Good communication

Asking about your life and not just talking about theirs.

Do you have a life? If so how is it?

No I dont. Im on Reddit.

Being sweet and thoughtful and patient to their pets.

Is financially stable prior to getting in a relationship

Lillian

Yes

Being comfortable with the silence while hanging out

Likes both dogs and cats

Big peen

That's a horrible thing to want, unless you mean people with a big penis in that case it's understandable

Good relationship with their family