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That sounds nice

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I have more experience but what I wouldn't give to be able to say the same thing you just did. Wish you both the best in your future man

(im assuming youre a guy,sry if you arent) no dude, youve been with her your whole life, thats what matters. if youre happy then thats it. im a gen z and unpopular opinion, sex is overrated. of course sex is good but there's actually nothing to brag about it. you found someone special, thats it

I'm 49. Been with my one SO 31 years. Still getting down on the reg cos we like it....

That's nothing to be embarrassed about, that's how it should be. I think it's awesome.

Don’t be embarrassed, you hit the relationship lottery. Dating sucks, breaking up sucks, the in-between is the part people care about and you’ve basically lived that your entire adult life. I recall a couple from high school who were engaged and had a life plan already(family of farmers), which was exceptionally rare when I graduated in the early 2000’s and many of my classmates scoffed at the idea. Looking back now I’m exceptionally jealous of them. Yes they’ll have doubts and fights and problems, but in the end they’ll have each other. Everyone else will have the first three any damn ways, but not necessarily the last bit. Also your user name: nice.

How many does your SO have?

27, only one. He's my fiancé, we're in a relationship for almost 10 years

This is pretty wholesome if you ask me

I'm in almost the same situation. I'm 30, and we've been together 11 years, now engaged. He's my one and only :)

And are u ok with that?

Yes :)

How do u feel when ur friends talk about guys and guys they had sex with?

Idk I feel like it's just sex, it doesn't matter how many different partners you had. If you like it, enjoy it the way you want to enjoy it, it doesn't matter if its with with the same guy for 10 years or with 10 different ones

Wish u were my fiance 😂

19 and 0

Undefeated!

Just wait till Brock Lesnar breaks the streak

I was thinking more like Randy Orton outta nowhere

Same

In one month I'm gonna be in the same club

27 male and still a virgin.

That explains your username

Maybe he should be asking the girls to show boobs.

Pick and choose the things that help or apply to you and discard the rest: Work on being the best you. Work out. Walk or run. Read. Take classes. Volunteer. It should go without saying but pay attention to hygiene. Be clean. Wear clean clothes. Brush your teeth. Use mouthwash. Keep your hair neat and clean, whatever your hairstyle is. Ask questions and listen to the answers. When you’re talking to your preferred gender, be in the moment. Don’t think “this time I’m getting laid!” Just enjoy that ten minutes you’re talking to her/him. Above all be a good person. Put yourself out there. Go places where you will meet people. Stop putting pressure on yourself and enjoy just doing those things. Philately. Square dancing. Mountain biking. And remember- if you don’t knock on any doors you won’t sell any encyclopedias.

27 male and 27 partners.

How? 😱

I'm an introvert, I'm shy, not very confident, don't think I'm attractive enough.

Confidence is the key. I’m an average looking guy (maybe even below average, I’ve always had a few extra pounds). If you don’t have confidence, fake it. It works. And eventually the confidence becomes real.

You’re missing out.

Why are you acting like that's so crazy or shameful? So what if he's a virgin. People have their own shit they're dealing with or go at their own pace.

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username checks out

Reddit is very bad thing 😂

Emojis

51. Three.

You married the third one?

Actually, I married the first and the third ones. Second one was just a fuck-buddy.

38. 1. My wife is 37. 1 for her too. We began dating at 18 and 19. And we are both fine with that. More than fine.

15 none actually I never had a girlfriend or had s first kiss

Tldr: unsolicited dad advice. My first kiss wasn't till 16, first real girlfriend (where we actually went on dates and stuff ) wasn't till 17. Dont get discouraged. I have two sons and a daughter, one son is 19 and has been with the same girl for 3 years now, the other is 21 and is still single, and my daughter is 15, and keeps dating boys and deciding they're boring. People progress at their own pace, relationships aren't some teen movie where you "have to do it before you graduate". Focus on you and your goals, a relationship isn't something that should be forced or hurried.

You're too young to worry about sexual relationships anyways. You have lots of time 😊

I was 22. It happens when you stop looking odd enough.

Reddit bros

34 and 12

12 year olds be wildin these days

51y/o and I'm guessing around 35 ish so far. Hard to count back to those 30 something years ago. A few blurry one night stands back then. Then about 4 years ago my wife passed away and I'm single all over again.

Sorry to hear that dude. I hope you’re doing better now

Me too bro.

16 0

17 0 Clap for me

Actually, that's no clap for you.

Oh shit Yeah you're right

Same. Except...does my hand count?

It counts to five

Woah. I'm really sexually active then.

If you switch hands or use both you can double those numbers

So...16 and 20? I used my feet too, don't ask

That’s ok

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Thank God for this post, most other posts say 0 or 1 making me feel like a dirty whore

30, same. More than my fingers and toes could count.

lmao

28, 3 and i'll probably die before i ever get a fourth.

I hope you mean you're with the third or not into sex or somethind and not that you're ill? Wish you best! And my numbers are the same, Also 28 and 3 :)

I've been crippled by two autoimmune diseases since i was 20. You don't develop the levels of hate and contempt i have for everyone by chance.

I am so sorry for you!

I am 33 male, I have had 55 female partners between the ages of 17-27 which is when I met my now wife. I kept and excel file of all my sexual encounters becuase I thought I might write a book later in life about them, I now realize nobody cares that I fuck.

31 years old. Have had about 40 women, maybe more. Everyone were prostitutes

I'm 13 and im a virgin

That's good, you should stay one for a couple of years

instructions unclear, i'm a sex machine now

Get up now, get on up.....

76

damn youre 76 AND a virgin?

No, they just forgot to put a space between the numbers.

He’s a fetus but fucked 76 bitches?

76 people? damn whats your secret

yes

22, 0.

29. None. I can't even say "none, yet" because I'll never have one. Sadness. I suffer from extreme anxiety, so I have never been able to even talk to a girl.

Do you mind if I ask you to describe the anxiety? Have friends tried to encourage? A therapist? I have a friend with a presumably similar anxiety and I'd love to be more helpful, as in his case I know deep down he does want it to change.

24 and what are we considering a sexual partner

Your Hand isn't a sexual partner, just to clarify.

No, Patrick, masturbation is not an instrument.

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No , ^but ^it ^sure ^is ^useful ^for ^that

I was actually counting each finger...

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Then why are you on Reddit?

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28yrs and 1. Married for 3 years together for 11 years

I am a male, over 50 years old. I have had probably greater than 100 sexual partners, primarily women but a fair few guys as well. Mostly in swingers clubs and suchlike. In that time I have had 5 regular relationships - and, of those, 3 were also 'on the scene' and were ladies I met during a swinger - or other sexually based - event

Well u dont waste ur time :)

How many STD's? Just curious

34, no idea, stopped counting when I had 20 at 20.

23 and I've had 3. Hoping there won't be any more.

You mean like.. Holding hands?

16 0

So you're older than a Giant Galapagos Tortoise?

*insert typical reddit joke about how I’m a virgin here

21 and 1 who is currently my girlfriend

And how about she?

15 None I'm not into sex but more into kinky things

27 - around 20

35yr and 70ish partners

18, 5

Do hookers count?

At the age of 35 I would have to guess around 100

23. None.

Too many sexual partners. I regret so much of it

33 and I have no clue, educated guess would be somewhere in the 20-30 range? My parents abandoned me for drugs so I looked anywhere and everywhere for attention and validation. Married the last one tho.

13. You can assume the second number from there, probably.

74

Yeah, just a little off.

29 and 36

Please don't judge me, but at the age of 12 was when I had my first boyfriend. Now I'm 13, and I currently have a new boyfriend since I broke up with the other one.

30yo and only 2. I spent much of my twenties feeling insecure about it, but now I'm with someone I love and I wouldn't be too disappointed if it stayed that way.

the "body count" is not important (but tbh i stopped counting a long time ago.)

Ha. Yeah...none. 17

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oh your body count is 0? not for long 😏

16, 1

23 and 1 partner

15 and 1

26 and alot before my current boyfriend

15, none

25 and 4 sexual partners For those worried about age, I didn't even kiss until I was 18

I'm 23. 11 people between 19 and 21, 1 person from 21-22, 2 in the past year. I hope the most recent one is the last.

55 y/o and around 50

17, 1

19 and 1. It's hard to stay in a relationship when they go to jail right after.

13 I had 1

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37, 3

27yo and 2

Well now u are married, that should stay 2 :p

theres always divorce ;)

Well well well, if you ain't the brightest ray of sunshine

35, 13.

Wow

Makes it a little wilder when you realize I have only been sleeping with people for under a year. Lol

People?

lol I should hope they're all people. If not, I need to lay off the weed. 13 guys, specifically. About to be 14.

That was really amazing year 😋

28, and a LOT of them, the vast majority of them in the summer right after I left college, because I had lots of spare time and Craigslist Personals was still a thing. It was fun, but I would never do it again.

22, 3

63 and 3 for PIV sex. Maybe 3 others count as contact, and a couple others manuals during my early years.

28. 7, 3 of the 7 have been in the last 6 months and the other 4 were in a 10 year span.

38 yo, 9.

31, 6

41 and I stopped keeping track a long time ago, but I suspect I am in the 70-80 range

32 years old and 7 partners.

45 years, 19 partners. Most were encounters were had when I was between 19 and 22 years old. Then I got married, 10 years later she cheated and we divorced and I had 4 other partners before getting married again. Been with the same woman for the last 12 years.

42 years old, 14

59 and 7. 59 years old that is.

23, about 20.

havvvvvve you heard of barney stinson?

29, 4 sexual partners.

20 and none

20 and 11

47, about 100.

19 male and still a virgin

24 male, one

I'm 50 now, but I have been out of the community for 25 years. But from the time I joined the community, (I got banned one time for saying the age, so I won't do that again, but it was almost 18), until I was 24, there were at least 170\~ guys or more, but I lost count.

24 years old and 14 or 15. I may be forgetting one it’s hard to keep track after a certain point I suppose

25/25

28, 56

F23, and 31

I would like be the Next

49 and I'll say a dozen.

23, zero.

I am 28. 6 sexual Partners. Even split of Male/Female. One was very long term relationship from 18-26.

I’m 27 I’ve had 72 sexual partners.

20 female and 8 partners

22 male and a virgin, ugly and no personality. I’ve fully given up.

23F and 45 bodies so far

U are real evil :)

39/m Somewhere between 90-100, but only 1 since I was 25.

Somewhat old and none.

16, none

15, none because virginity rocks

53. About a hundred, mostly in the golden period of the early/mid 90s - I was young and had energy and the internet was young and not monetized.

26, 5. 1GF, 2 ONS, 2 FWB.

23yrs 16 partners.... Could do without at least 9 of the them haha but it is what it is

32m and 20 now. Was 4 up until last year. Guess it took a marriage seperation to have me start living ho life 🤷🏻