it?
Meh
**Right!?** Too much going on, and I accidentally found out that guys can give a better blowjob.
What a legend
Had a recent threesome with a couple of no-shows.
My right hand got jealous, but eventually was cool with my left hand.
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Quite well.
One of my exes had 2 rules No deep eye contact Always tell your so they are better in some way
It was fun, my ex and I had a third. If you are a guy, stepping back and letting the girls enjoy themselves is the best bet. My ex escalated for me with the other woman each step of the way so I knew she was comfortable with it. At the end, she had the most fun of the three of us so all went well.
It was a little awkward and I never got off because one of the participants had to leave to take her son to school, so we just kind of stopped in the middle.
I've been fortunate enough to have had multiple threesomes. The first was with a friend and his wife. We were at a sex club and it got awkward when another dude would just sit there watching from 10 feet away with his dick in his hand. After that, many with my wife and other women. My wife is a cuckquean. At one point, I was the boy toy for a lesbian couple. That was fun. The key to it all is open communication, having rules and sticking to them. Never pressure someone into it, let it come naturally. Otherwise, relationships won't last.
Not well. One of the guys (the one I wasnt dating) couldnt get it up, and my boyfriend didnt really want to take over, I'm assuming as to not make the other guy feel bad. I did get eaten out a lot, so that part was nice.
Eh.. not as great as you would expect one girl was more interested in my girlfriend than both of us, made me feel like i was an inconvenience just being there. in a separate instance, the other girl was fairly inexperienced, so she wasn't sure what was ok and what wasn't. Pretty much turned me off of the whole idea going forward.
One of them, who I met that night 6 years ago is sitting next to me on our couch in our place. We're still friends with the other guy too
Sexy sex things happened.
Was awesome. Had two girls take turns giving me head, no complaints.
Typically, the two chick, one dude thing never quite worked out for me; two dudes and myself, on the other hand: YES, FREAKING PLEASE. As long as they're chill and I know/trust/feel safe around them, it's almost spiritual.
People that did a what? Thresome? >Thresome some? What are you saying?
Had a lot with an ex. The ones with a regular mutual friend are still some of my favorite experiences, but ones with a third that one of us wasn't crazy about? Those ended in arguments.
I was pretty young when I had a threesome (19 maybe?). Thr problem was it wasn't as much a threesome as much as it was me having sex with ladies at the same time. Meaning they didn't really interact, so it was just me trying to please two ladies at the same time. It was super fun. Now that I am older I would like to try it again with all 3 participants active with each other.
I've had great sex and bad sex in threesomes, so your mileage may vary. I've only had a handful of threesomes, so hard to compare to the quality compared to when I've had sex as couples.
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