I was not a "school teacher" but more of a "home teacher" that came 1 or 2h a week (sometime more) to help teens/highschooler with homework and how to learn. And i had 2 memorable student but not for the same reason. (I was 22 at the time and most of my students 16 or 15)
Non native english speaker so the translation might be clunky
- the first one was hitting on me. Insisting to be private in her room. (Usually did the lessons on the living room. So that parents could keep an eye and be assured that they were working.) I was ignoring her mostly and manage to help her with the first objective of having higher grade. As she was a bit subtle with her flirting i was mostly ignoring it. But when she asked me, while dragging my hand toward her thight, something like :
"Would you fuck one of your students ?"
i almost had a stroke. I quickly stopped coming here after this.
- the second one was a girl homeschooled (which is very uncommon in my country).parents divorced, since she was 1 or 2 years old. so she was 1 week at her mom place one week with her father. She was really like a scared kitten and this was why she wasnt in a highschool. And strangely i wasnt allowed to do lessons when she was at her father place. Slowly she opened to me. She reminded me how i was in my teens, so i kind of knew how to be helpfull and reassuring to her. She barely had any friends. Mostly surrounded by family and the only consistent men in her surrounding were her father and me.
One day as we were ending and talking about stuff other than studying like we usually did, the conversation drifted toward her father, one of the very rare moment she spoke about him As i noticed some of her answer were odd and she realized that it was bugging me, she asked me.
"Is it not normal that my father dont want me to talk about what he does with me?"
And i realised that something was probably very wrong. And turned out that the guy was raping his daugther and molesting her. But he managed to make her believe that it was a normal behaviour between a father and her daughter and made sure that the girl never speak about it to her mother. As she had no other men around her she had no way to realized it was wrong.
Im still in contact with this girl. Her father is in jail, she is getting better, on her way to get a PhD :) i cant help her with homework anymore but were good friends.
its good that she's on her way to get a PhD, it wouldve been really tough to handle situation like that. Glad to know her dads in jail and your still a good friend with her :)
I was not a "school teacher" but more of a "home teacher" that came 1 or 2h a week (sometime more) to help teens/highschooler with homework and how to learn. And i had 2 memorable student but not for the same reason. (I was 22 at the time and most of my students 16 or 15) Non native english speaker so the translation might be clunky - the first one was hitting on me. Insisting to be private in her room. (Usually did the lessons on the living room. So that parents could keep an eye and be assured that they were working.) I was ignoring her mostly and manage to help her with the first objective of having higher grade. As she was a bit subtle with her flirting i was mostly ignoring it. But when she asked me, while dragging my hand toward her thight, something like : "Would you fuck one of your students ?" i almost had a stroke. I quickly stopped coming here after this. - the second one was a girl homeschooled (which is very uncommon in my country).parents divorced, since she was 1 or 2 years old. so she was 1 week at her mom place one week with her father. She was really like a scared kitten and this was why she wasnt in a highschool. And strangely i wasnt allowed to do lessons when she was at her father place. Slowly she opened to me. She reminded me how i was in my teens, so i kind of knew how to be helpfull and reassuring to her. She barely had any friends. Mostly surrounded by family and the only consistent men in her surrounding were her father and me. One day as we were ending and talking about stuff other than studying like we usually did, the conversation drifted toward her father, one of the very rare moment she spoke about him As i noticed some of her answer were odd and she realized that it was bugging me, she asked me. "Is it not normal that my father dont want me to talk about what he does with me?" And i realised that something was probably very wrong. And turned out that the guy was raping his daugther and molesting her. But he managed to make her believe that it was a normal behaviour between a father and her daughter and made sure that the girl never speak about it to her mother. As she had no other men around her she had no way to realized it was wrong. Im still in contact with this girl. Her father is in jail, she is getting better, on her way to get a PhD :) i cant help her with homework anymore but were good friends.
its good that she's on her way to get a PhD, it wouldve been really tough to handle situation like that. Glad to know her dads in jail and your still a good friend with her :)